Why A Filipina Cheats - The Reason may Surprise You

[@TheFilipinaPea]

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[@GarretKrampe]

Gee if I ever get to Dumaguete . I hope we can catch up for a lunch . You have the best insights and sense of humour. This one was special for me .

[@semperfi-1918]

Great points. My gf knows nothing major is hidden and never lie to eachother. And we do talk finances. But it's about how we're approaching the future being able in the future to do things together.

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

That shade of blue really compliments your beautiful skin colour, Pea. 💙 Very nice. Have you got violet lips too?!! (Hard to see properly on my telephone, but it seems like it)

[@tomtodd950]

I’m still looking for drama free 🤞 The problem that I always seem to have is with her assumptions. She always seems to see things that aren’t really there, heartbreaking 😢

[@semperfi-1918]

@@tomtodd950 well your gonna have to dig into where the trust is broken. Like me and my fillipina we built trust over time. Wasn't right away. But one thing that's working is no hiding major things and be truthful. I told her even if it's sad or upsetting news... I want to know as this is our culture not theirs. So while that took time and practice... it can be done. I had to build trust as well due to my ex's which were both wives cheated. And should not be carried over to the new/ existing relationship. But that's one thing I pointed out to my fillipina. Once that cat was out of the bag... she then understood and worked with me on it. So to sum it up... work woth her to dig to the bottom of it and set a time to discuss it out and find ways to help her learn to trust you.

[@timduvall4910]

Cheating is 100% unacceptable. You cheat? You're on the street. There is no other way to put it.

[@elinope4745]

Then you already understand tampo

[@IrishTony109]

facts! Cheating is the ultimate betrail of trust. Without trust, there is no relationship.

[@HoodsGlobal]

***If the man is in his sixties, marries a girl in early twenties, what do you expect.

[@voice_of_change]

Depends....🙃

[@blahblahmeowchow6383]

@@HoodsGlobal maybe not to be a whore, and to marry someone her age if she can't help herself?

[@portlandGTR]

These are 3 essential guidelines to love, 1: Don’t shit where you eat. Meaning don’t sleep with anyone you work with, 2. The same way you got them is the same way you’ll lose them. If you stole her from another guy, someone will do th same, 3. The person you fell in love with will not be the same person you will see in the courtroom

[@portlandGTR]

Golden rules of dating that have served me well and proved themselves over and over again 🙏

[@goromajima7000]

I can relate on point 3...the transformation is terrfying

[@freddypatterson8653]

Of course she/he loves you, of course he/she will leave her/his wife/husband and marry you. So what do you have, a him/her who cheats, bottom line.

[@brianmead7556]

The company inkrule is one of my few absolute never ever break rules for life and it’s never done me wrong. Getting older and supervisory roles the sheer number of good team and coworker relationship dynamics that have been ruined by people who couldn’t deal with seeing somebody they used to have sex with again is boggling. Sex, a simple word for a simple act, so people have to complicate it.

[@Smalltummywonderful]

Once in the courtroom there is absolutely no love at all

[@Last_one_before_I_go]

"The truth can be rather fluid..." what a sweet way to say "we lie and put frosting on it...but still, it's a lie"...

[@glennbishopbishthemagish]

I consider a red flag to cheating is when a wife no longer is in the mood and no longer wants to have sex.

[@troy6606]

Yes; 8 years of birthday morning bj’s, then all the sudden no birthday bj. months later it was over

[@dezcuts5319]

If she’s not actively cheating you better believe it’s imminent especially if she is decently attractive. I really don’t understand how men actually believe a woman that started out wanting sex constantly will suddenly stop desiring it. She may experience low libido for a couple days or so, but certainly not weeks and months.

[@captratty2167]

Until she has kids…or hits menopause…or just gets too old…or you get too old…Low libido is more common than some men are prepared to admit.

[@williamlouie569]

That's not cheating! That's normal behavior, no sex for rest of her life!

[@troyarthur829]

Menopause causes a woman to lose sexual interest

[@johnmecca9008]

This actually made me maybe want to think twice about dating a Filipino woman.

[@Decountest]

Your right, it actually cast them in a very bad light. Very dirty and to be avoided.

[@jpscharged]

My friends who married them and brought them back to the states watched them transform into Western women and be quite angry toward them.

[@johnmecca9008]

@@jpscharged yikes…😳 our western society destroys good women.🤦🏽‍♂️

[@trash2n3904]

Watch the Filipina Pea's video where she talks with a lawyer about alimony law there. It's quite an eye-opener. 100% get a pre-nup IF you decide to marry there!!!

[@Whatsup_Abroad]

There is no divorce in the Phillipines ​@@trash2n3904

[@George-ux6zz]

I will still say, if a woman cheats on me the relationship will be over. It's a trust broken that will never be mended, for me anyway. I will never hurt a woman by cheating on her. I would feel too guilty and tell on myself.

[@someguy861]

You can only warn someone that pressing the big red button labeled "SELF DESTRUCT", will destroy the relationship. If they consciously choose to do so, the outcome should come as no surprise.

[@roger.b8046]

Don't get married in the Philippines you have to get used to it

[@samual3006]

@@roger.b8046 Don't get married to a Filipina and keep your sanity. No conversation of any interest to come out of a Filipinas mouth. A boring life welcomes you in the 🇵🇭 Philippines.

[@angiepatterson6338]

You should consider that they might be hitting that red button purpose. It’s called hypergamny.

[@ST-TV]

I forgave a woman once. I was 19 then. I since learned to never do that again.

[@heirtothethrone000]

To me, too many secrets will always ruin a relationship

[@eddieBoxer]

My ex Filipina wife cheated on me while I went home for 2 months, also she had a secret Facebook account, anywhere she goes she's on her cell phone, late at night, in the bathroom, she also flurts with 2 Filipino, I packed u and left.

[@ryanm9371]

@@eddieBoxer I thought Filipinas were supposed to be better and more traditional than Western women? If that is not the case then why pursue them/marry them?

[@kermitthefraud700]

​@@ryanm9371 "i ThOuGhT FiLiPiNaS wErE sUpPoSed tO bE mOrE tRaDiTiOnAl" Then the ones who cheat are the exceptions, not the rule. It's a game of chance, and the odds are a lot better than modern entitled Western women. And why are you here? You come here just to trash men because they found what they wanted outside of their home Western country. You have nothing good to add. Are you upset that men have found something that works, so you gotta sit there and make fun of the few who got f'ed over? You feel better about yourself now? Go back to the circus, dude. Everyone I know is still in their relationships with their Filipina. And they're happy. Mike Tyson was definitely right. You people need incentive to show decency to strangers. Pea's page was quite peaceful before the rabble rousers showed up. I knew it was only a matter of time before the clowns came in from the circus. Go back to the big top. 🤡

[@BigJack273]

​@@ryanm9371😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@drsingingeagle]

How about SE-TEC ASTRONOMY?

[@quantum273]

I met a Filipina through a call center, we communicated almost daily for about 4 months, pics, video chats, etc. I booked a flight early May and we met up at a Mall restaurant near BGC, she lived in all female boarding house and there were many red flags throughout our friendship / relationship. A one week time off request supposedly was approved and we were going to Tagaytay then Cebu. She visited my Condo but gifts I took were rejected and Tagaytay never happened. I went to Cebu on my own then to Bohol, Panglao, IT Park, etc I had a great time and met many Wonderful People. I was later able to determine she was with someone at the boarding house, so when they Cheat it doesn't always mean it's with another guy ! Lesson learned

[@usaman7358]

Stop being a desperate simp and you can avoid all that in the future.

[@boracay12]

And for 4 months you sent her money right?

[@fhorst02]

I sure hope not. Why would anyone send money to someone they never met in real life??

[@wayneparkes1350]

@@fhorst02 100% agree, but thousands DO send money to somebody they have not met. Desperation and naivety is my guess.

[@hp7639]

Sometimes they get board. Get it?

[@KingBeeinthePhilippines]

My 3 rules are don't cheat, steal, or lie to me. Any of those are broken and the relationship is over.

[@Ego-Kills]

In my opinion, these traits will most probably ruin any relationship: 1. Disrespect 2. Secrecy 3. Arguing most of the time 4. Deceiving in any form 5. Caring less 6. Spending less time together

[@kingmaafa120]

No $$$

[@AugustDeWin-wn9pb]

They just don't care about your feelings. You are never number One.

[@brianscovern68]

Hi Pea! I found the Philippina that looked at me as a life long partner and I'm so blessed. Great video. 👍

[@TheFilipinaPea]

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Never let go 👍

[@TPaine1776]

Same here. Been together almost 40 years.

[@BruceCinader]

Your knowledge and sense of humour never stops to amaze me. The effort you put into each vlog you do is so apparent to me, and I would think to many others also, judging by your rapid growth. I still remember your just getting starting and being interviewed by some of my friends to get your channel started. You have now left them in the dust with the number of subs you have. Congratulations and will expect to see you soon at the 1M mark.

[@Rugmunchersauce3]

I'm honestly surprised she hasn't passed that mark already a long while ago. She's a Star, but you know she'll never let that go to her head!

[@kylevaughan3303]

I used to doubt/question whether my Asawa married me for me. 7 months into our marriage, I was on life support, I had a picture of her, sitting on my mom’s lap, both crying. I deleted the picture, kept making me cry, pretty sure she loved me! That was 16 years ago! She’s still the most precious girl I’ve ever met!

[@davidmcdonald11]

Great experience and what a way to find out! Congratulations and thank you for sharing....have fun.

[@ThanaykhwamMai-ff4ni]

Congrats for all d blessings u received and are receiving . Glad u found that true love ❤🎉

[@TheFilipinaPea]

@@kylevaughan3303 ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️👍

[@murphydowning2495]

Thanks for your hard work! After the first couple of filipinas I dated, I learned very clearly that "I love you" means about the same as me saying "she's ok I guess." 🤣

[@TheFilipinaPea]

🤣🤣🤣👍

[@leokolev]

Right 👍

[@mr.2cents.846]

Without faithfulness you have no relationship. AND if you can't have deep conversations, you won't have a deep relationship.

[@davidboone9380]

They cheat because they want too choose too. Excuses for bad behavior is never acceptable.

[@leokolev]

They cheat because they have low morale level ...

[@steveokahn7249]

I always felt that openness and honesty...and a little insecurity on both sides...makes for a deep relationship in which both continue to put in the work, which is what a healthy relationship needs.

[@flicks28]

But thats a very Western way to look at it. Not that its wrong, its not, but people throughout SE Asia dont approach openness and honesty in the same way. Its not just the Philippines, its throughout the entire region.

[@steveokahn7249]

@@flicks28 I lived in Japan, so I understand "tatemae culture" well. Doesn't invalidate my view of what makes the healthiest relationships.

[@spincube5734]

I read a recent Philippine study that concluded 1 out of every 3 Filipinas cheat on their partner! Now I need to figure out if it's my wife ................or my girlfriend. Interesting & entertaining as always. Thanx Pea !!

[@TheMasascha]

Probably booth. 😏

[@georgegarvey7338]

@@TheMasascha 😂😂

[@ryanm9371]

What is the point of marrying them then?

[@spincube5734]

@@ryanm9371 I had to, in order for the joke to work! 😄

[@ST-TV]

@@ryanm9371 You don't.

[@erikd76]

Don't even be in relationships just enjoy life.

[@buyerofsorts]

Life sucks alone

[@erikd76]

@@buyerofsorts I agree but just chose your lady wisely

[@buyerofsorts]

@@erikd76 But you know how it is. In the beginning they're fine and then they mutate. It usually takes a few years.

[@brianhoward9217]

​@@buyerofsorts The answer is to be your own best friend. It sounds funny but is a distinct state of nature meaning talk to yourself, joke with yourself as you would any friend. In times of need or loneliness you will always have that friend. Sounds impossible until it becomes real for you and then you'll understand. Similar concept is self-love. Can't love anyone until you love yourself. This means believing you are worthwhile and deserve a good life. All this takes time, took me probably up to 5 years for it to fully coalesce but when it does you'll never be lonely again and you'll never outsource your satisfaction with life or your happiness to another person. Then if that person leaves you they don't take your precious happiness which always stays with you. You must DECIDE to be happy in the moment - a habit like any other. This is the secret to happiness - decide you are happy. Absolutely nobody is happy 100% of the time. You are fortunate if you can say you are happy 'most' of the time. Other friends are important but nothing is as important as you being your own very best friend.

[@buyerofsorts]

@@brianhoward9217 I started off kinda rolling my eyes but as I kept reading, I'm wondering if you just may have something there.

[@firstnamelastname6717]

I’m really grateful that Pea is very open and honest, she says things that only confirms what I was thinking 💭 and wondering all along about women in general, so thank you for being for REAL

[@oncall21]

Great video Ms Pea as always. I never experienced infidelity. However I never understood how you can be with a Filipina who tells you she loves you constantly, yet seems to live her life (including you) more on Facebook and social media. Continual memes of being hurt in the past and a real man would do anything for her, etc were the norm. When I began to watch her KZbin videos I began to learn more about her life through these than the four years of being together in real life. It’s like she was so worried I would judge her if she opened up in person. I had 100% loyalty but 10% honesty if that makes sense? She was the eldest daughter in her family too. Thanks for sharing. 🙏

[@AlexP253]

Oh Pea…what a sad, truthful and necessary video. Great job as always!

[@kranzonguam]

Wow! Battling insecurities making relationships difficult. 😢 Great video, Pea!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Yes, we constantly battle insecurity 🥺👍

[@kiwioffgrid2437]

​@@TheFilipinaPeawhy? Internal motivation rather than being externally motivated. One needs to love themselves before they can genuinely love another...

[@user-Raven60]

I watch your videos already since the pandemy and enjoyed each of them. Even I am happy with my Thai partner: between Thai and Filipinas are some similarities seen from the western angle and so it is nowadays more inspiring watching you (as you always hit the points) and provides good inputs for funny discussions with my partner as well as input for reflection! Again a great finish, motivating always to see until the end.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Thanks for sticking with me, Raven 👍❤️

[@OrbitalRescueSage]

I love it how as time has progressed she’s being forced to be more honest about life in the Phillipines. It’s still on my top tier list of places to live that’s not the US, but I’ve spent my entire life celibate, and I’m not likely to change. Keep bringing us the truth about the Filinas P, because you’re almost there.

[@Biboxism]

Damn pea is pumping out the content. Love it. Thanks for the input and you look gorgeous in this video.

[@johnlobley]

Let's get this show on the road. ...and always let the ads play

[@TheFilipinaPea]

Wow, John got the silver! I’m impressed 👍❤️🥈

[@vulpesvulpes5177]

Actually John it’s not clear that letting the ads play puts a penny in Peas pocket. But a few bucks a month on channel support or Patreon does! You get what you pay for. Ponder that. Fox out

[@johnlobley]

@@vulpesvulpes5177 Although Pea herself has said that watching the ads is what gives her a paycheck, I agree that membership, patreon etc... is a far more effective way to support her. However, for those of us who are so tight that we squeak when we walk (me), watching the ads costs nothing.

[@jesselovesyah]

Good to know Dr. Pea! Im getting married to a Filipina in August and I’m pretty anxious.

[@jesusblessthesecommentsamen]

That’s an internal defence God gave us don’t marry her bro. God bless

[@wolfensteinman7978]

You nailed it! I went through something like this. I was cheated on with a Filipina and she married someone behind my back and told me we were over. She got a job transfer and that's when she cheated. She married someone 20years older she's 40years old.

[@SailorSailor_28]

Fck this

[@nate61]

Thanks!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I can always count on my Nate to give me a smile ☺️ ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@chrism4008]

"If she's uncomfortable discussing emotional issues and her deepest feelings, how can you possibly know what she really thinks about you and your relationship?" Holy crap, that's right on the money Pea, how did you get in my head like that?!?!😂 Perfect timing with this video too, that's crazy

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I live there rent free 🤣🤣🤣 Actually, I talk to SO many men that I’ve pretty much figured out what concerns you 👍

[@DMSProduktions]

@@TheFilipinaPea You are kinda like my 'sister'. SHE is a man's lady, similar to you!

[@ST-TV]

You can take a page from their book. That is take a screenshot of her every discussion from her phone and get those translated. Those will get you the real picture.

[@brianbucher1313]

If her old boyfriend contacted her and she keeps it a secret...she cheated...if i find out about that contact... she's history...there is no excuse for secrets...secrecy equals deception...any deception is grounds for ending the relationship

[@MasakanSolaris]

Everybody has secrets dude. Does she have the right to dump you if your ex girlfriend contacted you?

[@brianbucher1313]

@@MasakanSolaris If I had kept it a secret she certainly would...

[@jimmydo1196]

I say most of use who left our home land to get away from those acts. We hope to move to the Philippines to be with someone that is not westernized.

[@samual3006]

​@jimmydo1196 Man you are going to be surprised then.😅😅

[@DetroitSambo]

Damn what are you in fifth grade ??? What kind of sigma male acts like a middle school kid with his first girl friend

[@RCFSULAW]

No excuse for cheating. Just break up if you are not happy

[@ST-TV]

There is no divorce in the Philippines.

[@MrSean03839]

Ya, that's just how people think when opportunity presents itself. Lol!!

[@RCFSULAW]

@@ST-TV There is for Expats and Filipinas. There is a divorce exception in Philippines law that allows a foreigner to divorce a Filipina in his country or even another that recognizes foreign marriages. Afterwards a seal copy of the Divorce Final Judgment is provided to two different agencies in the Philippines. Then recognition of the divorce is approved by the Regional Trial Court closest to where the Filipina resides. This is only done to allow a Filipina to remarry as the foreigner is already considered divorced. Just Google Philippines foreigner divorce exception.

[@ST-TV]

@@RCFSULAW That was my point. You have to do it in YOUR country. For the vast majority of western men that is a nonstarter.

[@RCFSULAW]

@@ST-TV Actually no. First of all some states do not have residency requirements to get divorced in that state. Second in many states now you do not even have to step in a courthouse to get divorced. If it is a no fault divorce state and the couple both agree on all items you can e-file and the divorce can be granted. This has been very normal now because courts systems are overloaded. Many people are from states that allow this to occur. Some let you have a personal representative file on your behalf after you electronically send the requisite documents. In other cases where you might be required to appear the courts allow the appearance by Zoom. In many states only one person is required to appear. I have seen and been involved within my State's court system and the judge, attorneys and all parties are appearing on Zoom.

[@kauaimu]

I'm almost down on the floor laughing with that last gig, Miss Pea! You're giving us some most valuable content. I only wish I had all the time I need to watch every single video you ever published.

[@UBG_Marine]

Cheating isn’t an issue if you don’t date them

[@davidk6668]

I am in my 60’s and have truly studied relationships. It all boils down to one simple rule no matter what else you sugar coat it with. This rule is universal throughout the world. The rule is 1. Men want sex. 2. Women want money. End of story!

[@andhewonders]

What a terrible cage you live in, we're about the same age and my life experience is different, I feel sorry for you.

[@davidk6668]

@@andhewonders The truth usually hurts. These characteristics are genetically programmed in us. It is a survival mechanism that we have developed over millions of years of evolution. Whether you are conscious of it or not, it affects our daily function and choices we make.

[@andhewonders]

@@davidk6668 Sex was never my motivation, and the Women I've been with were never into money, I understand how it can be genetic programming, but that was never my problem, I have an eclectic intelligence, and I do arrogantly view hormone driven people as just a necessary part of natures course, I observe as well, just not hormonally.

[@davidk6668]

@@andhewonders so you sought a relationship with a woman for what purpose. You subconsciously wanted to be with her because you were attracted to her. That is your sex drive kicking in. She accepted you because you had something she wanted to make her life better. Whether she calls that security, wanting children etc it all boils down to wealth or in a modern society money. I think you will find you and your females you have encountered are no different than the rest of the population. It’s nothing to be ashamed of, just that we need to know the underlying reason why we function.

[@andhewonders]

@@davidk6668 You seem to be having an issue with your narrative, and a serious problem moving out the idea of carnal satisfaction, you're Human, I can't hold that against you, I've never subconsciously wanted anything in my life, ever, why would you assume that?

[@thomasoverturf8295]

Good info Pea and some what true👍 but the truth is...once a cheater, always a cheater!

[@paultrgnp]

Pea you are so well versed in psychology and the realities of life, and have an excellent ability to communicate your knowledge. I hope that one day you will be formally acknowledged for your contribution to the understanding of the differences between men and women, using philipinas as a model for your hypotheses. Thank you for keeping so many of us sane by confirming what we observe but are told is wrong.

[@jerylharvard4173]

Pea, I have watched many of your videos. And I’m not one of those guys I and you for an opportunity. But I am that guy who sees that you are extraordinarily talented. You don’t just speak English, you speak the vernacular. .. and you and I have a bond forever when you mention your fear of cockroaches…. Me too. The story of your life and the history of how you developed into who you are today was very moving. So from a complete stranger just know, not only are you good enough? You are actually better than most of the videos on KZbin today. Keep up the good work.

[@guyandre4946]

Your new blue neon background looks so sharp! It screams major TV Channel all over, and the ever so smart presenter adds up to the so professional impression. Always better and better Pea 😘 Nice dress by the way, suits you! ❤️

[@wayneONvolarte]

Yes On Everything😅

[@Happiness791-e2b]

They have men hitting on them constantly! Local Pinoys, foreigners online from all over the world. Times have changed. Good luck finding a faithful one. Sad but true.

[@fightsims1252]

Yep. Saw some simps on KZbin sending $100 super chats to some basic Filipina making breakfast. These fools will ruin everything if allowed

[@effewe2]

Faithful one....LOL...

[@shadok9310]

Much of what you said describes my X wife. Loving, yet cold and heartless. After 20 years of marriage, 2 children, and 10 years of betrayal, I learned some basic truths: Liars lie & Cheaters cheat. For some, honesty and trust are only things to take advantage of.

[@DavidShort-pj2fu]

Hello Pea. You are WONDERFUL! Also correct I have always given 100 percent. You are a wonderful person.

[@ronmiller997]

Great funny and informative video ! Thank You !!

[@kevinmag7986]

The IT Department skit at the end has got to be one of my favorites. Hilarious!

[@kiwioffgrid2437]

Great points.... However cheating is cheating and not only physical but emotional. There is no reason nor excuse for cheating and once done then the relationship ends. There is no coming back. Wish her well and let her go....

[@TheFilipinaPea]

I completely agree - there are no excuses for cheating. But this video was about ‘why’ a Filipina might cheat on you, not about excuses 😊

[@kiwioffgrid2437]

@@TheFilipinaPea there is no "why". The "why" is the excuse that will be used ✌️

[@jeremypryor5996]

I’m scared of getting cheated on again. I think I’m staying single.

[@stevef5812]

If it flys, floats or fucks; rent it. The 3F rule. Simple as that.

[@daan7374]

Insightful. It's really an important insecure attachment issue that you discuss (never give a 100%) and what it does to partners. So weird that it's even ingrained in the culture, it must be a huge collective trauma and something that becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

[@EDINTHEWIND]

Thank you little bit. I enjoy the information and it cut right to the bone. It’s very difficult, or was difficult to get close to her because she was closed off from previous pain. I give 110% to her and the kids. Now that she ran away I still care for the kids. It was painful and I was left broken but still feel responsible for the children.

[@Gairdener]

Ah well. There goes the dream of starting a family in the Philippines. Still such a beautiful country to explore! I loved your Bohol trip & look forward to your next adventure. x

[@asubutler]

You're hair is stunning in this video. Don't know what you did differently, but you look amazing and provided great information yet again.

[@hexicanlostinasia213]

Her hair is fake....Go look at her videos, hair dont grow that fast....

[@drowsy4]

I heard 99% of Filipinas have someone already, they are all just playing.

[@jesuschrist5294]

this is true. sometimes they have them in the open, and pretend they are their "brother" or other relative.

[@stevesmoneypit6137]

You are so right on with your insight!

[@cdjpower1]

Thank you for the excellent info.

[@LADETROIT]

A lot easier for a man to replace the Filipina than for her to start over. So she needs to stay with his program or get right immediately. it shouldn't be consistently thrown in her face. But every now and then she may need to be reminded that the man is the prize. This is something that the feminist in the West have long forgotten.

[@hexicanlostinasia213]

Best comment ive read so far.....Women are the catch, Men are the Prize.......

[@alsimmons1650]

Finally, someone gets it A wmns idle mind is the devil's playground and every now and again a man has to prevent that from happening on his watch. Men are the prize she's the catch and that means have options for oneself life as a man.

[@marcinzajda7147]

Pea, you doing great work, I probably not visit philippines ever again...

[@eduardomaldonado1647]

phillipine is a beautiful place to visit just don't get serious with the women there. Filipino people are very friendly but it is very superficial and fake. Thai people are more reserved but they are kinder people and more genuine.

[@TonySchiavone6]

Learned my lesson about when someone from the Philippines says I love you. At first I was like yes, I love you to. Then the guys started saying it. I said why does everyone suddenly love me. Oh we are friends. So she said I love you. Oh that just means you are a friend. There I am getting my hopes up again. So I am going with actions. If she is always wanting to be with you. Spend time. Calls, texts, wants to cook for you. Then its more like love even if she won't say it. Lesson learned. Ignore words.

[@cdjpower1]

I love you is meaningless especially in the Philippines.

[@RalphBonwell]

Hello. I happened upon you channel through a search of documentaries. Much of what you describe, I find to be true of all countries I have lived. Your analytical view is refreshing and reminds me how closely we are all rhe same. Thank you.

[@mike-ulove2travel]

Hi Pea, another great video! I don’t cheat and I expect the same for my woman. If she cheats it’s over the trust is gone and cannot be mended!!

[@TheFilipinaPea]

👍👍👍

[@charlesyoung9980]

My relationship with Pea is amazing. I only see her twice a week at 8am. And only for about 15-20 minutes on average. Afterwards, she goes her way. And I go mine. Oh how I love her so..........................Hehe

[@TheFilipinaPea]

As long as we keep quiet about it, I think we can continue this for a long time 🤣🤣🤣

[@kendonius4928]

Are you allowed to have multiple sexual relationships with other Pinay outside the relationship with Pea?

[@charlesyoung9980]

@@TheFilipinaPea My lips are sealed. 😆😆😆😆

[@pubwvj]

Superglue…? …or duct tape?

[@kendonius4928]

@@pubwvj Duct tape on Pea's wrist or ankles?

[@carolynlucca3269]

My grandfather is in the same situation (in America) but in another way. The women flock to him, and he has his choice of any of them, because, for good or ill, all the women in is his retirement home has been told all their lives that having a man is better than being alone…and they flock to him because he is one of the few men left there who isn’t dead! Supply and demand.

[@michaelwilbur4320]

I believe if I'm with someone, I won't think about meeting another woman unless it's just a friendship reason . However, if I'm getting betrayed ,I'll be gone in a heartbeat.

[@spinnetti]

Men and women cannot be friends. Not if you want to keep a relationship.

[@kurtallen2998]

Thank you for these informative videos. Dating a Filipina since March that just separated from her abusive husband and I'm still trying to "figure" her out. She doesn't show a lot of emotion and I let her say she loves me first. I'm 55 and she's 36, and she's been in the states for 10 years. Sometimes I feel like a meal ticket even though she's very thankful for everything. I try treating her to little things here and there since her ex literally would get sloppy drunk everything and do nothing fun with her the last 9 years. I'm being patient for her to trust me and open up more. Thanks again for all the advice🙏‼️

[@reginaldnunez8645]

THANK YOU FOR THE INFORMATION 😊

[@allanf6047]

Don’t overthink it. You’re older, she’s younger, and she’s not physically attracted to you. You’re no longer romantic or never was and your lifestyle routine has become mundane.

[@richieriderclub]

😅😅😅

[@DavidWilliams-pb6he]

You can forgive a Cheater but never take her she will lose respect for you if you do! She expects you to leave her if you are a real man!

[@Bryan-1980]

There’s not much difference between not telling you the “bad things” and starting a relationship on a lie. That’s a relationship that’ll never survive. Honesty will always be what holds two people together. Stop telling yourselves what the other person does or doesn’t wanna hear, and just be an open book if you’re ready to take the plunge with a person.

[@chivalryisdead6440]

Hi Pea! People here are not so good at anything related to communication including this topic. They're actually quite terrible on the topic of communication. But it's good to know that if I want to secure her loyalty it would probably be the best plan to address her insecurities. The marriage deal scares the life out of me but I will do my best. Thanks Pea!

[@pauljones8289]

Thank you pea. This wonderful great information. You given me so many understanding about why my Filipino girlfriend is the way she is. Real good insight

[@loneranger625]

I don't keep any chic around long enough for her to cheat.

[@ravenclangaming]

Having a kid and or lying about it is an instant deal breaker. Even if she confesses as early second date, its over.

[@boracay12]

If you want one with out a kid , you would have to date a under age one They have kids at 16 .by mid 20s they have 2 or 3

[@ravenclangaming]

@@boracay12 I highly doubt that lol.

[@ST-TV]

@@boracay12 18 is fine with me.

[@hp7639]

not in Philippines. that's western women. ​@boracay12

[@boracay12]

@@hp7639 try again buddy .i have been here for 7 years .most girls that are available have 2 0r 3 kids before they are 30 . Finding one with no kids is like finding bigfoot . there are some but its a small percentage

[@congero113]

Kind of ironic, because I dated a Filipina and she constantly did things to intentionally make me feel jealous. After this video I feel it’s not worth it because it will be constant game playing.

[@Crushonius]

its not constant game playing however it seems you do not have a strong frame if you punished that behavior straight away as anyone with a backbone would do she would either stop or you would walk away but since you write she constantly did this ,it means you failed her shit testing and let her walk all over you even though it seems like it , i am actually not trying to be mean here just pushing your nose into the truth so to speak the reason she behaved this way is YOU you need to work on yourself brother and life will be WAAAY better for you in the future first step is do not accept bad behavior from ANYONE

[@alanmotonaga96744]

Love your channel its great to hear from the women's side instead of the male youtubers who think that they know the women's side

[@Scott-ku9ox]

I had to subscribe and thumbs up on this. I married a Filipina and for the first 8 months it was amazing (we dated for a year). At month 8 the jealousy started. I was in the Navy, and was accused of cheating on her weekly. At the grocery store, I picked that line because I knew that girl. No, I picked it because the guy in line had a 12 pack of beer and a $20 bill in his hand. The other line had grandma with a fist full of coupons. Did that for 6 years, could not stand it any longer and got divorced. But I do love you, you are brilliant! And thank you for your videos.

[@xtxt9135]

Cheatings a risk anytime, but if one or both parties have been previously married, the risk takes a big jump. Third marriages aren't even worth discussing.

[@kevinternes3188]

😊 I just heard a study of marriages OF CHRISTIAN FOLLOWING COUPLES.😊 SHE BOUGHT A BUNCH OF STUDIES, ANYLYZED THEM, FOUND THEY DISMISSED MANY CHRISTIAN PRACTICING COUPLES. DIVORCE RATE IS MUCH LOWER.😊

[@ed5308]

She is never yours its just your turn. Word to live by.

[@marknasia5293]

there is no divorce in the philippines, annulment is rare and expensive. if the Filipina has been married to a filipino in the Philippines…. she is 90% of the time still legally married. Seen this way too many times to count and have never seen a legal annulment paperwork. they will say, “i have separation document, or I was legally separated…” huge red flags abort abort abort

[@marekmroczkowski2775]

​@@marknasia5293 Not true anymore, they change their rule and now you can have divorce in Philippines 🇵🇭, I heard it is from this year onwards.

[@Thephilipcartmelexperience]

"Hey Babe!" the words every Filipina uses to call every man she's in a relationship with. It eliminates the chance of accidentally calling Bob Bill.

[@fwnm]

"Hey Babe" is very american and to a german as me a big insult. It is totally respectless to us and my wife does know it and would NEVER call me that way. Like that a prostitude is calling her client - really not acceptable, sorry. Is as I would consider a pinay as Chinese just because both look asian and especially "babe" to us makes us feel as the most cheap and stupid person. So to filipinas: do NEVER call a european "babe". Also: do not bring them to Jollibee and to not call them "kano". My wife never ever gave me the impression of beeing so low, she allways is sensible and respectful. Her cheating on me? No way. Me mistrusting her? No reason, no way. Same the other way around and defenetely no Tampoo, no babe, no kano, no fast food.

[@comediancojac299]

That is some true, and funny ****

[@sgtzulu2507]

No matter what the excuse being shy or not wanting to rock the boat a lie is a lie.

[@TheFilipinaPea]

There is no excuse for cheating, and no one is excusing the behavior. I’m just explaining the mental reasoning behind why they do it 👍

[@hexicanlostinasia213]

@@TheFilipinaPea i would love to debate with you.....MEN DONT CHEAT THEY EXERCISE OPTIONS.....Men arent open about "exercising options" because most women cant handle the truth....We are not the same.....Men and women show love differently....

[@horsdecombat007]

Your insight and intelligence are far beyond your age. Thank you for videos.

[@orbea1956]

Your intelligent, well spoken, presentation of your thoughts, feelings about most of the Filipino women’s feelings is very professional well thought out. U R a true professional journalist. 👍💐💐💐💐

[@lenzielenski3276]

The reason she cheats is zero surprise. Its because she can. Oh, and they only "think" its wrong if they get caught. And yes, they all cheat.

[@effewe2]

100%

[@Crazykid949]

Pea: I love the comment "Dangling your wallet in front of her"! This is so true even in the west. Somehow, most women know roughly what each occupation earns, and when you say what you do for a living, it almost automatically triggers a pre-programmed response from her. If your income isn't what she thinks is enough for her to live the life that she wants, she pulls back, if it's close she'll keep you around until the next branch with bigger fruit blows in with the wind. If it's more than she dreamed about, she'll be all over you like a fat kid on a smartie, and still be looking for the bigger fruit to come her way. The old hypergamy is always present and accounted for. For a great many of the situations of cheating here in the west, I believe that it is purely related to the fact that women are (for the most part) emotionally charged beings who crave excitement around every corner, surrounding almost every situation, and an exchange in intimate pleasures behind their partner's back is just like the thrill of doing something with the excited hopes of not getting caught. Most of the time the women closes off her intimacy with her partner for a while before they find their behind the back partner, and this causes the need and desire to fulfil a lost activity for the man, that is when the men go around behind closed doors to fill the void left barren by their partner. Great video Pea, Keep up the awesome work!

[@jdsmith02115]

That cultural divide is just too vast for my tastes...no matter HOW cute she might be.

[@mikek5298]

Well said.

[@Mikegtu2005]

No it’s not . I’m married to one and we are quite similar . I’m not locked into all of my cultural background and she isn’t with her background. More to do with how your views are on cultural superiority and inferiority .

[@diamondjim55]

Bruh they're no different than women from anywhere else when it comes to cheating. The reasons are either emotion, money, or dick.

[@aaronfranklin324]

YES, I'm with Mikegtu on this, particularly his finishing comments. As a New Zealander, I can offer a somewhat unbiased perspective. Most of the World considers US of A men and women to be narcissistic, disgustingly bad mannered, extremely stupid, arrogant and ignorant. I cannot think of ANY culture in the world that I would be less likely to be interested in a relationship with a woman from, than the USA. We are surprised that Philippino women are prepared to suffer you. But then, they have been occupied and starved economically by the US of Aholes for so long they don't know much else, and are that poor and exposed to a diet of yank propaganda, they really don't know reality. Granted, there are possibilities of a good life for a Philippine wife with a wealthy yank in a good area in the US. Which probably excludes ALL cities. And for a Yank prepared to embrace the local culture. He doesn't have to have much money at all to find paradise like he never dreamed could exist, fro. Growing up in the disgusting zombie apocalypse that is the USA. Having travelled most of the world, the USA is absolutely the last place I would consider living. Except for the places made uninhabitable by the US global terror and scorched earth warfare campaign against any country with resources or strategic location of course. Which sadly, includes the Phillipeans to be honest.

[@samual3006]

Absolutely correct 👍🏻 You will never have anything in common with a Filipina. Culture way to different.

[@deepskywishingwell2602]

Pea, another good video. Cheating is cheating, no excuse or reason can mend a broken heart and trust. It’s neutral pain for both sexes and equally devastating. Thank you for the warning signs , and the sweetest way you deliver painful truth. I have hope that love will be my guide to monogamy. You give me strength.😊

[@Antonio-ti2he]

Wow! I am impressed with your message around 10 minutes to 12 minutes. Very authentic .

[@KevinLuna]

After a lifetime of betrayal, I felt 100% confident my Filipina was faithful when we were together.

[@grahamchan6327]

Don't be naive , there's no such thing as 100% sure ...relationships are a gamble at best lol!😅

[@B3Band]

Only one? And you're not even together anymore? It's a little weird that you still call her "your" Filipina.

[@mrbHanoi]

Leave unfaithful women in the trash can forever and find a better woman. Millions of loyal appeciative women in the world.

[@tomster7574]

Cheaters hate themselves. They’ve been rejected or neglected in childhood. Cheating is like a short fix drug addiction

[@vinipcplayer]

nonsense...people cheat because they are horny and think they are not going to be caught

[@Avenue77]

To some it's a sport...they like to be at the Lake to keep fishing for more

[@tomster7574]

@@Avenue77 but still under the same premise

[@dezcuts5319]

I can’t concede that cheaters hate themselves. I think you may be guilty of over analyzing. Both genders can be capable of cheating to fulfill sexual desires or fantasies. Both are also capable of filling an emotional void their significant other is either unsure how to address or refuses to. That has nothing to do with self hate. It’s definitely unethical though to disregard the other person’s feelings. Personally I would never forgive and I wouldn’t waste time trying to figure out why either. I don’t care even for a nanosecond why it was done. I’m completely unforgiving when it comes to that.

[@tomster7574]

@@dezcuts5319 dude, that’s the science behind it. Not just my opinion.

[@eynon1579]

I Love your end of video skits. Keep it up!

[@CarrollOdom-v8d]

Hi Pea, I was talking with a Filipino lady a few weeks ago. I stopped talking with her because she went to the "I love you" so quickly. I wish I had seen your video sooner.

[@louhightower4141]

I can never understand why women can't part from the "bad boy" in their past.

[@TheFriendlyPsychopath]

That's easy, there's 2 things guys don't realize about females. 1. They don't have personalities. 2. They get bored easy. Because of these two reasons is why they always play manipulation games in a attempt for you to entertain them and get what they want at the same time. When it comes to a female it's ALL in how you make them "feel". Even if a chick doesn't like you, you may not be able to change her mind but you can damn sure change her mood! Females like guys That test mediocrity, all the others are average and boring to them.

[@heartlessangel1460]

Same reason you can't part with the 9-10 with the size zero waist.

[@lionheartroar3104]

Don't commit to marriage. If she cheats, you walk without the legal hassles. And biased courts who liked to leave men broke and in the street😅

[@keithdavis6604]

47 years and counting! Not easy. She’s also 7 years my senior. Not a usual combination. Commitment to promises, perseverance, and patience. Best wishes.

[@bobtimster62]

Same here.

[@knewwhon]

Aaaaahhhh! My head hurts now! Hahaha! Thanks for the new perspectives and knowledge. Pea! Always seeking a mutually agreeable balance! Blessings! Hahaha!

[@rupertscow3480]

I personally would not B able 2 look at a woman the same way again when if I ever found out she cheated on me. In my books a relationship is based on trust. Regardless of the reasons cheating is cheating. Each person needs 2 have faith that the other partner loves truly and will stay no matter what. We need 2 love ourselves 1st. So if there is an end 2 a relationship we will still have love in our life. No matter what happens life will go on. Thank U 4 Ur open and honest KZbin topics.😊👌

[@TERRY-cb2ku]

In other words, it's ok to lie. No, one lie leads to another lie. One can lie by deception or omission. The devil is hiding in the details.

[@roddielopp]

Rediculous thoughts and ruined my last relationship by stopping showing me she loved me

[@ominousenough6172]

From my experience, when I ask a Filipina out on a date, I take her out to an Italian restaurant as pasta is a good substitute for rice. I prefer not to, but I specify one friend. I behave as a gentleman and will endure the usual posing for her Facebook page and of course the photos of the meal prior to eating. After that, I politely ask her to put down her phone for the rest of the evening. I also ask her if she has dated other western men. If she has dated other western men or stays on her phone, I abruptly end the evening with a convenient excuse. Sometimes I'll ask the cutest waitress out for a drink. I also can tell if my date is into me if I press her close and kiss her. I am not interested in a woman who will follow me back to my room on the 1st date. You can usually tell how much a woman is 'into you' after making love, and how often she initiates future lovemaking. Beware boys, women move at warp speed in the Philippines. You will need to maintain control and set boundaries. It gets complicated, but you will be expected to help her family. It is the custom. If she cheats on you, "kick her to the curb."

[@jnihil8174]

@ominousenough6172 if she's dated another western man you lie to end the date and ask out the waitress? You sound like a complete tool, and I wouldn't blame women for not being interested in you.

[@TrevorLV702]

Great content, great insight on many different things to consider. Filipina just wants to be loved for who she is ❤

[@turboman8522]

great video thanks 😊