Why Am I A Narcissist MAGNET??

[@Shadowman...]

A big part of what we do as humans is subconscious ~ I still believe aggressive people are drawn to people who have an overly kind look to there face. Their predators and can see a caring or sensitive person in a crowd.

[@muma6559]

yes, i think you're right. (they're, not their)

[@BryanClark-gk6ie]

Exactly right' I've been a clown 🤡 most of my adult life' people are always coming up to me busting my balloons 🎈 🎈 🎈.

[@ceciliamac4283]

Can’t agree more. Too often, people talk about how we attract them but so little is said about how they are attracted to us.

[@IzabelaWaniek-i1x]

True. We must run away from abusers. There is no excuse for abuse, no matter who the abuser is : your parent, sibling, family member or anybody else!

[@Shadowman...]

In Africa the Gazelles don't apologies to the Lions for running away for fear they may appear rude. Stop being so nice and know your worth people

[@hcmangs3634]

Still have the mean & difficult people from childhood in my life… brother & parents. Working through how to manage, feel so much sadness

[@funky_monk_9796]

@@hcmangs3634 All power to you as you work through this very difficult situation 💪🏼

[@funky_monk_9796]

This video should be prescribed viewing for everyone on Earth 🌍❤🌎❤🌏 imagine how many people would be healed if we all followed this advice...!! Thank you, Michele, you're one of the very best practitioners this field ✨️💯

[@infantrycaptain9224]

Hi,you are absolutely beautiful.Avoid people that don't complement your life and goals.

[@n888-y4z]

Thank you so much for these insights. Anything that triggered her guilt or shame was dangerous...even a shift in my facial expressions or mood after I'd been verbally abused and berated would trigger worse abuse. My fear turned inward, fear of doing or saying the wrong thing. And especially fear of any act or expression of self-protection. I attract mean and selfish people because feeling hurt or angry in response to abuse had become unavailable to me. You had to stoically and even thankfully take it. It's just so confusing. I keep touching the flame, because there is no pain only shame and self blame. Crazy how we are molded to become complicant victims. 😢

[@Lyrielonwind]

Beware of the videos about stoicism that pops out like mushrooms on KZbin. They are not really stoic and can lead people to think complaining or not sharing others opinions are wrong. They can also isolate you and shut you down. Even psychologists have been complaining about how distorted they are.

[@muma6559]

Try to remember, it's just bad parenting

[@reneeoaniayt]

Good morning. A friend shared this video with me. Thank you Michele! God bless!

[@Truthteller1s]

This is so good. Describes my condition perfectly. ❤

[@hermajesty00]

Lack of boundaries

[@Ballpython77]

Me for 46 years.

[@CraftyRecycler]

Thank you, Michelle. This makes so much sense.

[@danitaoliver264]

❤ I Love You Michelle, we're a Good Fit, I've got to find a way to join your School!!!!❤

[@RavnThor]

Thank you, Michelle ❤

[@muma6559]

Ohh, my brain did go there as a child. @11:11

[@ChildofGod98765]

Please pray for me prayers are all we need! I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord JESUS I need your help because I’m failing miserably providing for my sons as a single mother. Both my boys are special needs. I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them. I’m constantly struggling to make ends meet, to pay my bills, and to put food on the table. I’m ashamed and I’m mocked because of my situation. Jesus guide me and give me strength.💕❤️

[@LOVEISTRUTH300]

I'm sorry you're going through that. Sending LOVE to you💖💖💖

[@ebasika]

You are an angel 🙏🏼 this is an eye opener 👍🏼 Thanks a ton

[@uniquelybeyou]

Thank you so much for sharing this chat❤so helpful 🙏

[@brianjanderson6361]

In my experience, and I have a lot, a narcissist will use pity (their stories) to determine if you are empathetic even if they just met you, spend 95% of the time they interact with you talking about themselves and watch for your reactions, and if they want something from you, they will gove you the narcissist stare.

[@Mikejmcgro]

This channel is exactly what I needed... thanks

[@jgannon1637]

perfect zeitgeist. perfect beauty. Thanks. Love.

[@Paul723]

Wonderful.

[@rocmiller3]

Wayne Dyer once said we teach people how to treat us it's also a personality trait that we're very familiar with

[@tallguy527]

Thank you - great info! BTW: I like your glasses!

[@wallymarcel1]

Great video!

[@MartinVoois-b6i]

Thank you. 🤠👍👌🌞🍀❤🦋🙏

[@ninafrederick6048]

Jus in time

[@annastone5624]

Trust that people are kind? ..but that's not the true-baseline of human beings - the most primary baseline is survival and competition. Most people prioritise their own self interest. Just like animals in the wild. That's not coming from a fear-perspective, it's simply realistic. Yes there are people who won't go out of their way to hurt us.. but the number of people that will actually 'support and protect' us, are very, very ,very, very small. Love your explanation with the Moth and Flame, totally resonates..

[@flemutter7211]

Absolute spot on!

[@tomorrowwestport2620]

Maybe because the clinical concept of narcissism is at odd with your personal opinion of what a narcissist is