Why am I still obsessed?

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[@nunya257]

I'm going to listen to this one many times until I accept reality.

[@teecopeland7767]

WOW, ladies, I feel the same way, and great to see I'm not alone with rewatching this video every time I think of the good times! Without the long list of all the negative and real BS! This video alone has helped me to understand what happened.

[@michaelmiller8455]

Painful truth. My ex and I were together off and on for 7 years. A year ago she became extremely abusive, both verbally and physically. I'm in no contact and agonizing because she used to be my best friend and good to me. All I want is a glimpse of someone other than the monster she is now; some semblance of the kind and caring girl I once knew...and it's never going to happen. Sigh. I rarely comment but I felt compelled to tell you folks that a strong, successful guy is writing this and going through what you are and feeling weak, alone, and depressed. Good luck everyone. You're not alone.

[@framboise8845]

I'll imitate you. It's a good idea.

[@pinkbutterfly1888]

Me too

[@leilanisantos5039]

Yes, I definitely needed to hear this and will have to keep it as a reminder. It certainly did get real. Thanks for this message.

[@moonmaiden4197]

Rejection breeds obsession

[@Brumbasse22]

Rejection is a gift. Rejection saves you from wasting time. It is a short-term pain that saves your heart from feeling a bigger and more drawn-out pain later down the road with this person. And it protects the future relationship you are going to have with the Right person for you. Rejection isn't so bad when we choose to believe that the Right person is out there - struggling to find us - and we had to get through this rejection with all it's lessons, so that we can Recognize the Right person when they show up. Maybe they are out there, but really close, just waiting behind the man/woman we have been rejected by.

[@livinglifejaybyjay3063]

True

[@sametoyoutoo8509]

@@Brumbasse22Maybe we never meet anyone

[@MaureenMurphy_]

Fr. :(

[@mariat8848]

True, that is if you had a relatively strong interest in whomever rejected you.

[@homeworldmusic]

"you can literally be chasing them for years" So good to hear someone else say that: so, it isn't just me?!

[@a.m.5456]

It sounds so scary that I gained strenght to push the thoughts about them away

[@veronicasimone6204]

"some people can only dance in the fantasy" a hard pill to swallow but hey, I'm just very grateful to experience that unique feeling at that moment of time.

[@angelarose249]

So true, I'm going through this now.

[@silvermine2033]

@@angelarose249Me too.

[@danherrin7691]

It's a battle between the mind (logic, reality) and heart (emotions, fantasy). Ugh!

[@geoffreywelsby7434]

Ok, it's a battle. But who wins. My heart loves her so much. But my head tells me something completely different, or maybe she will come around. It's that push /pull. It's driving me crazy. God I hate having emotions. Can anyone help.😇🙏😇🙏🤗🙏

[@HM-to8rp]

@@geoffreywelsby7434 look if your head tells you that she is not the right person for you don’t follow your emotions I know it is hard but no matter how much you love a person if they are toxic these emotions will fade away and you will be left with a toxic relationship

[@geoffreywelsby7434]

@@HM-to8rp Thank you so much I will. Right now someone much better is coming along. Someone who will love me for who I am. ❤❤😇😇🙏🙏🤗🤗🌈🌈

[@HM-to8rp]

@@geoffreywelsby7434 great 😌 good luck😃

[@alliphx]

Ugh indeed. 😄

[@emerald4660]

Oh god I just want him out of my head it's breaking me

[@MaureenMurphy_]

Same

[@joazz1]

Did you make it

[@emerald4660]

@@joazz1 yes I did, it was one relationship I wished never happened it still gets to me that I let him get so under my skin but that was probably the lesson 🤔

[@joazz1]

@@emerald4660 I know . It’s the secret of not giving that thought power . Being conscious we have this obsession and thinking about something else . Easy to say

[@trahadbad]

@@emerald4660 how did u move on. It’s been months and I’m scared I won’t move on for a long time but I just want them out of my head

[@ameerahrashada4515]

Hang in there all she is speaking truth you may feel hooked now but it gets better with time you will wake up one day and say l have got to let this shit go because it's blocking the blessings that are trying to come into my life LET THEM GO

[@Pioramic]

Ameerah Rashada thank you for this.

[@juliemanso4589]

I can’t wait to be there!

[@missamericausa]

Yes blocking blessings !!

[@rubas4403]

Very correct

[@ogrepleyz]

o man! this statement gave me chills

[@dd-pw8tw]

Thinking “it was a moment in time” makes it easier to move on and stop obsessing ,,, Especially appreciate you mentioning people who’ve passed over good potential partners to obsess over someone who can’t get past phase one~it’s that simple and life is short ,,,my dear fellow listeners we do NOT want to be that person! I wish you great peace.

[@Edith.G.G.]

Exactly dear fellow, exactly! Life is SHORT

[@gauravkhanna978]

You understand human emotions so well...

[@mrd49995]

She's very well experienced

[@CorporateQueen]

'Can't do it, doesn't want to do it, failed me, hurt me, kind of came in like they would, failed me again' - Yep.

[@timheidel5849]

I think that we have all gone through this. But until we get past that person you are obsessing about, you are not emotionally-available...to yourself, or others.

[@Glock_Doc]

we always seem to want what we can’t have

[@AngryDutch]

I am going through a obssesion now for almost a year and all the things come with it. And I can tell one thing it's hard and it's horrible to go through it every day

[@SusanWinter]

Dutchy, I'm so sorry. I hope this video helps you.

[@AngryDutch]

@@SusanWinter your video's the helping me understand it better. But still it's so hard to stop thinking about her

[@niemazaco87]

@@AngryDutch I totally get what are you going through...It is so tiring and you start thinking about this person everyday at the moment you just wake up...super exhausting. If you think that you could invest that energy in yourself...But there is hope in this madness, I recently overcame that problem by meditation and forgiveness practice. I've read a book of G.Bernstein "A radical road to self love and miracles" where the author describes her journey of dealing with her ego and addictions to drugs, attention and also men. It really helped me to understand that I made an idol out of this guy that I was so miserably missing! It opened my eyes and I realised that he was not that ideal and probably even didn't want to be seen as such. I forgave him in my meditations and now I am free. I think about him way less than before and believe me, I was obsessed about him for over a year! Read the book, maybe it's going to help you too:)

[@workforbeautystepbystep6759]

Dutchy 78 i had the obsession and the unique opportunity that he came back to pursue me, he convinced me for one more date which proved me that my obsession was an ilusion; he could not be the person i was envisioned, the reality hit me so bad that i blocked him right after i saw him and decided to get back my power. I cannot live a fantasy i put on a person i knew once; i prefer to dream about somebody new instead to obsess on somebody who hurt me. Wish you power and good luck but most of all discilplice. As Susan mentioned a lot of time, discipline of mind will make the difference.

[@wolfgangschmidt9598]

Dutchy 78, It helps me when I work on myself every day. I go to the gym about 5 times a week. At my gym I am around lots of people working on their selves. It relieves my stress & anxiety . I work on my soul every day through my faith study which for me is the bible. I get engaged with people I come in contact with, being in the moment. I read books which strengthens my mind. And I am working on strengthening my finances. I still think about her often. It is just that I am finding more value and confidence in myself. Life is really good today.

[@redkisses4362]

“Infatuation” is the hook/addiction. My heart still hurts, though, because I lost him

[@rosiepestel7836]

Me too...

[@paulasmith3577]

Mine too

[@sebsebseb1905]

I got over my obssesion when I realised there is nothing left from the person I was in love with. Everything changed about her, even the way sje looked. Having realised that I felt such a relief that I can not explain. The only sad thing is that moment in time was the best moment of my life and by that moment I mean 3 days.

[@skeyetech8931]

24 hours for me man.

[@honeybucket10]

I am in this. There's a term for it: euphoric recall! I feel insane sometimes. Thank you for your words. 💕

[@vampireslayer1989]

"An unsustainable moment in time" is a good mental image. Thanks.

[@DONT4GET_SUNSCREEN]

I wrote down my Pros and Cons about the person I was crazy over and when Cons outweighed the Pros , I thought to myself:" Girl, What the eff were you obsessing over"? 😉 It hurts but you only got one go round in this life, live it and be happy and healthy!😘 Happy Holiday and if you don't celebrate the holiday or there's no holiday in your part of the world, sending love and health your way.💞

[@shellenec70]

Ive been suffering for a while now over a breakup, trying to figure out what I did wrong... I found your channel.... thank you. I did nothing wrong. The emotions and feelings Ive been having are normal, and I thank you so much. You have been very eye opening and my heart feels lighter and I feel as if your words were exactly what I needed.

[@nicksworld959]

don't worry dear everything will be alright.

[@leeorsay2571]

always trust in God ok, with God all things are possible beautiful😍💓 friends

[@hotmusic413]

Hello

[@ClarkSweet21]

I’ve never cried at a KZbin video before. It felt like this video was made specifically with me in mind.

[@pracheechaudhary5854]

I never thought I would ever watch this video AGAIN. After getting my heart broke 2 years ago, I promised myself to not fall in love again. But this man came into my life and he was so promising, I decided to put down my guard and gave him a chance. And guess what? He abandoned me after the honeymoon phase. He said that his emotional baggage was too much to get in a relationship with me (and other excuses men give) and asked me to stay just friends. I have cut off ties with him but I am still obsessed with him. Still hoping he would come because of the sake of good times. After hearing this video, I know I should stop hoping and move on.

[@skeyetech8931]

I have a way to get over an obsession but its very risky. Find someone you have never met before. Make sure that this person is straight and mildly attractive. Tell this person your life story, and encourage them to do the same. By the time you've told them about your obsession, you will have cried, and after that, you're in love with another person. Sounds like a lie, but it happened to me.

[@LaGrossePaulik]

The worst thing if that I never learn. I've been into an obsession with someone 10years ago, we eventually been together, hard time to get past this relationship, and got stuck into fantasies after. And now same scenario with someone else, I'm just tired of that pattern. But I wish this time it could teach me some lessons. Good luck to anyone reading this ❤️

[@mikeandmom8797]

Susan your videos are SO helpful! Instead of crying myself to sleep over him, I watch your videos and sleep more soundly..

[@AkaHeart1]

The Heart & Mind play unbelievable tricks on your soul. Very confusing indeed!! Thank you Susan as I’ve always respected your readings!

[@pabloduarte9827]

I Swear I'm crying. I can relate to this 100%. It's been 3 years and I can't get over it. Idk what else to do.

[@emerald4660]

I hope you are over it now xx

[@pabloduarte9827]

@@emerald4660Unfortunately Not really but at least Im not dying or crying anymore. Im accepting things how they are. It is what it is. 🤷

[@emerald4660]

These things leave a scar but I'm glad you are finding your peace, onwards and upwards ❤️

[@skeyetech8931]

I’m going to do what I did when I got over my last obsession. Meet someone completely new that I find mildly attractive, talk to this person and swap life stories. Doesn’t work right away, but it does work.

[@moperson1]

The hook. The first wonderful days early on. You are trying to recapture that hook. So true. Thats all he gave me, so true!

[@rosiepestel7836]

Me too...

[@moonbeanification]

How about when you know it's over and there's no going back ... and you want to heal and move on ... but how? You know nothing else will ever match that high ... you'll never love that way again, and the rest of your life seems so gray?

[@PipeOPhile]

It sure doesn't seem that way now but time does heal these wounds and it does get better, just don't pick the wound by going back to it in your mind. You'll be fine, trust me :)

[@cialuna8888]

Hang in there! Life will surprise you!

[@caroh2809]

You are in the very thick of it. It seems hopeless. But one day you’ll find you didn’t think about it 24/7. And then a while later the same thing again and gradually it will build and you won’t care where this person is because you are too busy creating your own life of happiness. It’s so hard to believe when you’re in the thick of it but it will pass. It will get better.

[@thesilentdiva]

You'll have it again with someone else. 7 bill ppl in the world, someone's out there

[@books5808]

@@caroh2809 truth

[@lecer1187]

I definitely agree with this one Susan! Getting hooked with someone, reminiscing the last romantic pieces you had with the past relationship will never contribute in healing you. Again it takes you back to this rabbit hole thing where u go deep and will only leads you nowhere. We should take pride of ourselves and get up. Be strong. Others have surpassed this indefinite battle of love and pain. So can I!..

[@rosalynalexander2129]

This set me free. Feels like a weight has been lifted. I've finally let it go. Thank you so much.

[@biondna7984]

The one I'm working on getting over now is married, we both stayed ethical and apart, and he has no idea what I've felt for him. I doubt I was more than a mildly interesting blip on his screen. I'm so glad you're doing these videos.

[@VenusVoice]

The relationship wasn't even that good even from the beginning. Sex wasn't great and we had zero things in common. I think it was the dream of him that gave me that high when we first met. He was really handsome. And I placed all my 23-year-old fantasies onto him. All the possibilities to free me from my traumas.

[@sarahheyes5371]

Im a great believer in talking. I talked my story out. I talked and talked and talked to anybody who would listen. My remembrance of it was tinted like neon paint at first. Then as time went on, the story became less vibrant. I started to see the colours fade. It was a wishy washy picture and I lost my enthusiasm. The good moments I'd remember, but also now I'd feel a heavy heart for how that made me feel. I was scared to love again. I'd never been so heartbroken before. I was naive and a fool at times. This is what love makes you do. I accepted it for what it was compared to what my brain wanted it to be. From thay day on, it didn't matter. It was just the past. Then the day where I actually stopped thinking about others, and thought about myself and caring for myself. Somebody who truly loved me appeared. That's how it happens. New love can only find it's way in, if you've truly accepted the end of another. I hope anyone who watches this video finds some peace. Be kind to yourself .xx❤

[@jazzyjaz0105]

Beautifully said

[@PipeOPhile]

This really hit close to home for me (actually spot on to be honest). Very important video, it's really hard to listen to one's own advice in a situation like this. It's also important not to get hooked on the negative emotions and thoughts about that person once we finally understand it's not going to happen, those are almost as addictive as the rose-tinted glasses we insisted on wearing to that point. It wears people out. For anyone reading this and living through it I'd add: get busy, hobbies, friends, new people, get moving. Giving yourself the time to pine for something that isn't even real is a mistake I made for too long. And as cheesy and unhelpful as it might seem now, with time it will get better. Good luck out there!

[@brendaroberts4938]

Wow you are so right! I have everything to lose and seriously nothing to gain but good sex.

[@PipeOPhile]

@@brendaroberts4938 exactly. And let's be real, "good sex" isn't so rare that it's worth putting yourself through emotional torture for. Take care of yourself first and do your thing, if they're compatible they will fit in and it will go smooth, if they're not don't force it. Good luck!

[@Iamsugarbrown]

Damn we will never get that moment back 😔😩

[@adriana77]

You're better than paying for a therapist. So practical and real and you cut to the truth. I love how you explain things so clearly.

[@TheLivala]

So after 15 months together and a year apart (seeing each other on and off), I'm still tempted for a therapist or to reach out. Going to have to rewatch this many times. Hardest journey but more determined than ever

[@yeshuaservant7]

Yep. Once they stick you in Friend Zone--it is extremely hard to return to Romantic Zone with them. Vary rarely does a person succeed in reaching that goal. Best focus on improving your own life--and seeking true love with a new person. Just be grateful for the good times you had and for what you learned from your previous relationship--and let them go into their own future.

[@waaapanda2608]

I love this video! It took me about a year to stop obsessing. Acceptance and peace with the outcome of the situation helped tremendously. I still think of him of course, but those thoughts come without expectations. Looking back, the memories with him were really nothing special. It was my feelings for him that made those memories special. Since I don't really feel that way anymore, it makes it so much easier to look at the situation for what it really was. Thanks again Susan!

[@oanamilea9513]

I am listening to this every day, it simply alleviates the pain I am going through. Thank you, Susan!

[@mohamadtello6233]

Thanks to you Susan, I'm watching this in 2020. and this kind of content will still be valid forever. thanks again, that was such a relief to hear those words and watching your videos one after one.

[@NatyK1284]

Thank you so much!! Short and clear as always.Perfect timing. Greetings from an faithful spectator from Germany.

[@parlbesatt]

I don't have words for how much I appreciated this. Thank you!! ♡

[@ripleysw]

How much I was needed it to hear this !!!!!!! I am obsessed for almost one year, when I know that it will never go back, never!!!!

[@GeneJenkins]

Susan you have absolutely hit this nail on the head for me! It's exactly what I've been caught up in for months. I certainty concur with your analysis and thank you for your insights as usual!

[@MariaGarciaXD]

this all sounded like she had followed me and put a microphone in my thoughts. amazing! thanks! really helps to realize this is not a unique situation and that there are ways to tackle the problem. First things first: accepting the reality.

[@charldaries1213]

SUSAN !!!! why am i only watching this video now !!! your pearls of wisdom is like gold ... thank you for your wonderful work !

[@elinheleneo4810]

The timing of this video could not have been more perfect! 💗 Thank you! 💗

[@kate9653]

Wow. This is the truth I’ve been struggling to accept and exactly what I needed to hear.

[@jillhodgson3221]

You are amazing Susan... I really needed to hear this! Youve given me the clarity I was searching for... while it's sad to accept you are absolutely correct. You help me more than you can know. Blessings on you 💕

[@oceejay5148]

Thank you so much !!! 😭😭😭. Amazing video . I’ll play this over and over. Makes so much sense why I’m still stuck in that first phase

[@khitabjaisinghani340]

What an excellent video is this! Thanks Susan. The timing is impeccable.

[@bonniechampagne4093]

Wow Susan!! What a wonderful concept! and I think SPOT ON!! I never thought about the fact, that I may have seen the best ( unfortunately in them😔) when I did. This definitely puts things in perspective! Thanks, Bonnie...

[@beautylife310]

This is so right, thank you! I was obsessed with this man (perhaps still little bit but less intense now after meeting someone else) because we had such a great first conversation that I never had with anyone else. The excitement afterwards stayed in my mind and I just couldn't help thinking of the whole thing. It feels so strange and makes no sense, because I even didn't know that much about him, but I felt the connection. That also makes me want to explore it more. Now after watching this video, I guess it is still worthy to explore but just have a more reasonable expectation. Thank you, this helps a lot!

[@amymcintosh6557]

This was SO HELPFUL in how you described... the truth is the longer reality, I yearn for the blip which WAS a fantasy/illusion. The higher the excitement in the beginning, the less likely it can be sustained over time... so well stated! Thank you 🙏🏽

[@itsspookie]

Great timing. Needed this.

[@Sjb2077]

Susan is so right. Deep down I knew this interaction I had with this guy was about him playing games. Most of the time I kept my cool and listened to that voice deep down inside of me. It was telling me the truth that I was just his amusement and it hurt. I have just removed myself from the scene and all of a sudden can see the truth. I could have made such a fool of myself by telling him how I felt and crying at the same time . What an idiot I would have been, he doesn't thrill me one bit now, in fact what did I ever see in him in the first place. I am free and kept my dignity. Thank you Susan.

[@michaelrodriguez3802]

Thankyou again Susan! yes so sad but you out did yourself again, needed to hear this Great timing Blessings!

[@Zephirus10]

Thank you. This video finally explains the fantasy turned horror story that ive been through. Especially your explination of how small the fantasy part was. That finally clicked in my head how she expected to stay on that high and not deal with the mundane parts.

[@patrickprus6865]

Wow Susan again you are the best. I feel so much better. I carried for years this obsession about a person that rejected me. And the mind switch of thinking that the particular person he was when we met was the best he could give me or be totally makes me feel free of the demon In my mind I had him on a pedestal for years, where he does not belong. This just opened my eyes and I feel much better. Finally I can let go of those time wasting thoughts. Thanks again

[@AnnayoguiniMiami]

So true! Thank you. Hard to accept but you state it so clearly that its really enlightening.

[@oreoslove4760]

This video is perfect timing, thank you Susan :)

[@Msquared299]

Thank you for taking your time for caring and helping people.

[@Jo-bo1mp]

Woww Susan you are spot on! thank you for sharing your wisdom~you are making so many peoples lives so much better by sharing all of these smart things about relationships.

[@nicolesplace2733]

Hello Ms Winter, this was right on time. Thanks for all of your work.

[@tiatorus]

this is so so so sad but all true . heartbreaking. thank you susan for your wisdom

[@hannaholdham6440]

Thank you so much for this video Susan, it has such a close meaning and has came at such the right time for me, it's almost as if you made it for me. Like the universe needed me to see and obtain this video. Exact timing . You are a godsend thank you for all that you do!

[@bonniemayne9399]

Susan ,you are the wisest person out here . 100% on point .

[@darrelsissson7246]

Your advice has really helped me see the truth as to why I do this, when it's evident that things cannot possibly go to the next level. I really needed to hear this today. Thank you very much.

[@SeasonedWoman1900]

I’m so glad that you are on KZbin you make me feel normal now!

[@52amour]

I really needed to hear that. I might have to replay this several times so it will sink in as the fantasy world really has an hold on me.

[@a.h.2667]

This video is such a relief. I can move forward instead of constantly asking "What if?"

[@skelamori6854]

Your videos about obsession and longing after a terrible breakup hit me hard... I love your videos 😍 you opened my eyes and understanding

[@2903kiran]

You are very honest and practical, thats why I love u

[@garima7720]

You are so helpful every single time....exactly the kind of advice one needs in such a situation....thank u so much for your mature guidance!

[@geetikavirdi3874]

Thank you very much 🙏🏼 Your videos are helping me to move forward in my life. You saved me months of self hurting. I was in a mental loop of obsessing over my ex. I know it will take sometime to master it but I feel very grateful to you to make me realize everything that you said in the video. It would have taken me several months to figure that out myself. Please accept my warm Greetings 🙏🏼

[@drewsibleyloans]

Perfectly worded message! You have no idea how I needed this. Thank you thank you thank you. I will want to work with you individually.

[@sayooj5873]

I'm gonna watch this everyday. Thank you much.

[@seankelly1366]

Amazing speculation on the subject of social behavior...absolutely amazing! You have been able to cover more ground than any sort of counselors relating to this subject!

[@rebeccajones8628]

Thank heavens I found you. You are my saviour......Your videos are really helping.

[@JuicyFruityify]

This is profound, OMG. I wish I knew that after the breakup instead of through the 3 years later. You taught me, she doesn't have the skill set to manage a serious relationship. Now I learn from you the initial wow was all she was capable of creating until her fakeness ran out. She just can not envisage the next step from that. Thank you Susan for helping me get my head right.✨

[@deantaylor1512]

Pure gold …. The most truthful thing I have heard relating to my situation… Will help enormously… thank you …

[@sasdekock870]

I can't thank you enough for the role your videos played in my healing process. Whenever I need some "Red Bull" or just want to redirect my mind I watch some of your videos. Thank you Susan, from the bottom of my heart..

[@Tonythemighty1]

Ma'am you are wise

[@riall40]

Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. You just explained my last long term relationship.

[@robertzsombok7661]

Spot on! Thank you so much for giving us clarity. Naming things for what they really are. Not real love but just obsession.. a longing for that feeling. A fantasy creation of your own.

[@caribbeansunshine992]

Susan you are just brilliant the way you explain things is amazing so clear thank you

[@MyJelleo]

You just saved my life with this video.

[@aioros8349]

Mind blowing!! So big truth in a few sentenses...Thank you so much!!

[@genna2586]

Thank you Susan. This is very timely and really good advice!

[@meder07]

Susan, you are gift to us suffering through a break up with our 'story' of our ex. No matter how much intellectualizing, spiritualizing or physical activity we undertake, our hearts need time to process, heal and move on. Thank you and to everyone who shares their story for making this transition more bearable.

[@abluehole]

So much wisdom in your words, thank you

[@Teebabii922]

What you said from 4:30 until the end allowed the 💡 to come on.. TY💕

[@MegaJae]

You deserve more viewers and subscribers because so many broken hearts out there would find your videos very enlightening for them 💗💗💗💗

[@TheKapias]

Thank you you Susan this helped greatly!❤️❤️ dealing with a widower from bad childhood!

[@julies1825]

Looking to release all of this to finally be free. Holding on to the smallest amount of happiness in the beginning stage of the relationship! Got to let go as I’m only hurting myself. Thank you ❤️🙏🏼

[@j.c.4906]

Thank you Susan. I really needed to hear that right now.

[@maryisabel2115]

Your comforting words have saved so many from mental suicide torture , everyone needs to have you in their contacts for sessions 🤗

[@onkelzhamburg72]

Even when I watch another 1.000 of such videos, I still want her! She was the love of my life!

[@johng.4959]

It's not a good place to be when you long for things the way they were... Thank you for this video as it is a gentle reminder about what happens when you want the unobtainable.

[@beebeezee770]

Thank you, thank you, thank you. You have freed my heart after 5 long years. I am so grateful to you. You have given me back my life and my peace. I thought I was trapped forever, but I am now free again to spread my wings and sail into new and more exciting adventures.💜💙💚💛🧡❤ You truly changed my life, my destiny and I will be forever grateful. May you be abundantly blessed always.