Why bad things happen to good people | Buddhism In English I Inner Guide Special Video

[@darshanad10]

The best revenge is no revenge. Just forget they exist.😊Don't take revenge.Let karma do all the works 😊.Never give up great things take time.👍Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@na-ra8701]

Wise man man once said, don't take revenge, rotten fruits will fall by themselves,that's what I remembered when I read your comment😊

[@darshanad10]

@@na-ra8701 Everything will fall into place.Be patient.Silence is sometimes the best answer.😊👍

[@na-ra8701]

@@darshanad10 definitely. Patience is a virtue❤

[@darshanad10]

Great things take time.Bro just believe in yourself. 👍😊

[@gerardzabalza4894]

Let karma do it? Forgive it,there are beautiful words .How and to whom are you going to say this?People in painful existence(mourning a daughter whose been raped and killed by bad guys in one Western country)Just tell them to forgive? They will look at you weirdly? And you will be lucky if no-one takes a pump shot gun, and run after you.🌹 🕉🙏

[@thekagifret]

If you focus on the pain, you will start to suffer. If you focus on the lesson, you will grow 💕🌸

[@priyankapriya4636]

Tq u so much 😄 this inspires me to be better bcz I gone through so much bad and negative experiences since my childhood, bcz people comparing me with my younger sister in everything

[@ebazileyes1475]

First tou have to know what thr lesson is. Lesson don't miraculously say hey " I am the lesson". People go through a lot in life and still have no idea why can't see the reason or lessons. Maybe others can that too depends how your mind operate, belief, faith etc

[@Robert47779]

@@priyankapriya4636

[@bernadettekelly8165]

Amen ❤❤❤❤

[@LUX_BXDDIEE-dg2qm]

Deep man ❤ :) you’re very right! 💕

[@meerabsohail8889]

*_I'm a pure muslim, and i respect all the religions, i really appreciated your style of motivating others_* Thnx a lot sir 😊

[@bapibapi61]

Thanks To U sir.... Respect for Ur Thinking

[@meerabsohail8889]

@@bapibapi61 *Welcome dear but I'm not a sir* 😁😊

[@bapibapi61]

@@meerabsohail8889 this type of thinking deserve a Title Sir

[@meerabsohail8889]

@@bapibapi61 *wow, THANKS bro* 😁

[@ansilajaleel4246]

😌🙌🙌🙌

[@MsMochakiss123]

I was crying when I listened to this. My husband broke my heart after loving him faithfully. I asked myself, why me?! Thank you for sharing this video. Thank you for enlightening my mind.

[@adishegokar]

everything is gonna be fine. god is with you.❤

[@MsMochakiss123]

@@adishegokar thank you

[@shantachopra7267]

Very nicely explained

[@chithranair890]

Don't worry dear everything will be fine... Some people come to our life to teach us great lessons.. Life is uncertain everyone has their own struggles... So be happy and take life as it is let us focus on what we have let us be more great full so that more good things will happen in our life.. Trust me..

[@deepikanarasimha6009]

Yes .my husband after 21years is hurting me so deeply😢i don't know what to do😢

[@darshanad10]

What HURTS you today makes you STRONGER tomorrow.😊❤We all here for reason.Stop being a prisoner of your past😊.Become the architect of your future.Always try to be positive in any situation.😊👍Namo buddha .🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@kritikagambhir7348]

Thanks for giving a summary. Now I don’t have to listen😂

[@dharanipriyashanmugam1692]

This is so positive 🙏thankyou

[@meenu5920]

I wana die

[@mominlok4042]

Easy to say but difficult to accept

[@manickamramachandran5859]

Man's wisdom is foolish to God.

[@dash_knowledge_1M]

I am a hindu guy but i really love the way of his explanation , and after hearing one of his teachings I get my energy charged. Thank you Guruji.

[@jeewanbhatt5741]

I am also Hindu bro I always heard him because he is only merrar of the bhudaa

[@baburamkc7189]

Me too ✋️

[@krishnapriyasoorajkumar9465]

Yes , that's true

[@engineeringka14da]

Likewise

[@leekc2574]

A good doctrine or concept should be applicable to all humanity, irregardless of race, religion.....

[@norlanylaniog5142]

I am Roman Catholic but i love watching & listening to your video, good motivation in life. Thank you🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️.

[@akakikundaolivia2993]

Catholic as well

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല. എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും? ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.

[@adhi2826]

@@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441 Kazhinjo?? Ithokke english il ezhuthiyal alle ayalk manasilakoo

[@thegospelmessenger1corinth634]

Norlany Laniog - how to be saved? Romans 1:16 - King James Version 16 For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek. (The Letter of Paul to the Romans) Romans 5 - King James Version 18 Therefore as by the offence of one judgment came upon all men to condemnation; even so by the righteousness of one the free gift came upon all men unto justification of life. (offence of one - Adam's one trespass, one sin, led to the condemnation of all men - the righteousness act of one was Jesus' death on the cross to pay for human sin) Salvation is not getting your sins forgiven, it's believing they already are! We are all sinners and fall short in God his glory - how to be saved - this is the gospel of salvation - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4 by trusting and believing the gospel of salvation you are saved and sealed with the Holy Spirit of promise till the day of redemption and nothing can pluck you out of the Father his hand - (In whom we have redemption through his blood , even the forgiveness of sins: (Colossians 1:14 - King James Version) - eternal security is a free gift - it's a promise and God Almighty cannot lie!!! Have a blessed day! This is the gospel of salvation - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4 Witnesses of Christ's resurrection. 1) Moreover,brethren, I declare unto you the gospel which I preached unto you, which also ye have received, and wherein ye stand; 2) ''By which also ye are saved, if ye keep in memory what I preached unto you, unless ye have believed in vain. 3) For I delivered unto you first of all that which I also received, how that Christ died for our sins according to the scriptures; 4) And that he was buried, and that he rose again the third day according to the scriptures. IT IS FINISHED... Paid in Full !!! But, You Must BELIEVE IT - 1 Corinthians 15:1-4 KJV. 2 Timothy 2 King James Version 15 Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth. Romans 2:16 King James Version 16 In the day when God shall judge the secrets of men by Jesus Christ according to my gospel. (Paul's Gospel - 1 Corinthians chapter 15 verses 1-4). KJV - Bible verses about Jesus is God John 1:1 - In the beginning was the Word, and the Word was with God, and the Word was God. John 1:14 - And the Word was made flesh, and dwelt among us, (and we beheld his glory, the glory as of the only begotten of the Father,) full of grace and truth. John 10:30 - I and my Father are one. Isaiah 9:6 - For unto us a child is born, unto us a son is given: and the government shall be upon his shoulder: and his name shall be called Wonderful, Counsellor, The mighty God, The everlasting Father, The Prince of Peace. John 20:28 - And Thomas answered and said unto him, My Lord and my God. John 8:58 - Jesus said unto them, Verily, verily, I say unto you, Before Abraham was, I am. For solid bible study please visit 'Truth Time Radio' - learn the truth and unlearn the lies!

[@angelofgod5418]

This man will be better for the people if he only he discovered JESUS the One and True Living God...

[@7660jk]

Words are easy to be said. Who is going through it knows how difficult it is.

[@wafo133]

Absolutely 🤕 tell this to the people in Ukraine

[@jeyashriselvadurai2211]

Exactly

[@lakshyakumarjha7240]

True

[@nityavaishnaw]

💯

[@winnieamar9368]

I totally agree.

[@sudeshnapodder5876]

Sometimes the bad people get lot of support from other people and the good people get no support from others. Others think that the good can manage all the situations of their own. This also makes a difference in life.

[@ryanomahony2060]

Thank YOU

[@pavithravijayan6683]

whenever I asked my mom why always we suffer when people doing wrong enjoy their lives happily and my mother used to reply that it's because God loves us so he is making us stronger. When she left the world her words helped me and I always said to myself God is making me stronger. And yes it made me strong Always beleive that the bad days are making you stronger because you are his creation

[@deepikashrivastava2098]

Is your life better now?

[@deepar2226]

Mom chose the wrong path as she wanted to enjoy and wronged me.i told her i didnt want to be like her and left her

[@RS-sr6nu]

@Satyakee Sarkar Hinduism is not a religion. It's just a culture.

[@smartthink3035]

Tq😊

[@annarasmus8737]

Pffffttttttt

[@singhachang7630]

1) Life is unfair 2) You will grow through what you go through 3) Focus on the positive. Thank you very much for helping us to get through life without giving up.

[@NNA1984]

Sometimes life is fair, sometimes life is not. Over generalization is not correct.

[@plaguedoctorblackmaskx8489]

Life is unfair i think it's because of these four countries America, Israel, Russia And China. Nobody should love Israel. Everyone should love Iran over Israel.

[@stephaniejordan9066]

This is true

[@afghanatheist813]

Guys I am ex Muslim but I really love Budisim 🙏 oh soo sweet Dharma ❤️ love from Afghanistan 🙏 namo Buddhay

[@jeewanbhatt5741]

Love you bro you are loyal and party people I think

[@thep.sakdaintnanchai1993]

🌿⚘🌿from Thailand💐

[@praxd9778]

Welcome to the world of freedom and liberation! Hope you are safe wherever you are.

[@tharushaliyanage-cw9vf]

Thats because u hve buddhism hidden in ur genes over generations.❤ Afghanistan was a buddhist country 😢

[@shusambarua4196]

Bro!Once Afghanistan was jewel of the Dhamma. Namo Buddhay from Bangladesh

[@tishanidewmini6428]

"Bring your focus from the negativity to the positivity and don't expect the fairness from this unfair life" Thank you so much NAMO BUDDHA YA

[@hinashah1288]

It is also negative thought 💭 bcz if we see life is good we see positive things and we see it is unfair life then we will not grow and not move to good things

[@travelfoodandfun....withru1112]

there is so many things to learn from this video.... Namo Buddha

[@sliva7938]

Re your first sentence - so, live under the bridge with a bottle of booze and be happy? How convenient for the governments.

[@mr2gbffyt735]

Life is like a book When we are reading a book We go through sad chapters We go through happy chapters We go through adventures chapters But if someone met a sad chapters and he stopped reading that book and keep it away because it was a sad chapter You cannot enjoy the whole essence of the book Life is also like that When we are living our life there will be happy chapters There will be sad chapters of our life and also there will be adventurous chapters But if we stop in the sad chapters Of our life what will happen We will never make our life successfull

[@rebinalaishram7867]

Life is like a journey we go through many roads up and down ,, tragedy accident death heaven , hell is the destination

[@jacquelinehillson9589]

Some people’s life don’t have any happy chapters, it just so happens that perhaps ours have, we only think in the context of our life’s naturally, or the majority, it’s not true for everyone sadly.

[@erasedshallbehisname5100]

@@jacquelinehillson9589 Thanks for acknowledging us who don't, in difference to 99,9% of all the comments here.

[@georgiaramirez4484]

This is what I needed this time. I hardly accept people do bad things to me when I had done many good deeds to them. I hardly get good sleep thinking why these are happening. With your teachings I am starting to let go and be positive. I know God will bless me abundantly maybe not now but just wait. I thank you for waking me up and accept the reality of life and continue to moving on with God beside me.

[@MeditationWithElsa]

Hi! Have you watched his video about how to deal with toxic people? 😊

[@SweetUniverse]

May life's abundance be yours 🙏🙏🙏

[@a.s2118]

Don't expect god to bless you or you may be disappointed again ❤

[@SS-tr1th]

gods are myths. they don't exist

[@iRedditTales]

If you’re reading this comment, it’s too late, you’ve already been immensely blessed with an abundance of love, wealth, luck, health, joy, and whatever else your heart desires!! I’m so proud of you for surviving everything you’ve been through. This is your sign to go after what your heart most desires for the highest good, it’s your time..

[@vikingsailorboy]

This guy is beautiful inside and out. Cutest smile and dimples. Plus most importantly, his heart and soulful wisdom.

[@bessk8847]

Hes the most chill monk ❤

[@goldendiamon]

He is very handsome to me

[@anushree8984]

😂😂🎉​@@goldendiamon

[@goldendiamon]

@@anushree8984 He's what I imagined what Aang in Avatar would look like

[@simmisimmi8942]

Nothing is in our control from birth to death...but sometimes it's difficult to find the ray of hope....

[@febee5285]

Yes .

[@mnayak9348]

Keep doing right thing then whatever happens. Expectation from life is uncertain so why worry

[@namehere4954]

We 100% control our perspective (thoughts/emotions) of events. You choose the world you see. You don't need to find hope, you need to find acceptance. Finding hope is saying I reject reality and want it to be different - well it may never be different. YOU need to be different not reality.

[@flirtyflo6216]

And you can't even escape with suicide if there's an afterlife.

[@12347873]

The population in this world is getting higher than in Jesus Christ time.Birth can be control by condom,it is because of mother n fucker enjoy super wild orgasm that the young one had to came to this world suffer food,shelter,hardship, unhappiness, accident,disaster, covid n more.Where can u say it a rebirth?

[@nilukshianuththara7982]

තෙරුවන් සරනයි 🙏🙏🙏🙏 I'm buddhist.I'm from srilanka ❤️🇱🇰 So I'm very happy about it .🙏

[@bhargavshrimali579]

Am also budhist

[@bhargavshrimali579]

✨ Namo ✨ budhay ✨

[@phoenix2500s]

I love your national anthem too...

[@hemantgade6029]

Hi

[@soponchanseatipon7761]

I wish I could go to visit Sri Lanka once . It's a beatiful country.

[@arati166]

If you expect fairness from this unfair life, you'll end up with tiredness 🙂

[@shraddhapawar]

As Buddhist, even before learning the basics of Buddhism I knew this theory naturally. And believe me, no one taught me this. I just knew it naturally that good humans do no take revenge or blame destiny. Good people forgive and FORGET. Good people do not let their soul get stained with such worthless things. Good people stay silent and move ahead. 🙏

[@tenzinsangpo2221]

The key is to forget , forgeting you don't have to forgive a thing. You you are able to keep away the faults, you don't need to forgive a thing, then you will forget them.

[@marifujisawa2942]

But what if they don’t forgive and you’re living in this sad life just waiting for a break like it’s taking forever?

[@carlospina6843]

Very true

[@marifujisawa2942]

As it’s happening to me and hubby for the past 10 years now. We haven’t been able to see touch or even feel our beloved daughter after my son separated frm his wife..the law in japan doesn’t allow parental joint custody, etc. we tried reaching out now that she’s much older to no avail… how can you move on from this? We’ve forgiven, we take each day like our last, but we’re sad and lonely.

[@charlotterockel-kennedy8913]

@@marifujisawa2942 sending you prayers , love, light and strength to see you through this terrible ordeal . That must be so heartbreaking. Trust that these things happen for a reason and believe in a positive outcome. All the best for you 💖

[@yashjadhav8919]

For me, loneliness and my social anxiety are the antagonists of my life. Whenever these two aspects take over, I get depressed. But with time, I started believing that loneliness is not a flaw, it's a gift. I take it as an advantage to build myself, with an hope to lead a happy and prosperous life ahead 😌😇 Never give up guys everybody who go through tough times deserve a better life.

[@MF-xp9tq]

May you know great joy, great companionship, great peace!

[@darlingchloe88]

Very well said😇😇

[@sunshineshining4167]

Hope you are on the right path

[@yashjadhav8919]

@@MF-xp9tq Thank you for your wishes 😊

[@yashjadhav8919]

@@darlingchloe88 Thank you 😊

[@kushanchamod2661]

Now I’m a happy person than past me because Lord buddha’s says and lessons turn me good side.I’m soo happy to be a buddhist Namo Buddaya 😊🙏🏻❤️

[@LessonsInLife]

You are so much stronger than you give yourself credit for and you're capable of doing anything in this world. I believe in you.

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല. എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും? ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.

[@sangeetanair3643]

"Learn to Let go" to be happy.. Nothing is permanent

[@ranganimadushanikamanathun5874]

I am reading a very sad chapter of my life these days. Because my sister passed away. She was so young and good. I was thinking that life is so unfair. This teaching helps me a lot. So much greaful for all the teachings Swaminwahansa 🙏🙏🙏

[@terrestrialastronomy8980]

I can feel for you. Stay strong

[@sujatashroff6385]

Your voice is very soothing. Life is unfair to me since last 38 years. No career, no money, no marriage, divorce. Only good thing is I can connect with God. No materialistic life. No relationship. Only betrayal for me.

[@jayeshkam123]

Don't Accept all this , just Move forward....

[@geetikasethi2752]

Also 'only good thing' as written in comment may be the best thing....

[@dkdollykumari7]

Just start searching job, be spiritual and focus on positive things you have you will attract good life and good partner too ❤

[@oskarumesh2394]

Delivering sermons in English is a good thing so that everyone in the world can realise this valuable Buddhism and It is pleasure to see srilanken Buddist monks delivering sermons in English .

[@shiranigunawardena9211]

sadhu--sadhu--sadhu.

[@enjoyfullifenatural.cultiv8441]

മറ്റ് മനുഷ്യ നിർമിതി ആചാരങ്ങൾ, പുസ്തകത്തിന്, "വിശുദ്ധo" എന്ന് വിളിക്കുന്നു. ഈ പുസ്തകo എങ്ങനെ വിശുദ്ധമാകുo?. നിങ്ങൽ നിങ്ങളൂടെ ഇത്രേം നാൾ നിങ്ങളുടെ വിലയേറിയ ജീവിതത്തിൽ, അവർ നിങ്ങളോട് 'യഥാർത്ഥ' സത്യമാണോ പറയുന്നതെന്ന് കണ്ടെത്താൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? നിങ്ങളുടെ വ്യക്തിത്വം മനസ്സിൽഅകാൻ നിങ്ങൾ എന്താണ് ചെയ്തത്? ഇവ എല്ലാം പൂർണ്ണമായി അല്ലെങ്കിൽ ചരിത്രം പഠിക്കുക. ഇതൊന്നും സത്യo ഇല്ല. എല്ലായ്പ്പോഴും അതായത് മനുഷ്യരാശിയുടെ ജീവിതകാലത്തോ, ഏത് സമയത്തോ, സാഹചര്യത്തിലോ, മനുഷ്യരാശിക്ക് എങ്ങനെ ഭൂമിയിൽ സന്തോഷത്തോടെ ജീവിക്കാനാകും? ജീവിതം പഠിക്കുക: പ്രകൃതിദത്തo: ലളിതവും, ശാന്തവുo. ഭക്ഷണത്തിന്റെയും എല്ലാത്തിന്റെയും ഏറ്റവും കുറഞ്ഞ ഉപയോഗം.

[@damayanthiwickremeratne9785]

That’s exactly what I do never let the negativity get the better of me. Through my practice of Buddhism I have learnt to let go of bad people bad vibrations and live in the moment of happiness come what may.

[@hibiarumusteku3917]

Mashallah, what a great video!. I was a Moslem, and I tolerate other religions. This video has illuminated me so much 😄. I'm really thanfull for the words, he was so calm, and speaking in a soft tone. This really lifts up my pain and burdens in my heart 😫😄💐‼. Thank you so much 🙏💐💐💐‼.

[@fsxmantra]

You said 'I was a Moslem' meaning you're no longer of that faith?

[@findwithpeedee9707]

Be a buddhist 🙂 be a human. Not a slave of a magical god 🙂

[@friendship9904]

Each religion means something like Muslims means fast and help the poor with food and we should be grateful for what we have like food water health survival Christan means forgive and give a hand to someone who's down Buddha means spirit from the inside not the outside it's what's the inside not outside like how U feel not how U look Those 3 real regilous groups understands each other because never judge others culture or regilon fellow Ur hearts it will help us

[@TheAswathraman]

@@friendship9904 Truly said. I believe all rivers end up in A ocean, that means all religion will end up to one god the almighty.

[@yvettetorres7829]

Tolerate??? Interesting

[@aniyadesilvafrancis91]

Whatever i do goodthings to people but i used to get bad responses. It hurts me lot.kind hearted people always get hurt.in this sermon i leant lot of lessons.thank you sadu for encouraging us.sadu sadu sadu

[@blackberrybunny]

I am an American, and we are worlds apart when it comes to our heritage and ethnicity. Regardless, wonderfully, your teachings, the words you use, your gestures and expressions, and the way you tell these teachings are so beautiful that sometimes you literally make me cry. I am going through one of the hardest times of my life. I just lost my Mom. She died two days before Christmas. I am blind, and have no siblings, and am so overwhelmed and confused and I don't know what to do. I try to watch one of your videos every day to motivate me to keep going. I send love to you. Lovingkindness. And wholehearted "thank you"s over and over. You are helping me spark happiness every day through my grief.

[@suedeundara8766]

Wish you happiness. Look forward in your life. Not backward.

[@kimberlydavis5034]

Sometimes we have to end unhealthy toxic relationships and negativity out of our lives. We can love truly but that doesn't mean that they love us. Let go of the negativity and all chaos out of our lives.

[@kimberlydavis5034]

@Jokes Apart Not everyone is fortunate enough to have good parents. Some people have terrible parents. Some people's parents have abused their children. So if you have loving parents feel blessed because not everyone has good parents.

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@leekc2574]

Try to see the good in them, and if u still can't find any, then u probably just have to let go.....

[@chippyflippy]

I was nodding my head reading your comment, I totally agree 🙏

[@charlotterockel-kennedy8913]

Thank you for this beautiful video. Your aura and your character are shining with pure love and happiness. I feel so much lighter and happier just by watching you. You are truly a beautiful person, from the outside and inside and the world would be such an amazing place if we could all shine like you 💖💖💖🙏

[@chandanawimalaweera4725]

👍❤

[@nilsfer]

Charlotte, you are a beautiful person , soul. That's you see the beauty in others.

[@violetabarbalat7702]

❤

[@zindagilive7620]

I m going thru a v v difficult time in my life.. I suffrd domestic and emotional abuse frm my husband and inlaws from last 2 year's.. but now I hv decided to get out of it.. enough is enough.. God gv me the strength to live a respectful life ND financially independent.. your words are gvng me healing n strength

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@chippyflippy]

There definately comes a point when enough is enough. How are things with you now? 🙏

[@moniquetheobald5559]

I am CoE, I am so interested in Buddism, thank you for your love and kindness. 🙏

[@YesFall143]

What a kind man. He puts me at ease with just his voice.

[@ayushi...3799]

Even my mom hurts me, she don't make me feel like I m loved. So how can I expect other to pursue me but this video is maybe a reason of new hope in me

[@sandrawhelan9159]

It’s hard to move forward when you lose loved ones, even though I know they have gone to a better place. It doesn’t stop you from feeling loss and pain. You know what you must do , to let go , to move on. Just saying it’s very difficult.

[@sweetadversity]

We have to move forward and think of how much joy and pleasure it would give our departed loved ones to see us genuinely living, genuinely loving all of the beauty and wonder of this world. We honour the dead by living life to the fullest! 🙏

[@dianakasteleijn5042]

Agree Sandra

[@SaptarshiSyam]

When a baby is born they cry…sleep 16 hrs a day and cry when hungry…. But no one knows what happens when we die…. Every people has their own version of after life… i ve read several books on this yet so many difference in the opinions…. That makes us wonder whether the departed souls are really in a happy place or not? We miss the person and mourn the inability to spend time with them…. But we would be happier if there was a universal opinion on life after death which unfortunately is not there….

[@Sam-nb8ev]

@@SaptarshiSyam I also used to think on similar lines like you. However, I changed my views after having what I can call ' very very pleasant extrasensory experiences '. But words aren't enough to describe these experiences.

[@rengigihearts]

Grief is the love continues after they are gone. Shows how much love there is for them but the good part is to be grateful they were part of your life and shaped you by their kindness and lessons 😢

[@bettywho67]

I only ask why innocents suffer. I understand pain is an opportunity to learn and grow. Explaining that to the abused, the sick and those in unbearable pain sounds like empty useless words and platitudes. 🌻

[@gerardzabalza4894]

I agree 👍 💯 🌹

[@funloving969]

There's a theory in buddhism. Every thing happening has a cause. There are 5 causes and anything that happens under the sun comes under any of these 5. 1. Beeja niyamaya (these terms are in paali and they cannot be exactly translated in to english terms that gives sense) it is like seeds. Reason for it to be a mango tree is because the seed was a mango seed. Sth like it. It explains the origin of things. 2. Uthu niyaamaya It is weather. If your cultivation destroys due to rain, the reason is weather. If you got sunburns, its because you walked in the sun. Sth like that. 3.kamma niyaama. Cause is your actions. What you have done in this life or what you have done in your previous lives. Your merits and sins from previous life, helps or harms you in this life. And if the merits and sins are very strong, you will recieve the effects in the same life itself. 4. Damma niyaama 5. Chittha niyama. Im not good at explaining these theories they are deeper than this. You can ask that question from a buddhist monk and he'll explain clearly

[@vq8gef32]

I am going through lots of things at the moment. Lost my personal life and struggling like a ship in a heavy storm. Last Friday I reached to 0, I want to be dead .. till I found you .. I know now what it means to be 0 and have no one around you to help you to get up. Thanks for this video ... and I wish no one get into what I am going through, Amen.

[@portiabrown2913]

This phase will pass and you will blossom again 😊

[@fatema-tuzzohara8918]

Are you okay now?

[@c.c1940]

Praying for your healing process

[@michelnimesh1630]

I was so depressed and after watching this it’s really give me a reason to live. Because I’m a really a good person too and always bad things happen to me

[@suvadeepghosh4459]

Don't worry sir.. by the end of ur life, ur life would be scripted well by God if u learn and be stronger and does good karma...so just take care yourself..

[@chamanipunchihewacp]

I'm sure there will be many good chapters in your life too 😌

[@ddbala]

You must be in a sad chapter of your life. Expect a happy chapter coming soon for you!! The cycles keep going for all of us. At least we have found spiritual sources like this channel. God bless you!!!

[@talltree4252]

If you proceed to say think always bad things happen to me then they do...you have to dig deeper into your way of thinking the way you carry yourself to transform your life

[@lifeislivinglove9073]

The person that can bring you to path of your life as it was before You want to know right It's👉 You yourself 👈 Remember the happiest happiest moment till now , guess🤔 the feeling ❤🧡💛what you were feeling Compare ⬅️it to now⬇️ Forget whatever any one done to you forget absolutely Then remember you would be feeling successful😇 and hardships😊 payed off right or anything you were enjoying ☺️😊😄😃😀 This was you ,This is you ,This will be always you

[@joey_bruno]

So true!! I’d actually learned a lot frm the past 2 yrs,I’m like totally thrown into a deep black hole but I’m grateful things happened,it makes me realised how strong I am!I can go through every single problems frm physically to mentally and surprisingly my life is slowly moving frm worse to good! Always be grateful,be blessed,be patient,believe and don’t blame others!!

[@Derrickbernardbba]

If you focus on the pain you will start suffering. But if you focus on the lesson, then you will start learning lessons.

[@na-ra8701]

Thank you so much thank you so much🥺this helped me a lot to get rid of the stress which I currently dealing with. Namo Buddhaya ! Everything will be fine, Believe in yourself, Sun will shine for you oneday and roses will bloom in your path 😊❤

[@darshanad10]

Always keep smilng and be happy bro😊👍Namo buddha.🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@suvadeepghosh4459]

Thanks u sir .ur written speech also inspires me alot.. thanks alot.. take care sir..

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@wathsalananayakkara1825]

I listen to your videos daily. They helped me get through my darkest moments in life and helped me to have positive mind no matter what life throws at me. I’m very grateful. Thank you very much. Theruwan saranai!

[@Tani-kb2xg]

This video became the turning point of my weekness of focusing on negativity. Now I learnt how to grow positively without regretting on them Bohoma pin pinwath swaminwahansa 🙏🙏. Namo Buddhaya

[@mjhmr8]

This made me feel better I was in a car accident two weeks ago and I feel fear and also scared when I’m in a car. I have ptsd because of the incident, but after listening to you , you gave me a sense of comfort. Thank you

[@mahe4102]

Learning the truth gives inner (true) happiness. Keep learning and practicing the teachings and it will help you more and more! :)

[@olgatrilogymartin3143]

Face your fear head on u will squash it eventually step by step

[@trenaoelschlager3981]

I was in a car wreck years ago...and remember feeling the fear you have been experiencing. BUT in time..it will fade and not be so troublesome. Time will heal all.

[@mjhmr8]

@@trenaoelschlager3981 thank you ❤️

[@mithunsarkar7002]

It is very hard to forgive bad people. It is very hard to not take revenge.But if we succeed to forgive others by not taking revenge then we can get peace in the way of Lord Buddha. We should forget the bad people from our life.Namo Buddhay.Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu.

[@Rehabotium]

I am a Lutheran Christian and I love your teachings. It brings new life and dept in spirituality . Thank you ❤

[@pauleenmaynard7702]

Yes I am so much stronger than I think.and thank you for reminding me. Blessings to everyone.

[@Annu-Ambili]

I am going through a very horrible time. I am a devotee of Krishna(Guruvayoorappan). I was asking god why this always happens to me. I can't take it anymore. I have been strong for a long time. But today I am unable to control my tears. One of the worst days in my life.After hearing your words my heart feels lighter🙏🏻

[@gabykappscomposermariagabr749]

Am following Buddhist practices, of mindfulness, relinquishing the ego, kindness, compassion, acceptance and meditation. It has opened new and beautiful horizons in my life.

[@imlady50]

Suffering is enlightening! Learning from hurting past experiences make one stronger, and one doesn't need to repeat the lesson and stay stuck or continue repeating the circle until the lesson is learned! I know that from experience! Excellent and beautiful message ❤️ 😊

[@gideoneddy676]

Very true

[@abhijeetgaikwad7174]

I always had this question but since I practice Vipassana, & listen to such videos. I cope with it better . Namo Buddhay !!! 🙏🙏🙏

[@TheGreatestOfAllTime_444]

I also went through a very tough time in my life for the past two years . One day when i'm scrolling through YT shorts , i saw a short video from this channel and after watching it i watched all short videos from this channel. It's almost months ago but i still watch all short videos again and again because .... life's full of ups and downs and when i feel down , all i want is to watch a short video from this channel. Namo buddhaya 🙏 theruwan saranai 🙏

[@DineshSharma-nc8zy]

Thank you just before I listened to your lovely speech, I did the same to my dear friend who unknowingly let me down years back , I have forgiven him for him to do well in life, may God bless him. Love you for your wonderful motivating words.

[@sk9968032]

Very insightful.. Namo Buddhay. I am passing through my life's bad chapters today as you told I will wait for bright future. Namo Buddhay

[@truckindawg1]

I have to say I really enjoyed this video. I’ve never in my life listened to anything regarding Buddhism. But I was searching KZbin for no good deed goes unpunished and this is what I came across. What a great message.

[@rewagarcha5527]

Yes so true.. You will grow through what you go through.. We should learn from the pain,the hard times.. Thank you so much sir.. Namo budhaye🙏

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@MamaCancer23]

So glad this channel was suggested to me! Such great wisdom. Exactly what I need. Thank you so much for sharing ✨

[@mahe4102]

So happy to hear you found this channel by chance. Wishing you continue to learn about the truth of life. It gives you strength and inner happiness 😊

[@antonietamariainaciagomes4230]

Dear Buddha, we should always think possitive. Then only we r happy in our lives. U r absolutely 💯 true. I love ur teachings. 💗 bcz they r exactly 💯 true. No body will get bed of roses. We have to make them. God bless you dear Buddha 🙏 ❤️

[@definitelynotRiz]

Sometimes pain doesn't makes you stronger bc if you know you were already strong then it hits you more and more. it would weaken you. Sometimes pain is not really helpful at all. It just gives people anxieties, hardcore depressions and a distraction from being already stronger But even if you suffered. Good news is: there is always a sunshine after the rain. 🤗

[@vaish87]

Exactly my case😐

[@erasedshallbehisname5100]

I agree with everything except the last sentence.

[@bonitatorres5543]

This is the exact reason for the video. Listen to it a few times until it registers.

[@douvtkitchen9775]

​@@erasedshallbehisname5100it is not like that there is always sunshine after rain it is ur mentality u have to change more negative we think more it attracts try to be positive Nd this change depends from person to person sometimes It will take time but slowly and steadily try to make positive changes in ur life love ur self u will see difference God bless you

[@goldendiamon]

Sometimes pain cause memory loss though,which makes you lose empathy if no one guides you how to heal from it and your frontal lobe will be affected

[@tindepapp]

How peacefully is he talking, understandable, simple . So trueful. It seams so simple, so help yourself and God, Buddha, destiny will help you. The final desitions are ours.. good, bad, happy, sad. Thank you

[@CoachAmardeep]

My life's lesson: Life is unfair and unpredictable...what you go through you grow through that..if stop reading the sad chapter you'll not experience the good chapter...focus on.the bright side...focus on.the lesson learned through the problems...Namo buddhay 🙏

[@shannonpmitchell]

I try to remember that bad things happen to other good people too and sometimes it’s even worse. We have to forgive, accept, learn and keep going on.

[@suzannakato6091]

Oh my God, so drawn by your videos. They heal, comfort and teach me how to behave while still on this planet earth.

[@neinkalando2519]

Thank you so much for your words of compassion and wisdom, I have never heard that from a Christian in my 58 years

[@haseenafathima4365]

You will grow through what you go through !!!!

[@ashamim5750]

Forgiveness makes miracles. Forgive all, u will attain peace. Afterall every ones ultimate goal is peace. This is what all religious preach.

[@nathananderson8720]

This is one of the channels that gave me the courage to start my KZbin channel 8 months ago about self development. Now I have 773 subs and > 300 hours of watch time. I know it’s not comparable with others but I’m still proud I started because I’ve been learning so many lessons that I could haven’t learned without getting started in the 1st place.

[@aartman2]

BAD THINGS HAPPEN TO EVERYONE... AS FOR GOOD PEOPLE: GOOD PEOPLE CARE! BAD PEOPLE DO NOT! THAT IS WHY GOOD PEOPLE TAKE NOTE & SAY: WHY DO BAD THINGS ALWAYS HAPPEN TO ME! IS BECAUSE YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON & HAVE THE GIFT OF A GOOD HEART & BAD PEOPLE DO NOT! SO NEXT TIME YOU FIND YOURSELF ASKING THIS QUESTION, REMEMBER, YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON! ❤

[@olgatrilogymartin3143]

Well said

[@richardkerr6091]

Well we think it’s bad I believe the experience can be turned into an asset and when a woman gives birth There is Pain involved but the reward is a Beautiful child

[@erasedshallbehisname5100]

Makes sense.

[@freetube508]

Unaccepted & unexpected happenings or people actually helps us to awakening & cleansing our soul energy

[@Be_FeliZ_01]

Hello Everyone,I am not from any religion but I am the human being who is suffering in my life ,which is unexpected.. And this question comes to my mind that " why only me" ,why these problems are coming in my life..but after listening to this ,I can say everything happens for a reason.|| Namo Budhaya 🙏🙏||

[@shamugapriyasundarrajan6515]

Life is unfair and never expect fairness from it... Focus on blessings and shift attention from negativity to positivity... We have to experience goodness as well as bad... It's all about accepting everything and keep going with positive thoughts.. Tough times gives us experiences and move ahead with having gratitude for what God has blessed us....

[@sandelic7529]

I start everyday watching your videos. It helps me a lot to get over the tough time. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya.

[@buddhinieyapadahanayake5169]

Forgive and forget! It’s hard to practice. But believe me , you can do it too !

[@joyontibarua9102]

Bondhonna bhante Im Buddhist . From Bangladesh. 16 years old .give me bless bhante

[@christinagarneysnaturalmys9738]

Son I am from Sri Lanka. Been living in London for the past 58 Yeats I have been back and fourth. Now that I have retired I would love to have my dream and return for Good. I was raised a Catholic. Although my heart has always been humble and simple but wise. I am so glad that I subscribed as although I believe there is only one creator word in English name God who nows. The most high one the creator of all life forms living.. So listening to son makes me inner stand the mantra's. As I did not know before so not so .I all grateful for all what I l have learnt taken in and yet to watch and listen bless my dear one of en.-inlightment.enlighten the darkness of what I did not understand. Now I am up I do inner stand Christina Garneys one love most high blessings

[@neoenglish5545]

Great. understanding the difference between knowing and believing would open a new path of thinking.

[@myllasupatan7530]

Thank you so much for such an enlightening words, I love listening to your calm voice,positive outlook from Buddha, I'm a catholic but your teachings are so reassuring

[@ruthgoff3540]

I would love for you to do a presentation on forgiveness. As an older adult, I have great difficulty forgiving people who I thought were special in my life. Examples are family members and your very best friend. It’s so hard letting go of those you held in such high regards, only to be disappointed when you needed them most in your life. If I could find the solution for that, I would leave this world in peace.

[@lauraantic1384]

I agree i almost lost my life by my husband and best friend who did terrible things to me it was all planned to take away my kids. Today by law, i must be always in contact with him and they are FREE. They destroyed my little baby who is thak God here with me, it was so long and horrible still is what i went trough. They call me by names and if i try to deffend myself with words he is trying to scare me and report all i said to him to social services. I have to deffend myself every single day living in fear. How to forgive when you are in trap. Those are sick minds . I cry every single night and that is not a life 🦋

[@gerardzabalza4894]

As Gautama the Buddha said: " It's better to walk alone than walk with fools."And when It's time to "think " about you,make a friend of the loneliness It will help a lot! The past is passed. You will find a way to forgive, not to forget,,but to forgive. 🌹🌹🌹.

[@marilynsik8959]

Ruth it’s not difficult to do so. I did let go of my very best friend . Just focus within yourself and say I forgive you and let you go. Do the exercise of mindfulness. Breath in ( the positive) breath out( the negative). Let me tell it will lighten up the heavy burden you’re carrying. Difficult is negative . Once you set your mind on the word difficult then it’s gonna be difficult. Set one’s mind on the positive word then believe it will happen. All the best. Forgiveness is the key.Forgive and let go.

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@venerablemanshing6350]

Sarva Mangalam! Thank you my brother. For this precious teaching.

[@winesap2]

I'm glad to hear you explaining the reality of life. So many people that are into mystical thinking and new age thinking think the world and the things that happen to us are all part of some grand scheme, as if our lives are the center of the universe and the universe is playing out some plan for each of us. The universe is random. We obviously can control some things that happen to us in our lives, but when things happen, it's not for some greater purpose. Things just happen. Good things happen to horrible people, and horrible things happen to good people. It's too bad, but this is the evidence that there is no higher purpose. Things just are. I know people that will think worse of themselves for things that happen in their life that are completely random. They think the universe is punishing them for something. It's not. Things don't work that way. And this is the way that new age thinking is so damaging to so many people.

[@marilynsik8959]

Thank you thank you thank you ….. you are just one person I needed at this moment . No matter how much I have been through life I do pick up the pieces . True it makes you strong. But right now no matter how much I keep up I falter . I cried and I cried . And when your mind is trouble sleep is slipping away. So I come to open you tube and Lo and Behold you’re right there to enlighten my mind and giving me the courage to face one of the biggest struggle of my life . I could never thank you enough. It’s true in the midst of negative emotion focus on the light within you. I will do so. I do but at times I falter especially when I am consume of the pain of losing my daughter . Yes this is the sad chapter of my life . Second sad chapter . I know deeply it will make me so strong to face more struggles . As I said this is life . Some chapters are happy, sad, and adventurous . True . Been there and now back to sad chapter. But thank you …. You give me the courage and inspiration . Yes focus on the positivity in the midst of negative emotions. Not focus on negative otherwise I will suffer. 🙏🙏🙏

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@formycountry373]

Thank you ven thero for Serving sermon in English its helps many ppl ❤🙏🙏🙏 may you gain enlightenment within this Gauthama Buddha sasana 🙏🙏🙏

[@richardl772]

Bad things happen to good people. This reminds me of the saying “Thinking that life will treat you well because you’re a decent human being is a bit like thinking a bull won’t charge at you because you’re a vegetarian”. 😊

[@hepcat5199]

“Nothing is either good or bad but thinking makes it so.” William Shakespeare

[@bettyderilon8061]

Amen for this messages. Once I was hurt I prayed to forgive and pain will gone.

[@Safirush]

I'm a muslim.. Whenever i feel down, i listen to ur speeches.. it makes me feel better.. i love the way you explain and teach everything about life.. i'm also having depression.. ur kind words comfort my mind.. Thank you so much🎉

[@tikagurung9338]

🙏🙏🙏Wandana Bhante jiu Hajur Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu Bhawatu Sabba Mangalam!!!From Nepal

[@brijitbiswas8610]

Great great speech!!! Right time for me to listen because I am experiencing d same feeling. Thank you

[@Madhubala-lp1lg]

I am hindu 🕉 . I really love and listen your teaching. Har Har mahadev 🚩

[@adventurousthilina9795]

Every action has a real reaction…. That’s what I know exactly… If you can do good ,reaction also will be good 👍 If you do bad reaction will be bad . Knowing truth of this life ….do always good . Thanks for sharing this video,many thanks 🙏 May lord Buddha bless you!!!

[@foghornd1059]

I am a Buddhist and used to chant the Green Tara mantra 108x every day for years and donate to the less privilege at times and my conscious is clear. Life has not been getting any better for me in terms of health and work. I have sent the Tara statue back to the temple since. My father knows how to chant most mantras just like me. Heart sutra both in Chinese and Tibet(long version), compassionate mantra and many more as well as doing charity work. My late elder brother has the kindest heart of all. He even donate to charity despite he is just earns meagre pay. But why does he has to go through all the suffering despite having such a good heart? His suffer from diabetes with his eyes unable to see, went through 4x kidney dialysis a day with half of his lung cut off through his rib bones? Why does he have to go through all these suffering? He don't even know what he did in his so call previous life. And the bad people enjoying their lives without any suffering the least ? While I understand the dharma that is about cause and effect and talks about past, present and future life. Isn't its only fair that the bad have their immediate effect on what they did while the good ones continue to have a better life? What is there to be happy when one is in such a state? Look at Anita Mui. Such a beautiful lady with the kindest heart even till the day she die. I began to lose my faith in Buddhism after seeing so much unhappiness happens to the people who are Buddhism. But still maintain a kind heart as that's my nature. Past, present and next life. Who knows what will happen tomorrow like what you have said. Karma are just accidentally happen in life. What the Buddha teaches is try not to let people do bad. Who cares about next life. Just a month ago, a food delivery man died in a accident. He was a good husband and a kind man who just married with a baby girl. Karma from his previous life?

[@rizwanbutt970]

*I AGREE WITH YOU, LIFE IS REALLY MYSTERIOUS*

[@lisalou382]

There is always a positive in every negative ... sometimes its hard to find, yet it is always there 😊

[@hasintan6112]

yes ,nice words nice lesson,,,,thank you,

[@freetube508]

I found in my life means unexpected things happened that I do not deserve I know. But later found that happening those bad things drawing luck & blessing in my life. Also removing many more unexpected & unacceptable things or people from life fortunately

[@jayabinoli3273]

Whenever i see your video i personally feel motivated and great .Namo buddha🙏🏻🙏🏻 thanku for today lesson ..

[@patience8888]

Terawang Sarani 🙏🏼🤲🏼🌸🌸🌸. This is such a timely teaching for me. The Buddha's teachings are as relevant and 💯 percent now, as they were 2,600yrs ago. May we all strive on with diligence. Thanks for sharing Bhante 🙏🏼

[@satanramirezramos8367]

Well it is "Theruwan saranai" :)

[@spiritualworld3947]

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[@shamaleeshamalee1529]

​@@satanramirezramos8367 may the triple gems bless you. The triple gems are Buddha, Dhamma, and Sangha

[@Kasturik864]

Your smile and positivity is enough to make everyone's day guruji✨

[@athiraanilkumar2001]

എല്ലാം സഹിച്ചു, ക്ഷമിച്ചു, പരിഹാസങ്ങൾ പരാതികളില്ലാതെ സ്വീകരിച്ചു, ഒരുപാട് പേർക്ക് നന്മ ചെയ്തു, ത്യാഗങ്ങൾ സഹിച്ചു, കഷ്ടപ്പാടും ദാരിദ്ര്യവും അനുഭവിച്ചു, നല്ല ദിനങ്ങൾ വരുമെന്ന് വിശ്വസിച്ചു, എല്ലാത്തിനെയും ചെറിയ പുഞ്ചിരിയോടെ നേരിട്ടു. പരാതികൾ ഇല്ല, പരിഭവം ഇല്ല, കണക്കുകൾ ഇല്ല, തെളിവുകൾ ഇല്ല. എന്നിട്ടും എന്തകൊണ്ട്? എന്തകൊണ്ടാണ് ജീവിതത്തിൽ തോറ്റു പോയി? 😪