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[@vidzorkus6192]

"Hey, 42 here." Damn even the subtitles are in on the joke

[@Temulon]

I don't think it's a joke. People have mentioned the Douglas Adams book but it's possible that the way he pronounces the word occurs because of where he lives. I've heard him pronounce other words that begin with the letters TH as if they were an F before. You can hear it in other videos if you listen carefully. Also, I've seen other videos featuring people from Lancashire England, and they also pronounce the TH sound as an F.

[@Violet._.PhoeniX]

Um he does it on purpose 🙈😂😂

[@ixcapncrunchxi492]

@@Temulon yeah its a play on how he pronounces "Th" like "F" lmao

[@dave900575]

By his own admission in a video some years back it is, in point of fact, a nod to the answer to the ultimate question of life, the universe, everything.

[@heysaucemikehere1804]

Dave M 42 always has been the best number

[@EpicFoXD333]

KZbin is good for mental health, and procrastination as well. 😉

[@harryxiro]

I'm doing my assignment and I keep getting distracted by youtube vids, although this one has a bit to do with my assignment. Also, it's due in two days and it's two pages of writing lol

[@alix6477]

It depends on the content you are watching, there are some videos out there on KZbin to help you turn procrastination into action ;) So just stop watching top 10 stuffs over and over and try instead to watch videos about self development, you'll see guys how your life could change!

[@sharkace1740]

JUST DO IT! sry for the 2011 meme

[@lionellyndem]

Procrastination is our default mode switched on 😁

[@VALLAERION]

@@theheretic65 It is good if you actualy stick to the plan and know when is the best time to do it. The Romans and Greeks saw procastinators as geniuses.

[@dynamitethunderstruck8723]

Who here doesn't use INSTAGRAM raise your hand 🙋‍♀️

[@AlternatifKesehatanYT]

me 12

[@leonkane8240]

@@AlternatifKesehatanYT does that mean you did not use instgram 12 times?

[@leonkane8240]

@Casey Portnell just less mentally unstable? :0) I personally have found it way less complicated to be mentally UNstable & NOT better than anyone without social media. Dogs only end up on social media involuntary via humans. Dogs- 2 extra legs, the square of stability. Humans are like a table, missing 2 legs, instagram or no instagram.

[@hydrolito]

How would you know if I did?

[@dynamitethunderstruck8723]

Most confusing comment section ever hahah

[@GuruBikerTrash]

"Never get into a fight with an ugly man, for he has nothing to lose." Anon.

[@hiretards5953]

@@hydrolito that one edgy kid at class

[@trashchild5945]

hydrolito what

[@steppenfuchs5608]

@@hydrolito ehm... what? (Legally) Blind people sometimes need to wear special glasses because their eyes are sensitive to light.

[@insonh21]

never get into an argument with an ugly woman, she has everything to gain

[@pokemonprofessor68]

Deep

[@rafalobo5308]

Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder.

[@karansena]

Rafa Lobo he forgot to mention lenorda da divinci measuring face

[@zulthyr1852]

Beauty is in the eye of the Communist Party.

[@opalodino1]

lol

[@marcospaulding9568]

Rafa Lobo booty is in the eye of the b-holder

[@drjrich222]

LOL. Excellent

[@abuzzedwhaler7949]

That looks like a torture device.

[@Jeevzsk]

A Buzzed Whaler thats what she said Hehehe

[@mr.amazio1023]

Jeevzsk *_HAHAHAHHSHAHAAHAHAHA_*

[@sycamoreman9625]

"beauty is pain" as they say

[@PatWizard]

😏

[@peopleschamp3170]

A Buzzed Whaler In a way, it is a torture device

[@revacohen]

You don't have to be in the social media or read fashion magazines to have low self-esteem. If you're told on a regular basis that you're ugly, you start believing it. I had to go through that my entire teenaged years. I wasn't that overweight, but people told me I was fat and ugly, and after a while, I started believing it. There were other reasons people thought I was unattractive: my clothes were unattractive, I wore glasses, I didn't wear makeup. My mother wasn't any help: she would tell me about clothes she thought were attractive, and then I got teased. For that reason, I don't turn to her for fashion inspiration.

[@smallworldbigworld-yi3xw]

You must become your own loudest voice.

[@darkreunion7882]

Oh, that's quite sad actually. If I was in your place with my low self esteem, I wouldn't do any better. Thankfully no one cares about my redondant and simple clothes (except my mother sometimes because she wants me to wear dresses or whatever, and that I don't have that many choices of clothes. But quite frankly if I have money, I prefer buying and indulge in my hobbies rather than paying clothes). No one really commented on my physic except my mother once again because I have a little belly, and one other friend who thought I ressembled a squirrel or whatever. I never wear makeup, too much effort and to be honnest depressive people like me don't take time in dressing up in general. When I'm forced to do so, I'm embarrassed and hope people don't judge me.I wored glasses a few times in my primary school too, but not now. I'm lucky to have a mother that buy clothes that I like even if I'm not here when she choose . People always tells you to ignore the others thoughts and that you're fine the way you are, but in reality there will always be people that can't stand others judgemental eyes and are far too emotional to follow the advice. That's human beings nature, there will always be people who likes rabaissing others, and if you're different than them it's a crime. You should embrasse yourself but I know how difficult it really is. Easier said than done. I hope you can, one day, be happy and free from these chains. You deserves it. The more you are being yourself, the more genuine it will feel, and I know that there will always be people who likes others like that. Good luck!

[@michalvalta5231]

When you take a photo, you didn't just "capture a moment forever"... It's the other way around - you missed the moment!

[@Irene-gq4jr]

Michal, a few years ago I visited Helsinki and took a trip to Suomenlinna Island, a world heritage site. Of course we took some photos, but at the King's Gate in particular I watched Japanese tourists take so many photos that I wondered if they ever see the world other than through their camera. They honestly seemed to be walking around navigating by the digital screen on their cameras.

[@lightscameras4166]

@@Irene-gq4jr Exacly a moderate approach should be followed, where you feel the moment as well.

[@grahamparr4710]

You are obviously one of life's natural philosophers.

[@stephen9381]

Irene I feel like Chinese people do that everywhere, literally in Glasgow city Center and museums all I find is Chinese people with their phones and cameras out

[@rhys896]

@@stephen9381 I like to take photos of moments when i can, just to capture them. But often i'm distracted and completely forget. At first it makes me slightly annoyed, but it's honestly better then focusing on capturing photos and not being in the moment.

[@ylvarasmussen625]

I like the idea of wabi-sabi. One of my cats, Sunny, was having trouble being adopted because he was considered "ugly", as he was tortured by a group of evil teens, and left with permanent disfiguration. He's missing an ear, has a wonky foot, a misaligned jaw, and only half a tail. However, he's perfectly healthy, happy and in no way hindered by his injuries. I fell in love with him because of his appearance and personality combined. He has such a sunny disposition (hence his name) and is so loving and trusting if humans despite what he suffered through. He's purrrrfectly imperfect and a total ray of sunshine. On another note, I wonder if kintsugi is related to wabi-sabi?

[@smallworldbigworld-yi3xw]

The greatest beauty is in maintaining love despite, for a time, not being given anything resembling it.

[@davidohrstrom3517]

"Hey, would you like to go on a date with me, I find you really average"

[@smolson8471]

XD

[@heronimousbrapson863]

David Öhrström No thanks, I'm straight.

[@happydragon5077]

Yep, as if that's going to work ha ha.

[@bradylumsden3057]

I am absolutely stunningly beautiful, cus my mom says I'm handsome. And that's all the beauty I need.

[@supernova11711]

Is this your actual picture? If so, I absolutely agree!!! You are EXTREMELY beautiful!!! 😁😂🦮

[@dryb3301]

As evident by your photographs I 100% agree

[@darkreunion7882]

Yes, family's approval is the best

[@dennismwenda9654]

Man he's smooth with those promotions! I never see them coming.

[@jodierafferty6937]

Beauty is depressing nowadays. So much pressure to "look perfect"

[@goosequillian]

The situation has got so bad now that every time I reject flirtatious and narcissistic bimbos, they actually believe I am a homosexual just so that they can leave their sickly high ego intact.

[@lawrenceworrell591]

The only pressure you feel, is the one made up in your own head.

[@Miranox2]

The pressure is coming from other women, isn't it?

[@magnificentpup2875]

Tom Conradson dang! That’s hardcore that they can’t accept that someone doesn’t like them like that. ......How does it even get to that? I’m a girl in highschool, and few people are kind of like that, and I don’t even understand.

[@bensonhedges479]

Pressure from other women and gay men who write in fashion magazines.... Real men dont really care as long as youre not a bitch

[@mohitbhandari3760]

Lets see how smooth he is this time with skillshare ad.

[@gamingguy4945]

Mohit Bhandari Always!!

[@akashbaid4096]

He is the best.

[@jimmybuddy9946]

As smooth as cutting cake.

[@SilverCraft15987]

Mohit Bhandari Smooth af

[@VortexWarp]

He needs to be less smooth from time to time, because imperfection is beauty

[@mynosycats]

Our physical appearance is just a shell, the important thing, which is the personality, is inside it. But unfortunately, many people don't want to discover what's your personality if the physical appearance is unappealing to them...

[@harshthechampful]

This has to do with instant gratification ingrained in our minds due to evolution.

[@darkreunion7882]

That and some types of people are easily being misunderstood

[@lilpsycho4425]

Mom: stop watching 5 hours of KZbin! Me: It's good for my mental health!

[@matthewmckenna248]

I always get excited when Thoughty2 uploads a new video.

[@Lscott-fk2sn]

saaaaammmeeeeee

[@rurikvolkov2810]

It must suck to get excited only every 2 or 3 weeks

[@italianpizzanoodle2079]

i agree, you always get to learn new things

[@saintsinclair5499]

Same here

[@yartaj5941]

Same but I also feel I’m leaning something very new other then (school stuff).

[@AlfieCasson]

I love the way he always manages to smoothly glide into the brand deal every video. Always my favourite part❤️

[@goreasabingabriel6539]

Yes his transitions are way to smooth

[@adoogabadooga9271]

That is his skill (Get it)

[@kalekain3521]

Him and Julien Solomita are segue masters.

[@ingetnamn5447]

Yeah. But try to not use cancer in your comment next time as you did at the very end there.

[@ingetnamn5447]

*+Azzam Al qazi* Get the fuck out. Right now.

[@rlwings]

Honey, I am so attracted to you... Really, why? ... You're just so damn symmetrical!

[@thereapersperch]

And so damn average

[@vickielawson3114]

What about that one eyebrow which is higher than the other?

[@jomanout5866]

@INFJ 4w5 I suppose balance is associated with symmetry

[@totallynotme8153]

@@vickielawson3114 VSauce

[@FortressOfTheWolfMoon]

When I was in the best shape of my life, like i worked out everyday hard, super lean, abs and everything, I would look at Instagram models and think dang I got a lot more work to do. I was completely unaware of things like Facetune and that ppl would go through the trouble of photoshopping their photos. It’s stoped me from appreciating the level of fitness I had achieved, it was the same level as these models but I couldn’t see it even if others could because I was comparing my self to something that wasn’t real. I still workout but I barely bother with social media and I’m happier for it. I like having beautiful fit women as a source of inspiration but I want the truth, reality, not photoshopped fantasy.

[@neon0wl2107]

one of these days he's gonna truly convince me to buy a course on skillshare

[@Uncommon_Sense01]

Wouldn't it be cool if the word symmetry was symmetrical. SYMEMYS

[@johnwilliams3555]

SYMETEMYS

[@hobsdigree2]

TSMEYEMST

[@NebMotion]

YMY

[@martinkuliza8762]

LACIRTEMMYSYMMETRICAL lol YRTEMMYSYMMETRY

[@MaoDev]

that's just a palindrome, it's not visually symmetrical.

[@johnridley4868]

Cheers thoughty2. I was reading Tolstoy this morning, and came across this quote.... "Only people capable of loving deeply can experience profound grief; but the very necessity they feel to love serves as an antidote to grief and heals them. This is why the human spirit is more tenacious of life than the body. Grief never kills."

[@patrickm5217]

Device that measures beauty and makes you look like Hellraiser makes sense

[@deltaxcd]

Well, that's just ancient version of modern 3d scanner. now you can do the same with 2 cameras

[@aabevincent0]

Mad Max: Fury Road

[@SerenityScratch]

Japanese: *has philosophical ideas of accepting beauty in imperfection* Also Japanese: *Japanese face transformations all over youtube*

[@AmitSingh-vt6ws]

confused in japanese

[@TheHaters112]

Weeb

[@ultron-5600]

Serenity Scratch the women also heavily prefer white guys to other races

[@pahom2]

Wabi-sabi is snobbery. Dick doesn't care what is taught in school. We love beautiful and perfect not cripples.

[@moyasuFGC]

Love The speed paints ❤️

[@TheDsasadsad]

So glad that KZbin is the only social media I use

[@saulgoodman7858]

KZbin isn't really a social media. Everyone maintains a degree of anonymity when commenting and it's basically watching TV on the computer.

[@celestialdesma6563]

@@saulgoodman7858 it is, just video flavoured

[@OmniversalInsect]

I use reddit as well, though its kinda flawed with the karma system

[@Trumpophone7]

This time I’m genuinely convinced he said 42 to prank us

[@sno9044]

Same bruh

[@NOZH777]

I also like how you have 42 likes

[@mr.schnitzel4654]

@@NOZH777 lmao yes whoever dislikes shall be cursed

[@diannewallace4829]

When I was 20 I was stunning. I walked into a room and everything happening there stopped. The problem: At the time I was dumb as a box of dirt. Now at close to 90 I look like I was run over by an angry herd of elephants. The problem: My mind is now beautiful. Ah, life.

[@zosiazaremba7479]

There's a lot of time between 20 and 90. I hope you managed to find some happiness

[@dustbunnys]

I feel like I'm always waiting for you to drop the ad but somehow I never see it coming! You're the best at integrating ads into your video, you must have learned it from skillshare! Hahaha

[@YF-km6js]

Dust Bunnys ad

[@dustbunnys]

Young Fiji Thank you! Dang autocorrect!

[@crimsonlanceman7882]

I was literally like "OH GOD! No~! STAHP!"

[@carltheturtle8465]

Bots do that and perfect the one you want or like

[@dustbunnys]

Carltheturtle oh, I meant when he drops those thematically integrated skillshare ads! It’s not one of those or creepily perfectly targeted cutaway ads. Haha

[@LuisGarciaSprout]

I feel sorry for people who are so gullible to great looks. Good looks don’t mean anything if you have no character.

[@zlatyled154]

Ha depends and how you are, I fuck with bad thick bitches at party’s I’d walk in rooms full of girls screaming my name I would never date them but it’s just a bit of fun but obviously for a wifey yeah it’s more personality because your making preparation to be with that person till death.... hopefully.

[@NoName-mm6gh]

Coach Luis says a man, ironic. Aren't you men visual in choosing the greatest looking women as your partners??

[@Erowens98]

Good looking and bad looking people are equally likely to have bad character.

[@BlueDragonknight375]

And good character is meaningless if you don't have good looks. If it wasn't then I would have a boyfriend.

[@divinity1079]

Nina Sampson That’s not true at all, I guarantee you’re young. When you get older, looks matter less and less

[@aabevincent0]

I personally don't use Instagram as a... "thing to rely on" which is why I don't feel bad or have low self esteem as I use it. I don't use Social Media as a thing to rely on in general either, I use them all as tools for entertainment and not get attached to them. I also don't post much, I only have 3 posts so far, I just don't like flexing.

[@sophiasbored9746]

Listen here random person “You are doing great just keep living at least your still here” 😊

[@budgetlifter]

Well, some people say everyone is beautiful in their own way, but It's actually the other way around. Everyone is ugly on their own way (i'm not talking about character traits)

[@Esther15889]

Indeed.

[@Seriovsky]

It's either black or white, huh? It's both ways, we're equally ugly and beautiful in our own way at the same time. Both words become meaningless without the other.

[@kristijanmadhukar516]

Seriovsky exactly. the glass is half full and half empty. you live longer and die slower. etc

[@sage9836]

Lol Don't look at me. But it was a cool thing when I realized I am ugly and beautiful at the same time. There's a French word for that.

[@bojnebojnebojne]

Well you are right and wrong Sir, because we are both beautiful and ugly at the same time. ^^ Beauty to me at least, has nothing to do with a persons appearance and / or looks. How a person look are only the very first impression and attraction. Beauty to me is how a person align their values, morals and principles.

[@tekt_real]

I still haven't watched that "Whatever you do next, DONT watch this video"-video.

[@wiseweirdo9254]

Officially it’s been 2 years since I’ve last gone on Instagram or any social media except KZbin and man that has gotta been the best decision I’ve made. Everything he stated in that video is how used to feel whenever I’d go on those social media apps and it was seriously damaging my mental. So I took a hiatus. I’ll be honest it was hard at first cause I was just left with not knowing what to do to pass time. However life has been soo much calmer and better for me, not exactly happy but better than I was 2 years prior. If your facing negativity in life then cut it out, because why put yourself through that. If your currently unhappy where you are in life I suggest unplugging from social media, even if it’s just for a day and see the outcome of that

[@tomco7514]

So finally I can fully enjoy the feeling when no one notices my comment 😂

[@nativeafroeurasian]

Turns out at least 8 did

[@mikerodgers7620]

Hi fuck face. 😁

[@bobagreen8668]

Or when someone likes it then unlikes it

[@RM-el3gw]

"Interestingly, this study found youtube to be positive for mental health!" *Scrolls to comment section* Paper retracted

[@Sky-de7oy]

those smooth transitions to skillshare though, wow

[@pootislukis3153]

Mewky you know it's coming but can't sense it until it's too late

[@baconeko]

,Mewky But what if he learned how to transition to skillshare in skillshare...

[@trippysnow3791]

88mph= Time Travel

[@madensmith7014]

Wabisabi = Wasabi I conclude that natural beauty is truly hot.

[@olianims]

badum tss

[@kikems7388]

Nice😏

[@loneneotank.5687]

nice.

[@LordMegatron05]

Wasabi peas aren’t spicy

[@marcokawasaki]

The damage of social networks will be studied till the end of days I'm afraid. TY for your quality share of knowledge.

[@seanbarry1757]

I have 15 helens... In my basement...

[@DyslexicGamer]

lol

[@domaind9019]

WhitePhoenix 08 *knock knock knock* FBI, OPEN UP

[@matebalog3924]

Black humor at it's finest.

[@conquest222]

I have a 12 car garage but only 6 cars

[@elias_xp95]

Neat, Mike.

[@Asdfghjkl-us5jr]

I hate how I look. But this video made me feel not so bad. Either way, it does not matter how many times people say you're beautiful (like in the case of models), you'll always look down at yourself until a moment where you learn to love yourself. I'm still waiting for that moment. Your opinion is the only opinion that should matter to you.

[@fuhduh2544]

Same here. I'm convinced I'm ugly even if people compliment me about my looks from time to time. I can't seem to believe them for some reason, I keep seeing more and more proof of me being ugly and that makes me very insecure. It's a bad spot to be in because it cripples you badly in work, study, relations.. Luckily there are ways of getting out of this circle, the easiest one is focusing on doing more stuff, learning new skills, practicing a hobby, just getting busy in general helps forget about your insecurities. Also you should check Neuro Linguistic Programming. It's hard to explain what it is about and wikipedia doesn't really say kind words about it. I can only say that I've read a lot of books about it and it has helped me a lot with overcoming my insecurities in the years. I still have a lot of work to do though. Also, a thing I've realized is how people are focused on themselves, on their own insecurities, on their imperfections. They don't even notice your "ugliness" or "imperfections", and even if they do, they don't care because the center of their attention is themselves. Sooo yeah, everyone is concerned about their own issues, what a shocker

[@tinasnow5966]

I think you look good

[@fuhduh2544]

Liss is here apparently some people have a distorted vision of themselves, even in the mirror, so what you might see is not the same as what a person believe the others see. It's kinda hard to explain. But yeah, i think she does look good indeed

[@tinasnow5966]

Fuh Duh i know exactly what you mean. I felt so ugly not that long ago. But people kept telling me otherwise

[@tinasnow5966]

This Nigga haha the fuck😂

[@cstuart5638]

I absolutely loved the ending of the video. It was beautiful. It sounded straight out of Shakespeare and was brilliantly worded. Showing the intelligence, knowledge and beauty of words that Thoughty2 has. Keep doing what you're doing. You're amazing.

[@patrickshaw411]

wabisabi: appreciating your loved ones laugh when they accidently snort.

[@Super-Vision]

add starts at 4:22 and ends at 5:31

[@marcustulliuscicero9512]

Hannah R not all heros wear capes.

[@benjaminmaxwell9025]

Marcus Tullius Cicero NO CAPES

[@Jordan-lr4bi]

Thanks

[@Windwalker95]

Hannah R Thanks! Saved me time, so I can watch the advert, not wasting time on boring content.

[@jenniferjomurphy7548]

Thank you

[@ImRezaF]

I use instagram mainly for posting memes. I always have a strict rule of not posting my face in the internet

[@amandeeprishi3733]

This is precisely what I do.

[@nghtspawn651]

I have an Instagram page for memes and another for personal use. Balancing both hobbies.

[@conalcochranh3274]

Christ, you can't be that bad...right?

[@generalsub7]

I don't have instagram at all, i am a personal trainer and people are baffled why i don't model or post anything on social media. i couldn't care less what other people think about my face or body..the greatest freedom in life is not giving a fuck what other people say or think about you.

[@gauravchavan4390]

You know we have Reddit for it, right?

[@umbertosanti1285]

The contents of your channel are incredibly well researched and presented. Keep up the good work!

[@allessfyrdikaz1482]

After nearly 5 years still an amazing video! Thank you, Thought2!

[@saint4901]

Thoughty2 is the only KZbinr who can successfully slide in a paid promotion smoothly. I don't know how I feel about that.

[@xyon9090]

*Beauty through imperfections*

[@HrushikeshNaik1650763n73]

Dean Natuno 侘寂

[@lordvoldemort953]

Do I recognize you from agadmator’s chess channel?

[@lawrenceworrell591]

Death before dishonour.

[@miguelm6794]

Impurfection throu mispeling

[@itumelengphofu3502]

Honestly man , you are my KZbin sensation. This is what fun learning should be

[@Kingpin1880]

* sees thumbnail "Are You Beautiful?" * * clicks link * No. * closes tab *

[@SucmaBolz]

that's totally true for a long time I've had a Similar feeling about social media and I didn't want to be a part of this fake world cuz every time I look through my friend's Facebook page I feel really bad about myself but when I go out with myself and have my own freedom I feel better then anyone else I know holding a phone around me and that's enough reason to make me happy (sorry for my bad English)

[@salarsadri]

And That is why I deleted Facebook, Instagram and SnapChat from my phone.

[@MonkeyDLuffy-ib8nc]

i almost put choked on my coffe when the tv in my background said that one of those kardashians took about 300 or so photos to get 1 selfie. i dont think that is dedication to whatever she belives she actually does but just proof of how seriously sick and broken her mind has become. Selfies and other similar things are as addictive as any drug and far more accessible to which one can feed ones addiction just about all the time around the clock. i mean there are ppl out there that get panic attacks just because the internet is down. Take a look at an addict and realise what you have become if you feel the need to constantly upload that perfect picture

[@celestialdesma6563]

Well, this is true. However how hard I try I do not get that perfect picture. I don't really do selfies. But I do photograph clouds, I feel like they are perfect and imperfect.

[@jackdurden466]

It’s been said that “You like people for their skills, but Love them for their faults.” Or something of that nature. Basically it’s a reprieve from trying to be perfect.

[@kwek2243]

My friend is very very insecure with her glass body whenever she see models in instagram, not considering the fact that shes already underweight. This is very dangerous to the three of us. We hate the fact that shes already pretty and she think that she is very fat and very thin and even considering herself for a gluthathione injection. I dont take hold of her life but I'm concern of the after effect she gets from gluthathione (cancer for long exposure). She even lure me of injecting one because she thought my brown skin is ugly. I dont know how damage she was by the "PERFECT BODY"- instagram-MODELS-mentality do to her but one thing for sure was it affects our relationship. Her narcissistic behaviour and obsession in having followers, posting all our food pics and not being private about her life started getting a tool for our relationship. She hates her body, her skin, her height and her pimples not even considering how we feel (my other friend and I) as a peach-body type girl who was only 4'9 (she's taller) and our other friend who is 90 kg and who has pimples too. I don't think i could ever change her but if she cant accept who we are as her friends then it's over.

[@Papershire]

if she hates her body she should stop posting pictures of herself on instagram.

[@CR-vb6eq]

Kim Butterfly I don't like the fact she told you your skin is ugly. I'm very pale and I hate it don't worry there's nothing wrong with having dark or light skin. Of course you should be concerned for your friend but don't let her drag you down.😊

[@doncarlin9081]

She doesn't sound like much of a friend if she wants you to inject questionable drugs and thinks your skin color is ugly...

[@creator4413]

+Don Carlin right?

[@jmc9137]

I have always liked girls who are natural and don't wear much makeup or get any plastic surgerys and l don't care what they look like as long as they are comfortable with themselves

[@Floridablaze97]

Thoughty2 just wants to brag about being a 10/10 on the hotness scale. We get it.

[@laurafisher2535]

His face definitely isn't symmetrical! I think it only makes him more likeable though

[@kawsarhussain5448]

wabi sabi

[@weirdmovies1113]

Brandon K. Ferguson his eyebrow is always raised. No symmetry there

[@nathanaelraynard2641]

Weird. .Movies1110111 wow i just noticed that

[@LonelyCinderella123]

He could never be a model but he's very attractive though, the boy next door type of way.

[@Addahasan]

Your are outstanding. Everytime I see your research and your power of speech amazes me

[@martinveselko9398]

just saying... your channel is one of my favorites, and one of the best on youtube! keep up the good work. we need more content like this.

[@Julio_Gomes]

Very cool, but... why is beauty a scam again?

[@dianamorales7335]

Oh yeah...thats right....i even forgot what the video was about. Lol

[@bjornbrandewall7469]

I suppose he thinks it's a scam in the sense that the ideal is a western invention used to sell women beauty products they may not actually need. Or that the perfectly beautiful selfies on Instagram are a scam because they have been edited so much.

[@gandalftheantlion]

Or that trying to achieve perfection is of itself the scam.

[@PrivateSlacker]

That momentary confusion like when in the movie theater and all the previews are finally over and you realize you forgot what movie you came to see.

[@mitigiant5328]

elemento2003 coz it’s fake

[@dohickey7184]

Thank you, you just explained the reasons why I don't use social media, it's just a bunch of people trying their hardest to impress people they don't know or care about and why should I waste my time getting hung up over some other person's life? I have my own life to live and I want to focus on that

[@acutechicken5798]

* comments on social media.

[@blugaledoh2669]

Hello

[@goldenhorde106]

I am on insta for memes. Any social network for that case

[@dohickey7184]

TheAllPowerfulChicken I mean stuff like snapchat, facebook and instagram where the whole point is to broadcast your life to others, at least youtube has videos like this that I can actually use to better myself

[@the_real_jar]

DoHickey or you can just use them to message friends

[@justinmabb1997]

I've watched so many of your videos. You're an inspiration!

[@averagecoasterenjoyer]

I'm glad I'm on KZbin, considering it's the most positive social media and actually *increases* mental health

[@Tsukiko.97]

Beauty is when Thoughty2 uploads.

[@TheColombianSpartan]

Abyssinia Empire beauty is thoughty2

[@Tsukiko.97]

TheColombianSpartan touché

[@TheDracer24]

He could slide into my dm's with a skill share transition

[@Violet._.PhoeniX]

"If you enjoyed this video..." cmon man i LOVE every video!

[@BesharALAzzawi]

That was so good! Loved the social media analysis

[@alzheimerdinger1455]

He has life figured out! He is inspiring and I am greatful of his content!

[@bforthigh1617]

Thoughty2 THICC af

[@lipidi1542]

He protec He atack but most importantly He tell the fact

[@azrael8598]

I'm giving him boxing lessons his first fight is vs the guy from top 15s in England

[@lovelessbachelor]

B for Thigh 👄👄👄😩😩😩😩😩💋💋💋👌👌👌💦💦💦💦

[@ketkosmih4283]

thotty 2

[@themaddkittenking4939]

wtf +Rainer ?!???!!???

[@stargazeronesixseven]

Wow! That's Enlightening indeed! Thank You So Much for All Your Well Researched & Presented Tutorials over the Years! ♥️🌷🕯

[@MarieS]

Great job with these videos, I love your channel! I have learned so much and I'm still learning thanks to you

[@rottyroot]

Quit social media and experience enlightenment! I used to obsess over my looks that i spent thousands-on make up, fashion websites, and creams that did boost my confidence but made me feel pathetic. Why do i need to wear uncomfortable clothes again to feel sexy? Why do i need to put uncomfy make up? Why? So i can post on instagram and fb? So people think im better than them? All of those are so pathetic. I am very lucky that i finally realized just how much people dont actually care. And how i should cut off people who only incite feelings of envy and vanity. It is highly refreshing. Now, i still feel ugly sometimes but guess what? That is okay! I strive to live neat, healthy, and proud of my natural assets- never letting anyone dictate how i should look. And it feels so liberating!

[@deltaxcd]

well you need to look sexy to make a dick of the guy you like to rise up and make him interested in you ;) Alternatively, you need to look beautiful to make your narcissist abuser control freak boyfriend proud of you in front of other people. either way you need to look beautiful to make men interested in you If you are frigid and feminist then, of course, your looks do not matter at all. LOL

[@ratulahmed2823]

Hi 42. Awesome video once again

[@Alexis-ci4xt]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHQHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[@bbiggs4327]

goblin 947 hehehe

[@ratulahmed2823]

One "Q" can spoil your laugh.

[@augustlandmesser1520]

4:18 what a sneaky way to insert an sponsored commercial! xD Great video; witty, poetic, philosophical, and discreetly, inconspicuously, almost unsuspiciously informative and educative. ;)

[@conlon4332]

This really reminded me of Heather, a character from The Twelfth Doctor's time on Doctor Who. She appeared at the start and end of companion Bill's time on the show.

[@Lil-Dragon]

Who else doesn't care about how society views them. Its our own lives not for society to warp to a standard. Bloody great video.

[@blugaledoh2669]

Hello human.

[@michellegomez4905]

Ikr Smh 😑

[@michellegomez4905]

Wabi sabi my friend

[@cookieinhaler]

Me. I don't know. Most often, I do what I want. Wasabi my friend. 🙏

[@archangel5526]

This particular video really makes me think about how aesthetics appeals to me. I've always had a fascination with "out of place" features in all things. Wabi-Sabi was always a large part of my life and I never knew until now....

[@dorjjodvo1992]

Lucifer That being said I am really really not into chicks with crooked teeth tho, I understand the way if wabi sabi to defy the norms but the teeth thing is just ridiculous

[@Infster]

Same with me. I think imperfections makes things unique.

[@trebhum_]

Same here, surprisingly

[@Superschokokeks]

nothing is perfect, creating and/or searching perfect things is a never ending road to despair,neverending search and no fulfillment. come in terms which is "good enough" and you're happier person overall

[@fuhduh2544]

Doni Bathuu there was a girl in my class at school that wasn't good looking at all but had such a magnetic personality that she was attractive in her own way. No she didn't have crooked teeth tho. Gross. Jokes apart, looks are deceiving, end of story. And yes guys I'll join the club of imperfection lovers, in particular i'm a sucker for asimmetry in pictures, symbols and stuff. I dunno why i find simmetry and perfection in general boring

[@derekljung]

@ Thoughty2 That last line is perfectly correct, thank you for the perspective. If all was symmetrical and perfect it would be boring. Only the imperfections and differences make moments unique and as beautiful as they are fleeting.

[@perskarva123]

I love this channel. Been hooked for days since I discovered this!

[@HoosierDaddyOfficial]

14:04 “Fanks” for watching!

[@razterizer]

Maybe the McGurk effect?

[@johnyang799]

42 EFFECT

[@user-mh6pz8rq9d]

"BOT!"

[@WDLDrider]

"Fanks foh wotching"

[@mcsushi89]

That's I think Scottish accent - a lot of words are weird.

[@marksilla8276]

so you are telling me that (skillshare ad break) I'm not ugly just that my face is chaotic.

[@nuvostef]

I learned to love the ideal of wabi-sabi in the early 1970’s when I first visited and fell in love with Japan...maybe because I’m vastly plain and asymmetrical. It’s a beautiful concept - ehh, wabi-sabi, I mean, not me. You did a great job of defining it! 🤙🏼

[@marisapanzarin2910]

If thats your picture i do not think your plain in my opinion your very lovely no body is perfect but like myself we always think the worst of ourselves we dont see what others see

[@DiegoSita]

I've always found true beauty in imperfections. Now I know that there's a name for it. Wabi-sabi. Cool.

[@matthewschutze6744]

Beauty is not always mentioning skillshare in all of your videos

[@gannixion4345]

He's gotta get paid

[@marmalade6681]

its Titled "Why beauty is a scam" so think of skillshare as a scam :) help him spread the word that SKILLSHARE IS A SCAM! :) have a nice day and glad i helped :)

[@nativeafroeurasian]

He didn't on the speech against everyone being offended by everything video

[@hydrolito]

When they get another advertiser they will mention something else.

[@slowrunn3r88]

I appreciated this video. I thought it was gonna be another one of those “don’t go by looks (((:” lectures, but it gave true insight on appreciating both beauty and imperfections That said, I will say, sometimes looks.......sadly still matter at times. I say this because...I’ve tried “giving it a chance” to women I wasn’t fully attracted to, and....just can’t feel anything. Granted, it could certainly be their personalities that didn’t excite me, but...”don’t go by looks” simply doesn’t always work (I know that’s not exactly what he’s saying, but I still wanted to throw this out there)

[@svenzikobombardo]

I'm from Italy, I speak quite a good english but I've always practiced with a cockney accent... But now I love yours...!

[@sophieruby5893]

Fashion magazines with highly edited pictures of models did the same thing before social media.

[@cerystalgaming84]

4:28 I must agree that was smooth...

[@Azidoazideazide.]

No, no it was not. There are so many other creators that have made a better transition into an ad reading. The smarter ones don't even do them at all.

[@ichhh4]

11:06 Ha, I always knew instagram sucks

[@MysticMicrowave]

Ikr, reddit is so much better

[@IngvarMar]

anything is better than instagram

[@gaganhk8176]

@@IngvarMar pepe hub??

[@AkshanyaA]

isn't it I find Insta so boring

[@walidfakhfakh3660]

@@MysticMicrowave gtfo

[@stevesayewich8594]

That was a beautiful presentation. I found it calming.

[@MiaKimPH]

"Wabi-sabi" I wish it was taught to me growing up ,would have saved me a lot of self-esteem issues. Although the word oddly registered/pictured as "wasabi" in my brain🤣

[@katty4682]

"youtube best social media for mental health" said that man on the youtube video XD

[@richarduhric1908]

yeah, it kinda makes you question...

[@iangodwin478]

it makes sense. youtube asks you to make creations not talk about how your feeling every few hours. I think it's correct. Then again I have my channel and I hate social media too.

[@thefantasticcreator1]

Instagram is individual/self focused, while KZbin and twitter not so much, In KZbin and twitter people don't share photos, instead they talk about current affairs and trends

[@Fx_Explains]

@@thefantasticcreator1 twitter can also be self focus, people do post pictures of there luxurious life and talk about how perfect and happy they are. In instagram you could actually post pictures of stuffs and pictures writings (memes etc... ) about things which means its not always "self focus" . KZbin is actually one of the the worst, especially the comments were people main goal is to bully other and spew out some idealistic nonsense.

[@thisistazzy5831]

I get the feeling that Thoughty2 doesn't like social media

[@zerosaber257]

What's there to like?

[@castoru3398]

*_M E M E S D U H_*

[@castoru3398]

@Adhithyaa A Kinda every social media? Except Instagram and Facebook.

[@SharockoRAZR]

@@castoru3398 you are supposed to get memes from Reddit

[@castoru3398]

@@SharockoRAZR Yeah I do but some other social medias have memes. except instagram and facebook who the frick gets memes from these

[@lukebell2683]

Man the way you drop your adverts into the videos is actually rather entertaining 👨🏻‍🎓

[@tan8067]

This was an incredible informative video! Good job!

[@elPichirri]

They call it wasabi

[@Imtotallydiggingthis]

Eat wasabi, become wabisabi.

[@jessicapinto3817]

Both hot :D

[@bobthellama6988]

I think the reason youtube scored positive in that test is because there are so many minecraft youtubers with shitty lives, that we look good in comparison

[@fuhduh2544]

don't forget the Paul brothers

[@MassiveBridge52]

Minecraft's actually a great game, with a great community of people, but I see what you're saying.

[@pesky2119]

They earn a hell of a ton of money and they are enjoying the game they are playing, that doesn't sound too "shitty" to me

[@kles44]

Dude, I honestly love that you put the advertisements in your videos. I for the life of me don't understand how people can not see the great value in this channel having a sponsor which keeps the content flowing. People crying over this are so ungrateful. .. they literally just have to sit 30 seconds through it and move on while enjoying a video that costs nothing out of their own pocket but does cost money somewhere in the chain that makes this accessible. Thanks for the video, I enjoyed it, even the advertisement and I'm actually considering buying a subscription.

[@ankaplanka]

This is so motivational for me. I have a rather androgynous, or maybe even neutral face. I'm a female who have been mistaken a lot as a guy. I don't indulge in makeup, because I used to find it a waste of time, because people will see your real face sooner or later anyway. I only started liking the idea of trying it out after a guy told me to see my face as a canvas. My face is a bit round and not that defined.. My cheek can literally hide parts of my face, and someone said my nose look a bit too big. Well, I wasn't born to be a default game character. I have met people who like my looks but it has usually been other autistic people, because we don't and probably won't roll society's way anyway. It's too annoying, and many things society does is kinda useless too. I find perfection disgusting anyway. I don't really believe faces are truly symmetric. Just accept imperfection, because true perfection doesn't even exist. Striving for something that doesn't even exist... Sounds like many people are rather delusional to be honest.. I happen to be autistic too. We don't judge others based on their appearance, because we know how irrelevant it can actually be. If you see a group of people who look like they don't belong together, then you might be looking at friends who all happen to have autism, and not giving a single frick about how it doesn't match up to the other friends. You wear what you like to wear, and I wear what I want to wear. The end. No problems. No drama. No stupidity. Well, some autistic people have been influenced by others and become rather judgemental.. I feel sad for them for that reason. But now I have just found out that I have been following the Wabi-Sabi way of thinking my whole life. (I wish Japan could think the same about people with disabilities though.. We're really Wabi-Sabi so... ??? And shush about science and nature. I mean having autism gives us more resistance to dementia and Alzheimer's due to a part of our brain being the same as it has been since early childhood. Kinda hard to explain. There are links between that stuff and autism, but its just some similarities that happen for different reasons) It's within human nature to like symmetrical faces and stuff I guess, but did nature itself tell you who is attractive and who is not? The answer is no. So who cares? You are all beautiful in your own ways, and no superficial asshole can't change that fact! Have a good one folks!