Why Child Fame Is So Dangerous | Christy Carlson Romano

[@christycarlsonromano]

Happy To Discuss Anything Here

[@andrewjames7438]

You stole our food and my shirt?!?

[@mikesilva3868]

Favorite disney channel show🤗

[@AlyssaVierneza]

Have you seen Alyson Stoners video? I’m glad you’re going to be speaking up about the dangers of being a child star. Maybe you can help her raise more awareness.

[@jenme2390]

Hi Christy ☺️I learned this past summer that any level of global impact that one has in the industry sends your brain on a TRIP. Was NOT expecting that. I canNOT imagine how CHILDREN manage. Can’t wait to watch!😄One question I have so far is, do you believe it is the industry’s responsibility to build in mental health support for children, like they provide on set teachers etc., or do you think it should be simply on the parents to do that?

[@sebastianchirinos7714]

¿ Hablas español?

[@cheryl-lynnmehring8606]

Great advise! 1. Good Management 2. Good relationship with child 3. Finances figured out for child 4. Balance friends outside of industry & school

[@PSL_Lover2024]

Christy I can't stop watching every single one of these videos. The topics are SO engaging. These are all life lessons you learn in your early 20s. I think every one of us can relate. Kudos to you you're a strong role model to all of us! 💜

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you!

[@jasminesjourney9318]

I agree!

[@powerrangers5673]

@@jasminesjourney9318 same here

[@LoveLightVibration]

Ned may have gotten kids through their early years, but Christy is now declassifying life at the next level! 😁

[@Raven-dc7cw]

It would be cool if she could have other celebrities talk about what they've experienced. I would love to hear Lindsay Lohan's story along with Raven. She just did a video awhile ago where she said that she suffers from depression.

[@AudienceReactions]

Always ready to watch! I’ve always wanted to be a star as a kid but growing up watching these paparazzi made me changed my mind. I wouldnt want that attention.

[@trinaq]

Me too, being a celebrity can be so invasive, that you'd be forgiven for wanting to stay anonymous.

[@arielblue]

Justin Bieber was found on KZbin. Now he is married. The best time would be when your 21 years old or older. I think Brad Pitt was in his 20s when he worked at El Pollo loco.

[@powerrangers5673]

@@trinaq true amen 🙏🏾

[@JTPMalavet]

Same here but debated if I wanted to be followed around!

[@mikesilva3868]

@@trinaq agreed 🤗

[@melissae5555]

It will be interesting to see how the children of family vloggers turn out. There's even less laws protecting them when it comes to child labor in entertainment. Great video as always! ❤

[@mariogamefreak1]

At least there not around creeps.

[@melissae5555]

@@mariogamefreak1 Yeah, for sure! It's still an invasion of a kids privacy though. Depends on the vlogger and their style too

[@kendall6287]

Exactly! These poor children will have their entire lives documented online forever. It’ll be scary when they’re older and meet people who already know everything about them.

[@kaitlyng.473]

Completely agree! I will expand and include the children on reality TV. I’m really getting concerned about the Teen Mom kids having their deepest moments being broadcasted for views.

[@marisa_isabel]

Oh boy… that is a good point Melissa. As well as the children/teens who have become famous via KZbin, Tiktok, Instagram, Musically, Triller, etc… You can already see some of it now.

[@maegonzales4892]

I wanted nothing more than to work professionally as an actor growing up, but my parents were not into the idea at all. I got to perform still through competitive cheer and dance and absolutely loved it. As an adult now, I am a working actor (loving it) and am so grateful I was forced to wait. It was great to hear your take on this. Thanks for another insightful video!

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for watching! ❤

[@moonraker30]

So u got to experience being actor after all, good for u, that is amazing u still got to follow your dreams

[@maegonzales4892]

@@moonraker30 yes, it all worked out for the best. Thank you!!

[@moonraker30]

@@maegonzales4892 You're welcome! So glad u saw your dream come to fruition

[@BrendanRooney1]

One of your most important videos.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you, my love.

[@Maw0]

I think they all are important.

[@nataliambenzi7206]

Oh it's the husband is cute

[@Maw0]

@@nataliambenzi7206 Yes!!!

[@DeenainCali]

I teach middle school theatre, and often parents will ask me for advice about putting their children into the business, to which I recommend local and regional theatre programs as an alternative. They are already going through an awkward time. I just can't imagine throwing constant competition and judgement on top of that. Your video is excellent and you are so well spoken that I will refer them to watch this from now on. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your personal experience.

[@khanh2265]

Man, Christy is such a G for keeping it real. Love how she looks at things objectively, especially the entertainment industry.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Just doing what I can!

[@robertrogers074]

@@christycarlsonromano I respect you even more for doing these types of videos, being outspoken can be so the drama filled. Thank you.

[@LethalProtector8000]

We take being normal for granted. I imagine a lot of child actors would love to have a normal childhood without the other kids pointing fingers or saying "I wish I was you". Or having everything being decided without your input, when you're underage. Both ways of life have pros and cons but, either way, you should never judge. The same thing can apply to adults.

[@mischiefmakerstudios9900]

Ain’t it the truth? This takes me back to kids who I watched growing up, kids like the late great River Phoenix & the late great Heather O‘ Route along with the late great Johnathan Brandis, all who died so very young yet we’re all very talented actors.

[@christycarlsonromano]

🙌🙌🙌

[@lizethcamacho44]

This hit home for me! I wanted to be a child actress so bad,and my mom told me something I’ll never forget “I don’t want to exploit you that way”

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@izzyc127]

You have a great mother, I hope you realize that.

[@JermareHarrison]

I spent a majority of my childhood and teenage years wanting child stardom. It was rooted of course in my love of performing, acting, singing, etc. Not really having the means or the knowledge about doing it professionally, I finally got an agent midway through college at age 20. After years of learning about the industry through research and watching content from people like you Christy, I don’t think I would have been able to handle it all back then. At 22 now, I’m still not sure if I could handle it. But I’m happy I’ve gotten the chance to experience “normalcy” in my youth. Thank you for sharing all of this with us! It really helps those pursuing a career in this industry. I must add, Kim Possible is one of my favorite shows of all time! ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for being a longtime fan! And best of luck to you! ❤

[@jeremycoleman2736]

These life lessons you gave every week makes my heart fill with joy and understanding. Thank you Christy.

[@christycarlsonromano]

🙌🙌🙌

[@PeukinsPoint]

“There’s a difference between performing casually where a child feels safe, and then taking it to a professional level.” You hit the nail on the head. I grew up doing musical theater - the minute I started working professionally out of college, it sucked the fun out of it. Completely different than “hanging out with your friends and making art” but feeling emotionally (and financially) unsafe. It’s a difficult adjustment for many.

[@TheCoolestNerdYaKnow]

I just wanted to say thank you for how honest you have been with your many life experiences. This Nelson Mandela quote reminds me of your energy lately, "As I have said, the first thing is to be honest with yourself. You can never have an impact on society if you have not changed yourself... Great peacemakers are all people of integrity, of honesty, but humility."

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@shay7821]

I’d like to add that it may also help to ask your child why they want something. Especially why they want to be in the industry. They may want it for reasons that can be met elsewhere or on a smaller scale until they’re ready for a larger one, if they’re still into it by then. When I was a kid, I grew in a very abusive and neglectful family. I was an only child so I had lot of time to learn and create and to foster some of my passions and became pretty ok at them. From the time I was 6 until about age 24 I wanted to be famous and in the industry. And if you would have asked me why, I might have said because I want to be liked, loved, treasure and cherished. Maybe I wouldn’t have had those exact words at 6 but you get the point. Looking back, I realized I would have been eaten alive in the industry. I’m deeply deeply emotional and highly sensitive-It’s a blessing and a curse- and I really wouldn’t have done well as far as being judged or scrutinized publicly and privately. And I no longer want to be famous (assuming I even had a chance in the first place 😅) because I see what it’s done to some celebrities’ mental, spiritual and physical well being over the years. And also, the things I wanted, should have been given to me by my parents and family. The industry couldn’t have given that to me in a way that would be forever fulfilling or authentic. The industry should never take the place of a home and family. I would have been at a vulnerable disposition and God only knows how and who would have taken advantage of that. So while I still never had those things, I’m finally beginning to learn that I have value, I can set boundaries and I can help cultivate love in my own home and family with my husband and daughter. So whenever, if ever, she wants to get into the business, the first things I’m going to ask are “Why is that sweet pea?” And “What do you like most about it?” And I’ll go from there. But man…can I just say, parenting is a whole other level of hard lol! 😅

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for sharing. ❤

[@UrbanNoizeMusic]

Thank you for bringing so much awareness through your life's story Christy. You're providing people with the necessary wisdom to navigate so much.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Happy to share ❤️

[@rachelwoodbury5593]

I'm not really into ASMR but the sound of her walking on the trail is so soothing!

[@christycarlsonromano]

Always something for everyone to enjoy!

[@Hannahfarrior]

I was thinking the same thing 😂

[@CBlizard]

You're absolutely right about this. I can see how alot of child stars can carry trauma or burdens around with them. Especially with the industry growing. For me, Britney Spears, Hilary Duff, you, NSync, etc were really big for me growing up and since the industry has changed, what was good back then may not be considered good in today's standards of things because it's keeping up with times. I can see how alot of celebrities, singers, etc get depressed and revert to suicide, drugs, and alcohol because they aren't the IT thing and it takes a tole on them. It's sad!! I wouldn't want anyone's kids or family to have to go through that. Great video!!

[@christycarlsonromano]

Definitely!

[@RedaDoodles]

I have so much empathy for child actors in general but the one that really breaks my heart is Linda Blair who played Regan in The Exorcist. I mean, when she got the role, I highly doubt she knew what she was getting into with all the hate, backlash and death threats she received when the film was released. Even though she got an Oscar nomination, a Golden Globe and starred in one of the best films of all time, I cannot even begin to imagine the pain and trauma she had to endure at that age.

[@christycarlsonromano]

How awful...

[@rainvalentine9444]

Why did she get death threats?

[@RedaDoodles]

@@rainvalentine9444 Well, some people thought that she was either possessed or that she was celebrating the devil because her performance was too convincing. When the film was released, Warner Brothers assigned a security team to watch over her 24/7 for six months but the effect of the film at the time was too big and more impactful than people thought it would ever be so after those six months, Linda had to deal with it on her own with her family. She later admitted that the reason why she never had children was because she was subconsciously terrorized someone would come after the baby because she’s still recognized for her role to this day. However, now she’s embraced the film and doesn’t regret being apart of it because it is (indeed) a very important film that goes way deeper in themes than just being about some girl who’s possessed.

[@ShadowRaven66669]

I love this! With childhood stars speaking out about the systemic abuse in Hollywood more and more, it's nice to see the perspective of someone that acknowledges that the industry is traumatic but wasn't seriously abused. ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

🙌🙌🙌

[@randypercell8252]

HEY CHRISTY I DONT KNOW IF YOU REMEMBER ME THIS IS RANDY I USED TO BE YOUR SECURITY AT BEAUTY & THE BEAST IN NEW YORK I WAS SO SURPRISED TO SEE YOU ON YOU TUBE IVE ALWAYS WONDERED HOW YOUR CAREER HAD PROGRESSED YOU ARE ONE OF THE FEW CHILD STARS FROM DISNEY THATDIDNT GET CAUGHT UP IN ALL THE DRAMA MY PRAYERS TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY THERE IS NOTHING LIKE PEACE OF MIND STAY BLESSED IT WAS A PLEASURE WORKING WITH YOU AND GETTING TO KNOW YOU PEACE AND LOVE

[@TB-om4dd]

because of the abuse they suffer. Many enter the world of drugs and do not leave alive for everything they had to go through in this evil industry as the case of Brad Renfro, Corey Haim, River Phoniex and so many others.

[@stev6963]

I have so much respect for you Christy. You were a big part of my childhood growing up and it’s awesome getting to know you in a new way in adulthood. I really love these recent videos because you are so real and honest with us and that’s not always an easy thing to do. You are an admirable person and you are helping thousands of people with these videos!

[@christycarlsonromano]

🙌🙌🙌

[@effielove4764]

I think the feeling as a child of being owed something might be the fact that children ARE owed something without expectations :love, guidance and basic needs met mostly. Something alot of older people try to play off as "I raised you so you owe me" and when in reality it's the other way around... I can see how that would get distorted in a fame and child work environment

[@christycarlsonromano]

100 percent!

[@Amy_Nicole_Sabas]

you spoke on this topic so eloquently yet still so authentically. what a beautiful balance. i'm very proud of the woman you've become. your character is inspiring 💜

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@champagnesupernova777]

I absolutely adore these videos. I can’t express it enough. It’s like hanging out with a friend who is spilling all the dirt on the industry. Very straight to the point and down to earth.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for watching! ❤

[@costurashop]

My brother and I were in the industry from starting at the age of 9/10, we were never at the scale or level you were at but we did dream to get to that one day. Luckily the industry made me stronger, I was put into various situations that were borderline emotionally abusive from casting directors to acting/dance teachers. BUT as I got older it shaped me. Not everyone gets as lucky. My brother did struggle with one day being PRAISED to the next day being rejected, he is extremely talented and could have made it but once he turned 18 moved out to LA the life consumed him and it went all down hill from there. Thank you for being so vulnerable and coming on here. Anytime someone asks me "how do I get my kid in the business" I advise them against it until the child can juggle school, activities, friends a "normal" life and coherently decide that they want to do this, not the parents.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Good advice!

[@karmakobweb]

I’d love to hear your opinion on Amanda Bynes. It saddens me what happened to her because she seemed to have a blossoming adult actor career and seemed so together, and then went off the rails.

[@christycarlsonromano]

It's not going to be about Amanda Bynes, but stay tuned for a video about a similar topic...

[@ajgonzal37]

As a parent, and as a long time fan, I appreciate you and your husband, and the risk you take by being so transparent and honest about yourselves, your personal lives and your family, and letting us into that life. I know you don't see us or know us, but we see you. And the environment you create is friendly welcoming, and we appreciate it. Always praying and believing for good things for you and your family!

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you so much for your kind words ❤️

[@kaylahuntington7059]

Man, this video almost broke my heart in a way. We all carry trauma - some more than others - but so often you hear about the parasitic outliers or the pervert power people of Hollywood. That trauma is heart wrenching. Thank you for these topics. It's nice to feel we are getting to know you and your experiences as if we are friends.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@donovon8456]

I always imagined being famous but I have no idea if I could handle that kind of attention now, let alone as a child! Thanks again for sharing your story ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for watching!

[@huntermccade6426]

i can relate.. started acting when i was 10, got involved in the industry when i was 13, started working in film as a teen. you raised so many points that people don’t talk about.. things that are hard to relate to with anyone. thank you for making and posting this..

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@charlesintune]

Now whenever I walk around alone (which I highly recommend take the time to do it everyone it's therapeutic) I find myself talking to myself the way you talk to us. All introspective and diessecting my thoughts and memories. Because who doesn't have any traumas, big or small? Point being, taking time to listen to yourself is immediately rewarding. So I hope you never stop putting these out 🥰

[@christycarlsonromano]

I love this!!!

[@ania5038]

My heart goes out to every child star... some of them had extremely controlling parents wanting to live vicariously through their kids, most of them had incredible talent that they probably wanted to explore and all of them had to deal with the craziness of permanently losing their anonymity without fully understanding the weight of that.

[@christinakoch2738]

Jenette McCurdy

[@ania5038]

@@christinakoch2738 Yes. I just listened to her audiobook and she suffered horrible abuse.

[@hweird1]

Oh I can’t wait for this one. Can’t wait to hear you express your feelings and thoughts on this subject.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Interested to see what you think.

[@hweird1]

@@christycarlsonromano great stuff as always. It always amazes me that people and parents forget at the end of the day, they are still kids. Developing, growing and learning in an environment and it’s up to the adults to help keep them in a safe environment and having fun. And I don’t care if it’s being an actor/actress, playing a sport or learning an instrument. They are still kids and if they aren’t safe and having fun. We are failing them.

[@bunnygirl305]

So christy if a acting agency asks for a fee is that legit? I don’t want to be scammed

[@christinakoch2738]

A love of the arts for a child doesn’t always need to be commercialized! I thank you for bringing these realities to light ❤️ love you

[@arbutusviper1]

I already know this is going to be equal parts heartbreaking and illuminating. I'm both looking forward to this and dreading it.

[@christycarlsonromano]

❤️

[@jayjaybulldog9180]

As an young adult, this is very a great way to start off the day, As a Little kid inside me I feel like KP just keep making my day.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@auldreekie9498]

Sending lots of love and respect to you! I was approached once by a talent scout at my high school who told me to see an agent in Beverly Hills. After one meeting with this person and lots of promises made, my little 15 year old mind was spinning but my mom was not impressed. Despite gallons of tears shed and a fair share of arguments, my mom put her foot down and never took me back to the agent's office again. I was furious with her at the time but understand now why she was firm and didn't let me have my "acting career" lol. There are many concerns with this industry and I'm happy she just let me continue to be a normal teenager and finish high school.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Good mom ❤️

[@kamithompson2770]

I got bit by the acting bug when I was 7 after watching an episode of Full House in season 6. I wanted to play one of Michelle Tanner's friends from school. I was never on the show of course. I cried for two weeks after the show was cancelled in 1995. My two older brothers were so happy when the show was over because they were tired of it.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Loved that show!

[@SageFireJ]

You have shown a lot of vulnerability in this series, and it’s rather refreshing to see how open you are to talk about these things. Your videos could really help the next generation of actors, singers, etc. ❤️❤️❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

I hope so!

[@SageFireJ]

​@@christycarlsonromano So do I, because you really were treated unfairly, and I truly am sorry you even have to make these videos.

[@8randomprettysecret8]

Powerful message Christy fame is out of your control people value privacy admire your down to earth and heartwarming friendly disposition

[@dannigro8794]

Christy, I’m really glad you recovered. You went through an experience when you were young, you learned a lot and dealt with a lot but you’re recovering very well but making videos, venting, walking. You’re a great mother and that’s a reward in and of itself. Film never dies so all the work that you did putting into Even Stevens, Kim Possible all of your other TV shows and movies heck hopefully someone recorded you in beauty and the beast, will live on forever. I hope it didn’t permanently affect you and everybody goes through things when they’re younger even if they’re not a child actor but it’s good that you’re showing the world what it’s like because child actors have and will always exist. The writers of the shows, I give them a lot of credit, and the directors too but they can’t be anything without the actors performing the roles, people should always remember that and that’s where you come in. It isn’t about the beginning it’s about the end and right now you had it up in a good spot and that’s the most important thing. Take care of yourself until next week.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@secondaryactons]

Man, I so look forward to these videos. Christy really has an amazing way of explaining complex things in a down to earth way.

[@lamarjackson4099]

Really brilliant stuff and yet really informative. It makes me sad to see how certain child stars ended up going down a dark road as some never come back from while some end up turning out well as adults. The life lessons get better each time and each walk being refreshing.

[@MrMarielabedolla]

Gawh, I love Christy! It's like I'm in this virtual walk with her and feel the stress coming out of me. lol, I feel healthier after every video.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@marimarcianita]

“I’m just here to try to empower you with information.” Yes. I love that.

[@greenleopardy6602]

I’m so obsessed with your videos. I love that you get right to the point and talk exactly about what’s in the title. No fluff, even just the walking and being outside makes me feel so relaxed while watching. Thank you thank you thank you

[@christycarlsonromano]

Glad you're enjoying them! ❤

[@MathematicPony]

Big Sis Chris at it again with the awesome insight and relaxing vibes! Love this style of video from you - absolutely agree that parent/child relationship is the most important part of entering entertainment at a young age. I can't stop thinking about the dance moms and their dynamics with their kids. Reality TV PLUS trying to be in the entertainment industry is just the worst combination - those parents were not in it for their kids for the most part, they were caught up in the fame and notoriety for themselves and lost sight of their responsibilities as parents.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Speaking of dance moms, stay tuned for a future video that might just cover that topic...

[@SammiRose_]

I just love hearing your thoughts on topics like this, you have such a positive yet truthful message in all of your videos!

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@NikkiWiley]

I was such a ham as a kid, loved being the center of attention, and always wanted to be on the Disney channel or Nickelodeon on some show. I wanted to sing and dance so bad. I’m glad my parents never pursued it because I know for a fact I would be messed up now 🤣🤣

[@christycarlsonromano]

Good for your parents!

[@edwardcalloway2661]

Thank you for sharing your insight Christy. I have been in the business for 11 years in fashion but started in acting and theatre at age 12 and so much of the stories we hear are dark and never to take away from those experiences because they are valid and are unfortunately apart of the business but thank you for also providing another nuanced perspective that varies with individual as well. I too also am healing from trauma I've experienced professional but I too don't label myself a victim that is a powerful sentiment. Thanks for sharing ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@raynemichelle2996]

Thank you for being so open about these experiences in this world that none of us would be able to even imagine. It's fascinating. And it's strange, because we did away with child labour almost a century ago, yet this one industry didn't.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for watching!

[@laurenmontera9516]

That conflict you described about working so hard and getting nothing out of it happens to first job applicants and anyone trying to get out of entry level jobs. I remember sacrificing everything to pay for my education. I earned my bachelor cum laude with honors, but was denied interviews because they took one look at my resume and wrote me off as retail. They refused to give me a chance to try/learn. I put in my time, effort & money into academics. I even said in an interview that it really made me think less of myself. What was I doing wrong that everyone was against giving me a chance? That interview was for the job I have now.

[@christycarlsonromano]

So glad you made it through that ❤

[@Aikman94]

Yes, Christy. It may be really dangerous. We're all delighted to hear your stories and moved by how you have opened up. A fan of yours (and your husband, he's cool!) is here in Mexico if you want to have a nice time. I never forgot you and never will!

[@tylerriley2587]

I agree because the directors and producers are known to take advantage of the children either mentally or sexually

[@Aikman94]

@@tylerriley2587 And I am sure that's just one thing

[@Laurentheivory]

I love these videos and hearing one of my childhood idols perspectives on the industry. These are just so great! Thank you for being a wonderful internet big sister ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for watching!

[@onegirlarmy4401]

This topic applies to KZbin star kids and family bloggers. So much exploitation of kids' privacy for temporary fame and finances.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Yup!

[@merec3627]

All your videos are so insightful, but I think this one really shares a kind light for parents that may not be considering a lot of things that should be considered.

[@ClaireHaire]

*I don't have any kids but, I do worry about standing in the way of their dreams. I modelled but, didn't get big b/c they wanted me 120 at 5/10" but, it's been a blessing b/c of the horror stories I've heard. However, if my daughter/son wants 2 pursue it , I don't want 2 be in their way but, the industry is scary.*

[@Faraboutthemind]

I'm very happy you touched this side of performing in the industry, I typically hear some of the darker aspects of child stardom. It's good to weigh in on everything involved in film, especially when it comes to kids. Jennette McCurdy had a lot to say regarding this too, great video. Keep it up, Ren.

[@christycarlsonromano]

You're right, she has a very good perspective!

[@lubeeluonline]

I’m a performing arts teacher in the UK. Very rarely do I encounter a child who wants fame. But I encounter many parents who want fame for their child! Parents who only lavish praise on the child who is stagey (their social media pages would convince you they only have one child because their other one is just chugging along under the radar). I no longer offer audition prep unless it’s for university.

[@christycarlsonromano]

You've got the right idea!

[@mattberg6328]

Your courageous transparency is refreshing. Thank you for being willing to share this in such a genuine yet tactful and thoughtful way. :)

[@christycarlsonromano]

❤❤❤

[@kalquien]

Thank you for continuing to be honest and offer up such lessons and warnings without resorting to fear or sanctimony. Your positive attitude and desire to reach out shine in every video.

[@ShesooBreezy]

Great advice 💯💯💯, so many weirdos out there that’ll give you horrible advice and you don’t know that it’s horrible advice until you look back on it… I’m glad your mom cared for you. I heard some parents become envious and greedy of their child that become stars.

[@moderndaymowgli]

I’m so upset the algorithm didn’t show me your videos sooner. Your way of thinking is so intricate and brings a genuine perspective of the other side of what we see. Icon.

[@christycarlsonromano]

🙌🙌🙌

[@stephcarlofc]

This is a video that needed to be done. So many childhood actors ended up being ruined!!

[@christycarlsonromano]

🙌🙌🙌

[@erinnicolefranco6807]

My 10 year old wants to a KZbinr or actor. I’ve told him I’m not willing to exploit him for financial gain.

[@eliza57947]

I’ve always wanted to work as actress. Even in high school how I told my parents to work on television. My parents were concern. Not letting me to be in there. Now as an adult, I don’t mind working on TV. Because I have sense on what happens behind doors I can less be pressure. Whereas teenage or child Elsy, would be into the peer pressure. I was easily getting into that. I don’t mind working in TV, I have sense f what I want what is good and wrong. My Family support me what I do

[@EvoooJUSTevo92]

Christy the characters u played were a HUGE part of my childhood such fond memories I have of me and my sister watching EvenStevens or Kim Possible. I even watched Cadet Kelly with her. I never would have thought u went from there to a really low place. I went through something similar I ended up on the streets using drugs. I managed to turn it around buts it's cool to see how u say that you've gone through some rough stuff in your life went to a low place and still manged to turn it around. It sort of reinforces my belief, that from time to time wains, that no matter what people can change. Believe it or not that's a hard belief to hold onto. I think its safe to say for anyone that grew up with you on their TV screens. We got love for you, I hope that things keep going well for you. I try and support you just by watching your channel. Lots of love from Canada 🇨🇦

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@honeylavender1122]

Thanks for sharing your wisdom. I think it's also important to note the risk of child sex abuse, no one likes to talk about it, but it is very real and prevalent.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Yup!

[@JasLamArr91]

Thank you for sharing your experiences and for teaching us Christy.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Of course!

[@pepesylvia9354]

You went through heavy pressures at such an important social part of your life. It makes sense why it’s so impactful on the child even till adulthood.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Yup!

[@farihachoudhury3238]

I’ve always looked up to you in my childhood and it’s great to see you making these videos and helping me in my adulthood. You’re doing so much for me when you share the lessons that you’ve learned and for that I’m truly grateful. Thank you for continuing to be a great role model ♥️

[@christycarlsonromano]

Glad I can help ❤

[@shawnnesbit7314]

I love hearing about the celebrity life and aftermath of being a child star. Very interesting topic

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for watching!

[@KSS1992]

These videos are so therapeutic! I love them so much it’s literally like it’s own streaming series 💕

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@alyssab5501]

Thank you for sharing, Christy. ❤️ I've never been famous and I don't have kids yet, but it's still an important topic to see your opinion about. Especially with so many more kids being famous on KZbin and TikTok than the limited channels we grew up with. That is awesome that you always had school as a safe place to go back to. That is so healthy and I love that. Our society is so judgemental. There's a lot of "what happened" articles and years or even decades after people step away from the limelight they're still scrutinized for deciding to live a normal life, not using their platform correctly, or not "living up to their potential". You're doing super! Blessings to you.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@chloelynette1287]

Cannot wait to watch this! Sending love from London ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@andreasmeelie1889]

I've ALWAYS heard people say things about how kids shouldn't work in the entertainment industry and honestly I always felt so incredibly torn by that because, well, I love knowing the child actors and what they do and what they bring along in our favorite movies or our favorite music or whatever it is they are famous for yet at the same time I always know that it's a very dangerous road for them and that they should be kids and shouldn't be working yet without them how will movies without children be made or songs without children be made or whatever else involves children be made? Honestly I feel like Christy Carlson Romano said it very best in this video and I honestly feel like she finally gave me the answer which was to educate the child first about the business industry and let them know what they are coming into and have a strong bond with them so that they know that they can come to you and give them something to fall back on in case they do fail in the industry. Well said, Christy, very well said. I love you so much for that. EEP! :)

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you! Good things to come ❤️

[@andreasmeelie1889]

@@christycarlsonromano looking forward to it! I loved you on Disney Channel! Ren is my favorite from Even Stevens! I love Cadet Kelly and I love Kim Possible! EEP!😇😍 I actually just this week watched Cadet Kelly funny coincidence and I loved you and Hilary Duff in it!😇😍

[@ratedrachel3670]

Ugh this was/is me toward the part of my career that involves on camera work. Thanks for being real. What a great direction you're moving the channel toward.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you! And best of luck! ❤

[@ItsMinaway]

This is definitely an eye opener Christy. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us on KZbin! I cannot wait for another video😘✌🏾

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@izzyc127]

With the danger of child stardom being a huge topic, I’m still thinking about how many people like Gary Coleman, Erin Moran, and Dustin diamond have suffered a lot in their youth until adulthood. There have also been people like Ron Howard and Bill Mumy who were child stars but they became successful as adults probably because they had parents who cared about them and didn’t exploit them. Christy, if you have HBO Max, I highly suggest that you watch Showbiz kids and it has interviews from former child stars like Henry Thomas, Todd bridges, Mara Wilson, and many more stars. Henry Thomas even mentioned in the documentary that he went to an audition once and that he was rejected because the people at the audition didn’t see him, but only his ET self, which proves that when a child star takes on an iconic role, they can be reduced to type-casting.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Sounds like a very interesting documentary!

[@izzyc127]

@@christycarlsonromano Okay first and foremost thank you so much for responding and you are the reason that I want to go into voice acting as an adult. Secondly, I appreciate how you and Alyson stoner are huge advocates for child stars I think you’ll like Showbiz kids a lot because it does mention things that you and Alyson stoner have talked about.

[@nataliambenzi7206]

She has facts though it's overwhelming and time is so valuable

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@ToshiJ89]

It’s crazy how deep stuff gets. Like, you love something, and have fun doing it, but other people make it stressful

[@hesonfire3074]

You speak truth! Life changes for the child once they go into the business.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Most definitely!

[@michaeld.williamsiii9026]

There are lots of former child stars, teen stars, currently working and not, who’ve come out against the business and shared stories of pain & trauma. So what you said is accurate I believe Christy, I being adopted and abandoned have my own childhood trauma that I’m still not fully healed from and often wonder if I ever will.😔 There are a lot of child stars who also sacrifice themselves for the sake of everyone else’s entertainment sadly too... Great video, thank you as always Christy you keep on rocking and inspiring us.💛

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@jpeezy117]

I will say - if money is a motivation for fame it is a fleeting motivation. Money is nice but as an adult I had many years where I’ve realized I was happier when my salary was lower. There’s been times in my life where I could have theoretically lived in a mansion and have been the unhappiest person. I’m glad you moved to Texas - I am about to relocate from California to Tennessee. Although you say you’re not a victim - I really think when you’re a child and taught that there is really only one way for you to go whether it be religion or a career path or what have you it can eventually traumatize you - especially if it wasn’t something you were meant to believe or a career path that didn’t really fit your true character. It seems this has made a healer out of you and perhaps that’s what you were all along. Your words are true and healing these days. The best recourse has when one is trauamatizdd is healing that inner child - parenting yourself to an extent- and once you bring healing to that aspect of yourself most of the hurt goes away. Love this video!

[@christycarlsonromano]

Wishing you the best of luck with your relocation!

[@ScottsThoughts]

I love your content and how real and honest it is. Grew up watching you on tv and respect and love your content as an adult.

[@DJLAMOON]

It feels like we walking together and your spilling the tea 💖💖💖

[@seandavila835]

I don’t know if I’ll have kids, but I’ve decided that if I do, and they like performing, fine. But there will be no moving to L.A. or NYC in pursuit of stardom until they’re adults and can make that decision on their own. As kids, they can do community theater, school theater/band/choir, etc. But I won’t be getting them into the “real” industry as kids.

[@jayjaybulldog9180]

This is so helpful I love it, growing up as we got older, I know that people like you did everything you can for us like an idol from our childhood because I believe you inspired people like me as a kind of talent that is like a gift. In life it’s all about making right decisions that fits well for that persona.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Definitely!

[@dirtybird311]

I am really glad I found this channel. You never really hear a firsthand experience of the other side of the camera.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@JackieWarner13]

Alyson Stoner released a video few months back about wanting to try make it different for kids/teens in the industry, working on sets & also like parents so they can try know what's to do.

[@charlotterose2989]

I like to watch your videos when I go for walks as well, I feel like I'm with a friend having deep, interesting conversations... 😄😄💖

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@johnny5654]

I think it would be awesome if you could be on the Inside of You podcast with actor Michael Rosenbaum. You are both so open and honest...it would be great to hear you speak with one another! Great stuff...thanks for sharing!

[@channelabdullaev]

I'm loving these chatty walks with you! I wish other actors who started young would tell their truths and spill their teas in a classy way like you do. Listening to this topic in particular, I was thinking of Zac Efron, what he would say on the topic, as he is still in the game but actually wanted to go to college but declined going to pursue his hot fame at that time. If only more people like you could opine!

[@christycarlsonromano]

Thank you for coming along on these walks with me! ❤

[@mercedesyvette2792]

You're so real and down to Earth and bring up points I wouldn't even think of otherwise. Great perspectives!

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@ElleMcLemore]

Thank you for speaking so candidly about these matters ❤️

[@christycarlsonromano]

Happy to share ❤️

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

Awesome job christy I never knew.

[@christycarlsonromano]

Glad I could be of service!

[@awesomeadamfrom2099]

As always

[@VideoGamesAndTheWorld]

I always wanted to be an actor since I was a kid. But as I matured, my ex-girlfriend told me that being an actor may seem cool and all, but then you got all these paparazzi all over you and magazines would be talking about you and your personal life. Not to forget a darker side of that industry such as being harassed by directors, producers and other sick actors and actresses as well. I'm glad I listened. You're a smart woman Christy, I thank you for this.

[@christycarlsonromano]

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[@paprikapants]

It's so great to see you again -- thriving and sharing your wisdom. Thank you Christy :)

[@christycarlsonromano]

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