Why Child Actresses Go "Crazy" | Christy Carlson Romano

[@christycarlsonromano]

Any Thoughts, Questions, Concerns?

[@Dr.Gold-Dry-Bowser]

Do you have plans for Christmas Christy? ;3

[@joeryan3183]

What are you going to do for Thanksgiving

[@AshWilliams-v3e]

Are you still friend's with different voices actors or actress from Kim possible???

[@joeryan3183]

Have you meet Miley cyrus before

[@IWantToMature85]

I know that you worked with Orlando Brown in Circle of Stars. I know that he has struggled lately and hope that he will get through his problems/

[@TaradiseOfficial]

I met Amanda Bynes back in 2007 at a mall. She was signing autographs and meeting fans to promote her short-lived clothing line DEAR at Steve and Barry’s. It was also the time “Hairspray” was coming out. She was THE most stunning human I’d ever seen in my life and my dad was with me and he says the same thing. I’ll never forget how beautiful she looked. And she said, “Hi, you have pretty eyes!” to me and I was so starstruck I never said anything back! I just wish Amanda the best.

[@greentree211]

she was always my favorite i really thought she was going to become an amazing actress. i always loved her humor and how well she seemed to take on the roles she played... i too wish her the best and hope she can find happiness...

[@sofiabravo1994]

I actually heard that in her voice from the 2000s!

[@heyitskaitNYC]

Woahhh Steve and Barry’s threw me back! I loved her clothing line! I wish her the best as well🥰💜I hope everyone can find their peace

[@kimsinthe80s]

Amanda Bynes was a hilarious kid! Loved the Amanda show, so talented! It was kinda rare, you don't get to see many funny kids

[@GorgieClarissa]

I looooooved her clothing line!!! My love of sparkly shoes came from her line!!!

[@alexanderklepp]

“Kindness is way more important than rooting for someone to fail.” That is so true.

[@michaeld.williamsiii9026]

💯Amen, absolutely... 🤍🙏🏾🤍

[@sumdayzzz]

another aspect of the “zendaya vs. bella” conversation is their parents. when i first noticed this was seeing them get accused of not actually singing on one of their songs. both of zendaya’s parents came to her defence while bella didn’t have anyone doing that for her. bella has always spoken about not having a good relationship with her mom and how difficult it was while she was on disney. no one really talks about that when they get compared

[@NOCLUEinvalid]

yea zendaya has way better support than bella

[@briannagrembo2781]

It's so true! And talk about awful parents, Amanda Bynes's parents were horrible and took advantage of her. Britney's parent's were horrible, clearly. Demi Lovato is another child star who has struggled, and I always thought it seemed like she never had a good support system around her. So crucial for these young women to have people who advocate for them and protect them! In the wake of #MeToo, many of the women not affected had strong support systems.

[@alisha1377]

For both Britney and Amanda, we don’t really know their mental health issues and the extent of the truth. I don’t think they should ever be in the entertainment industry because it can be very manipulative and the parents should have seen it. I come from opposite of the issue. My parent has mental health issues and the gaslighting they do… it is hurtful. Although sympathetic to both and other celebrities, knowing what pain the other side can inflict and lies and accusation… It’s hurtful from the party that does want to help.

[@ntmn8444]

@@briannagrembo2781 Demi, I think her family is nice, I just feel they enable her. She has way too many enablers in her life. They love her, you can see it, but they have no idea how to help her.

[@propogandalf]

@@ntmn8444 Thing is no one can help you unless you want to help yourself. This is especially true when drug abuse is involved, which it is in her case

[@SleepyPanda0226]

I believe Zendaya’s parents are the main reason why she transitioned the way that she did. They are so supportive of Zendaya and she always mentions how her parents keep her grounded. A lot of child actors’ parents use them to fund a certain lifestyle, whereas Zendaya’s parents just wanted the best for her while protecting her. Amazing parenting.

[@Meganquigs]

Well said!

[@WWETHROWBACKWILSON]

Just like Jaleel white, I believe he said when he was making a lot of money from family matters, his mom and dad still kept their day jobs! And lived below their means!(normal life) They didn’t spend Jaleels money! They just Put all the money a side and waited until he got older so he can be set for life!

[@vanessastegall]

@@WWETHROWBACKWILSON those type of parents are the best. They want what’s best for the kid.

[@nsasupporter7557]

@@WWETHROWBACKWILSON look at the Olsen twins… they were thrown into acting before they could even walk and were only used to for money probably

[@ntmn8444]

I agree. She has transitioned well! She grew up well.

[@jemimajanvier4706]

I've always hate when people compliment certain child actors by congratulating them on "not going crazy." It's a tone deaf compliment that ignores the fact that many of these children had to raise themselves under immense amounts of pressure. Also a lot of these children are given way too much freedom at a young age, most likely because they are the breadwinners in their family.

[@mondaysandtuesdays6842]

this comment right here. exactly!!

[@lenasoreil183]

I don’t think praising someone takes away from another. I’m sure Zendaya, Hilary faced a lot even if they never went “crazy” it doesn’t take away to praise them

[@Alleyhellcat4Ever]

Hell Drew Barrymore grew up in the limelight and was getting wasted and partying before she even hit double digits... So for everyone saying that it's just a Disney Channel thing, it isn't... Jodie Sweeten also had a lot of issues with drugs and alcohol while on the set of Full House... Child stars from all walks of life tend to break under the pressure of Hollywood and probably need therapy and a safe place to try to relax from the high demands of Hollywood... Sorry rant over

[@designSHING]

Drew Barrymore was failed by her parents and adults around her. Take away "Hollywood" and "child star" from the narrative, and what happened to Drew was straight up negligence and child endangerment. Just part of a long history of "Hollywood" protecting and enabling its abusers.

[@whispersonthestreet]

The Jacksons and the Partridges too

[@Alleyhellcat4Ever]

@@whispersonthestreet yes, most definitely

[@DIESEL0759]

It shows that easy access to drugs and alcohol is not unique to adults in entertainment when juveniles can get it. Especially when you're on a show that is supposed to be "wholesome" like Full House.. You're out there acting in a show about "family" and it's all "G" rated and wholesome, while behind the scenes, one of the teen actresses is doing blow.

[@Girl2TheCity]

Both of those women had dysfunctional families unfortunately. Till this day Drew is trying to find her perfect or balanced family. At the end of the day we all want to be loved, heard, accepted, and validated

[@steviehills4256]

I really want to watch a round table discussion where Disney Stars past & present talk to each other and discuss topics like these.

[@izzyc127]

Not only Disney stars, but also Nickelodeon and other child stars talking about these issues too.

[@jassyjones]

That’s a great idea

[@michellemarie1197]

Yes this needs to be a thing

[@misslangleysoryuisiconic]

@@izzyc127 yes

[@beepityboopity]

Its so important to focus on the systemic toxicity and abuse in the industry and how this affects people, rather than seeing people struggle from the effects and blaming it on the struggling individuals

[@Meganquigs]

Hilary even had her struggles too, like a eating disorder, but chose to be private with her issues. Hilary and Zendaya Had a good family support system

[@camcat26]

Hilary also had more time off-camera. She’s said she was friends with some other non-business people her own age and experienced a bit of normal adolescence with them

[@buffycatnip]

@Jessica Smith she admitted she had an eating disorder and was at her lowest weight in cheaper by the dozen 2

[@Girl2TheCity]

That was when she was at her unhealthiest and she had her second public break up after Aaron Carter

[@Geengarner]

Stop spreading rumors Hilary never said she had an eating disorder She said eating issues It has nothing to do with Aaron

[@Geengarner]

Hilary never said that "Hilary also had more time off-camera. She’s said she was friends with some other non-business people her own age and experienced a bit of normal adolescence with them" More because she chose to keep her friends, said she listened to her mom's rules and didn't go partying like Lilo. You choose/become who you hang out with

[@charlottebrown4572]

Zendaya talked about how her mum let her know early on that she could choose a different career direction at any time. She had a sense of agency in that way.

[@ChrisJProductionz]

Orlando brown is/was a perfect example too….Christy you’re really telling it all on here kudos to you🙏🏾

[@christycarlsonromano]

I wish him well.

[@ShainaCilimberg]

@@christycarlsonromano he’s doing great now. Gave his life to God. I’m so happy. Your videos give me so much peace. Never give up

[@DANNYTHEFROG123]

I can't imagine what it's like to have to grow up with cameras in my face. Honestly I wouldn't let my kids go into the spotlight. I would advise them to grow up first. Like Britney supporting her family as a teen. That is too much to put on a young person's shoulders.

[@josephmendoza5806]

Same with Jennette McCurdy. She was forced into the spotlight at such a young age. She was 6 years old when her mom put her to act. She mentioned in her podcast that she was the bread winner for her family. So when her mother died that's when she stopped acting

[@josephmendoza5806]

@Jessica Smith and she wasn't even that talented as an actress anyways. Seeing the show as an adult hits very different now

[@misslangleysoryuisiconic]

_if i was a Disney late-teen actor, I would just follow what Hilary Duff does, doing her college life after earning some acting career for a living and also I wanted myself to have my own of a very very private life which I could create a silent vlog without showing my own face_

[@thetraveler1125]

It’s easy to say that from our perspective but then when you add in global fame, sex, drugs and the promise of living the Hollywood lifestyle, college is often the last thing in their minds. It’s also silly to think us commoners wouldn’t also fall for the glitz and glamor too if we could have it.

[@lovelylucy07]

And also trying to dodge all the cloning, shape shifters and sexual predators. It would help by having God on your side and forming a relationship with Him. Being a follower of Christ and not losing focus on him is your only hope. Because he loves you. He loves us all.

[@camcat26]

Disney also hadn’t quite developed its mega-star formula during Hilary Duff’s days. If anything, she was the test run before Miley Cyrus

[@calisongbird]

@@lovelylucy07 “cloning”? “Shape shifters”? What kind of weird conspiracy bullshit is that?

[@Geengarner]

Hilary didn't go to college But she's always had a good head on her shoulders kind of like Zendaya and that helps a lot in making good decisions, having self worth helps too

[@vanessafayer6841]

I love hearing your perspective. So positive and empathetic. You’ve obviously done a lot of self work and i think that’s what attracts me most to your channel. You articulate your thoughts in such a profound way. I agree, we all need to give ourselves grace in our mistakes (lessons) and learn from our experiences, and realize that’s part of our journey. I love that you champion other women that are in the same industry as you. Such a person of class, I’m a fan. Love it ♥️

[@themelonsoup]

I loved you in the shows you starred in and now I get to love you being yourself and a regular person like us. I am very grateful for all of you Disney girls. I hope the industry gets better ASAP.

[@starlover5359]

Kindness is actually way more Powerful than Rooting for somebody to fail. 🙌🏽 Those are some Golden Words to live by 💛💛💛Thanks Again Christy :)

[@DIESEL0759]

Honestly, it's sad that child actors are treated so awful that they have these mental breakdowns. I couldn't imagine being a teen and working a schedule of 12 hours or so every day in a television studio having to do all the work of knowing lines and floor marks and such. I have a hard enough time doing it for things as an adult. Nice to see you made it out the other end and became sane, Christy.

[@thorn0581]

This is one of the things I like the most about the content you put out there and that is a view from someone who has lived in that world. My 8 yr old daughter discovered ICarly and Victorious and even Sam and Cat and just loves the shows. So when I told her that ICarly 2021 was happening she was excited but sad when I told her that the actress who plays Sam has moved on from those roles and her reasons for it. It was a difficult conversation to have but about the same time I discovered your channel and it helped.

[@sallyheartjack]

that's so cute, i wonder what she thought about it

[@kristinbagani2811]

I think that there are MULTIPLE factors that lead to a mental breakdown of any kind, not just one thing. It’s just which factor acts as the “straw to break the camel’s back.” Also, Alison Stoner and Demi Lovato have come out with their accounts of what their experiences were like as a DCom child actor, and the problems that came with it. It was from watching Stoner’s story that made me woes of things like lack of child labor laws, lack of proper moral support from friends and family, etc.

[@Milasmama04]

Girl friend celebrity or not we all go little crazy! I personally don’t judge celebrities journeys because you’re right.. we have our own to live out.

[@sionnadehr3313]

I think the problem we have as a society is that we tend to make idols out of our celebrities. Buying their music, watching their films, becomes a sacrament. Reading news about them - good or bad - is like reading holy scripture. Making ourselves into their image becomes a young girl's (or boy's) sincere dedication. In the case of young kids idolizing child or teen actors and actresses, it becomes dangerous because - as you succinctly point out - these actors and actresses are people and when they break, they break. When they grow up, they have different opinions about what being an adult means, and sometimes it's different from values some parents want to teach their children. And parents have a hard time with this because they also idolize celebrities (or politicians) and aren't always able to come to terms with the fact that their own idols are severely flawed. And the news media keeps lapping up this toxic religious relationship and continue exploiting celebrities and the people who worship them because its makes them soooo much money.

[@jennamatthewsIV]

Beautifully said!! I think sometimes people forget that a little empathy can go a long way 💜

[@izzyc127]

For child stars, I usually think of the three kids from different strokes who suffered badly after the show. Dana Plato also suffered badly because after being type casted, she ended up doing low budget b-movies and adult films until she sadly O’ded while her son died a year later. Gary Coleman is the saddest one of all because his parents took his money from him while he had to perform with an illness on the set of the show. Todd bridges on the other hand, ran into trouble with the law many times and was sexually abused by a close family friend when he was a child. To quote Corey Feldman, “the one problem that Hollywood has is pedophilia.

[@joyspiering2451]

Love what you said about how we're all on our own journey, and that we shouldn't judge someone else's journey just because it's different from ours. 💕

[@arenjtumastens]

Today (November 17)'s the 32nd anniversary of Disney's "The Little Mermaid" and the birthday of actor Danny Devito & 43rd birthday of actress Rachel McAdams (Regina George). Also the 15th anniversary of the PlayStation 3.

[@PhoenixGamerxx96]

Also the 19th anniversary of Kim Possible, too. Don't forget that!

[@josephe.parker626]

I wish you And Hilary Duff were together talking more about topics like this.

[@sallyheartjack]

imagine, christy and hilary walking side by side in the woods, discussing life, answering questions

[@misslangleysoryuisiconic]

@@sallyheartjack yes… yessss

[@josephe.parker626]

Yeah Christy. It's true. Some childhood stars hitting puberty, experiencing adult life and going toward an interesting route. It's delirious. It's crazy.

[@ashtonbrown8549]

I also feel like it's the ability to "go a little crazy." Disney stars back in the day for example were expected to have a wholesome image and its impossible to live up to that all the time. I grew up very religious and a lot of things were not okay for me to do. This led me to "go a little crazy" myself.

[@mckenziejeanne4508]

I 100% agree with this. I am in my early 20s and even things like buying clothes my parents did not allow me to wear as a teenager, or dying my hair, or getting second ear piercings...it feels rebellious but it is also safe and healthy for me. Being in a high-control environment either sets kids up to be super rigid, hit a breaking point and NEED to rebel due to the rigidity, or both. 💕 Sending you love on your healing journey!

[@ashtonbrown8549]

@@mckenziejeanne4508 I feel that a lot! I got my nose and bellybutton pierced. Eventually I'll have my bellybutton redone. I started ro wear what I wanted. I went a little too hard with booze at first, but I've got a good handle on it now. Drink and then go without for a little while. I occasionally smoke weed too so doing really good actullay 😀 Just got engaged last month 😀 I wish the same for you

[@DIESEL0759]

Yeah. "wholesome image" while being offered blow and having access to alcohol as a juvenile behind the scenes of these shows.

[@Tyler-gg9dp]

It's really nice to see a famous actress be so down to earth. Thanks for keeping it real 👍.

[@lorrainelassig-banks1094]

I think this is so important to talk about and love that your finally talking about it. Working in hollywood as a child can be very damaging especially when your around others who dont have your best interest at heart. And I feel like a lot of these child stars dont have that and its really sad. Cause a lot of really talented people have really suffered and gone to waste because of it. Heartbreaking!

[@jacobdrolet4262]

Totally amazing video of actors and actresses that go crazy being frames goes off the tracks in there life’s too. What a beautiful funny sweater you wearing too. Fantastic job

[@martinezanamaria26]

Is sad that they want them to fail. You give us awareness, love you girl!!

[@orland0110]

Fantastic video Christy. For me, you are such a great friend to everybody with such a wise mind and wonderful heart. These vlogs just get better and better and thank you so much for talking to us so we can learn and being so kind! 🙌🏻 🥰 😍

[@jeremycoleman2736]

Many child stars don't get the attention that they deserve when it comes to fame and fortune and suddenly they lose it in an instant.

[@HeatherSC02]

Christy dropping the truth yet again! Words of wisdom!

[@ryanwitt6861]

I always feel bad when it happens, and now, at 41 years old, I've seen it happen a lot. I also feel that, as someone who doesn't struggle like them...and also a man...I don't have the answers and don't know what it's like to walk in those shoes

[@Tremaine26]

"Kindness is way more powerful than rooting for somebody to fail." ❤

[@rhodygirltarot1231]

I remember when Britney was being hospitalized and people thought it was a joke. My heart just broke for her, and in my head, I was saying this is still a human being at the end of the day. I wish anyone who is struggling with mental health the best.

[@amylee8969]

Yeah, she took one of the worst hits of everyone.

[@jacarriusdoesthings]

I just noticed a lot of stars who went crazy after Disney Channel.

[@nathancruz9172]

Me too.

[@stephenbarnes9196]

You are so right Christy it just like Judy Garland thay always wanted he her to be Dorothy on the wizard of Oz but her fans didn't want her to grow up and move on thay always wanted her to stay young. Thank you for sharing and caring

[@Kabman89]

Thanks, Christy! You were right. This is the video I was hoping you'd make. I love how you're speaking from experience in a non-judgmental, honest, compassionate way. You should take these videos to the next level and try to get Amanda, Lindsay or Miley to sit down and talk to you, most likely through Zoom. That would be really cool. Peace and blessings.

[@JoMarieM]

I think that one of the most important things that is needed to keep child and teen stars grounded is a good family support system. I've noticed that many of the young TV and film stars who go off the rails often don't have this, and sometimes they're left to emotionally fend for themselves and figure out how to deal with fame and fortune on their own, sometimes with disastrous results. Being a teenager can be tough even when you're just an ordinary person, but when you feel like you have a public image to maintain, it can get even tougher, and you start to wonder if people like you for who you really are, or for what they can get from you when they cozy up to you. And it can also be challenging when, one day you're just an ordinary kid going to school and doing kid things, and then the next you have a major role on a film or TV show, and you get tons of fan mail, and fans who surround you when you go out in public, and you're making more money than you've ever dreamed of. That kind of thing can be very challenging to deal with if you don't have the right kind of guidance from your family members. And some families DO keep their famous kids grounded by keeping them involved in ordinary activities, like sports, music lessons, Girl Scouts, etc., and teach them that fame and fortune aren't everything. Sadly, though, with some parents, having a famous child star in their family can turn their heads, and they end up exploiting their kids, and they keep on exploiting them even when it's obvious that the kids are miserable, and don't want to act anymore. And sometimes people who started acting as children, suddenly find that they start losing popularity with the public when they hit their teens and grow out the of "cute stage", and since this usually occurs just as they're used to getting boatloads of admiration from their fans, they suddenly can't handle it when they find out that they're not as popular anymore as they once were. Relatively few child stars can successfully transition into adult stars, and many of them either adapt to the drop in their popularity and keep on making films, or they take a different direction in their lives altogether. One good example of a famous child star who DIDN'T ruin her life by making bad decisions, was Shirley Temple. She was the most famous child star that ever lived, but she also had a loving family, and she also had a tutor who helped to keep her interest in world events alive, which eventually led to Shirley becoming an ambassador years later. Shirley didn't do drugs, abuse alcohol or sleep around and become a poor role model; she made positive choices with her life long after her popularity as a child star faded. But she also had guidance and a good upbringing as well, which helped a lot. When child stars have parents who put their kids' health and emotional well-being over that of film and TV stardom, it really can make a difference! We all have celebrities we admire, for various reasons. Sometimes we just need to remember that, while we might admire these people for their ability to sing, dance, or act, or perhaps they're political figures, they're just as human as everyone else on this planet, and just as capable of making bad decisions as anyone else. We shouldn't be putting these people up on pedestals and then become disillusioned when they tumble off of them, for whatever reason. And I believe that when you actually have a chance to interact with a favorite celeb, whether it's through social media or an in-person interaction, you should try to treat them like ordinary people, as much as possible, because these people, in spite of maybe being more talented, more famous or wealthier than you, are still just human beings, with the same feelings and emotions as the rest of us! And even for some who have made bad decisions somewhere in their past, I don't hold that against them, as long as they have learned from those decisions and moved on with their lives! I have a few favorite celebs that I follow on social media, and I always try to be kind, respectful and supportive when I post on their pages, even if I don't agree with something that they're saying or doing! The world could do with more people being kind to each other on social media, whether they talking to a famous person or not!

[@chimanwokolo4394]

Thanks for the informative video Christy! All of this shows that mental health is important and it shouldn't be ignored nor neglected. You have to maintain your well-being and good self! -Chima

[@lovebug4263]

You are such a sweetheart and so articulate Christy! I'm glad you got out of Hollywood.

[@sagelovescoffee]

Amanda Bynes hits the hardest. I feel like I grew up with her and it just breaks my heart.

[@oooh19]

yea I remember watching her on All That

[@amylee8969]

Yes, I hope Amanda recovers I feel sorry for her

[@dannigro8794]

At least you didn’t go publicly crazy. It really must be tough being a popular young actress followed around always photographed never getting privacy. But I really hope all those actresses got help and are working through any problems. And Christy which ever problems you had I’m glad that they didn’t become public And you were able to work through them.

[@QueXLcior]

I'm glad people are starting to be more empathetic to the unique struggles *theatrically talented* women in the public eye, face. No amount of riches can really replace the damage from having your privacy taken away, your personal life and choices scrutinized and your emotional and mental sanity being tampered with and tested in the public sphere and in your career sphere. It's disheartened to see really talented women go through so much turmoil and strife in their lives just because it's their higher calling to sing, dance, act or entertain. I'm not a big fan of typecasting, because no one is just one thing--but women are especially not just one thing. Women are so individual and multifaceted and I think our world is particularly geared to suppress how vibrant, colorful, magnificent and fluid we are as people through these "crazy making" processes. So we end up having our personalities and spirits face lots of limitations, and becoming distorted and twisted in a negative way, and its very hard to make a turn around from that. True representation of women and girls everywhere would help females completely understand that they can be WHOEVER or WHATEVER they want, even someone or something totally original, that we've never seen before.

[@tcan4959]

You’re awesome. Such a positive influence. I miss Amanda Bynes and lynsey lohan. I think they were both great entertainers. I always told my children to judge them only by they’re work. Their personal life is they’re business. To pray for them if you aren’t approving of their behavior. The young men have the same pressures. It’s terrible that people feel the need to know all about celebs. I only watch you to help support you. I really love what you’re doing. You’re so entertaining

[@Themando24]

Lindsey lohan is making a movie on netflix

[@tcan4959]

Superb

[@josephalbright8672]

I loved watching these! She has such a kind, honest, and wise approach to her content. She's such a force. I'm a fan❤

[@shirosh809]

i love your content so much! amen to this video and this message at the end! let them live as long as they didn't do something illegal!

[@andie3448]

Christy Carlson Romano : kindness is actually way more powerful than rooting someone to fail. Yall need to remember that.

[@lizethcamacho44]

i love that you said kindness is more powerful because i always say its free to be kind 💜

[@inuyasha88]

I really like how insightful you are about this topic. The young girls you talked about must have been through so much pressure

[@karleighrock593]

I think Young actors in Hollywood should look to stars like Zendaya and Hilary Duff as a prime example of how to succeed in the industry.

[@willgonzales5140]

I had no idea what you actress and actors go through behind closed doors so much pressure plus more when you have a passion for acting well said 👏

[@BananaKing274]

"Kindness is way more powerful than rooting for someone to fail." C.C.R.

[@radfoo72]

You're so emotionally intelligent and insightful! I love your talks because you always make valid points while making an effort to see things from various perspectives and other points of view. Some people ramble but I Never get bored with your talks!

[@joebaumgart1146]

"As Soon as you turn 18". *Dan Schneider has entered the chat*

[@wutwutdayum]

It honestly does make me fear for these young women. To be in an industry where not only are they frequently the prey of gross older men who use their power for evil but also like you said they are pretty much set up to fail, it’s not hard to see why so many “go crazy” and have “breakdowns”. The media loves demonizing these young women. I hope Olivia Rodrigo has good agents who protect her!

[@timelkin838]

This one hit me even as a guy. Mental health is at an all time high. I love movies and acting and I need money but hate the concept of fame for the power that it will have over you and being blind to certain things. I think Christy makes a great point on how you have to have the right people around you. Whoever Leo has around him he's kept the most iconic career of our Gene. It seems to be hard to.be a serious child actor then also want to continue that. Like MJ never having a childhood with the Jackson 5 or Dakota Fanning who I haven't seen in awhile although I do think she is great. Still hard to judge anyone as a child. It feels like too much exposure for anyone to manage. Marlon Brando hated the spotlight outside of the movie in interviews. I don't think I'd let my kid do acting on TV. Your story has brought a light to me about living in Hollywood and NYC.

[@nicolebrown5987]

Dakota is in the showtime "First Lady" series. She's Michelle Pfeffer's daughter, Susan.

[@MysticalandTough]

I really appreciate these videos of yours. Thank you

[@Dr.Gold-Dry-Bowser]

I noticed that it usually happens from Disney Channel.

[@MG-st2pj]

Your channel is my favorite KZbin channel your videos make a difference I admire your bravery for sharing your personal experiences

[@Katie_Jo_21]

Giving them grace has power. I agree. So many folks say things out loud about others (especially public figures) and never really feel like “oh they may hear this”, or “oh they may read this”. Dude! Everything you put out on the internet or into the public yourself can be read or heard by any person including celebs. We should say it knowing that there are some odds that the person on the other end could maybe be receiving it and/or may be affected by it. My brother was a guitarist in a Seattle band when grundge was huge. And thankfully taught me that Denny’s coffee and laughs was better than after shows. But that did not mean that I had not literally bumped into someone of importance to art during the day as a young adult. Or at a sound check when I was older. Seattle was huge for Movie making then as well and was invited to set as a teen cause Warner Brothers was using my moms work building. So seen work in action. Infrequently. Or as “talent” 😂 myself on a local music video set as a 20 something short chick … Let me assure you that every last one of those involved hears newsworthy content from time to time and that we as listeners and viewers have some amount of mental sway even incidentally at times. So let’s be aware and be mindful of our words. Words matter even when they are Twitter or Facebook. It has power too 😍 friends. Be well. 🙏

[@antmerf3333]

It's a lot pressure for kids. Thanks for talking about it

[@buywisdomdontsellit135]

Great vid Ms Romano. Allyson Stoner also did an excellent KZbin video touching on this issue of struggles and effects of the industry called: "The Toddler-to-Trainwreck industrial complex..."

[@Kittycatlover24]

This is kind of a weird question-but I was watching 2x15 of Even Stevens and there’s a part where Tawny calls Louis a jackass. Did the writers debate on putting that word on a kids’ show or anything like that?

[@tylerfoster-mosley100]

I loooove Bella Thorne!!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@brookelynnbby]

I love your outfits , your style is everything ❤

[@PhoenixGamerxx96]

"Most child actors go through that. Unless you can transition into an adult star, your career is over." -Morgan Brittany Child actresses like Miley Cyrus start out pretty good in their acting career as young teens. But unless they have grown up or understand the basics of life, they turned out famous as an adults--in the worst way possible. They never take the time to question themselves about what's right or wrong and what consequences it will have on them. And they'll treat necessities of values and maturity wrongfully. They don't know nor see why they're doing it till it has a effect on them and their careers as actresses.

[@CBlizard]

I agree!

[@barbievale]

Miley turned out pretty well actually. She's amazing.

[@maaarrccoo]

i feel like people only put miley cyrus in this category because she started getting naked and singing about sex and drugs. miley has never once displayed signs that she is *actually struggling in real life and all things considered seems pretty well-adjusted. people just need to be honest and say that they aren’t a fan of her image and leave it at that.

[@jameshayes7937]

The person who walks backwards in these videos deserves An award .

[@saphronsbeautyunboxings]

I think it's because they sacrifice their childhood to give a childhood to others. Acting/singing etc is a full time job and kids dont have the maturity to deal with it.

[@ntmn8444]

They don’t but if they have mature, responsible, and caring adults, they do. Zendaya is a great example of that.

[@rabidfollower]

You can have these issues whether you are a celebrity, not a celebrity, child of a celebrity, etc., in short, anyone. The key is to find the right treatment and have supportive people near you when you need help. The problem with the media is that they often look for the most salacious detail. Many people have problems that are quite mundane but no less harmful. E.g. mental duress from simply not having enough money to put food on the table, etc.

[@Maw0]

I just watched an interview with Pre-Disney Raven Symone. She looks so different!

[@derekclancy6916]

I remember when Amanda Bynes got into all that trouble years ago. She didn't seem like she would ever get into any trouble. I was sad for her. She was so talented and such a hard worker. I think she is doing better these days. I haven't seen her in the news lately so that maybe a good thing. Maybe she is Concentrating on her own personal life. I and many of her other fans wish her the best of luck.

[@andrelott6920]

I'm glad to you're doing ok now Christy and I hope that Orlando Brown is getting better!

[@lorrainelassig-banks1094]

Can I also just say that yes Christy you went through a lot of struggles many of us dont know and may never understand but whats important is you clearly got on the other side of it, learned and are doing so well now. I think you, Raven, Hilary Duff and Dylan and Cole Sprouse are proof that you can go through child fame and come keep your head straight. And to me that is more inspiring than anything else.

[@AndrewSmoot]

It seems, to me, that the Disney Machine is so controlling, expecting their most prominent actors/actresses to be these perfect representatives of the brand, that when those actors/actresses get out from under the Disney umbrella they overcompensate for not being allowed to make mistakes during their childhoods/young adulthoods, and it just so happens they're the ones to have that behavior documented for the world to see. Meanwhile, even if the rest of us have documentation of our behavior, no one outside of our circle of family and friends is privy to that behavior. And then there are the actors who are the breadwinner for the family, who act out because as long as they're the ones bringing in the money, their parents can't really tell them to behave a certain way anymore.

[@stephaniealaia769]

I really enjoy your input on things, Christy! Everything you say is so real and genuine! Keep these videos up!

[@catloverKD]

I think one of the best things about mental health being more openly talked about now is that instead of reveling in people going off the rails, we can say "This person needs help." Whether there's an underlying condition there or not, and there not be any shame in it. And if you need an example of the double standard, think about Britney Spears breakdown compared to Charlie Sheen's. She ended up with a conservatorship and her career collapsed while he was able to PROFIT off of his. I was thinking "This poor guy is having some kind of mental health crisis" and everyone else just thought it was the greatest thing.

[@naniagnanakkan1306]

I never thought this topic would ever come up. I have noticed that among the original early 2000s actresses/singers, Dakota Fanning and Abigail Breslin have been the most successful. I do not know what the secret is but the cast of Friends have remained clean. I still like "A Thousand Miles". Avril Lavigne still has a strong following. There are a lot of actresses that have been in questionable films/tv shows that never get called out (like the cast of Orange is the New Black for example) but because they have enough popularity and have not been reported to have bad behavior (in their real lives)... they "get away with it" or pull off their brand/look better than their peers. Maybe it is also because they have remained physically attractive/ physically wholesome (who knows). Pirates of the Caribbean and Spiderman (2002) were both violent films. Why were violent entertainment allowed to survive and thrive (even after 9/11)? I think in the future, actresses must be at least 40 to be a part of Hollywood. I feel torn though... I have liked a lot of questionable movies and tv shows lol. I ended up enjoying nude yoga girl instagram and sexologist jaiya ma... As a southasian, I will always have a special place in my heart for Mindy Kaling even though I never identified with her. I think pbs kids was the best thing that continued on during the early 2000s (and beyond). As to why some actresses go crazy and why some do not. I do not know for sure. But I do think being apart of the Disney umbrella/brand puts extra pressure on people who under another brand would not be expected to behave demure. But then (have you noticed) the same exact people who complain about Disney cry when it is no longer there... They are often the ones who cry the most.

[@ghostface3254]

I wouldn’t necessarily say Miley went crazy every move of hers was calculated she knew exactly how to play the media to her advantage if anything she was the smartest child star out of all of them

[@joeryan3183]

I agree with you, she is just trying to grow up

[@tanmanasmr]

@@joeryan3183 I don’t think grinding on a married man is really the correct way to grow up. I thought Miley was a great actress, but she had many young children following her. And before anyone tells me the children grew up, they still sold Hannah Montana stuff and played Hannah Montana replays everywhere in 2013. She still had a responsibility whether she wanted it or not. The good thing is that it seems her life is finally on a normal track now.

[@ghostface3254]

@@tanmanasmr ok but how is other peoples children her responsibility she’s not a parent herself? Did you really expect her to not be herself just cause kids will see what she’s doing that’s in no way her problem. And robin thicke was the one who was married and he was in rehearsals for that performance as much as she was.

[@AyeeeItsCam]

Yeah, appropriating Black American culture to be considered "crazy" by white people, but popular by Black people and other POC. As soon as that was accomplished, she went back to Ms. Innocent

[@Meganquigs]

@@tanmanasmr don’t just blame just the girl. Robin was just as guilty too by letting it happen. They were “acting” on stage though too.

[@lauraashley4009]

I just recently rediscovered you/your content and I'm loving all of it!!! Thanks for sharing your experiences in the industry and in life...🖤🖤🖤 And I absolutely LOVE that sweatshirt!

[@collinsdarkwa281]

Very Interesting

[@patrickfairchild2330]

Therapy is still a dirty word and it's a shame.....sometimes it's as simple as a friendly ear

[@firebird_613]

What a awesome vid keep up the great work christy and always keep being strong 😊 hope you have a great day

[@beaniegee5129]

Love these videos very much!!

[@laurenseidel]

This was an incredibly interesting video. I think Demi Lovato is another one who fell prey to others setting them up to fail and the media somewhat reveling in their failure. Also, I found it very interesting to listen to your comments with Shia in mind - and I don’t mean that in a negative way, just that he’s someone who is portrayed as having ‘lost his mind’ (though obviously not a female, just someone who has acted out). Anyway, I’ve been watching your videos for a few months now but this is the first one where I felt compelled to comment. Thanks for the very thoughtful content!

[@Geengarner]

Shia is an abuser

[@arenjtumastens]

Today's the 23rd anniversary of Cartoon Network's "The Powerpuff Girls" and Mickey Mouse's 93rd anniversary. Also the 33rd anniversary of Disney's "Oliver and Company." And the 53rd birthday of actor Owen Wilson, voice of Lightning McQueen.

[@eebb93]

She has such a soothing story teller voice

[@mikeschmidt7794]

I watched your video christy!!!!! Great tips and intetesting!!!!!

[@lunaroserowanstrength2046]

Well, this was again amazing content and resonated more than I expected. I are a great communicator.

[@lunaroserowanstrength2046]

I mean you are*

[@Benouille1988]

I love these real talks

[@angeliquemariel2916]

You gave us such great advice Christy, a huge thank you to you!!❤️🙏🏼

[@animeandanimals]

I always thought the idea of being famous would be very mentally damaging. Everytime someone "went crazy" all I could think was how horrible everyone was treating them after having to live constantly being watched or judged every moment of their life.

[@Will-bg6gi]

I think a lot of it is from stress. Regular adults often turn to self-medication because of stressors and in Hollywood we have these kids who are WORKING real jobs, sometimes crazy hours despite labor laws, they’re held hostage under a magnifying glass for the sake of public scrutiny. Sometimes they get into showbiz to help their parents pay bills. It’s a lot for kids to deal with, then you throw in the regular stresses of adolescence. But I don’t like the narrative of every one of them “going off the rails” in the media. Some are having mental breaks and then there’s the ones like Miley who just do crazy things to force the public to stop associating them solely with a role they once had in their childhood so they can be an adult. A saying that comes to mind from Xena, “If you keep someone on a pedestal eventually they will fall and your expectations will fall with them.” I think it’s unfair to put pressure on kids to be role models for other peoples’ children and to expect them to continue doing that into their adulthood.

[@opienattyvlogs7930]

Yes love this video ... I can relate even though I'm not a celebrity but I'm a small youtuber and as a content creator you do have to be careful I've seen the bigger youtubers get a ton of hate for things

[@v7chandler220]

I like your acting and music. I hope in your journey that you will continue in acting and making more music. God Bless

[@reignofaragon6890]

Well said