I really needed this today. He definitely took me for granite. I stopped talking to him. Stop caring... he will no longer minimum wage me again. When you don't create a standard you create a standard. Make him work for it. You got to love you more than you like him. He text me for 3 hours after I ghosted him but never again will I do all the work.
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching
@mariewilliams32032 жыл бұрын
He has got to work for me and earn my love
@ZuzanaDurkovska Жыл бұрын
Love it.... happening to me right now😅
@oldangels4442 жыл бұрын
1) You have to make him audition for the "job" not you to audition. It's all about perception. He is seeing how you react to the stimulus (text etc) he is giving you and then he keeps doing it until you are emotionally invested in him. Now he got you and he will back off to see what he can get away with. To see how he can minimum wage you. Now you start coming to him, chase him and you do and you put with things that normally on your standards you wouldn't accept it. How to flip the script on his ass: Now he got you into a pattern, he devalue you because he hasn't invest in you to get all the things you giving him. He takes you for granted. STOP CARING IF YOU WANT HIM TO CARE FOR YOU. Interrupt the mental and emotional pattern of his. When you don't create a standard you create a standard. Back away and let him come to you. Make him earn for what you give him !!! Money is just a representation of life. You have to love yourself more that you love him or like him.
@littlemissunimpressed2 жыл бұрын
We gotta stop over-giving and keep them at arms length always
@sevensparklestoyreview16522 жыл бұрын
Yes... I pulled back and he came forward, but I realized my mistake and I had to leave him to figure out his. I didn't go back!
@toniaparker35432 жыл бұрын
HIGH-FIVE IKTR!
@shanettamcvay2 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂FLIP THE SCRIPT ON HIS ASS😂😂😂😂
@dianadamcknight99022 жыл бұрын
Mannnn....You are telling the truth!!!! And I did EXACTLY what you said...He came back to me a TOTALLY diffrent person.I can say I cared too much in the beginning and he knew that..This was the perfect explanation!
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
I appreciate you
@kendramonroe56662 жыл бұрын
Yesssirrrr I flipped that script he’s on the block list now he calling and following like a puppy 😂✨
@toniaparker35432 жыл бұрын
I had a guy to do me like that twice so the joke ended up on him. I blocked his a$$!!
@ewm42662 жыл бұрын
Oooh, the evil laugh😂....You had to, didn't you ...🤣🤣.dyum I'm a victim of this😂😂😂
@krissykriss732 жыл бұрын
Whew chile 💅🏾this was great and a wide eye opener. The script I flipped was...I'm out💨 Yeah, nawl we aint even about to do that!!!!! *Peace an blessings Sir 🧡
@jayviensam Жыл бұрын
Sometimes in for a man to lose you and regret is to go no contact and block him and act like he never exist. He'll come and some don't. If it's meant to be, itll be. DON'T ever wait on man. that's not READY or BUSY. SIMPLE. You're showing him your worth more and your respect yourself. ❤
@mariajohansson9762 жыл бұрын
This is very helpful and helped confirm my hunches about this stuff… Here’s what I’m curious about, though: Are there men who chase without any of this manipulative BS? (I have zero tolerance policy for tests, games, etc… Maybe that’s why I’m still single… 😕)
@aleciamoten68672 жыл бұрын
You're really helping a sister out! Thank you!!
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@ms_may_gyen Жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 my brain is backwards AF! I audition men lmao I let them think whatever they wanna think, but I know I’m a catch 💯 I just be consistent and watch these boys try to pull me this way and that way but I don’t move. Eventually they just fall away naturally. But the solid ones, they also know themselves and they don’t try to pull me, they pull themselves, I pull myself and whoever stays with me I see them. If a guy falls into my emotional side, immediately I know he’s not the one for me.
@rainclouds11882 жыл бұрын
I just discovered your channel and I'm already watching your videos back to back. Love your delivery, straight no chase, Great job, I have subscribe and waiting for all notifications.
@lorettagrant9665 Жыл бұрын
This is so true! 💯 Know your worth and have standards!❤
@luvlibabygirl2 жыл бұрын
I love learning from you. You give the best advice ever so far I'm pulling back we shall see where it goes
@aniabrandt72 жыл бұрын
The best peace of advice ever been given for women and the explanation is just mind blowing. Thank u Thank u
@shalimarie9016 Жыл бұрын
Not to be dramatic, but this should be on CNN, lol. We have a crisis called"Psychological Games that men play". And this video may very damn well save many lives .No joke. Its a lot of psychological wars going on with relationships and they get very dangerous.
@chamekawilliams52 жыл бұрын
preach the truth💯🙏
@Ruth-vy1qj Жыл бұрын
I wish I had known this long time ago as well as many many women that I know. I had a few who wanted to come back I didn't care. You can't keep using people & not reap what you sow. I have seen/heard a lot of men karma come back to their lives. Some do change for the better. I also saw some who can't find a good woman in their life. You really reap what you sow. God doesn't like ugly. Women you don't pick a standard he automatically picks one and he will test you to find out what category you belong to.
@smccormick69322 жыл бұрын
Great Job!!!
@namasteshellz13972 жыл бұрын
Dropping gems!!! Thank you!!!!
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
Thank You. I appreciate you
@LovkynaPeral2 жыл бұрын
🍀What a energy here?! I like it 🍀 💪💪💪💪 Sooo helpful! 👍👍👍🍀
@carinaschmitt12 жыл бұрын
You are giving us some precious information. Thanks a lot! 🤗
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
So nice of you
@ruqayyahabdul-kareem56582 жыл бұрын
You did an excellent job! I got
@dianepopnick58504 ай бұрын
If I am getting mixed signals I am gone. I was burned once by such a person so I learned my lesson
@Mikeismybaby02 Жыл бұрын
the fact that relationships are all games irritates me
@terranesha5784 Жыл бұрын
Me too sometimes I wish I was in the 60s meet a man and live life
@trachellchristie45032 жыл бұрын
Love this one
@tyresecarter55392 жыл бұрын
LOVE IT!!!!! THXS!!
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
I'm glad you like it
@itsnova12452 жыл бұрын
That rre That’s real life yes it’s a game and I plan 🏆
@ewm42662 жыл бұрын
Does this work on husbands?
@ericawillis68362 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the real I know some men mad ..
@marciamangru15852 жыл бұрын
I learnt alot from this video💯God bless you 😇🙏
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing
@sheriwl11 ай бұрын
Manipulation is always negative
@lashontaylor30752 жыл бұрын
This was a good one.
@smileyaqua1501 Жыл бұрын
Awesome 👏🏽 Ken you are the best coach ever we so appreciate you ♥️🙏🏽😃
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
You're the best!
@JessicaFayToday Жыл бұрын
Amazing content! 💙
@CoachKenCanion Жыл бұрын
Thank you 🙌
@mrznikkij2 жыл бұрын
You have been a blessing! Thank you
@CoachKenCanion2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sooo much
@dgirdaukas9587 Жыл бұрын
Is this true of 70yr olds too!?!!
@sharonbartley80811 ай бұрын
Can't be bothered
@basicinfo20229 ай бұрын
12:38 👏🔑
@MJ-vt4nb Жыл бұрын
Help us out Coach Ken lawd smh
@chynabarnescb2 жыл бұрын
Exactly 👌🏾
@jelizabethpetrie66562 жыл бұрын
Spoken like a dad of daughters or big brother of sisters❤🎯💯. Love is a game. Like it or not. #awomanshowsherstandardsetitright