Why Do Narcissists Judge So Easily?🤥

[@kathrynrealhealthtalk910]

It's ALL ABOUT CONTROL AND THATS IT

[@tenningale]

My #1 Narc Rule = I give zero personal information to these people. No opinions about anything. No reactions/no emotions. They weaponize everything against you. Everything is "wrong" with everybody else. I've found that even giving your address is a mistake. Because then your house is too small or too big. Or you're too poor or too rich. Or there's something wrong with the city you live. Or so-and-so has this house/stuff, etc etc... Sick of the BS.

[@Mds1472]

They need you to be "less than" why they need to be " more than " No one will be sticking around too long...

[@richellepeace4457]

Their internal superiority, just like satan did to God......

[@Percepta-whispe]

Yes

[@proverbs2522]

Narcissists are so weird. They often mirror and parrot others around them in their actions and communications but they also project their thoughts and understandings onto those same individuals in which they mimic. It’s crazy. They judge people as if they are you criticizing them. This is my experience anyway.

[@Zatanna22]

You said that very well. The critical things they say to you seem to actually be what you should be saying to them.

[@martininsf]

@@Zatanna22 VERY true!

[@Zatanna22]

@@martininsf mind blowing. Leaves you feeling extremely confused if you've never met someone like this.

[@file13whereareyou]

The furniture thing, omg, its true! I visualize him as a 5 y/o girl, with a doll house full of tiny furniture and tiny dolls. His mind has the depth of a 5 y/o girl, too. And he's a medical professional. Scarey, right? These ppl could be your doctor, your pharmacist, your child's teacher and you have no idea, so watch out and THINK first, before getting too close to anyone.

[@rosaliecandelaria3549]

The thought of being a piece of furniture . That is disgusting . But also true . They use only for whatever is for their own convenience as much as possible . Never caring . Only phoniness ,lies . ♥️😇🕊️

[@anonymouscm7270]

...so very insightful indeed, many thanks Dr. C and please be safe and take care Dr. C., Gus and Team Healthy🙏🌷🕊💝🤗

[@VenusianLissette]

we love Dr. C around💛 thank you, your knowledge & words are so healing. be blessed.❣️

[@Debbie-e3g]

Yes, exactly! I've noticed that. It's rather infuriating! 🤨

[@aliceroberts1980]

I’m going to tell him why doesn’t he work on himself instead of complaining about what I’m doing ! I told him to quit try to steal my brother self-esteem and get his own because every day after work he would come home and complain about my brother just out of the blue we weren’t talking about my brother we hadn’t talked about him in months but every day after work he would talk about what a loser. My brother was he was an alcoholic and he was mentally ill so I finally just told him one day why don’t you stop trying to steal my brother’s self-esteem and get your own and he shut up and he never talked about him again

[@BaraSchmidt]

An individual who has a narcissistic personality style is a HOLLOW human whose whole purpose in life is to TAKE~ from us. That is THEIR Supply used to "appear" Healthy. That's a losing battle! Appearing Healthy is good from far, but far from good Ain't nothing like the REAL thing, baby! Healthy is as Healthy does. Stay Healthy!!

[@Percepta-whispe]

Yes

[@Lynda-c5s]

Yes

[@andreagain8347]

The part he said about furniture needing to be arranged . Lately when my boyfriend picks me up we been together I've 13 yrs I didn't know in the beginning I was with a narcissist now I know it's gotten a lot worse and a comment he started making to me see he picks me up and takes me home until I lost my car I didn't need a ride but I have no car now anyways he says. I'm Sick of hauling you around.. and I thought am I a piece of furniture . But the way he said it makes me feel like a piece of junk . Ok I'm done now peace. One day I'll open my eyes I hope...

[@peacefulheart433]

Truth. Thank you , Dr C. Bless you.

[@ricardajames5769]

Thank you ❤

[@alimccreery755]

That was worded on point especially with the arranged part. I prefer to be who I am and make my own decisions about what I want to change about myself instead of so called officials who think they have the right to decide who should undergo behavioral modification. Those individuals can just kmass 👍👍👍

[@janetmangione8772]

Thanks, that was very insightful. Well done!!!

[@AreyouintoSports]

Thank You

[@elcee7800]

EXACTLY. Perfectly stated.

[@holistichoneybee87]

Piece of property

[@packrat76]

General loathing of other people.

[@susansimon4255]

What an insightful post!

[@gailhall6283]

Ha! Talk about being objectified. 🤨

[@lorid6544]

That describes my mom!

[@karenfisher4170]

💔

[@victoriabenton8378]

Wow! Just wow. I always wondered ...

[@amandajuhl1107]

Oh wow, this is good🤌💞🫂🪽🙌✝️✅✊

[@abbeybon]

👌👌💪

[@Bell-w3i]

wow so they distract themselfs from thier own problems by obsessing over other people & what thier doing.gosh.insights welcome to help us understand them,could they heal past,give up addictions & then grow fully into thier full potential? hope they can .josh 😊