Why do people bully each other on dating apps?

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[@everyoneelsemovedonfan]

Hey Daniel, I'm an autistic musician and producer and I would love to share my music with you 💜💜💜

[@eset5806]

This says you posted 30 minutes ago and new tab with youtube says this video was posted 11 minutes ago. Are you a time traveler? (that's how Occam's Razor works, right? no other simple explanation)

[@ianfidelrabl2669]

@@eset5806 i was just wondering how he actually did it, then i realized he doesnt have to publish the video immediately

[@Mejesticblossoms88]

Cherry Blossom.

[@sophiel787]

@@everyoneelsemovedonfan yeah same I covered one of his songs on harp

[@arl_does_stuff]

I completely forget he has a life outside of being the powerful entity known as 'hoodie guy'.

[@Localcatgirl_]

Happens to the best of us

[@Professor_Toothpaste]

Hoddie Guy is the best character! 👌 🙌

[@kindauncool]

+@@Professor_Toothpastehoodie

[@rosiered6712]

Who's hoodie guy?

[@SaraRankins.]

Kwite?

[@gabbieblue]

"BUT IM A GOOD BOY, IM SUCH A GOOD BOY" is too real

[@Meggzilla]

I want to leave your comment a like, but it's at 69 and I don't want to fuck it up

[@gabbieblue]

@@Meggzilla you did the right thing

[@voltmatrix1250]

As a good boy I disagree

[@gabbieblue]

@@voltmatrix1250 are you joking or are you offended i cant tell sorry-

[@voltmatrix1250]

@@gabbieblue Joking

[@thorgidogofthunder]

"musicals are so unrealistic! people don't just randomly break out into song!" daniel:

[@ruthielalastor2209]

Daniel is the guy musicals warn you about 😂

[@horseluver4ever623]

I was watching a Game Grumps video yesterday and Dan said "It just occurred to me how often we break out into song."

[@AammaK]

Update: I have yet to get a permit to install a doorbell that plays ”You’re not invited” by Daniel Thrasher.

[@chantelinsertnamehere4513]

That's hilarious, goals

[@janeygemmell]

Why isn’t it a short?!

[@antine1279]

I would love that!! Thanks for the idea

[@MidnightNachos]

you need a permit for that?!

[@cats1970]

@@MidnightNachos depends on where you live! especially if you rent, fall under a HOA or live in a government assisted facility

[@spookycaspy]

I take "I like to laugh" to mean you're always down for a silly, goofy time. Everyone enjoys something humorous from time to time, but not everyone is down to clown 24/7 lol.

[@victoriah.20]

Except everyone has a different definition it seems when they say "I like to laugh", so when someone else says it they might mean something completely different.

[@spookycaspy]

@@victoriah.20 for sure, I get that. That's just my interpretation :)

[@Neuvalence]

i like to throw bad puns every chance i get, laugh at dumb things, and i always like to make my friends laugh……. but some days im just 😐😐😐😐 for like the entire day 💀

[@kindauncool]

+@@victoriah.20 Fun fact: this is true of every single thing any human says ever!

[@aleximarie8958]

​@@NeuvalenceLmao you sound like a fun friend

[@Firelupe4ever]

10:33 Regarding turning against someone when they don't reply immediately, Daniel is right. YOU'LL BE FINE. I messaged a guy on OkCupid and didn't hear back for a few days... He replied "Hey! I'm sorry, I haven't been on here much lately." We celebrated 5 years married this May.

[@JasminMiettunen]

Yeah, I didn’t reply for a few days because I missed the notification, but next month it’ll be six months we've been talking every day. Not quite comparable to a marriage but things are going well! No reason to freak out over a few days.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

Right! People have lives, it's fair to not be all the time into the dating game.

[@strawberryfox8819]

It's also like... I'm not trying to buy you, it's not like the housing market where I really wanted that home. I'm talking to a person and a person can just not like me from the first moment and that's okay. If someone doesn't want to text me willingly, I don't want anything to do with them either because obviously, we don't fit, but I won't insult them over it.

[@supper-girl7405]

Fuck off, that’s so cute ❤❤

[@jolenetheredhead9761]

@@tdelioncourt1268 The people who freak out that fast are just horny and want a hook up. Probably sending other women the same shit.

[@Laodicia101]

I'd never considered the possibility of maple syrup getting behind my knee. To think it could have happened earlier tonight while baking. It is a dangerous life I lead.

[@misak481]

This video is just a disguised grammar lesson and I appreciate that

[@Son-of-Gondor]

9:45 “Apostrophe, R, E!!” I understand your pain, Mr. Daniel. I understand your pain. I almost made joke by changing the “your” in my sentences to “you’re.”

[@Son-of-Gondor]

12:36 “This is where the comma is important.” Your understanding of grammar is a wonder to behold.

[@Sunbeargirl-]

I feel the same way! 😂

[@TheShadow0515]

You made the right call

[@ATWQ160]

Daniel has SHINY OBJECT SYNDROME

[@antine1279]

Yeah it's called ADHD

[@Opbee12]

@@antine1279 😭I opened the reply not expecting that

[@monetchandler1654]

The impersonation of men being offended and saying “I’M A GOOD BOY! I’M A GOOD BOY!!!!” is waayyyy too accurate lmao. They get so defensive over the fact that ALMOST EVERY woman has a bad experience with a dude.

[@tiggy4591]

​@@LycanKai14 fear and insecurities?

[@tiggy4591]

@@LycanKai14 I was giving other potential reasons. But yeah...I've seem some guys get obsessive about it. It is weird to be so obsessed with how people you don't know may view you. It would be funny if they are so afraid of being a social outcast for something they didn't do, they become a social outcast for something they did do.

[@DwynTwo]

The worst thing is that a popular new feminist mantra here in Germany by big feminist influencers is now too "Don't be so quick to judge men you don't know, it's sexist to be prejudiced and fearful towards them without even knowing their intentions!" Not all of them outright say it like this, but it's more than implied. I mean, they still tell women to be careful, but it doesn't sit right with me how they bring forward the point of "blanket suspicion", and everyone in the comments is eating that up

[@Netheraptr]

I do honesty think there is a problem with “men suck” type-statements. I know the vast majority of people who say stuff like that don’t actually mean all men, but there are a minority who do, and things like that can accelerate such beliefs. Women do need to be careful and have their problems recognized, and the men who are weird do need to be called out, but it’s common for guys to be looked at with suspicion without showing any red flags. Even if you don’t personally believe all men suck, seeing people online talk about how often men as a whole are all the time can develop subconscious prejudices you might not even be aware about. To me it’s kinda the same as “women suck” jokes. In the right crowd these jokes can work if your audience knows you’re joking or exaggerating these are fine, but in the broader world where people can have very extreme opinions, you have to realize that these type of statements are often gonna be taken at face value.

[@antine1279]

@@Netheraptr yeah men get a bad rap. There's terrible men and there's fantastic men, and everything in between. Same goes for women. People shouldn't generalise

[@sarah345]

What is with women who won’t split the cheque? My husband and I split the bill all the time when we were dating. I do not understand how a person can think men and women are equal, and also think it’s a man’s job to pay for everything. The really bizarre thing is that I know women who make a lot of money too! So it’s not like they can’t afford it and need a man who can provide, they just feel like it’s not their job? I dunno, it feels insanely old fashioned to me.

[@TheSilverInfinity]

right? it feels old fashioned to me as well. but, there are old fashioned people out there who have refused to allow me to pay for my half despite that i wanted to and had the means to. some people just value that i guess, like holding the door and or pulling out the chair. nothing wrong with being 'old fashioned' as long as both sides are in agreement over it I think. good to know up front? on the other side of the spectrum, I wouldnt be able to stand being with someone who always wanted to pay the full bill. once or twice for a special occasion maybe, but never all the time.

[@sarah345]

@@TheSilverInfinity I see what you’re saying but I feel like there’s a difference between old fashioned chivalry like holding a door open and paying for everything. I dunno I guess because women work now, it feels like that part is obsolete. Also it’s free to hold a door open. And even so I wouldn’t want someone to feel obligated, it takes all the romance out of it. But then again, this year I told my husband that I want him to buy me flowers on Valentine’s Day 😆 so I guess I have my own old fashioned ideas.

[@ReptillianStrike]

Some women string men along for free meals at restaurants. Ofcourse they don't want their meal ticket ruined by the expectation that she would split the bill. Also, some women are just entitled to men's money and effort. They believe in the idea that they are the prize, and men have to jump through all of these hoops to catch her. So they expect men to continue to uphold these traditional gender roles but refuse to reciprocate and perform their own stereotypical gender roles.

[@tdelioncourt1268]

Well I'm a woman who tends to split and he always insist on paying everything 😂 he's great otherwise, not sexist based, but I'm puzzled why it's that important to him, let me pay!!!

[@rosy0214]

Tbh I don't trust men who force me to except them paying for me. 1.) Asking if I would like it can be cute but straight up ignoring what I said and going on with it makes me feel like what I want is not important to them. That if they think they are doing the right/good thing, they can force it on me. That's a red flag. 2.) If they are old fashioned in one area, there's a chance they will be old fashioned in other areas (other areas that are no longer romantic but oppressive) 3.) They might expect something in return. That's is how my friend ended up being r^ped. He ignored her plea for a split whenever he paid for her (and he always paid for her when they were togather). And when she said no to s^xual advances, he said she owned it to him after everything he did for her. That setuation scared me away from letting anyone to pay my half, for life. It's been years now and my friend is okay now. She's married and has a kid but there is one thing she always tells me, don't ever let a man pay for you.

[@user-mm3cq9wg2q]

the dodged a bullet song is a BANGER 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@jacksonjoseph-bn3nf]

the chorous sounds like its from red dead redemption 2 tbh

[@firelordoregano5632]

the triplets 🙌

[@tr-st_me_bro]

We need him to release it

[@elaine5962]

We need a Daniel Reacts album😭

[@aussieoranges]

Comedy show sounds like a sick first date. Up there with magic show and karaoke. The real me is GOING to come out, and my date will know right away if they want to see me again.

[@JasminMiettunen]

I almost went out with a guy I wasn’t sure about just because he asked me for a coffee and comedy show 😂 He ghosted me before the date though, but no loss since I was unsure about if I wanted to go or not anyway

[@aussieoranges]

@@JasminMiettunen Sounds like he does NOT like to laugh.

[@rebeccabaulch4087]

First date with my now husband was to see a horror film at the movies (Drag me to hell - awesome movie) and he saw all my crazy condensed into 1.5hrs (hiding behind hands, ducking down to the floor, covering my ears, and eating 5000 snacks and still being hungry) here we are 15 yrs later 🤷‍♂it works

[@antine1279]

Yeah comedy show sounds fantastic, the only minus is you can't really talk much but you can always go for drinks later

[@viviatwilight]

this would make more sense to say on his main channel but him and man carrying thing would be the most fitting collab ever

[@kevwox]

That’s a collab I’ve never even considered but it makes a ton of sense. Man Carrying Thing’s merch post is also right below this vid on my feed lmfao

[@kindauncool]

...How?

[@Lucas-fl6py]

​@@kevwoxsame omg

[@WigglyTuffStuff]

I didn't even realize I was on his second channel 😂

[@cjstevenson143]

MAIN CHANNEL? WHERE'S THE LINK PLEASE?!

[@empath9814]

I met my husband on Facebook dating app but before I meet him I ran into all kinds of stupid. My favorite thing is when you tell them its not going to work out so they start insulating you and you're appearance. Then they tell you you'll die alone with cats.

[@pieceofshoot]

i would love some insulation, its cold in england

[@ReptillianStrike]

It's a defense mechanism against rejection, and women do it to. I just broke up with a woman who blamed me for everything and doubled down on her own failings when I pointed them out.

[@martibee8984]

​@@ReptillianStrike it's only a defense mechanism for people with insecurities, and who are lacking the maturity to not lash out like a five year old with a sailors mouth. It's not ok no matter who is doing it, and it's a great way to know who to avoid.

[@ReptillianStrike]

@@martibee8984 I wasn't defending it.

[@jiorno_jowana]

Your?

[@MenacingBanjo]

There's a couple of guys in my life who it seems like they genuinely don't love to laugh! They'll talk for hours about something that's made them angry in the news or at their job or whatever. But if they hear a joke, they might nod, or crack a smile if you're lucky, but no laugh. I want people to know I'm not one of those types of guys.

[@victoriah.20]

Maybe the genuinely don't find those jokes funny and instead of laughing out of societal politeness they just don't? And could be laughing at home watching things others may not find funny though they do? What people find funny is very personal and just because you never see someone laugh when you're around them doesn't mean they never do.

[@sarah345]

@@victoriah.20 why are you defending these hypothetical super serious people you don’t know? 😆

[@ReptillianStrike]

Personally, I have a difficult time laughing. I can find things funny, but actually laughing just doesn't happen. Almost every time I laugh with my friends, it's a forced, rehearsed laugh. Not because I'm trying to be fake, but because it's the only way I can express how I found something funny.

[@lyrathekitkat]

​@@victoriah.20let's defend toxic masculinity more instead of praising someone for trying to be more in touch with their feelings, eh? I'm being sarcastic, if your super serious brain couldn't pick up on it

[@carninuz1]

Do they laugh around other people, but not around you?

[@strangejett1394]

The depersonalization advice is very good, just don't take it too far and become a robot.

[@TheSongwritingCat]

This might be the first time I've seen dissociation recommended as advice 😅

[@SquirrellyFries]

Its not that you should depersonalize, its that you should actually make yourself be ok with being single. As in, don't attach all of your self-worth, hopes, and dreams on getting a relationship, to the point that every rejection is a knife in the heart. Let a relationship feel like a gift that would be great to have, rather than a necessity you can't live without. Just let go a little. Ironically, this attitude will make you seem like a more confident person, which is attractive, so dating will actually be easier for you emotionally AND in terms of success. Win-win.

[@blarghinatelazer9394]

Instructions unclear, there's a battery in my ass

[@itsOnlyOlivia]

I'm almost disappointed that I've never experienced online dating, it's like being locked out of a wild "chance encounters" perk in a video game 😂

[@becca53444]

Nah I feel more like the guys in WWII managing to dodge the draft. Insanely lucky.

[@ravenj2400]

@itsOnlyOlivia you missed out on….absolutely nothing. 🕊️

[@annaclara_127]

🎶 I JUST DODGED A BULLEEEEET 🎶

[@Mberlyyy]

I was looking for this😂😂😂😂

[@LysolMyFace]

Being afraid of (creepy, aggressive, unknown)Men seems like a rational fear rather than irrational tbh.

[@ReptillianStrike]

but they didn't say that. They said men. Being afraid of every man is an irrational fear.

[@lyrathekitkat]

No it isn't. Almost every woman on the planet has bad experiences with men. All you've done is prove that you're one to be avoided. Go outside, you've probably forgotten what grass looks like @ReptillianStrike

[@elizabethhoran9268]

​@@ReptillianStrike12:55

[@KooblyK]

​@@ReptillianStrike where did they say every man? "Men" is obviously used as a general term, to describe a commonality within a very large group. And I think people like you know this, because there are also guys who use phrases like "women are so..." be it complimentary or insulting. If a man says "women are beautiful," do you argue with him that he can't possibly find every woman in the world attractive? Maybe you don't realize you're doing it, but this kind of thing is just ignoring the meaning of the speaker to strawman an argument you don't like.

[@ReptillianStrike]

@@KooblyK the difference is that nobody is offended by saying "every x is beautiful" And saying "every x is beautiful" is considered a good thing. That's what's being advertised by the body positivity movement. And I find fault with people saying "every women x" as well. Just not as much because I'm personally not a woman, obviously.

[@roaaoife8186]

My most fun fact is that scientists have found ethyl formate in the center of the Milky Way Galaxy. Ethyl formate is the chemical that gives raspberries their flavor. The Milky Way tastes like raspberries, and that just makes me happy.

[@Czipher]

"Everybody dates" AS AN AROACE, I AM ABOVE YOU ROMANTICS (/j)

[@crowbirdy]

my brain immediately, I'm also aroace. We are above others' dating shenanigans mwa ha ha!

[@Im_Iconic-Youre_Ironic]

Sameeeeee

[@Czipher]

@@crowbirdy heheheh we shall rule the world (eventually)

[@moon_rose_xx]

Me too! Everything’s fine and I float on my little I’m-not-interested-in-people- and-I’ll-never-have-these-problems cloud happily until… one of my besties goes through a relationship crisis and needs advice and I hastily have to scour my brain for what other people have said in similar situations 🫠😭. And then I feel like a bad friend if I say ‘maybe ask someone else’ even if that’s perfectly valid and they’re grateful for my honesty. Still, AROACES UNITE! 💪

[@-_someone_-]

The garlic bread empire shall rise!!!!

[@tiredmrp]

I feel the general defense of misandry is wild. Imagine if a man said half the "girlypop" things being said in those profiles, except about women.

[@oldhihat]

Agreed, and I’m a woman!

[@An_even_fuller_sun]

20:50 This reminded me. One of the best ways to see how many NPCs there are is by working at an airport convenience store. Everyone thinks they are so unique but I can guarantee you we are all basically the same. Everyone complains about the same things. Responds using like the same 4 different options to my customer service scripts: There's a funny option, a basic option and a rude option and no response. Everyone asks the same questions. And after seeing hundreds of people a day like I do, you realize that there are so many similar faces that you often forget if the person that just walked up has been there before or not. Its an international airport but let me tell you everyone is the same, doesn't matter where you're from. Humans are just human. We do and need the same things at the end of the day lol. I think about that often. Of course their are things that set us apart as individuals but in an environment like this (a place that is non political, not based on any particular interests, not targeting any specific demographic) you see that at the base everyone is the same. Not a good or a bad thing, just an observation. I had a racist coworker and it kind of baffled me that she could remain that way and not see how similar everyone is. I guess she was in denial that she was just the same as them.

[@lydiap.9337]

I think it's good that we are so similar. The world would be a much harder place if we weren't all very similar at our core. People can already be cruel, even with our similarities. Imagine how much crueler humans could be if we didn't share anything with the people around us. Empathy is already hard for a lot of people. It becomes even harder when you have nothing in common. It kinda reminds me of sting's song "Russians" about the cold war. "What might save us, me and you Is if the Russians love their children too." It's a frightening thought, that we aren't as individual as we think, but I think in the end I'm very grateful for it.

[@dansihvonen8218]

It's even worse at the gate. Everyone stands in line with their boarding pass in one hand and hand luggage in the other. Everyone acts the same, no individuality anywhere.🙄

[@GrippyGoth]

For me "I like to laugh" boils down to the fact that I like to have a good time, shoot the shit, and don't want anyone to take me too seriously since odds are I don't take myself seriously. Like I'm here for a good time ya know? So let's have a good time together. It might sound silly to announce, but how you show up matters

[@33pandagamer]

If I had a dating profile the first sentence on it would be "I'm a huge fan of Sonic The Hedgehog, and my favorite character is Shadow"

[@martibee8984]

Don't tell men not to get rude when they don't get answered immediately, or aren't swooned over. It's how we immediately know we're better off not getting to know them more, and guys like that will only be polite a little longer. The block/report options are great for them. It is a good thing for youths to learn as a life skill in general though.

[@trolleymouse]

Speaking as a straight dude who has heard women say some absolutely heinous shit, I'm gonna have to agree hard; letting the assholes in the world wave their red flags openly saves everyone a lot of headache.

[@OpticIlluzhion]

You do realize there are... quite valid reasons to not immediately respond, right? Maybe you're particularly busy with work in that moment and/or are in a difficult situation or are literally doing anything other than being glued to a dating app responding to some stranger you haven't chatted with yet??

[@Bluew0lfie]

​@@OpticIlluzhionI think you misunderstood maybe, I think she's saying don't tell men because it's a useful way to vet out the weirdos

[@OpticIlluzhion]

@@Bluew0lfie ohhh that would make much more sense actually

[@martibee8984]

@@Bluew0lfie thanks, yes.

[@ardenbalzer4560]

I zoned out at the “never let men know peace” part, and I came back to hear Danny talking about Spartan I got so confused

[@HandiDandiBrandi]

I love how he says "In Florida, we say 'what up dawg?' all the time'' as if that's something unique to Florida lmao

[@jeryncambrah]

as someone who grew up in florida I laughed obnoxiously at that lol. i was like aww he wants us to have something special 😆

[@animewarfare7066]

@@jeryncambrahyou already do, you have alligators in streets and act like its normal, and the most crazy stories coming from Florida as well

[@vinixesona]

Woww Daniel you spit some straight up philosophical magic dust in the form of words when you described putting yourself out there in the dating world as an avatar and to not take things personally, this is gonna help me in life so much thank you

[@eduardoapontejr2945]

the tinder copy paste im seeing a lot now is like "professional yapper" or "d1 yapper" and its like that tells me so much nothing bc the whole point of us matching is we're gonna have a conversation like im hoing to talk to u thats just how it is

[@catbatrat1760]

Maybe they mean they ramble and go on tangents a lot?

[@brynnfurness2954]

The spartan rant had me cackling 😂😂😂

[@djthenerd]

Where can I find this army of Spartans leading men to war against the enemies?

[@ATWQ160]

Ancient Greece

[@ATWQ160]

Or Tinder

[@antine1279]

Probably Netflix xD

[@RandomCommentz]

It’s kind of weird to just say “men” and then get surprised that other people don’t fill in the “some” part. Don’t support it, advocate to start saying “some” if that’s really how they feel. Thats like me going to a public space and saying “women are horrible” and then calling every woman in the room sensitive for not recognizing I mean “some” and not them specifically. It’s a normal human reaction, it’s up to the person making the statement to form it in the correct way.

[@-inFinity05-]

"People take dating too personally" is the most ironic thing I think I've ever heard. This world is so messed up it just makes me sad.

[@estherhopkins7800]

What the?? No one: Daniel thrasher: My irrational fear: MaPLe SyRuP On ThE InSiDe Of My KnEe 😂😂😂??

[@MANICNEEDSSLEEP]

It is a truly horrible experience

[@ashgerth4360]

…why do you know??

[@MANICNEEDSSLEEP]

@@ashgerth4360 I was an odd child

[@moon_rose_xx]

@@MANICNEEDSSLEEPI… am so sorry but I read that to the tune of Jojo Siwa’s Karma 😭 ’I was a wild child 🎶’

[@sunburst3476]

I can guess how that would feel and I'm cringing at the thought of it 😂😂

[@pandaninja_19]

So, I sincerely had I like to laugh in my profile (until I changed it). I would LOVE a comedy show. I put it there because I felt like people were very serious and only desired athleticism. I love the unserious, the goofball, the knucklehead. Hmm...I guess I put it in hopes of someone making me laugh. I also do not feel like I translate well on paper. I actually have been told I am more interesting in person. I truly want to know how people manage to come off so well read in text. That is truly a talent!

[@anintendolover8416]

My most irrational fear is putting on a set of clothes and then learning that it’s completely made of Vinyl. I don’t even think they make clothes made of Vinyl, but I despise the texture of it.

[@JasminMiettunen]

I'm… I'm so sorry to tell you. They do make clothing out of vinyl. Pretty sure you'd notice putting it on though 💀

[@Nyan_Kitty]

I once dated a guy who found it unattractive when women laughed, so I kinda get the "I like to laugh" xD

[@tdelioncourt1268]

Wtf

[@martibee8984]

Dude's a serial unaliver

[@Alixir1228]

Hes just not attractive to women

[@RemingtonScott-rp8se]

I think he was just gay

[@carlyg.9289]

“Im not paying half the check. Ever.” “Oh sweet, youll pay it all?😄” Omg, I typed this before I saw the dude say practically the same thing😭

[@bereketterefe829]

I'm worried Daniel is eating gemstones.

[@badrequest5596]

at least it keeps him precious xD

[@Lee-wf4kr]

The I just dodged a bullet song was so Lin Manuel Miranda coded 😭

[@WigglyTuffStuff]

The finger roll at 23:20 was really smooth pianist flex, and has made me more confident in my attraction to musicians.

[@Altmetalpunk]

"nose ring looks stupid" guy clearly doesn't have a job... or friends... or a life... or even a pet.

[@SmilingCorpse]

"you can't handle this lady" Most people can't handle dead weight.

[@irabucc469]

Like nose ring cow did 😂😂

[@narliehs1648]

@@irabucc469 Found the guy 😂🤣 Still going steady with your hand there, bud?

[@NoblesseOblige-17]

Like, I also find nose rings to be quite a turn-off, but to say shit like that guy, you've got to be quite an asshole.

[@agoosecalledxaro6679]

Personally, I think they look stupid too. I'm not gonna tell people or match with someone that has one because that's their business and they can wear what they want. I'm not judging, it's just an opinion I hold.

[@avevee9708]

(Also the who irrational fear thing? Having a fear of men isn’t entirely irrational. Being wary of men can be the difference between life and death)

[@elizabethlovett4318]

I kind of understand what they mean by "I like to laugh". I also understand when someone says "Everyone likes to laugh" in response and I agree that it doesn't really tell you anything. I can see it another way. At least they like to laugh instead of liking to be angry and search for whatever dumb thing to be mad about. Seems like people who want/like to be mad is increasing and its usually over the dumbest thing. So, I can translate "I like to laugh" as their vibe and want to meet people with the same vibe. Problem is it's vague. What kind of laughter do they mean? Mean laughter? Laughing from an innocent joke? What kind of laughing? I wouldn't mind someone saying they like to laugh so I at least know they don't like to be angry for no reason so I can avoid them. It's not much but if you're someone who doesn't want to be around someone who just likes to be angry, that can be important to know.

[@victoriah.20]

You might miss out on matches this way, just because people don't state it outright "I like to laugh"... doesn't mean they're going to be the type you're describing. That takes effort and getting to know people. Plus it may even be the "I like to laugh" could be the "I don't take anything seriously" types where when you genuinely need them to be there (when grieving etc) they genuinely cannot be, since they "take nothing seriously". Balance seems key in most things.

[@martibee8984]

I've met people who said they like to laugh, but they had no sense of humor. I think what they meant was I'd like to laugh. 😁

[@happyclamslinguine]

daniel is the only one I will listen to for dating advice

[@katiukulele]

As a fellow born and raised but former Floridan, your constant need to find a positive outlook feels homely in a good way.

[@VABJMJ]

The "I just dodged a bullet" song has been recontextualized yesterday lol

[@annaclara_127]

Daniel's opinion on maple syrup seems pretty much the same as beach sand 😂 I wonder about what else does he feel that way

[@Danni312]

Why did that dodge the bullet segment go so hard??

[@alexarobinson2850]

I appreciate Daniel’s dedication to grammar

[@aspartameindustry]

I'm honestly kind of freaked out by how talented you are. I think your career is going big places, if you want it to

[@AngDevigne]

The Spartan lieutenant joke is 10/10.

[@EveloGrave]

In my 7 years of trying dating apps before quitting I have gotten 0 matches. No never had the opportunity to be insufferable. Lucky me?

[@becca53444]

The Indy 500 person is weird and bad at communicating. I can’t stand when people don’t know how to communicate directly and expect you to read their mind. They’re so frustrating to be around, especially when they blame you for not magically understanding them. Bullet dodged.

[@heidihansen3329]

“The Pleebs” I’m using that now 😌

[@Lodestone8]

The thing with those echo chambers as mentioned is that I recognize fully that sadly there are many men loose on the streets who are creeps and misogynists and generally uncomfortable or unsafe to be around and there should absolutely be spaces to discuss such things, at the same time on the flipside I would personally never associate with any group that demeans women as a group or jokes about it, same thing with the man vs bear thing where even if it is in jest, it baffles me that this is a discussion that generalized stereotypes like this and subconscious or conscious prejudices are allowed to be unchallenged and even celebrated. It's largely in jest with a dark touch of truth but frankly, equality is that if misogynistic jokes aren't allowed to fly, then so too should misandrist ones be frowned upon.

[@DdraigRazgriz]

Mang, being irl friends with daniel must be fun. Not as much as would be with hoodie guy, but still fun.

[@user-du4zr9lx2b]

My least favorite NPC moment is when the girl posts a selfie of her AND ALL OF HER FRIENDS as the 1st picture on the profile. Like why? Like I am trying to look at you and see what you look like not everybody. It’s worse when they have like one solo picture then you have to fish them out of all the other pictures, like ugh. Just have pictures of you! Daniel, you da bomb!

[@laurenhalberg]

I haven’t heard the phrase “sit on it and spin” in forever! 😂

[@Grace_katherine]

i love how daniel just spends the whole time correcting stupid peoples grammar lmao

[@caseyjc5]

Lately I’ve been feeling so desperate I’ve been considering going on a dating app (though I’ve usually been opposed to them) since I keep reading on Reddit that lots of guys are on there also desperate and cute guys haven’t been approaching me IRL or sliding in my social media DM’s like they used to all the time. However this video is leading me to stay off them!

[@NastyCat7]

How about you approach the cute guys? :)

[@ReptillianStrike]

Dating apps are only as good as the effort you put in. Very rarely will someone come sliding in and chatting you up. And if someone does that, if you don't actively engage with them, they will move on. I experience this all the time. I reach out, write some paragraphs, ask some questions, and I get 2 sentences back if I'm lucky, and only one of my 3 questions are answered.

[@jeryncambrah]

the "i'm a good boy" bit had me ROLLING. it also made me realize how inextricably linked toxic masculinity is with compliance-based parenting/authoritarianism. they're all connected. like OF COURSE you base your worth on how good of a person you think people perceive you as and when a woman doesn't immediately comply with your wishes you manifest your lack of emotional intelligence and self worth as a bid for approval and/or anger/aggression. i already knew that authoritarian parenting is connected to capitalism, patriarchy, and ableism but the toxic masculinity piece was a new realization...it makes sense this is why men's behavior becomes more and more ridiculous as women become more and more disapproving of their behavior. they are acting out like petulant children who were never taught to manage their emotions! 🧐

[@gothbimbo9470]

19:52 it can be a cute little thing but sometimes its actually deeper than that and i dont think guys actually get it. like when i say “im afraid of men” i mean “its going to take a lot for me to warm up to you because subconsciously i am afraid.” sometimes its not cut and dry like “i just have to be a little careful” its more like “im looking for love but everything inside of me is telling me to run so i need a little patience”

[@anastasiarivera3063]

23:55 I KEELED OVER I'M LAUGHING SO HARD 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@CowardlyKeith]

19:34 if i saw that, i would move past it because i AM a good boy. why would i want to scare them if their most irrational fear is men????

[@meepmop1535]

60% of the reason I watch these videos are the ear candy tunes Daniel makes

[@antine1279]

Watching you actually made me realise how much I've missed having a partner that's quirky and funny. Thanks!

[@MzJenAtailia]

I'll be a punny pen pal😂

[@FreyaWarr]

8:14 I live for these random acts of chaos from Daniel

[@kotoplutonium4241]

i put “i like to laugh” because i laugh an absurd amount especially if im nervous or happy. so. dates tend to be me laughing 70% of the time.

[@whosebuilderandmakerisgod]

Honestly I had a very good experience on tinder as a bi women only swiping right on women and very very rarely men. I matched with a really smart and amazing woman and I rarely have such quick and strong connections

[@Ubeube182]

When I was on dating apps it was like the wild west of toxic men (and sometimes women even though rare) , when you think youve seen it all, another even worse thing happens.

[@Janiz1998]

We need a Thrasher Plus EP with all the jams lol

[@MeredithHagan]

There are certain kinds of people in the world who are deeply unhappy, and because misery loves company they work extra hard to bring others down. Especially with a confidant or happy woman, the world likes to neg them in order to not get to “full” of themselves. It’s insidious.

[@omermohammed5092]

"i was asking if you had anything going on because i was thinking about asking if you wanted to.....................................................................................................................................................come"

[@Rachy91]

I’m discover you from Smosh TNTL 141 “I’m a pizza shit” I’ve been really enjoying the Reddit content.

[@Kasain27]

And this is Angela in the apocalypse! 🤣

[@narliehs1648]

I'm pretty new here, but you're quickly becoming one of my favorite channels, my dude. 😂🤣 You're hilarious, insightful _and_ musical! Nice!

[@hattipper5985]

The first guy after the sponsor looks like he's ready to play the next Peter Parker

[@BeeBeeBae]

I like your depersonalization concept

[@dansihvonen8218]

About straight women on dating apps who write how much they dislike men. It's like when 8-9 year olds complain and tell you how stupid the opposite sex is because it's scary when they suddenly have become much more interested, curious and fascinated by it.

[@MikaelaDelainey]

I was on hinge for less than a week and saw the prompt “my hidden talent is… getting back the hoodie you stole from me” MULTIPLE times. Cool, you’ve got boundaries? I too disallow thievery.

[@oliverrhys5351]

"Sprinkle in a little bit of depersonalization" Me, who has a severe dissociative disorder and is currently going through a few weeks of complete depersonalization: Already on it chief fr though people need to see themselves less intricately sometimes, let things go a little bit more, and sometimes admittedly just forgetting your body, your flaws, your physical existence can really help get you through some tough times, lol

[@humorless9906]

lol these reddit posts gave me flashbacks to when this one guy messaged me on tinder and he said hey and i just replied with "hi how are you", and then i kinda got busy because i work a lot so he texted me an hour later and I was driving on my way to work, and then a couple hours into my shift i take my break and pull up my phone only to find like 5 more messages from him with one of them saying word for word "so your just gonna let me marinate in your inbox?" like bro i have a life, he then proceeded to neg me and say stuff like "i dont need you, i got these other hoes so dont worry about me" which basically looked like a blaring red sign saying "INSECURE", swore off dating apps ever since

[@RapidProbably]

People like this make me glad I’m aromantic.

[@DrPlaneteer]

I love how you make everything into a earworm bop

[@rim7961]

24:10 love the optimism, its an interesting way to spin that "never let men know peace"

[@alittleofsomething]

I once tried a dating app to get over my fear of relationships. I asked this one guy to read my profile since I've written about my dealbreakers, but was called a teacher over that. It was so rude.

[@cainanlove8432]

Man literally starting talking about Carl Jung's concept of the Persona a little over halfway through the video. Massive respect.

[@CherryStudios2]

I personally wouldn't say "I like to laugh" in a profile, but if I did, it would just mean that I look for opportunities to find humor in everyday life. I think it could mean that someone is a more positive person. Misery loves company, so I have known a couple of people who were bothered by my tendency to look for the good in life. But I've never forced them to do the same, and I'm not ashamed of having fun.

[@victoriah.20]

Probably could just say that other part instead then? It's less vague and more personal, specific to you?

[@catbatrat1760]

At one point, this video lagged SO HARD. I rewatched the finale of The Owl House, and at the part where Owlbert goes to the magical door (you know, THE VERY END OF THE EPISODE, PRETTY MUCH) I suddenly heard "Let's see what people say - 'My only logical guess--'" 🤣

[@ToplessTopics]

18:30 was a little worried where you were going there, but then you came out hard for the feminists so I am relieved to say I'm not required to dislike you now. *relieved emoji*

[@olympianagel9379]

i love these videos, your comedic creativity is unmatched

[@Minal_Aurapine]

The recurring gag of the "dodged a bullet" song was amazing.

[@kaylavanderbilt4072]

I can’t tell you how valuable that passing part in the middle about depersonalization was. That was so therapeutic and helpful for a funny video 😂 thanks daniel

[@wafflez_courtney]

THIS SOUNDS LIKE THE WORLDS GREATEST 2000S ANIME INTRO OMG I WOULD WATCH THE HELL OUT OF THAT ANIME JUST FOR THE SONG

[@Jack93885]

22:58 Misandry - "it's a cute, little, fun, trendy thing, to do this" - Daniel Thrasher

[@elizabethhoran9268]

Well misandry only hurts men's feelings while misogyny kill women, and misadry is usually a reaction to men being misogynistic

[@Jack93885]

@@elizabethhoran9268 Would you care to elaborate, explain or justify your position? In what ways does misogyny kill women that misandry doesn't kill men?

[@elizabethhoran9268]

@@Jack93885have you been on earth, men hating women don't go out murdering or raping

[@felixhenson9926]

On the other hand, putting that your most irrational fear is men is a great way to invite abuse from men but also a fantastic way of filtering in the right kind of people. Anyone who takes issue with that is either not gonna match or match just to shout abuse at them. Anyone they match with who doesn't do that is probably a bearable person to be around.

[@antoineguerrier2965]

A counterpoint would be that men would see that and just not approach because they don't want to make her uncomfortable. And those who don't care about that will still shoot their shot because they might get lucky.