🔴 Why Do We "Fall In Love"? - Full Stream

Tune into this live stream with me and Sidharth Warrier (MD, DM Neurology) where we discuss the neuroscience behind love.
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[@nupur8663]

Suggestion for this series: Difference between the brain of an introvert and an extrovert.

[@ishanhardia]

Make this comment top

[@randomsoul3109]

much needed

[@mayankgoyal9250]

@gamerboy101 we know...there are many related to this topic too...there is a reason that more people were interested in it when it happened on tanmay's channel...🤦🏻‍♂️🤦🏻‍♂️😂

[@lovejoysugarsagar564]

as well as Ambivert.

[@kaustubhpatil9099]

Nupur , I agree

[@rhitamdutta1996]

So when people are stuck between following their hearts or their brains, they are actually confused between listening to the Prefrontal Cortex and the Limbic system

[@riyacannoli]

Broke up today, was sad all day. Now when I see the science behind this I feel stupid lol.

[@ashwinikelkar3587]

Your feel what you feel. They are not stupid 😊❤

[@ravoluzen]

Lol me too bro. My 5 years relationship ended in December and I was downright miserable for almost 2 months. Then I started analysing patterns and red flags that I had ignored all the way and I moved on immediately. I felt so stupid about myself for grieving so much. This stream changed and clarified my perception to a whole different level!

[@riyakannoly4261]

GIRL SAME!!!! Haha, I feel my whole relationship was a huge joke if you ask me., now when I analyse stuff

[@Ebbyyw]

@CrazyBeing i would say you are damn lucky that you found the right knowledge you needed at the right time. good vibes for you.

[@meettheartist5506]

@@ravoluzen Happy for you man. Cheers!

[@krishnakulkarni5920]

Procrastination could be a good topic too in these lockdown times

[@absolutely_keshav]

They will do it later

[@adarshachoudhary]

it's just hard to believe that comedian's are working for something that we aspect from the gurus. keep it up dude. fan of you tanmay

[@athaurrehman786]

Comedians are the most intelligent guys on planet I believe. If I say it correctly, Only Intelligent people become comedians. 😎😎😎

[@Aanshika]

And schools ofc not only gurus.

[@athaurrehman786]

@@goodsoul9898 yes but not more than Modiji

[@vrushtishah2854]

These neuroscience streams are so insightful and helpful. Thank you so much Tanmay and Sid for doing this, also please keep doing this.❤️

[@piyushsoni7461]

I feel you have related 100% to it as I do.

[@ravoluzen]

Mad respect to Tanmay for bringing such quality content to us in this mentally tiring lockdown scenario. ❤️

[@TheSoleSpeaks]

Completely agree.

[@sharonakodia6382]

It's basically tere dopamine ke dum pe you made me crazy

[@sampurnasen4266]

😂🤣

[@ankitanagda]

Not factually,it's apna dopamine that makes us go crazy for the other

[@sharonakodia6382]

@@ankitanagda thanks for the facts and ruining the joke:)

[@meettheartist5506]

@@sharonakodia6382 factual jokes, rectified right :)

[@samraddhgarg1042]

@@sampurnasen4266 yaar ye kitni awesome hai yaar😂

[@NonaPrince]

When you realise there is a scientific theory behind axe ads and now we cannot outrage against it

[@aninditadeshmukh8155]

When they say scents are attractive/compatible.. they mean the natural body scent. The scent that dogs use to distinguish one person from another sometimes. So deo actually covers those scents. Technically you can outrage saying my compatible partner will not be able to smell my original scent.😂 Lol

[@meettheartist5506]

You can outrage by proposing the idea that it's immoral as our acceptance towards women. Because we all see in the ads to have women all around. And these ads concept doesn't even revolve around the concept to find a partner but having multiple partners or even meaningless sexual relationships which brings another point of view about implying or depicting women as sex objects only or toys to play around. Sure I'm just saying it. And sure ik you might be joking. But the point is really interesting as this has been a conversation going around; by men and women both. But no one really does anything about it, in addition to a lot of things people say it's immoral or dehumanizing.

[@devanshishah5699]

Why can't such topics and discussions be included in our education system? Brilliant discussions. Thanks a lot for this wisdom ❤️🙏

[@abishaipaul2298]

Bcz love doesn't exist in Indian education system

[@ktk1144]

These deep discussion ant even done on simple topics

[@waseemtahir6740]

If I had watch this series 10 years ago I would have surely chose Medical Science with specialization in Neuroscience. This is fascinating.

[@adityasharma1146]

The whole survival thing is so close to what Plato said. Know thyself, and Let your lover change you.

[@mayurk3228]

After this session Tanmay: I have feelings for shankar

[@ParasDadlani]

😂😂 paggal

[@pankajmehra9014]

Literally the english (and logical) version of “ab narr mada ko apni taraf akarshit krne ka pryaas kr raha hai” 😂

[@mansiseth8796]

I was one of the people who thought that your niche was sort of “rude” humor but these podcasts clearly proved me wrong. Extremely versatile....I am addicted to this panic attack that triggered my OCD because I loved it ❤️

[@akanshawork9724]

he is so correct that all these feelings are panic attack.

[@randomsoul3109]

Suggestions for the series - 1. Anxiety, OCD and their connection to Depression(If there is a connection) 2. How exactly does yoga help these conditions?

[@Aditya1057]

Knowledge, knowledge, knowledge everywhere on Tanmay's Honestly channel

[@aakashkedia22]

"Hey girl, I am addicted to this Panic attack you give me while triggering my OCD" Lmao😂😂😂 Coming up with this brilliant joke within minutes, Abish is criminally underrated!

[@SeemaSharma-eq2zo]

What's OCD??

[@aninditadeshmukh8155]

@@SeemaSharma-eq2zo Obsessive compulsive disorder.. obsession about wanting to do something repeatedly

[@crazysaurus9956]

Also Corona (They used this reference in the stream)

[@TheEnchanterX]

Around 1:10:00 is the most mindblowing part of this podcast. Surprising how "what makes us human" in general connotation is the exact opposite of what it means physiologically.

[@vivekchavan3170]

This type of podcast are really adding some knowledge into us in really funny way.. lots of love💯.. expecting more content like this ... finally Bot Army OP❤️

[@rohanfouzdar7332]

Tanmay, things are getting better day by day. Neuroscience has almost become a thing of its own and there is much to gain for all viewers. Glad that you're bringing fresh ideas to the table. ✌

[@jayamalabhoir5440]

This neuroscience series is the best part of my quarantine routine. Thank you Tanmay & Sid. Also, happy birthday Tanmay.

[@sixft-guy]

Noticed Kaneez changing her name to "Pyaar ek dokha hey" at 1:47:14 😂😂😂😂

[@sareenshikalgar5511]

Tanmay with a straight face : Hilarious

[@himanigarg4823]

Wowwwwwwwwww, i got answers to my past. Thankyou so much. Highly grateful.

[@yashsharma7165]

Tanmay you doing a great great job by organizing such session. After my studies I feel so relaxed to watch ur podcast. And it makes me even more productive.

[@tilottamam7315]

I was trying to get some time out and sit with a pen and notebook, and now I got time I enjoyed it and just wanted to let you guys know that I'm so grateful that you did this👍 Thank you so much 💕

[@kalyanishangari1468]

Hi Tanmay, I have a few suggestions: 1. neuroscience of introverted and extroverted personalities. 2. how to "trick" our brain into becoming a positive and productive human being 3. Social media anxiety and is there any way to create a balance? (Talk about validation as well)

[@piyushsarda2052]

Next topic suggestion: Dreams and intuition✌

[@seriesbaba182]

Yes.. Intresting

[@kanadniyogi9072]

Oh yesssss!!!

[@shagunmohta5994]

Yup...also deja vu

[@hardiktolani8459]

Yes please...

[@simplysubhiksha783]

Yup

[@Bishal692]

Thank u for educating us..love every bit of this series...want more of this quality content.♥️Lots of love 🥰

[@sareenshikalgar5511]

LOVE THESE STREAMS OMG♥ Didn't know I needed this channel until I actually saw this.

[@iJaswinderSingh]

Love is Haseen Dard. Love is a click for chain reaction. (When see model good structure faces, little dopamine is released and we like it. Same w flirting ) Flirting = Exchanging pattern ( Peacock spreading ) Gamble = Release of Dopamine with other chemicals = More Benefit , Less Risk probably mindset . Falling in love = High Reward. High Risk knowing it might all be for nothing ( same as gambling) Love = Punishment + Reward at the same time. What happens when you don't get the drug ? (a) Withdrawal (b) Grief (c) Anger (d) craving (e) Relapse (f) anxiety (g) depression This points lead to stalking. 1:09:41 - PFC (Personality, Thinking, Calculation) Oxytocin = Cuddle Hormone. Bonding hence Family.

[@ashwinikelkar3587]

What a wonderful and surprising discussion. We got a new perspective of love. 😁

[@AzeemKhan-wz5sd]

Can't appreciate enough to Sid and Tanmay. This channel will be on top one day I am damn sure

[@towhidulalam3990]

Thanks tanmay. You are doing great. Making our Quarantine interesting.

[@manikashukla7738]

Hello Tanmay, Could you also arrange neuroscience of PMSing.

[@nikhilpatil7218]

It'd be more of endocrinology actually.

[@r.a.28]

Hey. We need more of these. Please get more videos for us with Dr. Warrier, Tanmay.

[@RS-km1xf]

What about introvert people who are happy to be single

[@pragatigarg6120]

Starting mei I actually thought ke kya bakwaas h... Love can't be explained by sc. but partially it can, it has changed my perspective. Good one

[@nonametowrite3694]

2:54 NOW WASHING MACHINE MAKES DOUBLE MEANING BECZ OF KARAN SINGH MAGIC

[@priyankacholera6208]

This will help so many people to get over things

[@pranavkothavale7191]

Thanks man! Thanks alot for this!

[@shivamanthwal5038]

Next topic suggestion: Emotional intelligence and how to evolve emotionally.

[@aninditadeshmukh8155]

Suggestion for the series: What conversation does to our brain (I read in the book 'Sapiens' that gossiping is something that humans that has actually helped survival/evolution- and would like to understand how it changed from that to toxic debates and hating on each other these days.)

[@reubengeorge8684]

When did it change? In the book, he said that through our complex communication system and language, we could talk and tell stories about each other, and thus establish a complex societal structure, which through the ability to believe in common fictions ( also a consequence of our complex languages) , could go on further to help establish the intercontinental level of interdependence and cooperation that we see in humans today. Gossip is taken very negatively, but it's very important, even if it includes bitching about each other, as that's how humans established trust and built cultures.

[@ankita7342]

@@reubengeorge8684 True. Being bitter is not something recently developed. It's always been there. There must be two sides to every coin.

[@aninditadeshmukh8155]

@@reubengeorge8684 exactly.. just want the neurological perspective on that

[@rishabhkala8374]

12 min into the session and my hole perspective of love is changing 😁

[@jayparekh8862]

my mind exploded with this great information. Thanks to all Doctors and scientists. Dopamine explosions in each peeling off the layers of this deep subject.

[@theaf8709]

1st time seeing anything from this channel and I'm enjoyin it..it's like content for mature people.. on a lighter note it's like seeing Tanmay as a 14 years old boy sitting in 9th standard biology class..haven't seen him this much quitely sitting before🧡

[@ashh7720]

Topic suggestion: OCD and Pure O of OCD Pure O doesn't involve the stereotypical rituals that everyone knows of. I never realized I had it myself as I never heard of it either. So it would be great to spread more awareness about it.

[@krishnakulkarni5920]

Pls bring this back ! Eagerly waiting for Sid's theories

[@vivdroid5984]

i think this is similar to work as well. if you find a job that gives u a suitable pattern and work you will do that work and find your passion in it

[@surojitchowdhuri3337]

Hi Tanmay, I don't know if you are consciously or unconsciously doing this but you are slowly starting to be the Indian answer to The Joe Rogen Experience Podcast.. I love it & I truly think it's a great idea.. more power to you Sir

[@rainbug7]

This series makes me wish I'd studied Psychology/ Neuroscience in college

[@adi9781]

I want to be friends with Abish.

[@HarshPatel27]

I just figured out why I didn’t like ‘Yeh tara woh tara...’ at first but now I love it.

[@vidhisharma1632]

This is so helpful.

[@surojitchowdhuri3337]

I want to further mention that, this episode will be very helpful for anyone & everyone to comprehend & handle rejections & breakups better & more civilised way.. Cheers!

[@kaalay6848]

Love everything that’s happening on this channel. Also, can we get more of satty sir ?

[@rohitasegaonkar8955]

Now my perspective towards love changed!!!! Great Stream. Tanmay OP!!

[@aryannijhawan8448]

Suggestion for this series: Social media anxiety and how the ui is addictive and annoying at the same time

[@nirajsale9463]

I have a question... We get fear to avoid all threads in gambling, and our amygdala gets more activated. So If a person wants to live a happy love life but he/she has some fears which is not letting them to live that life. So my question is, can we control the amygdala release?

[@namandhameja4522]

Maybe a nice topic: How we choose our career and goals? Happy Birthday!!

[@RajKumar-do6hq]

"You enjoy gambling more than winning, so theists just got exposed"

[@nishant8800]

Others : very nicely explain Me: I found a suitable topic for my ASL

[@prashantsurti5788]

Thanks for this.

[@saipriya7394]

I gotta say, it's really sweet that you asked him to explain it in Hindi for people whose first language isn't english :')

[@uddiptachoudhury7626]

These streams are so insightful❤️. If possible please try to cover Hypnosis topic with respect to neuroscience.

[@eshakohli8203]

Such a good sesh! Please talk about dreams next.

[@dharmnayak5474]

Happy BIRTHDAY TANMAYYYYYY, and congratulations !!!! You have way more than 1 million followers which you aimed to have, before your birthday. Congratulations once again !!!!!

[@pulkitthareja9679]

Tanmay it would be great if you share the notes with us as well.

[@RamaKrishnan-lc9qp]

This is my first stream of urs , I enjoyed n learned a lot

[@krishnakulkarni5920]

Amazing lecture 🙏

[@shwetab5512]

Loving this series

[@ImranAli-sy6tg]

Thank you tanmay 💯💯

[@saquibhussain4789]

Really helpful.

[@cardiactamponade3854]

Better than any medical textbook ❤️

[@sakshamchhabra754]

thank you!

[@saiphatak96]

This explains my obsessive internet deep dives with dog/puppy videos and memes while waiting to get a dog....

[@sp0tlight570]

LET THE MAN FINISH HIS EXPLANATIONSSSS NVM ILY ALL.

[@rheasachdeva]

I love your streams! You’re amazing!♥️

[@laveenaguptalive9062]

To be honest over years I only thought about having a great companion but i feel most males (i can tell about them only) are in the stage one. They don't want anything more than that and they think that makes them chill and cool and open minded. Which explains us why so many families are dysfunctional and so many people keep complaining about marriages because they haven't grown up enough to understand the stage 2 and 3.

[@satvikshah8643]

You guys are going crazy thinking about your past and im doing it too

[@OreOmod]

Happy Birthday Tanmay Hope yt sends you the playbutton now😂😂

[@harisreevaishnavi]

It is very funny and insightful session..superb it is and I am fan of Siddharth Warrior..

[@NoOne-kn6em]

Tanmay Bhai, I didn't have money so I couldn't ask you this, but if you could ask Siddharth bhaiya to explain more about the social monogamy clandestine adultery part. I read that in rome, that gladiators ( many were slaves) were often idolized and the wives of those in power would often hire them as bodyguards (and sometimes stuff would happen). It is also said the wife of Marcus Aurelius fell in love with a gladiator and had sex with him in a ceremonial thing (permitted by the emperor). So if you could ask Siddharth bhai to do another episode on stuff like the sexy son hypothesis, hypergamy, attractiveness and infidelity, it would helpful for us. Also thank you for explaining evolutionary biology in a simple way. I read some books but it didn't cover the neuroscience part of it. Happy birthday tanmay bhaiya. You are bringing change for us at a practical and relatable level. Thank you. 👍👍

[@meetvyas779]

So Kabir Singh is the consequence of more invested amygdala than prefrontal cortex

[@nyhakhan9839]

Kudoss to Tanmay for bringing such Topic✨👌

[@sanidhyabajpai5365]

Is there a vaccine for love as well?

[@yinyang75]

Bruh please make more of these,love your content man

[@NonaPrince]

This has been amazing 😍 thanks tanmay for this

[@HemantBrar2]

How about a session on neuroscience of learning?

[@shrutisud]

Topic Suggestion: Why do relationships fall apart when it comes to politics/ why are political differences so difficult to overcome.

[@sabsealagfilms]

Woah😀❤️

[@aerotechsjcit15]

I was been such a fool for not watching this stream long before

[@ConsistenTea]

I'm actually not sure for people who have already expereinced love through a first marriage or before marriage, that how PFC will assess the "Risk-Reward assessment" for the next mate. Because if one has to fall in love with 'The best person' one would always elaborate more on the Risk part, Making it impossible even to form a relationship on the individual merit. Person who got the Dhokha (being cheated on) would always on a mode of picking on over your smallest mistakes. Thus , the other partner not only have to care about to know this person, but always will be in a risk of being judged from the partner who was cheated on. Thus, making the relationship; toxic. Thus, conclusion: If your partner had been in a relationship earlier, you must consciously put out on the first date, Judging on the past experience will be their 'Strike one'. or in whichever way you want to look at it. For me, That will be a red flag. coz if you want to be in a relationship with me, you must use your PFC. period

[@24ksonu77]

Thank you so much Tanmay for making this Channel🤝

[@AbhishekRaj174]

I watch this stream at regular intervals to keep my PFC aware

[@mvnpoornima]

So, the love is not from heart?

[@patelchemicals326]

Just amazing Tanmay Bhai!😊

[@ayushimehndiratta5220]

Could you do a stream on science of ego and science of perception of beauty or aesthetic? Love these streams btw 😁😁

[@meettheartist5506]

that's one of the crucial topics that are important to discuss. I was thinking about this in the morning that how does being pretty, attractive, and becoming beautiful which is a part of the makeup and glamour industry has been evolved as a point of insecurity and low confidence among many people as a mental state. Also, it's something that has now become a status symbol as well I believe which results in no mutual acceptance of people to people and ruining real-life relationships that could've resulted in wonders. Great topic. Wish Tanmay is reading this.

[@luckyjaff855]

yayyy nishant tanwar on show again. As soon as i see nishant i feel happy about the stream.