Why Do Women Feel Unappreciated In Marriage?

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[@junglii]

Respect each other men and women in a family. Understand that both are equally important. No family can run without each of them successfully.

[@vidyashautecuisine720]

Then why only the husband has a bank account and the housewife doesn't

[@junglii]

@@vidyashautecuisine720 aaj kal sab ke account khul chuke h. Nahi khula to khulwa lo, account khulwane m fayda h aur acche savings bhi mil sakti h

[@lifeisfun7062]

true

[@lifeisfun7062]

@@vidyashautecuisine720my wife has more money in her accounts than I do. PS: She earns almost equal to me and I do all the spendings. 😅

[@PRIYA2592]

But still household work is the most thankless job

[@dilpreet63]

Getting a free home and free of cost life is what is best thing a man can't have

[@loveyourself-n6y]

No wife thanks their husband for getting a free house, free gifts ...

[@doncorleone3901]

​@@dilpreet63truth. Men have no option, no plan b

[@dilpreet63]

@@doncorleone3901 for woman last option if failed to earn is marriage for men it is to keep working even if u don't want to why house husband never get equality of opportunity just like working wives got

[@dr.harvinderkaur2549]

Free home at the cost of donkey labour that can a servant too have .

[@nidhiarora1432]

Males are still respected by women, but women are not even given bare min. Respect by males and his parents

[@moubhattacharyay6891]

TRUTH 💯ON💯🙂

[@Clarityinlife335]

Zaroor aaj bhi rural areas mein paon ki jutti samjha jaata hai aur pehle toh poora desh hee rural tha, lekin ladke ke maa baap se respect expect karna hee bewakoofi hai aur ladkon ne kabhi dekha nahi apne papa ko mummy ko ya kisi lady ko respect show karte hue. Agar koi ladka aesa karta hai toh "Biwi Ka Gulaam" waala tag mil jaata hai. Ladke ke ache behavior ko dhang se appreciate kiya jaaye toh aaj bhi bohot sheher mein rehne waale log bohot ache hain. Baaki males most of the time front foot par hote hain toh respect aur insult dono milti hai.

[@loveyourself-n6y]

Males are respected!!! Lol

[@lifeisfun7062]

@@loveyourself-n6ybang on true😂

[@matildamaher111]

I have an amazing husband, awesome provider, appreciates and understanding

[@doncorleone3901]

Haaan how can you say this? The sisterhood will come after you now

[@vidyashautecuisine720]

But when some tussle happens in marriage the husband's first sentence would be ' Go to ur mothers home, this is my house' and this is the sad truth....so don't settle to be a housewife

[@VikasBharti02]

Ye baate btayi nahi jaati…. Najar lag jaati hai .. !!

[@Sam-qr9th]

The only constant is that the cunning and mostly evil value sucking people are enjoying and innocent and gullible value creators are suffering. Whether it be man woman rich poor anything.

[@ridakhan1749]

1st point) Only men do glorifying work. Women have been carrying the responsibility of carrying and nurturing the future generations for ages (birthing and upbringing of kids) which was neither appreciated nor compensated. I don't think it is an easier task. Let alone birthing and having the patience to raise kids, men cant even bear the pain of mensuration. In Europe and west, the mundane jobs like cleaning and cooking are quite expensive even if maid is hired because these jobs are a part of GDP. In some cases, the cleaner gets almost the same salary as a primary/high school teacher or even more if they put more hours. So household chores are divided accordingly if both are male and female are working. 2nd point) I disagree about appreciation that no one is getting it. In our society, male children are always preferred over females even if they are difficult to raise. At least it is valid for millennial and some of the Gen Z people who were raised this way. Men get their due appreciation if they are earning above a certain level or have a certain status, which they would do either way because they are supposed to do it. They don't have to go out and try earning their appreciation at workplace while birthing and raising kids at the same time, and then remaining average in both cases and being shamed for it like women :(

[@ruchainamdar748]

I mostly agree with you guruji...par last mein aapne jo bola ki kisiki appreciation nahi ho rahi...to bura nahi manana chahiye...jab ki gharwalo ko aadmi ko thodi toh ijjat deni padti hai kyonki woh kamata hai...uski wajah se ghar chalta hai ya mahila ko pocket money milti hai...it's not the vice versa...man has choice that jo kam karti hai uske liye bhi respect na karein...

[@loveyourself-n6y]

Victim card khelna band karoo

[@ruchainamdar748]

@@loveyourself-n6y oh please...stop responding 'victim card khelna band karo' to every comment made by woman...women and their feelings have been sidelined from centuries and men need to change...let's face it...don't resort to such basic defence when someone is spilling facts...

[@Ninanani-4085]

Women can get pregnant and take care of her children all by herself without the extra headache of husband and in-laws... That's what happens in nature as well.... But patriarchy invented Marriage concept so that every Nam can have the joy of being with family and kids without having to do much for them.. They made sure women only gave birth after this so called Marriage, by shaming Unmarried Mothers... Until and unless you are serving husband and in laws, you can't even get to exercise your own power of motherhood ( gifted by nature ).

[@ritikaachoudhary8222]

I agree that today no body is appreciated it's ok but atleast don't criticise them too which has increased tremendously in every household at this time every body should consider that it's for our living we have to work n no single person is running his house now days it's everybody contribution to run ur house successfully so nobody is superior n nobody is inferiour

[@loveyourself-n6y]

@@ruchainamdar748 women ka feeling feeling aur men ka feeling ego! 🤡

[@simplyawesome6914]

True. After listening this, everyone should reflect and be more appreciative of people around them. Paramshanti.

[@thewisdomforliving]

Absolutely correct. The solution can come from within. Appreciating all family members for their tiny good things / work and avoid self need of appreciation from anyone. Yup, appreciation increases our level of energy in all tasks we do. The appreciation energy that we would start will get back to us soon. 😊😊

[@Peaceisgod577]

Jiski sister nahi... Vo samajh nhi paayega. Bagar swimming pool main utre, swimming nhi aati

[@swatipriya562]

I agree but i want to add up even a woman is in same profession as man she dont get sams respect as man , by birth hi just coz he is son everyone celebrate it now things are changing slowly , ladkiyon ko janam se leke marne tk bezaati hi milti hai

[@moubhattacharyay6891]

Thizz👆🏻

[@diauser3327]

so true, feels like a curse, you are never enough, whatever you do is considered useless,

[@doncorleone3901]

Stop b1tching ma'am. In my company everyone gets equal opportunity and praise if they are working hard. You seem to be in a state of victimhood

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@doncorleone3901 stop being deliberate blind

[@madhurani1441]

In indian society men do get respect and appreciation in their homes and society if they are married, having kids and earning even not so decent amount of money. But women are not appreciated and even considered a burden in her own family and sasuraal also. Even though she creates new human lives after suffering so much pain during her pregnancy, delivery,monthly menstrual cycles and damage to her physical and mental health due to raising small kids, her all of these achievements are ignored and taken for granted purposely. Moreover , if someone doesn't get appreciation but gets money then his pain of not getting appreciation goes away. But in case of women neither she gets appreciation for her contribution, nor she gets money for her hardwork and all her sacrifices in indian society. This is societal injustice . And injustice always brings unhappiness, pain, crimes, diseases and all kinds of addiction in homes as well as society at large. In the end karma takes its toll on perpetrators as well as innocent people. Gehu k saath ghun bhi pista h. So don't be silent onlookers of injustice.

[@Ninanani-4085]

👍✅😔

[@richamehrotra2762]

True reflection of today's society

[@vaijoyantakundu9670]

Amazing content....

[@GoodHeartInfinity]

Thank You so very much sir✨🌈🙏😇😊

[@vikramrahulsingh]

They never bother to show their contribution!

[@sabashaikh2418]

My husband is good, but he says i cannot appreciate daily although you whole heartedly do the same work. Even if i do, after some time you will startfinding it very artificial. I agree his point, but still the thirst to be appreciated remains in its place...

[@Ninanani-4085]

That's forced appreciation. If it comes from heart it needs less words more actions and behaviour.

[@manjulah7220]

Always men are considered supreme no matter what, atleast in their houses. Forget about women people and relatives won't give respect to the lady who doesn't produce boy baby and its true and i don't think it will ever change.

[@monikagangwar098]

नमस्ते सर जी मेरा नाम मोनिका है मैं राजस्थान से हुँ। एक बात मुझे पूछनी है अगर सास ससुर बहु के कहीं जाने या नहाने जाने के बाद पीठ पीछे बहु की अलमारी में ताका झाकी करे या पीठ पीछे बहु की अलमारी खोल कर देखे तो बहु को क्या करना चाहिए ।

[@ddahiya2848]

Ignore ya lock in almirah

[@anjalithakur4403]

I like all your videos !

[@nirmlavaswani603]

Agar pati achha hey boss achha tou appreciation hey nahi hey tou Jaan bhi de do tou bhi Maan nahi milega🙏🙏🙏

[@ridakhan1749]

Mam jan dene ki zarurat nai. Do your part in relationship/job and live for your life for your own happiness. No one will appreciate you if you keep being a doormat.

[@dimplemehta3877]

Sirbwhats the solution for this for girls

[@Payel5]

Even in the most sexy jobs that men from top league institutes like IIT or IIM do such as investments or consulting win praise only when there is huge PnL generated. Otherwise no matter what effort is put, many men even in such professions could go days without much glory. System nowadays doesnt appreciate hard work or even knowledge much so long as there ia no substnatial PnL

[@techtravelwonders]

Important

[@AnjaliSingh-er8yc]

Sir ,mere husband bohot acche hai , but still hmlogo ki argument hojati hai … arr pattern same hi rehta . Jb b mei unse help maangti hu thodi bohot help , voh help toh krte hai but bohot iirritate hoke , toh muje accha nahi lgta mei upset hojati hu arrr is wajahse hamari fight hojati hai ….. mei kya kru ? Jb unse pucho ki aisa kyu krte hai toh voh bolte ki ap order krti hai … arr acchese nahi bolti but aisa nahi lgta …. Pta nahi kya kru , kuch samaj nahi aata … voh b bohot sad hojate hai bdd mei …. Unhone sbhi facility di hai ghrrpe maid lekin phrr b … aisa hojata sir kbhi kbhi … … kya kru ? Koi solution dijiye 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@ry8156]

Mere aur meri wife main bhi same prob hai Isi lea men mindset Bata raha hu… aap unko order wali tone main kuch karne Matt bolo.. kuch karne hi Matt bolo toh zada better hai.. yar 1 rat pehle hi pyar se request karna ke Mujhe aap ki help lagegi kal is kaam main… agar Kisi admi ko koi kaam majboori main ya zabardasti karna pade toh wo chidd chidd ke hi karta hai… and dnt plan any event Jahan unka bhi effort lage Bina unse puche…

[@AnjaliSingh-er8yc]

@@ry8156 thanks 😊 try krungi ye solve hojaye … .

[@ankitamishra0405]

😂be like my grandmother......she's is pro housewife aur mere dadaji ki bhi limit rehte h unke samne despite the fact she belongs to generation where women were suppressed. She never asked for help she told my grandfather " I want this work to be done do with me " I know I'm still a college a student not eligible to give u advice but I tell u my grandmother is pro in fixing men . She don't take men shit . Gussa hogyi na meri grandma toh karwa ke dekhle mere grandpa ek kaam . Mere papa toh khud hi mummy ki saari help krte h mummy ko bolna nhi padta aur irritate bhi nhi hote h. Waise mere mummy papa ka kind of love marriage tha . Aur ye uncle jo aapko advice derhe h na pls Don't take it ...as women are not slave ghar ka kaam sabka hota h mai bhi aur mera bada bhai bhi karta h.

[@ry8156]

@@ankitamishra0405 Shadi ho Jane do didi aante daal ka bhav samajh aa jayega

[@Ninanani-4085]

​@@ry8156 आदमी हो या कांच को बोतल? Huh? हद्द है तुम्हारी कमजोरी की, और ऊपर से audacity की 🤦🤦

[@vidyashautecuisine720]

Housewives don't need appreciation or respect....they need salary for being a housewife

[@sasuke36571]

😂😂

[@harnisha91]

Marriage is not important sir. Marriage is a pending karma. Be single and safe and lead a saint life.

[@AnjaliSingh-er8yc]

Sir ,mere husband bohot acche hai , but still hmlogo ki argument hojati hai … arr pattern same hi rehta . Jb b mei unse help maangti hu thodi bohot help , voh help toh krte hai but bohot iirritate hoke , toh muje accha nahi lgta mei upset hojati hu arrr is wajahse hamari fight hojati hai ….. mei kya kru ? Jb unse pucho ki aisa kyu krte hai toh voh bolte ki ap order krti hai … arr acchese nahi bolti but aisa nahi lgta …. Pta nahi kya kru , kuch samaj nahi aata … voh b bohot sad hojate hai bdd mei …. Unhone sbhi facility di hai ghrrpe maid lekin phrr b … aisa hojata sir kbhi kbhi … … kya kru ? Koi solution dijiye 🙏🏻🙏🏻

[@PartibhaR.]

Can i give suggestions if u dont mind... 1. Aapke husband k issue ko reject mt kro ye kah ki "asa lgta to ni hai"....aap ko ni lg rha but unhe to lg rha hai na ki aap order dete ho. 2. Next time unse kahna...mujhe achha lgega agr tum kitchen me mere sath rhoge to...tumara sath important hai...ase pyar se bolna ya fir ye b bol skte ho ki aaj main tired feel kr rhi hu .kya tum kitchen me thoda help kr doge meri..and jb wo help kre to Thankyou b bolna...ladai ni hogi....try krna...n comment me btana ki mera suggestion work kiya ya nahi... 3. Agr wo koi kam glt tarike se kre ya perfect na kre to ye mat bolna ki ek hi kam kaha tha tumse ya aaj hi to help mangi thi tumne to mera kam faila diya...isse achha to main khud hi kr leti...tum achhe se ni krte kam I hope it will help you😊

[@AnjaliSingh-er8yc]

@@PartibhaR.thank you for your suggestion 😊sure mei apply krungi

[@PRANSHU49]

I appreciate aap kaise try kar Rahi Hain to improve your marriage. My humble suggestions will be: - no one will get irritated for some small help every single time...ya aap unke contribution ko underestimate kar rahi Hain ya phir wo actually main irritate nahi hote, he's just unhappy but you expect him to be HAPPY while helping.... Try to be more grateful and let him do things in an irritated manner... It's just a temporary mood If he actually gets irritated every time for small things then he has anger issues 2. Jo aap yaha pooch rahin Hain wo aap unse directly poochen, have you tried it? aapka effort and sincerity dekhke hi aadhi problem solve ho jaegi.... In the end, if this is the biggest issue in your relationship then aaplog bohot zyada lucky ho, so maybe trying to make everything perfect is putting a lot of stress on your marriage? Shayad better h ki aap thodi ladai hone den without discussing or thinking about it...kyunki jitna kisi ladai ki baat hoti h wo utni hi badi banti jaati h Does this makes sense?

[@thewisdomforliving]

Wow. What a platform is being created in this era by sango life sutra where people can talk about their personal problems & people come out to help with their positive suggestions. I appreciate you towards tiny help for others ma'am​@@PartibhaR.

[@AnjaliSingh-er8yc]

Thank you for your valuable suggestion 😊