Why Girls Are Taking Off Hijab

Salam everyone!
Welcome to the sixth installment of 'Ask Melanie,' in today's video I answer the question, "Why are girls taking off hijab?" This is a topic many people feel uncomfortable talking about. Whenever issues of hijab are brought up (particularly on social media) there's almost immediate push-back and no matter the stance of the person bringing up the subject, they're almost always shut-down in a non-productive manner. Something needs to be done about that. I think it's healthy to discuss these issues, to be honest with ourselves and to have a productive, constructive conversation surrounding the issue of women struggling with hijab.
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[@fatmael9250]

"if you aint working on your iman, you best believe its weakening " -Melanie

[@dragonsxtv5156]

what do you eat that with?

[@angelbell9357]

True

[@sairaailia8691]

I think we don't know what that girl is going through. We definitely shouldn't ditch our friends just because they took their hijab off. But if they're are encouraging YOU to take it off. Girl bye! Some of my family members encouraged me to wear hijab, and the same family members told me to take it off, so I choose not to hang out with them too much. My best friend is a practicing Christian, she encourages me to pray and she lets me wear what I want.

[@DiamondNoor95]

I agree with you, we shouldn’t judge them for it, I believe we should always seek to understand first, then to be understood. Encouragement is powerful! Love is powerful! That’s probably what they need.

[@bien7094]

@@DiamondNoor95 yessss!! I wear Hijab whenever im going to public, but on school I dont wear it. Its my choice and I feel comfortable to the surrounding, I trust my teachers and my schoolmates. But after school ofcourse I wear it.

[@tyucell1]

How about we don't judge anyone but support everyone no matter what? Wearing a headscarf is a very personal issue and it cannot be defined under some categories.

[@hautehijab]

Tuba Taskan I think it's important to have these conversations - this isn't to single out girls who've taken off hijab, it's to shed light on a real issue and hopefully help some people who are struggling with it. It is a very personal issue, but I don't think that means we shouldn't talk about it in a productive manner with kindness and compassion

[@hiyahbeijing]

Tuba Taskan why did you consider her video as judgmental? She mentions a lot of great points that can help a lot of hijabis that are struggling like myself. She's not judging anyone, she's just stating a few very broad points that are her own opinions. A woman who has chosen to take off her hijab shouldn't be offended if she's confident in her choice and that's between her and Allah.

[@samuelvimes7686]

I wish muslim men also refrained from judging muslim women who don't choose to wear a headscarf

[@ahmedkazemi6223]

do not judge means let us sin in peace

[@dorarie3167]

ahmed kazemi Perhaps some people don’t feel that what they are doing is a sin. Maybe some girls and women want to live a modern lifestyle and simply don’t want their head covered for the rest of their lives? They may feel they can be good people and good Muslims without a 7th Century sartorial edict. I teach Pakistani girls in Hong Kong and some of them remove their headscarves at school when their family cannot see them. Actually, she is wrong when she says these are not hand-me-down beliefs from family, because that is why 99% of Muslims are Muslim: genes and geography. As well, women in different places feel wearing the hijab is oppressive and have protested having to wear it. Do Muslim men have the same types of edicts telling them what to wear for modesty?

[@Miscellaneos101]

I always hear that hijab is a choice but then everyone says, "oh its because it is now the norm to take it off" If it is a choice shouldn't that mean that it has always have been the norm to have a choice? 🤔

[@sireenali706]

In islam it's a "must" not a choice, but the religion cannot force you to wear it so people take it as a choice. :) So it's not normal for muslim women to not wear it, cause it's part of the religion and who we are.

[@Oulaya96]

hijab it's not a choice it's a command from God to wear it....

[@Lubby33152]

Actually there is much debate about this. The Quran NEVER says hijab which means to hide. Hijab has been an interpretation adopted by culture and religious scholars who are men. The pressure to wear the hijab is rooted in cult like attitudes towards what a Muslim woman should look like. This outrage is only reserved for women. Muslim men who wear shorts, ripped jeans, tank tops, and other less “modest clothing” aren’t judged on their appearance. Once Muslims find that the outside of a person doesn’t provide the context of what’s in the inside of a person that is when they will be able to achieve true spirituality.

[@Oulaya96]

It is obligatory not a choice. Verse of Nour, Ayah 31 states And say to the faithful women to lower their gazes, and to guard their private parts, and not to display their adornment except what is apparent of it, and to extend their headcoverings (khimars) to cover their bosoms (jaybs), and not to display their adornment except to their husbands, or their fathers, or their husband's fathers, or their sons, or their husband's sons, or their brothers, or their brothers' sons, or their sisters' sons, or their womenfolk, or what their right hands rule (slaves), or the followers from the men who do not feel sexual desire, or the small children to whom the nakedness of women is not apparent, and not to strike their feet (on the ground) so as to make known what they hide of their adornments. And turn in repentance to Allah together, O you the faithful, in order that you are successful

[@Oulaya96]

@@Lubby33152 This debates you going on about are too weak....of course hijab is obligatory....It's mentioned in Quran in verse of Nour....in the phrophet Mohammed peace be upon him time women start wearing the hijab...if people was doing things wrong...prophet Mohammed peace be upon him will correct them

[@moonamoona17]

Kind of disagree with your last point. I have a lot of friends who don't wear hijab and are very diligent with their prayers. I myself have never questioned prayer but while I never took it off, I have questioned hijab. For me what it comes down to is understanding of why we wear it. A lot of us have been wearing hijab since we were little kids because our parents told us to, and as we get older and develop our own individual identities and beliefs, that's no longer a good enough reason. Leaving it on after you're at a place where you can't be made to wear it has to come with a reason you believe in. Yes, we have to take ownership- but the question is how. You wake up every morning and say you wear it because you want to... but why do you want to? A lot of girls don't know. It's a lack of understanding.

[@troia6899]

I know y i want to wear hijab....if a non mahram sees your hair...ur in trouble...and i want to go to Jannah and i am motivated about it by Allah Swt

[@afsanaakter1921]

because its a obligatory act of worship. you do it for Allah and to get closer to Jannah , no other reasons necessary , Allah knows what's best for us. you do it because Allah told us to. of course it is a choice , Allah gave us free will , and everything we do is our choice . whether your doing right or wrong Allah is the ultimate judge.

[@MimiMimi-zx8jq]

No need to go far, you or we do it because we decide to givebour life/soul to Allah. Because we submitted to Allah.

[@lilitho4489]

I'm not Muslim, however I am friends with many Muslim girls. A lot of them I have found that don't wear Hijab is because they get to a certain age and their parents say "you can wear it if you want to but you don't have to" so they just don't

[@quickknowledge2462]

Ya thats the fact Thanks lili

[@daness621]

That is a lie. Wearing a hijab is obligatory in Islam. To say that they are fine whether they wear it or not implies that there are no consequences in Islam if they don’t wear it. In Islam god will judge them for not wearing it. So if you are Muslim, it isn’t fine if you don’t wear it.

[@daness621]

Don’t jump to conclusions. When they take it off. It is also a choice. But that does not mean that Islam isn’t clear on what the correct choice is. It is very clear, there is a correct choice and an incorrect choice. There’s no hypocrisy it is very clear for those who reflect.

[@daness621]

My friend, this phenomenon is nothing new. Since the timed of the prophet Muhammad; different sects were imerging. Unlike Christianity which the text is not preserved and there is no chain of narration that goes back to the author’s. The Islamic text is preserved and we have countless chains of narration that go back to the prophet. What does this mean? This means that no matter how many sects pop up, we have the original and correct interpretation of Islam according to the prophet and his followers.l, unlike Christianity. There will always be on correct Islam for those who reflect, seek truth, and are sincere, because of our preservation and long scholarly tradition. Good day.

[@kiyam4359]

@@daness621 ur mad at parents giving their daughters choice to wear whatever they want?

[@familykids4680]

I’m hear bc I saw i women’s soccer game and a players hijab almost came off and the team mates of the other team surrounded her so she could fix it ❤️

[@neptune9443]

🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄

[@shannonnicollechannel5884]

🌷🌷💖💖💖

[@rynriss]

Neptune 🧢 what bro

[@neptune9443]

@@rynriss that story is next level stupid!

[@rynriss]

Neptune 🧢 its not a story it’s an actual video go type it up lmao

[@JB-ys2cp]

I think social media is a HUGE reason because many people follow western celebrities and other girls who have taken their hijab off which makes them want to take it off too. Personally, I struggle wearing the hijab too. I don’t think I’ll ever take it off as it’s almost a part of who I am and I would never be able to show myself without it but wearing it, I struggle a lot. I’m sure a lot of girls can relate, in’sha’Allah we are all rewarded for all our hardships and struggles.

[@urbbylin]

I have this problem at the moment I started hating myself because I cannot dress and look in the way I want too and I love showing my beauty to other people I love unmodest fashion. I am so lost I don’t know what to do. This is not the life I want to live but I know even if I take it off I will be unhappy either

[@xxxxlobster3339]

@@urbbylin nefs işte anlıyorum göstermek istedğini. Zaten tesettür seni çirkin yapmıyor ki. Ama eğer kendi isteğinle tesettüre girmediysen o zaman pek hoş olmamıştır :/ Bununla alakalı daha fazla izle. Bak mesela ben girmek istiyorum tesettüre ama hijab, jilbab istiyorum. Bayadır düşünüyorum ama bir türlü tamam hadi yapayım olamıyorum. Ben çok güzel biri olduğumu düşünmüyorum yüzümünde keza aynı şekilde vucudumunda yani erkekler bana çok bakıyor bakmasınlar gibi bir sorunda değilim😂😅😅 Sadece kendi kendime düşündüm ben namaz kılıyorum, ben oruç tutuyorum, ben bu dine inanıyorum Allah "..mümin kadınlara söyle..." demiş Müslümanım dinimi gayette seviyorum. O yüzden neden bunu yapmayayım ki sonuçta benim tanrım bunu istiyor diye düşündüm. Sonra bir sürü video izledim tesettür, gayrimüslimlerin müslümanlık hikayalerini, (ve dikkatimi çeken çoğunun hijablarını doğru takmaları) Allahın varlığı ile alakalı islam hakkında bir çok şey. Ve genellikle izlediğim türkçe olanların altındaki yorumlardan tiksindim biz ilginç bir milletiz eleştrimeden "küfretmeden" duramıyoruz galiba 🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️🤦🏿‍♀️ O yüzden yabancılarıda izledim. Neyse işte Bende isityorum inşaAllah yaparım. Yani ne yaptığını bilince neden yaptığını bilince pek çıkarmak istemezsin ki zaten güzelliğini göstermek istiyorsan demekki yüzünde güzel. Güzel olan yüzün zaten görünecek. Birde 24 saat giyilmiyor ya. Belki güzelliğini göster! artık giyme! Çok güzelsin bırak herkes görsün! Eminim şeytanın vesvesesidir. İnşaAllah hakkımızda hayırlısı olur inşaAllah çıkarmak istemezsin. İnşaAllah bende en yakın zamanda tesettüre girerim. 🤲🏿💕🤗 Birde seni daha çok sevmeye teşvik edecek kimselerle tanışırsan çok güzel olur. Mesela tanıdıığım bazı endonezler tesettürü daha çok sevmeme neden oldu. 😊 yani çevre çok önemli yaaa

[@urbbylin]

XxxX Lobster Ciddi ciddi açılmaya karar vermiştim ama arkadaşımın bir cümlesi beni vazgeçirdi o da “Sen bu kadar istemene rağmen yine de kapalı kalmayı başarırsan Allah seni çok büyük ödüllendirecek” ki evet bu aslında bilmediğimiz bir şey değil ama beni o an çok etkiledi. Bu arada tamamen kendi isteğimle kapandım ve dört yıldır kapalıyım ama hep şunun farkındaydım ki benim hayatımın imtihanı hep tesettür olucak diye ve gerçekten de öyle ama yaratan için sabrediyorum. Seviyor da gibiyim aslında. Ama hani herkesin doğuştan yetenekleri vardır ya ben oldum olası giyimimden kuşamından görünüşümden iltifat alan biriyim ve hayalim hep bu şekilde göz önünde olmaktı meslek hayatımda da. Ama işte elden birşey gelmiyor 😂 Çok kendin, beğenmiş biri gibi gelmiş olabilirim ama öyke değil aslında 😊👋

[@xxxxlobster3339]

@@urbbylin heyy dostum vazgeçtiğine çok sevindim!😍 Arkadaşın çok doğru söylemiş hakikaten haklı. Herkesin bir şekilde imtihanı var işte. Bende zaten güzel hissetmiyorum öyle kısa kısa şeyler giyinecek kadarda vücudumu güzel hissetmiyorum o yüzden güzellikten kaydecek birşeyim yok😆😆. Hadi bakalım inşaAllah bende yaparım bunu🤲🏿

[@amberm.a3705]

Wear your hijab with confidence ladies 💙

[@leannamaaz4446]

Yes!

[@trutherasitis2109]

Amber M.A Islam (Submission in English) is an old religion, older than the prophet Muhammed. Islam (Submission) was founded by Abraham. See Quran, 22:78, 3:67-68, and 16:123.It is through Abraham that all of Islam's religious practices were revealed. 2:127-128. The Prophet Muhammed was a messenger of God and the Final Prophet who brought the Final message, Quran, to the world, 33:40. God told the believers that His book, the Quran is complete, perfect and fully detailed, see 6:19, 6:38, 6:114, & 12:111. God reminded them that He does not run out of words, and if He so willed He could have given us more than one Quran , if He would have deemed it necessary, see 18:109 and 31:27 God, the Knower of all things, the Cognizant, knows that after the death of the Prophet Muhammed people will invent lies about the prophet and call it Hadiths and Sunna. God, ahead of all of them used the word Hadith in the Quran. God gave His true believers a strong start with the word Hadith and He told them which Hadith they should accept, the HADITH OF GOD ONLY. The word Hadith has been used several times in the Quran ( about 31 times in different forms, 18 of them with the exact word HADITH). None of the good hadiths in the Quran refer to what the Muslims nowadays believe is Muhammed's Hadiths. The word Sunna in the Quran never referred to Muhammed's sunna. THE WORD HADITH IN QURAN A review of the use of the word Hadith in the Quran can show any sincere believer that God wants us to follow no other Hadiths but His Hadith, the QURAN. Here is some of what the Quran says about Hadiths. The words are clear but those who insist on defying God cannot see it or feel it. [Quran 7:185] Have they not looked at the dominion of the heavens and the earth, and all the things God has created? Does it ever occur to them that the end of their life may be near? Which HADITH, besides this (Quran) do they believe in? [Quran 31:6] Among the people, there are those who uphold baseless HADITH, and thus divert others from the path of God without knowledge, and take it in vain. These have incurred a shameful retribution. [Quran 39:23] God has revealed herein the BEST HADITH; a book that is consistent and points out both ways (to heaven and hell). The skins of those who reverence their Lord cringe therefrom, then their skins and their hearts soften up for God's message. Such is God's guidance; he bestows it upon whomever He wills. As for those sent astray by God, nothing can guide them. [Quran 45:6] These are God's revelations (Quran) that we recite to you truthfully. In which HADITH other than God and His revelations do they believe? [Quran 52:34] Let them produce a HADITH like this (Quran) if they are truthful. [Quran 68:44] Therefore, let Me deal with those who reject this HADITH(Quran); we will lead them on whence they never perceive. [Quran 77:50] Which HADITH other than this do they uphold? Why did God permitted these so called Hadiths ? The answer is in next verse. [Quran 6:112-113] We have permitted the enemies of every prophet - human and jinn devils - to inspire in each other FANCY WORDS , in order to deceive. Had your Lord willed, they would not have done it. You shall disregard them and their FABRICATIONS. This is to let the minds of those who do not believe in the Hereafter listen to such FABRICATIONS, and accept them, and thus expose their real convictions. Should we believe these words of God about Hadith?!! If you do not want to, my be you should listen to these two verse; [Quran 32:22] Who is more evil than one who is reminded of these revelations of his Lord (QURAN), then insists upon disregarding them? We will certainly punish the guilty. [Quran 31:7] And when our revelations (Quran) are recited to the one of them, he turns away in arrogance as if he never heard them, as if his ears are deaf. Promise him a painful retribution. IS HADITH DIVINE ?? Some people claim that the "Hadith & Sunna" are divine revelations. Obviously, they are not aware that the criterion of divine revelations is PERFECT PRESERVATION. Since the so-called Hadith & Sunna of the Prophet have been vastly corrupted, they can never meet the criterion of divine revelation. It is an acknowledged fact that the vast majority of Hadiths are false fabrications. Please see the section on "The numbers of Hadiths". After your review of "the numbers of Hadiths" you will find that as much as 99% of the hadiths alleged for the prophet were lies and fabrications. Not a simple number to ignore regarding God preserving His divine revelations as stated in 15:9. "Absolutely, we have revealed the reminder (Azekrra) (Quran), and absolutely, we will preserve it." Again in 41:41-42 "Those who rejected the Quran's proof (Azekr) when it came to them, have also rejected an Honorable book. No falsehood could enter it, in the past or in the future,; a revelation from a Most Wise, Praiseworthy." Seeing how much falsehood entered the so called Hadiths books (99%) would make any sincere Muslim understand the reason these books were so much corrupted. One more criteria for God's words is spelled out in 4:82 [Quran 4:82] ............If it were from other than God, they would have found in it numerous contradictions. Any reader of Hadiths books will find in them so many contradictions to make the above conclusion easily, they are not from God. The blasphemy is evident when they claim that Hadith and Sunna are divine revelations Do they not realize that God Almighty is capable of preserving His revelations? YES, WE SHOULD OBEY THE PROPHET MUHAMMED. God in the Quran clearly states that obeying the Prophet is the same like obeying Him. No one should consider himself true Muslim (Submitter in English) unless he obeys and follow the prophet Muhammed. Obeying him is to follow the words that came from his mouth inspired by God , the Quran. Without getting into more details , review for yourself the verses, 6:19, 50:45, 16:44, 16:64, 14:1, 6:155, 4:105, 18:27 .....etc. to see that Quran is the only message of Muhammed. [Quran 6:19] Say, "Whose testimony is the greatest?" Say, "God's. He is the witness between me and you that this Quran (Not Quran, Hadith and Sunna) has been inspired to me, to preach it to you and whomever it reaches...... [Quran 50:45] .........remind with this Quran (Not Quran, Hadith and Sunna) , those who reverence My warnings."

[@trutherasitis2109]

Amber M.A BUKHARY'S SAHIH, THE EXAMPLE OF CORRUPTION Many of the Muslims in general talk about the Hadiths collection with a respect that matches and sometimes exceeds that of the Quran. While the Quran does not leave any doubt as to where God wants us to look for the guidance and perfect happiness, those who do not believe God in His own words usually find in the Hadiths and Sunna a refuge that has been condemned by the Quran repeatedly. God already informed us in the Quran that His book is the BEST HADITHS 39:23,and that we should only seek His Hadiths (Quran) 7:185, and wonders why the people are not satisfied with His words, 45:6 !! Imam Al-Bukhary or Bukhary for short, is just one of several scholars who decided to collect the Hadiths and Sunna despite the clear prohibition by the Prophet Muhammed himself and all the Khalifas who followed him of collecting and writing anything but the Quran. Many of the Muslims today look at Bukhary with a respect he did not deserve or earn. His elevation to the level of a Saint by the Muslims and Scholars who came after him made of his books of Hadiths and Sunna a second Quran . While modern Christianity is the product of Paul's corruption and hallucination , traditional Sunni Islam as practiced today, is the product of corruption of the true religion of Islam by people like Bukhary. As soon as the Muslims deserted the Quran in favor of the Hadiths and Sunna books, their true Islam was corrupted beyond belief and their practice of Islam today is but a reflection of the Islam of the Scholars like Bukhary, Moslem, Nesaay, Termethy, Abu-Daoud...etc. and not a reflection of the Islam (Submission in English) presented to us by the Prophet Muhammed. While those who defend Bukhary praise him for his methodology of collecting the hadiths for his book known as "Sahih Al-Bukhary". They only reflect ignorance with what Bukhary actually collected in his book . Not only did Bukhary broke the rules that he claimed he used to ensure the authenticity of the hadiths but his own personal feelings, political alliance and hatred to people like Ali Ibn Abu Talib affected his choice of what hadiths to list in his book and what hadiths to refuse. He cared less about the content of the hadiths itself . He listed many hadiths that contradict the Quran, contradict other hadiths , contradict common sense, insult God, insult the Prophet Muhammed, insult the Prophet's wives and his family . The position that Bukhary took regarding Ali Ibn-Abu Talib Vs his position towards Mu'aawyiah is but a reflection of the political corruption of Bukhary and his bias in listing the Hadiths that put down Ali while making of his ardent enemy Mu'aawyiah, a pure and righteous man despite his known corruption and defiance of the simple Islamic laws. Bukhary narrated Many Hadiths in his book that the public call "Sahih" (Authentic) for people who were considered liars, corrupted and untrustworthy. Muslim Scholars who came after him were afraid to expose the truth and the shortcoming of Bukhary and other scholars of Hadiths and Sunna like him. As a simple example, in the famous book "Al-Mustadrek", the author states that Bukhary listed Hadiths taken from 434 persons who were not accepted by Moslem for his book "Sahih Moslem" as good trustworthy people. On the other hand Moslem accepted for his book 625 persons who narrated Hadiths ,who were refused by Bukhary. The corruption of Islam by Hadiths and Sunna started right during the Prophet's life and soon after his death. This collection of the so called Hadiths and Sunna was condemned by God, the Prophet and the Sahaba (companions of the Prophet). This act reached its peak by the end of the second Hijra century when the famous six books (references) of Hadiths were written. God Almighty predicted this corruption and told us in 6:112-113 why He permitted this corruption to happen and also told us ahead of time that the messenger will complain to Him on the day of Judgment of the Muslims DESERTING THE QURAN (not deserting the Hadiths and Sunna). See 25:30 BUKHARY AND SAHABA, CLEAR CORRUPTION Many of the Muslim brothers and sisters talk about the companions (Sahaba) of the Prophet Muhammed as if they were a different breed of people or a different race. They made them flawless who are unable to make mistakes. They made them worth the respect and love that only the Prophet Muhammed deserved for what he was, the messenger of God and the last prophet.. While we can witness many people defending the Sahaba (companions) of the prophet irrespective of what they did, many of those actually do not know what the word Sahaba means or how it was or should be used. The student of the Muslim history will be shocked to know the different definitions of the word Sahaba (Companion) of the Prophet. Knowing such a definition make it easy for us to talk about our history, our religion and our books. In general the Muslim scholars disagreed on the definition of : who should be counted as one of the Sahaba (companions) of the Prophet ?!! Studying these definitions will clarify for us the position of many people like Imam Al-Bukhary who used his definition of the word Sahaba to accept many of the false and fabricated Hadiths that were included in his book, Sahih Al-Bukhary. Here are the definitions considered by the Muslim Scholars: The definition of Imam Al-Bukhary : Bukhary defined the Sahaby (single of Sahaba) as the one who was in the company of the prophet Muhammed or just SEEN him. Ibn Hanbal who also has a book of his own collecting more Hadiths than Bukhary accepted this definition and clarified it by saying ; "The Sahaby is anyone who accompanied the Prophet for a year, a month, a day or even an hour or even just seen him." The definition by Abdullah Ibn Omar Ibn Al-Khattab " anyone who has seen the Prophet Muhammed even for one hour as long as he reached the puberty, and is a known Muslim who understood his religion and accepted it." According to this definition all the children (who had not reached puberty) who witnessed the Prophet cannot be counted as Sahaba. The definition of Al-Tabaey Saeed Ibn Al-Museeb; "Only those who accompanied the Prophet Muhammed for a year or two and fought with him in a battle or two should be considered Sahaba" This is a definition accepted and encouraged by Imam Al-Ghazali From the above three definitions, any sincere and guided Muslim can sense the corruption and confusion of Bukhary, a reason for him to get all these corrupted hadiths included in his book. With these corrupted Hadiths, the Muslims after Bukhary changed their religion from the religion of the Prophet Muhammed (the Quran), to the religion of Bukhary and his likes (the fabricated hadiths and Sunna). Let us look at the definition by Bukhary; and reflect on its corruption:

[@amberm.a3705]

Truther Asitis salam sister, I'm sorry you feel this way. All I said was to be confident, no need to get all worked up about it. We all know exactly how and what we should be wearing. No need to down play it and make excuses. Insh'Allah I hope you find your way back

[@aaminali2743]

@@amberm.a3705 I love your reply

[@kiyam4359]

I know a lot of girls who would take it off if it weren’t for their parents.

[@soukainarabbaa3511]

Just came here from the change... video of amena taking of her hijab and I love what you said. I feel more in peace now ❤️

[@RainSprite67]

I'm seeing a lot of it.. Muslims on social media taking off hijab. But what I've started seeing more often as well is women who have been wearing hijab for years, but they start to show more skin. Aka - start wearing turban style (showing neck and collar bone) etc, pull back top of scarf to show a good amount of hair.

[@naffs1069]

Yep, I took my hijab off too. And I still feel that Allah still loves me. It's my personal relationship with Allah. And Allah will decide what he wants to do with me. Allah created me so he can decide what he wants to do with me for taking off the hijab.

[@firstlast3510]

Food Lover obviously Allah loves you no matter what but it is something He asks of you to wear because He knows it’s better for you. I hope you learn the wisdom behind it and change your mind

[@diamond3529]

Shan Anjum let people be.

[@rokayamane2668]

My advice hijab should be the last thing for a Muslima. Priority should be to love and fear Allah first. Because if you, you will wear hijab in an appropriate manner. Surat Alkhaf, when the man in the garden thought Allah must have loved him because he gave him a great garden, then Allah destroyed his garden. Sometimes it is hard to follow Allah's commands, however we need to beg Him for guidance and softness of the heart to obey him rather than flaunting that He loves us when we are disobedient. Remark: you mentioned that Allah still loves you...fine! What about you? He created as an intelligent been, so ask yourself this question all the time and you will get your own answers.

[@Oulaya96]

As a Muslim woman hijab it's not a choice it a command from Allah almighty....without hijab you only going to attract the wrong people in your life

[@Oulaya96]

you remind me of the christians when they say jesus loves everyone no matter what....with islam you have to work to build your dead not seat xo nothing and expect to enter the heaven

[@esra_al_]

Look, congratulations on nevering having experienced an identity crisis. 👏 But this is a genuine struggle and your subtle antogonizations do not immediately eliminate someone's personal crisis.

[@DiamondNoor95]

Dear Esra A, She’s not denying your struggle, she’s just stating reasons why women take off the hijab. Don’t be too quick to assume. And your comment tells me that you feel insecure because she has conviction and maybe you don’t. And it scares you. There’s nothing wrong with that, there’s nothing wrong with you, I think we all moments of vulnerability where we come to terms with ourselves. The wrong thing to do it not address it truthfully and seek Allah’s guidance when we feel those things. God bless you sis, no one is here to judge you, we’re all flawed. It’s hard to wear hijab but it’s also hard to live in regret, it’s hard to wear hijab but it’s also hard to live with a voice in the back of your head telling you “you should’ve obeyed Allah”. Choose your hard. Yes it can be hard & shouldn’t it be? Shouldn’t it be? For us to FIGHT against our flesh and CHOOSE to be led by our spirit to Allah (SWT) so we may live with peace in our souls? That at the end of our lives we don’t Rest In Peace but we rest in potential? Just a thought.... be blessed

[@Mariam-yz1pg]

I just want to point out that even if we don't see that a person took the hijab off due to fear, it's not nice to state that opinion. We never know what everyone is going through. No one believed that someone pulled a gun on me, I'm not going to take it off... it's still bothersome that people are saying that I'm looking for an excuse to take it off. A lot of times with more support, we can help someone make the best decision for themselves.

[@hautehijab]

Oh my goodness Mariam, I'm so so sorry to hear this happened to you - I pray Allah (S) keeps you safe always and you recover from the trauma of that terrifying experience. Please stay safe!!!

[@sheida1733]

Thank you so much for making this wonderful video. I'm a muslim girl and I really love to wear hijab but I live in US and I'm so afraid of people when they glare at me. That's why I'm currently not wearing hijab and this is upsetting me. Pray for me to be able to overcome my fear, please.

[@RitaGehman]

You should do what feels good to your heart. Always follow your heart. Sometimes, it will feel good to wear it. Sometimes, you will feel good to not wear it, perhaps. Follow your feelings. God created us with hearts and feelings to show what feels good to us. We are not meant to be controlled by fear, but we ARE meant to listen to our instincts and our intuition. Always follow your feelings in any given situation. Your intuition may know more than your head.

[@noor1991hb]

I'm wearing it , and it feels horrible! I wear it under pressure, and this should not be acceptable!

[@deganali4739]

I feel so ugly with it on. I’ve recently started to love my hair type and it just sucks that I’ll have to keep it covered

[@moimeme4438]

You're right your hair your choice! And if they're butiful why hide them :)

[@meriembazine5510]

Although of course, it is up to you, low self esteem is not gotten rid of because you take off the hijab. That is an issue that you will have to delve deep into. Try new hijab styles or dress up while you wear it so you feel better.

[@hoormubarek9301]

do whatever you think is best for you! remember everything is about intention

[@RitaGehman]

You should do what feels good to you. A person's identity changes and evolves over time. Your heart tells you what feels good or bad to you. If wearing it feels good to you, then do that. If taking it off feels good to you, then do that. God did not create robots. We are meant to exercise our free will and to be creators like He is. We are meant to create the world we want, not to be controlled and morphed by it. Your heart and your feelings are excellent indicators on what your next creation project should be.

[@hoormubarek9301]

Rita Gehman this is amazing advice!! you’re the only one who knows what’s best for u! don’t just follow blindly learn about it, then decide what decision you think is best for you, and you are alwyas free to put it back on if u take it off the regret it i hope you whatever you choose makes you happy❤️

[@MelTheGoToGirl]

I am a Christian with a Muslim boyfriend. I have started wearing Hijabs as we are transitioning into marriage soon. I am at my best in my hijab. I have never felt so beautiful and precious as the first day i wore my hijab. Muslimahs, please be encouraged to continue wearing your hijabs. No matter what politics or society says there are genuine people who love and respect your desire and beliefs to Serve Allah. I cant wait to join the Community. ❤️❤️

[@radushachannel]

I'm a revert. I started covering my hair from time to time when I was Christian. But if someone told me 2 years ago that I would wear a scarf all the time I would not believe it. I thought it would make me not beautiful and people would turn away from me. Even now I sometimes struggle to go out dressed as a Muslim. Especially after all these stories on social media about attacks against Muslims. But the moment I leave the house I see mostly people don't care. And I hope that maybe some girl gonna get inspired to wear it too. Because I also looked at hijabis before and I liked the way they looked.

[@emiliesmith5032]

Валерия Звездова Me too! I converted almost a year ago and the first thug I learned about Islam was hijab.

[@Sara-zr5eo]

I also wear Hijab and still wearing it eventhough I moved to a foreign country. And I've never feel that I'm less beautiful or smth...I love Hijab

[@mrsgolden6526]

Well hijab is supposed to make you look less beautiful or appealing to men, so that feeling is reasonable If hijab would make you look more beautiful it would do the contrary of what it's supposed to do

[@radushachannel]

Look beautiful and attract men are two different things.

[@mrsgolden6526]

@@radushachannel no not really, even in the scripture it says COVER YOUR BEAUTY so you don't attract men It's one and the same thing and it's supposed to make you temporarily less beautiful so you don't attract anybody, that's the what covering is supposed to do

[@maishasheik2976]

Bcz here are some honest reasons and it's not about my belief. 1. I don't want anyone to criticise me or my religion. 2. Humidity problem 3. I don't wana men to stare at me bcz of covering too much. 4. I want to be adaptable and flexible for all situations 5. I want to work without any hesitation in a working environment 6. I do have non muslim friends and respect other feelings also.. So I don't want to make them feel embarrassing or uncomfortable around me. 7. Faith should be in ur heart and mind and not in ur fabrics. 8. I want to feel the completeness of feminine. 9. I don't do it for the sake of a men, so called husband. Probably he is doing nothing for women. 10. I don't take it off for exposing my skin as my dressing sense is decent and elegant. Its nothing but just my way of clothing. 11. I don't want to prove am a muslim by hijab identity. Am faithful by heart for Allah. Prayer is important. Better I show myself non religious to the world while faith inside. 12. It makes me feel good and confidence to start my day.

[@naheenisapoet69]

1) so u would stop wearing it cause someone critisized u? if someone criticized me for my hijab i would rather stand my ground like our prophet did. 2) Hijab doesnt hinder your flexibility. IF some people cant respect diversity its their problem not yours. Does an immodest woman stop wearing shorts because some people dont like it? NO so neither should u care what others think of your hijab.3) And if you have friends that cant respect your hijab then u should get better friends. 4) Hijab is not worn for men, but for your best. Showing off femininity makes one insecure and sensitive to society standards 5) IF you feel confident without hijab that means u like to show off .Allah doesnt like show off, 6) hijab is just as important as prayer for women.7) REMEMBER DEEDS NOT WORDS truly express who you are

[@maerythegreek9008]

Descent English and very well said! If these thought were more well known,people will not be so judjmental about muslim women!

[@bellatrix4751]

Its too late maybe, but your english is great, and i agree with all your point, bc these are my reasons too, i never wore hijab, recently i recognised i dont want to, i beliave that Allah didnt made us to suffer and hate hijab deepdown, and i still feel love from Allah, He answers on my prayer and wishes.

[@esra_al_]

At 5:20. That statement can be used both ways! Muslims have their own prejudiced standards about what Muslim women need to do to fit in. Why don't people understand that? I get more judgment about not keeping it on and more pressure to meet MUSLIMS' expectation of what a Muslim woman "should look like" than i do pressure to "fit in to western society" from non-Muslims. I couldn't care less about the American standard or the Muslim expectation. I am just disgusted at how much hate and rejection I am facing just by openly questioning it. If my muslim community can't comprehend or have compassion for us going though this identity crisis, why should I feel safe continuing to conform?

[@reemelayan2360]

Well said Melanie, especially your last reason about the loss of conviction. You're right,we do need to keep up with our Islamic believes and the state of our iman. I see this issue manifest in my own life when I feel my iman is not as strong as it could be. When that happens,I go back to listening to lectures,reading more Quran and reminding myself why we do what we do. May Allah reward you for all that you do Melanie. You are an inspiration and someone to look up to, mashallah!

[@DiamondNoor95]

Proud of you for having the courage to admit that! God bless you

[@loricarroll3662]

THANK YOU!!!!! So much for this video I am not a Muslim but I have been following you for a long time if my husband would approve I would be wearing a hijab but I do wear a head covering mine is a lace veil. And I follow your modest dress ideas... you are my inspiration. This video touched my heart.

[@juliemaurice7176]

Well said !

[@sarahmcdonald7989]

Very well said, the best response to this issue I've seen so far.

[@kalimmahmud1676]

Yes

[@lilyat4243]

Hijab is a test, it aint supposed to be easy...you gotta decide who you ultimately want to please Allah swt or this insignificant world...boy the amount of negativity that came my way and still is after i wore the hijab this ramadan...the friends, coworkers , even some family members were giving me their 2cents opinion about my hijab. I have to admit it was difficult sometimes i feel so lonely in this. I lost the person i thought i would get married to and spend the rest of my life with because he (a muslim) believed that hijab is not in the quran and that I should live the lifestyle of the rest if i want to get a good job, be safe and live happily in the west..but now aside from all of this...I know Allah swt is my goal and He matters, no one elses' opinion.

[@Shannyrulz4eva]

lily at im so sorry to hear about your situation with your ex 😔 i had a similar experience as you when i put on the scarf 2 and half years ago. I lost many close friends. I was discriminated by both muslims and non-muslims. One of my muslim friends even called me stupid when i wore it. But i'm a stubborn woman so of course i never listened.

[@Sana-blossom]

I am so sorry to hear that. But you know you should thank God that he he revealed the true colours of your ex before u married him. What's the point of being with someone who does not understand such a simple thing about u. And it's not even about the hijab. It's about ur personal choice. The one who does not understand your personal choice does not deserve to be with u.

[@sarahkhaled1030]

lily at wow bless your soul hunny honestly so beautiful to read and see how strong your faith and love is for Allah (Subhan Wa Talla) stay strong Allah promised all believera he will grant you with beyond what you wished for. ان مع العسرا يسرا /ان مع العسر يسرا

[@sarahkhaled1030]

shanny94 sha actually you are a strong women who is standing up for what she believes in

[@zepeterinma]

Hijab is something to mislead people away from the path of Allah. He was right, it's not in the Quran. I think that instead of wearing such an oppressive outfit, it would strengthen your faith more to maybe actually read the Quran.

[@marinaeldirani]

You’re very knowledgeable... very clear and Concise explanation ❤️

[@angelbell9357]

I really appreciate this video. Thank you

[@ARUchannel1]

It is not mandatory to wear hijab... No more hijab

[@asiakhan5314]

The political climate has SO little to do with women taking the hijab off. 99.9% of them who uses that excuse are, like you said, using it as a scapegoat. Insecureness and lack of taking ownership of the hijab are biggest reasons.

[@uhhmmkay6095]

Asia K just because you haven't been through it doesn't mean it doesn't happen

[@emilybrown3548]

Don't speak on behalf of others. You have no idea what other people go through, so keep your ignorance to yourself.

[@itismelogic6180]

I am not a muslim, but I find this video so offensive. No western country is forcing muslim women to take off their hijab. THere is almost no areas in the west where muslims are being attacked for wearing it! Where did you get this information from? - However many places with a lot of immigrants from muslim countries, we see a lot of rape and harasment of non-muslim women especially in Europe! So stop this hypricitic bullshit! Because you wear Hijab you do send a message out to girls that don't that they are not modest, and that unfortunately make a lot of especially muslim boys see western women as "whores or sluts". This is not okay. A lot of wwomen in countries like Germany have been told to cover up more because of Muslim migrants not respecting the way western women dress, and because it might end up getting them rape. What a person wear should not be the factor for how people threat them! That being said, I do support your rights to cover up, but it is bullshit saying that muslim women are persecuted to take off their hijab, when it is clearly non-muslim women who receives the most harasment over their choice of clothing by muslims.

[@maryrosed8475]

How about women want to live in and be part of the 21st century! Did Muslims never hear of live and let live. Ladies show off your beautiful hair. God gave it to you. In fact it is so unhealthy to sit in a classroom or office all day with your head covered. Ladies do not be blinded by the fanatics that want to keep you down. Wear your hijab praying and going to the mosque but leave it at that.

[@julberryjuan4534]

The New Testament is older than islam by 700 years! Islam is a heretic, It is not connected to Jesus. The new testament is where the true story can be found. Sure theres worship, theres too much islamic terrorism 1400 years. Islam has done bad things. Impregnating 12 year old girls is not normal, those young girls still have milk on their lips. Wearing black hijabs creates a dull world. Jesus Christ is opposite to false prophet muhammad... The ideals of marriage started from the Christian Church one man + one woman only. That is from God, before islam existed. This islamic heresy is being propagated evem though its huge wrongs are visible both inside the islamic world and outside. I have seen too many tragedies. Its still fresh in my memories. Islamic terrorists are very fluent in arabic both in speech and accent and also in presence and smell. A world according to islam is a dull world full of terrorism. Most young girls would get pregnant by 9-12 yrs old and then live a life covered in black hijab. Damn costumes. Jesus is always better than false prophet muhammad. Jesus is better than muhammad, young girls are allowed to smile and show their hair and beauty in the Christian world that is why there are a lot of confident and beautiful women in the Christian World. My first hand experience is always "tell me how you feel". One reason why im kind to muslim women its because they live a horrible life, you dont even see their smiles in the open. In my country, even though some are born from the muslim household we encourage them to show their smiles and hair. They can wear normal clothing, not horrible costumes.

[@charismachichester1150]

I love the hijab and always thought that women who wear it are so pure inside and out it makes me feel beautiful and protected I hope women are still wearing the hijab by the time I am ready to start wearing permanently

[@safiyyah5250]

Aww, have u started wearing it permanently?

[@kathleenschroeder915]

Im very sorry, but i understand your intention is good here, at least i hope so, but you have no right to answer these questions for other woman! You are not in their shoes and have no idea what is going on in their lives! I also believe that the physical "hijab" which we consider the head scarf, should NOT define how practicing or religious a woman is! PERIOD!!!!!

[@Joy-uf9pg]

She is right. There may be other reasons but what she mentioned are the basic ones. Mostly not feeling beautiful, not being accepted by society and having a weak faith

[@esra_al_]

100% agree!!

[@hoormubarek9301]

agreed!!!

[@SA-rx3dv]

One thing I dont get about hijab is for example when you go on holiday with your husband, or out to dinner, or to a wedding/party you can't look nice for him. In the first few years of marriage thats important for the husband like he enjoys his wife looking nice for him when they go out together. But in hijab you can't! Like no non mehram sees you , but your husband doesn't really see you either. Most of the time your hair will be covered. You can't do your hair or wear jewellery or look nice for him on a date night. Its not like in times before when everything was segregated. We live in a very integrated world and we spend a lot of time outside. I know its a little thing but it does make a big difference. Its difficult for a guy to be attracted to when 80 per cent of the time you're covered. And I know you don't wear it at home in front of your husband but who dresses up at home?! There's a million things to be done at home cooking and cleaning and washing. Its just not practical. And then when your husband takes u out u can't look nice for him :(

[@noor1991hb]

I'm honest with my self, I'm forced to wear it to please the others, and I everyday don't choose to wear it in contrary, I choose not to wear it but Muslim in my circleare dictators . The society is harmful, people don't accept us as we are. In many cases the family and the husband apply a lot of pressure on the woman .

[@hautehijab]

Thank you so much for sharing Noor. I know many women around the world are struggling with hijab particularly because of their governments or other external pressures. May Allah SWT make it easier on you. Keeping you in my duaas ❤️

[@firuahmad3128]

I am muslim and 2 years ago i started to wear hijab and i am happy with that! Also living in US but here i found myself , in my country i didnt wear hijab , 98% there muslims but they not using hijab. Girls hijab this is one thing fro Allah which we have to do it. Good luck for everybody and dont take of your 🧕🏻👌

[@Rache_777]

Love listening to you Melanie and your opinion matters to me ❤❤❤ Prayer is the key to strong imaan and ease in wearing the hijab so look after the prayer :)

[@RYEANkindaAWESOME]

This was eye opening and touched on everything I was feeling

[@soniaevans1]

It’s individual woman’s choice no one should put any pressure either way

[@Hijabibti925]

I think I'm going to try to listen to this everyday to get myself to go for it.

[@violetowl136]

You found a lovely company that makes awesome hijabs that "can empower and instill self-confidence in hijabis." That is because the beautiful colors/styles adds to their personalities and give them agency. Then why is it so hard to understand that some women feel empowered and confident when they let their hair bounce around? because their hair is what adds to their personality. I've known may hijabi women who taken the scarf off and their hiding in the guise of political harm/I'm not ready yet, but in reality, they don't feel like it's helping them be better religiously. Please consider this.

[@haziqahzuhairah]

I wanted to take off my hijab because I just love to braid my hair. ( well, that what was I was thinking until I really do it and I become less self-esteem ). In the end, I cut my long hair as short as a kpop boys hairstyle.

[@bunieemegwa2837]

@Ca11MeZed Shut the fuck up and leave this girl alone. You never see her new hairstyle so how can you comment on that? Go and fuck yourself, you ugly creature.

[@deganali4739]

Hanachan stars sounds cute. I’ve always wanted to get a pixie

[@Jakapan-Yupanki]

Take off your hijab and leave islam!!!

[@rynriss]

Jakapan 665-667 Yupanki no thanks ♥️

[@sigma959]

@@Jakapan-Yupanki No thanks

[@aaduckie]

i converted to sufism 5.5 years ago and have been wearing hijab full time since the end of december last year (i live in australia). i have had challenges in the process of finding my own 'style' and feeling comfortable with dressing modestly, etc, but alhumdulilah i have only had positive experiences and supportive responses from others. however, my nafs (ego) has recently been making me question my 'why' for wearing hijab, and giving me the idea that wearing it because 'Allah and my heart told me it was time to do it' was not a good enough reason. shukran melanie for reminding me that this is the best reason ever! alhumdulilah. may we all find ease and guidance from Allah in what He wants for us and how He wants us to dress, etc. amin

[@rses916]

Salam Im also a Sufi. What order do you belong to?

[@tasfiatanzila]

I’m muslim & I will never ever wear the hijab. I despise this forced modesty that is put on women in Islam. The hijabi will always be seen as a ‘better muslim’ than non-hijabis & the non-hijabi will always be seen as immodest and will be shamed. & muslims always discuss the ‘struggles’ of hijabis in the West but what about the struggles of other women in the Middle East/Arab countries, where a lot of Muslim women are FORCED to cover up. Being modest & being spiritual/close to God do not go hand in hand with each other.

[@bbdd4972]

Tasfia At the end of the day Hijab for men and women is mandatory, and in Islam no can be forced to wear it Periodt

[@youarepretty5299]

Personally, i see that you shouldn't force anyone to anything. So if your parents or anyone forced you, don't do the same mistake to your kids. Some girls don't love the hijab and that's totally fine, you do you. Some other girls love the hijab (without any force). If you don't love the hijab and you are wearing it, think of why you wore it in the first place. Is it because I was forced, or maybe because I saw all my friends doing it, or because I was praying and I loved the idea, or etc. If it was negative, stop wearing it and don't think of people judging you and stuff and if it was positive, you do you. You know what I mean, Only wear it if you are close to allah or if you pray. At the end, Allah will judge you. Inshallah we all meet in jannah.

[@rockbison8567]

my strict family told me to wear hijab which wasn't my intention obviously. I'm currently considering of taking it off but I'm just scared they and my relatives might hate or look down on me for it. but in my opinion, I think it won't make me a better or worse Muslim if I don't wear hijab or if I do, as long as I'm still praying and practising Islam. please correct me if I'm wrong. I need the answer 🥺

[@lol-bz2bl]

do what makes you feel good about yourself and don’t mind them

[@everg14]

I completely agree with your points, Melanie, and I think what I'm about to mention goes under #3. I pray every day and fast and make duaa and believe my faith is pretty strong. I have a good connection with God. The only thing I struggle with is hijab. I wore it at a young age and now I'm struggling to find the importance of it since I have many friends who don't wear it and still are so religious and god-fearing people. One point also is convenience I would say. I'm in the medical field and my hijab gets in the way all the time esp when trying to learn in class with my classmates and it brings me down.

[@hautehijab]

Salam :) I would go back and ask yourself why you put it on. Since you were young, maybe you never really took the time to take ownership of your hijab and ask yourself, "why do I wear this?" Really ask yourself. Why do you have it on? If you don't have a good answer, then delve deep into your heart and find the answer. What makes you keep it on each day? Read up on the verses on hijab in the Quran and sunnah - understand what it means to you, how it makes you feel and why it's important. It's soooo important to do this exercise so that each morning you feel strong and when things are an inconvenience like being in the medical field, instead of it feeling like an inconvenience, you'll be content knowing Allah (S) is on your side as you struggle yet remain strong. I know you can get there, dig deep inside yourself and really do some soul searching

[@tanyanest348]

everg14 have you tried to wear a surgical cap/scrub hat? There are different designs and it's very convenient! I am an Embryologist working in the lab and my hair is always covered with a hat plus I wear a long sleeve undershirt with my scrubs. Hope it helps!

[@Sam-oh2od]

Great video, still very pertinent 2 years later!

[@justme6862]

There are many sisters stating that hijab is unnecessary, and passe. Then, sister who don't know any better follow. I also will admit that when I see such sisters I don't say anything. But, they need to be addressed.

[@brahimkhaffou6155]

Asalamu alaykum. Emm... I would say that I took off my hijab because here in France, we can not wear it before university, so you may take it off befor enter to the high school. I felt like I were not doing the right because all the teachers and students in school saw me without hijab and after leaving the school, they see me wearing it. This made me think that I was like playing with islam, so I take it off and I'm attending to enter the university and wear it. Sorry for my english grammar and vocabulary and thanks for the video

[@SaimaKhan-gc3jo]

I think the video should have also clarified that by no means do any of these reasons dictate a woman never putting it back on again

[@amour7388]

The answer is : none of your business. Ppl don’t choose their religion they’re born with it. Maybe they started wearing haijab when they were young now they changed their mind. Life is easy ppl can do whatever makes them happy. This video doesn’t make sense tbh..” don’t wanna be rude but.. ”

[@naheenisapoet69]

People aren't born with religion idiot..

[@artnoor7843]

Nahin Taba Yes they are. esp muslims who make their kids muslim by default, not allowing them a choice.

[@diamond3529]

I agree, most people become what there parents were, my mother was catholic so i grew up catholic, some people parents grew them up muslim. I rather learn about all religions and pull out what i agree with from each, no one has to be one thing or just be something because of your parents. Its good to make your own decisions.

[@diamond3529]

Nahin Taba Smartie they are born into the religion of their parents, did you choose your religion for yourself or did your parents choose it for themselves?

[@firstlast3510]

Diamond Teff yes you obviously can be born into a religion but you don’t need to stay in it. Islam teaches you not to inherit your religion. You’re meant to understand it in order to believe it yourself. Ever heard of converts/reverts ??

[@jenniferperez8043]

I don’t wear hijab as a revert and my issues are the opposite of because my family are Christian and I live with them and don’t allow me to wear hijab.Trust me hijabi girls you won’t find a husband even if you don’t wear one! Because in my experience being 26yrs never had a boyfriend or someone interested in me without wearing a hijab my whole life!. But to be honest if a guy likes you for you he should love you with or without hijab period. But it’s true that women that are allowed to wear hijab should wear hijab because it’s God’s rules and you represent the Virgin Mary. I only worn the hijab to the mosque and when I wear it I love to see myself. And you too can love it when you have stronger imam. It could be difficult at times the fact you see all these girls in media looking good in revealing clothes and attract more attention.

[@brownsugar5974]

I wonder how will those ppl who take off their hijab because of politics deal if they were black 🤔

[@hautehijab]

Great point....

[@dandelion6617]

Most people aren't racist anymore at least in my area but there is a raise of Islamophobia and my family is the only muslim family in the area and my cousin was attacked and an Arab shop was vandalized so better safe then sorry

[@HitherandYarn]

I've often thought the same thing!

[@angelnafeesa5332]

Islamphobia had a raise for sure

[@AjieA]

Brown Sugar I’m black and hijabi and it’s gotten really hard 😭

[@doaadorgham9444]

Salam Melanie. Thanks for posting! I think a lot of people are starting to take it off because they think that hijab is not fard. Particularly , the fact that so many scholars find fatwahs for things that are clearly in the Quran like how interest is haram, or how animals should be slaughtered. Yet it is okay to take out a loan if you want to go to med school, or buy house, or eat non zabiha meat. Why is it that something so vague, does not have any fatwah? I would love to hear your thoughts about this. Thanks for doing all that you do!

[@PepperandPine]

Excellent video, MashaAllah!

[@thalblankson4002]

I wear hijab everyday and never taking it off inshallah . I love you soo much 😘😘😍❤ Salam Alakuim

[@fatimaqazalbash7444]

Thal Lu Jazak Allah sister

[@emiliesmith5032]

Me too, sister-😊😊

[@anjayy-rf4hm]

Keep wearing it, in a Muslim country,

[@misa4481]

Thal Lu Fuck you, stay in your muslim country bitch

[@mxwitcher]

@@misa4481 ok racist

[@gbado9528]

Mashaa Allah. Blissed sister this a great good deed may Allah reward you for it in the here and the after inshaallah.

[@aishaj7126]

Assalamu alaykum, JazakAllah khair! I think another reason may be, the sister wants to feel what it’s like to blend in with society and not always stand out or have people stare, especially if she never experienced life without hijab as an adult.

[@jerryricks8389]

Very eloquent essay.

[@juliemaurice7176]

Its such a shame because Hijab is so beautiful. I am not a muslim and I dont live in a big city where I could blend in but I would love to wear Hijab just for the sense of security and comfort let alone the beauty. I would like to see more non muslim women wearing hijab, we used to wear scarves in this country when I was a child I remember nearly all women wore them but now we have to freeze to death, or bake in the sun, why did women in Britain stop wearing head scarves? Lets have a revival and become just women wearing scarves for their own reasons and looking beautiful coz they want to :)

[@juliemaurice7176]

ps i am not trying to disrespect islam in any way with my comments.

[@juliemaurice7176]

I did not think that you were at all, there is no way that your words could be understood as criticism. I wanted to just say how much courage is needed to wear a hijab and I wish it as more commonplace to see women of all faiths wearing beautiful hijab which would make it easier for us all. I am not a Muslim myself, its just when all your neighbours who have known you for ears see you suddenly wearing hijab I wonder what would they think? I am going to pluck up the courage one day ad I will post here how I get on.

[@hibamohammedakbar6025]

U are amazing....and everything u said is soo correct..im a proud hijabi Alhamdulilah

[@mothersoul1]

great video. Jazak Allah khair

[@jennifertall2015]

I think sometimes to take in off because is france is so much difficult to live with but I moved in UK and is better but is not easy sometimes I think again but god help me a lot

[@rokayamane2668]

I would really feel sad when I see a practicing girl taking her hijab off. BUT people like ascia and dina, I am glad to say that it is a blessing from Allah to see them taking off their hijab. They did the best for the ummah and for the young girls. Seeing them with their tattoos, inappropriate clothing and behavior with hijab or turban is heartbreaking for any believer. They have done the right thing, they fed up leaving under the banner of hypocrisy. Now they can be themselves. I know it sounds dishonest from their side taking their hijab off after they gathered millions of followers. Well...they did not force anyone to follow them when it was obvious they were not there to be a hijabi role model nothing but using the ummah as an escalator. Elhamdullilah inshaAllah other so called hijabi bloggers and fraudsters will take it off to pay respect to the words of Allah.

[@sorayayousefi9723]

I am iranian but live in Italy. I don't like wearing hijabs , and without being disrepectful to girls who like hijab , I even dare to say that most iranian women inside and outside of iran don't like hijab. In iran there are strict laws based on the religion, not many like it. We can even take the woman's position in islam to such an extent that you shouldn't even be here speaking to possible men who are not your relatives on the internet.

[@emankhalid1034]

I am confused and just looking for answers. I know that in Islam it says to cover up and be modest. I get that and I am a pretty modest person, I dress modestly, but I took my hijab off cause from what I know in the Quran it says to dress modestly but where does it say the head needs to be covered. Like for example what is the point of it if u wear super tight clothing where everything is showing but the hair VS someone who is modest in there clothing but doesn't cover the head.

[@arfa5961]

Jazakallah for this. But what you suggested was the individual element and the perception of people (any girl) towards hijab and the many factors that sum up to the action of leaving the hijab. But there is one crucial and wholistic factor that we have completely overlooked. It’s the societal factor and the system of authority that does not abide by or implement Islamic Shariah laws which educate and protect women and acknowledges them of their Islamic rights and obligations. Hijab is not only a part of personal belief, it’s an obligation for all, just like prayer and fast. The day Islam is implemented as the law of governance and the education system supports complicity and develops strong, god fearing and pious women who know their rights, is the day when society would establish the standard of a women’s dress code and that would be law of the land. InshaAllah.

[@hatice0089]

You are amazing haute hijab and iam really sorry for the women who take the hijab off

[@rafaydahibrahim7074]

i ve been wearing hijab for two years but I very often get thoughts of taking it off can someone give me good reasons to not take it off, btw im 16

[@hautehijab]

Salaam Rafaydah! Thank you so much for reaching out! We can't give you professional advice but we are definitely willing to talk! Please feel free to reach out to us at [e-mail] :)

[@Lubby33152]

Why not try it off for awhile see how it feels vs having it on. If you feel that you are comfortable with it on keep it. If not, don't. God knows what's in our hearts. Hijab is not obligatory. NO where in the Quran does it even mention the word "hijab" as it relates to a women's dress. So do what you feel is right for you.

[@ISMAEL-ul5eb]

@@Lubby33152 hijab is compulsory as salat is .. if you don't know say i dunno else stop misleading sisters .

[@chapdattext3167]

Tbh I'm not attracted to the hijab because it's a defense mechanism so guys won't look at girls sexually. And it works!!!! I dont feel sexually attracted to the girl despite being in the same religion. I'm a secular though

[@aaminali2743]

For me,wearing the hijab is an everyday struggle at school... Living in the west, nobody wants to approach me because they think that I'm different. I feel as if I'm missing out on so many opportunities. People will talk to me, but i feel as if they are very distant. I don't know this is a huge struggle for me. I've just grown this way, where I can't seem to have that high self-esteem to be proud in what I'm wearing. I can't seem to make friends either. I've always been a sporty person, but being the only hijabi on the team makes me the odd one. There were many instances where I was discriminated and made fun of by some of the boys on my team. It's hard but I know that taking the hijab off will not solve any of my problems either, as I can see that from many of the girls at my school that have taken theirs off. Anyways, thank you so much for addressing this issue. You are a great role model for many of us Muslim females out there :)

[@hautehijab]

Firstly, thank you so much for sharing and for being so strong through all of these situations. I'm really sorry to hear about what you're going through :( I want you to know that I've been through similar situations and I'm sure I can speak for many others when saying they've been through the same as well. Unfortunately, hijab can be somewhat of a struggle these days but the most important thing is to stay true to yourself and continue to do what you love and always remember to be yourself! People will eventually learn to love you for you and not what you wear. Also, keep in mind being the only hijabi in a sport isn't always a bad thing :) Ibtihaj Muhammad is a perfect example being the only Hijabi fencer for the US team at the Olympics! If anything, it makes you more special and more unique!! I'm proud of you for how far you've come thus far. :) Please know that we are always here ❤️ -- Haute Hijab, and our community -- please keep in touch!! :)

[@aaminali2743]

Haute Hijab thank you I sure will🥰

[@afshi786]

I feel some people take it off like you about point number 3. They have some personal issues in their lives and in turn takes them away from their dean because they think Allah isn't helping them out so what's the point of wearing hijab. It's like they lost all hope. Sad but true

[@zey3857]

how do you pray with nailpolish.isnt that haram

[@diamond3529]

zey whats they big deal

[@liashe145]

Maybe she was on her period,gosh

[@Miscellaneos101]

I converted to Islam in 2009 and I had been searching for truth and love and acceptance, I felt like I had found everything I ever wanted and more because now I even had a relationship with God. Now being muslim for 10 years I see things much differently. When I met my husband I wasnt muslim and we both fought so hard to be with eachother me being a non muslim wasn't a problem for him, but started wearing hijab so I could show his family I wasn't "American" and that I was opened minded. Four years of us being together in Temporary Marriage I got pregnant and his family was so angry they disowned my husband, but I had been muslim for 4 years?! After 5 years of being Muslim I was finally "allowed" to go to the Mosque because his family was so afraid of "what the community would say". When I finally go to the Mosque the women were in the back, which was seperate from the men with a huge curtain to add to the segregation. All the women are already wearing hijab so why the segregation?! My husband and my family dont get along so even if I want to visit my family my husband won't let me go alone. My husband isnt religious, he doesnt fast, or pray but now when I mention that I don't want to wear hijab he says he wont stay with me, because he feel that I lied to him for wearing a hijab, and didnt do it for the rite reasons. Keep in mind that his family is shia and NOT Sunni as people like to stereotype the Sunni muslims for being stricter than the Shia. Clearly thats not true. I feel that you dont need a hijab to be modest, god loves us all the same and in the quran it is repeated over and over The MOST MERCIFUL. I dont think you would go to hell for not wearing hijab that would go against the quran and gods mercy. People stop wearing hijab for all types of reasons.

[@shumabegum7038]

Atleast wear yours properly sis! Can see your hair

[@farahelgamal3119]

Okay I really have nothing against you and since this was a year ago, I hope you are more open minded. Yes maybe a little bit of her hair is showing, but we can see that she's trying her best here. Maybe she didn't even notice that the scarf slid off a bit. It happens a lot. Also the fact that she's wearing it and trying is commendable.

[@lailaalkassabi3933]

I’m here after knowing Amena Khan removed her hijab 🧕🏼😩😭

[@nagarbaul420]

How about a simple reason? Because I want to ?

[@ankra12]

Nahid Exactly 😁

[@reezis1619]

You are disobeying Allah, that is your choice. We don't care if you take off your hijab, the problem with people taking off their hijab are the ones twisting the Quran and spreading false teachings about how the Quran doesn't mention the hijab when everyone during the life of the prophet wore it and people have been wearing it for thousands of years no problem even nuns during christianity wore it. This false idea that the quran doesn't mention the hijab started a couple years ago by some retarded feminists. If your reason is you don't want to wear the hijab because you don't want to then that is a good reason and I will not judge you for that. As long as you admit that wearing the hijab is still a commandment by Allah. That is all.

[@yasserrizk5980]

I don't know why I am here , I want to be agnostic not just take off my hijab . And exactly do what you want , you don't need a shallow reason .

[@melayuthailand1366]

its hot sometimes and it bothers a lot when wind blows.and wanna feel free.

[@Leo-Lady]

Alot of them take it off out of threat for their safety.

[@MC-fw5vt]

I think it's important to respect everyone's choice regarding the hijab. If my friend has taken off her hijab, I will respect her choice 100%. In any case, the hijab doesn't signify religious commitment for many. I think it's really sad and hypocritical when people unfollow hijabis who take their hijab off, but continue to follow those who wear it. This makes it like a "choice" to put it on, but certainly not a real, free "choice" to take it off, due to the ostracism and even hate that follows. Not to mention loss of business on KZbin :(

[@yummiyahyaa]

It ain't in the Quran...full stop. Go do your homework. Modesty ain't a headcarf

[@vonderheide]

I'm a revert been muslim 12 yrs and I struggle everyday with hijab I sometimes feel like taking it off I know that hijab is a mandate from Allah but I struggle hrs and hrs everyday just to put it on just to go out I love hijab and all but just can't no matter how many videos I watch or how many times I try playing with hijab I struggle and don't get me started on the hijab hair after I take it off I just don't feel pretty after I wear it

[@hautehijab]

I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling, can you pinpoint exactly what it is that you're struggling with?

[@fatimaqazalbash7444]

angelic hamdi You have to embrace it and start from within. Also u will learn how to wear it in a classy way after alot of practice

[@sparklingfashion6276]

@@hautehijabshe just told you all the hardships and you still ask her what’s wrong

[@dndonty]

Or maybe they just see alot of hijabies now cover their hair and expose everything else and then judge others for taking of hijab!! .. we have to admit that exposing tge body in leggings or tight clothes is worse than showing hair !!!!

[@Fatii112]

Ikr there are hijab girls there are more worst than girls dont wear hijab in the arab community here if girl dont wear that hijab means shes a whore or bitch sorry about these words but that what they think about it and its sick doesn’t matter like they think ur cheap and start judging you for not wearing it that’s wrong and sick

[@farahsyed1373]

A woman had to talk about it sensibly than men. Thank you. All reasons are prevalent. Political, personal, social n all. We have to stand for our deen over all else. But most painful to see woman not observing islamic code or dressing is in muslim countries where they are not under threat. Where they can do easily and beautifully but choose not to because they are NOT READY yet (to submit to Allah)

[@nunulay6796]

My Indonesian, Malaysian and Thailand friends taken of Hijab. Said to nothing in Al-Qur'aan and Islam.

[@9grand]

Hijab ( modesty)and make-up ( vanity). is like a vegan with leather shoes. Pure hypocrisy !

[@neofils]

well said!

[@FoundSheep-AN]

No it’ s not, loose hair and exposed hair are really different from showing a face with classy make up

[@9grand]

@@FoundSheep-AN . But still not modest!

[@aquarius2284]

I am a muslim woman and I feel you are trying to defend your choice of wearing hijab rather than objectively enumerating the reasons other women decide to take their hijab off. Hijab as in head covering. You conveniently selected the more extreme reasons which are, indeed valid reasons, to a point. But I feel there is also a tone of judgement towards your sisters who chose to stop wearing it. Hijab in the Quran is "veils upon yourselves", and historically cloaks. Cloaks worn by slave women in order to not be differentiated from noble women, thus avoiding being raped. As you well know, the Prophet's society was a tribal society. And so, in the Quran, the role of this khimar, this veil, is to preserve women's chastity and purity, to avoid being harassed by men. The most common reason western muslim women take their hijab off is because the point of wearing hijab is obsolete in the West. They're not going to get raped without it, their deen isn't affected by a scarf, especially if they are adults with university degrees, there is simply little reason to keep their hair constrained like that. Some muslim women of the same opinion as yourself love to talk about hijab being a sacrifice, as a slave of Allah SWT, however none of this is present in the Quran, nor the taking off of the hijab is stipulated as a sin in the Quran. And their argument for it is that we are supposed to follow the sunnah. I ask, when did the sunnah become the letter of the law? There are so many things in the sunnah that you cannot practice today. I feel like the customs of sahabis have started to be worshipped before the Quran, the word of Allah SWT. Like, if a sahabi used to burp three times after a meal and fart once in appreciation, we should do the same because it's sunnah? Because this is what is happening within the sunni community. In saying that these women's deen has decreased, you are condemning their decisions to take the hijab off. You equate taking the hijab off with abandoning the deen, which is incredibly narrow minded and judgy. You also imply that their decision to take the hijab off somehow coincides with them offering up their bodies to be feasted on by men and men's eyes. I wasn't aware that a scarf on your head is the basis of your morals as a muslim woman. For your sake, try to go through your arguments and see the other side of the coin. You shouldn't feel threatened by these women so much that you judge their deen. Why do you wear the hijab, besides being convinced that it's mandatory? Do you really believe there is compulsion in anything in Islam? There has to be a better reason than that.

[@lejlapjanic912]

You re so right! 🙌🏻

[@wafout-zl4mi]

Aqua Rius agree with everything u said !! sadly muslims today focus on superficial stuffs more than anything not because it’s mandatory but because its easy

[@johnwaynepresley]

Are ya'll serious? This person is making an excuse for not wearing it. What on EARTH does a person burping have to do with what ALLAH has decreed at least three times in the Quran. Sisters, please? If we are commanded to pray, is it NOT a sin to stop praying since the Quran does not say, "Don't stop praying"? You, as a woman were commanded to wear it. So was I, my dear. Please, we cannot deny Allah has told us to cover ourselves. Don't try to please those who encourage you to do otherwise. She is not equating taking off the hijab to leaving Islam. If Allah has commanded me to do ANYTHING, and I don't do it. Let's say I drink alcohol, that shows I am having issues with my iman. If we were perfect and didn't need to repent, Allah would create a nation that wasn't perfect so they could err and repent. This is in hadith. I understand there are things difficult for you...maybe this is difficult for you. Maybe other things that please Allah are VERY easy for you. It's ok. But we can't try to pretend like there isn't a problem with our iman or get upset when others try to correct us. **We were not only commanded to wear the hijab because we don't want to get raped..there are many benefits to society as well, men were told to lower their gaze and then women were told to cover. It's better if a man doesn't have the opportunity to see a woman because that can cause him to lust (even if he doesn't try to rape you)...our men were also told to be jealous for their women (in a good way). why flaunt your beauty to those who will just gauk at you. I think you don't understand why the hijab was issued for the people. It's not just for one person, but the benefit of society as well. I love you for the sake of Allah and I ask Allah to make ALL things easy for you and us.

[@Earthling108]

@@johnwaynepresley I don't believe a hijab is enough to stop a lustful stare. I knew a male who was still attracted to hijabis.

[@johnwaynepresley]

@@Earthling108 Right, sister. But you don't wear the hijab for the sake of that male. you should wear it for the sake of Allah. Quran: 33:59 O Prophet, tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to bring down over themselves [part] of their outer garments. That is more suitable that they will be known and ***not be abused. And ever is Allah Forgiving and Merciful. Allah has given us perfect guidance. we can either accept it or deny it.

[@monicalabelle953]

Salam aleikum, i am a muslimah and its two years without a job. In my country no one will hire a woman with hijab on. I have to take mine of at the work place and when am finish work i put it back on.

[@hautehijab]

Salaam Monica! I am so so sorry that you have to go through that! :( I pray that Allah makes things easier on you inshAllah ya Rab! Please feel free to reach out to us at [e-mail] if you ever want to talk or need any assistance! We're not professional therapists but are always happy to talk and help out in any way that we can! Thank you so much for sharing! Keeping you in my duaas!

[@RitaGehman]

Personally, I am of all religions. I love Islam as much as I love Christianity and Judaism. I think Islamic prayer is one of the most beautiful forms of prayer in the world. However, when I read the Quran, I do not see any evidence of needing to wear hair covering. I believe this is more Traditional and Cultural than Religious. I would NEVER visit Pakistan without full-on scarf, abaya, the works. I know better than to enter a country steeped in this Tradition without Traditional clothing to match. However, here in the U.S., I feel that it is an Open Choice and, since I don't believe this is part of the Muslim faith, I choose to wear it or not wear it freely, at any time. I love all the different kinds of answers in this conversation, by the way. It is so interesting to see so many different kinds of people and all their different answers and personal views on this. Cheers!

[@nisaakhan955]

Great talk but I just like to say for those who do not know wearing the hijab is being obedient to your lord

[@uhhmmkay6095]

Can someone explain the use of the hijab ? I keep searching and still don't get it :(

[@fatimaqazalbash7444]

Uhhmm Kay Hijab is supposed to give woman a position higher than a sexual entity. In history, we see women were seen as sexual objects and they had to wear whatever men liked them to. Islam gave woman a newer position; it asked them to cover up and not be an entertainment for men. Hijab hides the sexual side of woman and shows her human side so that she could be seen as a human in the society and could work with men without being sexualized or look at as if something to use sexually

[@uhhmmkay6095]

Fatima Qazalbash okay but my problem with that is it doesn’t stop Muslim women from being sexualised or stop them from getting raped or sexually assaulted. I completely agree ppl will view a covered Muslim different but depending on where you live it’s decides if that good or bad.

[@amour7388]

No use tbh..

[@zepeterinma]

Hijab sexualizes and objectifies women, makes them feel like they are less than they really are, but it gives them validation in terms of adhering to a group mentality, which in turn comforts them. The Quran does not prescribe such clothing anywhere, it is not mandated.

[@jamara3330]

Not even a burka stops rape in countries with rape cultures. It is seems ridiculous to wear a hijab with a face full of make up

[@abcdefg6275]

I don't really have a choice but to wear it but I don't really have a good reason to wear it

[@lol-bz2bl]

if you don’t have a good reason to wear it then why wear it?

[@lol-bz2bl]

btw hi yoongi stan 😏

[@abcdefg6275]

@@lol-bz2bl my parents make me

[@abcdefg6275]

@@lol-bz2bl haha helloo, are you a yoongi stan too?

[@dungnguyetxuanbui0403]

Maybe they that it off because they just want too ?

[@boredaf6087]

Dung nguyetxuan Bui isn’t friends took it off cause they’re scared some took it off because of peer pressure and yes sometimes it’s just cause they wanna take it of

[@thelifeofme1234]

I’m not musslum but a hijab just sounds kinda sad that girls are hiding something that everyone knows they have it’s just hair it’s not going to hurt if u take it ok

[@seiji99]

Heyo 123 we wear it bc of modesty. And its not sad at all. We want to chose how we dress. I don‘t want a society that tells me you have to show your skin,hair, beauty in order to succeed. I want to be judged upon my character and my acts than my looks and beauty. In islam women can wear Hijab if they want to. Its a obligation but its is a free decision. The human is free to do what ever they want. And we chose that. Its simple

[@thelifeofme1234]

Sureja thx for telling me I really did want to know and I’m happy to hear that I think it’s wonderful how confident u are have a nice day 🙂

[@sparklingfashion6276]

@@seiji99yeah but the thing is your reason is completely not important because you can be unnattractive but still have your hair out, you dont really need a hijab to look boring. What your real reason for wearing a hijab is because your parents told you or because God told you and you wanted to follow the rules, thats all.

[@hadijasaf968]

Mashallah sis :) these are very true and powerful words

[@hellazul3052]

Mashallah the only hijabi who defended hijab. Welldone

[@mariamyt6086]

I wear hijab and i am 10 years old

[@norastorm99]

HAPPYNESS IS GREAT IM THE BEST I was forsed to when I was 12, are you? Or is this just your own decision bc you see your family doing that?

[@jenniekim-5155]

What is your opinion on non muslim women in muslim majority countries who are being forced to wear the hijab or are beaten by the morality police?

[@erinjackson9830]

BECAUSE ITS NOT AN OBLIGATION

[@business0412]

I started wearing hijab 6 years ago. I feel like taking it off not because I want to please anyone. Not because my family doesn't want me to wear it. Not because I'm afraid of political situation. I want to take it off because my head is full of boils on scalp which is painful, and I get migraine head ache if i wear it constantly. I didn't take it off because I feel guilty of taking it off. I'm an introvert I don't really care who makes me friend and who doesn't. I'm happy with myself Alhamdulillah.

[@hautehijab]

Salaam! Thanks so much for reaching out! I'm so sorry that you're experiencing this :( Have you spoken to a doctor about it? That may be helpful! Praying that Allah makes your journey easier on you inshAllah!

[@sofi7866]

Salaam. Are you able to make a video discussing the hardships of finding a spouse while living in the west. I feel as though the concept of 'arranged marriage is nowhere near as common as it used to be and for practicing Muslims it is so difficult to find a spouse themselves without being in a relationship beforehand.

[@TheCultureOfAfghanistan]

No sister most of the sisters who took their hijab was an escape goat bcuz as soon as they took it off next came the shirt 👚 off or shorter and next came the tight clothes forget about hair coloring and so much makeup! Look closely sis May Allah guide us all

[@kellikocha7733]

Women in the Middle East are taking it off in protest because they are forced to wear it. Not because society tells them it’s bad. In the West society embraces it and tells women to wear it.

[@Fatii112]

I hate it seriously you don’t knwo what going on Middle East girl the most rude and disrespectful girls especially in saudi and near country my family is free mind opened family I didn’t wear hijab tell my age18 every one starts bullying me like im a whore im bitch sleeping with too many guys that what arab all think about girl who dont weat hijab and not being rude every hijab girl in my country go and date too many guys of course her parents doesn’t know about I don’t why the think about girl dont wear hijab are whores i hateeeee them don’t wanna live any more this country