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@jeanettemena1286 Жыл бұрын
Yea if he constantly finds fault in you - that’s his guilty conscious. He can’t bare staring in the mirror so he’s projecting his guilt on to you.
@marian55542 ай бұрын
I know i made mistakes, and i tried letting him know that i waa changing thst and i has faith in us. He smiled and said ok its a promise. And days later he broke me telling me all my mistakes ans weaknesses head to toe
@jasminea78288 ай бұрын
“He’s cultivated a distrust by being untrustworthy.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@simpsonmarie4 Жыл бұрын
My ex hubs did this a lot. And he never took responsibility for noothing he did. I was married for 14 years and he committed adultery the whole time. He blames me for that too.
@christinabaatz1204 Жыл бұрын
Be happy sister ,🙂 that you gave him up, that you broke up with him and , that you are doing YOUR life without him .
@tamiaj7350 Жыл бұрын
@JustSimply Marie... That's my current situation!!! It's just nonstop adultery!
@ThePrivacyviolation Жыл бұрын
Me too gurl ...hit me up! Lets chat and uplift each other
@deidrejordan2761 Жыл бұрын
I’m glad that you are no longer in that toxic relationship.
@sherriflemming3218 Жыл бұрын
Not your fault. Gaslighting and no accountability.
@sammie237711 ай бұрын
It's really hard for people when all Blame is thrown their way, and accountability is nowhere to be found.
@80sbaby90 Жыл бұрын
Good men are rare
@victorial87645 ай бұрын
Godly men are rare too. ❤
@MrSavannah2017 Жыл бұрын
Whew! These brothers ain't safe to love.
@simthembilefundiswamaguban9265 Жыл бұрын
You've spit facts only. This is actually a confirmation of my assessment of my ex. He has so much work to do on himself. At one point I had to tell him that he crucified me everytime because he lacked accountability for his own actions. His insecurities stemmed from his childhood, past infidelity, and of course the inability to heal from his past traumas
@reneedregmans5565 ай бұрын
💯 Men like this are so obvious they tell on themselves every time 🙏🙏🙏🙏
@joyoussouls Жыл бұрын
I actually appreciate you, because you seem to be very positive, and you’re not attacking women for being who they are and you’re being honest about how men truly are
@d6l.w8ds Жыл бұрын
PLEASEEEEEEE POST MORE MEN AND THEIR CHILDHOOD MENTAL VIDEOS LIKE THIS PLEASEEEE AND HOW THEY ACT IS A PRESENTATION OF THEMSELVES A WHOLEEE SEPARATE WORLD FROM THEIR S.O THIS WAS BEYOND BEAUTIFULLY PUT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 👏
@sxyrachelle Жыл бұрын
FACTS AGAIN!!! WHEN I NEED TO HAVE REASSURANCE OF WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH AND THE PERSON I USED TO BE WITH... BOOM, A VIDEO POPS UP😊 THANKS AGAIN!!
@Yoqyy Жыл бұрын
God works in mysteries way beautiful 💜
@lanapalij4014 Жыл бұрын
@@Yoqyyyes! Always!😉
@simpsonmarie4 Жыл бұрын
You spoke facts. This video described my ex hubs, to the T.
@malloryfithen1900 Жыл бұрын
I just want through this he left me just a couple day ago now he's telling people I did him wrong its crazy
@missantonia14goldsby Жыл бұрын
Mines attacked me and wanted me to cut all my friends off woman nd men because he felt he only mattered then told his family I was crazy and did a bunch of things to him then turned them against me too I wasn’t even aware
@Billionairess1034 ай бұрын
THIS IS SO ON POINT AS I HAVE BEEN DEALING WITH A LOT OF THINGS GOING ON IN MY LIFE. 7 YEARS OF DEALING WITH THE MADNESS.. I HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO MOVE ON AS THERE IS NO COMMUNICATION OUTSIDE OF THE YELLING AND BLAMING AND TALKING SLICK TO ME. ENOUGH OF THAT..
@tinalang1320 Жыл бұрын
I was married for 21 years, then we got divorce. Don’t want to take accountability for his actions. Adultery and few more things
@cookiesmom5849 ай бұрын
Damn ! You’ve got some incredible insight I’ve never heard before. This explains my last 7 year Situationship.
@JustMe-wu9tj8 ай бұрын
Situationship! Love that, gonna use it now.
@colorfreakjina8 ай бұрын
What a sick behavior to humble/put in place/even the score a woman who he knows has value and goodness and high level traits. Instead of trying to grow and match her level he wants her to go down so he feels good about himself. So sick.
@marsdreamproductions6 ай бұрын
Everyy try thing he said i feel like i just went through. It had me in tears. I hope to never go through that again.
@impossiblegems3 ай бұрын
Always my experience
@tubegen11 Жыл бұрын
Thank you Derrick for this truth …Thank God for you. You are inspiring generations of women and giving them the courage for change for the better.
@PaulaLowery-r8d Жыл бұрын
I can’t go for a long drive just to think without a thousand questions n accusations
@elizabethvice48822 күн бұрын
D, I'm so glad to listen to this video again! Three times in a row, very valid perspective! There are men out here who are a combination of all these traits, and I know: I had him. Thank you very much D!!! You're the Internet Bro we all need!!!
@connieeller46 Жыл бұрын
Facts, you have described half the men out here. With that being said, there are a handful of good ones out here too.
@LaportiaRisingupnow Жыл бұрын
🧐 where?
@dwilliams57008 ай бұрын
You couldn't be more on point Derrick !!! 🎯🎯🎯
@kickstartwithkate451023 күн бұрын
Jaxn- thanks for the video because your last point about emotional state and up bringing is soooo on point …. Really makes me think and feel better knowing I am not the only one that thinks that. Good men are hard to come by ladies- I’m living the being blamed and criticized for everything and if you are too - reevaluate it all and see it’s not you - it’s so them and then you’ll know how to handle it and what to do. Jaxn you are so on point.
@sushmalewis542510 ай бұрын
The last point struck home thank you Derrick for clearing up everything that I have been enduring
@thisloop Жыл бұрын
true... i agree! blame the woman & make that all her faults where actually its his + accuse her for things that she aint do
@yd4460 Жыл бұрын
I All love and respect for the respect you give to men and women in teaching respect for each other.💯💞 all love and respect for you and your family.💯💞
@blondeevan47312 ай бұрын
Asking him just that one question opens up the probability of an argumen
@patriciaburtescu Жыл бұрын
Beyonce says to play the cards we’ve been dealt, ehich means listen to his blame game, see his cards, smile&wave and leave without a shdow of a doubt.
@marsdreamproductions6 ай бұрын
Facts. when i heard this song i was like wow she is right
@misskiana813 ай бұрын
What song is this?
@leonamendoza2199 Жыл бұрын
GOODNESS YES! EVERY SINGLE WORD!!
@sadeyedlady2 ай бұрын
Oh wow, this makes so much sense. I see now. Thank you for sharing!!
@mea24palustre3 Жыл бұрын
It's because it's good doesn't mean it's right, on point!
@adriennechamberlain486811 ай бұрын
OMG YOU MAKE TOTAL SENSE!!!
@evelisisdavis7242 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!!!
@casperinsight3524 Жыл бұрын
TY 4 keeping it real 🎆
@khanyisilewotshela1639 Жыл бұрын
Make perfect sense with everything you've said.
@hussalena10 ай бұрын
I love that u still do these videos ❤
@kendrariedelrealestateprof2932 Жыл бұрын
Wow...😢 I needed this. Thanks 🎉
@lanapalij4014 Жыл бұрын
Damn!!! You got that right! He blames ME, says “I’m seeing someone else”, cuz he can’t reach me on Friday night! Told him, I’m not, and, that’s what people are doing to ME! ( and accuses me, hah!)
@Jackie-O.Louisiana Жыл бұрын
WOW! This is my life right now!
@rebeccasirmon56666 ай бұрын
Mine too😢
@tyronejones84342 ай бұрын
These conversations just don’t hold the same weight
@esbethstuurman5661 Жыл бұрын
🙏Hi Derrick Jaxm THANK you for your reading it resonates 100% to me truly that's my Husband whether l must say it my self lm a very good hearted person for my family grandchildren and other people but he will never change me God is good to me lm not perfect but I tired to move on spirituality 🙏🙏THANK you for bringing peace to my Soul 🙏🙏🙏l love you Lord 🙏♥️♥️♥️
@esbethstuurman5661 Жыл бұрын
🙏🙏 Amen Hi Derrick l THANK you for bringing more clarity to my mind and Soul🙏🙏 but most of all l THANK God for putting the right poeple on my Path 🙏🙏l can see there is light at the end of the tunnel Amen 🙏🙏be bless ♥️♥️♥️
@BR9900-w5l Жыл бұрын
Love it..respect from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️
@shelleykennedy876 Жыл бұрын
He goes back and forth.
@nadiaconseillant8616Ай бұрын
I want peace and to sit on the beach with my love next to me. Nice to have peace. Too much drama for these relationships
@belinda86105 ай бұрын
My husband blames me for every single damn thing. When I say everything I MEAN EVERYTHING!! He even tell his family friends and anyone I'm the blame for his Fu*ked up life!!!
@Steph_12155 ай бұрын
That is the language that he is speaking to himself!
@virginiavaldes4601 Жыл бұрын
everything you said hes doing each and every one of those to me
@CarolynVan Жыл бұрын
An ex for a reason. I was spared and am so grateful for it ♥️.
@paulawilliams266410 ай бұрын
On point! Thank you 🙌🏼
@ldbobay Жыл бұрын
You are making perfect sense
@Judybell1959 Жыл бұрын
Yes you making sense
@Steph_12155 ай бұрын
Oh my God, amazing explanation!
@casperinsight3524 Жыл бұрын
He projects on you to create an alibi for his future wrongs, a game strategy ~ a great defense is a good offense !! Textbook Player Game
@tina12rusco. Жыл бұрын
That is so true
@kurosawagin Жыл бұрын
Love u derrick you keep up the good work 🙏
@AmieLewis-t5q6 ай бұрын
You are speaking to me my Bro
@BulelwaJack-xo3fd5 ай бұрын
Thanx for the facts big brother 😊❤
@MrAnna26265 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video 🙏
@Keana43 Жыл бұрын
Been through this
@sevrinedelannay9381 Жыл бұрын
your reading resonates with me. Ex of mine come from a critical entourage and did it with me also so i decide to remove myself
@Qween_Effie6 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video
@Cherryblossom-fg1pl2 ай бұрын
I you are RIGHT!
@miayacarter9059 Жыл бұрын
True facts 💯
@sandraestraume7278 Жыл бұрын
Lots of blamers accuse me
@casperinsight3524 Жыл бұрын
B4 you accuse me, take a look at yourself ~ Eric Clapton song lyric
@jennifernunez220 Жыл бұрын
Excellent points
@StephaniEtienette Жыл бұрын
God bless you Derrick ☝ I mean he already obviously did with the life experiences that led you to sharing this wisdom, immense gratitude for that Sir, thank you🙏❤ So I guess we're all blessed after all, if we just choose to see all the blessings👁 Seeing or not seeing truly is a matter of free will and choice, cowardice or strenght, beauty or beast 🧚♀👹
@jenniwats2806 Жыл бұрын
I worry about what he do but more importantly what he don't do and don't correct
@jewelrich27 Жыл бұрын
Ain’t nobody listening to U. U just HECKA FINE. We all know better ❤
@princessjulia5646 Жыл бұрын
Your making good sense
@survivor4776 Жыл бұрын
Facts 🤴🏽
@JacquelineOuma9 ай бұрын
Thnx derrick
@TyroneEntertainingJoseph10 ай бұрын
Talk the talk bro
@danielledickerson9732 Жыл бұрын
This was a great video
@AmieLewis-t5q6 ай бұрын
That's what I had in a marriage and He Just left me and gone
@jejebarack7160 Жыл бұрын
My husband divorcing me yesterday just because he said my attitude really bad when we fight. It doesnt make sense just because lil thing he left me. He blamed me I'm a bad person. Like I deserve this
@marthaarias23321 күн бұрын
He keeps calling me toxic and annoying af!
@sevrinedelannay9381 Жыл бұрын
its speaks to me ,
@Tina121219 ай бұрын
Ok.. so when we split and 1 year later he blames me for his relationship not working . Ive been no where near or spoke to him for all this time .. he wasnt nice 😔. Hey! He did me wrong thats why i ended it. I just don't get it
@theresapollice68574 ай бұрын
Hit home!
@MiltaEstien9 ай бұрын
Yes
@isobelle.London Жыл бұрын
That’s a cluster b personality.
@charleanaroberts547710 ай бұрын
Thanks for clarifying lot of what I went through for 23 yrs. Is this a Reprobate person? I divorced him on his Birthday! He did t bother to show up. Thank you.
@PaulaLowery-r8d Жыл бұрын
All his exs were crazy red flag
@kaitlynconlan561 Жыл бұрын
Yo facts
@janehotvedt3949 Жыл бұрын
Felt.
@valeriecarolus-figini504510 ай бұрын
Oh yes
@alicevollman5769 Жыл бұрын
💯
@PaulaLowery-r8d Жыл бұрын
No but we’ve been together since we were kids
@elizabethlyon29509 ай бұрын
I have frozen ground beef.
@sandraestraume7278 Жыл бұрын
Next would be his placement
@jd63318 ай бұрын
9:34 and 11:08
@lefoxtube3 ай бұрын
They do not exist.
@taylormeisenburg638310 ай бұрын
❤
@ITSRAYANN3 ай бұрын
Idk , I don't think his mom taught him better than than that.
@brendamartin7633 ай бұрын
Good is not right.
@sandraestraume7278 Жыл бұрын
Seekingattention
@nyasijahmilton6795 Жыл бұрын
He say all I do is nagged but i don’t
@cullen60156 ай бұрын
Bro, it's time to get that bible out and read Revelation. This game is coming to an end!