Why he blames you for EVERYTHING!

[@jeanettemena1286]

Yea if he constantly finds fault in you - that’s his guilty conscious. He can’t bare staring in the mirror so he’s projecting his guilt on to you.

[@marian5554]

I know i made mistakes, and i tried letting him know that i waa changing thst and i has faith in us. He smiled and said ok its a promise. And days later he broke me telling me all my mistakes ans weaknesses head to toe

[@jasminea7828]

“He’s cultivated a distrust by being untrustworthy.” 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@80sbaby90]

Good men are rare

[@victorial8764]

Godly men are rare too. ❤

[@simpsonmarie4]

My ex hubs did this a lot. And he never took responsibility for noothing he did. I was married for 14 years and he committed adultery the whole time. He blames me for that too.

[@christinabaatz1204]

Be happy sister ,🙂 that you gave him up, that you broke up with him and , that you are doing YOUR life without him .

[@tamiaj7350]

@JustSimply Marie... That's my current situation!!! It's just nonstop adultery!

[@ThePrivacyviolation]

Me too gurl ...hit me up! Lets chat and uplift each other

[@deidrejordan2761]

I’m glad that you are no longer in that toxic relationship.

[@sherriflemming3218]

Not your fault. Gaslighting and no accountability.

[@sammie2377]

It's really hard for people when all Blame is thrown their way, and accountability is nowhere to be found.

[@busylane]

Amazing timing of this video. Every conversation turns into a fight thanks to him because he cannot take accountability for himself. He turns things, always, around back to me. It makes me crazy. Thank you, Derrick.

[@MrSavannah2017]

Whew! These brothers ain't safe to love.

[@simthembilefundiswamaguban9265]

You've spit facts only. This is actually a confirmation of my assessment of my ex. He has so much work to do on himself. At one point I had to tell him that he crucified me everytime because he lacked accountability for his own actions. His insecurities stemmed from his childhood, past infidelity, and of course the inability to heal from his past traumas

[@joyoussouls]

I actually appreciate you, because you seem to be very positive, and you’re not attacking women for being who they are and you’re being honest about how men truly are

[@cookiesmom584]

Damn ! You’ve got some incredible insight I’ve never heard before. This explains my last 7 year Situationship.

[@JustMe-wu9tj]

Situationship! Love that, gonna use it now.

[@sxyrachelle]

FACTS AGAIN!!! WHEN I NEED TO HAVE REASSURANCE OF WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH AND THE PERSON I USED TO BE WITH... BOOM, A VIDEO POPS UP😊 THANKS AGAIN!!

[@Yoqyy]

God works in mysteries way beautiful 💜

[@lanapalij4014]

@@Yoqyyyes! Always!😉

[@d6l.w8ds]

PLEASEEEEEEE POST MORE MEN AND THEIR CHILDHOOD MENTAL VIDEOS LIKE THIS PLEASEEEE AND HOW THEY ACT IS A PRESENTATION OF THEMSELVES A WHOLEEE SEPARATE WORLD FROM THEIR S.O THIS WAS BEYOND BEAUTIFULLY PUT. THANK YOU SO MUCH!! 👏

[@latteakelly2902]

Yess especially with their mothers

[@simpsonmarie4]

You spoke facts. This video described my ex hubs, to the T.

[@kickstartwithkate4510]

Jaxn- thanks for the video because your last point about emotional state and up bringing is soooo on point …. Really makes me think and feel better knowing I am not the only one that thinks that. Good men are hard to come by ladies- I’m living the being blamed and criticized for everything and if you are too - reevaluate it all and see it’s not you - it’s so them and then you’ll know how to handle it and what to do. Jaxn you are so on point.

[@malloryfithen1900]

I just want through this he left me just a couple day ago now he's telling people I did him wrong its crazy

[@missantonia14goldsby]

Mines attacked me and wanted me to cut all my friends off woman nd men because he felt he only mattered then told his family I was crazy and did a bunch of things to him then turned them against me too I wasn’t even aware

[@reneedregmans556]

💯 Men like this are so obvious they tell on themselves every time 🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@tinalang1320]

I was married for 21 years, then we got divorce. Don’t want to take accountability for his actions. Adultery and few more things

[@blondeevan4731]

Asking him just that one question opens up the probability of an argumen

[@dwilliams5700]

You couldn't be more on point Derrick !!! 🎯🎯🎯

[@tubegen11]

Thank you Derrick for this truth …Thank God for you. You are inspiring generations of women and giving them the courage for change for the better.

[@sushmalewis5425]

The last point struck home thank you Derrick for clearing up everything that I have been enduring

[@colorfreakjina]

What a sick behavior to humble/put in place/even the score a woman who he knows has value and goodness and high level traits. Instead of trying to grow and match her level he wants her to go down so he feels good about himself. So sick.

[@marsdreamproductions]

Everyy try thing he said i feel like i just went through. It had me in tears. I hope to never go through that again.

[@impossiblegems]

Always my experience

[@PaulaLowery-r8d]

I can’t go for a long drive just to think without a thousand questions n accusations

[@connieeller46]

Facts, you have described half the men out here. With that being said, there are a handful of good ones out here too.

[@LaportiaRisingupnow]

🧐 where?

[@elizabethvice488]

D, I'm so glad to listen to this video again! Three times in a row, very valid perspective! There are men out here who are a combination of all these traits, and I know: I had him. Thank you very much D!!! You're the Internet Bro we all need!!!

[@mea24palustre3]

It's because it's good doesn't mean it's right, on point!

[@yd4460]

I All love and respect for the respect you give to men and women in teaching respect for each other.💯💞 all love and respect for you and your family.💯💞

[@leonamendoza2199]

GOODNESS YES! EVERY SINGLE WORD!!

[@thisloop]

true... i agree! blame the woman & make that all her faults where actually its his + accuse her for things that she aint do

[@Bob_Cats]

Oh wow, this makes so much sense. I see now. Thank you for sharing!!

[@lanapalij4014]

Damn!!! You got that right! He blames ME, says “I’m seeing someone else”, cuz he can’t reach me on Friday night! Told him, I’m not, and, that’s what people are doing to ME! ( and accuses me, hah!)

[@belinda8610]

My husband blames me for every single damn thing. When I say everything I MEAN EVERYTHING!! He even tell his family friends and anyone I'm the blame for his Fu*ked up life!!!

[@patriciaburtescu]

Beyonce says to play the cards we’ve been dealt, ehich means listen to his blame game, see his cards, smile&wave and leave without a shdow of a doubt.

[@marsdreamproductions]

Facts. when i heard this song i was like wow she is right

[@misskiana81]

What song is this?

[@Jackie-O.Louisiana]

WOW! This is my life right now!

[@rebeccasirmon5666]

Mine too😢

[@OnlyKingdomandCovenant]

U making ALL KINDS of sense!

[@khanyisilewotshela1639]

Make perfect sense with everything you've said.

[@adriennechamberlain4868]

OMG YOU MAKE TOTAL SENSE!!!

[@hussalena]

I love that u still do these videos ❤

[@BR9900-w5l]

Love it..respect from Australia 🇦🇺 ❤️

[@esbethstuurman5661]

🙏Hi Derrick Jaxm THANK you for your reading it resonates 100% to me truly that's my Husband whether l must say it my self lm a very good hearted person for my family grandchildren and other people but he will never change me God is good to me lm not perfect but I tired to move on spirituality 🙏🙏THANK you for bringing peace to my Soul 🙏🙏🙏l love you Lord 🙏♥️♥️♥️

[@esbethstuurman5661]

🙏🙏 Amen Hi Derrick l THANK you for bringing more clarity to my mind and Soul🙏🙏 but most of all l THANK God for putting the right poeple on my Path 🙏🙏l can see there is light at the end of the tunnel Amen 🙏🙏be bless ♥️♥️♥️

[@Judybell1959]

Yes you making sense

[@evelisisdavis7242]

Thank you for sharing!!!

[@casperinsight3524]

TY 4 keeping it real 🎆

[@casperinsight3524]

He projects on you to create an alibi for his future wrongs, a game strategy ~ a great defense is a good offense !! Textbook Player Game

[@virginiavaldes4601]

everything you said hes doing each and every one of those to me

[@paulawilliams2664]

On point! Thank you 🙌🏼

[@ldbobay]

You are making perfect sense

[@Steph_1215]

Oh my God, amazing explanation!

[@kendrariedelrealestateprof2932]

Wow...😢 I needed this. Thanks 🎉

[@AmieLewis-t5q]

You are speaking to me my Bro

[@Cherryblossom-fg1pl]

I you are RIGHT!

[@tina12rusco.]

That is so true

[@miayacarter9059]

True facts 💯

[@BulelwaJack-xo3fd]

Thanx for the facts big brother 😊❤

[@tyronejones8434]

These conversations just don’t hold the same weight

[@MrAnna2626]

Thank you for this video 🙏

[@CarolynVan]

An ex for a reason. I was spared and am so grateful for it ♥️.

[@kurosawagin]

Love u derrick you keep up the good work 🙏

[@shelleykennedy876]

He goes back and forth.

[@StephaniEtienette]

God bless you Derrick ☝ I mean he already obviously did with the life experiences that led you to sharing this wisdom, immense gratitude for that Sir, thank you🙏❤ So I guess we're all blessed after all, if we just choose to see all the blessings👁 Seeing or not seeing truly is a matter of free will and choice, cowardice or strenght, beauty or beast 🧚‍♀👹

[@Keana43]

Been through this

[@thelmabocales256]

This is what my partner did to me, accusing me blaming me for everything, and he broke up with me coz of his accusations, it's hurt but I have let him go

[@Steph_1215]

That is the language that he is speaking to himself!

[@jennifernunez220]

Excellent points

[@sevrinedelannay9381]

your reading resonates with me. Ex of mine come from a critical entourage and did it with me also so i decide to remove myself

[@Qween_Effie]

Thank you for this video

[@sandraestraume7278]

Lots of blamers accuse me

[@casperinsight3524]

B4 you accuse me, take a look at yourself ~ Eric Clapton song lyric

[@princessjulia5646]

Your making good sense

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

I want peace and to sit on the beach with my love next to me. Nice to have peace. Too much drama for these relationships

[@JacquelineOuma]

Thnx derrick

[@jenniwats2806]

I worry about what he do but more importantly what he don't do and don't correct

[@survivor4776]

Facts 🤴🏽

[@danielledickerson9732]

This was a great video

[@TyroneEntertainingJoseph]

Talk the talk bro

[@theresapollice6857]

Hit home!

[@jewelrich27]

Ain’t nobody listening to U. U just HECKA FINE. We all know better ❤

[@MiltaEstien]

Yes

[@sevrinedelannay9381]

its speaks to me ,

[@Tina12121]

Ok.. so when we split and 1 year later he blames me for his relationship not working . Ive been no where near or spoke to him for all this time .. he wasnt nice 😔. Hey! He did me wrong thats why i ended it. I just don't get it

[@jejebarack7160]

My husband divorcing me yesterday just because he said my attitude really bad when we fight. It doesnt make sense just because lil thing he left me. He blamed me I'm a bad person. Like I deserve this

[@marthaarias233]

He keeps calling me toxic and annoying af!

[@kaitlynconlan561]

Yo facts

[@AmieLewis-t5q]

That's what I had in a marriage and He Just left me and gone

[@Sophia_Milan]

My father

[@latteakelly2902]

I think my bf mom has a part of how he acts cuz he more emotional than me.

[@janehotvedt3949]

Felt.

[@valeriecarolus-figini5045]

Oh yes

[@charleanaroberts5477]

Thanks for clarifying lot of what I went through for 23 yrs. Is this a Reprobate person? I divorced him on his Birthday! He did t bother to show up. Thank you.

[@PaulaLowery-r8d]

All his exs were crazy red flag

[@terrihunt522]

I’ve understand that your husband will put everything on u to hide what’s going on in them Watch the whole video, very good

[@lefoxtube]

They do not exist.

[@alicevollman5769]

💯

[@isobelle.London]

That’s a cluster b personality.

[@PaulaLowery-r8d]

No but we’ve been together since we were kids

[@sandraestraume7278]

Next would be his placement

[@elizabethlyon2950]

I have frozen ground beef.

[@ITSRAYANNNN]

Idk , I don't think his mom taught him better than than that.

[@jd6331]

9:34 and 11:08

[@taylormeisenburg6383]

❤

[@brendamartin763]

Good is not right.

[@sandraestraume7278]

Seekingattention