Why he OVERLY criticizes you!

[@rachelrose9348]

People try to control you when they feel out of control themselves

[@sinceresong9907]

Perfect insight

[@DatDyme980]

🔥💯🎯

[@sherriflemming3218]

Agree

[@wyattmeeshellie3068]

🎉🎉🎉 FAAAAACTS!

[@BrendaBaBoom]

It’s funny how they can dish out negativity but can’t take the heat directed back.

[@miademuro9008]

My ex wasn’t battling demons, my ex WAS THE DEMON

[@laurajones9971]

Mine too

[@mamamiify]

Been there

[@altidareach5068]

Like Darrick

[@legslipsandlashes9831]

@@altidareach5068 Ooop! 😬😬😬

[@Crime_911]

Mine too

[@sadepayne]

Exactly 💯 my ex husband would start criticizing how I looked and even tried to get me to feel like everything was my fault. He was projecting his guilty conscience onto me and I knew exactly what he was doing. I mentally checked out and immediately Left. I have felt so much peace since leaving. Them tables turned, he didn't expect me to leave.

[@Mindsetolympics]

Overly critical = 1st verbal warning/boundary ⚠️ If they continue… Walk away 🚶🏾‍♀️🚶🏾‍♀️

[@pocahontas4583]

This was why I had to end my marriage. Every interaction became a negative one and he was constantly criticizing me and accusing me of things. And it was all MADE UP. I wasn’t doing any of the things he was accused me of, I wasn’t the type of person he was constantly making me out to be, it nearly made me lose my mind and literally wore on my physical health.

[@humilis42]

I know exactly how you felt. It’s like they aren’t happy with themselves so they must bring you down with them. The only women they can be with are the ones who are weak.

[@HappygirlTX]

Demons ARE REAL you are SO RIGHT on that point We were dating everything was great for three years the demons came out specially when he drank and he was fighting the demons of being happy or being miserable and they wanted him to stay miserable so that’s why he chose demons are real

[@SR77736]

This was my ex esp when he was angry.

[@LagGawd]

So how derrick made all this up too?

[@lakeeshakelly2256]

I’m dealing with this now

[@alissahhodges5854]

Spiritual battles are absolutely real!

[@dontyoualreadyknow]

Yes!

[@twinsoultarot473]

He thinks he is giving constructive criticism when he's really just tearing me down.

[@rachellebaissard6618]

I broke up with the father of my son. He destroy me my way of seeing me make me question my value completly manipulate everything. He use religion all my beliefs my pain my fear my mistakes to put me down. Now i am in therapy trying to see what happen and relearn what is normal in relationship.

[@vanda3393]

This happen with me to with the father of my son always put me down talk bad about me. Blame me for everything. I had enough i broke up with him i was so depressieve

[@DABangEm84]

Y'all sound weak AF! No one breaks you down unless you allow them to. Toughen TF up.

[@EmSquareTheProdigaldaughter]

The most beautiful part of this video is when you said, "Hey baby," to your child. I love when fathers are in the home & there for their children 💕

[@Handleisnotavailable1]

My ex. He would criticize how I cleaned, how I cooked, talked, laughed, fkd, slept, he criticized my car. He hated talking to me on the phone. He hated how I told a story. I would get myself together and tried to always look good and he couldn’t put the words together to say I looked nice. He had words to criticize. But never to appreciate. I would give him a massage; he hated it. I’m telling you I couldn’t do anything right. But when I was ready to break up with him, he would say he understood he was difficult and he would work on it.

[@rebeccagaines5701]

I go through the same thing. He hates talking to me on the phone

[@andrealynetta3733]

Dealing with this right now kmt...really impacts your confidence and self esteem. Realised self care is very important and realising they are projecting most of the time so when you are taking care of yourself it's easier to bat that projection back at them and stop telling them everything you're doing especially negative, they'll use that against you.

[@Handleisnotavailable1]

@@rebeccagaines5701 but he would call me EVERY SINGLE DAY that we weren't together and sometimes call twice if I missed the phone call to then be on the phone as I was holding a g u n to his head and annoying him. Who does that? Why do you call to then act like I'm bothering you?

[@sakibfuseini891]

Doesnt sound like he even likes you

[@honayingram3988]

I knew I wasn’t crazy thank you for sharing this!

[@kathymorgan7585]

That was me with my husband he would talk to me like I was no body and I just had to look at him and walk away before I beat him down but I told him God will see you for what you do

[@gracemorris7894]

Absolutely demons oppress and torment. I don't know how the ones who aren't in fellowship with our Heavenly Father do it?

[@StarlitSoul]

I've been through it, going through it now, and I'm ready to call it quits… I've already checked out… This has been an online mostly relationship and we've only met once… I'm a blind single mom of three, and I've really had enough. I just hope that there is some thing real out there for me.

[@Keehasgrace]

It is we must keep god first in all we do

[@empreenergy3376]

Wow!!! Sweetie you are the good thats out there for u fr fr!!! 🤗

[@themothers]

Online relationship and writing here while youre blind? How? Hope youre better now

[@M.K.B.1133]

This is definitely some of the best information you have put out! ( and you have put out some damn good information)

[@JMthdjhgbnjk]

Projected guilt is the worst.

[@aLightShines]

YEP! REAL He laughs when I cry.....this not gonna work. Last example yep.

[@rebeccagrey606]

I feel ya. My current and last 2 relationships all laughed while I cried. Never compassionate.

[@aLightShines]

@@rebeccagrey606 ❤️🙏

[@humilis42]

He was telling me that I wasn’t going hard enough in the gym. Smh He often points out the areas that I am insecure about and he knows that. No wonder his previous girlfriends gained a lot of weight while they were with him. It’s like he intentionally tries to bring a person down. Does that make sense or am I crazy?

[@ak-47intelligence75]

Many mxn are like this today. I've met thousands like this. It's projection.

[@BuckeyDooDoo]

That's what they do.

[@bridgettesweeney9809]

Whoaaaaa....yes...a spritually transmitted disease. You said a word right there!

[@SagCuspofRevolution333]

All true 💯. Hurt people, hurt people; someone who has Healed or who is on his/her Healing journey, won't say or do intentionally hurtful things to his/her partner. Love builds up, but doesn't destroy! 16Oct2022

[@msross2249]

This is exactly what I went through. I knew I wasn't trippen.

[@felishapittman2778]

You too? Had me thinking I was crazy until I stepped away...it was HIM

[@Sodelightful4537]

Derrick I love ❤️ this video so much & I can relate 1000% & I shared it. God bless 🙌 🙏

[@msmonteirocd]

Yess demons are real...Negative energy does travel

[@rurulovnu]

Subhanallah I'm Muslim and u spoke the truth I just left my marriage because of this. I couldn't even get out of bed. Thank you so much I truly appreciate all that you do!

[@GodsSpoiledBrat]

1. Projected Stress 2. Fighting demons (spiritual battle) 3. Unhealed & Triggered 4. Projected Guilt 5.Narcissistic

[@Bible4k]

💯Truth💣 We're living Fallen World full of demonized people, this was spot on!!! 👊

[@Bible4k]

I don't have what's app now quite understand what your say?

[@lunashadow9942]

Demons are real. Point 2 was soooo accurate. Demons one person has can effect others for sure. Even when you have faith, if you are weak, they can cause you problems.

[@latoyarichardson2999]

Exactly men can be overly critical

[@mcawesomest1]

So spot on!

[@gracemayberry5753]

You are right on with those demons!!!!

[@jennifersherrill-ls3bq]

I have done told someone this,and my ex husband had demons and I prayed for him.

[@JMthdjhgbnjk]

When a demon comes in a good woman’s life…when that mask comes off. Baby…Baam

[@dlovely4229]

Thank you so much for this video Derrick!!!🎉

[@laurieallen8261]

Wow!! That was enlightening! Thank you 😊

[@cheryls832]

I have experienced this last time of situation several times. They seem to have low self esteem even though they are very successful. They want to strip you of your value to gain more control.

[@AgaveRox]

Demons are absolutely real! I saw this first hand with a family member’s husband. He even LOOKED different when he was possessed, (before he gave his life to the Lord). It was actually shocking to watch.

[@Jules-t9m]

Thank you for this, Derrick 🙏I needed to hear this rn 👊PEACE!! 🩷

[@stacey-annbennett3837]

So on point every word you have spoken......

[@mandyzepeda5447]

It's uncanny how much of what you said is relevant to what I've been living

[@cibby2192]

Spiritually Transmitted Demon!......I. AM. DONE!!

[@wyattmeeshellie3068]

🎉🎉 Yep, on the ' projected Guilt' I went through THAT!

[@Indiscrazyworld]

Your always spot on Derrick

[@MottoMyYellowFriend]

this is so good, i got goose bums listening to this video.

[@gracemayberry5753]

That is right brotha be firm!!!!

[@letmebeyourocd]

You nailed it. 💯♥️

[@amandamurphy7921]

So accurate you described my story too a tee thank God I seen my worth 🙏 🙌 ✨️ an ran so fast an didn't look back great information....🎉

[@throughthefire1980]

Yes Demons are real 100% facts

[@QueenKim100]

Definitely On Point!!

[@jcrawford5674]

I pray to God for Healing in all of my brothers and sisters.

[@marydellgeorge2425]

You know what Topics are needed For us so very much I am so grateful For you ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@laurieallen8261]

Absolutely!! Brought him to church and he was having a panic attack!

[@only1me663]

The points of truth about many men and women in relationship.

[@cynicalafflictional1725]

😎 Yeah, evil and demons exist 😉BUT, Lucky for everyone, GOD is the REALEST !!!🕊️✝️

[@LoveEndures7]

Yes I became a shell of myself. God saved me, and showed me my worth and value.

[@chachadavis3617]

I finally left my narcissistic BF. It took me a year and 2 breaks to realize he will never change and was purposely hurting me in the process.

[@camsteph67]

You told the truth here. Sorry about what happened in your marriage. It’s true if you give an opening to people.. you deal with what they should be dealing with….

[@nidiaking]

The last person I dealt with definitely criticized me from projected guilt and fighting demons. Such a mess.

[@hendricaosundwa436]

This was the story of my life thank you so much for sharing everyday is a learning day

[@michaelmcfadden2397]

i...absolutely...soul ties happen that way. been there. took me 2 years to detox

[@ninath13]

How do you detox from these Devils

[@michaelmcfadden2397]

@@ninath13 i spend time alone, work on myself and spend time with God, praying, doing Bible studies and self improvement, like working out, walking outside

[@kistatted]

Yup...he tells me im boring and keep talking about my body....

[@SandraAlexiz]

😢yes he admitted he was battling demons. 15 years 😢

[@Shanaevaz]

God bless you Derrick 🙏 ❤

[@standinginthegap7118]

You're spot on.

[@77mary23..]

Those are facts very serious issues.🙏🏼

[@AWShamrock]

Demons are definitely real.

[@NonConformistiWear]

STD ...aka..Spiritually Transformed Demon. I love it.

[@K4J82]

so glad i found this, this is what im going through.

[@felishapittman2778]

Men that do this are vindictive!

[@owlspeacewisdom]

Facts about them demons having to fight them and other people's demons just to get back to your true self

[@itzme4007]

Derrick, why do you cheat so much?

[@marydaniels8829]

wow

[@christinan005]

He preaching about himself on his videos. He might b ain't shhh but that none of our business what he speak on is still tru. U got to worry bout u own life

[@princessj830]

They also do it to ease their conscience.

[@ritaharris7120]

Demons are for real! 🙏🏾

[@latoyarichardson2999]

Yes people can be dealing with demons I experienced that

[@ms.berryfearless8120]

When u meet them dragging slippers u leave them dragging slippers.. some men are just no good.. stop trying to change what can’t be changed!!

[@nicolesuarez4440]

Demons are real…but so is my Lord & God! ✝️✨💖 Ty needed this so bad!

[@precioustv4264]

You're right about everything...

[@coreoflife]

Spiritual warfare is real. Ephesians6:12. We don't fight against flesh and blood...been there done that. Even a dream ✨️ given to me from God. I drew a spirit from the dream....a spirit of opression.

[@irinadakake7689]

👋 exactly 💯 thank you!

[@nucharathedden4902]

💯!!! Spot on!!!

[@PJ-ew3lt]

Truth real talk

[@OracleechoAutumn]

Your words heal.

[@MsMoonchild84]

Thank you for putting this out there

[@mmommo10]

when you point a finger at me, you have 3 pointing back at you!

[@angelaabdullah2431]

Spiritual battles 💯under punishmnt

[@dolllover2132]

My ex cause me to have an anxiety attack

[@abbygodfrey3282]

So so true!

[@jeannetteforbes6376]

They are real.

[@valeriebyrd70]

I can relate to what you’re talking about

[@kellymills8779]

Good vid, Derrick! 👍🏿👍🏿

[@nadiaconseillant8616]

If I am working on myself, I expect you are working on yourself. I am not taking no one who doesn't have basic cordial skills. These deficits are huge. You are rabid and don't need to be in a relationship. I am admitting i was once a victim. And that's why I am working on my weight. Because I am at the end of my healing journey.

[@owlspeacewisdom]

Yup yup yup your on point🌻🌙

[@veronicadaguanno7507]

My ex husband did that to me. That's just one of the reasons he's an ex.

[@churchkittykitty756]

On point 👉 ✅️

[@vanda3393]

My ex was this way always put me down. Talk bad about me with friends and family i could never do things right in his eyes everything that gone wrong in his life hi blame me for it i keep give him chances until i broke everything you say its true

[@kerijotyetew6100]

I’m down and I completely agree

[@donnagreen5186]

Yesssss they are Narcopaths.

[@exclusiveflavahh831]

Yes, demons are real. I’m dealing with this now and it’s constant. These type of people need deliverance. Only God can help them.

[@DunnessaAlston]

Cannot have a Scammer on my phone

[@osinachiblessing6272]

You're on Point👍👌🏿