Why I am NOT a Feminist + Dumbest Feminist Quotes! (Deleted video)

This video was uploaded yesterday but it mysteriously got deleted, the error message says deleted by user. My account is not hacked and I have two step verification. I don't know if it's gone because it's an unpopular opinion or whatever but hey let's see if it gets deleted again. -_-
Some links:
Breastfeeding article: / 10155214365042431
Gender wage gap debunked: www.forbes.com/...
Other dumb modern feminist movements:
Mansplaining: en.m.wikipedia...
Manspreading: www.gender-focu...
Fart rape (yes for real): thewaterpipe.w...

[@xiaxue]

Many are saying I'm an idiot for saying that females cannot rape. FYI, I am referring to the LEGAL definition of rape in my country, Singapore. The legal definition of rape according to the penal code is penile penetration of a vagina without a woman's consent (or if female is below 14). Male on male penetration is not called rape, female on male penetration is not called rape. Sodomizing somebody isn't rape either. Just quoting what the law books say. It isn't MY definition so no point getting all pissy at me. And no, I am not wrong. Ok? ok.

[@joyfuljoy2062]

Yeah. It's in that law, Singapore law in fact is protecting female more .. and rape in that case is not valid. Female cannot rape male in Singapore is a valid statement. I'm thinking "Seriously girls, u wanna drink w ur just attached bf and make love and waking up to next day they regret and they start to report and say u rape them? Afterall he is a willing party!" Lol... for that... if it's me I will be Super angry, time wasting, love cheating, still have to go police station, got Fcked and yet he came back acting victim .. Gosh.. how can it be valid? Seriously if there's no reaction to pleasure, there wouldn't be penetration and how can it be concluded that as female rape male?" I believe in this event no matter how unwilling, the men have to be at least 20% responsible for that event to happen LOL. But whereby female seriously could be 100% unwilling victim and the rape can still be ongoing. Omg .. lol.. am I going too far? But seriously .. lol... correct me if I'm wrong too. Just a thought to myself :)

[@xiaxue]

MrJohnny56789 that part of the video was talking about how the rape definitions in the singapore legal system favours women (to an unreasonable degree). It is not me who said women cannot rape men. Obviously they can!

[@TiesOfAffection]

How does it favor women if women can get raped by other women with no criminal definition? God you lack reasoning skills.

[@alduinfeetpic9250]

it favors women because somebody actually gives a shit when it happens to women, the system does NOT care if it happens to a man, apparently

[@TiesOfAffection]

If they cared when it happened to women then there wouldn't be an incarceration rate of less than 10% for CONVICTED rapists. No, women are regarded as meek and frail and should be "protected" by the oh so strong and stoic men, that's what the MALE lawmakers see the world as. When rape happens to a man, he's seen as emasculated, feminine and weak; something a man should never be. It's not a system that favors women, it's a system that favors an unrealistic image of a man. It hurts both women and men.

[@eleni5737]

"I don't need feminism because when I say no to feminism, feminists don't understand that no means no" You just gave me my motto

[@xiaxue]

I'm very sad that all the 500+ comments are deleted... Some of them were really good, and I wrote long replies to many questions. :( Anyway, I just want to repeat the same point again: This video is targeting MODERN THIRD WAVE FEMINISM - in case that much is not obvious enough. Feminism is still very much needed in shitty third world countries where a lot of women are still being oppressed. I know that. So if you wish to debate anything in this video, kindly only address modern feminism and modern feminist movements. And ps: "You are ignorant, go and read more about feminism you idiot" is not a valid argument.

[@getgloss]

what on earth happened!!!

[@TokyoMattoKun]

I agree about the "You are ignorant" responses, it's all social justice warriors can come back with when facts punch them in the face. But I agree with your points actually, and the people who don't should respect it too as they would want their own opinions to be respected, cause everyone is entitled to their own opinion. Right?? :)Great video. When do you never not make a great video :P

[@tinapaytinapay]

Xiaxue Was it youtube that deleted it? I feel bad for your efforts of trying to educate the masses now, haha.

[@jennyberger8229]

Xiaxue what's awful about feminism in first world countries is that they complain about everything while third world countries were woman have basically no rights can't defend themselves

[@rochelleguiboche]

Xiaxue 👏

[@girlwriteswhat]

That sign-off, tho. LOL

[@xiaxue]

karen straughan omg!!!! I love love love what you said in The Red Pill!!! Thank you for watching my video! 💖

[@girlwriteswhat]

You're very welcome, and thank you for the kind words. You have a great sense of humor, young lady. I think my guy and I burst out laughing at least 5 times in this video. Smart, funny, concise. Well done. :)

[@kyleahmad]

Wow! Honey Badger's very own Karen Straughan noticed. My dear close friend's wife has been emotionally abusing their daughter for months and this has affected him psychologically. The fact that I'm diagnosed with a mental illness doesn't help either. But thanks to women such as Karen, Cassie Jaye, yourself and those alike, it really does alleviate the crippling pain and I hope, of other suffering men too. I feel a little bit hopeful for the first time in the longest of times. Sincerely, I can't thank you women enough. Really, thank you.

[@no-one-you-know-really]

I love you Karen !!!

[@Redrosewitch]

Yes. I love it, I'm beaming happily here.

[@CUBEgenre]

I remember the day I swore off 3rd wave feminism. It was when I made a statement that my ambition was to be a great, loving housewife, because I would like to devote all my time to raising my kids and family. I had always loved kids (heck, my favourite youtube videos to watch are videos of adorable kids). And then a throng of feminazis descended upon me, calling me ignorant, uneducated, victim of internalised oppression (?!), and also what I think is a stock phrase used by American SJWs, "go pick up a book". I was like, excuse me? I'm not uneducated, in fact, I'm about to graduate law school. I am not oppressed, at every stage of my life, I have never been deprived of any opportunity merely because of my gender. I'm not ignorant, and have read up about feminism (I suspect I've read more books than the people who told me to "pick up a book"). Honestly, there are so many definitions of feminism floating around, I'm not even sure feminists can agree on one definition. but I know what feminism ISN'T. It isn't shaming a woman just because her choices/goals differ from yours. Since when did feminism mean that the choices women make had to fit some sort of feminist-endorsed mould? Are some feminists suggesting that a housewife is inferior to a corporate-powered career woman? Cuz that's pretty hypocritical. You're oppressing and discriminating ME, A WOMAN, just like the oppressors you cry out against. This, and several other incidents of hypocritical, intolerant, illogical 3rd wave feminism has made me shun this movement. I know not all 3rd wave feminists are like that. Nevertheless, I don't feel comfortable identifying as a member of a community that has such a large proportion of distasteful members.

[@carpaccio45]

CUBEgenre I have to agree with you on your comment. The problem with the 3rd wave feminists is that they preceive female success only as going into business, politics or anything related to material gains. Although there is nothing wrong in being influencial or rich, success is not just defined as having more money, it can be in the form of leaving a legacy, a happy family or even inventing something new, regardless on the size of impact. Unfortunately, these "feminazis" are the ones being so narrow minded that they even have to go as far to character assassinate someone with a different opinion.

[@chokohlate]

I see where you are coming from and it's a shame that SJWs made you feel like your choice on how to live your live are "wrong". I think at this point, the feminist agenda is getting quite intolerant and focused largely on binary sort of thinking which you and Xiaxue alike have mentioned. I identify as a feminist, but I am sick to death of "feminists" throwing the word "oppression" around. If a woman wants to stay and raise the kids, it is not any less honourable than being a woman with a office 9-5 job and it most certainly does not make her oppressed. We should in fact celebrate that we live in a world where we are able to choose. I thought this movement was largely about acceptance when I started identifying with it, but I'm lost on the anger the 3rd wave is moving with.

[@krteyu1101]

CUBEgenre I mean no offense but... Indentation, use it.

[@CUBEgenre]

Krteyu Pillai i was writing a youtube comment, not an essay. *rolls eyes*

[@mexicangiraffe6607]

there should never be 1st and 2nd wave feminism, men had the right to vote coz they went to war. And guess how many men had it at that time? 1 in 5!!

[@idunusegoogleplus]

wow. her ending. I guess she already expected this video to be demonetized so she went all out uncensored.

[@Ptero4]

Her video was deleted by JewTube the first time she uploaded it. She already knew what she was up against.

[@zoareena]

Juan Manuel i don't get why you have to involve jews in everything. honestly will never get what we have done to the world to deserve so much hate. your'e just disgusting.

[@zoareena]

illuminati? you seriously believe that? it's a conspiracy. and are we back to the whole zion's elders conspiracy again? I'm aware of the zionists crimes in ww2, I myself am not zionist even thought I do live in israel. I'm not american and I don't know what is going on in there, but involving the ethnicity/religion of the people that you claim control youtube is still racist. even if some individuals have committed something wrong, I don't see why they should be insulted by their birth race/religion whatever. why is no one ever insulted as "christian" even thought i'm sure there are plenty of people there who have probably done something to piss other people off? people dislike jews, they just need an excuse what to blame them for. :/ and if you want to prove me wrong, stop using jew as a degrading nickname. thank you. ^^

[@zoareena]

Helistra Aranwen I wouldn't know about "white supremacy", I was raised as a zionist and chose to leave it and belive in judaism. they have confused a lot of ideas from judaism and mixed secular beliefs in it the zionist leaders that have built the organization have cynically done everything they could to eradicate the orthodox judaism. including rejecting offers from nazi germany to accept refuges and so on. anything just to "start over" and make israel a new culture etc. then again, every time I mention that I dislike the government of israel or zionism in israel i'll be verbally abused so it's kind of a lost case. :) have a good day.

[@danni8191]

Silvery You are insular, refuse to integrate, are 99% leftists and push leftism politically, and support other Jews even when they committ crimes or do evil things.

[@TheMomocurry]

I would pay Xiaxue to be my lawyer

[@qiqiyong6562]

Agreed!

[@theebeautybunny]

SAME

[@clairedee6324]

Yes, she can be a very good defence lawyer!

[@pewpewnim]

i think you have to pay anyone to be your lawyer though

[@TheMomocurry]

stop trying to be smart ofc you do its how life works, but i would just invest my money on xiaxue to represent me

[@illegalaccess7225]

expectation: feminism = equality reality: feminism = equality if it has advantages

[@captainnoobhd143]

Plus if it’s convenient for females

[@mr_mayonnaise2577]

Plus if women can commit crimes and get 5% of consequences.

[@Louis_Roper]

Yessssss the technical definition of words often doesn’t reflect the functional definition

[@Zach-wv8pz]

In Singapore, it is undeniable that females are accorded more rights and protection whereas males are burdened with more liabilities. Let me list some of these examples. Bear in mind that all of these are not merely ambiguous social protocols but legislated and institutionalised policies. S375 of the Penal Code The offence of rape is gender-specific. A woman cannot be charged with rape, regardless of how heinous a sexual misconduct she commits. Amendment to S376 of the Penal Code Prior to Jan 2020 (before the recent criminal law reform), a woman who 'rapes' a man (forces a man to penetrate her with his penis) cannot even be charged under S376 (sexual assault involving penetration). Hence, she can only be charged under S354 (outrage of modesty), which carries the maximum sentence of only 2 years imprisonment. In contrast, a man who commits exactly the same offence is deemed a case of rape, which carries the maximum sentence of 20 years imprisonment, a difference of a factor of 10. Repeal of S509 and enactment of S377BA of the Penal Code Prior to Jan 2020, males are not protected under the insult of modesty (non-physical sexual harassment) law. In fact, prior to the establishment of Protection from Harassment Act in 2014, there is seemingly no legal recourse for males if they are subjected to non-physical harassment. Currently, women are still more protected than men from modesty related offences. Laws such as S27(1)(d) of the Miscellaneous Offences (Public Order and Nuisance) Act and S4 of the Defamation Act are gender-specific and only protect women. S377 of the Penal Code No provision pertaining to the deviant act of sexual exploitation of a corpse by a woman exist. Under the current legal framework, S377 (sexual penetration of a corpse) applies explicitly for males only. A woman who employs the penis of a deceased man to sexually penetrate herself on her own accord is seemingly not liable for any legal repercussion. S377A of the Penal Code Male homosexual acts of any nature (even private acts) are condemnable under the law (outrages of decency) whereas female homosexual acts are not subjected to this abjective limitation. S366, S372, S373, S373A of the Penal Code, Part XI of the Women's Charter etc Most laws protecting victims of prostitution are gender-specific and are only accorded to females. S61 of the Education (Schools) Regulations With regards to medical examination in school, consent from girls over the age of 10 is mandated under the law if they are to be examined by a male person. Consent from boys over the age of 10 (or of any age for the matter) is not mandated under the law, regardless of circumstances. S83 of the Criminal Procedure Code With regards to body searching, a male officer can only conduct searches upon a female person if he has strong reasons to believe that she is a terrorist and that she is about to carry out an act of terrorism. Conversely, no such limitation is imposed upon female officers and they are empowered to conduct searches upon persons of any sex, regardless of circumstances. S69 of the Women's Charter A woman is eligible to file for spousal maintenance against her husband regardless of circumstances. However, a man is only eligible to file for spousal maintenance against his wife if he is permanently incapacitated before or during the marriage and by virtue of his incapacity, he is rendered permanently unable to maintain himself. A woman is also eligible for file for nominal maintenance in cases where her earning capacity is similar or higher than her counterpart. A man is not accorded this right. Gender-specific financial schemes Schemes such as Working Mother's Child Relief, Basic Childcare Subsidy, Foreign Maid Levy Relief and Grandparent Caregiver Relief are only applicable for mothers. Even single fathers are not eligible for any of these perks. Unequal parental leave Mothers are entitled to 16 weeks of paid maternal leave whereas fathers are only entitled to 2 weeks of paid paternal leave. It must be said that a recent change in policy has allowed fathers to 'siphon' up to 4 weeks of paid parental leave from their counterparts, subjective to their partners' concurrence. However, only married fathers are entitled to paid paternal leave and shared parental leave. Mothers are entitled to paid maternity leave, regardless of marital status. Moreover, fathers, even single fathers are not entitled to paid adoption leave. An adoptive mother is entitled to 12 weeks of paid adoption leave. A married adoptive father is entitled to 4 weeks of shared parental leave, subjective to his partner's concurrence. A single adoptive father is not eligible for any parental leave aside from paid childcare leave. S4(3) of the Adoption of Children Act A single man is not eligible to adopt a female child unless in 'exceptional circumstances'. Conversely, a single woman is free to adopt a child of any sex. Termination of Pregnancy Act A father has absolutely zero prenatal parental rights but is subjected to the full spectrum of parental liabilities. A mother can, with her unilateral decision and without the consent or even knowledge of her counterpart, goes for an abortion and deprive her counterpart of his child, regardless of the father’s wishes or means. A mother can also, on her own decision and without the consent or knowledge of her counterpart, delivers a child, in which her counterpart is expected to fulfill his legal and moral obligations to be responsible for the welfare of the child, regardless of the father’s wishes or means. This is true even in cases whereby the child is a product of sexual assault perpetrated by the mother. The fundamental principle here is 'my body my choice'. Principles such as 'our child our choice', 'my money my choice' and 'its life its right to live' are of little significance. S53(e) of the Penal Code and S325 - S332 of the Criminal Procedure Code; S88 of the Education (Schools) Regulations Only males are subjected to institutionalised corporal punishment (judicial, military and school caning) in Singapore. Females are not to be caned under any circumstances. The principle of equal liberty and liability is of little significance when it comes to gender. National Service Only males are required to serve their mandatory obligation to the state. This is despite the fact that the stature governing the policies of national service (Enlistment Act) is gender-neutral and seemingly applies to all persons, regardless of sex. Persons who completed their mandatory service and persons who are exempted from service are accorded the same statutory rights and privileges.

[@angellaraprado3659]

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[@Thenetherlandsman]

@@angellaraprado3659 lol got Rick Rolled

[@QueenOfKarma]

I'm an ex feminist. and I love this lol

[@ladycedar6733]

Same!! I used to be really extreme, like I look back and I was basically a feminazi and holy shit do I ever hate what I used to stand for!

[@design7054]

@@ladycedar6733 and Beth, please do what you can to red pill other young women you see falling into the feminazi trap.

[@mahek3017]

I am 15 now. When I was 14 I was also brainwashed by those feminazis. But now I am not a feminist anymore.

[@tinylilowls987]

@@mahek3017 same here, I'm glad that I've changed

[@technoloverish]

@@mahek3017 Well, do you still believe in equal rights for men and women?

[@shadypalmtrees3422]

Xiaxue is the only one out of the //influencers// that has the balls to talk about unpopular opinions and dares to put it up on the net. The rest of us would rather be sheeple (aka me tbh). For this, i admire her guts. Edit: only one IN SINGAPORE

[@thatthieff]

I see your italic-symbols. It reminds me of this chat called RoleplayHaven.

[@shadypalmtrees3422]

Jason Todd whats that & why does that have anything to do with this comment.

[@wolfweidler2851]

Jason Todd are you the Arkham Knight

[@thatthieff]

Epic Awesome YTP Productions Co. no. maybe. yes.

[@wolfweidler2851]

Jason Todd oh dang

[@qiqiyong6562]

Xiaxue needs to be have a debate with Emma Watson.

[@koukou1918]

I would like to see that as well.

[@noname-ke3gm]

QiQi Yong Xiaxue is too stupid for Emma Watson

[@hsmloverzanesssa]

Emma Watson fights for feminism (the real, original feminism and not what misandrous people use as an excuse to project their desired superiority) in countries/societies that actually need it. She doesn't get caught up in the "third wave feminism" that 'celebrities' like Lena Dunham spearhead, which is the movement that Xiaxue is, in a sense, ridiculing (quite reasonably so).

[@goawayleavemealone2880]

@Jini H "Emma Watson fights for feminism (the real, original feminism and not what misandrist people use as an excuse to project their desired superiority) in countries/societies that actually need it. She doesn't get caught up in the "third wave feminism" that 'celebrities' like Lena Dunham spearhead, which is the movement that Xiaxue is, in a sense, ridiculing (quite reasonably so)." Right that's why she decimated the character of Belle with her stupid feminist demands. Granted the writers didn't help, in that they didn't understand the character of Belle either. Belle is supposed to be a dreamer and in all likelihood ended up becoming a writer, rather than an inventor, I sort of see her as a Jane Austin type figure. She's passionate about her books, the difference in the animated and live-action versions "Little Town" sequence is very stark. Emma's delivery is dry and monotone - I mean this ties in to opinion that Emma Watson's just not a very good actress - but never mind. There's also the element of Belle's selflessness, she agrees to take her father's place as the beast's prisoner, but the only invention she's made has the specific purpose of giving her more free time to read - not even to invent. If Belle was real and an inventor, her inventions would be things that might benefit humanity.

[@vim92]

Jini H sorry but you're wrong. Emma Watson, is quite clearly a third wave feminist. You can deduce that from just watching her recent speech she gave at the UN.

[@amiraafiah7010]

Finally a famous youtuber that's is not feminist and is not afraid to say it and share their opinion. This is why I've always loved you Xiaxue. You the best!!

[@winning3329]

If you are against feminist then you are against voting and are against driving car's and against equal rights for women! If you are against feminism then you are all for being a second class citizen! Wake up!!! The MGTOW is trying to dumb you down! The hate groups like mgtow hate feminism because they want women to be just like they were before feminism where women couldn't vote or drive or have a job. MGTOW wants women to be stripped of these rights so women can be just like the old days where women were either forced to marry to survive or starve. The hate group mgtow is growing and spreading venom. The mgtow hate groups have even petitioned to make rape legal so they can quote " pump and dump" because women deserve to be raped. Plus remember you have female family members and one of these dangerous mgtow could harm them just like the elliot rodger murders. elliott rodgers the man who murdered a bunch of women is these hateful misogynist men Heroe. Wake up! We are under attack and you dummies are failing for it. Don't be a sheep! Btw check out" Deborrah copper.

[@Fakeslimshady]

@@winning3329 MGTOWs? They can't care less about you. They went their own way.

[@noikfkzn5305]

@@winning3329 lol feminist is stupid and irrelevant

[@shannonmaeswartz5316]

The whole don't walk a dark alley because you'll get raped, definately applies to everyone. Like to kids don't cross the road without looking both ways. Or a perfect example my brother walked down the wrong street at night and got mugged. Danger doesn't care, it is universal, and we should be pretecting ourselves.

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

Even as a man I don't go down dark allies. I mean has nobody seen horror movies? I mean crime and other negative things are real, why put yourself in a shitty position

[@CynderSpirit]

@@PricelessBinkey1337 That's how Bruce Wayne's parents died.

[@thementhologist5348]

exactly, and people do tell men not to rape, people are disgusted by rapists except other rapists. Its just that some bad people are rapists like some people are murderers, what to do other than avoid them.

[@shannonmaeswartz5316]

@@PricelessBinkey1337 I don't know if you are referring to my brother, but he didn't walk down an alley!

[@PricelessBinkey1337]

@@CynderSpirit fuck yes

[@MonsterTVOnline]

It's amazing hearing this from a female. Straight forward and relevant. ❤️

[@BlunderCity]

Actually, I feel only women are allowed to criticise feminism and come out clean. Try doing that as a dude. Most men in western countries, myself included, heavily self censor ourselves to avoid the loss of social standing that inevitably comes with expressing anti or even non feminist ideas.

[@Fakeslimshady]

@@BlunderCity Exactly. And since most women DGAF about feminism, they only have themselves to blame if/when the day comes men go their own way and avoid them altogether...

[@joylim5094]

i wonder if feminists actually watch til the end of the video or immediately dislike and report after xiaxue says she is not a feminist.

[@julianakassimchan]

watched til the end

[@layla_daemon7060]

lol

[@Jannyl13]

watched and although I don't agree with her, I neither disliked or reported the video. I don't feel really attacked by her, because she says that it's fine with her, if people want to have both men's and women's privilges abolished. And yes, that's exactly what I (and part of the movement e.g. 'he for she') want. I don't want men to have to worry about paying on a first date, I want it to be acceptable if men choose to stay at home to raise the children etc

[@cecilebousselat8192]

watched it till the end but still hit that dislike button.

[@ntfrmhr]

watched it till the end but still hit that dislike button. all the queerphobic and rape culture denial and body shaming and misinterpretation of internalised sexism. wow i have never watched so much ignorance in one 12 min.

[@josieparker4710]

That’s actually heartbreaking that in Singapore rape is explicitly defined as being only perpetrated by men towards women.

[@mirandab2831]

Unfortunately, it's the same for most jurisdictions around the world.

[@MistyEry]

Not a feminist either, with the exception of the first wave and a couple benefits from the second wave...I would say men and women have traits that are complementary to one another making them unique that are designed to create a strong and healthy team...however...for whatever reason, as a society, we have decided to throw those attributes away and become self serving....yikes.

[@theofanislantzakis9869]

Rarely is the word "complementary" ever used. Well said. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

[@sailo8681]

Truee

[@Mr_Mistah]

Are you a feminist or not? What do you mean by exceptions?

[@Fakeslimshady]

1st wave feminism wanted suffrage without conscription too, just so you know!

[@Summerman000kesamies]

I love they're how they keep saying men should not be disgusted by a natural bodily function while I'm pretty sure being disgusted is a natural bodily response to that thanks to our survival instincts. This is the first video of yours I've ever seen but you're already my fav youtuber

[@theofanislantzakis9869]

Send them to Transylvania! :-D

[@MCELVAINE6996]

They want three things The authority of a man The privilege of a woman The accountability of a child

[@allu6244]

Facts

[@nightgoggles9931]

I mean you can just be a woman and get at least 2 of those

[@yenshann]

*claps* you've just said what I've been wanting to say to those easily offended extreme "feminists" If a feminist belittles other women that has different beliefs than her/himself, how is he/she any better?

[@HenriqueMantovani93]

"And with things like Feminism and the Women's March protest and the Me Too movement, it's finally going to change." -You mean the Feminism that is concerned with bullshit like 'manspreading' and 'if a man look at a woman on the street it is sexual harrasment'? -You mean the Women's March Protest that had as guest speakers Donna Hylton, the criminal (and misandrist) who tortured and murdered a man in cold blood, and 'Sharia advocate' Linda Sarsour? -You mean the Me Too Movement, where men who shared their abuse stories were shamed and told to "shut up, this is a female movement, stop appropriating it"? Yep, that's really helping your country change for the better. :D

[@eccremocarpusscaber5159]

SmokerStar lots of “usually” in there. Which means you feel that this is true, but have no facts to back it up. Please do some proper research. You’ll see that society doesn’t function the way it did 39 years ago when what you said would have been relevant.

[@SynthZyme]

Man i love your old blogs like this and vids like this!. Please please go back to this stuff!

[@dexter-ib9ec]

Yeee

[@TaelyLee]

Since this video was deleted, then I definitely have to comment again that Xiaxue I am in love with this look you got going on! It's so stunning! Tutorial please?! 😍

[@JoEeYek]

AGREE!

[@xiaxue]

It's just pretty much my usual makeup plus a flower hair pin from F21 haha... and the top is from Missguided

[@SabiLewSounds]

Can I just add how beautifully color coordinated everything was! Omg it was absolutely pleasing to watch aesthetically, and great intellectuly too, I must say, very awesome video.

[@pahanifernando4002]

didn't anything else she said upset you?

[@almsy2617]

@Pahani Fernando You are saying that like people are supposed to be offended... Ok so be offended and move on with your life. No need to make new laws about you being offended.. fucken snowflakes.

[@JL-sw3sb]

These are the reasons I’m not a feminist too.

[@turdgoo]

I think im a feminist because of seeing the domestic violence rates in my home country of Poland - and similarly the murder rates of other eastern euro countries. The lack of charges placed on these offenses and the slap on the wrist, russian actually decriminalized domestic violence offenses, turning them into fines in 2017. 25 now, I grew up in america for 75% of my life anyway so I feel far more comfortable here - not needing to feel as terrified for my life at work/out lol it all varies by countries in regards to womens rights/true need of feminism honestly.

[@vXnite]

Regarding the period blood video. If the women wants a natural process to be accepted etc then it should be acceptable for guys to film workout videos when they still have their morning wood and spread their legs while they're stretching to show people. It's a natural process after all.

[@yusalcido2600]

I have no problem with cute boners, I don't know why it's seen as something shameful :3

[@valken666]

Most feminists would say he's a rapist.

[@----.__]

Well that escalated quickly.

[@darthsurya]

Shitting in pants and working-out ,cause shitting is natural process

[@Araanor]

and women should not be disgusted by neck cheese and public masturbation lol

[@user-kn1zm9vh2y]

for all of you who said that her own experiences don't talk for other women read the Tittle the "i" is highlighted so you may understand, she talks for herself.

[@denzeldelfyette1606]

straight like that. wow I was impressed that she uses facts and not emotion to convey her thoughts,plus its slick true.

[@isabellaris3137]

Facts what facts

[@ClaudetteVioletta]

I'm not a feminist because I care for both genders problems and I know that rape/abuse/murder/boby shaming/personality traits shaming are things that both can suffer and both genders can aply to someone.

[@Philomena250]

I hate how people use feminism to justify the things that they do and say, so much so that it has lost its purpose. love how you also managed to say everything I wanted to say so clearly :)

[@marziafernando2367]

Please do more politically incorrect videos. you are seriously the only beauty vlogger that actually as the balls to do this, You are an inspiration for young girls to think for themselves and not develop an oppression complex ❤❤❤

[@nepherdwen]

marzia fernando YEEES!!!

[@HShan-rs7bj]

This is why I fucking love her

[@ariana8528]

Hm, was wondering why the video got deleted! I thought it wasn't Xiaxue to delete a video because of hate comments, glad the video is back up!

[@aphr0d]

Wooooowwww! Someone is really trying to silence you. Keep being you girl, don't ever hesitate to speak your truth. This was a great video and I agree so much. I'm glad more and more people are finally opening their eyes.

[@zayneb.gilani]

Idk if you're against feminism or what??? But I liked your views on #modern_feminism

[@chyhea93]

Finally someone talks sense on internet - thanks xiaxue!!!

[@AdventureFaktory]

Hey - Just discovered you as we moved to Singapore and gotta say we are fans. I totally think like you and so many people are just so bloody sensitive nowadays they simply can't stand opinions that are different than theirs. Keep being real!

[@jennykim01]

I felt the need to comment again :) I think there were butthurt feminists who reported this vid :/ I totally agree with most of the points you made XX, I don't care if people call me ignorant.I know 1st and 2nd wave feminism were definitely needed (and I thank these feminists for their hardwork), but I think the current 3rd wave feminism is too much (well, based on my life in Europe) - I get aggressive reactions from most of my feminists friends/acquaintances and they try to convince me that I am feminist, and I must be a feminist just because of my gender. I also got called for sexist because I told them I don't feel like a feminist since I don't protest actively, I don't even have any opinion that support this view, simply because I don't identify as one. Raised only in a family of females, I have never felt oppressed and only the feminists tries to tell me I am supposed to feel like I am the lower sex of this society, when in fact like you said there is a lot of advantages and things favoured on our side because of our sex. If feminists want everything to be absolutely equal, which I don't believe it's gonna happen since both sex has different advantages, then they might as well fight for equal right for males who are sentenced for a longer period than women for the exact same crime, or to abolish the law that women can escape death penalty if they manage to impregnate themselves, which obviously men cannot do. I can support some cases that feminists are fighting for, but not everything and I do not want to be called for a feminist.

[@aphr0d]

she said it got deleted, so maybe a butthurt feminist hacked into her account JUST to delete that video lol, what a mess

[@xiaxue]

kimi I did NOT know that you can escape the death penalty by getting pregnant!! Won't they just kill you after you give birth?!

[@bude8234]

I have heard such similar stories so many times from women, it bears repeating. A woman grows up with a relatively normal life, not feeling oppressed by the dreaded patriarchy. And then she either 1) meets feminists, or 2) enters a liberal university setting. Then every effort is made by friends and teachers to convince this same woman that she has actually suffered and is actually oppressed, despite what her very experiences tell her. And, unfortunately, many women fall for this brain washing and drink the Kool Aid. Thank you for not being one of them.

[@axldave6377]

lex S And why is that invalid?

[@binal-flecki2387]

lol Europe? Stay safe and don't get raped.

[@daddsfasdasd]

She is probably one of the only female youtubers that are truly funny not cringey! keep it up (go Singapore!)

[@Bella-bp1ku]

And here we have an incredibly sexist comment 💕💕💕

[@JohnDoe-wx1vq]

Was waiting for this repost. Thanks XX

[@tabreagilbert249]

Feminist just complain about everything and only wanna have “talks” about things that affect society but will go home to their nice house and pretend like nothing happens and then go complain more and do the same hypocritical thing

[@HumanBeing-gq1gp]

I don't totally agree with your point of view on feminism, but you made really good points UNTIL you said women who don't shave or put on makeup are lazy and ugly. Come on...

[@teacvitanovic7698]

Well they can do that but then why do they complain bc they dont have bf?

[@DatNewsGirl]

Tbh as long as its sanitary and hygienic. If women smell and look clean, shaven + makeup or not, then no one will care

[@weebgal1035]

I SO AGREE

[@ShinraTurkReno]

@Xeduxion so...not shaving and not wearing makeup = ugly and smelly? Come on now.

[@fil2662]

I mean who ever dont shave is arm pit and genital is fucking lazy and im talking as a human being if wash yourself everyday it ok... If you dont your not only lazy. But your a lazy piece of shit And sorry for me someone with hair from everywhere that have a weird hygien is definitivly ugly. Being clean and sanitary is probably the principal factor that can make someone ugly af in our society.

[@Gilmme]

There's no protecting the video button? So they won't take it down

[@swubarts9703]

"Hello, my name is Emily and I am a feminist. I encourage you to take a moment to form an opinion of me based solely off the first sentence. Did ‘angry lesbian’ come to mind? Do you assume that I hate all men and stay-at-home moms? I hope the answer is no, that you did not make those judgments because I told you I was a feminist. Yet, if one (or all) of those thoughts crossed your mind, then I can’t blame you. For whatever reason our society has created such a negative association with feminism that it is actually an insult to be called one. " sad reality

[@angusgow1887]

Its not our society that has created the negative association, its extreme feminists words and actions. EG the Russian feminist pouring bleach on mens genitals in public.

[@heloisaliva5496]

I really appreciated your video. Can't say I agree 100%, but that's just how life is! And, hey, your arguments are valid! Most of the "why I'm not a feminist videos" are really stupid, so I got really happy that this one wasn't. Thanks, you acctually changed my mind a bit. I still think women im my country need feminism though, things are not as good around here, even if it's starting to get better! love SZ

[@lightdestructions]

we actually need more egalitarianism

[@magenta456joy9]

I will agree with all the point you made with respect to Singapore, I'm Singaporean and I definitely agree. But since then I've moved all over the world and I've seen countries where feminism if genuinely needed. I've seen female foeticide, 11 year old girls married to 40 year old men, girls being shunned during their period because they're considered "impure". But the irony is, 3rd world feminism doesn't actually help the women THAT ACTUALLY NEED IT. I really really hope we can move towards a more equal society all over the world, but we're going to need more than just twitter activism for that.

[@glacousxx]

Real feminism should be equality and respecting everyone and thats the truth. Xiauxue is very honest and really blunt thats why they love her im glad she told her opinion. Feminism is definitely required for lots of countries still . Only because you are privileged doesn't mean there aren't other women who aren't. Lots of women are killed simply for being women . We don't get advantages if you don't live in a first world country.

[@zoareena]

love your style and gotta agree with most of what you said. I'm in for equal rights, not for extreme feminism. also people have to take into account our differences biologically. "equal rights" is not the same as "equal duties". you can't force women to do things that are harder for us, like physical work etc.

[@ManlyServant]

why cant? are you saying men should take all the hard job while you guys can choose just the easy in your life?,thats inequality, just admits it you want patriarchy, patriarchy is Good and Natural,this is what our ancestor live with

[@shiwan8]

Old and yet current. This was so accurate it should be taught is schools.

[@d3lu3_urvon44]

No

[@eldenoliveiro2442]

okay in the job aspect of feminism, i completely agree with you. i am a feminist but i don't fight for everything that a third wave feminist fights for. i'm a feminist not because women don't have equal rights and whatnot, but more about the social stigmas that are present in our society. Gender roles: society has assigned roles to genders and people are pressured to be a certain way and act a certain way. i am a feminist because i want men to be comfortable if they are more feminine and i want females to feel comfortable if they are more masculine and they shouldn't be ridiculed for that. it is a fact that society has deemed being feminine as a weakness (hear me out): being feminine defines you to be more emotional and hormonal, which is seen as a weakness. and more women are more feminine compared to men, so naturally there's sadly already a sort of social disadvantage as the "natural" thinking of female = feminine = weak. i am personally androgynous ( i display both masculine and feminine qualities ) ( i am a boy btw ) and i am ridiculed for being that way. my personality is a grey area between the binaries of masculinity and femininity, and i'm seen as weak. it is very saddening to see how society is taught that being emotional = being weak [ emotional meaning that you have strong feelings towards a lot of things, not sad ] [ and also addressing that the social norm at the moment is feminine = emotional OR feminine = submissive and easy to be taken advantage of, because being feminine equates to weakness. ] because the boys in my school are taught to "take it like a man" and "not to be a girl about it" which is really sickening because there is an obvious implication of female = weak. that is why i am a feminist. i am a feminist to break the norms, the binaries, the social standards and stigmas. but other than that, i actually really agree with you. i really do. i just wanted to add another dimension of feminism which is not talked much about; which is why i am a feminist. let me know what you think!!

[@samterry2000]

I completely 100% agree with what you said there. I'm a male feminist too and think exactly like you do! Well said :)

[@jeremysears4263]

99 Bottles of Bleach Right?!

[@joea.o2438]

I just found your channel last year and I have to say you have been wonderful with your content.

[@RandomPerson-zx9vv]

Young women who reject radical feminism and don't act like entitled jerks will never have a shortage of interested men. Women who buy into radical feminism will hopefully enjoy life alone with their cat. Who would want a man around anyway?

[@TypiKelly]

Very well spoken, Xiaxue! Talking about the important things 👍 This is my first vid of yours I've seen and just had to subscribe.

[@duran3d]

Men and women are (or should be) equal under the law. That guaraties equality of opportunities. But other than that, we are very different and that is how it should be.

[@vim92]

Feminism is an IDEOLOGY. It is the framework in which feminists operate. It is an ideology that promotes equal rights of women and men. This is the reason why it is redundant in 1st world countries where women have the same (if not more) rights as men. Xiaxue is addressing this fact and the redundancy of feminism in such countries such as Singapore. Just because some women in these countries might have faced some form of adversity, it is not a representation of the majority of women. Guess what? Men face plenty of challenges everyday, you don't see them screaming sexism/misandry. NEWSFLASH, everyone faces problems time to time, but it is not synonymous with the rights the person is granted. Third wave feminism operates on the idea that women, wherever they are, should not be exposed to ANY difficulty at all, thus infantilising them and Xiaxue refuses to be infantilised. In conclusion, third wave feminism is not for equal rights(which women already have) it is for SPECIAL TREATMENT.

[@gN0mseryiops]

You said it all.

[@saramoore4298]

i was hoping you would have out this quote so I'll just add it t the comments (please tell me what you think!!) : "When God made man, she was only joking." This one really pisses me off cause if someone were to say the same thing but in a male point of view, they would be slaughtered on the internet. If feminism is about equality, then why are you trying to upgrade yourself by downgrading men?

[@stephalicious3560]

Xiaxue bless your soul I am so happy someone else (who is in the media especially) thinks in my unpopular way, I wish I could be around you.

[@Jpinkney1019]

We need more videos talking about this

[@lucadellasciucca9701]

oh there are planty actually!!

[@amberslahlize7961]

Feminists: "Why wouldn't you want men and women to be treated equally?" Me: "Because they aren't the same."

[@henzsol6771]

Equality does not mean sameness

[@amberslahlize7961]

@@henzsol6771 no lol it literally does.

[@desperateanimator484]

@@henzsol6771 ye fuckin idioita xD

[@karimaess7793]

Feminism isn't about becoming identical to men, that is blatantly impossible and i feel like most sane feminists would agree. However, differences between men and women should not translate into disparities when it comes to opportunities, treatment and representation.

[@mnkeybananas]

@@amberslahlize7961 equality doesn't mean sameness. A physically/mentally abled person is not the same as completely abled person. A black person might not be the same as an Asian person. Similarly a woman might not be same as a man. But does that mean any of the group of people I've mentioned about, be deprived of basic human rights such as a right to be respected, right to choose what to wear, right to consent, right to freedom of speech etc etc. And before you say, women already have all those rights, please go to a 3rd world country, or atleast a 2nd world. Even in a first world country, like USA, some States allow the parents to choose the groom for the child when she is underage.

[@niigakifanboy]

your video and your way of destroying "twitter feminism" wave is awesome . you got a new subscriber :)

[@edwinzuniga123]

I love your sense of humor and your strength of character people who make up their own mind are the best I'm gonna go binge watch your other videos

[@xiaxue]

Rickiest Rick love the username

[@shinku5463]

*subscribes* I remember someone telling me that if a Pregnant woman is murdered that counts as double homicide but when she aborts the baby its not homicide? wat

[@Katya_Lastochka]

When your organization got what it wanted and needs to come up with excuses to exist, like a sitcom that just goes on and on.

[@maitre6365]

Hands down one of the best anti-feminism vid I've ever seen. And I've seen hundreds. Love your accent by the way.

[@gogomaryn1890]

Amen sister, preach. As a woman you can't say you aren't a feminist without someone attacking you or your beliefs..

[@AbuAfakski]

This is among the greatest videos I have ever watched. Thank you!

[@anonymous9343]

AN OPINION: The majority comment section has the same energy as ALM when people bring up BLM

[@Mr_Mistah]

Opinion rejected

[@Littlekitten_]

This made me like you more 💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞💞 I'm so happy you re uploaded !!! 👍🏼👍🏼

[@jjlad5037]

1. Money 2. Flashy car 3. Big house 4. Nice clothes 5. Large member

[@klsmsrq]

I frekin adore you. Im subscribing just for this kind of quality content. You're hilarious I love this!!

[@Maddie-rv6sp]

you are so smart Xiaxue!!! honestly so articulate i love you!!

[@georgiamathews1711]

Loved the video! You're so much fun to watch! Thanks for not being crazy.

[@lenastower7493]

Love your video and your style, it's amazing that you've pointed out the toxic nature of third-wave feminism and radical feminism. Although I appreciate the comedic nature of your content, some of the points you've made are slightly incendiary and not as apparent that they are only targeting extremist feminism.

[@joxiiourworld9160]

The way you say "eat shit" in your accent is beautiful

[@TheKatieCakez]

I love you! Say it how it is!

[@CerberusBindeweed]

First time I cam across your channel and I think I am in love. Love not only how accurate your are, but the comedic value you bring is amazing.

[@Flastew]

Love your view Xaixue, you are so honest and show your facts.

[@itaacesar3029]

dude, where have you been? who are you? you're awesome!

[@akiva593]

I've found the unicorn, I thought I would never see one, now all I need is too meet one in real life.

[@suckersville94]

I found your video pretty interesting. But I think your views stem from (1) a position of privilege and (2) a major misunderstanding of the intricacies of feminism. Also, please note that 'quote' from the most influential radical feminist is actually a misquote. A simple Google would clear that up. MacKinnon has never stated that and if you were to study her theories, you would see how the misunderstanding arises. Next, I think it pretty unfair to those who would like to mount a debate with you when you draw the limits of replies to third wave feminism because honestly, third wave has yet to be defined i.e the boundaries are still in flux and there is the charge of essentialism to consider plus the idea of how feminism in the past has mostly been Western and middle class which means that it gives rise to a difficult position of non-inclusivity. Plus, third wave is essentially a amalgamation of movements from the past and their criticisms. Then comes the charge of equality. The problem with this is a flawed understanding of equality. The idea of equality is not limited to just same treatment for everyone. It is the idea that like situations are treated alike whilst different situations are treated differently in so far as they objectively require that difference. Also, if you were to read more into feminism proper, you would see that the liberal school popularised the charge of equality but it has also been subject to criticisms precisely for the reason I have stated above. Regarding your position on, and I paraphrase, how you have been oppressed into loving your oppressors, the gender pay gap, women as home builders, I think these were all vacuum observations and thus, not indicative of the actual situation. Also, you may find the writings of Gilligan for cultural feminism and MacKinnon's take on the Marxist class position to be helpful here. The entirety of your video would potentially find a new spin with the materials above. Cheers.

[@lisasummer701]

And also, I love you cause you’re so open and never afraid to speak up. NEVER. We need an entire planet full of Xiaxues.

[@mylet2658]

I am feminist I love women !

[@madreviews729]

Im not feminist i love all genders.

[@ikramel1743]

@@madreviews729 im not a human right activist, I love all humans!!

[@ysbasketballgameplays7380]

this girl is just awesome and extremely honest in the soul

[@powpaow]

Body hair is not disgusting... that's something society has taught us! Men can do it, why can't women

[@-natanya9051]

sweetpaow if a man has under armpit Hair It Is equally as disgusting and that's coming from a woman.

[@powpaow]

That's what society want you to think

[@meowsies]

It’s disgusting on a man too LMAO

[@reaganfranksbeauty297]

sweetpaow uh bitch that’s what my nose thinks armpit hair makes your sweat smell worse and then it gets all trapped in your armpit hair

[@oongmalioong6164]

If you choose to leave your hair, fine, but you can't force us to like/accept the shit you do and scream patriarchy when man reject you. Be responsible on your personal decision. Women find men's body hair disgusting too, we did shave, but you don't see us bitching when women rejecting us for having body hair.

[@heart.shaped.locket]

THANK YOU!!!! Omg I totally agree with you!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@gdtacos7082]

If you want equal eights, you are a egalitarian. Not a feminist.

[@gjhorton]

I’ve no idea why I got suggested this video by KZbin but I thoroughly enjoyed it! Refreshing to see a women actually using her own mind, thinking logically about things and you know, forming her own opinions based on reality and facts. Keep up the good work. I’ll be back for sure.

[@destinyonaayannacatori9446]

well.. as a feminist that believes in the "old" version of feminism.. i have to say that i do not think that we as women are opressed.. there are still feminist that don't think that way. i personally am more of a humanitarian.. i think that humans/people as a whole should all get the same rights.. that really.. it would be nice to think that were just people.. who happen to have different backgrounds, skin colors and genders.. but although i agree with most of what you said.. i don't agree with the shaving part. im not lazy for chosing to let my natural body hair grow.. im just being a human.. lol if it wasn't right.. it wouldn't be there. patriarchy has told us its nasty, unsexy and wrong.. and to that ill just say.. LMAO.

[@craigking391]

Just found your channel. Love it. Keep up the good work. Subscribed.

[@aurtora]

Maybe youtube deleted it to prevent it going viral. Glad it's back up tho!

[@nigeltheoutlaw]

Hey, I'd never heard of you today, but I saw this video and I have to say that I loved it. You just earned a subscriber!

[@medhasharma7227]

Ok, so... I’m just gonna say it, I AM A FEMINIST and if ur not or don’t agree that’s totally fine with me, as we all have different opinions and have equal freedom of speech(I’m sure you all have really good reasons) but what we really need to understand here is the difference between feminism and toxic feminism, not all feminists think the same way, some people Believe in female superiority but saying that girls who don’t shave or wear makeup are disgusting and ugly(11:06), in my opinion is distinguishable as it is our body and we have the right to control it And if some woman choose not to it is completely up to them and If u say that is disgusting, ugly and lazy, It is also a form of oppression and body shaming, I don’t mind ur opinion or what you say but personally don’t agree with it.

[@darpmosh6601]

So do you believe in equality between females and males? If so then I must burst your bubble: total equality will never happen. If you advocate for females to be treated differently and not abused like treated like meatbags then that's different, but mark my words, total equality will never happen.

[@melliwika4166]

Empty talking is a sign of lack of knowledge.

[@cayrenbarcay7286]

like most feminist

[@nascar0509]

But one inconvenient historical fact that has been omitted too many times is that at the time of the inception of the suffrage movement most men couldn't vote either only an elite few!

[@BbrandDDd]

Xiaxue not only do you have a rocking sense of humor you have the brains and (un)common sense. The fact that KZbin, Facebook and most powerful media platforms censor / delete content that is against third wave feminism, and allows misandric content to be spread, already proves your point about feminism in developed countries. You always have and will continue to have my respect :)

[@RajatTiwari-HabituallyHappy]

You are extremely sensible and very logical and analytical. Way to go. Really like the way you build your case.

[@nidalderoo3448]

Now feminists like to say feminism is equality.

[@aliabatrishah8630]

I'm so glad it's back here

[@Arianator-sf3wd]

I totally agree women now a days are more privileged then men. Women's problems are more important as seen with many single mother shelters and support they receive, and men are told to act like a man and don't cry. Women can get away with so much more than men, just make a false rape accusation and that man's life is ruined.

[@dazzlemasseur]

modern feminism is people having a passion to fight for stuff and since all the important stuff is gone they find new things that don't make sense and lose all credibility.

[@dazzlemasseur]

it's lie a soldier fighting for world peace. all his life he trained for world peace but if world peace is attained, what will he do ? he lives for fighting, and there is no fighting so his life has no purpose or he will try to fight for dumb shit. or be mature and move on.

[@cinnastyle3260]

You gained my subscription Xiaxue!

[@huanderwoman]

Hi Xiaxue, I think it's more than fair to point out the double standard of wanting men to pay for meals, but also wanting other "feminist" standards being applied in society. However, I think there are a number of self identifying feminists who are willing to be introspective of ways in which they receive advantages, too. I can't speak for others, but one of the ways that I try to practice feminism by not forcing stereotypes on how any one person acts. For example, I have to re-investigate why I think some men are "too feminine" or therefore not as attractive by virtue of being sensitive, and how I might internally judge a strong willed female for being "too intense." I'm not claiming to be perfect, but I don't think it's entirely fair to assume that all feminists want a world where chivalry meets feminist legal agenda. I think true feminism is empowering women with the choice to be a house wife instead of career-driven, but also being equally as supportive if the one staying at home is dad.