Why I Don't Argue with People (They Won't Change) | ASMR Bedtime Show 17

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[@nortrom1674]

With this ambience, he looks like a guy that really enjoys sleep. I want to be as comfortable as he is

[@pleiades250]

man, what you have to say is always so interesting. your ideas are a perfect blend of pertinent and thoughtful philosophical ideas told in a relaxing setting. thanks so damn much for these bedtime shows and thanks for making me think differently about the world. keep up the good work!

[@JanneSala]

Unrelated, but loving the plantasia avatar.

[@daasu642]

Hopefully you see this, but you’re one of the few content creators that I can lay down and listen to for an hour, and I enjoy your discussions so much. Just wanted to let you know that you’ve got listeners (: please don’t stop making fantastic videos!

[@boblance4087]

I love these videos! It’s like an ASMR podcast, way more enjoyable to hear you talk about interesting topics and giving your opinions on them

[@chlo90]

Don’t know why people told you to stop talking in the gambling vids. I love your voice! Do more of these vids

[@25maxman]

Or just mention it in the title like "gambling vid (no talking)" so we can skip them. I like the talking as well

[@sophiathepest7397]

he really looks like someone who's always calm and warm lol

[@carolinecavanaugh2944]

So interesting. I like hearing your perspective and analysis of all this it’s very relevant, super relaxing too!

[@NachtSchreck13]

You've had much of the same realizations I've had. I feel the same way about pretty much everything you talked about. I will say that I believe psychedelics are sometimes capable of breaking down a lot of those walls - social, familial, environmental, surmounting even, to some extent, limitations imposed by genetics.

[@josemwarrior]

Hi, you are my new spiritual guide

[@CBPz]

Wow it’s crazy because this whole conversation I have had in my head, which is why I too avoid arguing with people. It makes me feel primal

[@juliaclarindo8925]

So interesting and adorable. I Love the content you make about unintentional asmr. Thanks for doing it. Keep going always. 💕💕💕

[@ranjones550]

Love this series!

[@Ms.Irod2024]

Great Great Great content!! So insightful, so philosophical, your awesome Alex

[@garret918]

Oddly enough, Van Helsing from the original Dracula novel is a principle example concerning perspectives, the real definition of open-mindedness, and the recent (or timeless) tendency to rush to conclusions on practically anything. I think, if nothing else, you present yourself as someone who is more than just curious, and takes the time to see things properly. Thank you for existing, it makes me feel less alone, regardless of our different frameworks. For all it's strangeness, Metal Gear Solid 2, Deus Ex, and a few other games really tackle the idea of deliberate information manipulation, control, etc. etc., in relation to the increasingly consequential interconnectivity and technological dependency humanity has. I recommend some KZbin videos by Max Derrat and others if you're interested.

[@findcalm]

Thanks will check it out

[@MysticLoveASMR]

I love topics like these. Thank you for sharing :-)

[@CHERYLASMR]

Love your deep chats 🧡

[@alinaya26]

Just found your videos . Thank you for bringing up this topic . Going to sleep. 🌚

[@Name-xx5qs]

I just don’t argue with people because I know I’m always wrong.

[@jodie9806]

This was a really lovely video :)

[@alexjones4679]

Hey this is pretty relaxing, and very interesting so far but I'm falling asleep. Either way, good stuff mate, good stuff I agree with the stuff you've said so far haha

[@generalpurposeasmr5737]

After rewatching this a few times, I have come to realize how meta it is.

[@HandCraftedASMR]

The most important point to take away from this is how fantastic those jammies are.

[@findcalm]

Hehe thanks

[@DrakeEastwood]

group mentality is my favorite subject

[@gentlegamer_]

My personal rule is Don't Argue With People on the Internet. I'll discuss things to death IRL no problem, it's much easier to have a back and forth and understand where the other person is coming from. But on the internet, that's extremely difficult to achieve.

[@thomaspriday9731]

Great video! As an aside, how did you get the camera setup from above? Genuinely curious lol

[@findcalm]

it's a smaller camera on a horizontal stick / tripod construction

[@LeCrenn]

So excellent. I love that overhead shot of you writing.

[@michaelpietzsch]

Klasse Modelle, solide Erklärung. Und das alles in einem ASMR Mantel. Beindruckend

[@markkreussel9617]

Ja, ich stimme du

[@findcalm]

Danke :)

[@madid6326]

Great video! I’d say communism has never happened because historically it’s always been co-opted by authoritarians. It’s really unfortunate because Marxism actually makes quite a lot of sense. Look forward to more videos like this :)

[@findcalm]

Thanks:) I agree

[@michaelyoung3775]

danke dafür mein freund

[@nicolascortazzo3427]

You seem to be a logician-type person, from your emails and videos. I think it's a mistake to try to develop objective truths in the quest of developing convincing arguments, for any topic. It's a common trope of we logic-minded people, objectivity only lives in the realm of abstract languages, like math, based on axiomatic rules that interact with each other with perfect symmetry and absolute certainty, and not on reality. Logical arguments work, humans are largely emotionally driven, emotional arguments are far more effective, for that, you need to find subjective thinking that can apply to the broadest possible audience. Take the most rational and logical thinker and try to have him convince the rest of the populace, and they're going to fail on arguments alone, though maybe not on authority if they're a well recognized figure. Emotional thinking is a whole other world of development, but necessary to deal with peers. Cheers.

[@findcalm]

I don't disagree

[@generalpurposeasmr5737]

As a logic-minded person, do you think objectivity is the same as neutrality? or would you say that objective truth can contain evaluative judgements as well?

[@deckplate1]

Based

[@jacobbeat166]

You have a pleasant voice. Really like your channel. And you're cute ;D Greetings from Poland :)

[@charliefowler7612]

I like how you stopped yourself from pandering to the mob. That’s where everyone goes wrong. Hence almost all the worlds problems, lol.

[@rivaperson6307]

Hey! Im Totally on board with what you are saying not per se agreeing with everything but appreciating nonetheless. I do have to note however that I think your notions about IQ are flawed. Maybe you can look into papers published on the limited range of intelligence that IQ actually measures. You talk about psychology and statistics so I think you can appreciate works using the scientific method and that’s the only reason I mention this. It seems like you really want to understand even if that means correcting previously inaccurate or flawed premises. But thank you so much for your perspective I genuinely enjoyed listening:).

[@sterlingtx75]

You look like a young Morrissey.

[@metacrisis47]

you’re so handsome...

[@findcalm]

Nooo

[@geezermann7865]

I love the calm voice and overhead view of the diagrams, very relaxing. I also do not argue with others about, lets say, politics. Most people are emotionally attached to their beliefs, and experience "cognitive dissonance" when confronted with facts that do not align with their beliefs. The majority of people are easily led/misled by propaganda, which is the main objective of the media today. It's all about population control, stifling critical thinking, censoring people who share actual facts, and disenfranchising people by telling them their votes count, when in fact, the election was manipulated and stolen by criminals. My motto is "facts matter", and "facts over feelings". Well done video, thanks.

[@vee5294]

Jordan Peterson is a divine genius who should be favorably mentioned in every video. Anyone who disagrees can fight me. Or not. Whatever.

[@Jade-rw9yx]

Jordan Peterson says a lot of things that stand up in theory but aren't exactly reasonable. I would recommend watching some deeper dives about him by different creators on this site and that may or may not change your mind on the subject. Personally, I think he's an idiot but to each their own.

[@canilaughinyourface2556]

Here is the first IWantToArgueAnyways. Here we go...

[@Popinbottlesallday456]

Lol

[@shenanigans3710]

You're the most reasonable guy on KZbin. You have no hope of success ;-)

[@blues9215]

Is this related to the video?

[@findcalm]

Not sure if true but thanks:)

[@FinanceFan_]

Ben Shapiro wants to see the world burn? I don’t think so. Possibly the other 2 you mentioned but not Ben.

[@findcalm]

Maybe

[@cunt_101]

I love these bedtime shows ❤️