"My feelings are feedback." "An unmet need feels like pain, ache, uncomfortable." So good.
@ElGreco15412 жыл бұрын
I related to what you said about anger. Sometimes I feel like the only time I take my feelings seriously is when I'm angry.
@lifecoachingtoronto2 жыл бұрын
Great honesty! Thais is definitely right about this too :)
@robynclements42422 жыл бұрын
‘Feelings are from the inside, not the outside.’ This is perfect! 💕
@alyssajones51932 жыл бұрын
Yess pls do a 7 day relationship evolution series for you! Soo helpful thank you
@underthesignofthemoon2 жыл бұрын
Yes Thais please do a series on your relationship evolution!! As an FA who is terrified of never being able to have a functioning relationship (from my side) it would help so much. ❤️
@anja7787 Жыл бұрын
Depression is "repressing" your authentic self and feelings. Heal well guys, be free. It is amazing
@tahirabruce4772 жыл бұрын
As a fearful avoidant I loveeee when you tell personal stories about the things you said to yourself constantly in your head. Most of these are things I tell myself all the time or used to tell myself quite a lot but working through it and realizing it's not that uncommon and I can change the narrative. You are very helpful. We (fearful avoidants) appreciate you!
@adamwood872 жыл бұрын
thanks for sharing, Thais. really putting the Personal in PDS with this one, and i think it helps to hear about how the information you share comes from the place of application to your own journey, and not simply academic information. makes me really thankful that i found your channel, and how much it has helped me.
@hallmark42 жыл бұрын
Dreaming of being on the other side of this where healing feels less fragile. Largely in that fragile state so it felt good to know that I’m not alone and that feeling is normal and that it won’t feel fragile forever.
@kayleedavenport50522 жыл бұрын
Yes! Please do 7 days of Personal Relationships journey!! And thank you so much for being vulnerable and opening up to share your story!! It truly does inspire and help us! 💕
@slamchopp2 жыл бұрын
Thais, your brilliance and eloquence and beautiful heart never cease to amaze me. Thank you so much for doing these shares. The value of hearing your story simply cannot be overstated.
@babybangstfu2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing! How amazing you must feel now that all your struggles and pain is now being used to help. thank you ✨
@shagunagrawal20032 жыл бұрын
Thaaaiisssss thank you SO SO SO MUCH FOR EVERYTHING, GAL ❤️ You certainly have a clue of the kind of impact you're making on people! I am really struggling through this and other issues in my life currently while you're putting exactly the content that I can relate to the most right now/need right now. Thanks thanks thanks. Can't thank you enough ever. Wish your videos had millions of views as they deserve to have. But unfortunately, mental health and such discussions are far from reality for most of the people. We all really need to work for making more & more people aware of these most important things. ❤️
@sammelina122 жыл бұрын
All I can say is I am so so thankful to have found Thais and PDS. I stumbled upon the channel when I was 24 and was desperate for answers. I couldn’t imagine going through the rest of my life with all the burdens I was carrying as an FA. I’m so thankful Thais has decided to share all that she’s learned - I’m sure it’s also based in her own needs for personal development and contribution but she didn’t have to make it accessible like this. It’s benefitted me so much & I am just so, so thankful. 💗
@fxtrdr42 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your vulnerability
@mag65212 жыл бұрын
Yes, please do the 7 days of personal shares on relationships
@ElGreco15412 жыл бұрын
This makes me feel less alone. Thank you.
@jadedavis9122 жыл бұрын
Very helpful to listen to this. I can relate to the early numbing and inability to cry in my teens to early 20s. Would love to hear more about your relationship evolution. Thank you for sharing, Thais :)
@taraj7632 жыл бұрын
This was exactly what I needed to hear, especially your ''rant'' at the end. I'm two years into my healing journey and a couple of months ago I took a huge step back and it really has brought up a lot of stories of this will never end and I will never be able to get out of this, so hearing you say that it is possible and that you did it too gives me so much hope. I'll be going back to this video when I'm deep into those stories. Thanks so much Thais
@selfdiscoverysupport2 жыл бұрын
I love hearing these personal experiences. It allows me to connect to the commonalities in experiences.
@tequilabumbum43732 жыл бұрын
Its amazing that you were so self aware at only 20 years old.. wow
@trampersad12 жыл бұрын
You are so AMAZING Thais . Your journey shows how fragile we are as humans and how everything needs to be in balance . You have given me a whole new life with the information you have not kept to yourself but shared with the world . It has literally been life changing. I really don’t know how I have made it this far . But with PDS I feel so much better even tho I am still a work in progress. In all the 7 areas of life I am becoming more more regulated and so much more of a healthy version of my true self . May you be blessed for sharing all this mind blowing information. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽
@Girltalkwithvictoriaanddonnas2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing Thasis, I found your channel in 2020, and you have changed my life in the best way. So grateful!!
@smileyface7022 жыл бұрын
Your personal narrative is so powerful! Thank you, Thais 😊
@zoricaradanov9072 жыл бұрын
We would love to hear about your relationships!
@aldizzle2 жыл бұрын
This video to me was especially useful. I am learning to understand the ramifications of my internal thoughts and views of myself.
@tucky31912 жыл бұрын
Would love more personal shares!!! This was so helpful and Valuable, thank you
@Utobong2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing this, it was helpful to know that unlearning these patterns are not linear and there would be setbacks sometimes but with consistency we can establish new patterns and a new baseline. I’d love to hear about your journey in the context of relationship patterns.
@macypercy97702 жыл бұрын
I'm really interested in hearing about your personal story and especially your attachment after you met your husband. Thanks 💕💕❤️
@paintopurpose2 жыл бұрын
A phrase I heard once is that you have to feel it to heal it. It’s so easy to distract ourselves from our feelings, thinking the pain will just disappear, but moving into that messy space courageously brings some of the most liberating moments. I really appreciate raw videos like these
@nickandrews22552 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this this really came at a time I needed to hear it. Bless up
@ringothecat14622 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experiences with us 😊 ❤️ This video is so inspiring to me, especially being FA. Being able to relate deeply to what you shared. You are giving compassion and hope! Appreciate you 🙏 💙 ❤️ 💛
@adrienneoliver58152 жыл бұрын
Wow thank you for sharing your story.. it really helps to know that you know the process and the ups and downs from going through it yourself, not just learning about it.. you are such a blessing and I truly appreciate what you do more than I can express.
@sonika41752 жыл бұрын
I am 21 year old, I feel lucky to know this, bcz sometimes these feelings literally haunt me, I feel like out of this world, but now I can try to counteract them 😃☺. Thanku so much mam 🥰
@sonika41752 жыл бұрын
These feelings especially the anger coping mechanism always create mess, It become reason of my all suffering.
@ribz7472 жыл бұрын
Your needs course is awesome and definitely helped me bounce back from a breakup much quicker than I would've without it!
@jamiem21862 жыл бұрын
Thais, you've changed my life. Three years into PDS, I still get so much out of hearing your personal experiences because it's easy to put you on a pedestal. But hearing your stories reminds me that I'm doing just fine and making enough progress!
@lifecoachingtoronto2 жыл бұрын
Good idea to share your experience Thais so people can see it's possible, and they can relate with you even more :)
@jennie22.022 жыл бұрын
hey Thais, your videos are so incredibly helpful and being able to watch these has had a really significant and positive effect on my life. Thank you so much 💖
@amandaharris72052 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing ❤️
@amandatheresa64952 жыл бұрын
Very powerful and insightful video. I love your channel and all your content! This is something I have been working on myself, learning to identify my emotions and underlying unmet needs after spending my life numbing and running from them so I really appreciate this video.
@Rifica8082 жыл бұрын
Thais, I am so grateful to have found your channel since 2020. Your content and especially your personal journey is absolutely inspiring and motivating for me. You are so incredibly beautiful. Bless you and your team @ PDS for all of your support on such an important yet challenging subject-personal growth and development 🙏🏾💜🙌🏾
@knowthyself31882 жыл бұрын
Success leaves clues.... thank you for sharing your story!
@JuliaShalomJordan2 жыл бұрын
This is such a great explanation on how to navigate through emotions. Thank you so much!🦋
@annaynely Жыл бұрын
Thais I respect you and I even feel better and improvement in myself & my life after having been a member of PDS for more than two years. Having said that from my perspective you aren't taking into consideration social problems like ppl that have lived a deep poverty since the evolution of their grandparents & even before you don't take into consideration particular situations of different ppl cuz it would be impossible for you. So there will always be ppl in society that even if they do all PDS work needs, traits, values,, stories they tell they will still be a part of the precariat in society & never get out of poverty in a satisfactory world cuz they may feel better but they may not find the adequate support to get out if aces, poverty, violence etc etc they die of suicide or other. Ppl can only do the best w what they have got. If someone has INTJ parent who always does best to prioritize family security, money etc etc an ESFJ parent who feels comfortable in grouos of ppl is strict , religious whatever but all in all is integrated in society w her FE dominant that is going to be a much different influence on kids than if you have the influence of istp & isfp ppl who usually find it hard for diverse reasons to integrate into society cuz of the personal issues they themselves go thru never mind when they simply don't find the adequate help & support. It can turn ugly for ppl w\ out resources to pay attention to regulate themselves & nobody does it alone so also some luck intervenes.
@lunkerjunkie2 жыл бұрын
I relate I refer to afraid to feel as the cultural illness thanks for being open about this
@roshalllambert2 жыл бұрын
Yayyy I am so excited for this series! I love Thais's personal shares! Few of her shares were relatable for me and made me tear up a little!
@monicamonica59242 жыл бұрын
Thais thank you so much! I'm FA and my journey just has begun
@sadiehaws17912 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story. Very insightful. I feel like this is me.
@LoveeeeelyM2 жыл бұрын
There is so much value in this for me. Thank you so so so much for sharing!
@nataliel21492 жыл бұрын
I adore this series idea, thanks so much Thais for being vulnerable and sharing, I know you’ve been wanting to do more personal shares for a while. It sets a great blueprint for us 💜
@expectabundance48862 жыл бұрын
This is fantastic! Amazing way to describe conditioning.
@4hinson7772 жыл бұрын
You're a gem Thais! 💎 Thanks for sharing. 🦋
@kaylus204212 жыл бұрын
This is amazing content ☺️ Thank you for sharing Thais 🤗
@AMY-jd7sk2 жыл бұрын
Thias, thank you so much for sharing from your personal experience and subsequent learning. So helpful 🙏
@colouredlioness21992 жыл бұрын
You are literally the best 💞🙏🏾🌻
@N8377L Жыл бұрын
This is great. Thanks!
@katiecharlton6120 Жыл бұрын
This is so beautiful xox
@lorirobinson46652 жыл бұрын
Can you talk about parenting as a fearful avoidant
@JustJRR2 жыл бұрын
❤️
@annaynely Жыл бұрын
There are ppl in the world that would have to access a whole different environment than the one they are in & surrounded by like for example a horrible diet R. Ramirez & so many others & so many other aces factors.
@sensualityandserenity50222 жыл бұрын
Inspired 🖤
@mag65212 жыл бұрын
I understand a lot of people call friends to feel relief?.. but what if you don’t have friends? And you don’t have any evidence to negate your negative thoughts? Please respond if you can ❤️ also thanks for sharing your journey and hope
@bettinacousineau48172 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@7one112 жыл бұрын
am i missing something? the emotional processing sheet i have only has 4 steps
@leolady81142 жыл бұрын
🥰
@gregorystinette82712 жыл бұрын
Bla, bla, bla, bla....All of this reflecting upon personal psychology reminds me of a dog chasing its own tail. Round & Round we go.......I'm glad I'm over it. Shalom