Feeling Protected and Providing Protection In Our Relationships (Ep.38)

[@jopurchase]

Loved this conversation and insight into how protection for/toward you actually isn’t necessarily physical. Looking forward to all the topics mentioned to be discussed 😊. Much love to you both ❤.

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

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[@andreonamclaurin6370]

I’m a straight female & love listening to yall‼️ The topics are on point. 💕

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thanks for rocking with us!

[@kellysnyclife663]

I'm straight too even tho I have had a few sexual encounters with women 😊 but yes I love the content

[@TheHeatInColorPodcast]

We're two gaymen and we definitely love to listen and support em ❤️

[@theolaross5767]

"I can't protect you if you won't listen" I felt that. ❤

[@sheilav5141]

Loving the consistency. ❤

[@mandylion8422]

Loved this conversation ❤. And I loved that you stated that a woman can embody the same qualities as a man when it comes to protection, it’s not limited to a certain gender.

[@faithmusser5219]

Awesome episode! The hardest thing for me to have learned is when to step in or not. For me if I'm in a situation that goes to physical it can make you feel disrespected like you can't handle your sh*** if they jump in front of you when it's that protective nature coming out. I've had to learn when to step in. My close friends know that I am on your six or beside you and all you need to do is give me the signal and it's go time. I've noticed that the mouthy aggressive ones generally are accompanied by others. There won't ever be 2 against 1 while I am there. I think we learn as we age when and how to pick our battles.

[@brianabellamy6176]

I need y’all to be my mentors! Us young studs need y’all OGs

[@dyshemaross]

As always I enjoy the conversation. I learn a lot by watching you all. Something big to me in relationships is feeling protected and safe because I didn’t have it a lot has a child. I am excited for what’s to come.

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thanks for sharing 🫶🏽

[@biggtk]

Btw, when you're about to fight men and feel like you are "leave your body" to observe the fight as it happens, this is called depersonalization, and it's very much associated with past trauma and PTSD. Great episode as always!

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

We appreciate your knowledge and input on this!

[@kellysnyclife663]

5:34 I LOVE THIS!!! SO SWEET!!

[@sarahbabyj61988]

Nelcia’s you’re a sweetheart and you definitely give your all when it come to anybody that gets to share a piece of your light

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Thank you Sarah!! ❤

[@sarahbabyj61988]

I love y’all and y’all know I’m flying if need be I’m going alway protect y’all. Y’all too good to ppl for ppl to play with yall.

[@sarahbabyj61988]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ 8:57

[@sarahbabyj61988]

12:21 keda your a super gentlewoman and that’s all love slim❤

[@donnaallick8209]

Great conversation like always hi. Can yall talk about gifting your female best friends when do you draw the line on gifts?

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Hey! We can definitely put it on the docket!!

[@donnaallick8209]

@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast thank you

[@mommafoxxdiaries6509]

I love how yall can be mushy towards each other without feeling pussy or whatever that’s genuine emotional safety and protection ❤❤💯

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Thank you 🙏🏾

[@mommafoxxdiaries6509]

@ 🫡🫡💯💯🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@sarahbabyj61988]

30:55 I look and roll the shit out my eyes

[@Justice2775]

Definitely enjoying the conversation I believe protection starts with intellect and how spiritually intuned you are with yourself ❤ keep up the great work looking forward to the next episode of yall dressing up 😅 I thought that comment was wild too lol

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thanks for rocking with us! 🙌🏽

[@billions8888]

They do go back

[@Rita30rage]

Love this ✌️

[@suavean2647]

Got it from my gran daddy walking on outside & opening door from inside of car 4 driver 👌

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

💪🏾

[@shinethreu]

31:19 facts

[@billions8888]

Over protection guilty 😔 😭

[@sarahbabyj61988]

27:49 I was like he got keda fucked up don’t play with her

[@HellaReckless]

Throwing up GD is crazy 😂😂

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

😂😂

[@HellaReckless]

@ funny asf lmao.

[@escapingmundane]

🤣🤣🤣Great pod 👍🏾

[@TheShellaSpherePodcast]

Thank you 🫶🏽

[@ReMi-ny4vn]

This episode is what's up! Would it be ok to send yall some lesbian merch to wear on the podcast?😢

[@NelciaofTheShellaspherePodcast]

Thank you for the support!!!

[@sarahbabyj61988]

❤

[@sarahbabyj61988]

Damn I feel you Nelcia

[@cranialropes]

❤❤

[@ObservingNdiscussing]

Lmao yo sister had a grand am…wtf is a grand am..we had a gold one back in the 90s…I always felt like I was cussing when I said it 😂

[@sarahbabyj61988]

Lmao 8:18

[@shantekajones2290]

❤❤