why is it so hard to live in the moment?

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Ruri Ohama

Ruri Ohama

10 ай бұрын

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@ruriohama
@ruriohama 10 ай бұрын
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@avraz.hawraz
@avraz.hawraz 10 ай бұрын
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@zoltanfabiansk5795
@zoltanfabiansk5795 10 ай бұрын
I registered to your coaching many weeks ago but never get feedback! Is it working only for someone or are you select only someones or?
@LavaCreeperPeople
@LavaCreeperPeople 10 ай бұрын
your life is slipping from your hands.
@evin572
@evin572 10 ай бұрын
wow you pretty 😍
@chemist_biologist
@chemist_biologist 10 ай бұрын
Dear Ms Ruri, can you please make a video about how to get accepted into med uni in italy
@ablakeslife
@ablakeslife 10 ай бұрын
They took my 20s, I’m taking my 30s! 😤
@LavaCreeperPeople
@LavaCreeperPeople 10 ай бұрын
ok
@feddy1103
@feddy1103 10 ай бұрын
ok 👍
@Sunflower_that_loves_you
@Sunflower_that_loves_you 10 ай бұрын
Goodluck !!! They took my teen years , I'm taking my 20s
@feddy1103
@feddy1103 10 ай бұрын
@@Sunflower_that_loves_you ok 👍
@UberBossPure
@UberBossPure 10 ай бұрын
Goodluck! They took my birth now i take their child
@humbleviewpoint
@humbleviewpoint 10 ай бұрын
'Depressed= living in the PAST. Anxious = living in the FUTURE. Only at peace in the PRESENT.' Great quote! Thank you.
@aryangoyal2303
@aryangoyal2303 10 ай бұрын
"You get depressed because you're living in the past. You're anxious because you're living in the future You're only at peace, when you live in the present." This line!!! It's so true!!!!! You never fail to make our life more and more good!!! Thank you for your effort and help ❤❤❤❤
@LavaCreeperPeople
@LavaCreeperPeople 10 ай бұрын
your life is slipping from your hands.
@lilshinobi7802
@lilshinobi7802 10 ай бұрын
Buddha enlightened that 2600 years ago.
@theendofdaysprophet
@theendofdaysprophet 10 ай бұрын
"Lose your life for my name's sake and you shall find it" says Jesus Just so much to explain here, but it works for me. 😊
@rimdick
@rimdick 10 ай бұрын
Оказывается и в Америке есть душные старики
@Blizzpoint
@Blizzpoint 10 ай бұрын
Actually a darn great line!
@ihavetubes
@ihavetubes 10 ай бұрын
“Our life is what our thoughts make it.” ― Marcus Aurelius
@montero034
@montero034 10 ай бұрын
The thoughts can hurt your much more than anyone or anything else could do
@AcidGlow
@AcidGlow 5 ай бұрын
*Be happy in life, that's all that matters. Our time is limited* 🙂⏳
@sayedhossainkingdom9255
@sayedhossainkingdom9255 10 ай бұрын
My life is unbalanced right now . Rejected from Turkiye burslari scholarship,fail in University entrance exam. Study in a subject and degree which I don't want. I feel broken.
@StevenMoreno06
@StevenMoreno06 10 ай бұрын
Force brother ❤❤❤
@sayedhossainkingdom9255
@sayedhossainkingdom9255 10 ай бұрын
@@StevenMoreno06 I just waiting for Romania scholarship results if It gone I will broken Completely.
@StevenMoreno06
@StevenMoreno06 10 ай бұрын
@@sayedhossainkingdom9255 hold on bro
@tupak5567
@tupak5567 10 ай бұрын
Stop waiting for the right moment cuz your life is happening right now 💯
@NajdiJoInspires
@NajdiJoInspires 8 ай бұрын
The right moment is now - don't sit and wait.
@chrisbunka
@chrisbunka 10 ай бұрын
As the Steve Miller Band says, “Time keeps on slipping into the future.” So fly like an eagle and enjoy the present. And as Ruri said, those healthy habits you develop in your youth will serve you very well when you need your health the most in a couple of decades. And cherish family and friends now because you will eventually lose them.
@HeroicEnglish
@HeroicEnglish 10 ай бұрын
In today's crazy fast world, living in the present takes real intention. Have clarity on what you want to do with your life, setting goals that makes sense, and making progress towards them will keep you motivated and happy. Ruri put it beautifully, it's your life, so paint it with your own colors. Embrace the now and live your best life. Cheers to being present and loving it! - Heroic English
@WyteChinpira
@WyteChinpira 10 ай бұрын
"You don't wanna kill yourself, You just wanna kill what's inside of you" Really makes you think and that we must internally fix our issues to achieve our true selves. ..If you ever feel stuck, Dont give up...Find a way out and find the motivation. Find what makes you happy. Whether you lost a partner, family member, Broke and starving find a niche that makes you happy thats healthy and stick to it and work on self motivation
@Christian-ve4bs
@Christian-ve4bs 10 ай бұрын
I can honestly say that your channel is the only channel that helped me change my life for the better
@GuadaSanzberro
@GuadaSanzberro 10 ай бұрын
So true!
@JustAn0therSoul
@JustAn0therSoul 10 ай бұрын
maybe you find even more help with jordan peterson 3 hours for the next 30 years video or any eckhart tolle video :)
@annaspeaks373
@annaspeaks373 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for posting right now. I just want to film a new video for my channel and all my neighbours drilling walls so I can’t say I am angry I am more than furious. So now I can watch your video and hope they will give me a time for filming.
@maximilianoventura7947
@maximilianoventura7947 10 ай бұрын
I’m a runner who has aspirations to do ultramarathons one day and recently my eyes have been open to a new way of looking at life like a race. Not a quick one but a very very long one. What Ive taken away from watching people run 100 mile races is that you don’t accomplish them by thinking of all the hard miles ahead of you, but instead by just being in the moment as you run. The journey of life is an even longer one and it can be much more fulfilling to live and embrace each moment rather than thinking about the hardships ahead of you. Might as well enjoy the time we have am I right
@chicozr
@chicozr 10 ай бұрын
Hi, friend. Did you know! I am also a runner. But I have some problems with myself. I'm trying to give up alcohol for the life of me, it's kind of hard for me right now. Watching these types of videos allows me to keep pushing my dreams and being a better person. I'm living my present and focusing on my own. Thanks for your message
@maximilianoventura7947
@maximilianoventura7947 10 ай бұрын
@@chicozr Thanks for sharing! Life can get rough sometimes but we have to remember that a brighter future is closer than we know it. I just know that God has great plans for your future. You just have to keep moving.
@kilika89
@kilika89 10 ай бұрын
Appreciate the final message in the end. Needed to hear this.
@walidheraz3309
@walidheraz3309 10 ай бұрын
The ending was so beautiful, thank you
@maifishinglife
@maifishinglife 10 ай бұрын
Thank you ! This video couldn’t come in a better time. Much appreciated.
@GuadaSanzberro
@GuadaSanzberro 10 ай бұрын
Thank you, Ruri 💜 I love your videos
@Anime-yz4fk
@Anime-yz4fk 10 ай бұрын
watching your channel for a long time, and you have actually changed me a lot thanks!!
@danielg3918
@danielg3918 10 ай бұрын
Love this video. It's so important to give yourself time to rest and recover
@JoyoMoyo
@JoyoMoyo 10 ай бұрын
Just found this channel yesterday.And I'm so happy I found it , helps me a lot!
@Vikoboi
@Vikoboi 10 ай бұрын
take care of yourself Ruri and lots of love! The same goes for all of you!
@Veins1
@Veins1 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for talking directly to me in this video. you are right, and I needed a reminder.
@valdidar
@valdidar 10 ай бұрын
So True, people are always happy in the future where they achieve their goals and don't enjoy the journey
@jarvis_plays
@jarvis_plays 10 ай бұрын
Your videos serves as rays of sunshine for people like me who are at the brink of losing hope in life. Thanksss🙂🙂
@davyxoEnglish
@davyxoEnglish 10 ай бұрын
thank you, i needed this
@flippinbeastIG
@flippinbeastIG 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the words of encouragement
@xevilman1
@xevilman1 10 ай бұрын
I cheer for you Miss O!
@cayplusconnects
@cayplusconnects 10 ай бұрын
Everyday is a gift that's why it's called the present. Staying in the moment, mindfulness and learning to say ‘no’ can help us get ahead in everyday life. Great share always from you, Ruri 🌅🌼
@aidandoesntknow
@aidandoesntknow 10 ай бұрын
This is just the video I need for my birthday Its really good, thank you
@BlueSpaceOriginal
@BlueSpaceOriginal 10 ай бұрын
This video came in the right moment, i was looking at the streets in the front of my house and thinking why i was not feeling alive and free the way i usually was. I think maybe it's a bit deeper than what the video is showing, in my case, but it definietly helped.
@italico2792
@italico2792 10 ай бұрын
For me it's really hard to not compare myself with others. I always compare and see that my life isn't the way I want and expected and I feel like I'd like to be in a relationship or go on holiday, or go clubbing but I feel very lonely. Thanks for your videos Ruri❤️
@charliehh7
@charliehh7 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for reminding me these things Ruri, I really needed it...
@mohamedabdullahi3187
@mohamedabdullahi3187 10 ай бұрын
Every video you upload is amazing ,thanks Ruri Ohama your tireless efforts .
@Blitz_Beast
@Blitz_Beast 10 ай бұрын
It's rare I find a person online i genuinely respect, whether i agree fully with them or not. I've gained motivation from your blunt vidoes recently and have pushed myself to deal with the pain of discipline and actually started working towards my goals, and rest can be a struggle to let myself have. I have the utmost respect for you, Ruri, and am very grateful for the time and energy you put into your content. Would be a massive pleasure if i ever ran into you someday. Thank you 🙏🫡
@MYTENGRIWAY
@MYTENGRIWAY 10 ай бұрын
TENGRI BLESSING YOU! LOVE YOU!💘🤍🇰🇿
@fjtahsin57
@fjtahsin57 10 ай бұрын
I really get motivated every time I see your valuable content on KZbin. However, it's really hard to see people talk about the actual fact of reality and how to execute that properly 😊
@asen-ghsonst
@asen-ghsonst 10 ай бұрын
I got the same feeling.
@KeithCarmichaelInFL
@KeithCarmichaelInFL 10 ай бұрын
Every time I make a choice, I make sure it's what I want to do. It has taken me decades of self evaluation to do so, but it's truly the BEST way to keep yourself happy! You wake up with yourself every morning, make sure your happy!
@tnxstaff
@tnxstaff 10 ай бұрын
Grazie Ruri ❤
@nl1318
@nl1318 10 ай бұрын
Well said Ruri!
@jaysaywaza8126
@jaysaywaza8126 10 ай бұрын
That was an amazing video,thank you so much! It help a lot!
@clau_sing_
@clau_sing_ 10 ай бұрын
That's something that worries me every single day
@zetristan4525
@zetristan4525 10 ай бұрын
Nice sharp ending!💥
@tomiziexd1779
@tomiziexd1779 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Ruri, you always help me
@mansoor3159
@mansoor3159 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so so much Ruri for making such a amazing contents for us and your videos are too too helpful to me in my life you are my inspiration and I wish you have a beautiful day💓🙂💫
@nec0x
@nec0x 10 ай бұрын
Its great to see you are now having 1 million subscribers and you know you will get to 2 million hopefully I believe in you :)
@muradprohere
@muradprohere 10 ай бұрын
thank you ruri 💜 this is a problem I wish to overcome
@SeanTheTitan
@SeanTheTitan 10 ай бұрын
I don't know how I found your channel but all your videos are exactly what I need, thank you.
@cherry1305
@cherry1305 10 ай бұрын
I can't even explain how grateful I am, thank you so much for your videos, you saved my life. literally. I found you when I needed help the most, I have suffered a lot with depression and trust issues, so much that I just can't control my thoughts anymore. I'm often being dragged into this vortex. Seeing you explain so many things leaves me in peace, kisses from Brazil ❤
@xoidace
@xoidace 10 ай бұрын
That thumbnail is way better. Progressing is resting and I have seen its effectiveness throughout the route that I am on. Struggling with overthinking is a quirk trait of mine. I have to take full ownership of it to manage that. Great video!
@tells934
@tells934 8 ай бұрын
Thank you for bringing me a smile on my face when i was feeling really bad and lost. Your content is always really good and we can see the hardwork behind it
@rawdave5554
@rawdave5554 10 ай бұрын
You’re a champ Ruri
@naveedsulemani54
@naveedsulemani54 10 ай бұрын
Love your personality
@diwanrai4352
@diwanrai4352 3 ай бұрын
Most of the time our thoughts don’t have meaning… just consuming energy and more frustration… nha let it go, just live in the moment Plan for the future, Live in the moment ❤😂
@travelmaker.
@travelmaker. 8 ай бұрын
I'm glad.. I found your channel. 😊🙏 I lost my life due to relationship break up. And by watching your videos, it made me realized how myself is important. I have to improve myself by doing what is best for me..
@stevenrix7277
@stevenrix7277 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for the video
@TAmmajak3139
@TAmmajak3139 10 ай бұрын
Don't live for someone expectations. So impressive!!!!
@kashulovesmusic3139
@kashulovesmusic3139 10 ай бұрын
Life can be in our own hands or others hands but our individual self and innocent self can decide what to do when to take action and what our ambitions and aspirations are to achieve and become our better version at last ma’am you are amazing you tube creator keep up your good and genuine work respect
@MrZorret
@MrZorret 10 ай бұрын
Personal sucess AND Happiness dont always come in the same time, thats the challengue of life good work, young girl
@ingenieriayconstruccion66
@ingenieriayconstruccion66 10 ай бұрын
Great tips Ruri
@olivenamoon3733
@olivenamoon3733 10 ай бұрын
God bless you ruri . Your videos are really helpful .
@chillappreciator885
@chillappreciator885 10 ай бұрын
And yeah, I forgot to mention, every time i see the preview with your face I think that you are beautiful human being. I see the amount of pain you endured and still going forward. Maybe I'm seeing myself
@arjungurung4195
@arjungurung4195 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for motivating ❤ big fan ❤
@syambethan6094
@syambethan6094 10 ай бұрын
so powerful word coming from powerful woman... ❤️❤️❤️
@hazemambie
@hazemambie 6 ай бұрын
sublime Ruri, as always
@songnana9281
@songnana9281 10 ай бұрын
It's been a while since the last time I watched your videos and for the beginning of this video, your makeup is so gorgeous!!!
@Roareyknocks
@Roareyknocks 10 ай бұрын
Ruri, you are a genius. You’ve seriously had a huge impact on my life. Domo Arigato! :)
@afsalmuhammad1857
@afsalmuhammad1857 10 ай бұрын
The last lines (conclusion) was very good.
@feverishchic
@feverishchic 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I almost give up for what i'm doing now.. when I watched your video I realized Im not alone.
@touleenx6206
@touleenx6206 9 ай бұрын
Thank you very much for your advice, I really needed it.
@suprabhdwivedi9207
@suprabhdwivedi9207 10 ай бұрын
❤️ thanks for the videos
@TheDoomer666
@TheDoomer666 10 ай бұрын
I fucking love you, Ruri ❤
@Swiftiee227
@Swiftiee227 8 ай бұрын
I can relate with u a lot... thankyou so much for this video, Ruri❤
@Andoniz1993
@Andoniz1993 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for your useful advices! Inspiring people the way you do is really remarkable. 💐
@murphy6700
@murphy6700 10 ай бұрын
As a long-time Zen Buddhist practitioner, you are absolutely on point. There is no moment other than this present moment. Learn from the past, prepare for the future, but live for NOW.
@murphy6700
@murphy6700 10 ай бұрын
PS Glad you're working out, too. That's part of the 'mental health/physical health' balance.
@melodyshortsmusic
@melodyshortsmusic 10 ай бұрын
True that's right thanks for being so nice content creator
@nikyabodigital
@nikyabodigital 10 ай бұрын
Ruri video quality is leveling up. Clearer camera, good background & good audio. Good equalization of music and vocals. In good volume too. Also cuts have been improved. It's not so noticeable now. A good listen to while working out. Inspiring gal.
@Chan-cm9do
@Chan-cm9do 10 ай бұрын
Ruri is improving herself more and more day by day. More quality Ruri vlogs are coming every day.
@aniopara
@aniopara 8 ай бұрын
Your videos are highly revealing and inspiring. Thank you and keep doing what you do.
@arturorueda2576
@arturorueda2576 10 ай бұрын
Your advices are wise and Vital, thanks😊
@Realtaolao
@Realtaolao 10 ай бұрын
Thank you and love your videos!
@zahraee
@zahraee 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for this video, I needed this🤍
@nono-cz1kq
@nono-cz1kq 10 ай бұрын
THANKS Ruri for this amazing and motivated video keep going
@JRLeeRadio
@JRLeeRadio 10 ай бұрын
Like your content!! plz keep it going~^^ and congrats on the 1 mil milestone!!
@digimei2143
@digimei2143 10 ай бұрын
thanks for this video, i should have known this 10 years ago. 😸
@mr.veryqqinteresting879
@mr.veryqqinteresting879 10 ай бұрын
It's all about having a vision, having a plan, and applying the plan everyday.
@funnytv-1631
@funnytv-1631 10 ай бұрын
Reflect on your life right now. Do you have enough alone time? Not loneliness, but solitude… spending quality time with yourself like you would with a best friend. Breathe in and assess the balance of time for yourself versus the time you give to others. Everyone will have a different balance. The question is - does yours match up in a way that feels right to you?
@ayushmourya2831
@ayushmourya2831 10 ай бұрын
Nice content Ruhi that's really happening 😢
@v2vvs
@v2vvs 10 ай бұрын
Let the past teaches you a lesson, Let the future remains mystery, And Let the present be the timeline we live 😁
@ryoj33
@ryoj33 10 ай бұрын
thank you every single of your videos i watched helped me a lot thank you
@melodyshortsmusic
@melodyshortsmusic 10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing very inspiring
@emillionzz
@emillionzz 10 ай бұрын
🙏🏽great video!
@ArieJelgren
@ArieJelgren 10 ай бұрын
Thanks. Love your channel)
@MattAgustin
@MattAgustin 10 ай бұрын
This video has such a beautiful underlying message, Ruri ❤ Sending you so much love and peace, my friend.
@ruriohama
@ruriohama 10 ай бұрын
Thank you Matt❤
@sobininim
@sobininim 10 ай бұрын
thanks really needed this topic from you
@Mratashi
@Mratashi 10 ай бұрын
Tank you ❤❤
@PersonalFeed-lx3ml
@PersonalFeed-lx3ml 7 ай бұрын
I know you for the first time today, thank god, your face made my day
@melitta703
@melitta703 10 ай бұрын
Good video!🎉
@KevinBitaraes
@KevinBitaraes 7 ай бұрын
amazing content, thank you !
@professorJorge11
@professorJorge11 10 ай бұрын
Your hair looks pretty
@domenichaberer5713
@domenichaberer5713 10 ай бұрын
i commented on the "stop wasting time" video that i personally didnt like the style of the footage and editing cause it felt (very professional but) less personal. not this time! this video felt super personal with the usage of own footage and more personal environment while still looking super professional! I really like it. independent from that, the topic and content of this video is great and actually very helpful thx!
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