Why Men Commit More To Cold Women - Ft Elliot Scott

[@cocoange3652]

Just date guys you don’t like, you will be doing these things naturally

[@zykira2010]

Pretty much

[@zainabrose96]

haha

[@WildAntics13]

Date at least someone you don’t like with money 😂you will be fine then hahahaha

[@Liz-dragon-street.]

😂😂😂

[@user-j1spswelskisj]

​@@WildAntics13😂😂

[@SheriCheri94]

So basically it’s all about manipulation. Good and bad. If you are too pure people naturally take advantage period.

[@Monicamoni912]

Absolutely 💯

[@steph6109]

I'd say predatory people will take advantage and men on average are more predatory than women. There's plenty of life examples where people could have taken from you but instead gave...those examples are normally women though.

[@SheriCheri94]

@@steph6109 all facts, and that’s why I get annoyed when some of these channels talk about divine feminine is the receiver, blah blah blah, yes if a man gives you money, a house, a baby, but what do you do? Turn the house into a home, deliver his child, use the money for practical things that the man can do what USE. So fundamentally masculines give so we can receive so we can give again 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@SR77736]

​@@steph6109 regular people take advantage too. Why? Bc nice people are conditioning them to take bc they give and those people are selfish.

[@softlife45]

Men in general are predators. they take advantage of whether you're hard to get or not. I've seen women who are hard to get, the man got her, bragged about it, laughed, told his friends, and cheated on her, lol.

[@northshorelight35]

If you’re dealing with a man like this then the answer is simple…he is not the one for you. Quit trying to figure out men. You are the prize. The one who is meant for you will be easy.

[@bonafide_forever]

👏👏👏👏👏👏

[@basshunter9018]

💯

[@danilaroche1156]

Even if he's the right one, it's never easy booboo.

[@musicbrazilian7065]

​@@danilaroche1156 Nothing you do will be wrong in the eyes of the man that likes and loves you. Unless of course you are loud n unlawful.

[@alishar9831]

Exactly , stop trying to figure them out , you don’t have to figure out the one who is for you and he will try to figure you out instead , omg ! Period .

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Women are filled with a kindness men will never have. A friendliness men will never adopt. That’s why she is so joyful and smiley. And i don’t blame her! He’s not in her life yet

[@blueblaze9862]

We love to have fun and be happy!

[@Sublimebutterflyy]

This depressed me 😢 basically me being nice got me abused

[@sibongilevirginiashabangu7102]

Hey babe, my advise, be nice and have a good heart it really sets you apart. But, do not over look disrespect. When someone continually disrespects you, hold them accountable then politely walk away.

[@Kris98863]

Sad but can be the case

[@henrietahaniskova1149]

Men who approach dating from transactional perspective end up with women who use them. Relationships are devotional, not transactional.

[@Fernandapazlolas]

Yes, that only works in avoidant and insecure attachment, and people who has them they'll never be totally happy in their relationships.

[@WildAntics13]

Girl 🤣 everything is transactional if you go for devotion in relationship you’re in the losing end men never approached relationship like that they always have goal in mind thats why when we sleep with them we suddenly attached men never get attached to anything unless they really like you! It’s better go with goal in mind especially for women

[@chloestewart1902]

BEING WITH MEN IS PERFORMATIVE

[@indy18286]

Jackie Kenndy said same NEVER LET PEOPLE KNOW WHAT YOUR THINKING!! she took many secrets to her grave..

[@lavenderkisses9461]

Yeah but I don’t know about her relationship advice.. looking at her own.

[@moonlightstargem1006]

I’ve become more cold in the recent years thankfully ❤now i am taking advantage of the people in my life who used to take advantage of me 😊

[@sarit4252]

Give the deets

[@danilaroche1156]

Nooo...

[@Cookiedesigns254]

LMAO same 🤣

[@AliyahHarvey1030]

Same❤

[@spiritwaves5112]

Same and I’m getting the benefits, it helps if the foundation(seeds) were pure

[@MiMi-rc1bv]

My advise, avoid those cold people in a partnership as it has nothing to do with love

[@fivemargaritasonly]

....men and women love differently. And people love complexity, being one dimensional doesn't bode well for any relationship.

[@suzanaandrade2125]

On point

[@kalimistakidou9103]

I recall asking my now ex about why things didn’t work out with his previous partner. When he cited that she was “too easy, “too submissive” I thought he was mad.

[@WildAntics13]

They like challenges

[@WildAntics13]

I have some male friends married they still flirts and cheat on their wife but they are Christian 🤣

[@sunnyvasic]

Yet, they say wife material is being submissive and agreeable...this is insanity

[@firstthings_first9828]

@@sunnyvasicThey want that when it’s convenient for them but they want you to always keep them on their toes as well

[@shawdeejay5408]

I am attracting the same type of guys but the thing is they are all acting so fake in the beginning . When I do see I’m getting played I get out of that situation real fast , I do not entertain it . Cut and dry I leave . So I don’t think it’s about attracting . There are toxic men everywhere ! You are going to attract them no matter what

[@jenbodhi1133]

Same situation here

[@Sheherhis]

This is true💯

[@Braveh3artGirl]

Freaken love that you added Elliot Scott. He knows what he’s talking about

[@gabrielar9611]

He is saying what Sheraseven does. That relationships are transactional, he’s just saying it based on attraction (mens perspective). She says it based on money…Play the game.

[@BecomingaQueen]

I agree. I do mamy character analysis on those dark, mysterious women and I confirm. Sadly, men cheat on those good girls

[@falcons9659]

Ladies, you wanna be happy and be with a man who completely adores you? Pick the man you can be a total dork with and who LOVES you for it. Better yet, be with a guy whom you can have farts (even smelly ones) and who would laugh and love you more. I tried out all these manipulative tactics and in the end only attracted men who were also emotional fuckwiths . And then i decided to love myself and let a man love the real me, and got married within 9 months. Still happily married. And i realise how i would have never been happy with those assholes i'd played games with

[@SpiritualSupply]

Thank you Father Alex. Thanks to you I overcame my depression after toxic relationship. You helped me to build myself back up. I was single for a long time. Now I am in happy relationship. I owe you a lot.

[@SpiritualSupply]

Could you please make more videos on how to apply your advice in long term relationship please.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Honestly, I'd never think about long term or short-term relationships when I make these videos. So I think they apply to long-term relationships as well

[@SpiritualSupply]

@MindfulAtrraction2.0 Yes I can see as I'm watching 12:26 I coooollld 😅

[@steph6109]

You two should do a collaboration. Saving women by day, fanboying over anime by night.

[@circulatetheapp3747]

Guys don’t lie better, they lie more. My opinion based upon experience. Great advice overall though. 💯

[@bubbles11262]

This is why I’m not dating anymore. Too many f**king mind games and gray areas 🙄

[@Jubilee_BX]

The key is to honor your feelings. When a man tests you or does something you don’t like don’t be afraid to be upset, speak up for yourself then distance yourself. Men are going to do and say things that you don’t like. The problem is that typically when women like men they give them passes on their bullshit. Don’t give them any passes. Put them in check every chance you get. Don’t make anything easy for them. No matter how much you like them make them work for your affection and prove themself to you. Only accept them back and become warm towards them after a sincere apology and changed behavior.

[@blinqeyelashhouston9702]

Yea it’s not even fun anymore….cant get attached to ANYBODY…..and I really got tired of playing the game……so unfortunate as things were not this complicated not even 10 Years ago…….its terrible

[@RJK1647]

I love Elliott Scott too. He keeps it real And father Alex. These men we are dating don't stand a chance 😅😅

[@katherineamarante7133]

Thank you for looking out for us women and seeing the drastic edge men have, when it comes to knowing our part in the dance

[@shanimaker6281]

Games Games Games Games Games Game Games Game Games Game Games games games what ever happened to true connection and organic flow when getting to know one another❤

[@therealamymoss]

You can have true connection and be in the flow and still not show all of your cards, be mysterious and control your emotions. It’s a fine balance. It’s more emotional intelligence and control. Otherwise, you’re just handing over your power. Period.

[@karasmusic123]

Our great grandparents went through the Great Depression and were emotionally disconnected and had to focus mostly on survival. They birthed the Boomers (the Me Generation), and they were emotionally disconnected from their kids and invalidated a lot of them, and a lot of us have trouble with trusting people and being vulnerable and close to each other. And now a lot of us are living out generational trauma and attachment wounds.

[@WildAntics13]

It’s always a game girl no matter how good you think he is 🤣. So you need to make sure your not in the losing end ! Men goes to relationship with goal in mind women sometimes dont we value nurture relationships that’s why we lose! I learned better if you don’t wake up the bitch and your always the yes girl with no goal in mind you won’t get what you need ! Bitch era baby 🤣

[@rbenoit1978]

Look outside the US

[@hollypataky4755]

Hey Alex, good educational video. When I was saving up $ to buy my Corvette, I couldn’t wait to purchase her. She truly is my baby and really respect and take great care of her 🏎️. Having to work hard for something makes you appreciate it more.

[@cheekytitaable]

I think it would be helpful if you could provide more detailed guidance and examples of how women are to manage and express anger in a variety of contexts and scenarios. Women have been taught to internalize certain emotions and making it hard to process these concepts

[@jaelyngold2475]

Hi there, He does explain this but in his other videos. He states through meditating we can balance our emotions. So instead of acting on impulse or saying something in the heat of the moment. Take a step back, take a few breaths and begin meditating. Honestly, one should meditate every night. It does help. I have done this before, without even knowing really much about it in terms of relationships and it helps with staying completely calm. Sometimes it helps with the mysterious side too. More often than not, when my past partners wanted to always call or chat with me, I’d always tell them I’m busy, because I REALLY was busy. I never told them why but I was meditating. I learned to do this by going to a retreat a few years ago and did this well before even dating. Believe me it helps a lot.

[@shaybae111]

And if meditating doesn’t work, I’d you need to release… try journaling out screaming in a pillow 💚

[@vannamarie8430]

Maybe try asking advice from a woman how to manage emotions. Men do not have the answer to our issues, because they have never been a woman!

[@sophien5416]

Just express yourself. As long as you are respectful with how you express your anger, then why can't it be expressed? Don't hold it in. It's when we hold it in then let it boil over and manifest itself into pettiness and drama is when anger becomes a problem. Happily married 10 years!

[@Miss_hells_bells]

I'm so happy you did a video with my second fave, Elliott Scott.

[@steph5181]

You don't get angry enough and you need to control your emotions... WHICH IS IT???

[@kataraalsh]

you firstly need to control ur emotions, so you will be respected for getting angry over sth

[@jiyeonkim9862]

To me, showing anger means that you imply your decisiveness and willingness to execute. You must control your emotions regardless of any circumstances (more likely negative emotions) but allude that you have power.

[@brooklynsdiary]

Men chase colder women, but I don’t typically see men marry cold women but that’s just what I’ve seen in my world I could be wrong

[@WildAntics13]

Because good girl 🤣 they can used them more 🤣.

[@kikio-rq9kx]

I didn’t even know a cold man can commit to anyone and if he stays with you, it’s your lose.

[@i7abella]

It doesn’t always work like this that I would have to say “I don’t know where this is going” and “one day it will end”. I think the best advice would be to be authentic and in order to become authentic we need to work on our healing and on our character. And I haven’t even mentioned spirituality and God. Cause God is actually real and has a specific plan for our lives..so He also has a chosen spouse! ..but I agree with a healthy anger part you mention! That speaks to me..have to be truthful and have to push each other towards growth too.

[@maryremke5215]

Best influencer on You tube....love your videos. So proud of you Alex ❤

[@mlodziuchna]

OMG Father Alex and Elliot on the same video! The world is so small. I love you both. I am surprised :D

[@Fernandapazlolas]

That only works on unhealthy insecure and avoidant attachment, and trust me, you dont want a guy who has and insecure or avoidant attachment. Guys and girls who have secure attachment wont tolerate this kind of actions, cause their self esteem is sane, and they know what they deserve. Guys who feels the girl they likes theyre being too "cocky when showing real affection is cause they have a trauma bond, and they feel scare cause at the end they unconsciously think they dont deserve that love. Yep, go and study a little of psychology please.

[@sunnyvasic]

You're right, my friend has a bachelor'sin psychology and she said men marry women who have the same energy or attachment style as their mothers. Whatever that attachment may be

[@Jubilee_BX]

Good point

[@sheneeanthony8187]

This is why there is a lot of GREAT SINGLE WOMEN SMDH. I am dizzy just listening to this video lol. I can not! God bless frfr ✌🏽☮🙏🏽💫

[@RiaSouthernBelle]

I love how you explained this

[@narcisoanasui246]

I’m not gonna lie, when I first found your videos I didn’t like them and I thought they were to extremist and maybe a little misogynistic, but after watching a few of your videos I’ve grown to like your perspective and input as it seems to come from a place of objectivity and honesty. Respect. Maybe I’ll subscribe..l

[@CosmicGlowUP]

i love seeing both of you together.. i watch both your channels and you guys are so funny

[@KomalJhaOnline]

Elliot is so good 👍🏻 All his videos are so helpful. Also, he looks positive !!!!

[@kaeli1983]

The cross over I needed!

[@spearmint4093]

I hate this slowness. I always fail. It's too hard

[@kayyy.beeeee6173]

I’m 100% ok with being single. I have a very sweet nature and cannot be cold.

[@AnnretaPalo-fx2ff]

This is one of your best videos. Thank you.

[@lightofall]

Grown men shouldn't be boyfriends. It's to see if he is husband material...

[@BilliBBrittany]

Bottom Line, focus on your damn self.

[@chiomalovelyn]

Am wiser and smarter listen to you. You are saving good girls by the day

[@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic]

Great advice ☀️💯

[@LulyNo1]

I appreciate you so much ❤

[@Monicamoni912]

Thanks a million Alex i really needed this ❤

[@silvana7139]

I wish I had you guys 30 years ago!!

[@jenniferarzadon2525]

Great advice alex thank you so much 👍❤️

[@irenedagostino9203]

I actually totally disagree sorry…. You can’t build a relationship on manipulation. Build boundaries and don’t be desperate simple wtf

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

Good video, Alex. Thanks

[@irenedagostino9203]

So I mustn’t be who I am ? Fun happy smiley etc ?!?? Bullshit

[@leahleon_]

I agree. Most describe my presence as positive and bubbly. Why should I not shine bright right? But - in a different video Alex was going over the art of simply being still, waiting for the right moment, making eye contact, fallowed by a slight gesture. I use that move at bars, night settings ect.. as a woman who loves to talk and has high energy, I get my point across and the attention + respect I want from men during outings. Hope this made sense 👌🏽

[@waterlilynymph]

Girl, you keep doing you 😊 Honestly if you are happy and full of warmth and life, it gets you more attention in a room-and with the right men for you 😉

[@TM-nb9zf]

Love me some Elliot

[@moonlightstargem1006]

Thank you Father Alex as i need this advice when i was in my 20’s. I made a lot of mistakes. I had no proper mother to teach me about love and men. And she is a mess herself. She’s still drunk crying over my dad. What a loser ugh 😑

[@blending_in]

that's harsh

[@Mo.1988]

Like mother like daughter. How dare you speak on your own mother like that.

[@Nana-vb8tm]

Disrespecting your mother for the world to see.

[@ssmith8758]

Bahahaha, ice queen over here still waiting for my ring…😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

[@emilymckissack6530]

Ditto & thanx .

[@karasmusic123]

Match his energy.

[@sassyjanne]

Your videos are fire!

[@Monicamoni912]

Like you're at a business meeting 😂

[@unlikerjm]

Or im closing the channell😂😂😂🎉

[@rawfit12424]

Hieee, Daluxxx!

[@mmommo-hx4dx]

loved that one

[@suzanaandrade2125]

Few words...man are eternal child and immature

[@mattanderson6672]

Thanks

[@MyrEli1117]

I agree 💯

[@RainbowBandana]

Once he said lions dont hid in bush's yal should immediately know this shit is stupid! Mountain lions stalk by hiding in bushes goofy

[@raziahzaman996]

Kinda ironic these single men giving relationship advice. Like what do you even about healthy long term relationship if you didn’t have one.

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

What do you know about help me recover from my heart attack if you never had a heart attack? Says the patient to the heart surgeon

[@raziahzaman996]

⁠@@MindfulAttraction2.0whatever helps you sleep at night sweetheart. I’m not trying to end up single for a lifetime. It’s just ironic how there is a solid relationship you have obtained to give an example from is what I was referring to. But it is what it is. Sending you love.

[@leahleon_]

I’ve built and increased my credit score with just one simple move. I recommend to my peers that they do the same. My advice was thorough, as it inevitably works; but since doing so, my credit score has fallen. Why? Bc of my instability in other areas of life. Therefore as a result of dating experiences Alex has ground to speak. He didn’t title the video ‘HOW TO GET MARRIED TOMORROW’ 😅😊

[@raziahzaman996]

@@leahleon_ cry me a river

[@leahleon_]

@@raziahzaman996 I will if you say please next time😊

[@sarahholleran6230]

Shit, I already did it! 😭 (professed he is MY type! 😭 😭 😭)…then he went cold 🥶!! 😢 a like once a week now.

[@sarahholleran6230]

Golden dik lmao 🤣

[@bettydamalis]

this guy just paraphrasing your teachings father alex

[@ctymensma]

As long as people are slave of their ego this is one of te results. Just cut the bullshit and live i would say. Enjoy life and do not be such a slave of fear or whatever. Be honoust.

[@EriPages]

This is dopey. This is for women who are trying to marry a guy they dont actually like. Nobody behaves this way with a person they actually like.

[@tamaraford6634]

Love these reaction videos! Keep them coming

[@winxclubstellamusa]

How does Kristen Stewart have an RBF? Her neutral face looks sad, not angry.

[@sunnyvasic]

Alex, please offer your input on these men on KZbin saying they only marry women you are submissive and feminine and quiet, who dont speak up for themselves...what would they think of this advice?

[@munchkinsophie]

take their money and make them invest in you

[@Kellychu.yourbaddie]

Thank u

[@miranda3774]

10:55 lmao 😭😭😭

[@MoonFoxSassy]

😍 Elliot is so fine. Daddy af.

[@LulyNo1]

You are too funny 😂

[@jeffbridges8681]

How can coldness be appealing years down there line? All it does is work short term based on insecurities.

[@AndreaSanchez-bw4ic]

Agreed !! 💃🏽🕺🏽

[@babyGirl32824]

Do you still offer your course nice girl?

[@MindfulAttraction2.0]

Yes

[@babyGirl32824]

@@MindfulAttraction2.0 I couldn’t find it on the site

[@dominique7269]

Melissa the psycho 😂😂

[@leahleon_]

She gives great advice 👌🏽🤣

[@zaazletsgo1944]

Eh. And Next we have the Robots. I wonder how long their KZbin videos will be. Telling us how to be at least Human. 😊

[@ariana2523]

THE RUMBLING LMAOO

[@iaynaushr3166]

5:03 5:03 💯

[@moniqueford9173]

Or I’m closing the channel lol

[@QueeninMe]

111❤

[@lindalauraxoxo5771]

✨💃🏼🌴💜

[@Monicamoni912]

😂😂😂

[@ariana2523]

Alex close your tabs

[@viviileee]

He’s a tabs guy and I’m a tabs girl 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@silvacleo329]

Why he so agrasive and emotional in the way he's talking and explaining. He gives me a headache... Like, chill...

[@mistery2055]

Alex teaches good things, but im not gonna lie that he gives of dusty vibes

[@megabearhugsYT]

Thank u for the content!

[@Brattynsassy]

😂😂😂😂