Why Men Respond To Distance (Why He Pursues YOU When Distant)

[@gerberdaisy2388]

I've been married for 31 years, and believe me - distance completely WORKS!!

[@yvetteowens-battle6699]

Yes, sometimes I distance myself from my husband. He comes home behaving like I want.

[@naturalcurlyhair8331]

That's what I' m talking about.

[@sophiaafrah3530]

R u sure ?so u mean i shd be patient he will luk for me?because its now coming to a year we I'm away but luks for me through my family members

[@trinapedro1140]

Thanks I've been pursuing him and he always dumped me 😢

[@luxuryqueen42]

Robyn Gibson - can you explain why that works? And congrats on 31 years married 👍

[@wfdy8333]

"FOCUS ON YOUR OWN LIFE AND YOU WILL BE HAPPIEST WOMAN"

[@marah3298]

Men want mystery, the chase, and a challenge all wrapped into one! They don’t respond to contact. They respond to the no contact rule.

[@TijuanaK]

*slow clap*

[@dionnesan6606]

Perfect wording ..

[@micaw7791]

Yes

[@dianneciresi6324]

Dumb stupid ego mind games. So what else is left? You're boring & too needy if ur too available..? But isn't it good to know ur partner or the one who loves u is someone who'll always have ur back & "be there" for u ? Crazy way to have a descent relationship..

[@Queentc188]

Distance is harddddd when all you wanna do is talk to him/her 😢

[@jasminemendez2214]

I'd prefer a guy that texts me consistently and checks up on me, makes effort to see me and I will mirror his effort back. Distance is a turn off, eventually I forget about the guy and move on to someone that actually gives me attention, I want to feel loved, not like an after thought

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you for sharing, so appreciated!

[@biblelovingirl]

I agree I'd rather have someone who's interested in me without me having to act that I'm not interested in them LOL. I would like a guy who is consistently my friend and my beloved. Someone who cares enough to check on me and walk out this life with me. It seems that it may take men longer to get to this point where they're matured enough to desire someone who truly desires them

[@iamvenus7897]

I have done the distance technique only when I felt he was becoming complacent and not making efforts. Then I did the good ol' "boy, bye!" and severed ties and he never became complacent again!! Its been 15 months since we got "back together" and every so often I'll let him feel a bit worried about my commitment to him and he has been on point and gives me full attention! All the time! We've been together 5 years now and, until I started doing this distance technique 18 months ago, he took me for granted. Not anymore. He moved me in, spoils me rotten and talks about marriage now all within the last 15 months.

[@Dlovely516]

@@iamvenus7897 Exactly!! THIS is what he means. It's not playing games it's taking care of YOU first. Simply just having a life, and if you are together just always remain into "you". SOME Women do get clingy and either want a LOT of attention or they always overdo it GIVING to Him. Real Men want to give to YOU. Some men naturally take you for granted because they know they "HAVE YOU" and you just have to "jolt" them back. Challenge them again. Bring that mystique. That's normal. Vice versa. I am glad it worked for you. Blessings.

[@avantiiresha6687]

He is right.. I know many very handsome and good quality guys crazy after average looking women... just because these women are nice and sweet but they don’t put the guy on pedestal on the contrary they make those guys believe they are lucky to have her... 100% agree with Alex on this putting yourself on pedestal but still be nice to guys

[@allisonbennett9209]

Ladies, never make them get too comfy. After our child, i lost weigh,opened my company, went back to school...My husband doesnt know who the hell iam anymore. He used to put me down. 🛀🐎💪🌋💆🌴💃🍹🚀

[@thipimotsoare4228]

This is inspiring... After giving birth m doing this

[@christinecarlos7316]

NOTES: Important book: The Science of Influence by Robert Chargini People value what they don't have. 1) Distance makes you a challenge. Be a challenge. 2) Put yourself on a pedestal. Give yourself importance. 3) Women are usually needy. Women should use distance. Don't play games. You won't play games-- but you will really FOCUS on your OWN life. Do the things you want to do. Love yourself & live a fabulous & happy life. Merci Alex!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you :-)

[@juliecc78]

I've checked out the book. Is the author's name Robert Chargini or Cialdini🙂

[@lisalida6233]

@@juliecc78 "CIALDINI" I believe...

[@nofybn7794]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert It isn't needy. It is basic human decency, courtesy and RESPECT!! RELATIONSHIPS ARE BASED ON COMMUNICATION!!

[@Apricot90]

@@nofybn7794 Yes and no... endless communication is boring, tiring and can be a total lust killer.. Humans need also some good mystery, surprises and adventure aka challenges.. That is what life is about.

[@QueenChastity]

Ain’t nobody got time to make sure they are chawed all day. You either want Me or you don’t. Simple.

[@uneekonfleek3523]

🤣🤣🤣

[@laraking804]

Chastity B. Well said. I’m not into mind games. I’m not going to play that shitty hot/cold game. I’m looking for a grown ass man - not a child.

[@StandupGirl-ym3ey]

Yessssss

[@adopt-a-pet-istanbul]

Word.

[@marah3298]

I’m waiting for a man who isn’t afraid to show interest and who pursues me

[@mizzleefromsa3493]

I'm the prize, I'm putting myself on a pedestal💕

[@keniasharpe1610]

Distance makes the heart grow fonder

[@mstyles2667]

Not in reality. In fantasy world, maybe. But in reality people MOVE ON.

[@birgitvonderburg2097]

Out of sight out of mind.

[@lollylolly7828]

@@mstyles2667 true!

[@tinaworrell6818]

@@birgitvonderburg2097 Not all the time..and it depends on how wrong fillings are

[@tinaworrell6818]

And how much that person ment to each other

[@tayyabamehboob3330]

Omg it worked... I didn't text /call him.. Next morning at 6 am. He called me for 15 times that where r u? Say that you love me... Hahaha. He was the guy who used to say that he is always busy...

[@nukalilou6767]

Tayyaba Mehboob 😂😂😂busy where sis?

[@chickedeedee292]

How long will his attention last? Drop him , the guys an immature player

[@hgfw9295]

Distance is about being busy with life. For mature ppl not responding straight even with a short "will get back soon" is the only proper response. Just be busy and honest

[@Donshani7]

CURRENTLY SITTING ON MY PEDESTAL AND LOVING IT ☺️☺️

[@ashtynnbaltimore4594]

Donshani7 haha

[@happinesspat1]

Yes true.. now that I'm distant to him and of course it's natural he is chasing me all the time..Tables are turned!!!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

:)

[@Shtotagdetotryot1]

Same, he won’t leave me tf alone

[@lyneadetyfitness]

@@Shtotagdetotryot1 😂😂😂

[@fairyfar6344]

He calls me everyday but only when he has time not when I am available!! Should I go distant

[@megja1812]

This guy has a kind gentle heart and doesn’t make you feel like the way you are is wrong Iike Matthew Hussey

[@kimle3101]

Omg it's so great to know I'm not the only one who felt that Hussey was always blaming the girls.

[@LeahJustyceArtGallery]

Just live your life ladies for you. Otherwise you are chasing games, that's the common thing with relationship advice. Play the game to get the man or just live your life and stop worrying about the man. As it would happen then you get the man lol. Just laugh and have a great life hey xxxxx

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Exactly!

[@patriciaearley4177]

👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌👌

[@titusapril75]

So true

[@nawynerwy6430]

Get you lost

[@laurynnguku3580]

Leah Justyce Artist thank you for this

[@jenny_boo9575]

His message is good! But his accent is wonderful lol

[@chileshebwilya8967]

And he's GORGEOUSLY Handsome.

[@HD-Australia]

And his shoulders are wonderful

[@Georgiana958]

is he french ?

[@carolloraine223]

Game playing!! Too much work! Jeeeeez!! Happy to be Single!!

[@TenVeils]

😂😂😂😂

[@Shay4YourMind81]

I totally agree!!!

[@gordanagorscak3334]

I agree, this is simply just game playing. What he is saying, it's not healthy at all.Rather than a man be happy and appreciate that you love him, now he feels that he's secure and can distance himself? Now that just sounds immature.he is speaking from a different layer of psychology and unfortunately the reality of the thought process of narcissist. His title should be"how to keep your narcissist happy and wanting you"bulshit I say. Yes, better to be single and very happy I am to

[@lollylolly7828]

Me too carol!

[@nofybn7794]

YES!!

[@nasinandi4521]

You are very right...let him know that he doesnt own your happiness

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you Vanilla!

[@karenkyanja4686]

%

[@idonthaveaname3924]

All u need is Selfworth and a Life with actions without a man! That’s all !!!

[@Dlovely516]

That is all. Best thing a woman can wear is confidence

[@DianPG.85]

And that's all jajajaja

[@judithhaven8820]

I will commit to putting MYSELF on a pedestal: not him 😁

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I love this comment!

[@nataliaemanuel64]

You are so right. I am keeping the distance and I feel good about myself. If he really loves me, I believe he will be back, if not he is not the one for me. Again, I am focusing on me!.

[@Pursuepeace0715]

very good advice "I am a Queen", " my body is a temple "(cant give my energy and time to a loser who is after one thing) and I "put myself on a pedestal" and I not only am "I worth it" but "putting tax on my self worth" let the congregation say amen!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you for your support!

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

amen! ;)

[@Articulated84Beauty]

Amen amen amen! 🤍

[@kimmichaud4064]

I'm sick of men's childeness and immaturity they only want you when you go away second video in a row I saw saying the same thing

[@maureenkam9212]

I have always put myself on a pedestal.

[@Hollylovesbeauty7]

Does it work?

[@psikologjiashqip]

I don't think so... Me too. And I'm lonely. No body likes indipendent self sufficient girls

[@cindyg3396]

Because men always want what they can't have. I do not want my ex back!

[@kyvministries]

Giving him sex (outside of marriage) is giving away our essence with no solid commitment. So while you give awesome advice, I believe the sexual intimacy piece should be reserved for marriage. And even then we should continue to put ourselves on a "pedestal"

[@vburke92]

Marriage = prison. Not living without sex either.

[@juliecc78]

I agree... But it's difficult or pointless if one is not religious. Guys will just move on to the next chick who is willing to give it up. He won't stick around for long or he may not have sex with u and appear to be in a commited relationship while he's sleeping with someone else.

[@vburke92]

@@juliecc78 they do that married or not.

[@sharonbroward2265]

My ex was banging trash right after we married and never stopped. You are correct. @@vburke92

[@kyvministries]

To each her own...religion aside...we make soul connections/ties when we sleep with men. Creating soul ties with a smorgasbord of souls contributes to so much of the dysfunction we see today. A lot of the mental health issues, insecurities, never really getting the love we truly want, the rampant mysandry...not to mention the physical consequences... STDs, baby murder (in and outside the womb), children out of wedlock... and I'm just scratching the surface. We are all fallen creatures. So any kind of relationship could be a major risk. That said waiting for marriage with a solid, vetted partner...will cut down the list considerably. Bottom line...we are supposed to guard our hearts. Self preservation through healthy boundaries is not a religion thing...it's a wisdom thing

[@sharonraquel2669]

Merci beaucoup! I have been living a busy life. The key for me has been making a list of things I want to do and start doing them alone. I save NOTHING for what I "could do one day" with a man. That's why I don't feel the need to lean on or wait on a man. Romance is the inside layer of icing. My life is the CAKE!😁🍰

[@faithjemo2416]

Finally my man is bck... He started the chat and we doing good!! Have been following your Advices. Live Long Sir

[@jennifermckinley7720]

The only problem with the waiting game or play distance, is that can backfire on the man. Coldness from a woman can mean a loss of interest or she has started to look a field...

[@leefray973]

Spoiler Alert...the right ONE will not play these games. They will want to be with you period! They won’t leave you because they actually want your company and won’t risk losing you to someone else 🤷‍♀️

[@ivylillace]

😂😂😂😂😂😂spoiler alert for sure😅😅😅

[@jenniferlorence185]

That is correct; The Right ONE will Not Play Games with the Woman he Loves.

[@celestehaynes8261]

Thank you Alex!!!! I put myself on the pedestal!!!! The guy who I will call the non committal guy (NCG).. Has been on my phone and has been calling, texting and checking my FB page because I put the DISTANCE between us! This is not a game. This is a strategy to validate my own life and love myself and Mr. NCG is very interested and chasing me. Alex, I'm more focused on living my best life now instead being focused on loving him! It's been almost a year with Mr. NCG and after I started using DISTANCE , he practically wants more of me - and not just physically! Thank God for the Strategy of DISTANCE! I put myself on the pedestal and now he is trying to climb up with me! Thanks ALEX !!! You are the man!!!!

[@ruzazebeljan4978]

Well, in my 44 years I have become most important to me. I love myself first. And I enjoy ☺

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I love this comment :-)

[@ariananails]

I am on the pedestal. He’s the one who pursues me. He is constantly pursuing me because of his love for me

[@kibuladesire8019]

This method of keeping distance is working 99%.... Many thanks Alex.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

So glad this has helped you. Thank you for your support.

[@joanliazyn6772]

You never fail me Alexandre with your advices. You are such an awesome coach ever! 👏🏼

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much!

[@mbalipambo7364]

Put myself on a pedestal not him. 👏

[@TheDDreamTeam]

Your accent makes me happy even when I'm depressed!! 😊😁 Great video!! 🤗

[@leonaj.5835]

Coming from a non-western (Asian) culture, I can apply your tips in my own life successfully without losing my identity, femininity nor compromising my beliefs, culture & values. All I can say Alex, is that ALL of your videos are far superior compared to the ones made by other male dating experts that I watched here on KZbin. Most of them teach women how to CHASE MEN, LOWER PERSONAL STANDARDS & just settle with men who will respond to their chase and pursue superficial, temporary, unhappy relationships- all of which I find incompatible with everything I am. YOU, on the other hand, make men naturally pursue women for committed & genuine relationships by sincerely giving us logical, practical & effective advise. We learn how to love & value ourselves first and in the process of gaining self-respect & self-worth, we attract great men that value & love us too. Thank you for being a voice of reason!

[@nancymedeiros8477]

Distance makes your heart grow fonder. Thank you for your advice for how to deal with people that are too needy and want everything to happen in your life. First that i need to take care better of myself before i get back into an relationship.

[@jenniferstarotpositivefree]

Next Relationship I will put myself on the pedstal because I am a Queen

[@mamaytin5792]

This time I choose ME ❤ Thank you for your wonderful advice, no more games, just enjoy life, just happy being ME ❤🇵🇭

[@83loveanimals]

He usually pulls away for a couple of days after we are intimate...so I have learnt to distance myself to make him chase me again.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Be careful with this type of behavior from a man!

[@jessicagordon7523]

@Alex, what is the reason for men pulling away after intimacy? If anything, it's prepared many single women

[@mstyles2667]

You are being PLAYED and at the same time playing games. You are losing from both sides. Kick him to the curb, you look like a fool.

[@baileydrayden5840]

Vale M do not give him sex

[@83loveanimals]

He has changed now and doesn't act distant after we make love. What i meant for distant was like still texting but not chasing.

[@kenyanaw.3108]

Yes🗝...putting myself on a pedestal...not him!!! Thanks Alex💗

[@firstladyqueen5985]

I am putting myself on a pedestal! 😍😊

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

:)

[@Mimes.emancipation.]

I promise I will put myself on a pedestal Papi ♥️

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I like it :-)

[@Mimes.emancipation.]

😏♥️

[@firstladyqueen5985]

I am putting love and energy to myself. I am Not telling a guy i love him. I will keep my mouth shut from now on! 🤐

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I agree, it's healthy to put love and energy into ourselves.

[@firstladyqueen5985]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert i was just quoting what you said..😊

[@lisaottomann2396]

I love going home to my own place after 3 days with him- it feels so good!!

[@chelseyf3081]

Such good advice! Youre right its NOT a game. We women should ACTUALLY be busy and distant because we should be working on our own goals and living our lives outside of men. Ty for sharing such valuable information that some people dont want to hear since it challenges the ways they've gone about dating in the past. It's never too late to level up, ladies. Lol

[@shiryloba-ob3048]

I watched and followed your advices and it really works for me.. especially the no contact rule. I was the one whose very needy before, but now, the situation changed, he keeps calling and texting me and wondering Why i dont answer right away unlike before.... I realized, you just have to be confident with yourself and love yourself more... Thanks alex!!! - Shiryl Dawn

[@miqueorque]

Its so hard to see myself as a treasure, after leaving an abusive relationship. But, I am with a good guy now and think some distance would help. :)

[@crazybear4602]

I was trolling KZbin this morning at 6am, and found your channel. I have watched a lot of relationship videos, but yours have resonated with me the strongest. I've been single for years and for whatever reason i just cannot get men to notice me at all romantically. I feel like I always end up "one of the dudes" or worse...invisible. I'm sure it's how I am projecting, but not sure how to identify or change that. Your videos have made sense though and given me some things to work on. Thank you!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I'm so glad to hear that my videos have been helpful. Thank you for being here!

[@xuzuyonkyonk5029]

Yes✌ when I find the one, I'll make sure to put myself on the pedestal :D Noted👍Thanks a million for your videos 😇💕🙏

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

wish you the best!

[@xuzuyonkyonk5029]

@@FrenchRelationshipExpert thank you so much! :-)

[@nontobekolondekamanqele4266]

Hey Alex, love your channel from Johannesburg in South Africa. Distanced myself this past weekend after feeling like I was taken for granted, Sunday night I deleted his number then on Wednesday evening he texted me saying we need to talk. I guess being too available for a man makes him take you for granted but the moment you pull away he's all in your face. Men are weird!!!!

[@crownedmelaninqueen]

Yes! Being too available definitely does! Have him plan dates, no last minute plans. It’s hard but sit in your hands even if you asked for his number first.

[@jssrosal25]

I've stepped up to the pedestal! he has to realize it again and come to me. staying in my energy!

[@rainskye7194]

I love it..now I will put my self on pedestal first

[@ferlindabernet]

I'm gonna put myself on Pedestal. Thanks to you.❤️❤️

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I love this comment!

[@lallypelly]

I may confirm this very true i have tried this more than once and it worked. Its never easy but i tried hard and i got my man chase me more than once. I came to comment to appreciate your words of thoughts.

[@ahealingplace7350]

I promise to put myself on a pedestal, put myself first and distance myself from him. I promise you

[@scratchingthesurface5589]

Sooooo true.. men fall away my feet because I never gave them a second thought.

[@PulsedWave1]

I love you! You are insightful and correct. It’s just the nature of a man. Ladies, don’t be resistant to what he’s saying here. It does actually work.

[@tryshea1922]

I've tried this. It didn't work for me. Me and this guy just stop talking for months at a time. I'm not letting him back in.

[@januellelim4919]

Thanks for all your encouraging love tips Alex. You give hope to hopeless romantics. All your videos are not boring bec of your interesting advice with your on point explanation plus your cute French accent. Merci beaucoup.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much for the support Januelle!

[@irisfredrik8629]

I will try to focus on myself now...you are so right Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I love it!

[@lisaporter7152]

Keeping distance keeps coming back

[@magnesiumph6554]

I'll do it. He deserves to chase me. Well, if i will be able to trust him again after all. Thank you so much!

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I like it :-)

[@larabartlett897]

Such a good point.. I think so many people have been in "manipulationships" in the past, where the distance was a cold/ abusive withdrawal of attention. But if you think about it guys that are too needy/ available aren't that attractive. So distance makes you more attractive

[@abigailchivi4570]

It's true.what you said is keep distance so men will think.

[@joliemiranda5685]

Brilliant content, thanks Alrx! I promise to put myself on the Queen's Pedestal, cause I am THE PRICE! 🙌💞

[@mskinner8102]

its TRUE, I went on a vacation my guy was looking on facebook to see what I am doing...he does not have facebook, so he most of used someone's ...he called, wanted to know if I got a new car, did I drive there?? Then he called when I got back to see if I made it back okay. He's never acted like this in years I've known him....it was the distance...lol

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you for sharing your story :-)

[@maritza2016]

This is factzzz I was always available and he started that hot and cold then I got tired 5 months we been talking.. I block him I ignore his txt is driving him crazy but I’m afraid is due to I’m into no more I’m so distant but I live across the street lol I never bump into him I walk the other way come out when he not around is crazy but it do work..

[@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115]

People who are available too much , they don't have anything going with themselves .. that's not health at all.. you did the right thing

[@noemijoan6119]

I like your soft and warm tone! Thank you for your advise. I know this is the best state to feel it. I would love to ad one point. Don’t try to get control, by doing this. Try to learn to become free and flowy and happy with your live and you will be in your purest feminine state of mind.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Thank you so much :-)

[@robinmartin7835]

Thank you for this video, Alex. I have been struggling because I had to end a relationship with a very bad man, so it has been difficult to hear about how to keep one. I will definitely never be so giving again. It was a long distance relationship, and I wasn't needy, but I did have certain standards that he refused to respect. He was cheating on me with at least two different women and pretending to be in love with me. Luckily I found photographic evidence, because he was stupid. When I do meet the right man, I will bear what you have said in mind, but I don't wish to keep a man who would treat me so terribly.

[@rosaliacali4545]

This video among all of his is absolutely correct, u have to live your own life, be a constant challenge for him to chase u and yourself confidence will attract him

[@fireeye33]

Absolutely AGREE, distance works! and if you have to do it more than one or twice...do it! It's not hard at all even when you love the guy, if you have a life of your own.

[@docjones5096]

Oh-- that's me--on top of the pedestal!❤

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

:)

[@memoryrinehart]

Love, energy and attraction for yourself. I know it's true. Sometimes it's hard to maintain. Like when you are in a situation that repeatedly hammers on your confidence. You repair, heal and it happens again.

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Continue to love yourself and to heal.

[@annc7739]

Distancing doesn’t always guarantee that he’ll come back. I was asleep when my crush got back to me which made me missed out on his texts. When I woke up I was blocked from replying to him. His possessive ex jeopardized my chances. I then had to move on by blocking him and unfriending him on Facebook. Never really intended to end this friendship but I had to. Now he’s moved on and most likely forgotten all about me.

[@Mushroom321-]

live your life like "Do our hobbies whatever it may be". 😃

[@hermionemesamour3420]

I just started to watch your channel...all you talk about it's so true...from my first experience ...I learned to distance myself from relationship... its work ...man knows what kind of woman they want...as a woman I value myself ....if it meant to be will be...

[@amandabrooks4048]

I'm going to put myself on a pedestal thank you Alex

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

YES! Love it :-)

[@amandabrooks4048]

☺️

[@RupyAvaani]

And this is what I miss how would fight for me and now he just behaves so entitled to everything ..and take me for granted makes me doubt myself not understanding what I’m doing wrong

[@baileydrayden5840]

Rupy Kaur IT WORKS! people want what they can’t have or have access to

[@ashwithabalyaya994]

Thank you dear It is really changed my love life I am the best 😊😊

[@duhsunnyday8590]

As an introvert this is easy as heck for me. I currently have 3 guys chasing me simply because I'm a hermit who likes her space. Didn't promise them anything or lead them on. But they're going nuts bc they think I'm mysterious when in reality im just like "I need my space!!!! Stop texting me! Lemme alone!" Ugh, and they say women are complicated Men are definitely strange creatures

[@jazdelamor]

You have to love urself first in order to love another person. Just do u ladies & once a man sees ur worth, he'll be all over u 😉 ..take care of urself, its called the law of attraction 😊❤💕

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

EXACTLY :-)

[@atyehatyeh6257]

Merci beaucoup, I speak fluent Farsi I'm an American who lived in Iran for 10 years thank you so much I'm in my early sixties and I'm learning it's very hard the distance but I'm learning I'm doing it it's hard

[@miaroberto5124]

yep giving him the space and distant he needs because his a hot and cold kind of man, and Im tired of his game.. first two months he was so into me get mad when i dont give him enough attention and a quick reply when i decided to focus on him he became distant and i was like are you in or out? well he can have all the distant he wants im off im done questioning myself what i have done wrong.

[@MiranaCookingLife]

Bravo

[@kerry1551]

I am a gay man and in relationship. I love your channel and follow your advice. It works. Thank you.

[@cindycinn2724]

Thanks so much for caring so much about woman and still keep a man in perspective i listen every time i watch your videos..keep them coming

[@flipaust239]

Thank you!!! As much as we hate to hear things.. sometimes we have to accept the nature of things. I’ve experienced exactly what you’re describing and every time distance and taking care of myself always somehow brings them back.. but I get to choose if I want them or not!

[@monicaruiz9829]

I have been doing exactly as you say and it works he has been calling and he applied your technique now he changed his pic profile when he hardly does I’m sure he is trying to call my attention (: thank you Alex

[@angelicabrimon8642]

I will put myself on pedestal ❤️😊

[@thesoulalchemystic9737]

Thank You for the reminder! it is easier said than done but if you start focussing on yourself, without having an underlying energy of lack, some introspection and self-actualising, universal laws promise that getting or waiting for ANY partner, will not even bother you in the least because you are true to yourself, placing yourself on a pedestal.. waiting, pretending or moving onto any other person shouldn't even be an option or a thought just because they are giving you attention.. you should give you attention, surrender, release any codependent behaviours, heal yourself and the right man will come. and if he doesn't then it should also be okay.. (we are still human, nice to feel secure in the arms of a man) but it shouldn't be all end all... love yourself and the right man will love you...

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

Yes, love yourself and you will attract the right man!

[@hienienguyen6766]

Yeah i am going to give it about a week!! yes, that is true. my ex thinks that i am a pushover, but when you have someone in your life that acts like a damn fool it's hard not to want to say something. i am glad that i am going to give him distance.

[@ashi2983]

Ignoring him reversed the situation. He started ignoring me now. 😦

[@pa4760]

Leave him

[@gracelikerain5039]

😆😆😆

[@mishaanand2366]

You are the best, so clear and straightforward advice ❤️

[@meromero794]

Alex you are right I am listening to your videos from Egypt

[@FrenchRelationshipExpert]

I love it, greetings from Miami :-)

[@paolanamuncura8879]

I will be in a pedestal for him. Yes. He wil be continuisly amazed by me!!

[@foreveryoungpisces7426]

Mine is LDR, not met yet. Distance is there but I know what you mean. I give him assurance I love him (he asks) and he contacts me less. Thank you!

[@shammikamath]

So nice of u to give guidance.i think it works

[@rartinderkaur3499]

Respected sir . don't want to disturb ur good sleep.thanks for ur reply . Waiting for your many more articles , lessons n teachings to give smiles . Dear sir keep talking steps to success as my bestest wishes r with u always 💖., along with the wish to meet u soon sir . keep giving ur sweet smile.lots of regards .