WHY MEN WILL LOSE EVERYTHING WHEN MOVING TO THE PHILIPPINES ! !

In this video, I am going to discuss why men lose everything when they move to the Philippines. Some of you might not agree with what I have to say, but that's just my opinion.
But some of the subtitles are not really correct, so don't really rely on them. It's just the editing software's fault.
Thank you all, and enjoy!

[@Km-be8cj]

I agree with what’s being said here with one exception. When hard times come, a hospital bill needs paid, a storm damages the house, etc., Philippine families turn to the one person who is not “living for the day”. The person who works 60 hours a week and saves their money becomes the bank for the whole family. The truth is somewhere in between living for tomorrow and living for today works best. Good video.

[@damncars2618]

Learn to say no. You can't save everyone. Only God can do that.

[@classicrocker889]

It's a good place because people are Hardworking. They are Honest and they really Love ALMIGHTY GOD here. That's why I love it . Beautiful Country filled with Amazing People.

[@majorronaldmandell7835]

Extreme well said. Mr. Money Pockets foreigner becomes the forever ATM.

[@majorronaldmandell7835]

@@damncars2618: Yes! Well said! Learn to say no with the words, “I don’t have any to give, lend, whatever”. Learn this immediately, and do not make a liar out of yourself by telling your girlfriend, wife or anyone else how much you earn. Secondly, remember two extremely important things: 1. Filipinos do not have self discipline, so no matter how much they swear to keep something a secret they simply cannot. Thus there are no secrets in the Philippines. 2. The word “loan” in the Philippines means “give”. There is no obligation to repay a loan in the Philippine culture, no matter if they swear, and promise on their knees with tears in their eyes to repay, promising you that are “not like other Filipinos”. Furthermore, it is shameful in the extreme to ask for repayment of a loan. You become an instant ass hole to the entire town, and it may well end tragically.

[@majorronaldmandell7835]

@@classicrocker889: Have you tried lending money to someone?

[@majorronaldmandell7835]

Yes, you will make “friends” extremely easy, because everyone wants to be your “friend”. People will every approach you on the street and ask to be your “friend”. But you must remember that “friendship” does not have the same definition there as it does in west, and it comes with a price it, often an extremely high price.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I completely agree. You will never know what their reason is behind it.

[@ianbetts4435]

​@@filipinalifewithmia5208money perhaps

[@ejtaylor73]

Just because someone talks to you does NOT make them your friend, they are just acquaintances. Whether it's for money or just to be associated with a foreigner, there more than likely something more wanted. A TRUE friend will NEVER ask for anything more than the friendship.

[@miketurpin4959]

My Filipina laughs at me every morning cause I yell out our window MABUHAY PHILIPPINES 😂😂😂 and she says I'm crazy😊

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

HAHHAHAHAHAH now that's funny. LMAO

[@peterjeffery9513]

What a beautiful video Mia. The department of tourism in the Philippines should be paying you lots of money for saying such lovely things about your country.

[@ljw3491]

I can see why your husband wakes up in the morning with a smile!! You are so thoughtful, sweet and well spoken and of course beautiful!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

HEHEHE thank you for your kind words, sir!

[@packerguy2933]

Mia, do you have a sister? 🙂

[@timetosee9251]

You certainly sugar coat life there. I understand what you are getting at, but I have lived here for one year plus another year on and off. The thing that I disagree with most is the pristine beauty part. I know you lived in Mactan Newtown, as did I. Once you leave that nice and well off area. The Philippines breaks my heart with the amount of fifth everywhere. Unless you stick to the tourist areas, the country is treated like a dumpster. I am not blaming the Filipino individual, but a lot, if not most people living there, do not have regular trash collection. So the smell of burning plastic is everywhere. Even on the rare occasion, you see a trash can you will see people still just throwing their plastic wrappers on the ground. As I said, I lived in Mactan Newtown but also in the Bicol province area. In both places, I couldn't go a week without seeing some guy peeing in public on, well anything that wasn't moving. The back of their car, a random wall, and definitely don't touch any of the bushes that grow anywhere near a road. The bloated Philippines vlogger scene seems to have collectively chosen to close their eyes to this fact. My wife is the most wonderful woman I have met, and I feel so lucky to be the man she wants to spend the rest of her life with. So I agree about the people being friendly and easy to talk to and God the possibilities of the country are tremendous, but the sad reality is that the Philippines has a lot of work to do when it comes to taking care of what could be one of the most beautiful areas in the world. When I was growing up in the US, we had PSA's (public service announcements). From smoky the bear to give a hoot don't pollute along with many others. It really woke up the citizenry to respect their neighborhoods. That is only one piece of the puzzle. Another is a proactive government that provides alternatives to burn piles and constant public urination. I still love the Philippines and plan to buy land and build a house with my wife that I can pass down to our son (and possibly a daughter 🤞 on the way). One thing the many many vloggers in the Philippines could do instead of ignoring it or flat out lying about it. They could shed light on the problem to help fix it and not make it a manana problem. This is not said with malice but with hope for a change and for future of my filAm children. Let's all of us take care of ourselves, our families, and your (and my adopted) beautiful country. I hope this comment is taken with the hope it sent with.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I appreciate your perspective and concern for the Philippines' environmental and social concerns. It is important to recognize that certain locations have waste management and public hygiene problems. Individuals, communities, and the government have to work together to solve these challenges. Bringing these challenges to light and raising awareness can help bring about good change. It's excellent that you plan to contribute to the growth of the country while also providing a secure future for your family. Let's hope and pray that the Philippines will have a cleaner environment in the future.

[@timetosee9251]

@filipinalifewithmia5208 Thank you for responding with openness and understanding. I worried about making this comment. I am glad it was taken in the way it was meant. I do have hope for the future of the Philippines and, in particular, the Filipino people. It is so important not for me but for my family and the country as a whole. I want my children growing up and visiting one of their two equal homelands that is respected for the wonderful country it is by its people. While being led by a government that understands they are only caretakers and servants of their country. Thank you Mia for responding. I wish you all the happiness and love this life can offer.

[@RickyFuller-wq6os]

I move here to Carcar Cebu. I agree with so of what you said.I moved on to of the mountain to a house. Mom and papa was happy when I put pig Fred bags for people to put trash in. In 5 months I have the people that come to moms store throwing there trash in the bags instead of buying from here store and eating it then throwing it down. I have picked up much trash. But I am happy they are helping now to keep papa’s area cleaner

[@tejanausland1180]

Vloggers can't really comment on that stuff because they would get attacked by some people if they did, either directly or by spreading rumors about them to discredit them. And this is not unique to the Philippines, I have seen it from other relatively small and proud countries as well. I helped a friend run a website about the Caribbean, and there was a high profile murder of a female tourist on one of the islands and the primary suspect was a young but wealthy European. The suspect wasn't even a local guy (although, since the Caribbean island was part of the Kingdom of the Netherlands, and the suspect was Dutch, technically he is a citizen of the same country). We were repeatedly asked to remove any mention of the news story from our websites and forums because they felt it made their island look bad. And they were very passionate about it. Anything negative about their island, and they wanted it censored. Obviously, not all people from that island felt that way, but a vocal minority made sure the administrators and moderators knew that they disapproved of content that made their island look bad. And seeing some comments on videos that showed the "dark side" of the Philippines, these type of people showed up there too complaining. So, if you want to have a popular vlog and not want to get attacked, you just don't mention some things. It's not really a healthy way of dealing with problems, but you see this a lot anyway.

[@GBU61]

I spent 10 days in the Philippines in 2019 and the filth and poverty are what stood out to me. The worst poverty I have ever seen in person was in more than one place, especially in the province in northern Luzon. It seemed everyone had his hand out wanting something from me and the overall experience of being there was not only a huge disappointment but a huge turn off.

[@pijoseb]

It's true. I was only in the Philippines for 3 and a half months, but I slept 8 hours every night. When I got back to the US, I would often struggle to get 4 or 5.

[@mikewright9637]

I long for the day I can rest. Just to breath and truly relax. Where I can let go of all the pressures of life. Finally realized I've worked and contributed enough. Thanks Mia

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I absolutely understand your desire for a moment of rest and relaxation where you are able to let go of life's stresses and feel fulfilled. It is important to recognize your efforts and accomplishments. You deserve that well-deserved holiday, as well as the chance to achieve calm and satisfaction. May your future give you the peace and calm you want. Take care!

[@mikewright9637]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Thanks Mia appreciate it. I'm close to retirement only 22 months to full retirement. Been a long haul looking to have some fun and relation.

[@user-vv3wj2wb7h]

Salamat sa pagbabahagi ng magagandang punto ng pamumuhay sa Phillipines. Ang garling ❤

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Salamat for watching!

[@Hoochie243]

You understand quite Clearly how western men think and their mindset is such a important part of the success in the Philippines. Here is the first sign someone is going to be Successful in the Philippines and that is they buy a Home or build a home within the first year.... they are not online talking province girls or how many girls they dated in Manila...a Successful man doesn't need to explain what he is doing...he just takes acts and does what he needs to do without showing off...

[@Mark-cm4hy]

Sir, a foreigner can not own land, a house, a business or otherwise in the Philippines.

[@dustyinc.8]

@@Mark-cm4hy A condo, however I wouldn’t recommend anyone listen to these overnight experts on KZbin. I frequent the Philippines 🇵🇭 several times A year and none of these people are giving out detailed facts, all of this is for likes, shares, views, subscribers, and $ . It’s such A blessing that I don’t have to make content that I don’t own to make $ KZbin can snatch everything whenever they feel the urge

[@therealbronxbull_]

​@@dustyinc.8 then all the comments about being married to a Filipina for blah blah yrs 🤣 bragging is worse than showing off you can be in the Philippines for 20 yrs married and if you screw up one time, it's goodbye for life! The BI won't give a hoot about your permanent residence who your married to, how long you've lived here, or how many kids you fathered here they will deport you.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I like your perspective on the attitude of Western guys in the Philippines. Making clear choices, such as purchasing a home, could show commitment and stability. But you have to understand that it is not possible for a foreigner to own land here in the Philippines; maybe rent, yes, but own, no. I think there's a way for that to happen, one being being married to a Filipina or not even married, but you put the name of the land in her name instead of yours. Thank you for taking the time to share your opinions on this subject.

[@dustyinc.8]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 look up conveyance of title in your country from 1 spouse to another, I am very well versed with the laws of the Philippines 🇵🇭! In the Philippines 🇵🇭 I would be labeled as an OFW, however my wife can convey title/titles of any and all properties to said HUSBAND!

[@tedlasalvia9668]

+1 subscriber Mia - Greetings from San Diego, California. You are correct with your observations from your husband and others about life here in the US. Like your husband, I too will need to go through a de-stressing process when I retire. Hopefully, videos like your will help me prepare ahead of time! I wish both you and your husband the best success with your channel!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much for the support and enthusiasm! I'm happy to hear that my videos have struck a chord with you and that they could help you in your retirement preparing. I appreciate your kind wishes, and I wish you the same. Greetings from the Philippines!

[@Kdizzledub19]

Good afternoon Mia, Thank you for sharing your perspective. As someone who has thought about moving to the Philippines, this has given me more information to chew on. Thank you for being honest in your assessment. Hope you and your husband are doing well

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your warm words. I'm glad to hear that my perspective has been useful to you as you consider relocating to the Philippines. To make a smart choice, it is important to get as much information as possible. My husband and I are doing OK, and we appreciate your kind words. Best wishes with your plans!

[@miketurpin4959]

I'm not allowed to walk alone yet. She thinks a Filipina will steal me from her and she knows I'm not that kind of guy. I just want to find other foreigners to talk to and see how their experiences are going being here in the Philippines

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

It's reasonable that your partner is worried, but trust is essential in every relationship. Communication and reassurance might help ease those concerns. Meeting other foreigners in the Philippines might bring useful insights and shared experiences. Conversations with your partner that are open and honest can help create trust and understanding.

[@MrYtubenewsanchorman]

Blink twice if you need help 😂😂

[@Gooffe]

I came to the Philippines from Canada since 2018 and i had a very bad experience i feel lonely and stressed can wait to go back to Canada!

[@garyzies3486]

What happened?

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Oh why??

[@metalroofing6708]

I hope you are being compensated by the national tourism department because your video is one hell of a convincing advert. I have never even been there and I am almost ready to sell everything to move on over! You make it sound like a dream!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your enthusiasm! I appreciate your kind comments. I encourage you to visit and see the Philippines for yourself in order to build your own perspective and make a wise choice.

[@damncars2618]

That's a clear explanation of what's been happening to me this last year. I'm on a half dose of BP med, fewer nightmares and better sleep. Thanks!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Congrats!

[@Geoduck.]

Nicely said Mia. If visitors or new Expats can learn to embrace the "in awhile" or "Filipino time" one can slow down and relax and as you say live in the moment for once.

[@eddieBoxer]

This is not true, you work in America you'll get rewarded you don't work you'll starve, how can this ignorant lady tell you about America if she never been there? Don't believe the contents of this video.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your comment! Embracing the idea of "Filipino time" and learning to slow down might help visitors and new expats enjoy the Philippines' easygoing and present-oriented culture. It's a chance to live in the moment while engaging oneself in the rich culture and friendly hospitality.

[@randellt]

Thank you Mia. After making 2 trips to the philippines, 2019 and 2022- 8 weeks, I have decided to move there. The most friendly people on earth along with the most beautiful girls in the world. The only things that saddens me, is no matter how long one stays, he's/she's always a visitor. Not truly welcomed by the government- more like accepted. Should a catastrophe occur, or even forbid a incursion, I would be there helping out the very best of my ability in anyway I can. Yet, unlike America when a Filipino moves here, they become part of America with all of its freedoms and rights. Being able to vote, own a firearm, even government assistance if needed. But again in the Philippines, you're always just a visitor- no matter how long you stay. BUT that said, after considering all, I have decided to live with that. My only other concern is future lockdowns, masks, vaccines... But if that gets too bad, then I'll have to jump ship to another nearby country.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for sharing your desire to move to the Philippines as well as your travel adventures. It's good to hear you found the people to be pleasant and the country to be gorgeous. Adjusting to a new place always has its own set of obstacles and issues, such as the difference between being a guest and feeling totally integrated. While certain rights and benefits could differ, embracing the good aspects of your chosen location and contributing to its well-being is a great approach. Wishing you all the best on your journey and new chapter in the Philippines!

[@PHExpatPrepper]

Good video, facts spoken. The move 9 years ago and retiring early likely saved my life. For sure it saved my life with my wife of 17 years.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow, congrats!

[@clarencedunn5113]

Wow, you paint a beautiful picture of the Philippines 🇵🇭 with a beautiful message. I can't hardly wait to get there. God bless you and your husband. 🙏🌹😇

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Have fun!

[@mr.sts.p]

Great content Mia yes we in the west work to mutch and by things that we realy don,t need.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you very much! It's true that we might get caught up in a consumerist society and concentrate on things we don't truly need. Finding a good balance and concentrating on what genuinely matters may lead to greater contentment and happiness.

[@CerebralAptitude]

Kings, whether you choose Asia, the Caribbean, South America, you will find once you sell your house, you can live decades and once social security sets in $2,500 to $3,000 a month in these countries allows you to live beyond your dreams

[@jurgschupbach3059]

usd? Not really in 5 years from now

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

There are many great destinations in Asia, the Caribbean, and South America where one may live well on a little budget. The cheaper cost of living in these areas will undoubtedly stretch your budget even further, allowing you to enjoy a lifestyle that may exceed your expectations.

[@tejanausland1180]

@@jurgschupbach3059 Hopefully a retiree is not depending solely on social security, and has diversified their investments.

[@CerebralAptitude]

@@tejanausland1180 People have what they have financially and that's really their business.

[@George-ux6zz]

I believe I would love the Philippines. I grew up in the country side. My nearest neighbors were about a km away. Our entertainment was playing baseball, football, Frisbee, and bike riding. Our nearest store was about 5 miles away. It was like an enclosed sari sari store with gas. To go grocery shopping it was over 15 miles away. As a result, I'm a very laid back and easy going guy.

[@michaelchevreaux7780]

Basketball 🏀

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You seem to have happy memories of growing up in the country and to appreciate a laid-back way of life. With its various scenery and welcoming culture, the Philippines may provide a comparable atmosphere that connects with your background. Adopting a calm and easygoing attitude might be a good way to properly understand and enjoy the country's experiences. Best wishes for your upcoming move to the Philippines!

[@George-ux6zz]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Thank you! I thought the same thing.

[@davidwheeler7895]

Thanks for your point of view, in America it's much harder to live in the now, because your always worried about tomorrow. You are very appreciated.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You're very welcome! True, the urge to continually worry about the future may be difficult. It is important to find a balance between planning for the future and enjoying the present moment. Thank you very much for your kind words!

[@amazonseller-yf8vv]

Very inspiring video, I like her calm and encouraging nature.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

HEHE appreciate that!

[@amazonseller-yf8vv]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 Thank you, and I really appreciate your content, it's very relaxing and encouraging. He we can see a huge contrast between your attitude and the expremely agressive attitude of many western women.

[@freedomwillring6749]

Thanks for letting me know. Hopefully it will be the same in a few years because to me it sounds great.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Yah, I'm hoping too.

[@MichaelBuck]

I love the Philippine lifestyle as I am very laid back, easygoing, do things slowly already and am looking for a place that will except me like this. In America everyone is so fast and busy, they cant stop and smell the roses, cant make friends, no time, no time for anything. Its sad really. I try to say hello to people on the streets and they ignore me, cant say hello back, or wave, or smile, they are lost on their cell phones. The modern western world is LOST as far as I concerned so I am looking for a new world, a new way of life, a new relationship with a traditional woman that SEES me and knows me and loves me for me!

[@noelsingletary]

Magandang video. Tuloy lang!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Salamat!

[@qhew]

Agree your culture has a lot to teach we westerners in regard to slowing down & reducing stress. nice positive video, Mia. the video sub text is nice too. When are we going to see Paul again in your videos? Is he still working for oil company in Texas? I like the idea you expressed of Filipinas flirting with you even when they’re not that interested! Sort of makes me want to travel there.

[@thomashouser6515]

Thank You Mia! God Bless!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you, Thomas! You too!

[@leavinforadream]

Great video!! You shared so much and it's all something to definitely consider when moving there or anywhere. I am looking forward to the change!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your kind words! Accepting change may be a thrilling and life-changing event. Best wishes for your upcoming move, and may it provide you fulfillment and new experiences!

[@user-qc9nu3vc9o]

Nice video Mia. Subtitles have a few errors but when a beautiful woman is on screen, I'm not paying too much attention to the Subtitles. 😂

[@Lync1111]

This is the Mia we've been wanting to hear from for so long. Mia Thank You Paul please speak with us from your point of views on this topic. You r voice is so needed because you've transitioned. Peace

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your kind words, sir. I will try to ask my husband about this topic to see if he has a point of view on it.

[@amiyrbarclift1640]

Okay I'm sold. This sounds too good to be true. I'm so used to the grind here in America. I could do without it.

[@michaelthomas115]

Thank you as always for a look into the Philippines. I plan to retire there and am trying looking forward to it.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for watching! Best of luck with your future retirement.

[@michaelkothe9403]

Mia, wow, what great content...and you're coming over like my personal guru 😃 , explaining life experience from your long time relationship with Paul. And right you are, some friends of mine wants to meet me in Duma when I am coming over next months , but I will warn them before to keep their mindsets open for a totally different adventure in the Philippines . For sure not everyone is able to adapt the Filipino lifestyle. Thank you very much for your vlog , Michael

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much, Michael! I'm happy that you found the video useful and relevant. It's great that you're telling your friends about your planned vacation and preparing them for the unique experience in the Philippines. Although not everyone can adjust to the Filipino way of life, it is always a rewarding and eye-opening adventure. I appreciate your warm words and encouragement. Have a safe trip and enjoy your time in Duma!

[@miketurpin4959]

My Filipina makes me pay attention to how I spend my money. She is so cheap and when I first arrived she would say oh you spend money like a one day millionaire 😂😂😂.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

It's fascinating how different points of view may impact our buying habits. Your Filipina partner appears to be thrifty and appreciates careful spending. It's fantastic to have someone who can help us be more mindful of our finances. Good for you, sir.

[@JJJnl]

Nice video Mia! Thanks for sharing your perspective with everyone, have a nice day

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you, Jeroen! You too!

[@JJJnl]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 salamat po , greetings from batangas Philippines 🇵🇭

[@kmilton1593]

Thank you Mia for your well-thought-out vlog; most interesting. You are right: in North America with the ever-devaluating purchasing power of the dollar, I do worry about my lower income, and the well-being of the countries here. At 7:30 minutes into your vlog, the "translation" on the screen blew me away!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Yah, sorry bout that. It was the editing software's fault 😅

[@piccadelly9360]

You are right there, Philippine, time stands still there and many will have problems with it. learning to do nothing is not that easy. When issuing money, there is a risk of losing track. Because there are other prices, people have the impression that the money is enough forever and that can change quickly

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You provide excellent feedback regarding adapting to a slower pace and handling funds in a different setting. Adapting to a different view of time and money dynamics can be difficult. It's important to find a balance while also being mindful of potential threats and changes.

[@buyerofsorts]

No Mia, people do not work 60 - 80 hours per week in America. Sure some do but the overwhelming majority of us don't even come close. More like 40 hours a week.

[@user-rv5fj7gd8s]

Your words are music to my years. Great insight !!!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

HEHE thank you so much!

[@garyjohn]

EXCELLENT 👏👏👏

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Salamat po!

[@philippinesxtremes]

Fantastic upload ate. I'm vlogging out of Cebu to pass the time. I agree that the slower pace here can be hard to adjust to. That's why vlogging is so rewarding because it gives me something to focus on I love how you put it "lose everything" it's soooo true I always speak of it in my posts too The Philippines will change your life for the better. Your mentality will evolve. There's a lot of things people from the west need to adapt to here like weather, slower pace. Customer service etc.. I tell people to check your western baggage at the airport because this is a wonderful and unique place that will make your whole life better. If u let it 😊

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your kind words and for sharing your vlogging experience in Cebu. It's wonderful to hear that you agree with the idea of slowing down and letting go of Western baggage when visiting the Philippines. Getting used to the weather, speed of life, and cultural differences may all be part of the adventure. It's excellent that you see the good changing possibilities of the Philippines. Continue to enjoy your vlogging travels and embrace the country's unique beauty!

[@philippinesxtremes]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 absolutely. The Philippines is the greatest country on Earth. I feel so blessed to have the privilege to live here 🙏❤️ Thanks for all your helpful info. You're the best 🙏🇵🇭👍

[@IDi-Matokoseke]

Hello from Belgium ! Very informative and mature attitude despite you have never ever been in xestern countries ! I live in Europe and suscribe totally to all you said !

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Hello and welcome! I appreciate your kind words and the fact that my insights correlate with your European living experiences. Despite not having firsthand experience in Western countries, it's my goal to provide informative and mature perspectives based on a broad range of knowledge. Thanks for subbing!

[@1417d]

I love it there the heat isn't as hot as texas but the humidity is bad

[@johnnyg7899]

Many people who become accustomed to living a simple life get very comfortable in it and live day to day as you say. But then when they don't plan for future disasters they cry about it wondering why things happen. I learned long ago that if things can happen for the worse, it usually does happen.

[@robertnunn3015]

Thanks Mia for another great video. I am looking forward to my move to PH in a few months.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you, Robert! Best of luck with your future endeavors!

[@Neal_only1]

Stress is less in life, do not wait to retire to relax, i am now on permanent meds for HBP for life as i am retiring now at 63.5 yrs

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Oh, I am so sorry to hear that.

[@George-ux6zz]

Kamusta ate! Magandang umaga Mia. Have an amazing day and God bless you my friend. 🙏😊

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I am great. Thank you. You too, sir!

[@timhusk2913]

I will say this about the stress level you got the nail on the head, because my 3 weeks there my stress was down to near zero. When I came back to the States the stress went back up.

[@ethomasbernhoffer3110]

Excellent video Mia. And all true ☺️

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!! 😊

[@davidhankins5708]

Hi Mia! Good video!! Thanks and take care. P.S. You're glowing from your marriage it looks good on you!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you kindly! I am grateful for your support. Take care, and thank you for watching the video.

[@todd212]

I must say you are so correct and I am just waiting for my time to come to get away from the stress, anxiety hustle, and bustle no rest lifestyle here in the state I’ve been to the Philippines twice and each time I come back to the states, to be honest I don’t like I don’t want my life like this. I can’t wait to wake up every morning to the scooters the jeepneys the roosters, the pigs and the smell of coffee I too will say MABUHAY PHILIPPINES 🇵🇭 and live a simple and normal life the way it’s really meant to be thank you to my Maganda Asawa for her love I ask God for three things, love, family and culture, and the Philippines gave me all three thank you

[@offthecuffadventureswithjamie]

Great video Mia! You're doing very well po! Just keep smiling and doing your thing! J

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you, Jamie!

[@geneschulp8598]

Good stuff. Thank you

[@josephfriedman8054]

wow, i'm impressed.. that was a great snapshot of the Philippines. you are so correct. i came back to the US last month from 4 months in PI and it changed me in many awesome ways. I miss Cebu, my fiance and all the people that i became friends with.. the US is filled with stress and drama. Can't wait to go back to the Philippines, but its not for everyone, that's for sure.. .

[@jroddy1]

The US is not filled with stress unless you make it that way. My Asian wife and I have a beautiful home, family, and live very stress free. We are financially stable and take lots of weekend getaways and trips. We focus on living. You can live the American dream without hardships if you are smart and learn to manage your money well, invest, and work smarter not harder.

[@whatevertheworldholds]

Enjoyed the video Mia thank you so much take care

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you so much! You too!

[@zandig666]

Thanks for the great info !! Perhaps you could raise your recording audio level for me to hear farther away ?? 😂😂✌️✌️

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Sorry about that

[@urbanws1234]

You are very good and have a kind heart. Thank you for many good videos.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your kind words and thanks for watching my vids!

[@philippinesdreamorreality]

Good video, I did not expect that kind of loss.😂 I stayed for the entire video and that's a good loss for who ever has that anxiety etc. I myself moved to the country here in Texas and I have to admit, I don't miss the city. I still use the city for money and resources, till I become self sufficient or retire, whichever comes first.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for watching! It's great to hear you enjoyed the video. Moving to the countryside may provide a refreshing change and a vacation from the hustle and bustle of the city. It's a reasonable way to use city resources while striving toward self-sufficiency or retirement. Best wishes on the journey!

[@jamesmarchetti3286]

Great Video !!! Living a Laid-back is Great for Mental health especially as you get Older !!!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you. I do agree!

[@douglasmichel1000]

I love your channel Mia. You have the best information pertaining to Philippines life.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank youu

[@MichaelMcNeal-di7qy]

A really great video near you explained it and very good. Detail on what you mean by losing it all but gaining. Pure peace.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you :-)

[@polexwerex6025]

What a feminine girl , priceless it’s a hidden gem in Asia. I agree everything She said. I already moved out of Canada after 25 years back to heard of Europe. What a relief in life. Plan is to spend sometime in Asia. I was already there. Amazing

[@myretiredlifetoo]

Mia, this was a very rewarding vlog. Thank you for your wisdom.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for watching!

[@sagora3114]

Sounds great Mia.. thank you)

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for listening

[@SunRise-ul7ko]

In Sydney, the government forces you to grind just to survive. Property prices are so high, they keep you in poverty. My old dog box size house, I live in, is equal to what ordinary workers earn in total after tax income, over 40 years. Hardly anyone under 60 owns there house outright in Sydney. They usually have a mordgage to the day they retire & retirement age in Australia is 67. How can you ever obtain a family if it takes 2 people a life time to pay off a house. Add to this the 47% income tax I pay, to support & provide for the epidemic of single mothers. It's disgusting, they created a narion of debt & tax revenue slaves.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

These are serious issues in many places throughout the world. Individuals and families may find it difficult to establish financial stability and plan for the future due to high house prices and the weight of long-term mortgages.

[@lemontea2065]

Thank you for the video!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for watching!

[@RodgerRamjet]

Filipino time is a thing... Western society is clueless on that, as its very much "customer service " oriented, and we take our wallets to places that give us the best service. waiting in a long line, as the cashier takes all day to handle a handful of items, and responds to a question about something in stock as " no we dont have it" without even checking ( and have no intention of checking regardless ).. its just how Filipino society model works.. WE, arent going to change it.. either learn to deal with it, or, hire someone to do ALL your shopping... traffic is a way of life there.. not an exception or a " 5 oclock traffic jam".. that occurs almost all day every day at all times..

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You are correct in stating that Filipino time is a cultural phenomenon in the Philippines, where punctuality and time management may differ from those seen in Western countries. Individuals coming from a more time-conscious society may need to adjust. Similarly, customer service experiences might vary, and large queues or delays are not uncommon. Traffic is another well-known issue in many parts of the Philippines. It is important to understand and adapt to these cultural features or to discover alternatives to navigating daily life.

[@scottbrown321]

Great job!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!

[@billharrisjazzbluesandmore7948]

Thank you it’s only been a week since I got here and it’s been really great.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Wow. Best of luck with your trip!

[@singapore202000]

I agree with Km. Balance. I live in a condo in Dumaguete and I am surrounded by Philippine people who are professionals - and are definitely not lotus eaters, lol. The have 'nice' cars, investments, travel abroad and their sons and daughters go to university. Doctors, lawyers, accountants, businesspeople and the like. I work from home here and put in an eight hour day. That said, the lifestyle here is infinitely easier than the west. I still occasionally hanker to go back home, but then I come to my senses. And I can hop on my scooter and be at the beach among the locals in five minutes. By the way, at my local beach, I am usually the only westerner. Go figure. Yes, great and thoughtful video.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts and experiences in Dumaguete. It's good to hear that you've struck a healthy balance and that you're surrounded by experts who are accomplished in their industries. Many people admire the comfort of living in the Philippines as compared to the West. Experiencing the local beaches and being a part of the community improves your experience. Thank you for your positive feedback on the video. I wish you progress, pleasure, and fulfillment in Dumaguete!

[@whereisgregnow5989]

Such a great video. Was really spot on

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for that!

[@aphilippinesadventure9184]

Depends on your management and adaptive ability. We have paid for a lot of family needs, hosputal visits, tuition etc...on the other hand, we picked quite a few pieces of land in bohol (not sure how many...lol) and most have more than doubled in value.

[@AwakenedEntrepreneurship]

Mia, you make wonderful videos. I think you should have more subscribers. My regards to Paul!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your kind words, sir! I'll pass along your regards to Paul!. If you have any suggestions for future videos, please let me know. Thanks again!

[@jamesfisher1545]

Thanks Mia. good video

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!

[@smashy_smasherton]

I’m pretty sure my presence would stress the Philippines out.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Oh really?

[@josephkumnick7696]

There is no Good Way to lose. I do understand from being there. Thanks for being HONEST! Honesty is Rare there.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!

[@OzAsbjorn]

I just came back from Angeles and Manila. One thing you pointed out was the stress level. Mine has been very high lately from working so much. But once I was there, I was in a very calm mood by day 2. I also met a lot of very good people. Very nice and humble people there. I love it there and I plan to go back in a few months.

[@tejanausland1180]

This explains why Westerners are a good match for Filipinas and Filipinos. While the Filipina may want to live in the now, the Westerner wants to plan for the future, even if that is a modest future. The fact that Westerners like to plan ahead actually makes it easier for the Filipina to live in the now. And the Westerner is encouraged to be more balanced and more relaxed and to start living in the now more often. It creates a balance where the Filipina can still live in the now, but have a better standard of living because the Westerner plans ahead. Both parties benefit from this arrangement.

[@Ilya1608]

I would say that this is not a difference between east and west, but between tropical and holarctic climate regions. People with tropical behavior simply could not survive in cold regions. People from cold countries cannot relax in 3 month summer time because of fear of cold season when nothing to eat.

[@JimMillsCSLC]

Hello Mia, I enjoy your videos but I would caution against memorializing America (and the West) in all inclusive negative stereotypes without, as you stated, having ever travelled to the United States and experiencing it firsthand. It is most certainly a difference of cultures for sure, but there are many beneficial foundational principles and wonderful and happy citizens in the United States. And frankly, there are some behaviors and practices in the Philippines that are alarmingly unenlightened and disturbing (such as the propensity of littering and age discrimination toward mature forty-something Filipinas seeking employment). Living in the moment without a care for tomorrow has its drawbacks and ignoring clear problems does little to solve them. May God richly bless both the Philippines 🇵🇭 and the United States of America 🇺🇸 now and forever and may we all stand together for freedom and liberty for all.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you for your input and opinion. Every country has its own set of strengths and difficulties, and it is essential to acknowledge the variety within every society. While no place is perfect, emphasizing good characteristics while identifying areas for development can help provide a more nuanced picture.

[@pauldrew1130]

Thanks for sharing!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for watching!

[@Sahrokh]

Problem of westerners: those who have the money to come over, are retired / disabled and don't even want a family. Those who are younger and would move to Philippines to have a family don't have the money. Because pensioners are from an era when money was abundant and even a retiree still earns a lot. Modern young men are *BROKE* for the most part, governments and underpaid jobs take away what they earn.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You make an excellent point concerning the financial difficulties that different age groups encounter. Individual economic situations might differ, making it more difficult for some to afford to relocate to another country. When making such decisions, it is important to consider financial stability. However, there are occasions where younger people may reach their goals through a variety of chances and diligent planning. Like maybe having an online job while on vacation.

[@tejanausland1180]

Younger people can make a lot of money if they start a business and/or have marketable skills. The opportunities out there are amazing thanks to technology. However, this requires doing a lot of work, especially in the beginning, which may not be fully compatible with the "live in the now" mentality, because being a business owner or independent contractor requires you to plan ahead. But that does not mean their spouse cannot live in the now, even if they don't fully do that themselves.

[@johnnysmith9138]

U are very attractive lady, U have very beautiful hair that I have ever seen. U are very talented person, the panting an drawings are beautiful. U have some amazing videos of the beach an the trails that U travel to the little branches an water falls. Keep up the great work

[@onetime5640]

Thank you Mia ! 🌺

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!

[@russellhillier1939]

They're sure a lot of people telling fairy tails comments here. Most people only get twelve hundred to fifteen hundred a month for social security.

[@mikee5654]

Thank you Mia

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!

[@vince1012]

Very philosophical but maybe such peacefulness is not found in Manila. Maybe this lifestyle is in some provinces

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

You make an excellent point. Cities such as Manila can be more fast-paced and hectic, while certain regions may provide a more calm and laid-back atmosphere. It's good to look at several places in order to find an atmosphere that fits your preferred lifestyle.

[@sethrolls6408]

A great video

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for watching!

[@timstafford355]

Love your filipinas smiles and shyness

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

😊

[@miketurpin4959]

I feel much younger than 51just being here

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

That's nice.

[@rabidfarmer9765]

You think you have time until you have no time. You lose all when you do not look before jumping. Always have another plan for emergencies and things.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

I agree!

[@jameslevierge9480]

Thank You Mia !

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you, James!

[@GabrielEddy]

“Unwilling to change” Translation: Unwilling to relinquish the amenities and technologies that help make America great. Also plumbing, and hot water. lol

[@NYMagicPlaya]

"Great video. Keep up the great work and keep it coming"

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks. Will do!

[@NYMagicPlaya]

@@filipinalifewithmia5208 You welcome 🤗 keep it up

[@Downsdddgh]

Good stuff Mia! Not sure who I like better, you or Pea. Lol!

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Don't compare HAHAHA. Kidding!

[@NealCollins-ho6yp]

Great video

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thank you!

[@georgevaldez1449]

great vid.

[@filipinalifewithmia5208]

Thanks for watching!