why men will never let go of the woman they love

[@fareenashofficial]

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[@tritzispoosa]

At the end of the day it’s all about whether a man truly loves a particular woman. When two people come together that are both good at love. FREE TO FEELING LOVE AND GIVING OUT LOVE FOR ONE ANOTHER , THESE PEOPLE MAKE GREAT COUPLES. THEY LOVE WITH MATURITY AND COMMON RESPECT AND ARE EMOTIONALLY STABLE

[@fareenashofficial]

It usually takes time in any relationship to develop that level of maturity … but yes if the love is strong, it can be done 🤍

[@thecurrentmoment]

"When two people come together that are good at love" are GOOD AT LOVE This has been what is missing, in my experience. Yes, a man and woman can love each other but if they don't understand how to communicate love in a way the other understands it, there will be misunderstanding and it won't work out (even if they "love" each other). It's like speaking different languages, even how to express love in different languages is not straightforward it's not necessarily a direct translation of "I love you" for example. I think for most men appreciation is how they know they are loved and unfortunately a lot of women don't understand how to do this or that they need to do this and then they feel that the guy doesn't 'love" them anymore even though they "didn't do anything wrong " Anyway, that's branching off from your comment, but I'm surprised how few women seem to understand this so just putting it out there as a contribution

[@Mary_QQQ]

​@thecurrentmoment appreciation; RESPECT; ADMIRATION; sexual responsiveness; being relied upon for ADVICE and PROTECTION are also important in making a man feel loved

[@christiel4302]

What I’m getting from this is if the man is not doing a, b, and c for you that doesn’t mean we should try to change them to get the treatment we want aka “demand.” We just need to move on bc we know deep down there is another man out there that will. If u feel like u need to play games or act a certain way to get your man to act the way u want, that means he doesn’t naturally feel like treating u the way u want. Just let go and let them find a woman that’s ok with how they are and know you’ll get it what you want and deserve from another man.

[@fareenashofficial]

Never try to change anyone, it doesn’t work anyway. People only change when and if they want to change 🤍

[@abrilthom895]

I have never see it that way

[@abrilthom895]

What you do if you can be ok with the bad and good things of him. Even if it is not what you truly want but he is good looking

[@naomiokenn447]

Ty this allows me the peace to just be myself and not worry about it lol.

[@fareenashofficial]

Bingo!

[@FreeQueen-md7zm]

Exactly!!! 🎯💯😂

[@AM-ut7dg]

Title should be changed to *MASCULINE men will never let go of the woman they love

[@fareenashofficial]

Haha good point

[@thecurrentmoment]

And also you can love a woman but he might let her go for other reasons, like if she found another guy or it just isn't the best thing I think when you love someone you will do what is best for them because their wellbeing is a priority for you, probably ESPECIALLY if you are a man because you feel a duty to protect her. You can also let a woman go who you love but she is treating you badly. Maybe it depends what kind of love you mean. (I'm a man) But at least in a relationship he won't let her go, that's true. There are some exceptions though

[@77sunflowers]

Yes, cause little boys will...

[@MS-ns4ki]

Masculine men wouldn’t allow their woman to suffer and I feel so sick today.

[@outis918]

As a man in unrequited love after messing things up, this is true. Can’t unlove her, tried many times. Don’t even want to anymore, just eternally hopeful she returns one day. Might sound pathetic but it’s the truth. I’ve met so many woman, and none were her. Best option is to just ignore the feels and focus on work

[@fareenashofficial]

Vulnerability is really attractive in a man, thank you for sharing 🤍. I can help you win her back! If it feels right, schedule a call with me and we’ll get her back. 🤍

[@fareenashofficial]

@outis918 I just sent you an email back 🤍

[@basicinfo2022]

It's the illusion of options, lack of gratitude and grass is greener thinking. However connection and clicking with someone romantically is actually very rare and irreplaceable. Don't take your soulmate for granted.

[@outis918]

@@basicinfo2022 I cheated on her with a dude even though I’m not attracted to men at all, eventually realized I got raped as a kid. No excuse (I still shouldn’t have done what I did), but in retrospect it’s like there was no way I could have stopped it from happening. Very destroying to hurt someone you love more than yourself because of unconsciousness, and body trauma stemming from something you didn’t ask for as a kid. She asked me if something had happened to me as a kid while we were breaking up way back in the day. Recently I reached out, asking her how she knew before I did (I only figured it out a few years ago), and she instantly blocked me. Still hurts like the day she left, unsure of what to do anymore because I’ve met tons of amazing woman, but none of them understand me or motivate me like she did.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Work on your money and forget women for the moment.

[@norswil8763]

First 30 seconds… the woman I love deeper than the ocean left me… it’s not that I wouldn’t let her go, it’s that I had no choice but to let her leave - at that point reasoning and begging only lower your value and drop attraction even more. She even said “I know that you’d do anything to make this work”. When a man truely and deeply loves a woman he doesn’t WANT to let her go, doesn’t mean she won’t walk and tear his heart out as she does.

[@fareenashofficial]

Sometimes you need to allow some space and time and go back with an open heart and not ego. If she doesn’t want you back when a fight happened it’s usually because she’s tolerated things and things haven’t changed.

[@norswil8763]

@@fareenashofficial we suffered the very classic anxious/avoidant clash and both failed with our communication. She was conflict avoidant and bottled her concerns, so she slowly pulled away which in turn triggered feelings of anxiety in me - it’s terrifying watching someone you love pull away before your eyes, completely clueless about attachment theory or even basic relationship management. We’ve had almost 4 months of space, of which I’ve addressed many issues relationship and personal, so we’ll see there’s still a glimmer of hope, I think there might be.

[@baryl3969]

What you said is TRUE. I was a woman who walked out of the man who wanted me to stay but could do nothing because he had a dirty past, his present hasn’t proven he is any different from his past, and he hasn’t done any introspective work to be better than who he was. He knew this that’s why even though me ending ends ripped his heart, he couldn’t stop me because he couldn’t offer me anything but pain and trauma. It’s understandable why he would not stop me and why I wouldn’t stay.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Men always blame and don't do the work either. Of course the woman has to leave. No one with self respect will put up with that behaviour. And women are no longer tied to marriage due to economic reasons.

[@FleurdeLys_Bleu]

Love is the only way to a man's heart.

[@fareenashofficial]

🙏

[@pixieazul19]

It takes more than love

[@ladyofspa]

Wow Iam both in tears of joy and grief. You described myself in past one that got away. Exactly what Happened. You made it so clear in this video. I didn't stay in my highest, and often was upset with him. But..... if often I was displeased that means he just isnt quit my guy...., and or our communication just wasn't in accord. I SEE SO CLEARLY NOW.

[@fareenashofficial]

I love that this landed for you!!

[@lovelifelaugh2727]

I’m married but even these are good reminders!

[@fareenashofficial]

Yes!! 🤍🤍

[@anihchiamaka-d5g]

So there should be no fear whatsoever in being authentic. I can only authentically develop into better versions of myself. I like the aspect of a woman being secure, and not jealous. These kind of women seems to be mystery to men. They are left with no option than to be magnetted

[@fareenashofficial]

Yessss! Exactly! No, never fear being authentic. 🤍

[@avanikarir1942]

Fareen this resonated with me so much! Definitely one of my favourite videos! You are absolutely right, when a man feels you are the one he wont leave. In my experience, even when the woman doesn't feel as good anymore, he will still stay and try to make things work because a core part of her will always feel good to him. This is was my situation until I broke his trust which is what caused him to end things. Still I don't think he will move on

[@fareenashofficial]

You’re absolutely right! And I’m sorry that it ended the way it did.. trust is really important for men and can impede their ability to make things work with a woman until that is restored … it can happen though and I’m working with a woman to do this exact thing now 🤍 Thank you for commenting and I’m happy this resonated :)

[@vidhiharia9546]

He's gonna view her as the higher version of himself. When a woman points out that he's not being authentic and points it out, he's gonna feel she's different, may not like it earlier but be attracted to her. She's making me better. Quality men have self awareness. Empowered people will take accountability for their behavior. He's never gonna let you go if he loves you. High value women rarely get left. High value men want to do for them, feel challenged. He's never gonna let someone he loves go. She has high value which attracts men, they need a woman that makes him better. She need to draw his authentic aspect out. Even if he's ego is activated against you, he's gonna feel you're different and special. It's attractive because you're able to call out certain aspects in him. A woman needs to feel light, exciting, playful... Good for his growth not for feeding his ego. The more he's away the more he's gonna miss you. Men are strong and can handle themselves in any challenges. They can fix anything, won't let you go. They're gonna wonder, think, obsess over you.

[@purplebear445]

In summary … if it’s meant to be then IT WILL BE !!

[@dopeblacktherapist]

that.

[@CleanSweetHome]

I guess we're talking about healthy men, some people don't understand the value of anything and women lose years trying to prove their worth.. some people just cannot feel unfortunately

[@fareenashofficial]

Yup, it’s best to just walk away in those cases, actually to always walk away, if it’s right the man will figure it out… hopefully it’s not to late

[@rayneljred]

It makes sense.

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m glad!

[@kate-xl9kg]

Hope you're having an amazing day Fareen! Thank you so much for blessing us with your content! I always look forward to seeing your videos and I love when you touch on spiritual perspectives as well - this is very helpful for me. ❤ Currently magnetizing and attracting my Divine Masculine man while I'm leaning back and embodying my own Divine Feminine essence ✨

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you for sharing!! Be the light ✨✨✨ He’ll find you! 🤍

[@cinderling5472]

I love it when you talk about divine energies, Fareen ❤ Thank you for another gem of a video! 🙏 Thank you for shining your light so brightly 💖 I see your beautiful spirit And love how authentically you show up! I wish i could give you a big hug. But for now, sending you gratitude and love 💖🙏🙏 this really reassured me ☺️ "The masculine is capable and strong and can fix it" 😄

[@fareenashofficial]

You’re the best human ever!

[@cinderling5472]

​@@fareenashofficial Ahhh omg 😭 you are!! You are 💖😍

[@margaretbuj4284]

Your videos are getting better and better! Loved this topic and how you explained it.

[@fareenashofficial]

Yay!!! Thank you!

[@Soysaucinn]

Best coach ever!! ❤😍✨

[@fareenashofficial]

😍😍😍

[@tikax2085]

This is so helpful, thank you for sharing your knowledge!

[@fareenashofficial]

Your welcome! Can’t wait to meet you one day!

[@ceeryn]

this video keeps me in check 😅💜

[@fareenashofficial]

Haha!! Good! I’ve done my job then 😛

[@ceeryn]

@@fareenashofficialalways!!

[@ceeryn]

@@fareenashofficialalways!!

[@sarahsawrie]

Love the look!!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you!!

[@christinawagner2474]

Hi Fareen I was wondering if an apology is warranted if we have been too direct or demanding? I appreciate all your content!! I have learned so much!

[@fareenashofficial]

Apologies and accountability are always always sooo attractive but should just be done out of a pure heart, not as an outcome to get something… does this make sense? And I love hearing that!! Thank you!!!

[@christinawagner2474]

@@fareenashofficial yes 100% makes sense! Thank you!

[@justsomeideas9594]

Love this! Thank you Fareen😘

[@fareenashofficial]

So glad!! 🤍🤍

[@paigeelise6411]

True, however I feel there is an exception for those men who have a heavily saturated fearful/avoidant attachment style. Though I suppose at that point, one would argue if they’re “high-value”.

[@lou15176]

I see a lot of these “arguments” or shall we call them “points” If so so is high value, or in the case of fearful avoidant types etc the questions and lists go on. If someone likes you. You WILL know about it. The same way you will know if the don’t like you. I used to watch so many videos and scrutinise “cryptic” messages and communication. There is no need to do any of this. People like what they like and want who they want. I know someone will come back and say but but but what about x y z” it doesn’t matter if they are a human being then this is how we are made. We put time,effort and energy into what we want x

[@Braveh3artGirl]

I enjoy your videos and I have learnt so much along the way 😊

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you! I’m happy you’re here 🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@Mindsetolympics]

This offering to pay for a date thing also is after you’ve vetted the guy prior to the date. It takes some effort to get to a first date with me and him showing up in conversations with him prior to the first date for a man to even get date 1 with me❤

[@MsSturbuck]

So what can he do if she leaves?

[@fareenashofficial]

It depends on the reasons why she left …

[@melissarobles8238]

I love your videos Fareen🩷 very helpful & informative!

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you so much! I’m happy you’re here!

[@denisezayas3152]

I thought this was a great video . Thank you very much .

[@fareenashofficial]

Thank you I’m happy you loved it 😍

[@Didi-fr5ic]

Great fareen, but there are some men who never leave, that's why there are sidechicks, why do men then stay with woman they don't really love, because of the benefit?

[@fareenashofficial]

Yes…. It’s easy … she allows it and doesn’t step away ….

[@zsszikszai5180]

Love love love this 😍😍

[@fareenashofficial]

😍😍😍

[@jasmincordelia5477]

So good!!!

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍🤍

[@yurycaraballo8064]

Hey. I would like to know how you would use social media if you were single? What things would you post and upload to your stories?

[@fareenashofficial]

I’ll note this down for a future video :)

[@yurycaraballo8064]

@@fareenashofficial That would be great... I'd love to hear what you have to say on the subject. It's a topic I haven't seen elsewhere although it's always mentioned about not showing off our bodies too much, trying to seduce, I don't know if it would be good to post about our work or just selfies of us. How a high value woman shows herself on social media would be a great title, tips for single women. Thank you so much for what you do, I love your energy and how you teach us. God bless you 🫶🏼💕

[@SamFoxStrong]

I have a question! When your man is hurt. Like he is in pain. Physically injured himself so can’t do as much while he heals. How can you still make him feel masculine? I guess give a boost. Without coming out of your feminine? Because obviously he doesn’t feel like himself. And I don’t want to “take over” the manly duties that would possibly make him feel like his masculinity is being taken away. Does that make sense?

[@fareenashofficial]

It depends on what you do and the tone, energy it’s coming from 🤍

[@jaylentv1]

Sometimes that man has no choice. He may love her but she doesn't love him. And what that man is offering at 'his best' will never be enough for her. Thus, despite his feelings, he must let her go. Maybe he can go level up to her standards, then come back if she's available, then he may achieve his desires....

[@BENTAYGA2]

I dumped her quick and clean with out emotion, she didn’t even see it She disrespected me 3times so when I left after the third time I kept going Even got a big tongue kiss I loved her

[@janajank11]

What about if he married another woman but still came back tryna be there for me?

[@maddiecmears]

What if another woman comes in who temps him, or he is very attracted to? He Is already in a relationship but has eyes for me and has never mentioned her in conversation. We follow each other's socials. Fareen, can you make a video on this?

[@aura7153]

While I agree on that a man could leave because he doesn't feel good in a relationship but at the same time I believe he doesn't feel good because she is not the one for him and maybe he triggered this reactivity in her because he is not the right one for her

[@The_AI_Queen]

This is only true if they are ready.

[@Kate.Sangalang]

hey fareesh, did you record on your iPhone? :)

[@Bianca2802]

Except when he has a huuuge ego.my ex said he would never forgive and never go back to an ex. He divorced his wife after only 2 years after a fight. And has several exes

[@BB-iy2mk]

My dear. There are no rules. I always tried to make rules for men. Ok they Want the most beautiful woman, I was wrong. They Want a confident woman. Sometimes yes sometimes No. Some feel intimidated. Some hate women. Some have mommy issues. Some have a Life plan and will not marry until 38 Even if you are Amazing. They Want at 38 to marry a 23 yo. Love is not everything for some men. Some are simply stupid.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Incredibly stupid and shortsighted too.

[@cloudbones]

can you do a video about dating and sex? like should a high value woman not have sex until commitment, in order to protect her heart? when do boundaries with sex hurt women in dating? like do men need to connect sexually in order to feel into if this woman is right for him, or is that bs? like does he only truly see her differently or become engaged in the potential if they have sex? thanks :) love your content and perspective!

[@fareenashofficial]

I get into a lot of this in “what men want.”

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Don't have sex unless you are in a committed relationship. That's it really.

[@sarahsawrie]

🤯 Yup, if ya got left, you f***ed up. If I guy gets left by a good woman, it will ruin him 100%

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍🤍

[@MS-ns4ki]

Living this

[@basicinfo2022]

7:15 8:20 12:15 🔑

[@welsarah972]

What do you mean with “close the gap”??

[@dopeblacktherapist]

Instead of leaning forward to keep the man out of fear/desparation, the woman leans back or stands her ground to give the man room to meet her needs and rise to the occasion....if he truly loves her. Hope this answers :)

[@theehardpill]

So even if they break up and get back together, I guess one would assume he's just settling where it's safe and there's no nuance to that, just black and white?

[@fareenashofficial]

No… well in some cases if the man is “low value.” A lot of relationships, good men just make mistakes, realize and things are worked through. All situations are different

[@theehardpill]

@fareenashofficial interesting... Ive witnessed many married men have to part from their then girlfriends and spend even some years apart, date other people, before they realized she the woman they wanted to get married to. Would you assess that they are "low value men"?

[@fareenashofficial]

@theehardpill I can just say that a man will never let a good women go :)

[@Odani_Fam]

What about age? If you’re over 40?

[@fareenashofficial]

What about it …. I’m 40 :)

[@barbara-annperry5941]

Age is just a number. I'm 52. I have an off on thing with a 38yr old. I like my independence and solitude. He is getting counselling just now. Going through stuff. He gives the best hugs. He knows how I feel about him. He isn't in the right place just now. You need to love yourself before you can love and give yourself to another.

[@jessicahitchens6926]

Right so your dead at 40. 40 isn't old.. your just not as fertile for having children. If you had said 60 plus I'd get it.

[@lou15176]

I’m 48 😊 ok so I disagree about the “age is just a number” but before you come at me I’m not saying you can’t find/deserve love or anything like that. But I would like someone to acknowledge that it’s realistic that there is less choice and opportunity. There just is, it’s facts. I’m not saying it’s impossible but the dating pool is a lot smaller plus what’s left in the pool can often be toxic men or men that are bitter post divorce. Don’t shoot me 😂 I’m just spilling the facts x

[@barbara-annperry5941]

@lou15176 Romance is different with it's own difficulties at every stage in life. Scottish saying what's for you won't go by you.

[@sunatarosuna1560]

I love my wife very much, but I let her go and never want her back again after my logic told me enough is enough. Man will change when hurt enough. 😂😅😊😊

[@aruqyz]

❤❤❤❤

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍🤍🙏

[@Joanna.Swiderska333]

❤❤❤

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍🤍🤍

[@suzanne5117]

I’m lost. You lost me at divine feminine and divine masculine. I don’t get it

[@fareenashofficial]

That’s okay 🤍 Sometimes it’s not the right time :)

[@neanea1173]

Nah ....it's not this simple...

[@dopeblacktherapist]

Curious your persepctive, please

[@Li.na_2603]

wonderful💖🤍

[@fareenashofficial]

🤍🤍

[@spiritualBaddi]

Ok my loves 🥰 you're so cute

[@fareenashofficial]

🥰☺️☺️

[@thomasj.loebel9809]

Love has two kinds, just as Lord is L or De. One Love is wilderness [father] that crosses to faith as [son] and then both are named "Jesus Christ' as laws and faith is good and evil wed as Love without crossing to Lord next as true love hidden. This is LO joined to ABOVE as [father to son] or [wilderness to faith] this version of LO-VE is when we wed Laws to faith above as LO-VE are those two firmaments only [genesis 6-7] The midst is faith that goes back to cross the water below back to father or wilderness. LO-VE as laws and faith combine is a false lord that can manipulate two sides and appear as love when very good is still good with evil . When the LO crosses to faith as ABOVE it is LO-VE one way, but when both names cross to Lord it is all three as Jesus Christ Lord is then same word LO-VE but they combine to be the space of light around the word as gods Love. Lo - Ve as two sides make one third thing that is not the same as the two sides wed as love in the curved space other than the two sides of the word Love as the lord followed conceptual first to learn to fear that lord followed to see the true love last from what was "not' love.

[@TrexieCallejas]

i needed this video today 🤍

[@fareenashofficial]

I’m happy it came at the right time 🤍

[@maidieuhanh]

❤❤