why not being afraid to lose him will trigger his need for you

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Fareen Ash

Fareen Ash

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@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
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@userxoxo181
@userxoxo181 10 ай бұрын
You have to be willing to lose him to keep him.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Bingo!
@JM-bv2mo
@JM-bv2mo 10 ай бұрын
So frustrating eh? I lost him once and he pissed me off a few weeks ago and I just walked away
@userxoxo181
@userxoxo181 10 ай бұрын
@@JM-bv2moCommunicate what you feel and then take distance. I’ve learned that men respond to actions more than words. Don’t be manipulative though. Just take the space for you.
@JM-bv2mo
@JM-bv2mo 10 ай бұрын
@@userxoxo181 what do you think of this? We were dating last year for a few months, he broke it off and I disappeared on him. He reaches out 4 months later. We start off as friends again bc we’ve always been friends then last few weeks ago, I told him that I want to be more than friends. He’s like oh I’m surprised you feel this way (mind you I’ve told him already), and he said how he’s not ready to date nor wants long distance even when I said I’m moving for work. Pissed me off so much. I just said, “I respect your decision and would want you to focus on you.” Left it as that. I’m so annoyed with this mofo. He’s like oh you can get better options in other cities bc he needs to work on himself. Like I’m telling him we can go slow. But, that’s my mistake. I was willing to try. I still have him on my IG but I will NEVER reach out again.
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 10 ай бұрын
👏👏👏
@basicinfo2022
@basicinfo2022 10 ай бұрын
If you're dating for marriage and know what you need, you're not going to let a man try you out as a girlfriend or wait on him for a proposal. Youre going to keep him as an option and not take yourself off of the market until a proposal and real commitment (marriage). Being a girlfriend has exploited and wasted so many womens time and energy. Don't give wife benefits at girlfriend price.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Agreed
@tikax2085
@tikax2085 10 ай бұрын
Strongly agree
@8thousevirgin
@8thousevirgin 9 ай бұрын
Thank you for the reminder. We need to be reminded of these things again and again cos we are such nice girlies that we forget.
@SarHä22-p5s
@SarHä22-p5s 9 ай бұрын
Ecactly Learned this the hard way
@xoxjelloxox
@xoxjelloxox 9 ай бұрын
How do you not take yourself off the market if you are official? I didn’t say yes to being his gf because I didn’t feel treasured and didn’t want to be locked in.
@karlov13
@karlov13 10 ай бұрын
The worse type of woman to be is the woman that’s not going no where. The disrespect will get worse, and the man won’t value you. You have to respect and love yourself enough to leave when a man is playing with you.
@ralphkramden2089
@ralphkramden2089 10 ай бұрын
Amen! It’s not easy at all. Going on 5 months. I know I did the right thing tho.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Exactly
@wearetheworld9092
@wearetheworld9092 9 ай бұрын
@karlov, I accept this. I have been so scared of losing him, I did everything to keep him and the disrespect and devalue only increased over time. Im now tryin to keep my peace and distracting myself with trying to study again and uplevel myself. I don't ever want to deal with a man again.
@wearetheworld9092
@wearetheworld9092 9 ай бұрын
​@@IngridLennon-np4dsI hope and pray you find a good man who treats you right. But we need to be more discerning and keep our boundaries. Meanwhile pls keep growing and healing ♥️♥️
@SmashMaster
@SmashMaster 9 ай бұрын
I’ve learnt this the hard way 😢
@jennysanchez7759
@jennysanchez7759 10 ай бұрын
So true once I stopped allowing the bad behavior and walked away he has changed so much ! Complete 180 ! He’s treating me so much better now .
@YourRichLifeMedia
@YourRichLifeMedia 10 ай бұрын
Yep!!!
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Love hearing that! Good for you!
@melmel7011
@melmel7011 9 ай бұрын
A man who really loves you, won't treat you bad Its that simply
@lifewithjazz4168
@lifewithjazz4168 8 ай бұрын
Asking for myself what does it mean you stop allowing bad behavior
@VanessaKiara
@VanessaKiara 7 ай бұрын
are you two still going good?
@YourRichLifeMedia
@YourRichLifeMedia 10 ай бұрын
This is absolutely when my man began to want to commit. We were recently talking about this and he said that knowing that I would (and did) leave him was what made him know he had to stop playing and step up. And as much as I love him today, I will absolutely still walk away
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
So much yes!!
@manishashrotriya
@manishashrotriya 9 ай бұрын
👏👏👏👏
@xoxjelloxox
@xoxjelloxox 9 ай бұрын
We’re you worried if you walk away and go back to him he wouldn’t respect you?
@YourRichLifeMedia
@YourRichLifeMedia 9 ай бұрын
Not at all!!!! Because he had to come back ready. Recently we were having a discussion and he said that knowing I would leave is what made him know he had to be the man that I desired. He was afraid to lose me. And he definitely keeps a smile on my face now. I think the key is knowing that he can't come back unless he comes back respecting you at the highest level.@@xoxjelloxox
@misscleo_
@misscleo_ 5 ай бұрын
I walked away from the man and cut him off in silence because he played games with me and showed off with another woman. He is now showing signs of deep regret. I still care but he needs to change.
@92martymar
@92martymar 9 ай бұрын
Standards & Boundaries over Emotions/Accolades/ sweetness
@lalak2001
@lalak2001 8 ай бұрын
Walked away from engagement 3 weeks ago. Focused on healing, self improvement and leveling up.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 8 ай бұрын
Wow, I know how hard that can be. If it’s meant to be, and he knows you’re his wife, he will figure out a way to get you back 🤍
@vidhiharia9546
@vidhiharia9546 12 күн бұрын
He needs to experience a feeling of loss. We take anything abundant for granted. He needs to feel security and a sense of loss with a woman. He needs to feel worth, like he can't operate from the lower aspect of himself. This woman isn't gonna allow me to not be a best version of myself. You need to stay true to his standards. They want to make sure the woman doesn't lock him down. He wants freedom. She's not going to make him too comfortable. She'll communicate how he's showing up and will be ready to walk away. Woman won't rush courtship, he'll actually be ready to put his freedom down.
@oliviajayward
@oliviajayward 9 ай бұрын
makes sense why my dad proposed to my mum straight away in same year as he met her. miss my dad so much 😢
@learnitnow6265
@learnitnow6265 6 ай бұрын
I'm sorry about your dad. My father did the same thing with my mom. He was very clear and moved quick and she always jokes about others who had their eyes on her and good thing he stepped up.
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic 10 ай бұрын
My friend is with a man for 4 years and he finally proposed but not a date set..they are living together, i believe she is wasting her time and he has a wandering eye...i also believe a man knows within a year and that is also my timeline in the future.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Good for you! Wandering eye.. yikes. If this is how it is now, it will be much worse later.
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic 10 ай бұрын
​@@fareenashofficialI agree , I sat down with her many times but it's not working and I also deep down know that our friendship will be ending soon , I love surrounding myself with women who know their worth..
@nofybn7794
@nofybn7794 10 ай бұрын
1 year? More like 1 month
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
A man with a wandering eye... not good. He sounds insecure and needy.
@ewawlodarczyk4709
@ewawlodarczyk4709 10 ай бұрын
Thank you so much, Fareen. I met a wonderful man, he treats me like a queen and only because I stud for my standards and I am not afraid of losing him. I can feel he respects me. I heard your videos for the last 5 months, so I knew what I was supposed to do, and it went very well. You are great! Love you girl ❤
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Love you too!
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife
@spiritofhonuguidanceforlife 5 ай бұрын
I just walked away from my guy friend because he is afraid to give me the commitment I deserve. We took things very slow. We did not have physical intimacy until 9 months into our friendship. He told me in the beginning he just wanted friendship, and I did my best, but I began developing feelings for him. I told him I did not want friends with benefits and that I need commitment. I told him I'm stepping away from this connection if he decides to not commit, and that it would be permanant because I am not going to stay friends because I will need to detach emotionally. I'm giving him a full 24 hours to change his mind. If by tomorrow he hasn't reached out, I am going to begin the detachment process by removing his phone number, deleting photos, etc. so that I can move on fully. I know my worth and value. If he doesn't want me, it just means he's not my forever guy.
@Divinelyguided-kv4uc
@Divinelyguided-kv4uc 10 ай бұрын
As a young woman in her 20’s this is great advice to avoid being gaslighted and/or manipulated. Thank you, love your videos
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
I’m so happy to hear this thank you 🙏
@Singinbluebird
@Singinbluebird 10 ай бұрын
Im the queen of walking away ❤️❤️❤️
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Love it!
@Dreamergirl-lx5zb
@Dreamergirl-lx5zb 10 ай бұрын
This is beautiful advice. I wish more women thought like this
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Thank you 🙏 I wish this as well
@MissStrawberryGun
@MissStrawberryGun 9 ай бұрын
Guuuuurrl.... Fareen, you're going to blow up. You're so captivating, inspirational, strong, youthful, and wise. I haven't heard anyone else say the things you are in such a way that was able to speak to me on a soul-level, blessing me with so many epiphanies. Thanks to you, I was able to get the clarity I've longed for to get me out of the frozen trauma response state that I've been in for years. You're such a fucking badass !!!!! Keep it up 🥰
@lw4294
@lw4294 10 ай бұрын
I left when I saw no integrity and disrespect but I didn’t voice the reason why I left. So I walked away from someone I cared about by saying “we’re not a good match” but I didn’t communicate the reasons why exactly. I assumed he knows why but also I don’t know how to communicate well
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
They always know 🤍
@ralphkramden2089
@ralphkramden2089 10 ай бұрын
I did the same thing. I know he knows because I had talked to him about it a few times.
@degrasi135790
@degrasi135790 10 ай бұрын
It's not your job to teach him
@FavDogBisquit
@FavDogBisquit 9 ай бұрын
They KNOW! They want to argur
@Yemeno45
@Yemeno45 4 ай бұрын
​@fareenashofficial no they Don't always know. Communication is the cornerstone of every relationship.
@d1v1n1ti
@d1v1n1ti 5 ай бұрын
I just walked away from someone that was verbally telling me I was in the friendzone but his behavior was opposite... and I was totally chasing/mothering... I realized after hearing your videos this behavior and just felt so embarrassed and disgusted with myself. I cut it off immediately! I stopped responding instantly and took the items I had put in their locker back out, and I am not looking back. I actually got to this level of understanding my value on my own, like how dare I allow myself to be dragged along in someone's ego basking... I'm better than that, he wasn't even being that good of a friend either. did nothing nor offered anything for my birthday and barely remembered it. I'm so empowered right now. he is acting as if he's mad, I've said nothing and I'm not treating him any way- not bad nothing, just like everyone else. I am ignoring his tantrum because he knew I had a crush, I sadly admitted it months ago when he replied "we are just friends, it has to stay that way". and I didn't walk away then, but now I am. I'm so happy I have your videos because this feels really right. and very good! THANK YOU FOR helping me see the light ❤❤❤ I can't wait to save up for your book!
@indyd9322
@indyd9322 8 ай бұрын
Lots of good points in this video, but it is WAY harder to just walk away once you've been married for a significant amount of time. Your lives become deeply intertwined emotionally, logistically (such as raising kids together), and financially. It is dang hard to just walk away then.
@ryanbailey8588
@ryanbailey8588 9 ай бұрын
This only works on anxious men who you wouldn’t need to play this game with anyway. Try this with an avoidant man and it’s “challenge accepted”.
@ladymiss9134
@ladymiss9134 9 ай бұрын
Right the avoidant doesnt give 2 fucks about what your doing. He loves his freedom.
@epicfreakshow
@epicfreakshow 9 ай бұрын
I think the avoidant starts to freak out if you walk away, could be wrong tho@@ladymiss9134
@JustMe-ki3ce
@JustMe-ki3ce 9 ай бұрын
@@ladymiss9134anything is better than being with an avoidant
@nadiasympa1233
@nadiasympa1233 9 ай бұрын
There's no such s thing as an avoidant, just a guy who doesn't love you enough.
@ryanbailey8588
@ryanbailey8588 9 ай бұрын
@@nadiasympa1233 …patently false statement, but I’ll leave you to your opinion. As a guy who was anxious, and is now avoidant, I can tell you that betrayal will make you never trust or try again.
@Bluebutterfly80
@Bluebutterfly80 9 ай бұрын
100% do the inner work and raise your vibration! Talk is cheap energy never lies! Great video thank you new subscriber 💜
@ladymiss9134
@ladymiss9134 9 ай бұрын
Oh my , how freaking exhausting this is! How anout we do like our parents and grandparents dod and just follow your heart and gut feelings. This is too much!
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hi😮
@sanjeevbains690
@sanjeevbains690 5 ай бұрын
Give him the opportunity to rise up & be the best version of himself.
@karinesavard2016
@karinesavard2016 9 ай бұрын
Hi, first video I watch of yours. Well spoken, I like the way you talk respectfully yet straight to the point. A lot of men are trying to get away with the most they can get from a woman without the effort or commitment. Even proclaiming "after marriage "things" (read; sex) is going downhill. What is sad is that most single men are porn addicts, often drink too much, don't take good care of themselves and lack enough self worth to actually work on themselves. The women they attract are often for looks only to "improve their own image" of becoming an old lonely man. Often they say they "love you" when they actually only love the idea of being loved, fulfilled in a way. It is like they make a woman responsible for their happiness, allowing them to stay status quo and get a bonus without doing the extra work. Maybe I sound judgemental but these are my experiences unfortunately and I prefer staying single than being a surrogate mom for a guy who refuses to take really good care of himself first.
@laurenw2446
@laurenw2446 9 ай бұрын
I like this idea of being a quality woman. The one scary thing is the gaslighting and love bombing that can happen before marriage, which can be very confusing.
@Braveh3artGirl
@Braveh3artGirl 9 ай бұрын
Hey Fareen, can you do a video on communicating boundaries within the relationship that demonstrate your standards for the man?
@sept2866
@sept2866 2 күн бұрын
Excellent Fereen
@denisezayas3152
@denisezayas3152 9 ай бұрын
I agree but I also agree that it’s the other way around too.
@sarahsawrie
@sarahsawrie 10 ай бұрын
Love!!! Amazing message 🤍 I’m learning so much from you and all you’re teaching and modelling 🩷🩷🩷 Really just gotta do my own work. Most important thing 🥰
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
I was waiting for your message 😊
@sarahsawrie
@sarahsawrie 10 ай бұрын
@@fareenashofficial 🥰🥰🥰
@sarahsawrie
@sarahsawrie 10 ай бұрын
@@fareenashofficial I need all the repetition for reprogramming. Hearing you and feeling your message in all its facets and angles are helping so much. Love you! You’re the greatest 😍
@alexo1792
@alexo1792 9 ай бұрын
Spot on jheez every single point was like yes yes yes!
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 9 ай бұрын
I love hearing that 🤍🙏
@cinderling5472
@cinderling5472 10 ай бұрын
A growth oriented fulfilling relationship is the end goal! YES 👍👍👍 I LOVE you Fareen! This one hit so well ❤❤❤ Thank you for your precious wisdom! 🙏
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Yes!! I love you too! Happy you’ve found me!
@Soysaucinn
@Soysaucinn 10 ай бұрын
Such a great video!! ❤ Always always always goes back to doing the inner work! Love that! Really shows how we’re here for growth & expansion.
@Abel012
@Abel012 9 ай бұрын
As a man i would take it as she’s not interested making me feel shes not interested and walk away with my peace
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
Why would she walk away if you were doing your best? Women don't walk unless there is justification. She won't be back either if she has self respect.
@minminphuong11
@minminphuong11 3 ай бұрын
I'm so thankful that your video showed up on my KZbin site. Such perfect timing! Thank you for the helpful guidance
@emilienaples3543
@emilienaples3543 9 ай бұрын
Lots of women complaining about men when women are actually the problem and can’t walk away when a relationship isn’t fulfilling or when a man is no longer on his toes to win you over or KEEP you won over.
@lou15176
@lou15176 9 ай бұрын
Her POV on marriage 🙌🙌 stop seeing it as the finale, the be all and end all x
@wendydaniel1110
@wendydaniel1110 2 ай бұрын
Men places high value on what or who they have to work hard for ....Men need to know there are women who will not hesitate to walk away because these women are not looking for their validation and is confident to move on putting their happiness first over the "relationship" ❤
@anita.5964
@anita.5964 10 ай бұрын
True self worth is so important. Thank you for another great video Fareen 💕
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
My pleasure 😊 thank you for being here!
@MarCariB
@MarCariB 10 ай бұрын
Thanks for the advice ❤
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Your very welcome
@Mermaid03_03
@Mermaid03_03 10 ай бұрын
This is all so accurate
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
🙏🙏
@kimberlymay9497
@kimberlymay9497 9 ай бұрын
New subbie ❤you told the truth!
@gaboserglez3978
@gaboserglez3978 9 ай бұрын
A beautiful lady was playing that game with me and anyway I left her , now she wants to be my friend , figure it out.
@almilall
@almilall 9 ай бұрын
those divine feminine bullshtters and redpillers give advice like this then all their followers act cool and want to be chased 😂
@tikax2085
@tikax2085 10 ай бұрын
Your videos are so helpful!
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad!
@tikax2085
@tikax2085 10 ай бұрын
@@fareenashofficial please share guidance on how to deal with a high value man during first dates.
@mojzivotmojput
@mojzivotmojput 10 ай бұрын
Love it. Thank you love ♥️
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
I’m so glad! 🤍
@sept2866
@sept2866 9 ай бұрын
Very good advice
@thirteenwolfies
@thirteenwolfies 9 ай бұрын
Great video wow. Thank you for sharing, I subscribed ❤
@lalak2001
@lalak2001 8 ай бұрын
I love this❤
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 8 ай бұрын
Love hearing that 🤍
@naraozim
@naraozim 6 ай бұрын
Thank you so much your videos are Gold👌
@SchoolofStuffThatMatters
@SchoolofStuffThatMatters 10 ай бұрын
This is great, but how do you let them know you are willing to walk away without threatening to leave
@barbara-annperry5941
@barbara-annperry5941 10 ай бұрын
Say even though I love you unconditionally. I am not going to take any of your bullshit. I can love you and walk away and won't look back. It's my superpower 😅. Say that.
@barbara-annperry5941
@barbara-annperry5941 10 ай бұрын
You have got to love yourself more than you love them.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
A man can “feel” it in the way we carry ourselves
@iam_caireyes
@iam_caireyes 5 ай бұрын
What if my husband was drawn to a lawyer mistress he thought would help him from his financial instability? He’s broke and he thought I bring hin bad luck and this lawyer helps him financially and he saw stability on that person?
@Lesy2317
@Lesy2317 9 ай бұрын
Love your content
@reemsaif3105
@reemsaif3105 9 ай бұрын
I walk away.when i say no i mean it. Result is am single but i like to take my time.
@pinoniks
@pinoniks 4 ай бұрын
I understand what you mean, but to be honest I don't want to be with a man from who I consider to walk away, then I'm better alone.
@Barbara-zo6pq
@Barbara-zo6pq 10 ай бұрын
HOW DO YOU WALK AWAY ELEGANTLY?
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
When you’ve shown up a certain way (read my books), you’ll understand deeper
@RomanNavy87
@RomanNavy87 9 ай бұрын
Well my dad waited 7yrs until he and my mom married & they're still married 30yrs later 🤷🏼‍♀️
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
Completely different time and era. And they were young. They weren't 35 plus.. You have to be careful when you are very young. You don't know yourself. No life experience.
@RomanNavy87
@RomanNavy87 5 ай бұрын
@jessicahitchens6926 No, it was because they broke up 3x & even dated people in between until they both wanted to marry at the same time. Most ppl got married younger those days, so they were older when they married.
@m21285
@m21285 5 ай бұрын
Hi Fareen! How exactly do you walk away? Eg Should you warn him that you may walk away? Or should you just communicate what bothers you, wait to see if he changes, then walk away without him even really being prepared for that?
@tifftreads
@tifftreads 9 ай бұрын
Very true.
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@NuriyyaKhalilova
@NuriyyaKhalilova 9 ай бұрын
I don't afraid
@sandsunbeach5228
@sandsunbeach5228 10 ай бұрын
These mind games not working any more
@izy9911
@izy9911 9 ай бұрын
what does this mean ?
@sandsunbeach5228
@sandsunbeach5228 9 ай бұрын
@@izy9911 the mind games she's teaching women to play are not working any more. Men are just ignoring women, majority of men. The men that play these games are the thrash demon men that just pump and dump you, and then you want the real men but can't find one.
@AngelBadgirl
@AngelBadgirl 4 ай бұрын
Yes
@taramsterdam
@taramsterdam 9 ай бұрын
What mic 🎙️ are you using?
@teresatilley1324
@teresatilley1324 5 ай бұрын
Could you do a video on your take on ex girlfriends still in the picture?
@BRAVE_NEW_1984
@BRAVE_NEW_1984 9 ай бұрын
How can I address his neglect though? I tried giving him space. I've gotten emotional about it. I've broken up with him... Before I let him go for good, how do I behave on our next date?
@taghazoutmoon5031
@taghazoutmoon5031 10 ай бұрын
You didn't mention at all how difficult it is to walk away after you have slept with him. There's real biological bonding and attachment. No matter how strong you are, millions of years of DNA program is stronger.
@Didi-fr5ic
@Didi-fr5ic 10 ай бұрын
Are ypu married to him? Why are you sleeping with him? You need to take accountability for opening your legs and creating a soul tie , that's on you..close your legs and keep your ears open
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
You are very right that it is difficult when the attachment is formed. The worth should be much higher and when we work on ourselves, nothing will prevent us from leaving, no matter how hard the conditioning. I hope you’re ok 🤍
@putzi9966
@putzi9966 10 ай бұрын
Not difficult at all, it’s all in your head. Don’t place too much value on sex and you will be ok
@YourRichLifeMedia
@YourRichLifeMedia 10 ай бұрын
I personally don’t find it difficult to walk away even if I’ve slept with him. Bad behavior is a huge turn off for me. So though it hurts, I leave. I’m also an Aquarius so there’s that lol
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
@TheSchoolOfQuantumLiving haha well welcome to my world:)
@DM-wv6to
@DM-wv6to 10 ай бұрын
He's very growth oriented, but he also thinks I'm too good for him. How to change this mindset.
@amandapierre-louis9039
@amandapierre-louis9039 10 ай бұрын
If that's what he believes, he'll probably self-sabotage. He needs to believe he's good enough for you in order for him not to give up bc he believes it's too hard/impossible. If you're affirming him already and it still is enough, you will have to keep helping him with his esteem and lack of confidence gets very unattractive the longer you see it.
@amandapierre-louis9039
@amandapierre-louis9039 10 ай бұрын
He should try therapy. If he's willing, that's a good sign. But it's not your responsibility to change his mindset
@DM-wv6to
@DM-wv6to 10 ай бұрын
@@amandapierre-louis9039 thank you for your replies. I agree.
@amandapierre-louis9039
@amandapierre-louis9039 10 ай бұрын
* it still is NOT enough My bad! And All love 😊
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
I would need to get into your specific situation privately to advice you accurately
@xoxjelloxox
@xoxjelloxox 9 ай бұрын
What if you want to wait to be physically intimate but to him he can get another girl for that if it’s needed for him no matter if he respect you. He can find someone else that gives him that and respect him.
@smileyface5350
@smileyface5350 8 ай бұрын
So he not for u.
@jasmincordelia5477
@jasmincordelia5477 9 ай бұрын
How does a woman walk away? Could you please provide an example or two? Thanks
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hu😊
@christensanders340
@christensanders340 9 ай бұрын
Stop talking to his ass … cold turkey ., weather you want to give him an explanation or not is on you
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
Disengage with no contact. Or tell him this isn't working for me. I'm moving on. Delete his number.
@Betterselfjourney1
@Betterselfjourney1 10 ай бұрын
I made great mistakes, no more.
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
You’ve gained new awareness 🤍
@izdark8733
@izdark8733 6 ай бұрын
5:00
@justsomeideas9594
@justsomeideas9594 10 ай бұрын
Another great video Fareen❤️After a woman has walked away from a relationship less than a year. How long can it take for a man to realize that she’s the one?
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
It really depends on the circumstances of the relationship, usually if it’s the “right” woman and she’s conducted herself properly, he’ll know he’s messed up RIGHT away!
@justsomeideas9594
@justsomeideas9594 10 ай бұрын
@@fareenashofficial was just curious. I definitely have shown up the right way, no nagging, begging, complaining telling what to do, threats none of the low value behaviors and communication. I simply said, I don’t like how this relationship is going, I’m taking a break from it. I walked away 2 weeks ago. Still moving forward with my life regardless if he’s in it or not. This was done innately, you only confirmed what I knew to do. Thank you😊
@Dajana94x
@Dajana94x 10 ай бұрын
9:10 how do you communicate that in a feminine energy?
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
It depends on the specific situation
@MonaPatel-nz9yi
@MonaPatel-nz9yi 8 ай бұрын
I showed up High Value, and didnt let him get away with anything, he was still abusive. Must have been a narcissist
@priscillachavez6466
@priscillachavez6466 10 ай бұрын
True, True
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
🤍🤍
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
@princedjaba4626
@princedjaba4626 9 ай бұрын
Men have more options and choices when it comes to dating. Any woman who doesn't reciprocate or appreciate your time and efforts must be dumped or replaced.
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
Keep riding the carousel to nowhere. Let's see you at 60 🤡
@Yemeno45
@Yemeno45 4 ай бұрын
Lmao.....when has a man ever had more options than a woman.
@4seasons546
@4seasons546 19 күн бұрын
I doubt that you are looking for a long term relationship or wife. You are more likely sowing your seeds ! Lol
@marieestelle709
@marieestelle709 9 ай бұрын
Great
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 9 ай бұрын
🙏🙏
@izdark8733
@izdark8733 6 ай бұрын
4:20
@adraedharq8738
@adraedharq8738 10 ай бұрын
Thank u Fareen from Morocco 🇲🇦,How we can do that in Long distance relationship?
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
You’re very welcome! It depends on the situation. You can write me or book a session for specific input 🤍
@adraedharq8738
@adraedharq8738 10 ай бұрын
@@fareenashofficial ❤❤
@izdark8733
@izdark8733 6 ай бұрын
11:58
@KevonnieElaine
@KevonnieElaine 10 ай бұрын
Yep!
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
🙏
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@james4P367
@james4P367 Ай бұрын
This is why men don’t want to marry women… we really want to but they’re being taught by dating coaches to pull away and exit at the slightest sign he might look like he’s not fully committed, or his ‘standards slip’. Men of high value have got everything to lose in a divorce and zero control over it. its a sad state of affairs that we can’t have an off day because of how it makes you ‘feel’ and what the internet is telling you it means, which is b/s in most cases btw. The reason we want to be with a woman in the first place is because we want support compassion and understanding and loyalty, but sadly social media is a constant form of attention from other males which gives women options as soon as things get ‘tough’. men feel zero security these days because of this and It really seems much safer and easier to be alone (sadly)
@ladypaix4314
@ladypaix4314 5 күн бұрын
Communication and compatibility are key, no amount of strategies works if the basics are not there 🤷‍♀️
@sharonhammonds5244
@sharonhammonds5244 9 ай бұрын
Stupid games. Just be in love.
@kingaberlakovich5585
@kingaberlakovich5585 9 ай бұрын
These are games.
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
Men love sports and all sorts of games.
@mariadelmarmediterraneo2112
@mariadelmarmediterraneo2112 8 ай бұрын
I try to understand why marriage should be a woman's goal. I follow you and like your message, but that's the thing that I dont get to understand fully.
@mykimikimiky
@mykimikimiky 9 ай бұрын
mind games...
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
Mind games isn't walking away. Mind games is telling a woman you care yet do nothing to prove it. Wasting time..
@genteelcowgirl0119
@genteelcowgirl0119 10 ай бұрын
You're so beautiful Fareen :).
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Thank you 😊
@MargaretBuj_InterviewCoach
@MargaretBuj_InterviewCoach 10 ай бұрын
So good!
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Thank you ! 🤍
@izdark8733
@izdark8733 6 ай бұрын
14:20
@mariamartinusz9699
@mariamartinusz9699 10 ай бұрын
Games
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hi😊
@cynthiathurman6991
@cynthiathurman6991 8 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@thomasj.loebel9809
@thomasj.loebel9809 7 ай бұрын
Love is not in a wheel of relative sides that mark caused to reach him at s-even after commanding her to only tempt at six. One at six is s-even as a false Heaven he calls sex. one star finds six at one while the other has six as who L L Y finds the open space of curved light at the center of the star He brewed where s-even goes out of the O and into gods curved light. walk away is to learn what love really is..why do you walk back is the question? The answer is that Mark hid the other Lord when he commanded you to only tempt the lord when you arrive at true love... then the relative response is to ride a red [re and de] horse back to the false lord who will blame you next time because you came to him for your needs instead of love you should have learned by now from "follow the lord" [means never reach] uses the false love first to learn from and then .."fear the Lord" as the false lord you follow but can never reach because that kind of love is only to learn from and never go to again..if you want to get out of HE-LL at six [LL] the first time..or love him his WAY [sides of thought double crossed to send themselves to him after he told them to appear as if they are alone to him to tempt the lord who knows already that she is with him because she must always give it away the first day or it might look like love that did not tempt him right away to go after her. "I" have no need of false love left behind except to exhort truth to save those from returning again as good slaves in the past called ISIL.
@zsszikszai5180
@zsszikszai5180 10 ай бұрын
😍😍😍
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
🙏🙏
@mdot2213
@mdot2213 9 ай бұрын
How does one show they’re willing to walk away? How do you demonstrate this without a lot of conflict or drama in the relationship?
@spiritualBaddi
@spiritualBaddi 7 ай бұрын
✌️
@queenie547
@queenie547 10 ай бұрын
How can a woman feels like she is worthy of something better when all her life she was never pursued by any man? Even if she thinks there are options out there, but she does not feel so..
@fareenashofficial
@fareenashofficial 10 ай бұрын
Inner work… my ebooks and course will help
@shineb5675
@shineb5675 8 ай бұрын
I heard not one lie!! I wish I could send this to my homegirl because she is literally begging/waiting for this one guy. She has a whole life planned with him in her mind , but he doesn’t call and disappears on her often. She gets excited when he replies to one of her instagram stories 🤦🏼‍♀️. She recently asked him “what are we?” And he laughed and said “Are you crazy.” There’s nothing I can tell her to leave this man alone, so Im just waiting for her to come to her senses smh.
@shineb5675
@shineb5675 8 ай бұрын
@@Seraphina93 hmmm you said nothing about him NOT being a great man though 🤔. I actually do let her be in love! As I said Im waiting for her to come to her senses. Everything I said is the truth 🤷🏼‍♀️ And I don’t talk to anyone about this! This video peaked my interest because of her situation! And I listened to find any advice I can give to her without being mean.
@jessicahitchens6926
@jessicahitchens6926 5 ай бұрын
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hope she is young. Because that kind of desperation is pathetic if you are mature. Its delusion and obsession.
@izdark8733
@izdark8733 3 ай бұрын
4:39
@lushisushiemushi
@lushisushiemushi 9 ай бұрын
This is wild.
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr
@ArdShrivastav-we2zr 9 ай бұрын
Hi😊😅
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