Why Must I Say Goodbye & What Will Happen If I Do? Moving & Buying a Home

WAIT! How do we say goodbye to the people we love and the things we love? As we age, saying goodbye is our contact companion. How can we handle it better? What does goodbye really mean? Has it ever led to something wonderful? Let's talk about how many times we have said goodbye and what did it lead to.
It was a busy week of getting things in order for the closing of my new home...organizing and packing, spending a wonderful day with Hal at the thrift store & dinner, and playing with Desi...preparing him for his very own backyard!
This is an intimate conversation honoring our friendship here on Easter.
Have you ever been brokenhearted in saying goodbye only to have it lead to something wonderful?
We all have dreams...and I talk about the one thing I was told as a child over and over again.
Don't Give Up. Perhaps I understand the passion my grandfather had to instill in me at such a young age. We can get knocked down so often in life and sometimes get discouraged and so weary.....but something inside us just can't give up...and we remind each other here, to keep going no matter what.
Please know I love you and I am so grateful you.
I am so thrilled you are all going on this move to a new city with me!
You are all such a light in my life.
We love you to the moon and back again....
Love always, Desi and Me
Monika's Beauty & Lifestyle / - A huge thank you to my dear friend Monika who helped guild me through my real estate questions this past year. We will be doing some fun collaborations together on buying homes after a certain age. She is an expert agent and teacher and a wonderful woman. • The Road To Beautiful ...
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People will come Ray...for it's money they have and peace, they lack. And they'll walk out to the bleachers; sit in shirtsleeves on a perfect afternoon. They'll find they have reserved seats somewhere along one of the baselines, where they sat when they were children and cheered their heroes. People will come Ray. This field, this game: it's a part of our past. It reminds us of all that once was good and it could be again.
if you build it...they will come...
It's up to you..it's all up to you
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[@andreabenson2491]

Your closing will be near the baseball field because grandpa is saying no matter where you live he will be there - he's passing the torch, it's your turn to be the grandparent - to talk with your grandchildren and to let them know that one day they can be anything they aspire to, so long as they don't give up 👍👏😊it's funny how life works! Wonderful experiences are ahead 💕 Blessings

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for these beautiful words, Andrea...it's such an emotional time and I feel such joy and peace....A Very Happy easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

[@marysmyth8288]

Susan always a joy each week to listen to your Reflections, so love your story of your time with Your Grandfather. Yes I do relate to moving on to new beginnings, My dear husband of 51 yrs passed in 2016, Toronto I decided to retire to Vancouver, best decision As now my life is so wonderful , mostly because I am of Irish birth, so here out West ,living in a Small nautical village 30mins south of The Airport Is so very similar to my life on The Irish Coastal town Of Bangor Co.Down Ps iat age 14yrs and a schoolgirl, it was time to have a Bra As a very shy girl, I wandered into Woolworth's wooden floors Back then in Belfast, wandered to the To the Bra counter, all led out in rows.myself kept looking Around , then waiting for some customers to leave. Then grabbed a bra without checking the size Except guessing the smallest size. Home I go to try on..guess what ! First of all it was colour Black ! And then to My horror, 😳it was all sewed in a circular Pointed fashion , designed to really poke out 🙀 Ha ha Mary Canada 🇨🇦

[@darlahkelley9800]

Absolutely 💯

[@mariac.gonzalez3041]

Not goodbye . HELLO

[@Sandy-zr5hs]

That was just lovely ❤️ and so is Hal he makes me chuckle! Goodbye us such a final word, change it to See You Later and it sounds so much better 🌈

[@carolynsalmons1882]

10 years ago I was 68 years old. My husband I made the decision to leave our home in West Virginia and move to Azle, Texas. We had lived in WV our entire lives. My daughter was in TX. My husband was not well and he passed away after only 15 months in Texas. It was very hard leaving my friends and family in WV and it took me about 2 years to❤ find my people here❤ I volunteered at the local animal shelter. But that wasn't my people. I finally joined a Red Hatters group, made a few friends there but joined another group and there were my people. Out of that group 6 of use are real friends and we are from all over the country. Massachusetts, Arizona, Iowa, and of course Tx. SO all that to say this. It was the best move I could have made, I have my daughter, son and grandkids close. We each live our separate lives, but always check on each other and come together quite often. Loving and living my best life. God bless and enjoy the new adventure.

[@BlingyBea]

How wonderful❤

[@lisalowe7679]

Try to remember how happy your sweet pup will be when he can run in his yard. A dogs DREAM!

[@bettypecoraro8104]

A good friend once said, and this is a quote from his grandmother. “Life is about losing things” …losing your 2 front teeth, saying goodbye to a friend moving away, losing a boyfriend or a good friend to an accident in high school and finally losing a spouse. There are many seasons in life.

[@Lorena-dv9hr]

so true! Losing those two front teeth. It starts right away doesn't it!

[@gl3875]

Your grandfather saw you as a person, who you were and he imparted his best knowledge to his favorite person. He wanted you to have a good life. ❤ You were a lucky little girl

[@LittlePoet]

I agree with you...I was very lucky..he was such a great man...

[@jgp8525]

In Navajo, there is no word for good bye....it's, "until later!" We said later to a town we lived in in Arizona, for 16 years. My eldest son still lives there with his bride. We still consider that town our home and friends we made are still friends.

[@patriciarussell756]

Not having good friends, I can only imagine.Its a treasure to have one!

[@SB-kg2is]

I could only imagine what it would be like. You aren’t alone.

[@patriciarussell756]

@@SB-kg2is I did have a really good one we were work friends but then I retired. And it was hard for her to keep up the friendship I guess. But I think of her everyday, and I'm thankful that we had those years together.

[@audreymo63]

Me either. @Patricia Russell

[@doloresparker3582]

Susan can’t wait to see Desi running free in his own backyard! You don’t have to say goodbye, just say “I’ll see you later” as I did when my husband drew his last breath on earth. I hope Hal will continue to be a part of your life. He appears to be a special part of your life. Love to you, Desi and Hal❤️❤️❤️

[@bridget6890]

Hal looks sad, he's gonna miss you, for sure! 💜

[@maggiecamps6790]

Hal should move close to you, too, if he doesn't have a family. You both are going to miss each other so much 😢

[@janew4690]

At 75 it still amazes me that when someone passes you can tell they are not there. Their soul has gone to the Father. It is wonderful thing to know they are not in pain or suffering. They are gone but never forgotten if loved. And the great thing is we will see them again. This was lovely. Thank you for the best video you have done.

[@LittlePoet]

Oh yes...yes!!!

[@sephardishalom2693]

​@@Mollygurl29 Jesus loves you and your soul is priceless!

[@MsHendrix5]

Goodbye Grandfather, Hello God ❤ what a beautiful thought!

[@susanwilliams1575]

Susan, it’s hard to leave “home”, but you will have so much joy being there with family. I’m 58, and 10 years ago I moved 1.5 hours north of where I had live 48 years. I’m still trying to find things around, but it’s good. It was very uncomfortable at first, but now-this is home. Your new house has so much character and you are going to have so much fun making it “home”.

[@momLNC]

Susan, this video couldn't have come at a better time, I just lost my mother three weeks ago and the story of your Grandfather really hit home. I felt the same way when I saw my Italian Mama, she was at peace with God.. Also , that same week, my daughter, who has been living and working in California and has been trying to transfer within her company to move over to an area nearer to me on the East Coat, got the transfer, so she's bringing her family and my two small Grandchildren to live near me, the timing could not have been better. I need them, I just lost my best friend, my Mom, who was a young mother so I got to spend 62 years with her and now that Goodbye will turn into a Hello with my new life with them.

[@LittlePoet]

I am so sorry for your loss...and so grateful you come here tonight and share your life...xxoo Susan & Desi

[@momLNC]

@@LittlePoet Thank you and I really wish you and Desi the best with your move

[@Vicki1951]

It’s my belief that our very loving Father had a hand in getting your daughter’s transfer approved. I’m sorry you had to say goodbye to your mom. I had to do the same. But I’m very happy that your daughter and grandchildren will live much closer to you.

[@ashleybergstrom8934]

What a blessing! Being near family is everything. My mother too, at peace with God. Another blessing and hope.

[@susanross7430]

Congratulations on your new home Susan ! I know how it is to say goodbye to a place or to people and friends, that you’ve known a long time! I hope your Dear Friend Hal will be able to visit you. Does he live close by you where you’re living now? he’s sure going to miss you and Desi. well Susan, I wish you and cutie pie Desi, Good luck and Godspeed.!❤❤️🙏🙏

[@natnielsen8472]

I love Desi in his little pink bow! Ya' know what? Desi had to say good bye to his old life! Look at how fantastic his adventure is with his mom! He had no idea the joy of love, hugs, and kisses - along with wonderful treats, a soft bed, and fun walks! You and Desi have so much to look forward to - a new beautiful adventure awaits you! This is the joy of life, is it not?? With a love of Christ all things are possible - the old self dies continually, and the new self gets renewed in Him everyday!! Enjoy the joy of this new adventure and let Hal lift the heavy boxes!! Hugs!!

[@LittlePoet]

THANK YOU so much for your wonderful comment! A very Happy Easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

[@kateg7298]

What a beautiful comment. Happy Easter to you.

[@deborahpellerito6117]

Beautifully said

[@creilly3728]

When you said the closing is going to be right next to the field your grandfather loved so much, I took that as a sign that he's with you and telling you that you've done well and this is the right move for you. I belive the universe gives us signs and that this is one. ❤🙏🤗

[@LittlePoet]

THANK YOU so much for your wonderful comment! A very Happy Easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

[@margaretrose8105]

2 yrs ago..I said goodbye to my hometown of 74 years and moved two and a half hours NW to be close to my son and his family. I have never regretted it.. I have great neighbors and have made alot of new friends.

[@maxinebaskerville6020]

There are no coincidences in life are there? 😊 Your Grandfather will be right there when you're signing and SO very proud that YOU never gave up! ❤

[@LittlePoet]

Oh how you make me tear up! Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

[@conniesdiamondlinexpress5366]

My husband and I used to never say goodbye. He said it sounded like forever so we said,” I’ll see ya soon”. So, I’ll see ya soon Susan. 🙏🏻🙏🏻😊❤

[@rosemaryburford7607]

Susan, you are entering a new chapter in your life and it’s an amazing one at that. You will make new friends and fall in love with your new town. I am so happy for you and Desi and I can’t wait to see what’s ahead for you two. Love to you and Desi ❤

[@cherylpinter2134]

I have said goodbye to my mom,my two aunts and my sister all within the last ten years. It is comforting to know they are with the Lord and this is only a temporary goodbye and I will be with them. My heart warmed when you said that you were signing the papers right across the street from the Field of dreams you and your grandpa used to walk through. That was a gift from God to remind you of your grandpa telling you not to give up on your dreams and now here you are finally moving into your new home by your children and your grandchildren! Many blessings to you and Desi on your next chapter in life 🙏

[@barbfrank917]

Just think of all the grandma walks with your grand babies ❤

[@carriedavis9675]

Goodbye to one house and hello to a new house and new beginnings, new street, new part of town and new neighbors and neighborhood!!! 🥰👵🏽🙏🏾 Blessings to you and Desi and Happy resurrection Day, for He lives!! tfs

[@donnam4612]

Oh Susan, what an emotional video. I was in tears when you were describing where you will sign the closing papers on your house. It's not merely a coincidence, he told you never give up...and you didn't. You saved, and now you get to start a new chapter of your life in your new little house.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so os much for saying these words to me! I so feel this is a sign!! And it feels so good!!!

[@rhonies9229]

We were military and we said lots of goodbyes and hello to new locations/adventures. I have been blessed to have been able to revisit many locations from my past childhood and adult life. I have a belief that goodbye is closing a chapter but not ending the memories. My heart holds them close. I look at the closing being across from the ball field is saying it is okay and time to move to your next adventure. Your count down is underway - you have a week - hold your memories fondly and lovingly. Have a great week.

[@annetindall7793]

Dear Susan, Have you thought about writing a book?, i believe it would be wonderful. Adelaide Australia❤

[@debbiechaney6607]

My beloved father "Des" who was a door to door mailman for 32 years lived with only me one of his four children before his passing at 89.. What a treasured gift that he picked me to live with during his final years. Those glorious years made me feel like an "only" child. Our conversations were so wonderful. He learned all about me and I learned all about him. Treasured times I will never forget. Best of good times with your new house adventure. You too are a true treasure to all of us. Happy Easter. Sincerely, Debbie and Dexter-Dog my sweet silly rescued tiny Chihuahua companion living a quiet crafty great grandma life in southern California. 💞🏠🏠🐾🐾👍👍🙏🙏🇺🇸✝️

[@franzone70]

This was a sad but happy video. I also went through this ten years ago when we moved from our home of 39 years and the area that I grew up in, to a place two hours north. away from friends and family. My husband wanted to retire by a lake which we did, but then he passed away six months later. So I was left in an area were I had to make new friends and get used to new surroundings. But I've made new friends, and I love my new surroundings.

[@LadyBug1967]

Susan, it's🌅 Easter -- a time of new beginnings. As the Irish blessing says: MAY THE ROAD RISE TO MEET YOU MAY THE WIND ALWAYS BE AT YOUR BACK MAY THE ☀️ SHINE ON YOUR FACE. May the rain fall softly upon your field And until we meet again May the Lord hold you safely in the 🤌palm of his Hand 🧚

[@sharonhardy7187]

Hal is such a nice man. Will he still join you on videos when you move? I hope so.

[@doloresparker3582]

The thrifting will not be the same without the bantering back and forth between you and Hal

[@evie7845]

Great video!!!You are going to be okay!!!You will be making new memories!!!! I’m 72 and recently I moved to my own home from a house I had rented for 15 years and I said to my son,it’s going to be sad when I move out of our house with so many memories of the grandchildren and everyone and he said you will make NEW memories!!!Bless you!!!

[@nancylang4294]

I was fortunate that my parents let me know that I could do and be anything in this life. I was born in 1954. My parents were ahead of their time. I was also surrounded by my friends whose parents had the same beliefs. Lucky little girl I was who worked on cars with my Dad and baked cakes with my Mom as my older brother did. Still working as a biochemist at 69 and taking care of my own home. Thanks Mom and Dad for your values. Susan we are very fortunate to have had people who believed in us.

[@barbchrisman5066]

I'm so glad you said hello to the Lord! I look forward to meeting your grandfather when we get Home! Happy Resurrection Day! He is risen, just as He said! Yea Jesus!

[@tonihendrix6652]

Me too❣️

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

[@mitzismith2382]

I’ve been a subscriber for 5 months & just love your channel. Your so uplifting❤️. 17 years ago I said goodbye to dealing with a verbally & emotionally abusive husband by drinking & becoming reclusive. I rose up, found my voice again & said hello to the rest of my life. This new chapter in your life is going to be fabulous & I can’t wait to see your & Desi’s new home. Thank you Susan for the beautiful heartfelt videos❤️

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

[@kathylibby3676]

Brava for the strength to rebuild and redefine you life.

[@zelmajex3957]

I said goodbye two years ago to a beach location and returned to the main city. My best friend was caring for his dying mother and my older brother was aging fast and alone. To be here with and for them has been true loving purpose. My little Xiaoy and I have fami.y now. That goodbye brought me home.

[@kathyphifer7546]

Closings are also openings. Walk through the door with joy in your heart ❤️

[@Cookingforacrowd]

When my last child left home ( we have 5) I said hello to my hubby. Empty nesting is actually kinda fun! We go out in dates more, watch mindless TV shows just because without interruptions…. We miss our kids, but it’s like we are dating again. It is good!

[@ellenhaben1217]

Hal was made for you; your great friends and loving companions!!!💖💖

[@LittlePoet]

He's a pill....I love him..but he's a pill!!!

[@ellenhaben1217]

That's love,😂👍💖

[@kentuckylady7344]

Oh sweet Susan, thank you for sharing your memories of your grandfather. What a wonderful time you had with him. Now it is your turn to make wonderful memories with your grandchildren. Just as you remember your grandfather, your grandchildren will remember you. I'm so happy for you. God Bless

[@ivybonanno2050]

Dear Susy, I know how you feel, I left Miami in November to move to another state. The moved was terrible ! After living there since 1965 , I had to say good bye to all my friends , family, only house I knew since I got married. It's been 7 months now and still I have not gotten used to my new place. I am closer to my husband's family and they are wonderful, but I find myself feeling like my body is here but my mind is back in Miami. Everything is so different here. So, I'll be praying for you to make a smooth transition into your new home, and will be watching you decorate your new home. I am still trying to get mine organized. So proud of your acomplishments. Best of luck and blessings. I will be watching you. ❤️.

[@cindygarrison6338]

Beautiful story of faith. Your grandfather was surely smiling in heaven. And I bet God laughed. ❤

[@jillhickey6036]

I hope you see Hal a lot too!

[@LittlePoet]

You will!!!

[@mlstroh7]

I can resonate so many of your feelings . I was a tomboy and could out run my whole class, picture in baseball and climbed trees singing " Zippity-DoDa " . You show soo much love for your grandpa and it's sweet/sad , just remember that he wasn't in that casket but in your heart . Take some dirt from the ball diamond field and maybe something there that you hold dear and put it in your new home. In a frame or vase or whatever you want. God bless you and taking us on all your journeys in life . Yes, there are a lot of good-byes in life but the new will someday be another cherished place with lovely memories that we hang onto . So glad you will be with your family , that's a true blessing ! Happy Easter to you ...

[@LittlePoet]

Oh what a wonderful idea...I am going to do just that!

[@bettypecoraro8104]

That’s a great idea!!

[@patticakesintexas]

I don't know if you know it or not but Hal loves you! It shows. And we ❤ you too!!!

[@georgiajones8966]

Amazing how God answers our prayers. So excited and really thrilled for you and Desi!

[@annmeeks9273]

Susan, my grandfather raised me also. He taught me the value of hard work and protecting your family. I went through a really hard time just after he died, even considered death for me as well. One night as I lay crying in my bed, he was suddenly there sitting on the side of the bed, I could feel not only his love but actually smell his pipe smoke!! His message…never give up. That’s been decades ago and I know he is still with me as is the Lord. I’ve had to say goodby so many times in my 74 year life and it seems that each time it is growth and opportunity. I am so happy that you are getting your house. I had to say goodbye to Colorado and moved to the coast of NC but just LOVE it and have more friends than ever in the past. I’m so looking forward to seeing your new home and enjoying putting it together with you. Happy and Blessed Easter

[@LittlePoet]

Oh Ann....I am so happy to see you...you have always been with me so kind and so supportive....saying good-bye to Colorado must have been so tough....but you thrived!! I am excited to start hanging the new curtains!!!! And new flowers for a backyard I have dreamed of for over a decade.....

[@sharonproctor4079]

Your Grandfathers spirit had gone to God. I lost my Grandfather at 13. I missed his laughter his stories and jokes, his playing his fiddle, harmonica and organ. I felt his absense when I visited my Grandmothers house.

[@beulahbenade4098]

Hal has an answer for everything 😊 hunting dog.... I'm happy for you that the place where you're signing papers for your new beginning is linked to Grandpa. That's no coincidence. I'm happy for you that you've come so far, since those bleak days at the start of your KZbin. God bless xx

[@ssaah59ify]

Your videos always leave me with something to thing about. My cousin and his wife are dear friends. Growing up, they'd always be at my home on Friday night for coffee with my parents.. Over the years my relationship with them has frown...they truly are dear to me. When they retired, they decided to sell their home (5minutes away from mine) to move closer to their kids/grandkids. I was devastated...if they left I'd have no family left around me. I was so sad I couldn't bear visiting their home...the home that held so many memories. I had to move past this. So, I wrote a goodbye letter to their house...thanking it for being such a good protector and host to so many important events. The biths, the deaths, the anniversaries and graduations, the long chats about life, love, reconciliation... It was a love letter to a place that held precious memries. The hello to their new home was difficult at first, but, we have all adjusted and creating new memories.

[@margaretgreen2826]

Happy Easter Susan and Desi, I loved that as you said goodbye to your Grand Father you said hello to our Saviour gave me goosebumps I love hearing how GOD draws other’s into HIS presence . GOD bless you 🙏🏻💕 I be praying for safe packing and moving for you . Look forward to seeing you next week. 💕

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

[@rosettaroper3317]

Oh Susan, this video is so special. It brought me to tears, as I remembered the day I said goodbye to my wonderful Mother as she took her last breath. As she took her last breath her facial expression changed and I knew her soul and spirit was with Jesus. I knew then I would not have to say goodbye to her and that before long I would see her again. Thank you Susan❤

[@LittlePoet]

Oh what a beautiful story of saying goodbye to your Mother....that feeling is so powerful when you know they are gone...but still there in spirit! Thank you so much for telling me this....xxoo

[@adesign3755]

I loved the story of your grandfather and how you felt peace inside! How it help you believe in the Lord. Beautiful story ❤ I love that your grandfather was a believer! Praise You Jesus for bringing us to You, in complete belief that You are God. Amen 🙏 yes I am a believer ❤

[@aujkalenic4203]

This day of Easter is all about new Life and growth in a Kingdom not made by hands..... Celebrate Life Always🎉🩷🐦💙🦜💜🎉

[@dianecelento4974]

Hal is so witty with his answers about the picture and the salad. Love him in your videos.

[@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts]

Have a blessed Resurrection Sunday, but for the grace of God, we are saved on the blood of Jesus Christ our Savior🩸🩸 so looking forward to your new beginnings. It’s going to be an exciting and blessed journey. I will be along for the ride.. loves and hugs to you and the Dapper Des from me and Otis🐶 Massachusetts p.s. I was a tomboy also, I love hanging out with the guys.

[@tonihendrix6652]

Thank you for posting this beautiful truth, Faith!❤

[@FaithyandOtis..Massachusetts]

@@tonihendrix6652 you are quite welcome Toni🌺🌺 Have a blessed night, and a joyful Resurrection Sunday🙏🙏

[@kathylibby3676]

You bring such joy each week. Why is it that every week, your message hits home? In 1984 I reacquainted with a high school friend after not seeing him for 18 years. We fell in love. Marriage would meaning leaving family, friends, a church community and a teaching job in a community I loved. That was my whole life! But marry we did! I moved to another state to be with him far from what I had ever known. Many thought I was foolish to give up so much to embark on the unknown. Yet after 38 years of marriage, I declare that he is a princely man, well worth the risk. Never in my wildest dream, just one year before seeing him again, did I imagine such a worthy a transition. Risking meant loss, but the gain was stronger than the loss.

[@LittlePoet]

This is so beautiful......you took a change...you went the distance...and look at you now....so happy! IYou give me hope!

[@laruehundemer-jones3118]

Thank you for including me on your journey. It's quite a fun ride.

[@carencassidy2359]

Dear beautiful Susan, First of all, I am so happy for you in seeing your dream of owning a home come true! I just turned 66 and have for the last few years a rumbling in my soul to make a big change in my life. It's not that I dream for a better life, but to live a different life. I am in the last quarter of my years, and I have been here in the mountains of southern California for 40 years. My interior design business has been my work for just as long and even though I have been blessed to love my work, I feel that I need a change to go back into my one of my great passions of returning to the world of antiquities and obtain my appraisers' license. I also have had this burning desire to go back and live my remaining years in England as I am a British citizen and I want to be closer to my family. One may ask so why haven't I made the leap? It isn't as much of facing the unknown or change, but the fear of failure that paralyzes me . At my age, it isn't like I can start all over again. And yet, I think of my friend who moved to France at 75 not knowing the language and never regretting it! And too, I think of you and how brave you are leaving all that you have known and loved to dare to dream of a different life! God bless and and keep you. Give Desi a sweet kiss upon his furred head for me!

[@marypucci6814]

Said goodbye to my hometown after my divorce, but I made a new life not too far. It seemed like a world away, but that new world brought growth and contentment. Embrace your new world. Happy Easter ❤

[@1218kimber]

I lost my Daddy at just before 11 yrs. and it was devastating. I’m 60 now, but I’ll never forget how after his funeral, people were eating and visiting and I was angry. I couldn’t understand how they could eat when my Dad was dead. To this day I hate funerals and I’ve only been to just a few, one being my Moms which was in 2011.

[@pstansell18]

K J, I can relate to your message so keenly! I remember first my Dad, then my Mom and then my only sibling sister, whom I adored predeceasing me before I was 40. I remember feeling angry at how the world just “went on as usual” when I was crushed, devastated and in deepest despair! It seemed cruel and unfair and frankly, made me feel more alone/lonely. Then came the realization that everyone has these seasons to go through; it just wasn’t their time, or they have already had their turn at desolation and brokenness. Life can be so darned difficult, but we’re all in it together, for better or worse, kinda like marriage!! 😂

[@cuddlemuff6632]

I empathise with how you must've felt as an 11 year old losing your Daddy. I thought it was offensive when people were eating after the funeral of my best friend's father at 14. I've learned that it's a social convention after funerals.

[@kathleen4433]

I’m going to miss seeing Hal when you move. I’ll bet you’re going to miss him too and him you and Desi. This is hard but your new life is going to be so wonderful. I’m looking forward to following you on your new journey.

[@gjuran3494]

I also had a loving and treasured grandfather. He was very witty but, a quiet man. He too loved the Lord and I know we will see each other again! He made me homemade ice cream and always called me “kitten.” Thank you for this lovely memory! Happy Easter! 💌

[@rebeccaasher9124]

Susan, In my mind I see you as a woman of great wealth. You have been blessed with people, opportunities, talent, and the most perfect dog with the most imperfect teeth! I’ve followed you for a few years and have always admired your ability to stand up to opposition with grace. I believe in God and recognize that you do too. It is undoubtedly “Divine Intervention” that you are realizing in the alignment of a home to move to, your son’s open arms, and going to settlement across from the “field of dreams.” You have accomplished so much! I’ll never forget the time you said you didn’t know how to work a camera when you bought your first one!😅 You’re right Susan, you are Movin On Up !!! Go in peace and love.

[@LittlePoet]

What a gift you gave me tonight....I am sending you such love and good wishes for a wonderful life...xxoo

[@pamelakeyser5965]

You are an artist. I am 66 yrs old and your videos have a touch to them that harkens to days gone by. I wish you and Desi the best new life possible.

[@dee_ewell_pierce]

That little Desi is just precious! You too LittlePoet!

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you! You too!

[@angelfirelite]

That little fellow of yours is the sweetest and loving little thing I ever seen. He takes after his mommy for sure. I always try to creep in and take a peek at your videos! Very inspirational videos as I am fighting cancer now at 75, but there is always a new tomorrow and people like you to make the day fun and interesting......bless you yet, in another new adventure in your life~

[@LittlePoet]

You are so kind and it means so much you are here and left such a beautiful comment! Thank you so much and I hope you have a wonderful week! xxoo Love always, Susan & Desi

[@monabarber2335]

I’m so sorry to hear about Your Diagnosis, I will tell You that there’s a Tea called Essiac Tea 🍵 and it cures Cancer ♋️ it literally destroys Tumors ! I’ll keep you in My Prayers 🙏❣️

[@BlingyBea]

@angelfirelite. Praying for you🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

[@lisa8990]

Thank you for the beautiful story of your grandfather. You are beginning a new chapter in your life, and I'm excited for you and Desi. Happy Easter Susan. ❤

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you so much for being here and very Happy Easter! Susan & Desi

[@dorothyjones6274]

I moved Oct, 1, 2021 from living 47 years in one County. I was 73 then and needed to be closer my daughter and her family. You can and you will. There will be an adjustment, but you will be fine. God Bless you.

[@roxanneelsey6266]

I'm going to miss Hal so much!

[@karinbara4537]

So happy for you! Please take Hal with you ✨🌷

[@tonihendrix6652]

Oh my, dear Susan! I have a huge lump in my throat, and tears of happiness with you! I absolutely LOVE your story of saying “Hello” to God🥰 and as just a little girl knowing the peace of God with you❣️ 14:59 Thank you for sharing this more than anything you’ve ever shared! I can not believe how this video came through precisely as I finished an amazing book about goodbyes written by Luda Terqeurst! I had just closed the book and you sealed it to my heart ❤️ I’ve had so many hard good byes as well as a few good ones. She told the word goodbye is a strange one as goodbyes are usually difficult. She explained it is actually a contraction of “God be with ye”! I love that, don’t you? Thank you again, dear Susan!! And have a very Happy Easter ❤ I send you lots of love, Toni

[@tonihendrix6652]

*Lysa*

[@LittlePoet]

Oh dear, I am crying reading your words!!! You have always been in my corner and cheering me on...I just adore you so much! A very Happy Easter Toni....-

[@tonihendrix6652]

I love you so much❣️

[@judivandeveer207]

Thanks for sharing this!!

[@elainap3]

What beautiful memories of your grandfather. God is bringing you into a new season and you will take all of the precious memories from your present city to your new city and your new lovely home and you will begin to make new memories. I’m looking forward to seeing videos of your new home with Desi and watch you transform it into your own. Many beautiful moments are ahead! Thanks for sharing.💐

[@leebay6093]

I just love Hal’s sense of humour- he’s a treasure, such a memorable video Susan, good luck with the move and looking forward to seeing your new home and surrounding area, love to Desi❤

[@startingovaries]

😊 Congrats on your brave at 68 move! You inspire the rest of us. ❤

[@LittlePoet]

I just adore you..thank you for your kindness!!! xo Susan & Dez

[@annmarie3520]

I take that as a sign to a happy beginning from your grandfather! Your dream finally came to fruition and he’s giving you his blessings! You see he’s never left you. I wish you and Desi the happiest of times in your new home!😘❤🙏🏻✨

[@rosepetal9748]

What a special way God revealed Himself to you❤

[@TinaGardner-sj1bu]

Can’t wait to see Desi in his backyard and you enjoying your home!

[@teresabolen6034]

An emotional goodbye is the best.... just like the baseball field of dreams. I said goodbye to my mother's cult religion in my 20's and said hello to a new and most blessed Christian life with God ....not right away but 10 years later. It felt like a homecoming, just like you are actually going home to your new city near your son and family. Oh joyous day! I'd help you pack if I could

[@virleneprice9848]

You have the most beautiful memories of your grandfather. He would be so happy for you to now make your own memories with your grandchildren. Say hello to your new journey and experiences that are waiting for you.

[@LittlePoet]

Thank you for these beautiful words... what a kind heart you have...

[@tynaedwards8452]

I have moved many times in my life and many I loved have passed away. I never say goodbye. In each and every home I lived in I go behind the movers and clean each room they are emptied and have a memory of something happy that happened in that room. I put that memory in what I call the the treasure chest of my heart. I do the same with people who have passed away. I keep happy memories of them stored in the treasure chest and think of them being still here but too just too far away to see. I will talk to them in my head, just as I talk to the Lord who I can't see but I know he's there. You will make new memories for your own treasure chest. Your Grandfather is in heart so he is always with you too.

[@dianemoser2457]

Best of luck to you, I lived in Grand Rapids for 64 yrs & now live in California. Hears to new adventures!

[@sandrag.mcalister3308]

I'm so happy for you and Desi. Have a wonderful upcoming week! God bless!

[@HelenVaughn-un6de]

I wish Hal was moving too. 😢

[@claireoconor7986]

LITTLE POET, YOU ARE SO VERY SPECIAL!! I KNOW YOUR BELOVED GRANDFATHER IS YOUR GUARDIAN ANGEL, IS ALWAYS BY YOUR SIDE, AND VERY, VERY PROUD OF YOU!!!!🙏💚❤️💚

[@barbaramagner181]

I am leaving my home if 33 years to begin a new chapter in Florida. My husband passed in September and I am moving near my sister. Too hard to stay in the home I shared with my husband and family. Wishing you a happy next chapter. 🥰

[@sandien.9084]

You were so lucky to have had your Grandfather for 10 years. You do realize he is going with you, right? That wonderful part of him is also the wonderful part of you, too. Your new home is so lovely! I can't wait to see how you decorate it. Did you ever wonder why they say you are "closing" on your new home? They should call it "opening" on it. 🙂 Have a wonderful Easter and give Desi a hug from me, will you? xoxo Sandie

[@barbg1012]

My grandad raised me as well. I loved him sooo much. He was a wonderful man. The last time I saw him he said to me that he couldn’t wait to see my grandma again & that she was the prettiest little thing he ever did see. At his graveside service I felt an overwhelming joy pour down on me & bewildered the other relatives with a smile. I knew he was with Jesus & my grandma. 💕💕💕🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕💕

[@PeaceOutWorld]

I had the exact same experience when my father died when I was 9. I never thought he was dead, only different. I knew at that moment I could still talk to him. I also never cried and didn't understand why I didn't then. But now I know, like you, it's because his soul was not there but elsewhere. His death opened new doors, we moved to places with different experiences I wouldn't have had otherwise. If I think about it enough, I still cry at his passing even though that was 50 years ago.

[@donnamclaughlin9215]

All the best to you with your new journey. My grandmother always said to take the bitter with the sweet. I think about that a lot. take care, Susan!

[@elizabethbryan3821]

Such a lovely vlog…one door closes but another opens 😍

[@laurisims-alaimo3491]

Your video today had me in tears of happiness. My grandpa was the most wonderful man. He taught me how to drive, he helped me start a business. Since his death I have researched his life from the beginning. He was adopted somewhere between 1912 and 1917 in NYC. He never knew his biological parents but his adoptive parents were wonderful. We called him a social butterfly because everywhere he went he made friends. He taught me so much. Best of luck in your new city near family! ❤

[@LittlePoet]

You are so kind and it means so much you are here and left such a beautiful comment! Thank you so much and I hope you have a wonderful week! xxoo Love always, Susan & Desi

[@barbarawhite3217]

What a sign from Grandpa. You didn’t give up. He is smiling!

[@roses1941]

I'm of Italian descent and know the close bond with grandparents. I wish you God's Abundant Blessings for a whole new beginning filled with good health and happiness. Half seems sad that you're leaving. It's hard to find a good man like him. Take him with you! Happy and Blessed Easter, Roselle

[@roses1941]

Hal(sp)

[@tygerlily1700]

Have a Blessed Resurrection Sunday!❤❤❤

[@proverbs3150]

I think transitions are more difficult when we grow up without security or stability. The trauma can keep us immobilized. The unknown takes time to adapt to new surroundings so be kind and patient with yourself and stay positive. And keep your old friends and memories close!

[@dawnkidd1567]

Susan I don't believe your grandfather wanted a boy. I believe he talked to you in that manner because he knew how special you are and that you would accomplish anything you set your sights on and that you would soar once you found your wings. When my grandmother died of cancer I was young and I always loved spending time with her. After she passed away I felt as though she became my guardian angel. I also felt like she passed on her gift that made all animals love her and come to her even the wild ones. Congratulations on your home and best wishes to both you and Desi. Can't wait for the videos to start at your new home.😊❤🎉

[@shirlynb148]

Susan, I’m so excited for you on your new adventure. I’ve lived in GR for nearly 30 yrs and moved to Kalamazoo 5 years ago after getting married in my late 50’s. Your new city, a thriving college town is only 45 minutes away from GR. Decorating, landscaping, exploring is on your agenda!

[@vickiechandler5584]

In September 2022, I said goodby to the home and city I lived in since 1989. Raised my 2 children there, and lived for 10+ years after my husband passed. It was time. Moved 8 hrs away, by car. Love my new life, living in a 55 plus community in FL near my daughter and grandkids. Left my 31 yo son there though, just drove up to see him, you can always go back for visits. ❤

[@abbeyshell23]

No matter where you live, your grandfather is with you. He is the essence of you, your heart, your very being. Now it’s you turn to impart his wisdom to your grandchildren ❤ Happy 🐣 Easter. Stay safe. Safe travels. ❤ your channel. You link us back to our very essence ❤️🇦🇺🦘🐨

[@LittlePoet]

Wow, thank you so much for kindness! ! A very Happy Easter to you! xo Susan & Desi

[@dianegriffith3006]

Same here, climbed trees as a little kid. Playing down in the woods and skipping down along the country roads. Such freedom then.

[@brittanybrown840]

Oh my gosh Hal and his comment! 😂 “and a wife who knows how to present her bun” 😂😂 excellent comedic timing

[@maurinegovey4365]

Saying goodbye and hello to new adventures is our way of continuing to grow! Embrace every moment!