Why Narcissists Die Young: How Their Own Behavior Kills Them

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Narcissistic abuse looks like:
Lack of Empathy: Narcissists often show little to no empathy for others, making it easy for them to manipulate and exploit. Narcissists use various tactics such as gaslighting, love bombing, and devaluation to control and dominate their victims.
Common Tactics Used in Narcissistic Abuse:
Gaslighting: Making the victim doubt their own reality and sanity.
Love Bombing: Showering the victim with excessive attention and affection to gain control.
Devaluation: Undermining the victim’s self-worth through criticism, belittling, and emotional neglect.
Isolation: Cutting the victim off from their support systems to increase dependency on the abuser.
Triangulation: Using others to create jealousy or competition, keeping the victim feeling insecure.
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[@Cathyhins]

*I'm glad you made this video,* it reminds me of my transformation from a nobody to good home, $75k biweekly and a good daughter full of love

[@ElizabethManassi]

How do you make such income? I’m a born-again Christian and sometimes I feel so down because of my low finances. 🤦 Despite this, I still believe in God.

[@Cathyhins]

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[@Cathyhins]

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[@user-powell]

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[@user-powell]

Ms Maria Angelina Alexander is a remarkable individual who has brought immense positivity and inspiration into my life.

[@coloradorocky1298]

Narcissists either die young or outlive everyone, because they are too mean to die.

[@freerangeboogie7293]

OMG 😂 That’s what I just said in another response! Classic 👍🏼 Must have a sense of humor to get through it.

[@AmorDivino-e5q]

I'm an RN, I was working once in a geriatric hospital, there were two very old sisters, one of them in a wheel chair, the other one was always to her side, the one in the wheel chair had an evil look in her eyes, she was constantly dropping a handkerchief to the floor, and the other sister will pick it up over and over, I believe she was a psycho, torturing her sister all her life. One day the good sister died and I felt she finally was at rest . Narcissist will do that to people around them, unless you escape. Yes sometimes they die from their own stressors, but that's not always the case, because they really want to kill you.

[@johnpyles3575]

Makes me think of Zelda from Pet Sematary (1980's version)....arguably the most terrifying character to ever exist.

[@freerangeboogie7293]

Wow

[@danielkaiser8971]

Agreed, they will inject their venom into others. Kevin is right about them sharing their inner suffering, though they sometimes are successful enough that they actually live a full life by seeing others wear their suffering and therefore they sidestep some stress-related issues. It is when others resist taking on the narcissist's stress that results in the narcissist is at risk for heath problems and a shorter life.

[@miriam100ful]

I agree, some live to very old age, and might outlive their victims.

[@smustipher]

Everyone who remained in proximity to my narc father is deceased or chroniclly ill/ disabled: mom - terminal cancer. Older brother - terminal cancer. Younger sister - stroke at age 40. Younger half sister: autoimmune deficient. Younger half brother: knee surgeries under age 30. Family dog: banished to live (and die) in the garage after I moved away for college and the new wife didn't want him in the house. Started the process of going NC in my early 30's when I sensed something was off with my parent and finally cut the cord a few years ago when it became obvious rhat he ENJOYED hurting me. No illness here that I know of, keeping my fingers crossed.

[@sd31432]

I honestly feel like narcs end up living a long time and get worse with age

[@phyllischaffin4052]

My narcissistic father is 80 with no signs of stopping.

[@nicolebenson4517]

My father in law is 82 and suffers nothing. Sharp as a tack and getting away with all of it 😢

[@freerangeboogie7293]

Right!? I was raised by and have had many run ins with Narcs. They all have it so good and seem to live forever. Like they are too mean or self focused to die.

[@spacesloth6496]

Watch a video the aging narcist

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

👏👏💯💯

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

@@freerangeboogie7293 🎯🎯👏👏💯💯

[@abeermourad1953]

They often outlive their victims..

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

👏👏💯💯🎯🎯

[@todddanforth8853]

Yup.

[@motowngirl5891]

They LOVE CHAOS and confusion

[@annberlin5811]

And they get mad if you dont get mad

[@teresaring8049]

@@annberlin5811 I know I’m learning not to react, engage or just leave the room. They’re so childish …

[@ElizzzaB]

Run for your life.....away from them ASAP.

[@fabbi9548]

My covert narcissist father created so many health issues in our immediate family, from cancer to high blood pressure and anxiety. My mom became diabetic and hypertensive from putting his needs before her own. He is almost 70 and in almost perfect health. And those he got supply from are wrecked.

[@kylees44]

I’m a therapist and see that too often

[@kris_ty685]

My ex was a hardcore narcissist. He would pop in and out of my life whenever he was in crisis. I didn't know what narcissistic abuse was at the time. He was a drug addict. He loved the fringe of society in general. As a former family scapegoat I was primed to have weak boundaries, poor self-esteem, and deep feelings of inadequacy. Thus my ex and I were the perfect codependents. Finally about 2.5 years ago after 10 long years of the push and pull of this toxic relationship, I Finally told him to F*** Off for good. He was murdered in some drug related issue 2 months later. As crazy as it sounds, Oddly his facebook profile often pops up on my list....I often think it's his energy reaching out to me from beyond the grave...

[@killjoyredux8361]

It's just the algorithm. Sounds horrible though... Chicks do love the bad boys

[@debral9651]

Oh gosh. That's so horrific. I'm sorry

[@zsuzso7]

We have a very similar story for 10 years, we are both alive, however both have developped some health issues related to the constant stress we were living in for years The last time he tried to come back again, he said he had cancer, but even if it's true, I can't afford a minute more to spend with him because then we will both die soon, or maybe he just wants me to die before

[@kris_ty685]

@@zsuzso7 thank you for sharing your story with us. God narcissistic abuse is so awful.

[@zinatfazal6405]

So sorry. Glad you OK now

[@ChanèlTheShah]

My mother lived until almost 92 years old and lived with Narcissism

[@susanoleair4530]

@@ChanèlTheShah mine was a narc, died at 87

[@ChanèlTheShah]

@@susanoleair4530 Sorry to hear that. I often struggle with who she really was and still feel that it was a dream/nightmare. 🙏

[@stephanniekotalik9339]

My narc mother died in a nursing home at age 76. I was the biggest target of the guilt and shame she dished out aside from my dear father who went through hell and died of cancer at 76 as well.

[@ChanèlTheShah]

@@stephanniekotalik9339 sorry to hear that. It’s incredible how many of us suffered at the hands of a Narcissistic mother. 👩

[@susanoleair4530]

@@ChanèlTheShah oh yes! a nightmare. My mom, dad, bro, and sis were narcs, who accused me of living in a dream world. I survived by becoming a truth teller, reality and truth is all I had to use to protect myself. For that, I'm grateful to God for watching out for me.

[@ErinP79]

After I found out I was grossly betrayed, i developed heart palpitations. After that an infection started in my breast and the doctors thought I had inflammatory breast cancer. I was honestly relieved that I’d likely die and escape this lifetime of pain. Turned out that it was just a nasty infection. Had surgery to have part of my breast removed and the healing was very slow. I’m still stuck married to this demon because of financial difficulties and not wanting to share custody of my children He’s so unhealthy but will probably live a long life because that just seems to be my luck. Time will tell, and I’ll continue to endure. I know vengeance belongs to God and it will be served, one day.

[@silvernblack21]

Read 1 Samuel 25, and realize that you're living in a situation like Abigail was. No doubt Nabal was a narcissist, but she didn't let his foolishness destroy her or her household. She used discernment and was spiritually mature, she knew he wasn't going to change and focused on how she could thrive despite her husband. And Nabal definitely didn't live a long life, most narcs truly don't. But they'll stress years off of your life if you let them, DON'T let them. Guard your heart, just as The Most High tells us to (emotional detachment, studying scripture, and imprecatory prayer have been helpful for me).

[@ErinP79]

@@silvernblack21 thank you!

[@shirleyvanderheijden5934]

@@silvernblack21I Agree! ❤️

[@judithhithe2363]

​@@silvernblack21Excellent biblical application! This could help many people. Fortunately, I don't have this particular issue, but I thank you for this anyway ❤

[@MrOldboy360]

You can 100% leave before something happens you'll regret & you don't want your children in that situation.

[@ChanèlTheShah]

My mother loved the stress and she said she’d do it all over again. Never had any health issues never had an operation and loved being who she was.

[@plumduff3303]

❤my mum is the same she loves drama and death.

[@plumduff3303]

My dad hated me from the day i was born. When he died i felt nothing because there was nothing to feel. Sad really he called me the parasite..that was about as nice as he got.

[@Empathysuperpower]

I know many covert / overt narcs and they “ALL” have heart issues. You can’t be toxic and feel joy or love. I have blocked and walked from many in my life once I educated myself on this evil.

[@koolbeans8292]

Same here, once I had my revelation I was at age 59. Eight years ago and I know I have let at least a dozen people go. Including five or six that have been in my life for 40+ years because years ago I was sarcastic and I thought they were too. Come to find out they are serious, when something bad happened to somebody they used to laugh and now they still do. They have Zero empathy.

[@MariaTeresa-ef7lq]

I escaped with nothing after a horrendous 10-year loveless marriage. At 15 years my senior had lots of health problems I had to assist him. I had no sleep, was exhausted, and fearful for my life; he even made me make a will where he would be my beneficiary. I left one cold morning with only the clothes on my back. To start again at 72 years old. God told me that I had only 5 days of life before dying.

[@koolbeans8292]

@@MariaTeresa-ef7lq Come to me my dear. I dont care what you look like. Im in Alaska.

[@debbier9555]

Excellent message! Very few people realize nor speak about the inner stress and health breakdown of the narcissist. They are so very unhappy regardless if they project /'appear' to be having their best life while you suffer at their demise. Tgey also suffer. But you don't deserve to suffer. Walk away from them to save yourself and let them suffer alone.

[@jaredwalters84]

My dad was divorced twice and estranged from me. He died in a shack at my uncle’s house after having an aneurysm. He was 69

[@marijkevandermeer2772]

My mother is a high spectrum narcissist and she is 85 now...I know she is unhappy with her character but she will absolutely not admit that and I stopped contacting her...too detrimental for me...I am no contact for two years now

[@Acceptancetoday]

I just spoke to my ex and within weeks of the discard he lost vision in one eye in the middle of the night…..now his life has really changed

[@monaj33]

Karma

[@user-dj4zs8dw5i]

Stress. Is the number 1 killer of people stay away from toxic people

[@LoveLightLiberty3]

they feed off of that chaos, if they don't have chaos they are starving to death

[@cacy1008]

They seem to go on forever!..my mother is more likely to finish me off first.

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

🎯🎯👏👏💯💯

[@barbarablackburn4755]

At 89 she's been trying to 'end' me, lived with me 20 years - hell- refused to leave. Did finally. It continues

[@camarorules1]

3:48 My narc father is 91 yrs old! It surprises me! He was so angry and entitled. He still hides it, around me anyway My poor mom died at 70...so sad how she was used as a scapegoat I love you mom and hope you get another chance to heal and be loved in the eay you deserved ❤

[@stellarhope6954]

My husband of 35 years died of cancer at 63 😢. He made my life very sad and stressful for years

[@zinatfazal6405]

Very sorry to hear. That seems like my story

[@monaj33]

​@@zinatfazal6405 God bless uou both ❤

[@markcostley9612]

They die at any age but they die unhappy

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

not the narcs i know. they must be academy award actors. they are living well and are happy. i had someone do a background check on them.

[@gettingschooled3094]

I would think it's the opposite because they never feel guilty or remorseful. I hope you're right.

[@spacesloth6496]

My brother family friends did that to me stressing my head off 😢 talking me down i got lost but now im found me self again And the more i watch these videos the more i relax and become true myself again 🦋❤🦋

[@deniseskinner3715]

Mine makes me blame his health issues on me and makes me think I’m the narcissist

[@freerangeboogie7293]

@@deniseskinner3715 Figures 🙄

[@77sunflowers]

They always blame you for everything!!!! They try and make you responsible in making them happy and solving their problems, when you say you can't help them, they pour guilt on you ... They are very wicked!!!

[@shonakhali]

My narc father died from stomach cancer at 78 and directed his narc wife not to tell me he died and to not invite me to the funeral. Thank goodness! I received the obituary after the funeral was over. You are so correct!

[@Rileyed]

Revenge to the last breathe

[@1stBorn538]

Interesting that I recently had a dream my narc mother had died, and neither my stepfather nor my siblings said anything to me, I just kinda found out, and everyone ( my family) was acting strange at the funeral. Even though I do not talk with my mother anymore I was bothered no one told me, but I expected it because I know narcs like to withhold important information to cause confusion and to upset you.

[@shannongstyle6310]

I can't understand how they can choose such chaos. 😢

[@waragainstmyself1159]

They hate themselves and feel being calm and peaceful isnt ok. They gotta go go goooo

[@msk7495]

They always do...I've witnessed it. 😞

[@susanoleair4530]

anger, grudges, need to control all, do these count too?

[@obetztyranthunter]

They are possessed by demons! Very very miserable demons that want your energy

[@shadow-wolfgaming1737]

Being abused sexual and non sexual drunken and drug abuse.

[@bizarretruth...]

Crazy thing is that sadly they will die with their narcissistic behavior and bc they didn't do what was expected of them to do on this earth which is to evolve emotionally, spiritually, mentally and physically they will get reborn as a narcissist in their next life and that's how the circle goes on , here's 🥂to all of the true solders doing the true work and saying no to emotional abuse I salute you!

[@WorkingProgress17]

I've noticed more often than not that narcissists live a long time. They enjoy watching everyone else die.

[@shadow-wolfgaming1737]

Calmness is mastery, and lack of love for themselves and so vain care about getting pleasure that benefits them don't care about yours.

[@staciehulm4595]

My narc went from being the guy every girl wanted to be with and every guy wanted to be to becoming homeless and dying at the age of 52 of a fentynal overdose in the bushes in front of a CVS in the neighborhood he grew up in. Tragic.

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

😄😄🤣🤣🎯🎯👏👏💯💯karma

[@freerangeboogie7293]

@@staciehulm4595 Wow! 🤯

[@jenniferraymond9766]

Yup. My MIL who abandoned my husband and his sister at very young ages, ignored their existence for decades, and only made contact when she needed money, a ride, etc. Abused and neglected her other kids she kept....she keeled over this past winter from a heart attack and stroke simultsneously. She was a chain smoking, perpetual victimhood narc who eventually forsake everyone in her family except her ding dong drug dealing, unemployed, pedophile man child of a husband 25 years her junior. Went into a coma and never woke up. Good riddance, narc. She was only 64.

[@theglobalvagabond3074]

Death has multiple meanings in this context. Death can also mean being completely rejected by everyone. My ex narc, a medical doctor, has been fired 4 times, evicted several times, spent all her money living a fake life, all her sisters moved to a different state, convicted of reckless driving multiple times, she has gained over 50lbs and currently lives with her elderly mom that can't see that her daughter is crazy. In a few more years, she won't be much different than a zombie on the walking dead. Avoid them and don't get bit. The good news is that after you've been with a narc they are easy to spot just like the zombies in TWD. Stay safe everyone.

[@lorimiller7261]

My ex Narc husband is 53 high blood pressure, hip and back problems he’s falling apart. He never went to the Doctors because he thought he was invincible and could cure himself. A broken man with no soul ! When you see lonely old people that have no visitors I always think they must be a Narc !!!! Thanks for talking about your Dad , so helpful ❤🙏🏻

[@madlife3770]

Idk man, my mom turns 80 next year. She's already outlived one of her kids 😕

[@bonniepaynter5624]

My birth father had diabetes, congestive heart failure, morbid obesity, and high blood pressure. He had a massive heart attack on the toilet and died with his pants around his ankles. Funny… he was a brilliant musician and died just like Elvis. Fitting.

[@orangecat1672]

My husband just sold his older used Toyota Corolla to our neighbor. We both noticed a week later, they put a bumper sticker on it . “ Only assholes live forever.”

[@DENISEASTUNO-ow1qz]

❤Thank you ❤This is very helpful. My father is 90 and is a TRUE NARCISSIST 😢HE IS PATHETIC

[@privateprivate8366]

I am older than my malignant narcissistic former sister and probably in poorer health. But, when I last saw her, my thought was that she may predecease me. She is under sooo much stress, she looked rabid. That is one fckd up human being! And the thing about it, is if she wasn’t so busy being obsessed with how she’s going to undo my life, she wouldn’t be about to burst. But she’s about ready to give up her home and her freedom, just to get at me. And, although I don’t want to give myself any credit really, she is probably under stress also, because she knows she may have burned the only bridge she has. But, it isn’t possible for her to even have any idea on how things could’ve been different. She’s also so afraid I won’t leave her anything when I pass - but now, she’s made sure of it, because I wouldn’t leave anything to a person who’s abusive towards me. I don’t have much. But I don’t have a problem with her working till she drops. I probably will anyway. Why should I care about her. And she may be the 3rd narcissist that I did themselves, trying to take me out. While I recognize this, however, I don’t have empathy. Someone the others day tried to shame me, in a comments section, because I said something about my narcissistic sister. Said I must have a problem, too, if I feel the way I do about her. I’ll make it clear, that I don’t feel bad, about wishing someone ill, who’s tried to undo my life. Good luck guilting me. I also hope my sister does pass away sooner, rather than later. I don’t think narcissists are of use to themselves, as much as they are of no use, to the people in their lives. I get that way about our mother. Although she died of natural causes, as her narcissism grew exponentially, she started destroying herself, while trying to destroy me also. After that, I feel there’s really nothing to do, but to pass away. Kevin is right. While these people cause tons of stress around them, they’re also under a great deal of stress. All of that control, abuse, coercion, strategizing on how to screw up people’s lives without getting caught and paying consequences, being hollow inside, having to always compensate, by gaining and holding onto supply and, once they’ve discarded supply, trying to get new supply or reigning old supply back in, often knowing full well they live life wearing a mask? Not a life I’d want!

[@rosalynzografos]

My husband was 64. Mom was 91, have siblings in 70’s and an aunt in late 80’s.

[@larshesthaven5828]

I have often asked my daughters narcissistic and psychopatic mother how she can live inside her prejudiced name calling, negative, evil, revengeful, competitive, rageful and toxic mind?? I have also told her there is neither good nor bad outside of her. Its your own mind I said to her making the decision what you make out of it...what did I get out of it: more rage fits and more name calling...narcs are impossible and dying too early, even when they are alive...I have left the monster more than a year ago but my daughter is still with her narc mother...its heartbreaking to see the mothers sick nonsense being transferred to my daughters mind, soul and spirit

[@SarrouTube]

This happen to the majority of them from my observation this happened to my father

[@taurusgirl888]

Covert narc mother still going strong at 86 and aggressive narc neighbour showing no signs of going anytime soon at 82. I actually fear every day I will die before these 2 lethal women. No contact with family is easy but hard to geographically escape a nasty Gladys next door.

[@barbarablackburn4755]

Horrible next door neighbor named Gladys, me too!! Son and grandkids in jail more often than not. House abandoned, under water, totally stripped out. House in shambles. Gladys on hospice, smoking, dementia, on and on, too mean to die

[@LeahWalker-z9l]

My father was on his third marriage and my step mother was horrible. She never monitored his diabetes and it led to alziamers. I watched him suffer.

[@allisonnovak500]

Time is passing. The ages of narcs that immediately came to mind: 89, 88, 82, 70, 69, 64, 64, and 62. I’m 63 and have developed COPD, Lupus, and fibromyalgia. I’ve thought for years that my poor health is due to narcissistic abuse. Some people might ask how and why do I know so many narcissists? A more appropriate question may be Why are there so many narcissists in the world??? One expert I follow estimates one out of six people. Another expert I follow estimates one in five.

[@elderlypoodle9181]

I felt so alone as my mother’s caretaker. So many would tell me “She can’t help her personality, She has a serious health problem”. I tried to tell them that her cruel remarks have been thrown at me since I could remember. I still respected her wish to pass away at home on hospice. I completely agree my health problems are caused by stress ❤️💪🏻

[@teresaring8049]

The narcissist I’m with smokes, drinks, does drugs, has high blood pressure yet none of this has killed him. We all wonder how he can still be alive especially with all the anger he runs… you’d think all the cortisol alone would kill him.

[@MrOldboy360]

My mother is almost 80 years old & I think every time she smokes a cigarette, I'm the one that loses a day of life.

[@Soulficial360]

Realizing this describes most of the people we work with in these corporations 🤦🏾 narcissism is a corporate culture.

[@rchi3906]

Funny thing is all the narcissist I knew lived into 80’s and 90’s cause their so selfish all they care about themselves , take good care of themselves , screw everybody else , what great humans

[@dontbeadogsbody3564]

A girl can dream. 😂

[@todddanforth8853]

I think growing up in a narcissistic household is more likely to shorten my life than the lives of the narcissists.

[@freerangeboogie7293]

Yes, it makes sense a Type A Narc personality can blow a gasket. It’s detrimental to your own health to be around one for very long.

[@anneodonovan450]

My father was a narc and died of cancer it's diffently related we weren't even talking when he died l don't even go to the grave now. My mother is one too and has a neighbour alike she is wearing and so argumentative l m lucky to be alive at all.

[@knuckleheadreviews]

I think I allowed their sickness to weaken me. I started to have MS symptoms after several narcissistic attacks from an ex, then another ex after 10 years and from narcissistic family members.

[@kez-chick5647]

I have a friend her narcissistic mother is 90. My EX is 68

[@freerangeboogie7293]

@@kez-chick5647 Could be a match?!

[@xBaphometHx]

I think they only die young if they have bad habits like binging and chain-smoking. Especially if they have lots of stress from pretending being someone who they aren't.

[@user-dj4zs8dw5i]

Thank you for your lmput ❤

[@gloriacoleman7012]

They do junk up the house to it manisests from that choas. inside.

[@nadjamedjedovic5313]

Seems to me the victim/survivor ends up with health issues (from PTSD)

[@dr.muhammadamin1554]

Evil lives longer than the virtuous.

[@madhatter217]

It's funny, Narcissistic people are mentally ill, but unlike all other mental illnesses narcissistic mental illnesses is vilified even though all mentally ill people are unhealthy to be in a relationship with not just narcissists. Narcissistic Personality Disorder is a very serious mental disorder that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy, I just wish people understood that. It's so easy to judge and I understand how hard it is to be in a relationship with a narcissist but people don't just wake up one day and decide to treat people badly, there's a reason for it even though it is undeserved.

[@msprettykawaii950]

I know some narc who always gets sick

[@preparedsurvivalist2245]

My narc eventually admitted she's a narc...but only as she said we are BOTH narcs. But hey, for once she's was at least HALF right about something she said.

[@Chris-tc8sm]

Supporting my first comment; you can see in the comments so many people saying their narcissistic parents are in their 70's and 80's. I recently met one in her 90's; shes totally messed all her kids up. Sorry sir this is not true that narcissists die young.

[@toshamoore3437]

Well, I want to believe there’s when available- they have their moments(open) of wanting help..?

[@toshamoore3437]

However- how do we know as for me, the last 2 years I literally couldn’t think or as of forgot while speaking- crazy looking back- this thing I’ve become? Recently moved in with son now and immediately within few days I felt alive and with clarity! It was him that kicked me out cuz I was shitty person? However this started back when step mom moved in family- my real mom passed- but for the life of me- fought what’s going on was not true…. Now family don’t want nothing to do with me…. Hurts really bad. Story goes on though- since this narcissist came to me a few yrs ago/ this had me from falling any further to believing them all…. But now that I’m here , I see a lot of my flaws and wondered if somehow I’m idk- I miss my dad my brothers- 😢 yes I need my family, my sons are too with them. Being deaf and blind, I’m much better focused alone , got a lot of self necessities done too! God has been my strength and hopes are happening! Anyways- my question is how do I know it’s not me?

[@timmysmith9991]

My natc ex wife's second husband was found dead before 50 years old.

[@survivorship4290]

💯💜💜💜💜

[@sarahwoodward8250]

Thanks for the sound advice!

[@triciad5723]

How old was your dad? Asking for a friend 😎

[@barbarablackburn4755]

89 age mother. An arguement - a bump in the road - and one of us i am certain will not get out alive, the rage goes from zero to nuclear in an instant. taking supplements since early 1970, fit as a fiddle, except heart failure 9 years back, diagnosed with ATTR Cardio myopathy. Heart walls stiffen. Stress. She does love chaos, oh yes

[@uncleruckusnorelation6705]

my former narcissist bff and her narcissist cousin are healthy as horses. her narcissist mother died at 80.

[@christieclunan7022]

Interesting… i always thought the more nasty , unpleasant and vile they are, the longer they lived. Like … they never effing die and just give it up already. Even a silver bullet is powerless to get rid of em lol. I guess it was just an urban legend or something. Phew 😜

[@KigurumiAlice]

Psychopaths never panic 😮...are they the same? This tear and share pain.

[@PatriciaHodges-nd7tf]

❤

[@truepeace3]

Have you made any videos on covert narcissism? I’d really like to know more about this. Thank you.

[@MaqNovoselska]

What can be apiritual meaning if a mother narcisist die on her childs birthday? (But she also loved so much the kid)

[@7heavenlyvirtues]

💔💔💔

[@Danny.Murillo]

🙏🏻

[@miriam100ful]

that may be true, but often they outlive their victims. Yes they do develop heart disease, but medicine will assist to extend their lives, e.g. stents and bypasses. Then they might go on to develop Alzheimer's' and dementia, but still live on making their family's lives a misery, of those who were never able to move away and go no contact. Your father may have been an exception, usually I think it is the victims who die young.

[@minoetcrombie463]

How doo contact u thanknu

[@Anonymous-du4zt]

Maybe some of them will die earlier, indeed the more vulnerable+control combination narcs. All narcs no matter the type will end up their lives unhappy, spoiled and mean. But a big part of the narcs have one lifelong relationship + runs officially on paper succesfull their own buisness with high education untill the end + keep their family together their whole life, especially the grandiose narcs. I witnessed it by myself in my environment more times. They make it in life till their death both in work and family, and all this people stay whole the life of the narc around the narc if they play grandiose in a "positive" way and image, beside the sometimes at times one person who dont play their game and can see through the narcs' mask, at that times the narc will kick out that person out of their family-or work or people system, while others barely remark it and live together with the fantasy of that grandiose narc. Only in the very end of the narc life they become very angry and extreme and in more open way mean, so they die never in peace. And all people will feel a suddenly unexpected freedom after the narc died, and find out that they were whole their lives hanging at the narcs lips and thought they adored the narc, but it was only conditional and without authenticy and without real felt freedom. Their victims who they sometimes in their life kicked out will suffer with mental problems and physical problems far more, the difference: the victims are able to work at themselves after the hidden abuse, stay with themselves and can become authentic, work out the stress and learn to make deeper connections after healing, the narc cant or will never do that or wont take that self-responsibility.

[@Chris-tc8sm]

This is a strange thing to say " narcissists die young" I disagree. Narcissists dont die young. Narcissists are like everyone else in tjis respect some die young some die old. My malignantly narcissistic parents are still alive in their seventies and still wreaking havoc in my siblings lives. I also know many other old narcissists. If anything I've seen that most family scapegoats die young.

[@freerangeboogie7293]

@@Chris-tc8sm Yes! Unfortunately:(

[@sannajohanna5579]

Maybe I am a narcissist?

[@bantri256]

Can you control, your nervous tic of pushing and pulling, the microfone forward and backward, every ten seconds ?

[@7heavenlyvirtues]

🐦‍⬛

[@vanessalobo5508]

This is bs

[@Ninjeto]

There needs to be a way to help the narcissist without cutting them off (which makes them worse and can cause early death) cutting people off is coward stuff I'm sorry but it seems to be a fad in the 2020's to just cut people out fir small reasons yet cant stop disscussing it it going so far to make videos about it

[@Poemsapennyeach]

It's you and me...not you and I. And sit on your hands pls...all that waving around...!! For me your analysis is too 'I know it all ' black and white. Life...and even narcissism.. is complex. So soften up here. More humble is needed.