Why Playing Full Out Gets the LOVE You Want

[@ZERO-rj1xv]

"You don't need to be less because they can't be more." This video was beautiful and very informative, I can't thank you enough Susan!

[@danna4879]

I love this concept. It reminds me of one of my all time favorite poems . (Sorry for the length, but so worth reading)Midnight Poem by Khalil Gibran "Do not love half lovers Do not entertain half friends Do not indulge in works of the half talented Do not live half a life and do not die a half death If you choose silence, then be silent When you speak, do so until you are finished Do not silence yourself to say something And do not speak to be silent If you accept, then express it bluntly Do not mask it If you refuse then be clear about it for an ambiguous refusal is but a weak acceptance Do not accept half a solution Do not believe half truths Do not dream half a dream Do not fantasize about half hopes Half a drink will not quench your thirst Half a meal will not satiate your hunger Half the way will get you no where Half an idea will bear you no results Your other half is not the one you love It is you in another time yet in the same space It is you when you are not Half a life is a life you didn't live, A word you have not said A smile you postponed A love you have not had A friendship you did not know To reach and not arrive Work and not work Attend only to be absent What makes you a stranger to them closest to you and they strangers to you The half is a mere moment of inability but you are able for you are not half a being You are a whole that exists to live a life not half a life"---Gibran Khalil Gibran

[@charlenemaeder8027]

“Don’t become what you hate.” “ Play full out as if this partner is the one.” Wow. This is so good. Thank you so much. :)

[@AloofObserver]

The games we play are toxic BS. We all need to just be ourselves, it would make things so much more pleasant...

[@SusanWinter]

Agreed, blond beast! Thanks for this comment.

[@galaxyglitterlatte4664]

I know. Why the hell does it have to be so damn complicated!!😖

[@hilarywright9376]

I love your wisdom. I was tired of all of these videos from MEN telling me how to “get the ‘guy’”.

[@theroomnumber5210]

Wow, this is so important and powerful. I always tell myself - no matter how many times I have been hurt, I never want to live in fear and never want to shut my heart because that's how you will never truly live. "You don't need to be less because they can't be more." This is true.

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks TheRoomNumber

[@jerrysingleton1842]

Love. U. Ime. Out

[@AaronSpainBey]

Such a great message! Sometimes I fault myself for being me and “doing too much” but this just affirmed to be myself and someone will appreciate that!

[@carolesmith9235]

It's always a gamble and when it works its well worth it.

[@briannab4770]

I am also "much". I am intense in my energy and a deep lover. It is amazing and we are NOT at fault. In fact, the opposite: We are blessed with that. Darling, I've combed through your videos and you are so lovely and so dateable, and no, I'm not just saying that to be diplomatic and make you feel better. You're handsome and effervescent and very much a catch, and most importantly, you take care of yourself and watch videos like this. That certainly indicates an evolved mindset that many people our age aren't on right now. As easy as it may be to shower the words down upon another, it makes me realize I need to say the same to myself! I'm very much of the lack mentality when it comes to love, and I am vexed by the sensation of somehow being burdensome and unwanted. We should work on that, haha. - Sending love!

[@AaronSpainBey]

@@briannab4770 thank you Brianna for these kind words and I didn’t see it till today but The timing of it all couldn’t be more on time! I very much appreciate the message I hope you continue to shower the same message to yourself. Blessings

[@briannab4770]

@@AaronSpainBey - Hiya! I forgot I even left this comment. This made me happy. I hope you're doing really well. I'm still single, but I'm okay with that, haha. Thanks for the sweet words.

[@therealempress]

Man if I could just be myself and stop worrying about what other people think...my life would be so full, I would have more money, less fear, and look really amazing 😍 I'm downloading this video.

[@zoejin8107]

"never be less, always be the greatest version of yourself" thank you, Susan, I think the rewarding romantic relationship is just the byproduct of being that GREATEST version of yourself

[@robertjohnson4401]

Susan's advice to play full out is the critical for your success in attracting a quality man. I always assume that the woman is playing full out. The worst thing you could do is hold back on the qualities that I would be attracted to. You short change yourself. By holding back, you may only attract men with low standards, qualities and requirements. I cannot distinguish between someone who is holding back and that is all they have to give. I will always assume the latter and it will end before I have seen the real you; the you that would have right for me.

[@SusanWinter]

Your comment is brilliant, Robert... "I cannot distinguish between someone who is holding back and that is all they have to give." I love this. Thank you for showing us how it feels and appears to the recipient. Wonderful commentary!!

[@diggarcia5190]

Do we run the risk of over-giving?

[@oldenglishsheepdogfun5960]

Robert Johnson how lovely. I am always my happy self. I don t play games and I am not ambiguous. It’s great advice Thank you

[@Florabela69]

dig Garcia ... only if you don't can't stop after seeing the other is holding back or is not committed to the same way you are open to. But is important to show the real you!

[@RayaVilenski]

Isn't it sad that so many men run out just because they were offered breakfast? What is the world coming to?

[@SusanWinter]

Yes, Raya V. That man ran out of my friend's apartment. Now she has the man who's building the rest of his life with her.

[@tobymassingale3490]

Raya V Because it makes the person whom is for wharever the reason,not ready or doesn't feel like giving a new lover a sense of power and sending the person that is now making the choice of not wanting another relationship that opens the new relationship up to an atomatic sense of comitment that is not right for the person to change the comfort zone,and in a common belief is I want a relationship that in no way,will give someone new,a sense of entitlement,and not making it very clear as to why the new person is quick to send an involuntary message of: I don't want that person to believe or misunderstand that one is into the taking a new relationship redistribution,is not an availible choice,that a person would then be able to,feel uncomfortable allowing the responsibility to just switch and,not being the management decision,could, amongst for decisions that only,you would know,managements head quy,is not going anywhere,that could bring some lost ,unknown security type management ,questions about

[@tobymassingale3490]

About security fraud,and threatening the store about you!! This so called,wouldbe level of power,a sense no one would be involved,in here.

[@tobymassingale3490]

Just because the internal code,for alarm systems,is not just a trust issue,but the systems upgraded code breaker,is not a pre set generic operation.the Systems security codes,are time-sensitve,and has the ability,to shut down airport security with a state of the art, insurance verification that is extreamely high alert and carrys large amounts of insurance,and has vibration sensative codes,that even the pentagon is not able to open ,close reset,or even access anti-thefts,real time danger in resetting code/breaker box,that is not able to decode electrical codes,with a high dollar, plus moltifunction, regeneration vode signels,that not only protects any insurance, that the banks own,but the time allotted code setting systems,guarantee an extreamely,elaborate multi-level,insurances that have an actual ongoing status,that car's being sailin'& numerous levels of Fish, water,and...eligamata

[@tobymassingale3490]

Venusian Goddess ,unless the codes programming re configures, & programing.

[@5339kimhall]

Location is BREATHTAKING

[@SusanWinter]

Kim H thank you. This is the terrace where we have breakfast or just sit in the lounge chairs relaxing. The villa is exceptional in every way. Even better than the photos. Lake Como had long been on my bucket list. Thanks for your comment.

[@VanessatheCreativeWriter]

This is your best advice. I am so done with the games and men who try to play them with me. As of right now, I will no longer participate in any love games.

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Vanessa.

[@mist__4974]

Yes. The games are stressful

[@maryemmanuel4725]

Yes👌...being a good woman pays off, not necessarily to the wrong guys but eventually the right one shall come along and appreciate the good woman that she is

[@BeccaSmith124]

I know I've grown in my self because yes this feels amazing to do this. Give your full out even if you feel like "uh should I, what will he think", do it because its who you are!! If they don't accept it, You will feel free and loving you even more for being authentic!

[@SusanWinter]

Fantastic, Becca!! Don't let them make you less than all you can be.

[@BeccaSmith124]

Susan Winter Thank You Susan!! Love the support, absolutely, When I opened my heart to speak from experience and how I felt Bout it, I realized that it was a time in the essence and I have no regrets. Whether it turns into what I feel it will or not, I felt free bc I didnt ask or feel nervous it was genuine and from soul:)

[@yakopro49]

Never be less always play full out. 90% of the videos that I've watched from your channel so far have made perfect sense. I love your logic and your approach to dating and relationships. I want to congratulate you on your coaching brilliancy

[@maryamkim1281]

Wow. Your mind is just beautiful.

[@SusanWinter]

I really appreciate that comment, Maryam. Thank you.

[@ShelleyG1014]

Finally! You are the only coach I need to follow. I’ve been being my whole self more and more each day and I love it and I agree 100%. Susan, you’re #1

[@fountainb53]

Thank you for providing mature, wise counsel in a world that is so desperately in need of it.

[@chacharas81]

Im insanly afraid to do this. Everyone take advantage of me, when Im good or show the best of me. You are right, dear Susan! This should be the right healthy way to start a relationship. But I find it extremely dangerous.

[@SusanWinter]

How about this: give a 1/2 cup of your normal nice. Let's try that. You can't resrict yourself from being kindhearted. You can, however, measure it out in portions to see how it's handled.

[@chacharas81]

Susan Winter Agree! Thank you so much! 🌹

[@beautylife310]

Don't be less just because they cannot be more. So good to hear this! Thank you!

[@johng.4959]

I just found your channel Susan and I must admit, some of the best advice I've ever heard when it comes to relationships. people are afraid to be themselves and what happens is exactly as you described. Once the honeymoon is over and the real person appears, that's when you find out. Why not just circumvent everything and be the real person from the start! 👍. Great advice Susan as usual! 👍

[@aliciav63]

susan you are so awesome i love your advice ...im 54 and watched every one of your videos they are so true and useful for us!!! my partner is 19 years younger than me and i was very reluctant to give him even the time of day...but after watching your advice i gave him a chance and i am sooooo freaking pleased happy and just taking things one day at a time...

[@SusanWinter]

aliciav63, this is wonderful to read. Thank you! And I'm really happy for you.

[@richardbonfils6791]

aliciav63 L0L!

[@saga0796]

Lucky guy, most guys are looking a girl like u, just like my self.

[@silvermont331]

Amazing 😉 I’m sure he will stay but only if he doesn’t want to start a family “kids” Once he wakes up to reality yeah, he may ghost on you .. but in the meantime hun, enjoy the present 🎁 hope it last 4ever.

[@inira7418]

@@silvermont331 bahhh they ghost also girls that have 20 years, your argument is not valid

[@tabby__cat]

This was the most empowering and freeing advice I have ever heard out of all the (male) KZbin dating coaches I watched so far. I'm super grateful. I have been feeling so stunted in my situationships because I hold back from being who I usually am romantically. I'm pretty much good girlfriend material, but I've always been told to not give what I don't get. And it suckssss because I enjoy being super sweet and affectionate. But this advice makes me think, I should flaunt who I am and let the guys enjoy it. If they're worthy, they can have more of me! If not, bye. Thanks Susan, this video made me subscribe!

[@lilbabytears]

Amazing. Ive been struggling with this lately especially this day in age. No one wants to be vulnerable, genuine, and authentic with their feelings. Ive been trying to get on board with that mentality to survive dating in this age but its not true to who I am. So thank you for this video. I cant be a half version of myself when it comes to relationships, and this reassured me.

[@rockwellk5101]

The best advice I’ve ever heard about relationships!! I’m crying right now. Perfect advice that just feels true

[@digittydog]

What a wonderful word to hear. Some of us are so concerned about avoiding trauma bonds and codependence that we also avoid our desires and emotions. I am not ashamed of what I am looking for. I am not ashamed of being open. I guess I will continue risking the pain in order to put out that consistent signal. The right someone is going to really like it.

[@miriaml.150]

Love IT!! I needed to hear this! I tend to be intense so I try to hold back. But recently I realized I need a guy who enjoys my intensity - so I started having the guts to be the real me! We may as well start out HONEST so we attract men who want the real version of ourselves! Anything else is really a waste of everyone's time & energy...Both are precious.

[@theadviser123]

Beautifully put! Yes, when you stay true to yourself and be who you are, you will attract someone like you, who wants the same things.

[@Th3Fab3]

Susan, I've been watching you for almost 3 years now. This is one of my fav videos. I'm glad to watch it again during this Valentine's Day

[@lourvm9296]

This is one of my favorite messages! It's helped me to recover from my last relationship...thank you!

[@jasminej6281]

This is me. Always show ho I really am so that I can be with the partner that gets me. Its best to attract the right person for you rather than someone for now.

[@SusanWinter]

Fantastic!

[@imwookcreative716]

wish all women & men stop whatever they were doing and watch this

[@Unun96]

I love your message Susan! We live in a time when women have more freedom than we ever did, yet we don't fully self-express, suppress ourselves, our love and our affection due to the pain that we experienced in our past...I like how you put it...practicing our own game, and getting comfortable with our own essence of who we are...love, love, love. Thank you!

[@SusanWinter]

I've really enjoyed reading your comment, YourTRUmD. Thanks for this astute share.BTW: I'm in the airport lounge while writing you. Just came back from a weekend with my friend and her fiancé (as mentioned in this video). They're perfect together!!

[@Unun96]

You are welcome. That is really awesome, I can sense how happy you are for them...I think when two people who really know themseves come together...that is the kind of love that they'll have...like your friends'. I hope that all women, and men, discover who we truly are...because once we do...we get to experience the power that we all have within us...and we can create magical loving relationships like your friends'...romantically, but also just simple connections with others. Thank you for the response, btw. I recently discovered who I am, and a big part of me wants for others to get what I've gotten...thank you for your inspiration and sharing of yourself as well!

[@stephb5169]

Oh my goodness! I love this video so much! I’ve always said that if someone can’t accept me for who I am, then don’t let the door hit you in the behind on the way out! I REFUSE to ever be anyone that I’m not!!!! And Im a person with a caring and giving nature, that enjoys doing for others, shows people how much they mean, loves with all of her heart, enjoys seeing people happy, has a heart of gold and wants to live life to its fullest! So far it hasn’t gotten me anywhere and it’s to bad that’s not what men want!

[@zan752000]

My goodness, I feel like your talking directly to me about being my self. Thank you so much Susan, really needed to hear this today.

[@SusanWinter]

Hi Zan. This is great!! I love it when the message arrives and is seen by the very person who needs it!! My friend is so happy. And calm. All the anxiety is over and her real, right and natural partner is here.

[@yvonnecelona9034]

thank you so much Susan...this has been me...every new relationship í am me full-out...i don't know how else to be...but sometimes í would question myself when it didn't work-out and would decide to try to be different but í can't and this is how í am...so thanks for reminding me...

[@SusanWinter]

Wonderful to read this Yvonne. Thank you!

[@VivVal33]

Hi Susan, love to see you in a different setting, it looks magical! As for your advise of going full out, i cannot agree more. Yes it is scary and yes you might feel that you might be taken advantage of, but the only reward you take is knowing that you gave it your best. I don't really know how to do little by little, i am either me 100% or it will feel fake. So i decide to give it my all all the time, that way i have absolutely no regrets. The only person losing is the one who didn't see you for who you are. There's nothing more rewarding than spreading the only thing worth fighting for in this life...LOVE! Hugs to you, Susan!

[@elizabethmccaul2223]

I have a young friend with whom I did business. This turned into a strong friendship. I’m much older than he is, yet our friendship worked. We love each other platonically. I was very honest with him when issues came up. Now he wants to be intimate with me. I admire that he was humble and able to “hear” what I had to say.

[@onthecuspofmagic]

it's so liberating for me to just be myself and treat them as nice as I would if they were mine already. It means there was nothing I could have done different. I love this advice.

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks for sharing!!

[@ashita1130]

OMG!! I'm screaming!!!!!!!!! You are so good! Thank you!!!

[@SusanWinter]

THANK YOU!!

[@karakol86]

Your philosophies are more like my life philosophies: honest, open, no frills and being a moral and principled person. Honesty is thr key to getting what you want.

[@richb7682]

What was so great about this one and I think Susan is the best and not even close is being true to yourself and authentic. Why play games and become someone you are not. No way. I'm older now, been thru a couple of long term relationships. The act of giving something you are passionate about is truly beautiful. I love breakfast and will take it or make it.

[@joesandstrom4111]

You’re wonderful, Susan! This has been a difficult and exciting time for me because I’ve got someone who might be the one, just needed another date! I didn’t want to put all my cards on the table on the first date, so I stayed reserved, because I wanted to leave a sense of mystery to unfold. Made some minor mistakes after the first date which ‘may’ have raised some red flags for her, she pulled back, then came a spiritual awakening so to speak, my flaws became clear, and have since been enlightened. Love is overflowing. I’ve got the right questions now, and then... quarantine. I’m in a state of purgatory lost in thought about it every day, morning to night. Now I’m cautiously reaching out to a ghost who cant return a phone call or a simple text. I can’t tell if she is even there to graciously receive me and my full potential, or how to deliver it. So, I remain silent. Walking away doesn’t feel right, going full out doesn’t feel right, and pushing it further doesn’t feel right. It’s so damn difficult to go full out right now and unleash my heart without pushing it any further, I feel bound. I want this person in my life as a friend, a lover, or as their good shepherd. I’m dying to have a real heart to heart about how much the experience has influenced my spirit and I thank God for the connection and she should know. She’ll also probably think I’m nuts, because so much remains uncertain and likely hasn’t seen the light. However, I’m under the impression that this powerful and mystical connection is only one sided. I’m humbled. Any thoughts, please?

[@karamelrush7808]

Right on the mark, Susan. I call this less than full out game “holding back my awesome.” If I feel a man deserves less than my full out awesome - my A game - it’s gotta end there because we’re both wasting our precious time in a dead end relationship. Love your input and the way you deliver it, Ms. Awesome 😊

[@Sowley8]

Susan I love this! I watched this video several times. I changed and play full out! I absolutely Love it. I go not afraid or worried. Playing full out makes me feel good about myself. It just makes it about me putting me in a higher plane of self love ❤️

[@dollydolldaze]

You are such an empowering woman. When you said play full out it gave me goosebumps. I feel so validated for being my authentic self. Thank you for sharing x

[@xxgil2]

I needed to hear this. It is as simple as a game of catch. Always throw with confidence and energy. The right person will eventually catch and will appreciate your enthusiasm.

[@corinelafont8659]

Love you Susan. You are my sister, best friend who I hang out with all night after work and during the day when I feel to talk and yes I do answer you back and engage with you while you talk on your YT videos. Anyone near me would think I am crazy! Keep doing what you're doing

[@honeybeer9717]

As ever, wonderful advice. It touches , too, on how the people we tend to enjoy and love to be around are the ones who just do what they do- the big hearted and generous who just let you in very comfortably, because they are comfortable with themselves. As friends and partners, that's a great way of being and a great thing to get comfortable with, and yes, it's so different from conventional wisdom that tells one to hold back in reserve and basically not treat this new person in your life as if you enjoy them being there. Hope your travels are amazing! So beautiful , you make Lake Como even more stunning!

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you for the kind words, and your wonderful commentary. I really enjoy reading your notes. All the best!

[@user-sv4vi2iw4g]

I really needed to hear this. I spent most of my life chasing men and trying to change who I truly am and now I'm focusing on my career and I believe the right person will come in due time. I'm going to give myself the love and attention I deserve and make something of myself and I know hes out there and hes going to love all of me :) thank you for all your videos!

[@SusanWinter]

DF, I absolutely love your commentary! I wish you Great happiness in taking care of yourself and focusing all of your energy on your career and the things that give you pleasure. And I do know that that from that solid position your partner will more readily emerge. Thank you so much for your note.

[@Shalisha24]

I was just sitting here tonight questioning myself on something kind that i did from my heart tonight for someone I am dating, then i come across this lol wow! I really needed to see this. Now I feel at ease. I feel the same way "treat dating as a relationship" someone will appreciate the kind things I do one day. Thanks for the video Susan 💜 much love from New Jersey.

[@GaviriaBuck]

I could not love this video more!!!!! I have always felt this way and it is contrary to what is recommended... other people advice to play games and that is not me! I am genuine and go full out when I feel in love. If I do not do that, I regret not having given it my all. Thank you!

[@shasweets231]

Susan I luv this it's nothing more rewarding then just being self keep growing because you will always glow and it will come.

[@SusanWinter]

Fanstastic, sha

[@ladytenorio]

Thank you Susan for this video. It has come at the perfect time in my life! Recently I started pulling back after I got some disappointing news from a love interest(20 years younger) for whom I was going all out being myself with then I finally learned(or heard) our age gap is a problem for him. Although he's been acting contrary. I didn't know how to react since our foundation is a good friendship. Pardon me for going on and on, I started to become more irritable due to the pulling back. And now realize I've been acting against my true self when I am around him. Which is affecting my interactions with this new guy I've met recently. More importantly, after seeing this video it reinforces my gut feeling to go back to being my true self. In other words, don't recoil but instead show up fully as my best self always and perhaps limit time spent with the younger man.

[@SusanWinter]

Love what you've written: ..."don't recoil but instead show up fully as my best self always"... Truly lovely, and lovable. Thank you ladytenorio.

[@delvinaleigh421]

Dear Susan, THANK YOU SO MUCH for this WONDERFUL VIDEO! I used your advice and "hold my torch up high" and described to him exactly how I would like to be with my new partner and I FOUND HIM!!! He is absolutely looking for what I said and I melted his heart with my "brutal" truth (before we even went out on a date!) THANK YOU AGAIN and I'M YOUR FAN. Wishing you a wonderful year ahead. ♥️♥️♥️

[@yapsweeleng]

Woohoo! You are right! Living fully will send great amount of positiveness, and it will attract great people along the way. Thanks again Susan and have a great holiday! P/S: the outdoor recording is a great job, well done!

[@mrrobot474]

Carmen Yap hi

[@SusanWinter]

Thanks Carmen. Wishing you well.

[@enchantress7]

I love everything you say. It's such a relief, I have such a hard time not being authentic.

[@SusanWinter]

enchantress7 thank you!!

[@Oceanusnovas-um2zf]

Thats wonderful advice. I always wondered anout that. I use to do that and stopped because I didn't want to seem doing or being a little more in a non committal relationship though I knew I had good qualities as an individual and when I stopped I felt I had lost myself for a while just to be caught up in the fake dating world. Now after listening to this I need to regain my true self and highest good. Thank you, Susan as always your a real brillant human Therapist.

[@clittle889]

Susan, I truly appreciate your input on dating you have solid advice and you bring clear understanding to the subject matter. Keep up the good work.

[@SusanWinter]

Thank you, clittle889!!

[@yu-hsuancheng9853]

i love you Susan! i can't thank you enough, you have no idea how much your words have helped me! You save my life! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!

[@annettejohnson7307]

Thank you Susan! This encouraged me to continue to be real and selfless.

[@kikianasahmad2328]

You're doing a good job of guiding mature women to achieve the love life they desire.

[@Florabela69]

This was my first video of you I saw last year! And I loved the way you think and give the picture! Since then I'm sure I saw almost all your videos, just mature and wise! When I listen to you I feel normal, I can't play games, we are inside so fragile, I know the pain, maybe one day I find a intelligent man that see me without the need of play the usual dating games...

[@enjoylifebypam1657]

Susan, you gave a very profound advice. Thank you! You are an angel!

[@SusanWinter]

THANK YOU!!! I truly appreciate your kind words, Pam.

[@paulvine5056]

Very good video - give the person that you are interested in your best. After 10 months of an on again off again relationship all I can say is never again!

[@mariatriantafillou1549]

Thank you so much Susan! I really needed to hear, that its okay to be yourself!! I'm generous kind funny and most of the time I tend to show my vulnerable side!!! in the past I've been told showing vulnerability scares men away and that you have to be withdrawn and closed to attract a man!!! I'm taking your advice and be myself from now on!!! Thanks!!

[@SusanWinter]

Maria, you may want to begin little by little until you're comfortable (like GOC EP, above in this commentary). Nothing is sexier than a powerful woman choosing to be open.

[@CorporateQueen]

Such great advice Susan. I'm in NC atm and I told my ex what I wanted and if he wants to join me there, to get in touch ... and it's really difficult on the weekends... But watching your videos really helps. Thank you.

[@ernestomunoz5623]

I don't believe I can calibrate to the full meaning of love. Yet life feels ok, and I'm feeling good about this new chapter. Thank you for having so many chances, but I think it's better having less.

[@sswcustomcyclesswcustomcyc7948]

Thank you for another great topic and I agree with you 100%. I laughed about the breakfast part because if a lady stays at my place I get up, get the coffee on the burner, and cook her breakfast. I have always done this because I love doing it and if it freaks them out well I get to learn she is probably not for me. Hope you are having a wonderful vacation. Take care and have a great day.

[@chitownbella8970]

Great information and well delivered. I agree 100%. I believe in always going full out and know that the right man will be receptive and ready for me ♡

[@francescaromanagarroni6524]

Finally someone who says something truly meaningful 💗 *never be less, always be the best version of yourself* Wonderful Susan thank you!

[@beverlypatterson2550]

Lovely analysis to be true to yourself and honoring of who you are 😊. Thank you ❤!

[@rainamarie9353]

Thank you so much. I held myself back because I thought he would play me...well guess what shit happens regardless. I will be me till the end. Thanks again

[@brijan81]

Omg . I love you Susan ! Thank you for this video. So personable and influential. I am totally in that place. What to do. You made it so understanding on how to treat each person you are interested in to make of what YOU want and see the possibilities. ❤️

[@SusanWinter]

Glad you liked this one.

[@valentinanocross8677]

I heard this from another. You do a explanation of examples.your videos are so fulfilling

[@deboraheden6418]

Susan I absolutely love the perspective you give it’s so refreshing thank you I can’t believe you are the only woman I have subscribed or listened to about relationship advice. I stumbled on you and am so glad I did nothing is by chance 💕

[@keoki37]

Wow thank you Susan, I do the full-out method and will never change that about me !

[@UnexpectedWonder]

This is how I've always played the Game. I'm a Full-throttle kind of Guy. I'm really glad to hear that this is truly the right way.

[@Iris11music]

.... I can't describe how lucky I feel that I've found you.

[@terrybrodsky4948]

Thank you so much Susan. I appreciate many of your videos that I've seen. But if you could only see one, it should be this 1. Fantastic advice!

[@therealempress]

I love your work. This is Love Manifestation. I love it! Thank you! I'm gonna use full out everyday, in every aspect of my life. I will be si much happier 😊 this way🌞

[@robotfreedom5385]

Thank you so much Susan, this is exactly what I needed to hear I'm happy with how I am and have felt in the past that I may need to change but I wouldn't be comfortable not being me. Again thank you and enjoy your travels your great 😊

[@SusanWinter]

Who you are Daniel is the man they'll love- so it doesn't make sense to edit or amend yourself downward to appease those who are lesser. What I love is the fact that your inner self knew this already!!

[@terrymondon7649]

One of my all time favorite videos from you Susan❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ladyfire2456]

This is a beautiful and wholehearted piece of counsel. I have been advised, in not so many words, to NOT be who I am because I love fully and completely. Thank you for encouraging all of us to be ourselves without shame or fear. Just subbed. With Gratitude, LF

[@Miss.NataSha]

Wooow...such an amazing video. I've seen many, but this one blew me away. Great message, amazing background and you look so stunning & in your element. You are really wearing that dress and owning your truth. 💜it Thank you 💞🙏💫

[@luciapalcikova]

What goes around comes back around. Wether you play games or you are honest, in relationship or in business.

[@ShinySilverBunny]

You are so beautiful Susan. Thank you for this wisdom I totally agree. It also keeps our behavior aligned with our values. Hope you had a lovely vacation!

[@imeenurse]

Oh Susan! I couldn’t agree with you more! This is the best advice I have watch here in KZbin! Bless you❤️

[@Harlowe79]

I always bring my "A game." Usually, the women think I'm playing them or too good to be true. Which is kind of sad. After a tough heartbreak (because it seemed she was on the same page), a preacher friend said something similar to what you say, Susan: "Look, she just wasn't ready for you." That advice helped ease my mind and stop over-analyzing.

[@marislyra]

Dear Susan, as always your videos are amazing..I agree with you! is kinda like "what you see is what you get", wich is the best that we can do to yourselves! That's the best thing about your videos!

[@mrrobot474]

true

[@cristinalacoste2062]

What a great approach. I love your videos Susan!

[@erosv7054]

Susan you give such great advice. Thank you

[@patrickdaley7057]

I loved this message, Susan. It totally makes sense to me. Thanks so much and way to go!

[@curlyrae3380]

I'm really enjoying exploring your videos! This particular one is very validating. I can be kind of intense, but not for the right people. Thank you so much 💜

[@NatashaSallesSoprano]

This is definitely one your best videos. God how much I hate game playing

[@Divchyk]

Comes to think about, it is very true. All of us during first 3 months on our best behavior with the whole bunch of extras towards the one we've fell, because critical thinking is sometimes completely disabled and we (or other party, or both) start doing crazy things that we would not do normally. As a result we either get tired or keeping the theatrics going or getting scared from "too much", or other person is being through same feelings and things fall apart :)

[@kiatalks555]

This is so true Susan! It's great advice I'm happy someone is saying it. Thank you

[@SusanWinter]

I'm so pleased you feel this way. Thank you

[@Hencida77]

I cannot agree more with you!!! I loved this!!!thank you Susan, you are awesome!!!!

[@intentionallyqueen.478]

It's beautiful that you are so happy for your friend-girl!

[@donnieluc6830]

Real men love honesty. Real men have a moral code. They seek a woman with values.