Why South India Is Better For Women

Women in South India are more likely to be educated, live longer, and marry later. What are the causes behind this gender difference?
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Research: Sushmita Sekhar
Editing: Mayank Maurya
Thumbnail: Ronit Soin (Instagram/@itsnotraunaq)
English Captions: Dhruv Bambhaniya
Tamil Captions: Keerthiga Ganesan (Instagram/@daily_snippets)
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0:00 Introduction
2:36 Poverty
3:10 Marriage norms
4:15 Colonialism
4:50 Inheritance rights
4:47 Family businesses
6:36 Purdah system
7:58 Agriculture
9:03 Conclusion
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0. Introduction
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1. History of gender rights in North and South India
www.draliceevans.com/post/why...
• Why Are Brides ‘Given ...
www.jstor.org/stable/4412300?...
2. Factors that cannot explain the difference
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pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/14617...
www.jstor.org/stable/3628913?...
3. Factors that can explain the difference
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timesofindia.indiatimes.com/i...
www.idiva.com/news-opinion/wo...
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journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1...
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www.jstor.org/stable/3203116?...
4. Conclusion
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[@mohak_mangal]

TWO POINTS: 1. This video is not about "my state is better than yours." If your state is better, it is because of factors that were beyond your control. So do not start "culture wars" here. The point of the video is to recognise the differences and look for historical factors that explain them. For people who view that your state is perfect, recognise that crimes against women are a norm in most parts of India. Just because it is better than in another part of India, it doesn't make it acceptable. 2. For the purpose of this video, have used a loose definition of "North" and "South" India. While I understand there are many differences across Indian states (because as we know each state in our country can be viewed as a different country!), found that this simplistic division could help us understand the issue at least at a broad, macro level.

[@xyzabc162]

Please make a video on latest GST collection state wise,It is quite surprising that Haryana almost earns GST equal to UP. How Maharasthra tops the chart.Gujarsth and Karnataka earns half of Maharasthra.Why such gap between 1st and 2nd states.

[@leanderbarreto6523]

What about uniform civil code

[@shrivardhandaga9397]

Kudos buddy keep it up😉❤

[@panditjagdishjii]

My brain will blast at the end of this year , If he didn't stop giving too much knowledge.

[@lakshya1305]

Hello propaganda boy 👍😂

[@bellissima05cruz6]

I am from Northeast India and I always admire South Indian people. They are really very down-to-earth and intelligent.

[@tamilselvik4249]

Wt u mean by down to earth 😌😌

[@tamilselvik4249]

@Sujith Mavram 😌😌😌

[@gokulgokul-rl5nj]

@@tamilselvik4249 bandha kaatathavanga , tannadakaam ,, something like that...

[@tamilselvik4249]

@@gokulgokul-rl5nj oh okay 👍👍👍

[@beluga8427]

@@tamilselvik4249 down to earth is a phrase used to refer so polite and and innocent.......

[@artsy6435]

We love our East India people as well. Don't ignore them. Love from South India ❤🙏

[@kundansand111]

Some good things of south India is also same for North East India also.

[@shubhamsinha1330]

Thank you so much...female empowerment in Northeast is op

[@moon-mj1ny]

And we looooove you guys of south an east indian 😊

[@ailucywah4552]

Thank you 😊

[@TrilokdanGadhavi10]

Yeah same from the west India....

[@Apar_706]

As a South Indian iam so afraid of North Indian mens 😢 they looks so scary especially in train journey

[@TheAvinashSinghOfficial]

And reverse in our situation

[@mathamaticholic3738]

@@TheAvinashSinghOfficial lol men in south are not like oppressive towards women in North they have civic sense and knows how to behave even most of rapes were done by immigrants from Bihar and up

[@TheAvinashSinghOfficial]

@@mathamaticholic3738 everyone knows how are the men in South, and oppressive people are everywhere in world you can't limit them to a state and just because of this video you all are suddenly defending south and shaming north, and you see large stats of rapes from bihar and Up because population is highest here and that why number seems to be big otherwise southern part also face such crimes

[@TheAvinashSinghOfficial]

@@mathamaticholic3738 and everyone knows what is happening in southern states it's just turning into a Islam republic

[@AtheistNationalist]

Bihar ain't NorthMr. Dravidian. Bihar is East Indian@@mathamaticholic3738

[@BusyStudyingCommerce]

I stayed in Coimbatore, Tamil Nadu for 5 years due to father's job transfer. I am originally from north India and let me tell you, south india does the *FREE* job of being the heaven on earth. It's natural beauty is astounding, South Indians are proud people especially regarding their language and culture and even today, we see families follow old traditions during festivals. Somehow they haven't lost their culture after all this time. One of my family friends who is a mallu had his wedding recently and he is filthy rich, like come on most mallus are but still he kept a very simple and a traditional wedding. I swear i am gonna buy a house in south one day and stay there 💙😭

[@scalerup]

five years in TN, did you learn Tamil or still imposing shitty Hindi?

[@rekhatm1855]

Not everyone can get that heaven

[@appukuttanj]

Most Mallus are not filthy rich. Most are just well to do. Kerala has done a good job of distributing wealth much more equally. Maybe because of an average Malayali's socialist tendencies.

[@isthisreallyhappens7336]

But south indian people doesn't like north people

[@lalitajoshi1785]

I have been living in south India for last 44 years,it's a heaven. women are more respected in south every female is addressed as Amma with respect

[@tejasyadav4676]

In Hyderabad

[@creative_psyche8046]

Wow it touched my heart❤

[@shiva.4861]

@@starsiegetribes2170 r u serious?? 🤣

[@Apar_706]

But the thing is there are more north PPL in South now a days 🙂

[@mehnazkhanam965]

@@Apar_706 yaa Very true

[@gotum428doke]

The reason why North East People prefer South India as higher studies destination is because of this. ❤️

[@roopeshgaddam9847]

As we see less of you either we mistake you to be from Nepal or if you have mongoloid features as chinease but when we learn you are from North East after hearing or talking we come in to conclusion that you are from North East. I even told my who is calling chunkier I told if you value my friendship I don't want to hear those as I know how you feel about that.. you are all welcome

[@anilkumarpr3639]

But north east is also safe for women

[@finenterprisespvtltd6707]

But face racism everywhere even in safe for women south.

[@pakterrorist3916]

@@anilkumarpr3639 lol

[@anilkumarpr3639]

@@pakterrorist3916 How is joe

[@deveshshrivas4785]

As we can clearly see in the comment section, girls sharing their experience of harassment in Northern part and feel safe in southern part of country, it's high time men needs to understand that something is wrong with our mentality towards women.

[@cat-mk5pl]

It's weird you say that cause there are also comments from south saying domestic violence cases are not reported by police.

[@sm24572]

Would you also say similar things to women when it comes to rising trend of women falsely accusing men (using misandrist laws)?

[@sm24572]

Respect both genders, giving lectures to one gender to virtue signal ain’t going to help (except for you to get laid perhaps).

[@noname-yb3nh]

​@@sm24572 ofc the soy boy won't address that 😂😂

[@annatastic1011]

thank you so much for adressing that sir , i was randomly scrolling through the comment section when i saw your comment, and i am really glad there are men like you who try and understand womens problem , please ignore all the hate you see in your replies , people just know how to spoil mindsets not learn from them until it comes up to themselves

[@shefyskitchenexperiments7732]

Another reason is South Indians respect all religion and cast and living together .We are celebrating Christmas,Onam,Eid together.proud of my Kerala

[@homosapienssapiens3019]

In Telangana

[@gampa_10_31]

Malayalam film industry is a propaganda film industry

[@Sai_2346]

religion okay but caste?

[@gampa_10_31]

@@Sai_2346 caste also, except Andhra (that to some extent,not high as north)all states people treat every caste equally

[@_ladybug_gaming]

Actually its not same in Karnataka, Mangalore which comes close to kerala border there is islam groups who support Pakistans. Ive had classmates who supported paks when we were kids. Hence hindus in our region developed severe phobia against islam. On outside we might look friendly towards them but its not simple. Ive had many muslim friends who were actually good patriotic peoples, but religious phobia is really present in Karnataka

[@veda8780]

In South India when a girl has her first mensuration period we celebrate that thing as a festival or marriage all people are invited to bless that girl and food is served to them. Once my neighbour aunty who is north Indian told me that I am really shocked how South people celebrate this thing, in our places no one is supposed to know or else everyone will comment that girl. Edit:- I am literally shocked how people are fighting north vs south this is not the point we all are one, we should be united🇮🇳

[@sridevivenkatesan2803]

That's an age old practice I wonder how they feel like that

[@redditverse6511]

@EXTREME Woah does whataboutism makes you feel better? did it fill that burn you got? South is always going to be better. Now go cry in the corner.

[@andreadsouza.5830]

I would be so happy if anyone celebrated my first period like that😀

[@donotthinkgobar978]

@@beautyofnature545 omg.......u seem to be brainwashed by regional parties for their electoral benefits

[@yashsaraswat9241]

@@beautyofnature545 @extreme wait wait wait.... Why u guys are fighting...you both are indians why to divide by saying north and south.... Your both mother's are my mothers why you abusing each other?? We all are Indians brother.. STAY UNITED PLEASE🙏

[@mwchangjamatia]

When I shifted my work from delhi to hyderabad, I found the people are so honest and intelligent people. always like to work with south people.

[@VARMOT123]

@@gazibizi9504 me too

[@lissysunny4845]

Hyderabad is not included in south

[@_Chandrika.]

@@lissysunny4845 ?? Hyd is in Telangana which is a south state

[@idduboyinaramu2414]

@@lissysunny4845 Hyderabad is also a south indian city

[@trivenip3319]

@@lissysunny4845 dude it is .. what a fool u r

[@praiseya4853]

I am from tamil nadu. Education is our strength...Education is common for both men and women ....cheaters easily cheat the uneducated and self-knowledgeless people.... I respect all states in India 🇮🇳❤🇮🇳

[@Molly-gw6gl]

Thank you atleast someone gets it. Greetings from Uttarakhand 😇

[@PoppushaB]

It is some true but reality, our people think against every time OPC sanathan dharm( anti humanity) lovable soul in my humble thinking ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@prisat9957]

The idea of respect to women in Southern India is also deeply rooted in the culture. In Tamil Culture, women were always given importance as seen in sangam era epics and poems more than two thousand years old. Out of 5 major tamil epics, 3 of them are centered around women in lead roles - Silapadhigaram, Manimegalai and Kundaladesi. Remaining 2 epics have men as lead characters. Silapathigaram - The story of the epic revolves around the legendary Kannaki who set out to avenge the death of her husband Kovalan at the hands of a Pandya king. Manimegalai - Manimekalai is the name of the daughter of Kovalan and Madhavi, who follows in her mother's footsteps as a dancer and a Buddhist nun.The epic tells her story. Kundalakesi - The epic is a story about a rich merchant's daughter kundalakesi and is about love, marriage, getting tired with the married partner, murder and then discovering religion coming to tamil female poets, there were 3 AVVAILYARS known in Tamil during various sangam periods. Avvaiar means respectable lady and history says that there were 3 avvaiyars who lived during various times and contributed to tamil literature. even now, our kindergarteners starts with aathichoodi and other avvaiyar poems when they start studying tamil. There were also multiple other female poets respected equally throughout tamil history. Another important reason for respect to women also comes from workshopping Amman. Every village will have at least one amman temple, which is typically some variation of female goddesses localized to each village. Amman temples, festivals and workships are part of overall tamil culture and probably i would say we have more temples for amman than ganesh /muruga/ vishnu. All these are thoroughly rooted across generations rooted into people mentality and women being seen as integral part of society and with respect.

[@riaagarwal6840]

I admire Tamil literature but dont speak the language. Would be nice to have a channel. Thanks for the intro.

[@user-ym1gt9qq4v]

​@@riaagarwal6840no one wants you to speak the language. We never force others to speak the language.

[@deepalil1085]

I am Marathi woman. My grandfather often said, " Learn from south Indians esp Kerala women. They work hard and are highly educated .

[@kanishkshah8193]

All the great achievements came from north. The Golden age of India was "Gupta empire". Acheivements 🚩 The number "0" The game of chess Origin of fibonnaci sequence Origin of pascal law Hindu-Arabic numerals And plenty others.

[@vishalraj6825]

@@kanishkshah8193 But now we lost all our heritage.We need to re establish ourselves and have to work hard to make north india prosperous again.for this we also need to to promote gender equality in our region.This is the way we can shut the mouth of people using stereotypical word against ourselves.It's literally hurts to listen stereotypical word against ourselves.

[@deepalil1085]

@@kanishkshah8193 I know brother. I wrote to show my sentiment. Thankyou for information.

[@Aaryan.S]

Yeah and we Marathas should also take inspiration from our own history. We had many inspiring females.

[@spitama1716]

Degenerated to the core too I'm from kerala reality is faar away from the truth. Educated means whoring with 100 men nothing called culture here.

[@withamberarya]

Removing religion and caste from politics . Is the biggest challenge. That will be the first step toward development

[@premprasun1516]

Yep

[@iamWATCHINGYOUUU]

I think under BJP the caste system will all come back after a few years.

[@syedsofiyan1432]

@@iamWATCHINGYOUUU i don't think so as they are more concerned in religion than caste. Majority of votes bjp gets are of obc which is a collection of many castes. Parties concerned in caste are sp(yadav),bsp(jatav) in up.

[@suviram.1901]

@@syedsofiyan1432 i guess you're right

[@suviram.1901]

@iTs Messiah removing religion might improve the nation by a lot

[@fourhappybirds]

I am from Rajasthan… living in Hyderabad since 16 years… and i feel blessed for my daughters studies and future 🙏 south India very respectful for girls specially 😊

[@Copeharder556]

Hyderabad is complete city like it diversity with unity

[@zik5310]

i as a north indian visited chennai a few weeks ago, i was surprised by how safe i felt, much women are empowered there, how independent they are, its just wow,and people are so nice and respectful to all genders, even homophobia was much less than north, it was amazing, loved it

[@kumariankita9267]

I too visited Chennai and I felt opposite. I visited Chennai last year. I stay in Mumbai. I felt I was safer and free in Mumbai.

[@user-ym1gt9qq4v]

​@@kumariankita9267Mumbai 😅 typical northies don't cry you never been into chennai just you jealous of South India. Here in chennai they are so safe.

[@kumariankita9267]

@@user-ym1gt9qq4v I have stayed all over India and Mumbai is the safest place for women. People looked at me in Chennai just because I was wearing a jeans n t-shirt. What would you call that ? You wouldn't see many women after a certain time in Chennai. You can go out any time you want in Mumbai and you'll be safe. And by any time, I mean any time in 24 hrs. There's no comparison of Mumbai and Chennai. I thought earlier that Mumbai is a bit dirty but then I visited Chennai.

[@aakarshikavenkatesh8426]

I'm a South Indian from Tamil Nadu, just by looking at the comments I feel like I should know more about North East areas of India.

[@Chenni7]

Naanum tha bro

[@fishyfish6510]

In Meghalaya we have less crimes or ill-treatment of girls and women. Here among the tribes of Meghalaya we have matrilineal system where inheritance belongs to women(youngest daughter in case of Khasi tribe) and our surname is taken from the mother. I too take my surname from my mother

[@harinibhooma7998]

@@fishyfish6510 wow 😲 pls tell more

[@MuthuKumar-jz7yr]

நானும்

[@paulsarbananda2671]

I am from North East india from kolkata🙂

[@advsmrithimanoharans2894]

Crime rates are high in kerala because people tend to report every atrocity,...

[@rajavishnuvardhana6830]

Yes..same thing happens with bihar and UP you guys say something else.

[@redditverse6511]

@@rajavishnuvardhana6830 Nice joke now get moving.

[@easyaccess4334]

@Hermione granger 2011 census-> Literacy rate in TN = 80.33% Literacy rate in Kerala=93.91% Thanks.💚 (Ps: credit - Google)

[@aromalps7026]

@Hermione granger "tamil nadu is the most educated state in india " what a joke

[@DeepakAMenon-gd2um]

@Hermione granger Kerala education is lower than Tamilnadu. Nice joke.

[@prateekkashyap5459]

I went to Udhagamandalam (Ooty) back in 2018. A girl of age 7 or 8 saw me coming towards hand wash basin. She was about to leave the place and was closing the door. But she held the door open for me. I was totally surprised by this. They are so generous. That day she taught me a nice practice.

[@alank4467]

Finally someone has said it. Inorder to make our India superpower, we need to give women the same opportunities as men.

[@Imdemocratic_Xi]

In between all these.. you completely ignored Northeast

[@mukkumania]

Because no one has even researched N.E

[@joebanana8006]

I really hope north east becomes more inclusive....I am just a random guy from Maharashtra but I like North East a lot,I visited it so many times❤

[@byron-ih2ge]

@@joebanana8006 i think northeast is much more inclusive than the rest of India.

[@nunpuiisingson298]

@@joebanana8006 thank you for saying this. I am from Mizoram & i think it is really heartbreaking to see that we the people from NE are not considered as Indians, we even have to prove our citizenship by showing our adhaar card in some occasions because we look different. Hoping for more inclusiveness.

[@ErenYeager-jp4gc]

True! Northeast is far safer than South India!

[@aditisingh8240]

Also as a North Indian I always felt very welcomed in south India, yes there were language barriers but English helped a lot ... my classmates always seemed interested in my culture , especially my lunches 😆, they loved the different kind of "parathas" I brought....whereas here in north I see some people mocking south indians with stereotypical names ... like idli dosa or making fun of their darker skin tone.....it hurts me to see people of the same country treating another that way

[@aditisingh8240]

@Youth India have lived many years in A.P and telangana, never faced racism there tbh ... been to Chennai once as I already said there was language barrier many shopkeepers didn't know English so we couldn't really communicate...but I was never mocked for being North Indian there

[@gazibizi9504]

@Youth India Tamils are very homogeneous people making them xenophobic, Kannadigas are quite politically anti-hindi. Telugus and Mallus seem to be more open to foreign contact due to history as well.

[@firegaming-wn2mh]

@Youth India did you know that Tamil people are the most welcoming people they treat guests as gods

[@mr.l2993]

@Youth India How being a metropolitan city related to rascism?

[@mr.l2993]

@Youth India Did you went to all the so called rest States?

[@lilac2698]

North Indian here, both parents from Uttarakhand. Born and lived in Bangalore my entire life, loved every moment of it. All the friends I had growing up were from different backgrounds; Assamese, Punjabi, Himachali, Tamil, Telugu etc. Hell, I even have a couple Tibetan friends!! I'm glad I was able to grow up in such an environment, it also helped me grow up more tolerant. All of my female friends I'm really close with, have confirmed that they've never had any case of assault or harassment here. Most of us have never faced racism. I take no hesitation in conforming with the title, South India IS much ahead of the North in matters as such, and before you're too quick to judge my assumption, I must tell you that I've visited the North India extensively. I've visited Sikkim too, and Sikkim is my favorite state in all of India. Really clean, wonderful people, extremely safe and wonderful walking street, and love the sights.

[@manav7682]

I was living in New Delhi for 8 years and just because of my father job we went to south (chennai) for 4.5 years. The place is so nice that if i get a chance to go back chennai i will live my rest of the life there . TBH people trust each other they have loyalty and respect to each other

[@maggss6897]

I'm from the northeast and I personally love South India. I live in Karnataka, DK district and no one has ever disrespected in any kind. I love the people here where I stay, people are so helpful. They are so good and pure. I'm also obsessed with Kannada language that I have spoken alot too with others. I have so many good friends here and even in Kerala too❤️

[@prashanthb6521]

Thanks for respecting KANNADA.

[@adithishetty755]

@Kartik Shetty ikr

[@crisdl2509]

@Tommy Vercetti mabye

[@ujan-pd6tz]

You all burn the houses of bengalis and act like you r the victims

[@KalpaShettyvlogs]

Tq madam

[@aishiify]

I stayed in South India for 7 years and have every reason to want to go back. I just love this part of India.

[@HappyGirlsJourney]

Where u stayed?

[@darryshelby7544]

I'm from Uttar Pradesh and have been to Tamil Nadu, Karnataka, and Andhra Pradesh for some trips.... and I was shocked by the honesty and humbleness of people, less chaos, helpful people... just wow, as an UP guy I would probably dream UP to be Karnataka first, then develop ahead...

[@shanusingh3139]

Tumhe Jahan rhna hai rho jakr mgr Up ko defame krne ki jarurat nhi hai .Har jagah acche bure log hote hain .Kya kahan chahte ho UP ke saare log criminal mindset ke aur rude hote hain ?

[@hemachaudhary2793]

​@@shanusingh3139nahi uske kehne ka matlab hai women waha jyada safe hai unke uper faltu ke rule nahi hai jo north side me hai

[@anirudh7309]

​@@hemachaudhary2793 he has never went to Varanasi, vrindavan or prayagraj I guess women there feel very safe and you can see them around untill 3-4 am

[@Anurag-oz9zt]

Well, I hope that both Chandigarh Metropolitan Region and the Lucknow Capital Region becomes the Detroit of Northern India, on par with Chennai. Furthermore, UPians must work on ways to attract direct investments from Tamil Nadu.

[@annipaul91]

I have worked in south india like Kerala and Telengana more than 3 years. Though I faced street harassment in both places but definitely lower than other places like Delhi and Kolkata. Even I have travelled alone middle of the night to catch flights or trains which is unthinkable to do in north.

[@vlogfortruth2030]

Love from Kerala dear❤

[@Copeharder556]

Really you faced harrasment in Telengana 💔

[@Makoto417]

I'm from Andhra Pradesh It's actually normal in India because parents don't discipline children especially they give lot of freedom to boys. I'm a boy too I know how my illiterate friends behave but they don't take it far they have loose mouth. But my mother deciplined me I respect every woman. 👍

[@sayanthsm5340]

Im from Kerala and here we are not afraid to lodge a complaint.Hence the higher crime rate.

[@nileshsoma5885]

Yes In AP alo even some of them are funny also, Yester I experienced a funny case ,😀 My friends wife moved out from home and He approached to the police station to get the home keys.😀😀😀

[@k.sjecymol2611]

@@nileshsoma5885 😂💕

[@prajeeshprasannakumar1079]

Some times even for some boundary issues between neighbours, they include assault on women to get the case more active.

[@shivabhardwaj4886]

Lol in North we are also safe and you know crimes does not happened against women in states like Uttarakhand Himanchal so how can we fill the complaint. And we are much happy there 🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭🤭

[@krutireporter7324]

In Gujarat same do not give to much to South india

[@kiwiju657]

I'm from Kerala and I'm quite disturbed that no one talks about North East India. It's like most of the Indians are ignorant about them. Never forget that they are also our brothers and sisters. I hate this government so much, they don't do anything for these people. Edit: so some triggered Indians and BJP supporters replied with things BJP has achieved for the north east. But I wonder why the north east people are not feeling the same thing. People calling them Chinese, it’s ok? People being racist towards them because of the corona virus and it is also ok?! So I’m not going to believe anyone unless a north East Indian actually tells that the government is doing the right thing for them😬 Y’all think it’s ignorance but the irony is you people are ignorant towards the north east people’s opinion.

[@akiamab3558]

Yeah they don't give a damn about the NE

[@yashmundada8128]

Hi, I wouldn't exactly agree with you regarding the government not doing much in the north eastern states. Do checkout the infrastructure projects that have happened in the last 3 years in the NE states. Numerous artificial bridges(Meghalaya), roads, railway connections and hydroelectric projects(Arunachal Pradesh) have been built, and a lot of economic activity seems to be increasing in the area. I do not know if it is intended at getting those votes, or genuine budget allocations, but I wouldn't exactly say "the present government does not do anything for these people"

[@kiwiju657]

@@yashmundada8128 thanks for the information I’m sorry I’ll reflect on it next time

[@thecountdown9891]

I feel like north east states better than other part of the country. They were never been these bad social norms to begin with . And Im from kerala

[@deliciousredmango]

I agree with you. But it's not just BJP, no govt has ever done anything significant.

[@SheJasmin]

I lived 3 years in coimbatore tamilnadu, and I'm shocked to see that they celebrate periods as wedding ceremony...and the girl who gets her first period get alot of gifts, sweets ,fav food by all her neighbours and family friends rather than in North India...where period is nothing but a taboo

[@mysterythrillerwriter6833]

We aren't so much rich, we are "Educated"👍. Jai hind jai Karnataka.🙏💓

[@koppulasrinu775]

@Mystery Thriller writer ... no dude, Karnataka one of rich states as per percapita Income.. After telangana, Karnataka has the high percapita in gdp percapita... and 4 south states( TS, TN, KN, KERALA) stands in top 7 percapita states except AP

[@flawless_papaya]

@EXTREME Meaningless comment. Better luck next time.

[@mojarth8110]

@EXTREME now now now...... i know who you are..... waiting to meet you

[@swecchaaparajitha6283]

I am from Andhra Pradesh. I am the second child in my house. After the birth of my brother my parents longed for a girl child and I am pampered kid 👧. Not only parents but even my grandparents wanted a girl child. I have seen many relatives going for second child after the birth of a boy only for having a girl child. Yes I am very happy for having such wonderful parents.

[@sree3650]

Good to hear 💜💜

[@paadipanta2607]

Great, you have all the reasons to be happy. Andhra has more boys than girls.

[@dilipsaha4732]

Same goes for me ,and I have some more advantages my family doesn't have any girl child in two decades, so it was really like a dream for my parents, and moreover I am the smallest among all my cousins, though now my brother has a child but that is also a son , daughters in my family is rare

[@thelalithreport108]

Baaga cheppaav akka

[@lakshmim5998]

Meeru chala lucky ma.mana daggara almost prathi family lo ilane anukuntaaru.we should be proud of that.

[@patriciadillen6059]

I grew up in North India, but it was only when I moved to Chennai for college, when I realised that the daily harassment I was facing while walking on the streets of my city in North was not normal. This disturbed me so much that every time I went back home (in the North) for summer vacation, I never could venture out to walk within those same shopping markets.

[@bekindandpolite2158]

Stop plz what exactly u mean by north India

[@shalini5137]

@@faizalmanwar no she is saying south is better

[@sasukeuchiha5420]

@@faizalmanwar Lmao.. please at least read the para twice before spreading hate☠️

[@ashokdeiva]

@@faizalmanwar Dude We southies call ourselves good at English and some of you damage that reputation. Please read before you make a fool of the whole of SOUTH. She says that she does not want to go out in NORTH after comming to SOUTH because there was no HARRASMENT in SOUTH and she became intolerable to the place that she was born in NORTH INDIA where harassments is a norm in their streets from MEN

[@noone-ec8ub]

@@bekindandpolite2158 i am from north and yes south india is damn better coz peoples of North India even harrasing the foreigners not only womens but mens and that's why investers first choice is south ind not north even elon Musk launch tesla in banglore so accept the truth

[@hobbithallows]

I am from Bihar I have always admired women of south India and north east India Hoping to learn and make my state better and better with each coming day 🙏

[@bhargabsarma1205]

I'm not from northeast India but I lived there since birth, three things they deserve appreciation , no dowry ,no gender inequality & no cast violence . northeast is safe for females .

[@drishyatheexplorer]

Very true well said brother😃...I was born in kerela and brought up in Tamil Nadu. In Tamilnadu I can find the freedom of words ,actions,safety,pride and respect for woman among men and the society..infact at times a woman is most respected than men in tamilnadu.

[@nayab6129]

Yes, both genders deserve equal respect.

[@shanjanasree_4848]

Hey im also tamilan but i love kerela

[@motorola3731]

Thanks buddy.. 😄🤝

[@basedtsar9440]

Pasangala maranthutanga sis :(

[@bibinthomas5282]

@Boobalan Boobalan but when married Tamils won't let their daughters work, they want them to be housewives

[@BaBa_YaG4]

I am from Karnataka and i went for a trip to rajasthan and woman there were still covering their face and didn't came out of home without a man accompanying her. It's really sad that those women have accepted living like this. Ps:- No pseudo intellectual in the chat please.

[@sk8032]

Ya thats why when padmavati movie came they have most problem with 🙄

[@mirroruniverse9331]

It's the result of Arab invasion. Otherwise wonder why south indian women don't do it although they're also hindus

[@notevencalm]

Ghunghat was not a part of our culture, it started during Mughal Period , even there is no mention of them in Sanskrit or Vedas Also tum so called secular log burka ke baare me kuch bologe ya nhi?

[@prodipkumargogoi4546]

@@mirroruniverse9331 Hindus are very different from each other

[@stock2896]

@Dr. Ojas Sarvagya DIdn't he explain the crime part? 90% of the crimes against women are not even reported in the Northern States of India so it's not sure if Kerala is a worse place or people use the judicial system more often. And I don't know why he didn't go over other religions but he never said they are not oppressed. Your ''What aboutism' attitude is why nothing gets fixed in this country.

[@upasnabiswal2622]

I am from Odisha n I personally feel that North East is the safest place in India

[@nahthing.rights]

my name is lakshmi I'm from goa. I travel alot all over india. I was harrased by the local people they most of are bihar, up and mp. comparing to North South is far better. in Tamilnadu the people's are so kind. in South most of girls are educated especially in Kerala they are very bold . in South I getting socity the freedom, safety and respect.

[@annabannanawahwah]

Outsider here (Bangladeshi woman). I lived in kochi for about two months for my father's treatment. This was my first time out of my homeland, and I was all alone since my father was in the hospital the whole time. Yet, the entire experience was unbelievably liberating.Not only I felt completely safe roaming around many places, so many people were so kind to me. Despite the language Barrier, they helped me to get on the right buses, give directions etc. Honestly, I didn’t have a single bad experience in my two months there- and I went out a lot- something I can never do in my own country. I haven’t been to North India, so I can't really comment on that, and my experience to the south is limited to a relatively small area for only two months- but I've never gone two months in my own country without any street harrasement, so there's that. I hope to have a thorough trip to the south one day.

[@beluga8427]

Glad to here that.. Love from Kerala ❤🔥

[@entropysermons1876]

You're not an outsider 🇮🇳❤🇧🇩

[@saddam8003]

You are most welcome to தமிழ்நாடு ❤

[@Mayank_Sharma111]

@@entropysermons1876 they hate India

[@banerjee3960]

ধন্যবাদ দিদি....আশা করি আপনার বাবা ভালো আছেন

[@spicykitchen-1]

I am the right person to answer this. I am from Eastern part and well aware of northern culture. Currently staying in South more than 10 years and southern culture and tradition really surprises me. You can feel the wonder when you are here. Womens are respected. I would love to live my rest of life here in South.

[@premkumarn3200]

As a Tamil, happy to hear this! As educated ones, we would like to see all the Indian states thriving and all Indians joyful.

[@anisha6067]

as a girl, i dont feel anywhere. crime can happen anywhere. be safe!!

[@gulammohiddin5747]

@Untold story Lol UP is the riot central of India.

[@adyashukla3406]

@@gulammohiddin5747 I'm from UP, could'nt love it more❤️

[@gulammohiddin5747]

@@adyashukla3406 you mean you love the riots?

[@adyashukla3406]

@@gulammohiddin5747 which riots are you talkin about ? It's one of the most peaceful places in the country....try going to Benaras. It's so raw and beautiful

[@bcp2795]

yes from south

[@sachinamathew9220]

Iam a keralite, The living conditions of north and south like two complete different worlds. Its sad that after all these years mainly north still struggling in quality of living, poverty and gender issues. North India should grow because 60% of population lives in north.

[@leanderbarreto6523]

Capital is there

[@aniket6146]

Yeah sure punjab haryana himachal uttarkhand chandigarh delhi is poor,worse living conditions etc..amirite?

[@americlovestrump9391]

North cares only about religion and cow while electing leaders ans that's exactly why they don't develop. I don't feel sorry for em at all

[@AbsolutezeroK0]

Hey keralite please give us some money up here in Haryana. We only eat twice a week. We are so poor that we run our fan with hands and we take bath in Yamuna river. We only hear about Kerala in our Legends. You can help me by finding me sitting on tree near Yamuna river. I have send this message using pigeon to youtube hq in San Bruno CA.

[@vibz677]

Satyam 😍🤣

[@anoopasad00]

I am working at north india delhi. I have no kids now. My colleague got kids are boys nearby days after their marriage.I was so surprised many of our colleague told me that this is the right time to you for getting kids.They don't like girls that was so sad to me. Even almost all nearby north states people working on my company.....

[@pikachuthunderbolt3919]

Yea northies like boys more

[@boxingchamp630]

I'm from Kerala... But the fact is... I love my country mote than my place, north east and North West is beautiful... And Punjabis are the best when it comes to hospitality and love ❤ Love my beautiful country and it's beautiful people 😘

[@aditisingh8240]

As a North Indian girl , who has spent 1/4 of her life in telangana and Andhra pradesh.... I must say I agree with you, in South India the birth of a daughter is celebrated whereas in North India its always treated like ye kya ho gya and say that the mother might have done some bad karma in past life , specially second daughters... where as when 2 sons are born people behave like the parents are the luckiest people in this world... even my own family does this , its pretty unfortunate Edit- GUYS , I am using a very simple logic please don't debate further.....my notifications have blown up because of this single comment Most of you come from a place of privilege considering you guys have never really seen how extreme sexism can get .... so please stop with comments like - "I have never experienced sexism so sexism doesn't exist " , this country isn't limited to your posh apartment Just consider yourself lucky and move on

[@_kripaa_312]

So true😭😭

[@bhaveshtochabbra6853]

You are explaining your family experience here😭😭😭 I'm from north India. Never faced such type of situations. Girl births are celebrated here, don't know where r u from.

[@aditisingh8240]

@@bhaveshtochabbra6853 on an average it isn't, the sex ratio of haryana is fked up and in most middle class families the birth of a second daughter is often portrayed as something very unfortunate...

[@aditisingh8240]

@Akshay 004:)

[@bhaveshtochabbra6853]

@@aditisingh8240 i understand the situation of girls in haryana. But awareness are being raised everyday. I really love the movie "Dangal". We are young minds we need to educate and bring the change in the society.

[@vasavijagarapu]

We most south indians even celebrate puberty function......girl child are considered in most families as godess lakshmi.....every village in ap and telangana have village godess(who r born human) as powerful protectors....

[@gazibizi9504]

@EXTREME so you really look down on menarche parties, don't you?

[@gazibizi9504]

@EXTREME what are your reasons?

[@gazibizi9504]

@EXTREME South Indians don't really care about other South Indians let alone North Indians, only on internet there are so many weird and rude people that people behave weird and rude to them. Be it a South Indian or North Indian, see yourself for that. I don't really find anything disgusting or ridiculous in celebrating menstruation. It's such a fun, happy even pious event here in South. I once asked my dad why do we have to celebrate my sister's menarche wouldn't she be embarrassed, he told me we did this so that she doesn't feel left out and remeber her days of becoming a woman from a girl and share her fun and memories with her friends and future family. It's a party-like, the girl recieves all the love and gifts from all family and neighbours. And it's an upscale suburb where we live. Posh people just make it like a big home party with quick or no ceremony along family and friends. Both Hindus and Christians do this. It's a complete huge ceremony in middle classes. Lower classes generally do not.

[@gazibizi9504]

@EXTREME Idk. Muslims are very conservative and closed off regarding women, they probably don't, I wouldn't be surprised if some did anyway.

[@harshithababu9338]

@EXTREME There is nothing to be disgusted with. It's just celebrating a girl and comforting her. I think this disgusting mentality of yours is the main reason for unsafe environment for women in the north. Pity those north Indian girls being surrounded by such narrow minded guys😒 even we are disgusted with the attitude of boys family ( all over India) who demands endless dowry. But in this ceremony they don't demand anything from the girls. But they shower their blessings instead ( also its the duty of the relatives to give "Seer" ie., money or anything equivalent to it for the security of the girl child ). I strongly believe this is a symbol of a progressive society. I am proud to be a part of a comparatively open minded society.

[@buddhi2224]

Stop calling South Indians as Madrasis! Madras (presently Chennai) is a city in Tamil Nadu!! Also, not all from the south speak the same language. Each state has its own language like, Kannada, Telugu, Tamil & Malayalam!!

[@trueword4971]

What can you expect from North Indian. They say northeastern people as Chinese.

[@RoarMaddy]

Indian First woman school where started in Maharashtra by Mahatma Jyotiba Phule and Savitribai Phule

[@RoarMaddy]

@wanna be ha movie pan alela

[@nobagatadas1212]

Northeast being forgotten between North and South India. Please note

[@spneettamil]

I am south india Every comments say about east india Is the are well educated or not I don't know about them Pls clarify my doubt

[@chookysweet5089]

@@spneettamil i guess hty r well educated..and women r given more rights..but the fact that even men in northeast undergo discrimination in india by physical features,and the problems in religions like conversion of people to Christianity turning them against the central rule and no pay of tax (of course not in all places),the climatic changes,flood,immigration of bangaleshi making the true people of the land question their own identity had made northeast undergo some other problems that is so different than north or south And the reason why is north east India not included in debates of north and south maybe the cultural and historical differences

[@spneettamil]

@@chookysweet5089 thanks

[@lysia7743]

@@spneettamil Its not exactly about education. Even the uneducated ones wont do things like gender discrimination, caste based rigidity, controlling a particular gender, strict division in house hold chores or professional aim. Its quiet liberal and inclusive here, its just in our culture Tribal people live far more independent life than other community. I m from a So called upper caste I have so many tribal friends I saw the differences , they are more open hearted to all genders, their choice of life. And NE is a land of party people🤣 all we know is to party, celebrate. Its not about education, its just in our culture. Thankfully.

[@spneettamil]

@@lysia7743 ok .Thanks for u r reply

[@sikh.in.geography.4595]

My dad has lived in South india for 5years as a civil engineer for a construction project , he always tells me that South Indians are polite and highly educated and we punjabis are Pegg lover (alcohol lover) and mostly rude😁. Cheers from Punjab. 🍻

[@KMP1994]

😀😀

[@boxingchamp630]

Dude.. I hve been to Punjab and I found punjabid to be the most welcoming and caring ones... I'm from Kerala...and I love Punjab 😍

[@rajammapipe1814]

@@boxingchamp630 ha ha no south indian can work in punjab Haryana etc all rude

[@boxingchamp630]

@@rajammapipe1814 depends on individual perception and attitude... I was welcomed by punjabi lorry drivers... They offered me food..company.... And dhaba expenses too... And was really welcoming after I said im from Kerala.. !

[@rajammapipe1814]

@@boxingchamp630 ha ha u r a traveller. Try to settle like in Mumbai or Karnataka

[@aaditi7194]

I am half west and half South India, I live in Maharashtra but whenever I visit kerela I have definitely seen women are more respected compared to here. This is in my experience I can't say for others.

[@niharikasn5044]

I always feel blessed to have born in Karnataka not in UP ,Bihar , Rajasthan.

[@BEAST-45]

Sister we born in South we are lucky but north is full of bad luck due to invaders 💔

[@karthikeyapappu8050]

yes sister i also feel blessed to be a south indian by the way iam from telangana

[@billiexoxo]

we don't care

[@allenfox2022]

Why south india is better? Simple answer:- EDUCATION... EDIT : Many in the comment section are telling that there are other factors too for the development of South india and it's not only education.... You all are absolutely right but I wrote education because it's the top most PRIORITY....

[@bharatkapoor4062]

Education is far better in north east

[@chimeraart3737]

@@bharatkapoor4062 lol sure

[@Aman-td9nl]

@Amit Pramanik aao beta,certificate dikhate h

[@tromboner6061]

Nope. Culture

[@chaiwala13]

Coastal states hamesha Economically better perform karte hai isliye health aur Education par spend bhi jyada karte hai.

[@user-xi4rq9zk8u]

I'm from Kerala.The conclusion is right.Northern women don't need to target southern as their model.North need to go beyond South.All women should aware of their rights and freedom.Give them all the opportunity and support from society and family.

[@shivabhardwaj4886]

All are aware there rights in Uttarakhand and Himachal Pradesh. Don't tell to us ok we are much more better than you in giving respect to woman

[@mohammedtajuddin999]

the biggest factor to me is the kind of leaders they (North indians) elect as their representatives, leaders,, most of these leaders are no more 10 th pass candidates.north indians believe in caste and religion,,,kattar hindu is the favourite for most of them,, little they understand they do no good to the hindu factor,, infact these type of leaders loot all their money and give a lollipop of building a temple and show as pride and development,,,

[@xenophobe2981]

@@mohammedtajuddin999 it's just bimaru states..not whole north

[@balajip6405]

@@mohammedtajuddin999 dude first Muslim should treat their woman fair, everybody knows status of women in Islam..

[@kripke9396]

@Dr. Ojas Sarvagya hahaha sankhi spotted

[@arunaabraham6445]

I'm a kerala woman from South India. I have lived all over India because my parents were in army. Kerala is the safest for women. If you get raped or molested, nobody will tell you to hide it. Otherwise there's no other explanation for high crime rate. Though Kerala had Muslims before the Mughals, even the Muslims did not follow purdah system in which full face was covered until recent times due to the influence of gulf countries ( when many keralites went to work in gulf). But Kerala Muslims or Hindus or even Christians do not fit into the stereotypical Indian Muslim, Hindu or Christian. To understand that please personally visit Kerala. It is nothing like the BJP make it out to be.

[@vlogfortruth2030]

❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@InguVichuOfficial]

Very true..... ❤❤❤ I'm a Hindu and I respect all religions and all people.. God is one... ❤❤❤

[@nehaha7208]

I'm not sure about that. I personally found myself more empowered outside Kerala, in other southern states. I could wear what I liked without men leering at me in other states. The movie representation of women in Kerala is however the best. But yeah it is still very conservative in some regards.

[@arunaabraham6445]

@@nehaha7208 did you live in cities in other states? How long ago did you live in Kerala?

[@nehaha7208]

@@arunaabraham6445 17 years in a city in Kerala. I have stayed in Chennai, Bengaluru

[@69cheesyfries]

love your videos! always on point and can be easily understood!

[@moulik2341]

I'm from South. Here If any girl approach a man asking "Anna (brother), please help me". He will really helps her.

[@sumannarzha596]

What about northeast India why people ingnore that in term of women empowerment and equality northeast stand out the most

[@gokusaiyan6809]

Data Speaks, Places Like Assam, Tripura is very shitty, so South triumphs.

[@shyammahananda9198]

@@DramaTV2613 Nutrition? Bro they eat lots of chicken 😂😂😂

[@adelaidemckenzie4047]

See the graph in 1:58 what u said is not really true

[@ErenYeager-jp4gc]

@@gokusaiyan6809 Idiot! Assam and Tripura have the most number of immigrants from Bangladesh! The native people of Tripura are just 30%. PERIOD. And just like only Tamil Nadu or Kerala doesn't represent entire 'South India', likewise Assam and Tripira don't represent entire 'Northeast'. LET THAT SINK IN! Status of women is much more superior in Meghalaya, Nagaland and Mizoram than any other states in India.

[@DarkDragon-xx1gx]

@@gokusaiyan6809 bcz of Bangladesh'is native peoples have no power there

[@saumyagautam5111]

Mohak, your videos are so informative! I am studying for PhD in Human Behaviour. Can you please share the format you adopt for your research on a topic. And the sources where you find these research papers. It would be really very helpful!

[@user-md4yw6zt8x]

Whenever I hear about South India I remember a very dear friend of mine. She is from Telangana and highly educated and intelligent. She is graduated in ECE with first class first. We have known each other for almost 6 years we had a fallout and she is currently going on with her life and I am mine. I wish her everything that is best and amazing, after all I have never met her and she was just an online friend. I have always thought that she is from a well educated and cared background and this video proved my thoughts right. Ishe wants to be a best selling writer in the future, I hope she does well.

[@aditisingh8240]

P.S in south, first menstruation is celebrated with something named "saree function", where as in North they make you feel like trash for getting something 48 percent of Indian population does

[@kavithviswanath1052]

Yeah the girl gets lot of gifts and stuff. It's considered a special occasion or something.

[@lilkitty9344]

@@kavithviswanath1052 yes, it's for celebrating their beginning of womanhood :)

[@mansi2500]

No its not true for every north state ok

[@aditisingh8240]

@@ruchita4942 NO , girls usually get their periods around the age of 13 and I don't think anyone is available for marriage at that age lol 😆

[@chetannayak7502]

And at that day also brothers busy working in functions cooking, pendal, decoration...dimag phat jayega..

[@bkbharathkumar1517]

Now any women in TN can travel through intra-district travels in buses without taking any bus tickets, They are ticket free to travel in the districts. This might be a lot useful to many hard working women here.

[@Akasharvind-um6ju]

Camera will be placed in every bus.. and bus should stop in every bus stop weather a person is not getting out or getting in

[@akilkudil]

Bk Bharath Kumar It is free for intra district not inter district.

[@bkbharathkumar1517]

@@akilkudil yeah ik, i mis-spelled it before.

[@anilkumarpr3639]

@@Akasharvind-um6ju thats even better

[@bkbharathkumar1517]

@EXTREME 😅

[@harshkalyan7198]

Whether it is North or South, India is our proud India .but we are all brothers. 😍❣️❣️❣️❣️❣️

[@geethu5421]

Women are intelligent and respected more in south india

[@mdjaveedgmail]

I feel I am Very Lucky. I born In South India. Kannadiga. 😍😍😍

[@kingx6891]

And i born in Japan So I am 10000x more Lucky than indians

[@swag2904]

Yeah and it's population is also shrinking and their economy is being run by immigrants

[@shreyas6557]

@@swag2904 what in Karnataka?

[@devu940]

@@kingx6891 Really, Japan's suicide is high because of depression and unhappiness 😑. Still it is safe❤️

[@user-cq7ze9jk3d]

Tamilan but I can speak kannada also fluently lol

[@nainasharma4447]

Salute to south indians....from north indian...you should also make videos on northeast India...

[@AbsolutezeroK0]

😂😂😂

[@piyalichhajed6009]

@L what..

[@sanjeevm]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@indianflippingart9593]

ALSO intensifies

[@rynreaperz8716]

I'm from North East. Though we don't have much development due to negligence by govt whereby per capita income of our people is less than 5000, still I can say our society is much secure and safe compared to other states

[@mohanb655]

In Kerala woman is NOT safe , see "kerala story" movie. Secondly the C.M. of TN , stalin , if continued , then may make TN like West Bengal. Hence this analysis is waste for PAPPU people only. Because from North we have woman like Zansi Lakshmi Bai, Rani Durgawati , Meera Bai etc............ why they NOT shifted to south then ?????

[@rib2593]

He is not talking about Rani Laxmi bai. He's talking about the present time based on data available. I know it's hard to grasp the fact that women still don't have equal rights/opportunities in many parts of the country, because according the men on the alpha podcast , women have Privilege.

[@A_m155]

Well you cant judge Kerala after just watching a movie... The movie shows just a rare case not a usal case...

[@Attitudezero884]

You can cry like anything but statastics don't lie and qhy do you worry so much about tamil nadu it has always been a good state and will be same in future too don't worry about it sanghi shit. Keep on crying whatsapp facts and stay in blindness but reality is south india is 10 years ahead of north states😂😂😂😂

[@Attitudezero884]

I can understand your frustration that tamil nadu abd kerala gives shit to your beloved bjp that's qhy spreading false facts on them which ate told in your whatsapp university bit sorry sanghi reality will not change south india is much better than your North india surveys prove it snghi so come our of your whatsapp facts sanghi😂😂😂😂😂

[@moushumikandali8286]

You need to do a comparative study with the North East India too where there is no evil system like Dowry among most of the ethnic communities and also practice of Matriarchy in some part. You will have interesting content to talk about in this context.

[@nehakeshri933]

South india is much more safer .....economically independent and respected.. i am from north but been 10 years and south is better

[@adityanagare9700]

@dinesh hey extremist you can leave the country before you poison everyone

[@daredevil30000]

@dinesh Such obnoxious comments are unwarranted. You are spoiling the image of the south 😏 --- From another south indian.

[@dineshram109]

@dinesh improve your behavior baby

[@jayajain8882]

@dinesh 🤣🤣🤣🤣 savage

[@vikkicol9444]

and you show racistic behaviour towards us in South India

[@easyaccess4334]

I belong to kerala. And I am a 21 year old girl.. And I can bet you that if I ever feel that I am not safe, I'll prefer Calling to a police station than Calling someone else. There is no dilemma in that situation. Here, crimes are more in number because we don't fear to file a complaint if it is necessary. I will not say that it's true for "everyone" living here. But definitely, it'll be true for majority of them.

[@suryakumar-cm9sp]

will you please tell me in a clear manner i did not get what you said

[@judithvergis8311]

@@suryakumar-cm9sp even I am from kerala...I feel more safe here than when I have lived in north India....I also feel there aren't religious disparities like in the north...our govt doesn't endorse any religion and she also tells that whenever she feels like she's not safe she can contact the police and they will be to help

[@suryakumar-cm9sp]

@@judithvergis8311 ok fine

[@CommentThere]

@EXTREME You might be!!!!

[@blackgalaxy4191]

7:50 this is so true ! Even I am from Rajasthan and this happens in my own family, it's normal to see this for me but weird for someone else

[@himadrisekharde4727]

Is there female fetacide in rajasthan still

[@S-tx2lk]

In my family too. In which most of the people are teacher.😐

[@NehaKumari-ql5cf]

I am 16 years old and my goal is to become ias officer I watch your all video and it's give me knowledge about each and everything So, thank u 🍁

[@Anishbhosle14]

I measure the progress of a community by the degree of progress which women have achieved. - B R Ambedkar

[@kamartaj3010]

But this is against religion 😂😂😂.hindu muslim khatre me aa jayenge

[@champx1819]

@@kamartaj3010 illogical lol

[@riyamukherjee7061]

True

[@gammaphoenix5893]

He just used it for publicity. If that was the case. We would still be in caves.

[@bloodz4933]

@@gammaphoenix5893 for whom you are referring

[@lembipasangtam3647]

🤣🤣🤣🤣come to North East india ,I am from Nagaland even girls/women can go out midnight no one can touch her and they don need any bodyguard . And it's my humble request to you bro plz search more information about northeast India and telecast even northeast is more safer than south India becz we don have dowry system and both male and female is equal.

[@nileshsoma5885]

I heard that women control the family there, And that's good sign.

[@lembipasangtam3647]

@@nileshsoma5885 no it's only in Meghalaya but this generation both male and female are controlling

[@Mayfan44]

I've been to the Nagaland. I'm from delhi and everyone was being racist to me. I will never go to north east again bye

[@lembipasangtam3647]

@@Mayfan44 sory bro that behaviour but all are not same

[@abrahammathew5872]

I agree. Northeast is very better in woman safety. Now northeast has to improve on creating infrastructure. Northeast has a lot of tourism potential but the usage of it is very minimal. Every northeastern state has to come together to create a tourism plan. As a keralite I plan to visit northeast but due to the lack of facilities its very hard to visit northeast. More airports has to build in northeast and having better infrastructure results increase in tourism which creates more jobs. Take example from my state Kerala. Half of our economy is from tourism.

[@sunainarawat6131]

In 2018 I went to North India (uttarakhand). You can see heaven in earth. Also the women's are independent I think Uttarakhand is safest place for women's. They are really friendly loving and beautiful women's. You can see the charm in their face the loving smile. I really love it they're really living in heaven.

[@buzztube1738]

😆

[@prakashhhh]

@Shreyas coz they're mostly in the headlines 💀

[@MousumiDas-lz4xm]

a well researched explanation with a very appropriate message

[@saptavii]

There's kannada saying in north Karnataka region. "Maga madvi madkond hethour na saaktaan, Khare magalu hethour na hethanga nodkotaal". Translation: "A son will look after his parents (saaktaan= plain provide for them), but a daughter will look after the parents as her own kids".

[@pianoforme122]

Vivekananda said, a son is a son till he gets a wife and a daughter is a daughter all her life

[@jaggisarma9513]

Yes . You forgot in your one sided -only-women-are-great attitude that the wife of that 'son' is the main reason behind it. would you let your husband look after his parents like his own children?

[@saptavii]

@@jaggisarma9513 sure, I'll take that. But on the hindsight the wife also behaves in that way because the boundaries are set for her and not the son, like in most cases. Obviousl, I made my comment on a objective note. We all have different experience, we can always speak on the subjective matter as well, women equally are responsible for the bad that goes on. The saying came to my mind with respect to the video.

[@nayab6129]

I'm a boy, that not apply to me. 🙃

[@rajashekhardoddamani9276]

Proud to be a kannadiga

[@66652]

Love you❤ North East 🇮🇳 from South 🇮🇳👏 Andhra pradesh kadapa support💪 7sisters & little brother to

[@mutumyangthoiba3710]

🥰🥰👍

[@whispyAsmita]

Jai hind🇮🇳

[@madhurjyasarma2687]

I think you should edit your comment by writing it 6 sisters because Assam is almost like the other states

[@nightmare5614]

@@madhurjyasarma2687 Add sikkim then

[@anusharmaiit]

admire your content…worth watching…as always…really amazed abt how much effort you put in..

[@sidrp]

I have been living in Chennai, and you can see, in almost every supermarket, petrol stations, even roadside tea/coffee stalls, scores of women working. Even during late hours. And that's how you make a city safe for women. In south, most women are told to study, go out and work, and provide for the family. With more people working, it also affects the economy of the state. Hence why GDP is much higher in south compared to north.

[@diyar8161]

I Kerala every small cases gets reported that is why the crime rate is high.

[@gouthamkrishna8156]

Yeah we mallus take everything seriously

[@mdr6714]

Same for Assam bro. In 2019 Assam ranked no 1 in crime against women.

[@gautamgopal3517]

Questionable....

[@sr3yu]

Itu already videoil parjatalle🥴

[@diyar8161]

@@sr3yu alla ayal parajathu , ethu Karanam konda ( option 1 karenam konduanno atho option 2 kondano anno) kerala highest crime rate state status kitiyene ariyullanu. Translating sucks.

[@krishnanchittella9967]

In UPSC CSE2021 a question was asked on Mitakshara and Dayabhaga which was explained here in Inheritance rights....

[@Thakur_Kartavya_Singh]

North india is very good. Especially Himachal and utrakhand region

[@pratikjoshi8041]

As a maharashtrian, I think Maharashtra has better gender equality because of social reformers we had in last 2 centuries like Savitribai Phule, Chatrapati Shahu Maharaj, Dhondo Keshav Karve , Babasaheb Ambedkar and many more. But we still have long road ahead for gender equality. Again, great content Mohak.

[@kamartaj3010]

Yeah bcz Maharashtra had worst history of caste discrimination and anti women ideology.

[@pratikjoshi8041]

@@kamartaj3010 Don't know if it was that bad in the past(compared to other parts of India), but the future is not disappointing if we work for equality, I guess😀!

[@kdjoshi726]

@@kamartaj3010 Everyone had it not just maharashtra

[@kapilpetkar1982]

@@pratikjoshi8041 Absolutely right.

[@creativepsyche2686]

@@kamartaj3010 study about bhakti movement

[@soumiyabisht3663]

You narrate it like a story letter not missing out on the knowledge part , amazing !

[@Junaidkhan-os4tt]

@Dr. Ojas Sarvagya andhra doesn't have communal violence

[@Junaidkhan-os4tt]

@Dr. Ojas Sarvagya MiM in andhra??? U seem to be a fool from north india

[@escanor-theone9035]

So true

[@kanishkshah8193]

@@Junaidkhan-os4tt North India has given the most scientific achievements to the world. Learn about the golden age of India The Gupta empire Before calling north indians anything

[@priyanshusharma3251]

Lol Indian ka history south or north ka explain kar women 18 cent me

[@L5-YT]

If you look at the schools like kendriya vidyalaya which is there all over india, you see the difference. All the KV’s in the south perform well, with dedicated teachers and the results are quite good and considered equivalent to good private schools. While in the north , according to my experience i felt many teachers were less dedicated in KV’s. Most of them came from rich family’s through recommendations and was time pass for them, but we had some very good south indian and bengali teacher who were dedicated in our delhi schools. I hardly remember 1 or 2 good north indian teachers whom made a good impact on us, when studying in Delhi. KV’s in north india are considered equivalent to some government school. I remember when in delhi a grade2 child from DPS who used to come play at our house asked me once, “ aap do rupay ke school mein padte ho na ?“ . I asked her who told you ,she told mummy ne bola. Look at the mentality. As a KV student no one compares like this in south. I studied in KV’s because my father had a transferable job not because we don’t have money to pay school fees like many northern people consider. No idea how KV’s in the east and west india are, but i’m sure better than DELHI.

[@whcre5958]

2 years later watching ongoing events in Kerala, Tamil Nadu, Karnataka.

[@vijayakumar2967]

What's going on..

[@user-mv3sz9gk1d]

Indian women's life is difficult in india becoz of family pressure, they r more stressed becoz of family rather than studies,job and safety,I think the main issue is patriarchy or gender gap

[@user-kp4gu7yp4v]

Gender gap is the effect not the cause ig

[@user-mv3sz9gk1d]

@@user-kp4gu7yp4v there is the existence of gender gap that's why both the gender treated differently, it's late to call gender gap a result it's been practiced since ages

[@lalitthapa101]

The patriarchy-Simple as that. I guess patriarchy is in many ways normalized in our nation and we just never understand how much women really are confined to the "homemaker" role. Plus the patriarchy is harmful for men as well. It forces men to be emotionless,oppressive and puts men in a box where they can't even convey their feelings.

[@user-mv3sz9gk1d]

@@lalitthapa101 omg I think we can make this change from our home,patriarchy is ruining this generation in several different ways

[@irfana19nov]

Especially in the so called joint family.

[@madanjothidasan]

I am from Tamil Nadu and in my opinion North East is far far better than all other parts of India.....all other states are undoubtedly unsafe

[@suroox2385]

love from north east india ☺️☺️

[@swarnimsrijan2547]

Bro first learn about militants activities in north eastern states,they have better rituals but not safety

[@manisharawat3614]

Yes that true.... North east is far safer then any other parts in India. People also are really nicer there

[@madanjothidasan]

@@swarnimsrijan2547 politicians are not less than any militants

[@imhere2053]

Bro actually there's no safest place on the planet, coz there's only stealth and rapists. In my case there's lot of golmal happened due to which they got this corona. Coz I was working for china client upon whom I complained and they have taken revenge now🙄🤣

[@Padmashri-kh2oy]

One of the reasons for south India's rise is Southside was majorly ruled by leftist party leaders with some rational minds and the parties helped many peoples rise their values compared to the south, north side still has so many myths that are why this backend.

[@kesarpari656]

Bro you are doing a great job by giving knowledge to people... I will try my best to promote your channel in my family and friends... You are really doing a great job dude 👍👍👌

[@SW46NH]

Southern India has seen less barbarian rule and less degradation compared to the North. Education is another one big factor.

[@sandeep57859]

We had great kings that's why like cholas pandyas vijaynagar empire etc

[@kallumama648]

North India protected South from Islamic invasions

[@hallowedmoth638]

@@kallumama648 hehe dig deeper and you'd know that Dravids settled in South because Aryans came and settled in the North..no hatred whatsoever just saying.. it's in the books.

[@sandeep57859]

@@kallumama648 nice joke 😂😂😂😂😂

[@sandeep57859]

@Lightning Muhking who said

[@sayanteejana6687]

A friend's family once wanted to adopt a child and specifically wanted a girl child, but all orphanages in Kolkata had ran out of girl children because all families came to adopt girl child.

[@c.shaheentabassum3835]

Underrated boy child

[@shalwarkhameez1461]

awww thats so wholesome such a breath of fresh air !

[@gammaphoenix5893]

@@shalwarkhameez1461 It's not, it means boy child are not getting the loving family they deserve.

[@asmimazumder5550]

@@gammaphoenix5893 or people don't abandon their male children

[@gammaphoenix5893]

@@asmimazumder5550 You would be shocked about the fact that there are more homeless teenage boys than girls. So, yeah. Who is not abandoning boys again.

[@tashfiqfaiaz4339]

Prajwal Revanna is the black mark for south now 😢

[@idolmakingart8937]

I think south Indian culture is better in my view.. Btw I am from north India

[@aditibadkur9795]

Waah beta. Making idol of God and goddesses and not liking our culture 👏👏 and what south indian culture do you like...please tell 😊

[@happylucky7354]

I agree i love south , the north is misogynistic

[@Lavanyapeddapaka]

I'm from Telangana, When I was born my family celebrated like a festival because my Grandfather believes that Girl child's are The Lakshmi Swaroopam.. BTW I'm Christian.. Actually my grandfather have all son's, there is no girl child in our family... My grandfather's father had no sisters nd my grandfather had no sisters nd daughters, that's why they celebrated my birthday as a festival... Nd I'm 22 and I didn't get married 😊 My parents believe that, men r women both Are used to stand on their own feet.. so that's why they don't ask about marriage.. when I was settled, than our parents discuss about my marriage 😊😊 Hi East, West ppl 🌸✨

[@nayab6129]

Hello Akka! Madi kuda Telangana! 🤗

[@lilylune8888]

finally oka telugu🤗

[@malleshwaridharmaji123]

Me too from TELANGANA ❤️

[@gamingfirst01]

Me too. Education is first priority in our house

[@worker2805]

Well said. I am also from Telangana