Why successful men use escorts: what the rich and the beautiful have in common

This is the first episode of a three-part series on why successful men use escorts. It turns out that the rich and the beautiful have something in common when it comes to the game of mating and dating: they can both inadvertently price themselves out of the sexual marketplace. By understanding how traditional dating becomes increasingly expensive as a function of a man's success, women can better position themselves to target successful men for relationships, if they so choose.
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[@psychacks]

This is the first episode of a three-part series on why successful men use escorts. It turns out that the rich and the beautiful have something in common when it comes to the game of mating and dating: they can both inadvertently price themselves out of the sexual marketplace. By understanding how traditional dating becomes increasingly expensive as a function of a man's success, women can better position themselves to target successful men for relationships, if they so choose. Pre-order my book: amzn.to/3UlsTsY Book a paid consultation: oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Subscribe to my newsletter: oriontarabanpsyd.com Social Media Facebook: facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: kzbin.info/www/bejne/jaO7c62HZ613e7M Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: kzbin.info/door/SduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXwjoin Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #dating #relationship

[@anon2034]

When is part 2 coming up?

[@YourElderBeerBrother]

My dear Dr. Orion, the effort to date successfully is the same effort to close a good deal. Good deal makers can efficiently reduce the time to have sex after the date.

[@PointWithin]

Will your book be available with narration on Audible? I’d love to listen to it when it becomes available.

[@escapist502]

Yes, audio please:). I second that request😂. Just pre ordered and looking forward to it.

[@LastEarBender]

I kinda think this series is why you'd deleted my comment from last week...

[@Azav312]

"I dont pay them for sex. I pay them to leave." - Charlie "Carlito" Sheen

[@Facu_Roldan]

Ahh the timeless wisdom of uncle Charlie.

[@agcouper]

Yep, the best moment in an intimate date with a woman is when she finally leaves.

[@ArmyWolves]

I remember something Kevin Samuels said, " We pay our wives and girlfriends to stay after hooking up with them and we pay escorts, mistresses, concubines etc to leave after hooking up with them "

[@Azav312]

@@ArmyWolves RIP, Godfather !

[@0rbium]

it's much easier to hide female beauty than it is male wealth. I once dated a mildly attractive, down-to-earth woman who never wore makeup or anything revealing. One night, I was flipping through her photo album from high school (3 years prior) and was blown away. She was beyond stunning, and had been homecoming queen. there was no way she could have been as approachable as she was if she continued to look like that. Which is, of course, why she chose not to.

[@stevenhrumph5565]

This is why prostitution/escorting is "illegal". Average Women lose their bargaining power.

[@1Plebeian]

That and in the past, women would end up pregnant, and now the society has to stabilize a single mother who can't raise a kid properly. Also, men would settle down even less.

[@literalvampirepotbellygobl5629]

I've been trying to formulate my thoughts on this for a long time, and I have come up with exactly that. It isn't perfect, but it mostly explains the situation while making the fewest assumptions. I like to phrase it like this: Prostitution is not illegal because it's offensive and immoral that women's bodies can be bought. Prostitution is illegal because it's offensive and immoral that women's bodies can be bought for so little.

[@six-gun]

Where are you? Prostitution is not illegal - it is mainstream since the internet. They make documentaries about it in the UK. Here's a video on youtube What's It REALLY Like Being an Escort in the UK? | Full Documentary | OMG Stories

[@spokenme08]

@@six-gunIt’s 2-20 years jail time and an up to 10K fine here if you are found guilty. Good luck finding someone who isn’t an undercover officer.

[@marcusr3795]

@@literalvampirepotbellygobl5629yes also why traditional arrangements made their bodies priceless and the cost was marriage due to the exclusivity factor but that’s because they have the relationship value for families. But now that’s all gone it’s just more expensive version of being a professional.

[@davyr847]

I can shed some light on this. Having worked around successful men, they don't actually use escorts for sex most of the time. They use them because they show up on time and have a good attitude as well as other factors. This is something even wives of these types men will rarely even make an effort to do.

[@DarkNaifu]

High Five!

[@marguskiis7711]

Why they snort the coke a lot?

[@slchance8839]

Also, sometimes, a man has to show up to an event and it interferes with his networking, if he shows up alone. She is literally a woman hired to ESCORT him while he's at the event.

[@AZANlA]

delusional

[@Jonkin715]

Make sense. They want recurring costumers, so it behooves them to respect their time and money.

[@mystykalmn4434]

Dating in this era feels like a job, a job that you pay to work

[@flydye45]

Wrong emphasis. I like camping. It takes a lot of time and money. Is that a 'job'? No. Women, unless they are a wife, are a HOBBY, and sometimes an expensive one. (A wife is an investment. She might be an Amazon or she might be a WorldCom. Sometimes both in the course of the relationship)

[@rex-atom]

Basically. It’s a sunken cost fallacy the moment it starts for a lot of us, men. There are exceptions, but they are just that, exceptions.

[@turtleanton6539]

Yeeh

[@_notsaf]

because everyone has access to a whole lot of prospective partners not to mention desensitized by all the p*rn

[@GrnXnham]

just like every other era

[@sungod9797]

It’s basically just the whole “the least expensive women are the ones you pay for” joke

[@johnroberts3824]

So long as you don't pick up an STD, otherwise the price can skyrocket. The exact reason I don't do it.

[@Nickelodeon81]

​@@johnroberts3824 This is the 21st century. Prophylactics exist.

[@johnroberts3824]

@@Nickelodeon81 True, but does the benefit outweigh the potential risk? A few moments of pleasure vs. a potentially incurable disease? Some risks are better left not taken. Obviously not everyone uses my rule book.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

This is why men lose. Why would women be inherently more valuable that they have to be paid for in some manner?

[@Nickelodeon81]

@@marcusmcgraw3519 To be paid doesn't imply being more valuable. It implies simply having value. Precisely what V stands for in SMV.

[@terrorbilly1]

Another common misconception when it comes to celebrities using escorts is the service they pay for. It's not sex, it's anonymity.

[@Tgogators]

Yes, and it also lessens the risk of extortion attempts. It’s no accident that some hangout in European countries where it’s legal & embraced.

[@nathantrujillo471]

Can’t they just use contracts to silence them and it be free a lot of the times

[@psychacks]

Good point. Stay tuned for the next two parts.

[@markusfreund6961]

@@nathantrujillo471 Guess.

[@bigcraig79]

@@nathantrujillo471 contracts require lawyers to draft and enforce in a public court. Sex is never free for men

[@rayrwyr]

Two reasons: 1) Busy men don't have the time to date, 2) Rich men are worried about getting caught by gold diggers.

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

There you go. And 3) Celebrities want anonymity while minimizing the chance of extortion. Short and sweet.

[@nunyabidness117]

@rayrwyr Not just rich men. ANY man runs the risk. Not paying child support is a felony. A friend did months in jail for refusing to pay.

[@notsorandumusername]

@@nunyabidness117 And yet women who refuse the fathers of their children to let him see them even when courts ordered it are never jailed. Another 'privilege' no feminist will ever point out.

[@Burrburrcloud]

Rich men are not worried about gold diggers

[@nunyabidness117]

@Burrburrcloud They should be worried about gold diggers. An intelligent but far-left mental patient of a woman I know here in flyover country managed to buy a nice house after an affluent attorney knocked her up. The sad part is she had numerous abortions in the past but decided to keep this one..Down's Syndrome girl..I'm guessing because she doesn't want to abort her pay day. P.S. She is an appallingly lousy parent.

[@martinh8784]

Don't forget the "end of relationship fee". At $1.3/k hour, your friend will make $2-2.8 million/year. Should the relationship go wrong, he will easily lose a few million dollars, custody payments, and half of his assets. By comparison, even the most expensive escort in New Jersey is a bargain ... with a "satisfaction guaranteed" warranty.

[@barry4848]

1300 an hour is excellent....minus the 45% overhead, and 1800 billable hours....still worth paying for sex (more like 1.3 million before tax)

[@PersonalNotPrivate-rl8dv]

@@barry4848 Thanks for the laugh; I have an MS in Accounting and one in Applied Business Analytics, so I appreciated your approach insofar as how you made your point. Good job, good job. However, if the thinking is along those lines, there is also the argument to be made that masturbation is free, and while it may not be as much fun, it comes with far fewer potential downsides, and you can still pay escorts to handle outings insofar as social occasions.

[@-whackd]

You mean marriage and having children, not relationship.

[@rayrwyr]

1) S3x with escort is not much fun like it is with a mistress/gf/wife. You must practice safe s3x else you will catch STI. You must protect your d*ck with cond*m during the entire time. You cannot kiss as you can catch some STI just from kissing. You cannot go down on her, else you can catch some STI. She cannot go down on you unless your d*ck is protected with cond*m. 2) Also the escort charges for her time by the minutes/hours and so if you want some cuddling and chatting time, and then you get recharged and you want to go another round, you have to pay for that extra time at the same high rate. Even if you are rich enough to afford that, the quality of s3x is not great because you cannot even kiss without worrying about catching STI. 3) Also it is illegal to pay for s3x and so you have to worry about getting caught and going to jail and getting your life completely destroyed.

[@maverickeugene3621]

The satisfaction part.Most could care less if you're satisfied.Unless they really want something from you-your salvation,I mean money. They want sponsors. Without promising anything in return. Think how many talks with women include "So what do you do,where do you work?"

[@drewhunkins7192]

Frank Sinatra once said, I'm paraphrasing, "It's not that you're paying them for sex per se, it's that you're paying them to go away after the session."

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

like a micro alimony... instead of the bank

[@strikingitrich7630]

@@mohdmohtashim9841lol i like that one

[@perieven6357]

He and Charly Sheen (whoever said that first) was a chauvinist of the worst sort. Thank God, women don't admire such men like they used to...

[@G0ddess_Kate]

I wondered who that quote came from 😂

[@SchrodingersMath]

​Good....😎....also ,fotunately , most men dont want to Marry and later divorce- modern - HIGH maintenance American women...........thank Gawd....😎😎​@@perieven6357

[@GreatWhite7]

all men pay for it some pay and still don't get any

[@GreatRetro]

Yeap... that's exactly how I see it!

[@srinavin]

Fk that was dark

[@johnroberts3824]

And on the flip side all women charge for it.

[@smirkinatu5512]

Truest statement on the subject. Yes it is sad, but here we are.

[@marcusmcgraw3519]

Why would men pay when they don’t have to? I’ve never had to spend money on a girl for her to find me attractive

[@scratch57]

if women experienced half of the challenge these men do they'd quit entirely.

[@marcouimet9498]

if women experienced the male life most of them would quit

[@marcusr3795]

@@marcouimet9498they cry over doing dishes and not getting constant attention and compliments. They’d be done for if they even had the thought of having to take care of themselves plus another adult plus children and keep them physically safe, they would probably faint.

[@thomaspepper2201]

They are in the dating world now, sorry were not interested.

[@jamesg1974a]

Well, like the feminist to decide to live like a man and experiment… They probably would off themselves after they realized just how hard men’s lives are.

[@j.davila4523]

@@marcouimet9498didn’t you know a transperson (female to male) committed suicide shortly after becoming a man…look it up

[@AlaricsFather-in-Law-em8kz]

As an escort connoisseur myself, I agree with your general take that it's the easiest, cheapest, most convenient way to get down and dirty with hot girls. It's way cheaper to pay directly than try to impress your way into a girl's panties. The only disagreement I have with you here: there's no need for the "successful" qualifier, unless you're adding it because you're afraid to sound too controversial for your audience by saying that it applies to many, if not most men, when it in fact does. You don't have to earn six or seven figures to qualify, as long as you got your ish together and value your money, energy and time above female validation and narcissistic supply you will find this to be true.

[@trembly8789]

By emphasizing money, he is highlighting the opportunity costs. Take a man making $1500.00 per hour. If he spends 6 hours per week pursuing dating instead of working, he lost the opportunity to make $9,000. If he only spent 1 hour on an escort and paid her $500, he would have only lost $2,000. The difference is $7,000. On the other hand, if a guy is only making $25 per hour and he spends $500 on an escort, his total loss is $525. $500 on the escort and an hour of his time. If he used the 21 hours on trying to date a girl, he may have spent less than the $525.00.

[@AlaricsFather-in-Law-em8kz]

@@trembly8789 the problem with that logic is that a guy making $1500 per hour can be more wasteful with money than a guy making $25 anyway. It doesn't invalidate what I said, and Orion could've made it a more general message if he wanted to really deliver a knockout blow to the femoids. It's a convenient solution even for guys with average income. Because at the end of the day, you could spend all of that time trying to date and still get nothing for it. With an escort you know where you stand. Also, an average guy is unlikely to get a girl that's as hot as an escort anyway, while a top earner probably can get her through dating. It's more complicated than just saying "this guy lost X amount of money, the other guy lost Y amount of money"

[@ashwinkrishnanpc7555]

yes but isnt the sex empty? theres no seduction involved. that's a big turn on for me

[@AlaricsFather-in-Law-em8kz]

@@trembly8789 the guy making $1500 has more money to waste than a guy making $25. He's also in the same situation when it comes to potentially wasting time without getting anything in return. On top of that, he's less likely to score with an equally hot woman. All other things being equal of course.

[@AlaricsFather-in-Law-em8kz]

@@ashwinkrishnanpc7555 Depends on the pro, your attractiveness level and your bedroom skills. There can be chemistry even in that "forced" situation. I once had s$x with a 19 y.o. Brazilian esc0rt who I'd rate 8/10 and later that same night with a 6/10 college student I met in a night club. The pro was the best time ever, the college student just lay there like a starfish and it sucked. So there you have it..

[@ruckin3]

Another key point: Escorts are much less likely to have a child and ruin their “career“ because they can make $1 million a year cash so having a child can cost them several million dollars. So a high value man is not nearly as worried that she will try to get pregnant. Whereas the school teacher making 48k has every incentive.

[@dekev7503]

No high value man is raw dogging an escort 😅 that’s just common sense 🤦🏻‍♂️

[@lilmargin12]

Spot on

[@perieven6357]

A child is priceless. What kind of thinking is that? Has US-Capitalism morphed some brains?

[@marguskiis7711]

You don`t know anything but eager to smartass. Lol.

[@lilmargin12]

​@@perieven6357 Context is key, ruckin3 was talking about people who Impregnate themselves without your consent. For example a escort poking holes in your condom without you knowing. .. And then asking for child support. THAT will cost millions

[@MOCHI-ek6rc]

I have met alot of millionaires that are married and they all says the samething. That if you want kids get married to someone from equal setting, relagion and believes from equal background with her own money. If you want sex get an escort or a mistress. If you want someone to cook and clean get a maid. If you want your clothes clean go to the dry cleaners. He said that women are just there to have kids with and that is it. Join a social group if you need someone to talk to. Leave women alone.

[@demarcusds95]

Cold blooded truth

[@perieven6357]

If the wives knew what these millionaires think about them, they would have to say bye bye to half of their money in no time. So you have to add: He has to lie from 7 am to 12 pm each and every day of his life. That sounds fun...

[@slchance8839]

@@perieven6357 have you tried lying to women? It's ridiculously easy, if you're rich and/or good-looking. They WANT to believe anything you say, true or false. Put it on repeat/loop "...from 7am-12pm." Not remotely hard. "No, you dont look fat. My secretary is ugly. The meeting in Hawaii is going to be boring. The nurses are irritating. I cant wait to see you. That boob job is gross. You're the only one for me. You're my soul mate. You're the best. Spitting is fine." Done.

[@ernesttrosman]

@@perieven6357excellent observation…. Most of these “high value” men are pure born simps and need money to receive the appearance of another wanting them. This is the cold, harsh truth.

[@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y]

Marriage used be about productivity.: safety, food on the table, health, progeny. Now marriage is more about romance and pleasure. From productivity to service. We want our partner to be reliable and stable but at the same time erotic and stimulating. We want it all and here we are. Men realize that the house always wins, so don’t bet the whole kit on one woman. She will fail you.

[@calanzi]

I'm not a top-tier lawyer. Nor have I ever used the services of an escort. But even a moderately successful man can understand the motivation. A large percentage of the women whom I would be likely to be able to take out on a date would also be likely to want a commitment from me ASAP or lose interest in me ASAP. I am looking forward to your next video in this series.

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

Orion brought up on past videos how women shoot themselves in the foot by telling men they want a “commitment” or a “long-term relationship” and then wonder why men head to the nearest exit LOL.

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

This is an issue I will never have to deal with. LOL It still astonishes me that you have to explain to women that in order to have a better chance with a high value man they should make the dating process EASIER for him than more difficult.

[@csmith9699]

JaySmith-pv2mw....I really don't understand where so many of you guys are ending up in bad marriages or difficulties with dating. What is your problem? You have control as much as the women you choose. Own your own stuff, you guys. Oh I forgot, projection is name of game here and Orion is actively teaching it. He knows exactly what he's doing...is my guess.

[@JaySmith-pv2mw]

@@csmith9699 This is a non-sequitur as it does not address what my comment was about i.e. women's approach to dating high value men. For the record, I am attempting to improve myself for my benefit as I am not pursuing a relationship. While I am not projecting you are engaging in "What Aboutism."

[@edheldude]

​@@csmith9699Because women hyper focus on super successful men nowadays, they offer little to no feminine qualities, and women deceive men _constantly_ and the law is on their side even if they are in the wrong or caused the divorce/breakup. Men commit, women are opportunistic, and men are hurt so much more by breaking of the pair bonding. In my country what s"x studies show is that men are the same and women have drastically changed their behavior and values within the past 70 years. They seem loveless and angry.

[@smokingcrab2290]

Women think that by making themselves hard to want it somehow makes them more desirable

[@randallsanchez3161]

@@csmith9699 Communication is often the key here. Women are terrible at this and will often complain about it. When the men attempt to fix the issue, they often hit a wall. There are plenty of episodes by Orion and other psychologist who go into more details. Marriage counselors often complain about the women not getting their way and then when held accountable will drop the counselor's services to find one that validates them. Dating difficulties are often in the same realm. Women become narcissistic and believe they have more relationship value than they actually do. They confuse the ease of getting sex with the ability to form long lasting relationships. Lack of accountability is a regular issue.

[@costassourtz]

I am a 34 years old man, upper middle class and have been seeing a lot of escorts for 5-6 years now because in Greece its relatively cheap and i dont regret it. It gave me a lot of experience and confidence and i also have my successes with women. It also gives me an abundance mentality because its very easy to have sex with a harem of women of my choosing. I am currently looking for a long term relationship but i am very picky with my emotions and it will probably take a lot of time to find a good partner. Dating and relationships are very expensive so having casual sex with sex workers is much easier and cheaper. I have developed a very warm relationship with some of them and even have free sex occasionaly due to that. In the meantime i focus on myself, my job, my workouts, hobbies and education in order to become the best version of myself.And sex is a basic need for a man , one that i am not willing to sacrifice because its hard to find a girlfriend. So its worth it. Great video as always Orion !!

[@farooqkeita700]

As good as this is for people to hear. I recommend you amend it to " a friend of mine". Protect yourself at all times brother

[@aalvarez305]

This is a beautiful example of shadow integration.

[@farooqkeita700]

​@@aalvarez305 Charlie Sheen's quote " don't pay em for sex, I pay em to leave" is by far the top example of shad integ

[@conq3097]

What kind of cost range in Greece are we talking about? Most of the Western world has suffered from a lot of inflation in the last few years

[@j.davila4523]

@@aalvarez305care to expand?

[@consummatebachelor7327]

Smart men don't pay escorts, call-girls, whatever you choose to label them as to SHOW UP... they pay them to GO AWAY after the 'transaction' is complete. They are not necessarily paying for sex, they are paying to avoid drama.

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

a micro alimony it should be called

[@user-hv3ln3rk8i]

Do you REALLY think that call girs want emotionall connection? They are in job. Men only want sex and women only want money.

[@SolorockinOne]

Nah, they are paying for sex. Whatever cope they’re using to avoid the stigma doesn’t take away from what they’re paying for.

[@meeep9099]

​@SolorockinOne and what exactly is wrong with that

[@u2bozzi871]

@@meeep9099 if you can’t walk outside and have a woman attracted to you then it is what it is just S.A.D excuses sound best to those who make them

[@robertparris532]

Escorts vs dating....upfront pricing and no hidden fees.

[@JeffjeffJeffjeff-y4y]

“She doesn’t just show up to make his life easier” 🤣🙏🏽

[@flemutter7211]

I am saying this as a STRICTLY heterosexual male. I love you Dr Taraban. It takes balls to discuss this

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

That it does... of titanium i must add. not of your regular iron or steel.

[@SolomonMagnus819]

STRICTLY heterosexual? Have you ever seen a twenty dollar bill?

[@GreatRetro]

"It takes balls to discuss this" - seems like you - american man are spiritually castraped!

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

@@SolomonMagnus819 twenty dollar bill ... why???

[@danny91pr]

Some big heavy balls, probably. I'm also straight

[@bt6939]

These men might be more willing to make these sacrifices if attractive women hadn't been with 20 guys by the time they're 20. But at a certain body count, it starts to feel like the only difference between the date and an escort is at least the escort is a sure thing.

[@Pedant_Patrol]

Exactly. Whoredom is a scourge on society.

[@mrdouche9172]

Factual.

[@XTheSpartanX7]

FACTS!!!! Most modern women are more expensive than escorts and marriage is essentially legalized prostitution.

[@sirblackshield8000]

Exactly 💯

[@divababy4463]

Hook up culture is a direct response to men’s sexual values not women’s. Women have been molding themselves to appeal to men. Ask yourself who is always the most interested in having sex without commitment. Typically it is men it always has been.

[@charthers8903]

I was taught by very good friends from very early on - escorts are awesome, a great escort is gold - every man needs a good doctor, a good lawyer and a good escort

[@BanditsandBusiness]

Good doctor, accountant, lawyer, wh0re. All are good to have.

[@Albaprost]

and a good job

[@andrelockridge9109]

At least with good working girl you're getting honesty. Both know what to expect nothing more.

[@JustinColletti]

I think you need a new definition of what good friends are.

[@FazeParticles]

true.

[@denzel1877]

I don't think it takes 11 mins to say successful men use escorts because it costs less financially, emotionally and time-wise and you still get exactly what conventional route gives, if not better. Successful men being good capitalists and analysts, it makes sense why they would take this route.

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

No it doesn’t take 11 minutes but you need at least a 10-minute KZbin video in order for ads to kick in 😉

[@marlow769]

An escort will NEVER be in a position to take half of everything you own.

[@cynthiaschell7246]

in reality, they end up taking much, much more, only many men do not realize it until later on or for most men, I suspect not at all

[@JustinColletti]

An escort will also never provide anything worth living-or dying-for. You are made for more, men. To hell with his garbage.

[@xyz987123abc]

​Explain please.

[@manfredschmalbach9023]

@@JustinColletti Only thing worth dying for in most LTRs and marriages I would know of are the children. Most if not every thing worth living for besides the aforementioned kids does happen outside the average marriage, be it interesting, satisfying, diverting s*x, be it hobbies like off shore sailing, long distance motorcycling, restoring and competitively racing vintage sportscars, rebuilding and actually long distance flying antique airplanes ..... all things my fellow afficionados do without any wife visible, ever.

[@slartibartfast2452]

Pron is the average guys version of escort for all the reasons you applied to the billionair

[@AlaricsFather-in-Law-em8kz]

What's with this silly notion that you have to be rich to visit escorts? It's not expensive to have a go every once in a while even with an average salary.

[@AskeladdS-jq2yy]

You could say its an adult version of porn. Pure lust nothing else.

[@vladivf]

@@AlaricsFather-in-Law-em8kz So true. Even the poorest of dudes can save for a luxury escort over a 3-4 month period. An average prostitute is affordable with minimum wage salary. I quit watching porn years ago but those dudes who still watch it tell me that they pay for premium membership on Corn Hub. So how's that a better deal than just getting an escort?

[@kevintaylor8417]

Don't think that's true, really. Having a super attractive gf/wife is like owning a Porsche. Having an average, but useful gf/wife is like owning an F-150. An escort is a rental, whether it's a Porsche or an F-150. Pron is like roller skates. Yes, they all have wheels and you can use any of them to get from point a to point b...but a dude with access to either a Porsche or an F-150 is taking that rather than putting on roller skates.

[@tomd.2982]

p*rn is the best..without there is little meaning to life

[@Miner-dyne]

It is interesting that women and men with fewer options (that is mostly all of us when we are younger) use judgement, shaming, and laws to fight against escorts and prostitution. They seek to level a playing field that they are not able to successfully compete on. Most people miss that it is the most honest transaction exchanging resources for sex. It is ironic that at the top level, the pool of suitable mates is so small that the struggle is parallel to those at the lower tier. Simple risk/reward. The game is the same, the stakes are just much higher.

[@demarcusds95]

💯

[@bearclaw5115]

Not quite. I top tier dude could always date down a bit. In fact, they mostly do. Someone who has ultra high value may have particular issues but by no means are they as pernicious as the ones facing the men at the bottom of the social strata.

[@ANTHONYTERRELL]

Thank you💁🏽‍♂️. Kevin’s Samuels already explained this but he only reached a certain demographic! Happy you are relaying the same message! Reality bites, in all realms!

[@Gman2002]

Yes he told a story about bringing one to a dinner party as a way to network with other business owners.

[@alexanderryzhov7046]

One more reason for an attractive, highly successful man to use escorts is that it’s hard to find the woman he’d want to have a long term relationship with. He’d rather pay the woman to leave than deal with the breakup.

[@swayp5715]

One word: EFFICIENCY! Ohhh and VARIETY! 😊

[@mohdmohtashim9841]

and quick turn around time. its like a gourmet meal delivery service

[@acefully4703]

Yes fam😅

[@FazeParticles]

i wouldn't risk variety with sex workers. that's insane. you get one that is good quality you keep seeing her and don't play games. men are equally greed as women in my estimation.

[@swayp5715]

@@FazeParticles that is a good point.

[@sgbawg0]

Spot on again. And this is why prostitution will never be legalized in all 50 states. Modern women would be screwed. Pun intended.

[@user-wm6hn5bn7c]

If it is legalized in many European countries such as the Netherlands, Germany, Denmark, and in Australia, New Zealand, then it is only a matter of time before it will be legalized in the U.S. Men just need to get together to form a lobby group to put political pressure on the state politicians. The barrier blocking the path to the legalization of the oldest profession is the self-serving simps and women who will virtue signal and shame and guilt-trip any males who advocate for the legalization of this business.

[@MelinaH]

Idk, it's legal here in Germany and I don't have any problems with it as a modern woman.

[@DimitriTheBarbarian]

@@user-wm6hn5bn7cwho do you think prevents all this from happening? Men. Yes other men, the Bidens and the Trumps

[@FazeParticles]

not if we get a libertarian republican on the ticket to run and make it legal.

[@randyg22152]

A nice, polite way of telling women that they are a pain to approach and date. Maybe they should do something about that if they want a rich guy (or just an upper middle class guy). Escorts are usually cheaper than paying for an actual date, unless it is a coffee date (something most women hate), or she agrees to go Dutch (which many women also hate), and setting up a meeting with an escort is usually less time consuming and more convenient than convincing a woman to go out with you.

[@csmith9699]

Sounds like so many of you guys look in all the wrong places for women...or attract the wrong type of women to begin with. Many women have same problem with guys. Most people don't know themselves, or want to, unfortunately

[@stefanmatton8778]

​@@csmith9699did she pick you yet bud? Or are you hoping that your feminist mindset will land that septum pierced cow of a human you pedestalise so greatly

[@rayrwyr]

@@csmith9699 -- You are a woman and so it is harder for you to understand men's problems. As soon as a woman thinks a man is worth pursuing for relationship she wants to make him wait for several dates before putting out. After that she tries to take over his life by demanding all his free time to be dedicated to her. That makes the dating process impossibly expensive for men who want to be/remain successful.

[@djjukeboxhero6491]

​@@csmith9699you are all a liability not an asset.

[@csmith9699]

@@rayrwyr I am a woman with a lifetime experience with men. That means I have some understanding of men. I also have 2 grown sons. Your answer is so negatively stereotyped to be bizarre. It also comes across as arrogant as if you know about "all" women. I realize you know about the dynamics (which include your own dynamics equally) of the women you've been involved with. Not smart to lump all women as the same just as not smart to do the same with men. I'm sorry you and so many men on this channel have not figured out how to have fulfilling relationships with interesting, smart, sexy women. Don't project that problem onto all women please. Own your own part of what makes your relationships you choose and have chosen with women not work. Good luck and wise decisions

[@popps33]

As an entrepreneur, what deters me from the traditional dating is the time. Time is expensive. Not just monetary but existentially. Is there anything wrong with avoiding wasting time? On the flip side, this is a hidden reason why arranged marriages exist.

[@Sergio-dh5qh]

And yet here you are, spending your time leaving comments on KZbin.

[@based_circuit]

@@Sergio-dh5qh Spending 15 minutes to watch a KZbin video and leaving a comment while taking a shit is not the same as hundreds of hours of time for a gamble at some pussy.

[@nowhereman7413]

@@Sergio-dh5qh It took 10 sec to write it.

[@alejandrorocha3666]

@@nowhereman7413 plus 11 minutes from the video plus few more minutes to find this video

[@Dmoriarty1993]

@@Sergio-dh5qh It's not like he was watching an irrelevant video.

[@NaruOotori]

I'm not a corporate lawyer but when I've started ecsortmaxxing the only thing I regretted is that I didn't start doing that ten years earlier.

[@gumdeo]

Word.

[@user-lg9zw8yv3s]

Clearly we pay for it. Whether we want to admit it or not. I’ve been close to making this choice and your part 1 resonates with me. I’ll look for your next vid

[@sole__doubt]

They arent paid to be with them. They are paid to leave and not mention it.

[@yashuarazohr486]

Every man pays. Either upfront or at the end. Whether been a beloved husband, boyfriend or a "John". Be it a pimp, a simp or a trick; the honey always costs M.E.A.T (Money, Energy, Attention and Time).

[@gudduentertains]

Quote of this century ❤

[@ziwer1]

The MEAT ain't free

[@gumdeo]

No money, no honey.

[@RodneyKimbangu]

This video was a gentle way of saying: "you are likely to be a piece of work for the successful men you want!"

[@jtstar10]

No drama, no commitment, no danger of losing half or more of one’s assets make it a safe, honest transaction.

[@Captain-Palsy]

I've held a similar opinion to said subject. Another reason is family courts and no fault divorce. I would've love to have a family.

[@Nickelodeon81]

Actually I think a lot of women understand why men use escorts, the issue is a lot of men who don't, have unrealistic attitudes towards those men that do. Men are very judgemental about this.

[@SirShiv7]

Pretty sure most men with at least two braincells understand why some men do this, they just don't approve of it.

[@mrdouche9172]

In most cases, just like when it comes to most things, it's just pure envy. Men with a lot of money can have sex with a variety of 20 something hotties by using their money, even when they are old decrepit mummies. The rest can't afford it and are salty about it. That's all it is.

[@limitlesssky3050]

Men being judgemental towards other men. It's a tale as old as time itself.

[@jamescheaye927]

Yes, just as women are judgmental of other women. In their case, it’s how they go about their hustle. For us, it’s based on how we consume/spend our resources.

[@Lex_Lugar]

It’s mostly a USA problem and perhaps countries similar to the USA

[@kyleflournoy7730]

"you don't pay them for sex, you pay them to leave" this is the quote that come to mind before I even watch the video

[@bearclaw5115]

Cliche. We've all heard it. It even popped into my head.

[@PARZ90s]

Its both. No one with confidence and common sense is going to pay money just to hang out with an attractive air head.

[@bbblueridge]

There is a fine line between 'dating' and 'hooking'. There is a value exchange in both scenarios.

[@camels9654]

I make $250/hr and work 16 hour days, and I came to the same conclusion, I'm losing money trying to date. Also, I realized trying to date in a western country is pointless because of the obesity rates and entitlement of the women. I also realized, the more I date in the west, the more money I lose, which means the harder it will be financially to relocate to a non-western country. So to simplify, the more I date western women in the west, the longer I have to stay here, missing out on moving to another country where dating is far more enjoyable for men because they do not have a massive obesity problem. So far no escorts, I'm only here for another 6 months, I think I can hold out. But if I get stuck here, I will definitely be hitting up a university girl for a weekend of fun for $500. This is spot on though. To me a date costs me $1000, an hour to get ready and drive to meet her, 2 hours to talk, 1 hour to drive home and get settled. Usually I'm disappointed in the west, the obesity here is just awful, one thing I find repulsive.

[@sammyb1651]

It only (actually) costs you that in dollar terms if you lose 4hrs of billable work because of it. Otherwise it doesn't. I'm not saying you're wrong to be critical of dating, I'm just saying Dr Taraban's costings are nonsense. The lawyer example he uses, is flawed in two ways; 1. For the reason I explained above. 2. $1300 per hour isn't what they're paid in any event. It's the rate their employer charges them out at.

[@facultysupportcoordinator836]

this right here... gospel.

[@Erik_369]

@@sammyb1651 Not really. Sure, it's not going to equal exactly a billable hour, but people of that caliber of earning potential, their time is worth more than others. Someone who is making $1300 an hour, they aren't going to do their taxes by themselves, they're not going to shop for groceries, they're not going to mow their own lawn. There is only so many hours in a day, and only so much energy. They are way better off paying someone else to do it. That's why housekeeping is even a profession. Only wealthy people pay for that.

[@crazymonkeyVII]

@@sammyb1651 I agree with your points, although I will point out that some people make ridiculous hours at work if they don't have anything of personal importance to do and so point 1 wouldn't apply to them. In fact, free time is valueless when you have nothing to do, and extremely valuable when you have very little of it. As with anything in life...

[@midnightsplusnoonsis730LEO]

yeah ... nah ...

[@mrlevi2k]

There are no hassles with escorts. They are paid to be nice and interact intelligently.

[@Jonkin715]

You got fun, the escort gets paid. Everyone wins.

[@darbyohara]

It’s amazing how different women act when a paycheck is on the line 😂

[@rayrwyr]

1) S3x with escort is not much fun like it is with a mistress/gf/wife. You must practice safe s3x else you will catch STI. You must protect your d*ck with cond*m during the entire time. You cannot kiss as you can catch some STI just from kissing. You cannot go down on her, else you can catch some STI. She cannot go down on you unless your d*ck is protected with cond*m. 2) Also the escort charges for her time by the minutes/hours and so if you want some cuddling and chatting time, and then you get recharged and you want to go another round, you have to pay for that extra time at the same high rate. Even if you are rich enough to afford that, the quality of s3x is not great because you cannot even kiss without worrying about catching STI. 3) Also it is illegal to pay for s3x and so you have to worry about getting caught and going to jail and getting your life completely destroyed.

[@edheldude]

​@@darbyoharaThey won't submit to a husband who loves them but will do for their boss who expects work.

[@Mortablunt]

@edheldude This is because we Western husbands have been taught from the cradle that girls are naturally sweet and delicate and nice, and must be respected at all times no matter what and when we get older, we’re told that any kind of natural masculine leadership tendencies are toxic and abusive. Societal feminist indoctrination has gradually demonized every last masculine tendency as evil and toxic. But the real crazy thing is a certain degree of patriarchy is the natural order and women actually preferred that way, even though they protest not. Women because they are more sensitive to things like hierarchy and dominance, Need a supreme figure to base there after actions on, and to get afformation from, and in a healthy life, should be their husband. A woman without a husband to center her is like a kid running from distraction to distraction or a dog without a master taking every impulse that strikes its fancy. I was quite the beta for a long time, even in my own marriage, I was fine with letting my wife do most of the decisions and setting the rules. Then there came a time when she was unemployed, and I was the sole breadwinner so to keep herself busy, and because she felt bad about that she started being a lot more domestic. So we went from always been a mess in the house and often times either scrounging up or getting carry out to her having a hot meal every day and cleaning at least one room. That wasn’t all as she made herself into my partner servant and I as the one with the big picture financial view, who had to take care of us all in the leadership roll, The way she looked at me and responded to me changed for the better. Attraction and reverence that had been missing for years came back, and she became more obedient. It even helped her with her mental state from going from feeling basically lost and pointless after having the kids, and now that with them in school to having direction and focus again because she was serving somebody and had a point in life beyond herself. Maybe our ancestors had a point when they settled on patriarchy.

[@sepisdead]

The downsides of using escorts (no relationship) is having no partner for anything, you enjoy life much better with a girlfriend: cooking, going to the movies, playing some sport, travelling, anything you do together is better. The thing is that it´s all an illusion and generally doesn´t last long, and you end up with a very expensive bill.

[@LoSkiBum]

I am doing this with the same girl since I was 17. Now I am 48. No money can buy a 30 years old relationship.

[@Utubeisevil]

They are not there to support u, they are just waiting at the finish line thinking themselves to prize when many like them are available for 200 dollars an hour

[@wolfgangkrauser9735]

​@@LoSkiBumyou might be the few of the lucky ones nowadays. I getting attention of single mothers from everywhere lol.

[@i.ghoost]

Sometimes I wonder do men value women as human beings and not just secondary citizens or if is it just the benefit (sex/companionship/kids) that they’re getting from women that they value. Well maybe there are still good men out there but dang being exposed to this side of the world seems disappointing. Seems like women can’t win 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@buyakshaklak6464]

We all pay for sex with women...you just don't see it ! With escorts is a more fair game

[@davida138]

All women are escorts and all men are Johns. Us men always pay in time and money. And professional escorts become attached and emotional and dramatic just like the amateur ones.

[@musafawundu6718]

If you show them to much validation and are very regular , they can, but if you don't and check them, they will stop after testing you...

[@DeshaunDamon]

@@davida138 I’m not certain that applies to men with large appendages. Women (often married) Ofer them money, trips, home cooked meals, time, attention and just about whatever else they want.

[@UTP504]

Correct, time, attention, dates, money etc, whether they think they are or not, directly or indirectly, and mostly indirectly EVERY man pays for 🐱. It is what it is.

[@emanuelmota7217]

"We" men...

[@davida138]

@@DeshaunDamon I have one of those and still pay one way or the other if she is attractive.

[@TreeEl-gp2tx]

That breakdown was brilliant 👏🏽

[@Maniac1607]

You're not paying her for sex; you're paying her to leave when the sex is over.

[@Executor009]

“Does this fit with your own experience?” Absolutely not hahahahaha

[@aytoonz35]

Can't wait to part 2 and 3. Great 👍🏾💯 work

[@pat1403]

Thanks for another one Doc. Same, I used to look down on this practice. As time goes on, it seems like a great second option to finding a truly worthwhile woman.

[@mbnesbitt]

Start early with diversified investments in stocks, bonds, and real estate. Maximize contributions to tax-advantaged accounts like 401(k)s and IRAs. Regularly review and adjust your strategy to ensure security.....

[@hamzahamza-bz3rf]

People dont understand that the prices of things are never going back down. This inflation is deeper than we think. Those buying groceries are well aware that the real inflation is much over 10%. The increments dont match our income, yet certain investors still earn over $365,000 in stocks and assets. Wish I could accomplish that.

[@ufuksenol2005]

Very possible! especially at this moment. Profits can be made in many different ways, but such intricate transactions should only be handled by seasoned market professionals.

[@PineHosting]

Some persons think inves'tin is all about buying stocks; I think going into the stock market without a good experience is a big risk, that's why I'm lucky to have seen someone like mr Brian C Nelson.

[@BigNate82]

Finding yourself a good broker is as same as finding a good wife, which you go less stress, you get just enough with so much little effort at things

[@icucmerc]

Brian demonstrates an excellent understanding of market trends, making well informed decisions that leads to consistent profit

[@cal5444]

It's hard to keep these conversations on topic, well done with the message. Love to hear the "No, we are talking about this right now we can talk about the other after we finish here."

[@Tgogators]

There was a NY Times (or similar) interview with a high-class escort out of NYC who have had clients that are billionaires, famous men (even some women or couples), to normal folks etc. On the topic as a whole: "Married men love their wives!"

[@JosephERICFisk]

NONSENSE!

[@Tgogators]

@@JosephERICFisk don’t see what her motivation would be to lie, but ok.

[@forgottenfuryan]

She's obviously correct it's the wives who don't love their husbands and thus the extracurricular activity

[@saranghenchman]

​@@user-of2co3ke5pwhat if your woman says the same😮

[@proudscorpio46]

@@saranghenchmanas a woman love chocolate icecream, can definitely have a few other flavors as well. Especially after eating chocolate ice cream only for years. But men can’t stand when women feel the same as they do.

[@JarinXeno]

I make well over 6 figures and primarily see escorts and/or sugar babies even though I get plenty of attention from women my own age. It's simply too much of a hassle to deal with women normally. I would rather pay to not have to jump through all the hoops I have to deal with in vanilla dating.

[@based_circuit]

I’m in the same boat. No sugar babies for me yet though. Saving that for when I enter my 40’s.

[@MissAngie510]

Yes!!! 🙌, I'm so excited about your book. I'm definitely in line to pick it up. 👏 (Online)😅

[@devilsadvocate6098]

My biggest confusion is this: a lot of men seems to dislike "loose" women. They talk about how if those women don't settle down, they'll end up childless and hit the wall. Then, I see these types of escort advice pops up in this circle of men. Men can have all the sex they want as long as they can pay for it. Women however shouldn't cause they might regret it in the future. Why the double standards?

[@gasphynx]

It's not a double standard, women can get committed relationships easily and give the guy they're with all the sex he wants and he'll have no need to sleep with anyone else.

[@79Glitch]

@@devilsadvocate6098 I don’t think men dislike loose women? That’s a vestige of traditional religion and morality that the modern world has moved away from. If men ARE uncomfortable with women being sexually explorative/adventurous, they are either insecure or jealous (in that … they wish they could have sex with her, or they wish they could also have a lot of sex), so they reflexively insult or put down the woman in question by calling her a “slut” or “hoe.” I think you are referring to the “red pill” mindset of men who break down the psychological and biological differences between the sexes? But, remove the false morality/religious piece of those people’s arguments … and the conclusion of this video might very well be the correct course of action? I lived in S. Korea for a time. Prostitution is EVERYWHERE, in a multitude of forms. From my experience, and from making friends and talking to people, it seems like virtually ALL men use these services from time to time … because of how easy and economical it is (you can literally walk out your door in Seoul and have a handful of options on just your own neighborhood block; and I’m not even including the various red light districts that exist in different neighborhoods easily reached by the subway). That way, you have a wife for structure, societal responsibility and convention, and for offspring and family building; but you also pay a small fee from time to time to, for whatever reason (stay healthy, motivated, interested in life, relieve stress when home life or career is hard and relations with the wife are strained or overshadowed by family needs). So … based on that experience, that seems to be smart way to go about things, both personally and societally. In S. Korea’s case, they turn a blind eye and allow it, mostly ( they occasionally will have a crack down and act like they are going to be tough on prostitution, but it’s usually just for show, and it’s probably due to the increasing influence of Christianity in the past couple of decades). The U.S. needs to do the same thing we already do in Nevada, but even more normalized and widespread. By all indicators, regulation makes things safer for all parties involved, and it’s a much more civilized and efficient way to construct a society. The current system has clearly only led to divorce, family disintegration, sexlessness for young people, and the rise of “red pill” hate and pushback against women and traditional values of dating and monogamy.

[@compositionist]

Dear Devil, you ask a very intelligent question. The answer(s) would be very complex. I suggest you auditing a biology course at your local community college.

[@popa213]

Ask women who really want a relationship but have sex casually with potential boyfriends if the sex is fulfilling. There are no double standards in this. I can have sex with 3 women right now and feel perfectly fine and happy in life. A woman can do the same and will feel miserable and dirty afterwards. This is why after casual sex the women will say “men are dogs” while the men after casual sex will see if he can do it again and with other women also.

[@devilsadvocate6098]

@@popa213 well, the problem is not how the person feel but whether it's ok or not. Plenty of women cheat on their husband with other men because she felt her needs wasn't being satisfied. If it's not ok for a woman to cheat in this situation, why is it ok for a man to seek out escorts?

[@aslkdjfzxcv9779]

love this channel. interesting analysis. no dumbnails. bravo.

[@TheMABExperience]

Congratulations on your new book release! 💯👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 I just got the audiobook. Listening now.

[@armorbearer9702]

Basically, no man is immune to the costs of dating. These costs tend to go up as the man makes more money.

[@2hard2knock]

Best statement “dating is a job where men must pay to work!” 😂😂😂 True af.

[@jamespain2138]

Banger a video per usual 🔥!

[@SaniBravo]

Damn you really hit the nail on the head when it comes to the time, money and energy it takes to date nowadays that’s why so many of us opt out

[@cuts240]

Absolutely correct- and I have multiple vantage points to confirm your analysis 😊

[@globalnomad1221]

All men pay

[@axl1002]

Not all, only betas.

[@globalnomad1221]

@@axl1002 - time, money, attention - all

[@globalnomad1221]

@@axl1002- all

[@globalnomad1221]

All - time, money and / or attention

[@axl1002]

@@globalnomad1221 If you did enjoy the time, then it is not a payment ;)

[@avx4281]

Thank u. Eagerly awaiting next episode.

[@MrPatspp]

Waiting for parts 2 and 3, Orion! Cheers from México 🇲🇽

[@jth_printed_designs]

I've never paid for one, but that doesn't mean I never would. It's definitely cheaper than marriage, and usually cheaper than dating too, unless you're in the top 10% of physical attractiveness

[@SayfumaniMyG]

Not even that is true. You still have to put in the effort to convince her. The only difference is, you get the chance to convince her.

[@SolorockinOne]

The problem is men don’t want just sex. They want that stupid thing called companionship.

[@Khan-rz8qi]

In my opinion going the escort route is ESPECIALLY important for men who are financially savvy but not very physically attractive, this is coming from an attractive dude who has many average looking wealthy friends. I tell my guys all the time, “These women crave me so much because of my looks charm, your money isn’t going to get you that treatment. Everything they do will be more far more transactional and not out pure sexual desire. Relationships are off the table. Pay the upfront cost and fee to get your needs met, you can afford it. You don’t have to try to play the game the way I do to get the same results. Far less time consuming and far more effective.”💯

[@DivineLogos]

Women barely care about looks. Its 80% behavior that will get you laid.

[@cheekymonkeygirl3378]

A lot of married men use escorts too.

[@RH-td7vc]

That's what the redpill men don't get. If you're physically unattractive and old past a certain point women will be with you only for money. And they'll treat sex like a chore. You make sense.

[@SolorockinOne]

👍

[@musafawundu6718]

Regardless of whether one is physically attractive or not, paying for sex is the swiftest and least expensive way to get it. One cute to the chase right away. So if one can afford it and one desires it, many decide to just go that route. One is likely to get good service in return. Many physically attractive men care not that they are able to attract the sort of women that they want based on their looks. Many physically attractive men do not want relationships. They do not want emotional attachments. They just want sex. So they cut to the chase and pay for it.

[@aghorismo]

A good way to test your empathy is by being able to understand and relate to the pain of people, regardless of their wealth or appearance. Thank you for the great video!

[@Mr.Creepo]

Great video, looking for part 2.

[@richardfranz3180]

All sex is transactional. It's either cash up front or the installment plan. You just explain it better than most.

[@IMYOURMAJESTY92]

klarna type shit lmao

[@dwightbrown]

Coach Greg Adams talks about protecting your MEAT Money Energy Attention Time Once you appreciate and value those, it makes the dating reality much much harder.

[@mrmo4059]

Shout out to the coach gang

[@Jonkin715]

Bingo.

[@rayrwyr]

You also need to protect your meat using a cond*m.

[@wack6303]

Free agent fa life salute coach gang

[@axel.eros.]

Free Agent 4 Life

[@Tr4dTV]

Did the best psychologist on KZbin just use the word “RIZZ” in his talk?! 🙌😂

[@G0ddess_Kate]

Thank you for sharing!! It genuinely shifted my perception of HVM dating 🙏

[@Utubeisevil]

Goddess lmao

[@JSFGuy]

We're hopping today.

[@chrismoore9997]

Absolutely. At my current level of success, I would never consider wasting time and mental energy on dating again. That is probably a big reason why men are not looking. It is just too much trouble. Even historically, this may have been why the family arranged the marriage.

[@sshreddderr9409]

not even that, its that women are by nature not supposed to have mating choice to offset the sexual attraction asymetry.

[@wildbill562]

I learn so much for this guy. Everything he says resonates with me.

[@karmasutra4774]

Okay now want to see the rest of the series ❤😂

[@pewterhacker]

The whole "men want sex, women want relationships" theme underlying this channel is a bit flawed. Lots of men want to figure out if they can trust a women (in many ways) so that they can eventually let their guard down and just be themselves. They see the initial sexual encounters as early progress milestones, and use them to assess the rate at which the relationship is developing.

[@pokebowl1679]

I grew up in a Nevada County adjacent to several houses of Ill Repute. Prostitution was observed as a normal vice activity like gambling, drinking, mafia crime etc.. When I was old enough to enter the showroom at these establishments, the atmosphere, selection, and pricing did not make it worth the effort. Turns out almost every woman I have been with has prostituted herself in one way or another, so I guess there is no escape from the escort game.

[@BrianManning-wh6rl]

Agree , Las Vegas Nevada as a teen , dating a decent girl was nearly impossible. Compared to Brooklyn, New York where I grew up . Much easier , decent girls with intact families, and some good morales. For the most part .

[@suave5692]

I would say this problem arose naturally from our dehumanizing system: successful people become expensive tools for society, and piggy banks for potential romantic interests. In the meantime, the rest of people get close to nothing; the epitome of unbalance and dysfunction

[@bearclaw5115]

Well summarized.

[@transitionsnc]

Good point.

[@gracerules2008]

Dr. Orion has the perfect face in this video for a 20 second snippet during the "No Scrubs" music video.

[@SkylarDeRouen]

I told you so! I’m undefeated once again.

[@humlakullen]

Never got laid as much as I did in college… With women who enjoyed sex as me (no strings attached). So, I guess the REAL question is, why do women a few years later stop enjoying, or deriving pleasure from sex, when men don’t..?

[@VanessaKiara]

they grow up and realize sex is emotional and if their needs aren’t meant they either become celibate or sell it.

[@humlakullen]

@@VanessaKiara Interesting point…. So, for men, sex remains a lifelong source of physical pleasure. But for women, sex changes from physical to emotional pleasure, somewhere in their twenties? Even though the female orgasm is stronger and longer lasting than men’s.

[@VanessaKiara]

@@humlakullen and once a man earns a woman’s trust and love he should absolutely get all the sex he needs. women who deprive their husbands of that ruins it for the rest of us who know how a divine union should run. we each have obligations to our partners.

[@humlakullen]

@@VanessaKiara Then I guess there are a lot of women who would say that there’s nothing divine about carnal pleasures;-).

[@djjukeboxhero6491]

​@@VanessaKiaraso do escorts just turn off that emotion? What about GB girls? So basically wahmen of the night are better at controlling their emotions?

[@noahbbbell]

Interestingggg. Sounded like you really wanted to get that at the start.

[@nivh]

Now what about the men, that are overly attractive. Attractive to the point to where women stare but cannot talk or look you in the face. You see the signs, you approach and she instantly downplays you/rejects you out of her own insecurities, while she has the face of regret as you walk away. As well as average women constantly telling you "I don't trust you" sabotaging any relation yall have. I'm not financially set yet, I'm still in my 20's, but I do have the looks. It's just frustrating hearing "I bet you get all the ladies" when its the opposite. Women that deal with me assume I get tons of attention/compliments, so to be different, they disrespect, downplay, ignore or plain out avoid me...while still staring for like 20min from a distance. If most women are virtually the same, and they all try to be different, my dating life, a ghost town it is...Some will scoff at this but I promise you, attractiveness is a curse most times and will work against you. Not just Women, but male friends and associates will turn on you. Its a lonely path. Overly attractive men get stares & short term relations, Average men get the most women/interacts and long term relations (believe it or not.)

[@Sunshineandrainbows234]

I am high-end escort… Men treat me better in escorting then they do in dating…. Dating for me personally has been a nightmare and I am currently getting coached on how to date and get married Also men provided for women financially historically Why work 40/60/80 hours a week when I can work 1-2 hours and make cash?

[@unchartedroad]

Not surprising that they treat you better as an escort. Most men are just fed up with the entitlement of modern women in the dating process who think they can have their cake and eat it too and aren’t interested anymore. I really don’t want to be disrespectful, but good luck with your coaching, because no man with a shred of dignity wants to marry a prostitute. Your best chance is to hide it.

[@glennlgg6871]

Men treat you better in escorting because you treat them better. And it's an honest transaction.

[@gumdeo]

It is a noble profession.

[@officialzacadammorrison]

Doctor, i love your channel man. It helps a lot of people

[@alexpolidoro4126]

Incredibly relevant indeed. It takes a lot of time and work to get the job done with positive results in the dating game. Time is a precious commodity these days more than ever.

[@justsomeguy2943]

WAY too logical for women to understand but, as an owner of multiple businesses, I get it completely and love it.

[@nunyabidness117]

Charlie Sheen once said, 'I don't pay women to sleep with me. I pay them to go away afterwards'.

[@bearclaw5115]

read the comments, been said too many times.

[@mcfrisko834]

This episode should at least be 1 hour long 🔥

[@Ryansarcade9]

Props to you for talking about this.

[@steveburke7675]

When Besos divorced it cost him what? US$ 45B?

[@gumdeo]

What a loser.

[@zacharyiler136]

LOL high 6, low 7 figures for men..... you live in a VERY wealthy area if you think that isn't in the very top sub 1%

[@pmaitrasm]

😂

[@johnkamoche829]

According to IRS tax tables - the 1% starts around $675,000....

[@aguiscard2452]

@@johnkamoche829 That is household income so realistically individual top 1% likely starts around 400k. It also includes people of all ages (and so is dominated by the much older and out of the dating pool individuals)

[@remigeorgegamedev2788]

@@johnkamoche829 and thats the us, all the world 1% is around 40k

[@based_circuit]

It’s all relative. I bring in just under half a mil a year in a regular city and still don’t consider myself in the top 1%. It’s only when you think you’ve reached the top of the mountain, you realize you’re still only at the foothills. I’m still a nobody lol.

[@your_royal_highness]

$1M per year income for a man gives him enough money to pay for private detectives and good marital lawyers.

[@user-ci2mn1oy3w]

you have great insights, Orion