Why This Classy Response Stops a Breadcrumber For Good…

[@BernMendez]

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[@23livelovemanifest]

Cut my losses and ditched a bread crumber. Each time I asked where we stood he would get emotionally abusive, give me a lecture on how negative I was yet not give a label to what we had. I felt unworthy and weak. But I walked away. I'm glad I did. Met a wonderful man who is consistent, we're taking it slow. But he is consistent and he wants us to work. I'm glad I dumped the bread crumber. One year later the fool came back to see if I'm still available... I sent him off kicking rocks😂😂😂

[@lauriepeifer7297]

Good for you. It's hilarious how often they come back. It's almost always... just a matter of time. I've gotten savage with cut off's - my mental health is much better for it 🙂

[@BernMendez]

Good for you! :)

[@rachelarmel7547]

You go girl!! Well done 👍

[@annaalm18]

Such an important message! I wish all the women out there who experience this dilemma would hear this❤

[@BernMendez]

Thank you Anna, blessings to you.

[@dawnkubik]

Perfect and timely. Exactly what I needed to hear right now. Thank you so much for sharing!

[@BernMendez]

You are so welcome!

[@shannon.426]

I really loved this heartfelt message, thank you! 💗

[@BernMendez]

You’re so welcome.

[@rachelarmel7547]

Best advice ever!! I wish I had this informstion 20 years ago instead of wasting my time and going through too much unnecessary heartache. I am older, wiser and so much happier now that I've learned how to value and love myself and now have self worth. Your videos are top notch..so appreciate your sharing your wisdom with us! I'm a new subscriber.

[@amiscary]

Great. Firm but compassionate. I don't think my breadcrumber knows he is doing it.

[@helensanderson7092]

This is why i stay single. I was seeing a man for 2 years found out he had a wife, he didn't tell me about her, labeled me "his girlfriend", kept saying he was single. When i found out i left him

[@CeciledeLuire]

wow. What a creep. There is good men too. All the best for you : )

[@vickigonya9432]

Did you tell his wife?

[@helensanderson7092]

@@CeciledeLuire he was

[@helensanderson7092]

@vickigonya9432 I was tempted to but I thought against it. I just deleted every part of him out of my life

[@BernMendez]

I'm sorry for your experience, glad you're out of this toxic situation and on to better things. : )

[@reemsaif3105]

🧚‍♀️💫 thank you, slowly but surely :) self love is the key. There has to be presence from the guy otherwise self respect is the other option.

[@BernMendez]

So true, thank you Reem : )

[@alaalfa8839]

I wouldn't judge man or woman for not taking someone out...... what if he has a hard job or what if he is seeing someone else , there are many options. For example, if he works in same work or lives in the same area it doesn't mean he is supposed to date somebody, because he may have different taste as well as woman has right to have her own taste. So being him a nice to everybody for one minute is not breadcrumbing, its called being good person....If he is nice and doesnt want a relationship it may also mean that he already has a girlfriend, so only thing he can do for other ladies is saying Good moring how are you have a nice day, its not breadcrumbing its called being faitful. Its like you would expect from your own son being nice to every girl he meets on his own street on daily basis, even though he may eventually be interested in one woman... he can not satisfy all of them, who expect to be satisfied. But if he is committed to someone on dail basis it's different. He shouldn't give breadcrumbs if he is interested.

[@vanessamendoza6908]

I can't thank you enough, this is so Awesome and insiteful. THANK YOU ❤

[@BernMendez]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@eadithcsiby1071]

Is excelent advise...men are changing only for short perriod of time...

[@BernMendez]

Some men can change for good the key is to figure out who is who... : )

[@amyj.4992]

Wasting time is my biggest pet peeve

[@BernMendez]

Thanks for watching.

[@jeanneparadise8200]

Very helpful.

[@BernMendez]

Glad it was helpful, Jeanne!

[@maralin4703]

Thanks. Great advice 👍🏾

[@nicolenigro2748]

Yes!!!

[@BernMendez]

Thank you!

[@lyndamcmullen5506]

❤❤❤

[@BernMendez]

Glad you enjoyed it

[@BecomingaQueen]

Very very good video! So hard to forget about what we truly desire when the initial feelings get activated. We already want to experience the little love, being afraid that what we want might never come 😢 I have just decided to start completely igrone this guy and his crumbs

[@BernMendez]

Glad this was useful : )