Why Traditional Love is Dead! (And What No One's Telling You!)

[@captaingabi]

Traditional love requires a traditional society.

[@P-A-X-]

Or a reciprocal traditional mindset?

[@filippecampos2826]

"Modern woman wants a traditional man"

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

Even in traditional love the man is just a treasured tool. I learned only one thing about my grandpa from my grandma: One time he fixed the range, and it was spectacular. She had ~25 years to tell me other stuff about him. He died a few months before I was born. My grandma was wonderful, probably peak wife material. She visited his grave every year. But she loved him the way I love my Nvidia RTX 4090. Great tool.

[@GTHO1970]

As a single father of 5, i would have to say never again! Never get married or let them stay in your home unless you are prepared to throw it all away. You can never trust them.

[@nikolaybilinskyi8509]

its always roulette (

[@Mistical1982]

For anyone reading this comment - please don’t internalise this man’s belief. He’s been hurt and it has altered his perception. That doesn’t make it true, not even for him and his own future.

[@GTHO1970]

@Mistical1982 No wife happy life 👍👍😂

[@nikolaybilinskyi8509]

@ How long do u live without wife ?

[@billmacia-0808]

​@@Mistical1982Nah it's true, most modern women are leech. 80% of divorce are started by women

[@milosbogdanovic3229]

Answer is very simple - there cannot be traditional love, or anything traditional for that matter in untraditional society.

[@Nickthepriick]

25 years on this planet and I don’t know what it feels like to be wanted by somebody 😂😂 it’s tough out here

[@MrHDProd]

Bro this world is a big scam 😵‍💫

[@DOOR.DASH.TYRONE]

You're not missing anything consider yourself lucky most mens relationships are a charade where they are tolerated on the condition they pay for stuff.

[@Nickthepriick]

Valid point brother nice to see another perspective I appreciate it

[@Nickthepriick]

Indeed it is one big lie 😂

[@Z_Him_]

38 years here.. I’ll never know either.

[@voice552]

Thirty years ago my sister took me to a thrift store owned by her friend. On the walls were the best black and white photographs i've ever seen in my life. The store owner's husband was a wedding photographer, and the pictures were of a medieval style wedding in a forest. Anybody entering the store was immediately drawn to them. In 2025, people would see the couple in the forest as LARPers. Social media has reduced anything natural, romantic or organic to a roleplaying state. I'm willing to bet one thousand dollars that the couple in the black and white photos are still together in a house lined with pictures of their grandchildren. Good luck to any man dumb enough to get married in 2025.

[@Barney5400]

I'm only 26 and I have to say I'm finished with dating or looking for a woman none of thems worth it no matter what route you take online or in person nothing works it's just rejection after rejection it's exhausting draining tiring and I've just crossed the line of no return I will never try dating ever again but appreciate the wisdom man

[@AlexNasvik]

I’m gonna be 24 in April this year and I’m in the same boat.

[@Barney5400]

@AlexNasvik Only way I see to live this modern world unfortunately getting worse by the day

[@jdsofar]

Yup I shut off at 25. DOnt care. Waste of time, energy, money, everything. Only gain is a small window of pleasure. But the headaches that come with it.... thats for you to decide whether it's worth the hassle.

[@Barney5400]

@jdsofar definitely way to go from now on I'm doing the same

[@Wabu1]

And if you get her she is most likely just gonna leave anyhow eventually or become so intolerable you will leave

[@dankoVex1]

As a society we are falling apart, which is unescapable in these conditions a only after the severe consequences for many in such a society we will want to "return back".

[@MarquezSmith-f9d]

Forgot to mention about the love doll thing. It's because I prefer to avoid people as much as possible. I like to live my life as a shut in hermit recluse what ever you want to call it. I just stick to my hobbies and live in my own world.

[@zebedep]

This is really powerful stuff. Sadly, I think we're at a point where the genie is well and truly out of the bottle and there's no going back.

[@SigmaEnigma101]

Yeah you're defantly right. The Genies out, and his never going back.

[@12Ralph]

Never been unconditionally loved at mid 50s, except my cats and my late Father.

[@Anonymous-yn2ny]

Traditional relationships are dead because men at last realize that we are not truly happy in a committed relationship. We are happiest when we have the freedom to conquer in every aspect of our lives. When we are not conquering we want peace (and quiet). We men are built to perform, not romance.

[@skatecado2897]

Great comment

[@nikolaybilinskyi8509]

Its interesting theory . The problem is we need relationships from time to time, for our mental health.

[@Mistical1982]

Sounds like more BS to me.

[@Anonymous-yn2ny]

@@Mistical1982 Why do you find my comment to be BS? Happy to hear your honest thoughts and debate it with you.

[@grk70s]

love requires respect and respect requires FEAR. The fear of severe consequences of bat actions from bad character and that is what women have lost.

[@CS-iv8tk]

Pickin’s are VERY slim. I don’t waste my time anymore, way too many self centered people in the world.

[@CharlesWilson-zs3vd]

Like I heard juda on you tube say, Marriage is like a corporation, when it's over, the man is screwed.

[@Cybo-Man]

I had my last traditional long term relationship 20 years ago. Tried one more time a few years after that one but was a failure, haven’t tried again since. The entire traditional dynamic has been erased

[@Mistical1982]

A big problem is that we were taught that romantic love was glamorous, like a Disney fairytale. The truth is, it’s f-ing hard work. Everyone wants instant gratification nowadays, and to continue to believe that they’re perfect and it’s everyone else who has problems. It’s time for some maturation and introspection. If you want it, you need to work for it, because we’ve all got a lot of waking up and healing to do.

[@Bibbob-vm2hu]

Men are in love. Women are in business.

[@AE-tb4ee]

I’ve been through diamonds, I’ve been through minks. I’ve been through it all. Love stinks!

[@lreeher]

J!😆

[@mikeburkhart8336]

Love doesn't exist in a society that only loves money.

[@filippecampos2826]

35 years, never had an official girlfriend. When a girl I was with realized we were dating serius thats when she dump me. There was once a girl who wanted to marry me, but when I asked her to be my girlfriend she went mad and left me. We all know now what she wanted

[@georgeedward1226]

Traditions are solutions to problems we forgot we had.

[@Bat_Boy]

1) He's talking about romantic love. 2) Romantic love is not dead, just very difficult to cultivate with women. 2) Same gender marriages show females divorcing each other at a very high rate compared to males. 3) The cause of this is because females move too fast in and out of marriage. Which is the opposite for males...we do marriage and divorce with more consideration.

[@Mistical1982]

Hitting the age of (peri)menopause creates a lot of problems for both people in a marriage, but especially women.

[@ianwilliams7802]

Love is Femanine power. Women have been abusing that power for over a hundred years to the point that that 'love' is now dieing. This is the fundamental weakness of Femanine power and why we don't have Matriachies. The use of love as power is a self defeating game as the use of love as power is abusive and undermines the love that is the basis of the power.

[@Captain-rg8mv]

Men marry for love and women marry for divorce. It’s unreal how the family court system rewards women for leaving. My 4 year marriage cost me $20k. She had an affair and left me yet I had to pay her? That’s where we are now. True love is indeed dead.

[@Cloutjonesdotcom]

The fact that marriage exists at all should show you that love is dead... You shouldnt need a government contract to stick eith someone you claim to love

[@Oscarlevy1992]

Very well stated!!

[@ShaynePonds]

R.I.P LOVE WHEN I WAS YOUNGER I HAD WOMAN PLAY GAMES WITH ME I THOUGHT WHEN I GOT OLDER THINGS WOULD BE DIFFERENT IT'S DIFFERENT ALRIGHT ITS EVEN WORSE THAN WHAT IT WAS IN THE 80S I WAS MARRIED FOR 23 YEARS AND MAN WOMAN ARE ALL JUST A BUNCH OF PLAYERS 5 YEARS OF GAMES IM IN MY 50S LIFES TO SHORT TO BE PLAYING GAMES AND IM TO OLD FOR THE GAME MY STORY ENDS HERE

[@jdsofar]

LOL!!!

[@zakzwijn8410]

PLEASE DON'T SHOUT. People don't really change in their biological core systems - just more drama is added.

[@ShaynePonds]

@zakzwijn8410 I wouldn't want a woman to change to be with and I would ep expect her to feel the same way about me because if you don't love that person the way they are then you're relationship won't work out but my story ends here R.I.P LOVE

[@AwakenedEmptiness]

It's simple the love in manys heart has grown cold, bunch of ice queens if you ask me. Even if you get them in a relationship they are emotionally unavailable for this exact reason. Hot and COLD games kill loves possibility to develop because it kills trust. As well as losing respect for the other person if you have any dignity. It doesn't build attraction it simply stokes a hot fire of passion that soon burns out quickly. Love is built not on passion alone but on the warmth of compassion for the other. One through dispassion towards ones own desire compromises for the beloved. In a healthy relationship both people sacrifice a part of themselves to benefit the one another. If only one or neither person is doing this its doomed to fail. Love is so fragile and women break it by not knowing how to act right. They get mad over the simplest things because of unrealistic expectations. Instead of being cool and letting it roll off they ice you out. If you leave the love out in the cold long enough it dies.

[@MagnusBear-f2k]

I'm not sure it was so easy to get out of marriage in the past. That's why getting married to the right person had more value.

[@joshualewis4991]

More terrible advice. Marry no one. It's not needed at all

[@Kofideveloper]

Love is dead. No more no less.

[@SigmaEnigma101]

🎯

[@Demv-b1x]

My mate as just been burnt for 100 k. The women never worked a day in her life. Prenup gents protect yourself.

[@joshualewis4991]

Stop enslaving men with your advice

[@Mistical1982]

I’ll bet she couldn’t work because she was at home raising the kids, just as he wanted.

[@Demv-b1x]

@ which that is a good thing. But just make sure you have the lawyers and prenup on standby. That’s just me though I’m not working all my life to have some women take half my money to go on trips to Ibiza get her nails and hair done buy fancy cars and put it all over Facebook. That’s just me though. I’ve seen good successful men lose it all. It’s just a business to half of these women

[@joshualewis4991]

@@Demv-b1x marry Not

[@joshualewis4991]

Marry not

[@ArchiveChamber]

I’ve had 2 loves in my life. One for 10 years and one for 3. I honestly don’t know if it’s worth trying a third time. Even worse, I have no want to even try because I know what’s out there. Been on 7 dates and talked to plenty of women on dating sites…something is really wrong with them. They just want puppets they can control

[@GoingMyOwnWay917]

The internet killed everything. No internet no social media no dating apps no instant validation no with all the crap that the internet introduced to the world.

[@JonathanLewis-gf1lu]

Yes sir Unfortunately with a huge sad heart ♥️

[@doctort434]

Romantic love has always been a myth.

[@lreeher]

Truth marches on.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

You can't reject women who don't want you.

[@garygallagher7269]

Good video but I'm sorry, it's a fantasy, it might be possible to find "traditional love" but it's also possible to win the lottery but most of us keep buying the tickets but winning eff all. I've decided to give up "the gamble" and just keep my money and get on with my life, sorry man! I just don't think it's worth the effort anymore.

[@SigmaEnigma101]

You and me both brother.

[@PennPearson]

A survey found that eighty percent of married women do not love their husbands. That's a high-risk investment. Only a fool would even consider it.

[@tamcee6628]

ALSO TODAY THERE CAN BE NO TRUST IN ANYBODY. SO NO TRUST EQUALS NO TRUE LOVE.

[@flashgordo9485]

There is no love in today's music. Just greed, lust, and ingratitude. When I showed women in my life love and affection- they would get weirded out over kisses and hugs, or just holding them. Not to be weird, but in my younger days, it was normal to show love. Relationships aren't about that but satisfying another's needs- then it's about power and control. Yes, love is dead, the heart is gone, and there is no conscience, or empathy.

[@Alazar-z8p]

*relationships aren't about that* Exactly. Cuz now nowadays, as a man, if you show you care, people will call you weak or unmanly. They want you to be a bad boy.

[@flashgordo9485]

@Alazar654 Women are more in love with the fantasy- than the prop, we call a man

[@Alazar-z8p]

@@flashgordo9485 Exactly

[@dominicmasi8328]

Agree with you 100% . Traditional love is dead in all the developed countries. Perhaps it exists in the poorer countries ? I know for a fact North American men are fed up of NA women so they choose to go to Eastern block countries of Europe or South America. Even Middle Eastern women are better than North American women.

[@Dridikos]

In short marriage is a mindset that a lot of people don’t have. It takes time, tribulations, and reflection to develop the mindset. I found my wife only after being a “man whore,” being in relationships that showed me what I didn’t want in a woman. Then found my wife whom I saw qualities in her that made me think real hard on my life. I chose to give up on searching for “better,” I had to make changes in my life to cut myself off from the temptations that could lead me astray, and I had to change my mindset to being fully committed to her. She is not perfect, and neither am I, but we are committed to each other, supporting, and helping each other grow.

[@acherjon]

I respect your decision. And may you have many happy years . With children and grandchildren and so on .

[@tarlkoroban3733]

Nice story but a leopard can't change it's spots. Once a 'man whore' etc etc.

[@JonathanLewis-gf1lu]

Thanks brother

[@DenshaOtoko2]

I've been waiting 31 years for a wedding and marriage. I have been trying for 18 years. There's no one thst voluntarily wanted to marry me.

[@joshualewis4991]

God was saving you. Marriage is slavery

[@JoseSanchez-sp2ex]

To win at the game is best not to play at all. Women cost money.Entertainment,Dinner,Drinks,Movies,concerts you name it. God knows you could buy a house,cars,or even better invest the years of spending on women o n safe investments,bonds index funds,IRA you name or just put the money in the bank.Ex.100 dollars times 12 months =1,200 even though it's not much in today's society. Heck people who don't have 300 bucks and are in debt 1,200 sounds great. Be smart save, be healthy,eat right and most important seek God.God bless you all

[@jdsofar]

Save for what. Id rather live my life doing all I can close to penniless when I die. You're born with nothing and leave the same way. So personally I dont care about all that. Yes be smart with your money, always have an emergency fund so worst case you have enough money put away that will set you up for a while in a bad case... I want to live my life and do All I can so when im older I can be happy knowing I didneverything I ever wished with no regrets

[@joshualewis4991]

​@@jdsofaryall both are saying the same thing. You just wanted something to say

[@JoseSanchez-sp2ex]

@jdsofar For emergencies and if a medical illness comes up. U see what that guy did and killed that ceo of Healthcare. Cause they deny people everyday so u need savings. U may lose your job. U still gotta pay the bills. They don't care they want they're money. So that's why in this day and age. Why do u think there are so many homeless people and others living paycheck to paycheck. I really don't care what u do. I'm saving just in case especially in this day and age

[@TaphaSow75]

Relationships are like stages with ceilings in between. The stage of mariage 💒 & family is the highest, most fulfilling but most challenging. Awareness helps to cross stages and ceilings.

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

Traditional love only works when the love is a wedding of families. In such a marriage, the wife and husband don't even really need to get along once the kids reach a certain age.

[@andyandrew7557]

Yes I agree Traditional love is dead.

[@kevinrowland5753]

Rapid change from extreme sexual repression to extreme sexual freedom, the internet, current economic problems, people not believing the “life is a gift” meme

[@waltermyers8891]

I’ve noticed that people don’t talk about dating, engaged, relationships, and saying it’s hard to find a decent man in recent months. Also, I still see decent couples, but they are genZers, and millennials under 36 years of age and late 30’s. And 40 plus years old, that’s very rarely unless they got married during their 20’s or dated through out.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

My parents tell me I'm half of a man because I'm not married with kids.

[@cirrocumulus7554]

Just shelve the whole discussion for another day. Don’t you have work to do, interests to develop, books to read, skills to master, hobbies to entertain and travels before you? Everything in life cannot only revolve about finding a woman and getting married.

[@chaabimaroc]

If you half a men it means you have one ball. Show your ballsack and tell them you still have 2 balls.

[@joshualewis4991]

Don't get married

[@LukasWeeke]

@@DenshaOtoko2 Your wellbeing should be your parents interest, but the way you go to reach it should not be their business. That is at least my understanding of a good relationship to parents. I would never shame on my children (if I had some) for their lifes decisions. Your own opinion on your relationship status is the only one that should matter to you.

[@Jonathan0530]

If what you try to achieve in life has 90% chances of failing and only 10% of succeeding, what is best: avoiding failure of chasing sucess? I mean, aint that obvious? This is what happened to marriage and romance. We can keep arguing about the causes and reasons as much as we want, but this is what we have to deal with now.

[@byMRTNjournals]

Not so much individualism as solipsism.

[@bobballard387]

Yeah man im 33 year old women start to chase me etc idont give a shit and i found the lord jesus thinking of become a priest

[@Redpill_]

Yeah yeah! Now try to stop cussing !

[@bobballard387]

​@@Redpill_no thank kid stay in ur own lane

[@bobballard387]

No thank ​@@Redpill_

[@ViktorJericho]

SAME! I'm considering becoming a monk.

[@bobballard387]

@@ViktorJericho good idea sir

[@James-mc5hc]

Exactly what I thought just a few days back.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

It's who my parents, church, community, and people want me to marry. Not my own choice.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

I can't committ if the women don't want to.

[@joshualewis4991]

Prostitutes are safer and cheaper than marriage

[@JonathanLewis-gf1lu]

I agree with you

[@AnthonyToth-t5v]

Most important everyone wants to be loved and to love and a lonely mind is a devils workshop while we sit in a room bored it can be our recluse yet it is our prison

[@svartvist]

It's "gone" because it never existed. Nobody ever embodied "traditional" love, nor it's twin "True Love." It's all an invention of romantics who mfr or consume the expression of it. Read up on deBalzac's observations. The only real form of love, enduring love, is that which we invest ourselves in for another's benefit. Sacrifice, devotion, patience.

[@ViktorJericho]

Where can I read more about that online?

[@svartvist]

@@ViktorJericho search for Honoré de Balzac "meditations"

[@prschuster]

Thank you for cutting through the excesses of feminism and redpill. People and society have to change though, before can trust each other again.

[@A-Man79]

The morning after pill has a lot to answer for....

[@mcmike89]

Artificial Intelligence is already replacing traditional love with fake reality computer programming that an AI bot you fall in love with will be the new norm to be in a relationship.

[@lbks16]

For now, but I am excited for programmed AI female robots in the future 😂

[@josealmeida2842]

Just because divorce was rare prior to no fault doesn’t mean everyone who got married lived happily ever after. Just because infidelity was a personal and social atrocity doesn’t mean no one was unfaithful.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

Marriage in ingrained in Hong Kong people. And it is a necessity and not an individual choice.

[@ТарасМакаренко-ф3ш]

I think it's not traditional love is dead, but modern Western (and westernised) society, who's lacking of ability to create traditional love, and traditional morality.

[@bar9849]

I really want to belong to somebody I'm crazy about and be

[@MarquezSmith-f9d]

I'm a guy 37 I think love is B.S. nowadays. It does not exist. If it did it's dead now. I simply don't care. I never got into a relationship and never will. You can't miss what you never had. So I choose to play it safe and never date or even attempt to experience true love. But I do want a love doll. I have no shame in admitting this. Then there is the anti natalist I believe in. So I don't have or ever want kids. It is what it is tho. I just simply never cared about a relationship that badly to were i just had to have one.

[@bar9849]

I really want to belong to somebody I'm crazy about and to that to be reciprocated... is hard to find

[@Redpill_]

People have become products. Sad

[@patriciavandevelde5469]

In europe we all live solo! Women buy their own flat guys to and that's s it!

[@RobertMclaren68]

2 Timothy 3 describes this current scenario.... the Bible is realistic and tells women to respect their husband's and for men to love their wives...

[@AnthonyToth-t5v]

I think 🤔 just my opinion since the invention of mobile phones everything’s gone wrong especially social media and instant gratification buying everything everywhere you look people stuck on screens and technology just my opinion I’m old enough to remember before mobile phones and had 23 years of a great life and travelling

[@droidgunner3840]

I thought she was different was with her for 10 years then she cheated big time

[@pujapete3665]

texting killed interaction.i hate it but other now no other way.could try phoning ,its costs nothing

[@tamcee6628]

A LOT OF WHAT YOU SAY IS TRUE BUT THERE IS ANOTHER SITUATION AND RISK FOR MEN. IF A MAN GOES WITH 1 WOMAN THE LAW SAYS THAT IS EVIDENCE OF A DEFACTO RELATIONSHIP SO WHEN IT ENDS THE MAN CAN BE SUED IN THE FAMILY COURT AND LOOSE HALF OF WHAT HE HAS. THE ANSWER IS TO GO OUT WITH AT LEAST 3 WOMEN AT THE SAME TIME TO STOP DEFACTO RELATIONSHIP CLAIMS. NO MORE EXCLUSIVE RELATIONSHIPS ARE POSSIBLE.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

My people have collectivism.

[@marcin3136]

But there is no other love... its tombak.

[@fredc3543]

LOL, "traditional" love was transactional and still is.

[@DenshaOtoko2]

The church people I know are all married with two kids. I don't know about the Secular world?

[@LS-vl6zd]

You are going IN.

[@randallk6812]

Does this guy only wear black hats and shirts😂?