why we broke up

[@jeaniec.495]

I broke up with my bf of 4 years when I was 19. It took only a MONTH of being single for me to start dating my now husband. We've been together for 8 years, and it's still amazing. Good things can happen after a rough break up.

[@kyavner]

I panicked and thought the sorry girls broke up!!! this is still a bit shocking but yay for positive changes 😄

[@hanlugs]

yavner kimberley yeah i thought the same too haha

[@SterlsTacos]

yavner kimberley same here!😂

[@zeta3222]

yavner kimberley same thank goodness they didn't

[@f-7050]

weird , me too!!! i even gasp before i clicked on the video. its funny how all of us the sorry girls fans got this as recommendation.

[@TBMDIYS]

same

[@nonah7675]

So crazy how much changes in such a short amount of time. This video will be 3 years old soon and within that time you have not only moved into this loft, but also out of it, and now you are purchasing your own home. So inspiring.

[@luzelenaaaw]

that's so crazy, my bf of almost 6 years broke up with me recently too & i can only hope that we can be friends. right now we aren't but i wish we could be friends. i was 19 when we started dating & now i'm 24 about to turn 25 next month. it sucks. in my situation it wasn't mutual & i wish we could still be together. it's true that not only you lose a relationship but a friendship too.

[@TheSorryLife]

sorry that you had to lose a friend. take this time to focus on you! it can be a really exciting time if you let it

[@luzelenaaaw]

TheSorryLife thank you! that means a lot. you're right it can totally be exciting, it's just taking a little time for me. ❤️

[@Yohgmf]

luzelenaaaw maybe he just doesnot wana buy the valentine gift

[@luzelenaaaw]

fuckingsnow holly lol we broke up a month and a half ago..

[@maryc6829]

luzelenaaaw about that last sentence, I agree... that's why I don't wanna tell my crush I like him, because he is one of my closest friends... if he doesn't like me and he found out, it would get awkward and I would lose a friend... BUT, if he did like me and we got together, there is a chance that things go wrong, then if we, ya know, grow apart, I would lose him...

[@milenab.n.4986]

I find it very inspiring that your breakup was so mature. It's clear that you guys dearly loved each other for a long time, and sometimes things just don't work out and people grow apart. I'm so incredibly happy that your happy. This year is going to be your year. Thank you for telling us about what's going on. I love the loft and the bangs A LOT. Have a night day.

[@lonestar7241]

shoot when she said every girl gets bangs when they go through some kinda big change.....i was like thats not-...*looks in the mirror*...shoot

[@kaylajohnson5701]

I know it's corny to hear this from a stranger to you, but I've been following you guys for literally almost 5 years off and on, and seeing this video a year ago made me finally feel okay with wanting to leave my relationship (at the time). We'd been together for three years, and the thought of ending things was so... uncomfortable. I changed my hair too; I went blonde and cut off a foot and a half of length. You're outlook just made me ok with seeing change happen in my own life, and I think it's really cool that you can have an impact like that on someone who you don't even know. And I'm so much better off now for the choice I made then. I don't usually commit or interact with anyone online, but I felt the need to say something. Who knows? You might read it.

[@marmarysssa]

proud Canadian seeing the Hudson's bay mittens and umbrella

[@thecrushlife]

Maryssa Eccles matching mittens! I love their heritage collection!

[@filipinodragonfruit8178]

Maryssa Eccles same

[@madi846]

i obviously love the girls together as a duo, but i also love these solo vlogs you occasionally do, it feels v intimate and personal :)

[@thecrushlife]

I have been with my boyfriend for 13 years, basically since I started high school... we have grown up together and he is my best friend for sure, but we did split for a year and it was a good thing, we got to grow as individuals and we found our way back to each other, it will always work out

[@lovelyrayax]

i'm so glad u and becky didn't break up (i haven't watched in like a year and this is the video i came back to)

[@kellyj.goodgoldberger4012]

you were making me so nervous with that trowel! I kept thinking "I hope she doesn't smack herself on accident!" glad you shared with us. I am so glad to hear you are happy and doing well. so neat how life comes together! looking forward to future updates!

[@shabnabegum441]

aww, I love Kelsey. She's so down to earth, and kinda awkward in a way but it's so relatable, and I love her overall vibe

[@allisonparrott5914]

Dear The Sorry Girls, I found your KZbin channel about a month ago as I had just broken up with a bf of 5 years, I needed to find new ways to fill up my extra time, something to watch as I fall asleep, and I needed to find the empowerment to get myself out of a difficult situation. Watching your channel is really inspirational bc you both do many tasks and projects that many might deem difficult or sometimes even slightly dangerous and it has really shown me that females can do anything they set their minds to! I have binge watched almost all of your videos and I just wanted to give you a heartfelt thank you bc your ideas and creativity truly have made a difference. ❤💪🎀

[@cr3ateur0wn]

I'm so excited about your loft! sounds like a lot of changes but it's good that you're keeping positive!

[@Norwaycat91]

If you do a 360 tours, please do a regular one too! I never end up watching 360 videos but would love to see a tour of the loft!!!

[@TheSorryLife]

quarter life crisis, ammirite?

[@TheBubblypumpkin]

on to bigger & better things.

[@TheBubblypumpkin]

side note, I know you already did but please do a detailed potting plant video... I want to stop killing my plants lol

[@DanielaKonishi]

That is so weird! My situation is very similar to yours. I also broke up with my bf after 6 years, i'm now 25. I do agree that the worst thing is to loose a friend in the process, i think it's really cool you guys decided to stay friends, right now i can't do that. Hope you are doing well with the situation

[@supaguh]

Same

[@brittnivillanueva]

It's so weird, because I've been following you two for a couple years and I love your videos and diys. However, I am a huge fan of your vlogs. I feel like you two are my friends and listening to you talk about something so personal and deep and your positivity made me feel so happy inside. I'm glad you're happy Kelsey!! Stay positive!

[@TheSorryGirls]

you're SOOOOO sweet. THANK YOU

[@letitiakiu]

looking forward to all these new changes! i've never seen a loft like this in TO, sweet find!

[@lynnt4028]

Sorry to hear about the breakup :( but happy to hear about the positive new changes

[@mayojello2664]

you look like Rose from the movie "Get out" 😱😱😱

[@tangerinetoystore6463]

I thought the 2 girls broke up omg fake heart attack

[@thatmusthavebeenthesun]

Idk why this just popped up on my page because it’s 3 years old and all but I love you girls so much and I think you’re really brave to put yourselves out there through KZbin. Breakups suck and I’m excited to be following your HOUSE TRANSFORMATION and see your success!!! It warms my heart. Both of you deserve everything good. ♥️

[@sariahdanny4842]

Does she look like the girl from get out or what?

[@laurenabernathy2511]

please not a 360 tour. 360° videos are way too annoying to watch

[@MissLOL11011]

Lauren 0.o +

[@coupscarat9643]

agree

[@declan120]

Ikr

[@TechKidShazil]

Why it's awesome!

[@jessicavanik6040]

It sounds like you are handling this in a very healthy way. I'm proud of you! I know one of the best moves I ever made was breaking up with a long term relationship, moving to a new city, and living alone for a bit. It felt so good to focus on me for awhile and sort of recalibrate who I was vs who I was with him. You do you for a while gurl! If you need to talk we (the fans) are here for you.

[@susiecaianiello3839]

omg Kelsey you scared the crap out of me by talking and waving that gardening shovel around your head!!! lol !!! Anyway, good luck with everything girl!

[@TheSorryLife]

LOL I was editing this and I was like - wtf am I doing with that shovel lol!

[@raeraejasper]

I just wanted to cry for you! I've been there girl! And I am so grateful for where life has taken me and where it will! Blessings and future luck to you!

[@MarPendas]

Hi, can you please tell me what the name of the song is in the video?? please please! :)

[@libertys.1534]

I only want to see it in 360 if it isn't MEGA blurry. Seriously!!!! Why do people upload 360 videos where you can't even see what the heck is happening because the quality of the video is so low. The commercial before this video was actually in 360 and you were supposed to follow the Kia but the video quality was so fucking low I could barely tell it was a car. And NOOOOO it isn't my internet speed plenty of others have complained about it and I can get up to 120 Mbps easy with my wifi

[@shabnam5933]

Liberty S. Actually I think it's because KZbin wants you to buy those cardboard glasses that allow you to see the video, but I'm not 100% sure

[@thefrozenwolf13]

Oh can't wait to see the 360 and sorry about break up

[@katrinavangrouw8843]

Please not a 360 tour. It would be so awesome if it wasn't.

[@rhaetantuan544]

Hi!! Can i please know the store where you purchase the terra cotta pots? Ive been looking for such a variety of sizes and forms thank you!!

[@ilovepizzacake123]

Rhae Tantuan It’s probably Michael’s

[@JaimeeSit]

I love youu ❤️ so excited for the loft! And I'm so glad you're happy in your life right now.

[@siLvsmiLes]

Hear you in all of this experience - I relate so closely with this and YES to changing the hair when you go through a change. What an exciting time though, to learn what this next stage of your life looks like! I'm so excited to see what your life is going to look like and how The Sorry Girls will grow!

[@IntoTheUnknownBlue]

I'm going through a breakup too, and sending much love your way

[@SewingLara]

Hi Kelsey! I am so sorry your relationship ended but I also believe that there is always a reason for things happening, just like you said. The loft looks great! And I adore your bangs - you look totally sassy 😎 I didn't watch your videos so regularly lately, I'm just catching up again, but I wanted to tell you how happy it makes me that your DIY channel grew so much. Soon you'll be celebrating one million subs, I'm sure. You girls are super creative and you also motivated me focusing on DIY. You always have great ideas that also beginners can do and many of your ideas are just crazy cool. So good luck in the new loft and I hope many great things will happen. Sending you a hug and much love from Vienna.

[@kendramotoyasu9108]

could you please tell me the music you used for this video? I'd love to add it to my spotify library (:

[@praiseworship8158]

Yes I was scared to click on the link thinking that you two girls had broken up. I’m glad you’re still working together and look forward to all your stuff. This change will be blessed!

[@stayingstellar]

I'm so happy that you're on your feet and that so many things are falling into place! Always here to support

[@linlupin]

WHAT. How did I not know you guys had a blog channel?!? Time to binge watch! (Tomorrow, while I'm cleaning and not now while I'm supposed to be asleep haha)

[@mariechaekyung3]

that loft has a Sherlock Holmes feel to it like the TV show "Elementary." Kelsey, your new hairstyle reminds me of one of the characters in the show!

[@natalievompa7684]

amazing loft space that you guys get though! Can't wait for the loft tour and can't wait to see all your plants!

[@estershelby8583]

You looked like you were on the verge of crying :'(

[@ThanhNguyen-bc6tw]

What is the name of the song used in the beginning parts of this video?

[@anything4Selinas]

Am a new subbie for about 6 months BUT when this video popped up on my Recommended Videos I totally freaked out and thought it was TheSorryGirls. 😭😭😭 after I threw a tantrum, lol. I realized and all is good and the world keeps spinning. 🥰

[@TheDeco6]

Where did you get the metal ladder?

[@savannahthomas7496]

I CANT WAIT FOR THE TOUR OF THE LOFT

[@shteacher]

“Every girl going through a huge change gets bangs!” Oh! Duh! How did I not see that before? We should just keep the bangs for life because change is good.

[@Macyisforlovers]

I love the intro/outro song! Does anyone know the artist and title?

[@ReadyMadeBouquet]

Love seeing previous DIYs in the loft! What a beautiful space in which to grow.

[@Hannahborba]

Can't wait to see the loft tour :) As long as you're happy and accepting changes as life's treasures, that's what matters! :) keep it up!

[@mikachansailor]

can't wait for the tour!

[@nikavopilova8876]

The bangs part was too real 😌💯 best of luck

[@JoiGarcia]

positive changes are always good! can't wait to see the loft and the future of y'all! girl power! xxx

[@Kristina-gz2wu]

I remember you said you were looking for a new space but then I didn't hear anything else. I am excited for this new stage in your life and what I can see from the loft it looks awesome!

[@Ashiemcmarie]

Loved this. Wishing you so much more room to grow!

[@lindacarroll4217]

You will do ok girl...l am 73 ...men come and go the right one is out there...trust me ...just dont move in with him until you both are ready to grow up and commit!

[@kyrae___]

What's the music in this video?

[@abbiegrier207]

So cool when everything comes full circle right!? Glad to see you're doing alright though Kels, and I'll be praying for ya girl! A lot of changes happening, but things sound good right now!

[@janedoe8570]

I just saw this and it's been a year so I'm sure that you are up and running and I know that must have been a difficult time in your life but at the same time the most fruitful God bless you and keep moving don't look back there's nothing back there for you keep your eyes forward

[@kellyschriner6203]

Here after the loft move-out video, so many feels!! 🥺

[@beachydayz]

I also believe that everything happens for a reason. Good or bad it makes us who we are. Life is an adventure in creating new plateaus for ourselves if we recognize our own potential. All the best,Kelsey , and looking forward to videos of your new living space.

[@leafletanon]

i was in a relationship where we just drifted apart it happened so slowly and i tried to save it but we werent the same people anymore. I wish you the best!

[@strawberrystitches7877]

I love live in Texas its sunny out side and people are wearing short sleeves no gloves for me ;_;

[@joannadu5426]

Same… it's like 80 degrees outside…

[@misterosc]

I've always thought I'm really lucky as well, maybe we are lucky, or maybe we're just positive and like to focus on the good stuff

[@kaseyfulk9256]

Thank you for sharing with us! We love you and only want the best for ya, we are with you on these changes!

[@lacandigram8502]

The guy I was seeing decided he didn't want what I wanted and I had to let him go. But I just got the go ahead to start the process of getting a new place too. Girl I feel you. It's scary but very exciting to start a new chapter. Quarter life crisis for me too girl!!

[@yasemincobanoglu2670]

whats the name of the song??

[@archemedianviktor1314]

Thanks for sharing something so personal,hopefully you find something that will get you back into a good harmonic and get you into a good way. Look forward to seeing more of your content. Thanks

[@sararhodes5884]

You seem like you're in a really good place in life, so happy for you! Better things are coming! xx Also huge thumbs up for 360 loft tour!

[@camila-hn4fr]

girl you are strong we love you so much💜

[@brendafarren3618]

What happen to the house you bought!!!

[@CreativityC0rner]

Change is hard but you got this girl, onto new adventures! ❤

[@diegosoto4380]

Did Ashley edit this video?

[@veselkahadzieva6550]

Girlfriend... I envy you! I would LOVE to be single, living in loft, making diys whit my bf!

[@alisonnicholson8060]

I am not a person who believes things happen for a reason. I believe each difficulty helps us prepare for the next. We employ a new way of coping, and when we are healthy we are open to new opportunities. Our hearts heal. Joy is so beautiful when we have experienced tears. May you enjoy a lifetime of happiness and learn from these times when you really need bangs! Much love.

[@DajanaDarling]

How did I not know you had a vlog channel?? All the best for you ❤

[@rachelroellig2101]

yes...full circle...make room to grow...You need that. Trust your intuition. It is always right.

[@jeannieminnieh7904]

♡ i love your videos, they are so inspiring and beautiful

[@karisduncalfe8550]

This video helped me get through my breakup a few years ago 💚

[@jz400]

My friends were all married to his friends. So I lost almost all of them. But it was more me because I wanted to make it not awkward for them. So I graciously bowed out.

[@aracelipriego]

You got me! Lol when reading the Capri froze and thought to myself "but they just got a loft!"

[@savannahthomas7496]

the loft looks SOOOOO GOOD!!1 love you girl

[@SterlsTacos]

I'm exciting for all of these changes!!

[@SuperDogBiscuits]

I'm a new sub and I legit thought Kelsey and Becky were a couple lol oops

[@maricruz8915]

Becca Atkinson sammmee

[@Forever_OctobersJ]

Me too!!

[@alana7088]

That would've been so cute

[@elenabjxrn]

Breakups are nasty, but they are also an opportunity to re-evaluate, make changes, experiment and feel free for a little while. It sucks, but it gets so much better. You are a talented, creative woman with a huge life stretching out in front of you and you're going to boss it. Stay awesome.

[@gimmegimmex]

* *virtual snuggly bear hug* *

[@Eebs67]

I truly appreciate your full circle moment at the end

[@scorpio_princess333]

LOFT TOUR PLEASE!!!

[@jesslynoliviabun563]

You girls are such an inspiration

[@leiamay976]

Love you girls! Can't wait to see your new place. Lots of love from a viewer in the Niagara region haha (; . Not too far from you guys!

[@t3amoon]

I think you should do a tour but not in 360

[@IWillzie]

This was my very first sorry girls video. Idk why it’s in my recommended but I love you kelsie hope you’re doing well❤️

[@jaimebh30]

I'm sorry for your loss. I hope you guys can stay friends and be nice to each other.

[@MaryRLyons]

Sorry it didn't work out... but... Yeah! for holding onto the friendship. Maybe you are "blessed" would be a better choice of words. You ladies are definitely naturals. Tonight I watched three of your videos you two were so engaging and very creative!!! God bless both of your endeavors :-)

[@GingerLolaMiniatures]

Love your loft, can't wait to see what you do with it :)

[@aiprilh9213]

Song?

[@ChenaiDavid]

I'm happy for you Kelsey !!! And for the sorry girls ❤️