Why WOMEN fall in love with men who are emotionally unavailable (Cold Truth of Hypergamy)

[@CaseyZander]

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[@Awesam3rd]

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[@krishna335]

A man MUST learn to be indifferent, unattached, practical, and strong enough to let go. Unless men learn to stand up for themselves, women WILL continue to treat them like shit.

[@SexecD_th]

Yeah boy!

[@1rizzlord]

I agree.

[@floydbuster9513]

Can you define stand up for yourself?? Women are too inconsistent and argumentative and they don't want to lose an argument, so if you make a stand you're still going to lose the argument

[@texasfossilguy]

its really fucking shit to be honest, but yeah...

[@texasfossilguy]

​@@floydbuster9513dont care and use your side 304 instead.

[@j-star1]

Absolutely true, even on dates with girls with high interest. As soon you show the same level of interest and attachment, she’ll lose attraction and call you weak.

[@bobmorgan5636]

Or..ALL MEN ATE LABELED "TOXIC" AND INDENSITIVE.

[@-glitch-8195]

The problem with your argument is what you consider to be high interest might not be high interest to her. Meaning like, to you if she shows up & has a conversation with you, you consider her to be high interest. However, she just sees that as she's "getting to know you." I literally had this exact conversation with a male co-worker who said that happened to him. Dudes have a bad habit of confessing feelings to women with low interest that they like. Then giving them too much credit for breathing in their vicinity. In your mind, she had "high interest" because you wanted her to be. Not because she was.

[@texasfossilguy]

high interest is shes swallowing potential civilizations of yours

[@growthzack9542]

True, but the man has to initiate the date, kiss etc.

[@LiveLikeMyke]

Facts experiencing this now went right bck to the energy in the beginning now shes tryna see me this weekend

[@ludoteo392]

EVERY single time I think she's different. And go against something casey says. EVERY time. It goes against me. You are being tested ALWAYS

[@alwaysabiggafish3305]

Same. Happened for the last time at 33. 34 now and doing miles better by remembering that. Never again

[@jadanblue3927]

The concept "women are only attracted to jerks or assholes" is absolutely true. But it simple statement only reveals the tip of the iceberg. Why are these men considered assholes or jerks by these women? Because they are 100% focused on their purpose and not the women.

[@alexdmarcon]

This female behavior came about because of compulsory education. School created a class of men who are employees and the fathers went off to work, people left working on the land. Eventually these men whom are jerks etc. do not financially succeed financially and the females realize this and find a man that is stable at a job. JOB -JUST OVER BROKE.

[@samwinchester8680]

This 👆👆

[@standardofexcellence]

And you know there side of the story is diluted

[@starzgalaxy17]

Law of detachment = when you don't give them your energy, it strikes curiosity

[@jamoR72]

i call bullshit, they will just call you gay to their bitchy friends..

[@christianrodriguez5346]

Yeah but it doesn’t mean you keep her. You can have her in the beginning and the second she doesn’t like it anymore she will divorce eventually and take a lot from you. Best to not be for women if you are not available unless she agrees to live like that

[@Cinnamon535]

Then how do you get with a women of you can't show interest?😂

[@christianrodriguez5346]

@@Cinnamon535 you can show interest. Let her come bro. A woman who desires a guy always comes to him. If a woman wants you to come to her she sees you as a possible candidate but she ain’t chasing you since you not #1 on her list. Never entertain a woman who wants you to come. She comes to you which shows she only wants you

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*Women aren’t necessarily attracted to the coldness but to the idea of winning over someone who doesn’t easily open up. It’s a powerful reminder that emotional dynamics play a huge role in attraction, and understanding hypergamy can give you better insight into what truly drives relationships.*

[@Trazynn]

I travel the world and the seven seas Everybody's looking for something Some of them want to use you Some of them want to get used by you Some of them want to abuse you Some of them want to be abused

[@king-nick2023]

So sad and true

[@erbthatsright1103]

Haven’t heard that song in a while. Going to find it now.

[@byronnelson2549]

Ha ! I just heard this song but I can’t remember the band.

[@tomkonig9670]

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[@ShutterNChill]

@@byronnelson2549Eurythmics ; _

[@fyingstarhaytham4852]

Someone bring this cowboy some whiskey. This player is a master at this fxcking art 🔥

[@greenspiral2955]

looking at him he might prefer a superfood smoothy

[@ArmandoCalderon]

Pastor Casey tells the truth.

[@Trialbyfire9]

Matthew 6-33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you

[@americanfighter6988]

Underrated

[@ampersand6375]

Hahaha Xtians..... Jesus was a great man. Most of his cult followers are losers; they have tainted his name and destroyed his memory. Somethings should be forgotten-all the Abramhic religions are some of them.

[@andysina3494]

Amen brother...

[@kevinjohnsonel9889]

I appreciate the redundancy of the videos. It's the hypnosis I need in my life. Indifference and non compliance equals women attracted to you. Repeat......

[@KENESEAA]

This is the most red pill way of saying “be yourself”😂

[@yukonsteppa]

a lot of people that are themselves are pussies so it's more so become the best version of yourself, which 90%+ people aren't.

[@michaelmordi7356]

Leading a woman is actually leading urself............greatest quote in this video

[@Justin-kn6dp]

Great vid! I've dialed myself in spiritually and my whole life has gotten better. I never feel under pressure anymore. Indifference and detachment from outcomes is life changing.

[@dmuzik3740]

Leading a woman means your actually leading yourself 💯💯💯

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

**TOUCHDOWN!!!**

[@ClaytonMacDonald-r5w]

Thank you 🙏. This is a very powerful message that speaks to the core essence of masculinity. Amen, brother

[@toptiercrip]

No emotions = no desire for her

[@AphroLatinX]

Emotions = no desire

[@HakeemNana-mc9cz]

But incongruence just sounds like you are being predictable

[@PremiumUserUltra]

​@HakeemNana-mc9cz theres a difference, being is not actions. Being is being.

[@Trialbyfire9]

It’s true man unless you want broken woman

[@regbanks7888]

No emotions also equal not getting attached. Which makes it even better and easier to move on

[@moheganson]

There’s never been a girl I’ve “really” liked. All I care about is myself, money, and seeing the world… and getting laid whenever Personally, I find the female sex annoying AF and the only woman I ever really loved is my Mom. Happy Mother’s Day 🌸

[@trudy-annsmall9600]

Maybe you are secretly into men...just saying

[@alexicanyeet9734]

Holy shit I’m not the only one I’m simply not the relationship type of guy

[@trudy-annsmall9600]

Maybe you are secretly into men....just saying

[@officialjiggyworld3555]

😂😂😂😂 aye man mama plate hit different especially after a blunt

[@susanna5864]

You described it yourself. Your mother wound. It makes men either the “playboy” aka emotionally a forever boy or gay cause he’s unable to love any other woman other than his mom. This applies to both genders & ruins way too many relationships.

[@truthmanifestingtruth]

Right on target!…“Leading a woman means you lead yourself!” Flesh and blood hath not revealed that to you, Bro!✊🏾

[@WoWTips4u]

11:40 - A good example of this is when your girl will tell you to snooze the alarm so you don't go to the gym and instead stay in bed to cuddle with her. DO NOT DO THIS! GO TO THE GYM!

[@Bruh-Moment435]

Idk how I got to this part of KZbin but I think the kind of woman you want to have as your life partner and wife who you cherish shouldn't want you as an emotionless robot. I think of myself as pretty masculine, im a volunteer firefighter trying to go for career, I've had numerous occasions where I needed to physically protect others from harm from attackers, so my girlfriend feels safe with me and can rely on me. Despite that I tell her my feelings, my wants, and desires and its only made us closer. She constantly tells me and SHOWS me how much she appreciates my openness because I am still able to be her rock whenever shit hits the fan

[@thomastom4232]

Brilliant video! Most men are truly oblivious to this and are barely capable of understanding the message

[@ricktruth5891]

I am a man twice you're age, and have learned a lot. Thank you

[@kona744]

Finding your god given purpose, Casey you are brilliant. I am living this. Thank you.

[@munirabdii3318]

This is a great video cuz it teaches how to have supreme confidence.Confidence is being conpletely fine with yourself no matter your flaws,and it cant be bought or build.It can only be achieved.

[@EmpoweredTravels]

I noticed that when you start seeing a woman, you're on a countdown until that woman flips out for no apparent reason. When I look back, every woman did this. It's interesting hearing Casey put into words as to why they do it. Whenever I stood my ground and ignored them, they came back around and acted like nothing happened. Women...

[@mat7083]

And what if someone goes, “Oh, that’s because you only met the shallow, toxic, insecure young women. There are plenty of women who are not like the ones you experienced.”

[@EmpoweredTravels]

@mat7083 I would tell them to go date or interact with as many women as they can and they'll see. It won't matter if they grew up in a great family, went to church, or have college degrees. They all will do something out of the blue that will push your buttons or test you. Obviously, some will have better attitudes than others but that perfect Disney princess doesn't exist.

[@mat7083]

@@EmpoweredTravels A woman tried to fight with me posing the statement I posted. “As a woman”, she was mad at the advice I was giving to “Scott” and tried to invalidate it by nullifying my experiences with women. I just told her I heard it all before

[@jayy7712]

Even noticed this with my mom. African mom really helped me understand why women do the dumb shit they do

[@versedwell]

I was with a girl for 2 years. She was IN LOVE with me, and I appreciate her for that. However, I broke up with her because I was getting too comfortable and ignoring my writing, KZbin channel, etc. In the course of one of our fights about this, she looked down at the ground and said, "You're a real man." Even though it hurt because we were a good couple, it was great to hear her say I was a real man because I was going for my purpose. 💯♂️💪

[@se78836]

One of your best ever videos. It always used to baffle me how quickly women would dump me if I showed even a hint of incongruence. I now know this is hardwired into them and not a rational decision. If you’re not the BEST she can possibly do, you’re out

[@SubodhR.12421]

Bro...thts my Story... Thanks 😂....I needed that.

[@88ST3V307]

God bless you Casey! You make SO much sense!

[@frankthetank3649]

This man speaks the truth 💯 I literally learned exactly what he said the hard way and there is no way around it. You have to be on your shit above all

[@SxlMcMartinz23057]

You kind of hit the nail on the head about what I was thinking. It's about concentration. Not to let your guard down. To watch yourself. She was thinking while he watched the video: the times I have wanted to give myself a damn for having lost my way. I am someone inherently, avoidant, introspective, I have a very rich inner world, I am what they now describe as Sigma. It has happened to me that young women begin to get desperate to get me to talk, to which I reluctantly agree. Soon they start giving me room glances, flirting, trying to suggest sexual things to me...but I start to lose who I am...I start giving them attention, matching interest, and it's a matter of time before everything falls apart. And I soon regret having ever given them unrestricted attention. Without taking into account the fact that this is a game in which self-control must be maintained... that although one would like to show oneself as one is and say: at first I was not interested in you but you managed to capture my attention... let's put the mutual interest at the same time. level without hiding anything from us. No games, to be honest. This doesn't work like that...and it didn't happen just once but 10 or 15 times...so many times to say there's no point. If you don't have game and you don't monitor yourself, sooner or later, she will leave you for someone else... and it will hurt your pride.

[@AJ-ey4ev]

What I got out of this is basically we need to just treat them like a children

[@paulkieffer1189]

This is completely wrong & completely correct. The part that is wrong is when no emotion is conveyed the woman will never like you. Never - they have to feel emotion

[@Natey_B]

the only authentic youtuber out here when it comes to women. Props to you casey

[@alexj1897]

The cold hard truth bombs from Casey continue.

[@big_red_machine3547]

Totally making sense re: Adam and Eve. Loving these presentations

[@ivanjco72]

You can only do that through mental discipline and learning to master your own sexual desire. It's not an easy task, don't delude yourselves

[@brianrowe2676]

Good shit bro! You have it down to a science... not sure how much deeper you can get

[@jmorefit1]

Wow Casey. This video was profound!

[@theautodidacted]

Why do I feel like this guy is my old buddy. awesome material. great teaching.

[@D11111]

It signals masculinity.

[@danavharris]

EXACTLY !!!!!!! THAT IS WHAT MEN TODAY DONT GET

[@spruce5123]

True internal strength is to cultivate the ability to cognitively control your own thoughts and regulate your own emotions...... As well as to project a consistently congruent character to the world.

[@oscargonza2748]

Emotionally unavailable, you don't care that much for her because you've got interesting, important and profitable things to do

[@zaynyt3420]

CONGRUENCE but remember, If anytime you sense that your not being valued in the interaction/relationship. PULL BACK for 2 weeks or even EXIT (without pursuing for any explanation ) If it didn't change anything after you've came back Have Boundaries. At the end of the day your worthy of a respectable interaction/relationship

[@TheTradingAlchemist]

Probably the best video you've made. Internalising this is yhe game, in a nutshell

[@geoffy8245]

Most wholesome video from Casey yet. Love it

[@bhaveshtailor4554]

Everything in the video is spot on. Absolute masterclass.

[@DanielA.Slayton]

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to move on, I really loved her so much i can't stop thinking about her and the memories we shared. I've tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail. I'm frustrated, and i don't see my life with anyone else. I've done my best to get rid of the thoughts, but i can't. I don't know why I'm saying this here, but i really miss her and i wish i could get her back.

[@VictorB.Henrickson]

have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let her go. So i had to do all i could to get her back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring her back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.

[@DanielA.Slayton]

Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?

[@VictorB.Henrickson]

Her name is queen stella laveaux, and she is a great spiritual counselor who can bring back your ex.

[@DanielA.Slayton]

Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive

[@maximoledezma4283]

Bro, focus on yourself, don’t let anyone be reason of your fall. Only you allow certain people to get to you emotional. Keep your head up and keep moving on bro 👍🏽

[@Ricky-G99]

Guys, in a nutshell the woman wants a high speed train that's absolutely unstoppable and won't wait for anyone if they don't come in time and will break through anything you put on the rail in front of him. that train is 100% surely will go to it's defined destination will solely go on the rail can't go on the road or any other thing other than the rail, the girl's tests to deviate you from your purpose and all kind of stoicity and indifference tests is just her wanting to make sure that you're 100% the train I've just described. internalize this scenario and align all your actions to it. Casey is a G for debunking the superficiality of women's behavior and revealing the nitty gritty of what's happening in the real ground. Would love to hear your opinion about this Casey.

[@RETAINGANG16]

Great example is AGENT 47 from the movie HitMan

[@YoNevNo]

This is a lot better content than the last I watched. Good one Casey.

[@GervazioKaminga]

This is Gold info from uncle C thanks Casey

[@rohana403]

This is eye opening ! Thanks a ton for this, needed this so much, lots of love ❤️

[@marvincalloway4298]

I needed to hear this

[@ATLCane]

this was a banger - hit the nail on the head

[@wallstreets7357]

oh shit dude so i should just be who i am.. good advice

[@chetanscut]

I have experienced ninety percent of the things you teach Casey. I really appreciate you for passing this knowledge to others.

[@dannyrwagamba]

Casey's spittin straight facts right here. Thanks for the content G!

[@capitalistic]

I believe that this video is the best video of you in 2024. No doubt in my mind.

[@davidlewis3344]

Thanks

[@cy_young_9104]

I needed this video. I just went through this. Glad to know I played it correctly.

[@KalikadeviSharma]

If u aint attached to any u get everything

[@mattg8516]

Towards the end of the video, Casey says “when she looks at you, she needs to say I’ve never found anybody like this in my entire life”… That is probably one, if not the best things you could ever hear her say..

[@nightguy5967]

I like how this works both ways. If she isn't consistent physically, then I guess I'll be leaving too

[@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence]

Wow, I think you’ve really dialed it in on this one.

[@cripbk2147]

Your story of your friend is exactly like mines bro. Exactly like mines. I never flirt with this chick but she the one that pursues me.

[@mohammadhashas4374]

This voideo is the deepest

[@mpumelelobeyers957]

Unk Ceeee background looking G💯💯

[@alexleggett6270]

When you are solid as a rock the femine women appear. When you are weak and maliable the boss babes start showing up. I notice many boss babe type of women like to call apha men toxic and praise weak men that they are in relationships with. Other weak men hear these boss babes praising and promoting the traits of the weak men they are with and they think thats how they need to behave in order to get a woman. It creates confusion and chaos in the sexual marketplace. I'd rather be an asshole alpha with a sweet feminine woman than a beta with a boss babe.

[@createproduce1222]

As I said many years ago under the moniker AH1, to test your frame or resolve, a woman will try to change you. If she succeeds, you are no longer the man she was attracted to or fell in love with. As now a different man, is it any wonder that the love and/or attraction no longer exists and she exits.

[@caseymaurer5450]

Your videos get better and better in their own different ways. This one though, this is it.

[@mhfe1]

I think this guy reached his peak when he said "stop trying to please women" that was the absolute peak of his career.

[@MbusoAfrika]

100% True. Everything Casey said in this video is true.

[@Oliver_Kaiser]

Could you do a video about social media presence like should you use your real namen or be more mysterious, post lots or post less and what fits to what type of man

[@xortxtreamoffroadtrucks5652]

That’s how I fucked up thank you for all the knowledge and wisdom

[@mohammedgharad7116]

Be detached, so indifferent to her actions and beauty. Focus on ur goals and purpose. Always do the thing that needs to be done, regardless of whether it makes her happy or not. Always be urself and never change or bend ur self for a woman

[@ivaldirbatalha5436]

2 months ago, in a bus. I was just sat down, handling my business, then a girl sits next to me. I just kept like looking at the window and stuff, i wasn't even trying to play games or anything, i just acted indifferent and talked calm, altho the girl was cute. She starts a convo with me, then she asks me to take my bag so she could use it as a pillow, i was like aight. Then couple minutes passes, she just straight up gives me her phone and asks me for instagram, facebook and all 😂. following that, she purposely misses her second bus just to go stay next to me at my other bus stop and talk to me. Then the following days after she started messaging me non stop, i fucked it up by starting to get to clingy. Learn from the mistake of others boys, keep your frame and identity at all times, if you change it after seeing that a girl likes you that will be you're biggest fuck up, she likes your identity as she meet you, keep it as it is(if she's really into you she will do most of the work, like in Casey's story, the girl will hit on you non stop and escalate).

[@JohnDoe-pd4jo]

They aren’t interested in getting to know the real you. Only an image, a reputation, a shell of what the actual man is and what you could do for them.

[@RETAINGANG16]

​@JohnDoe-pd4jo everything he said isn't for her though. Yes,your correct. But keeping your identity and being purpose driven is for you and your sanity which attracts women.

[@someguyfromcali]

Hey Casey, I’ve been watching your videos for a couple of weeks now and I like a lot of what you have to say. It’s led to some good convos with my friends as I’ve shared some of your videos with them. You’ve brought up God in some of your other videos and in this one you’re highlighting our “God-given” purpose. When we’re intently focusing on that purpose and when that pursuit is congruent with who we are we end up being “emotionally unavailable” in a sense that comes off as attractive. Great point, and I like how you got there. My Question/future video topic: If you were to pour your dating/women knowledge through a “what would Jesus do filter” what would emerge? My ultimate goal is to love people well, but to summarize a lot of your videos I think you would say: whoever loves the other person in the relationship less has the power in that relationship…

[@jestubbs69]

Word mah bruthuh.

[@dreambeliever3652]

Dude. Totally nailed it again!!!

[@domjr9018]

You dont have to be emotionally unavailable all the time other wise she will lose desire for you..push and pull is very effective way to use ..it works everytime..if you care or show that you love her in the other day you must pull back your attention and love ..its a basic strategy 😊

[@meme-zv7kw]

I learned this lesson I had to go thru it and make this mistake in order to learn. I understand it know

[@BEEBETSSPORTS]

This is one of your best videos

[@dedrickpatterson9]

Be your natural self right or wrong and just say f**k it.. I'm me! Exactly Right..👍

[@Eugenejones-e7l]

Casey is the bomb!Wow!

[@SparkingRelativity]

The man the myth. The legend

[@BreathworkBeats]

Super high level CZ. Lfg ✝️🍎

[@samgebhardt5135]

Next level man. This hit home.

[@saelrepresentativite1180]

one of your best brother

[@realsajat]

excellent video 💌

[@robinlarabi]

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@guru_bro]

I am greateful to watch this video.

[@mikecalbi9002]

You got it. Congruent identity

[@KidCrowder]

What an evolution of game content delivery: Heart to heart talks in a bathrobe ------> Teaching on a white board ------> Outdoor heart to heart talks in a hat and sunglasses The outdoor talks: Real life stories, experiences of game application and examples coming from the bottom of the heart

[@stalinbeltran4955]

This is deep

[@mikeyspice250]

I live in the UK The HOST as usual is right. I've seen b4!! Now if a female likes you straight off the bat ie immediately for whatever reason. Then you can be just YOU......but don't forget if your not what she thought ie later on down the line or in a week because you bombard her with texts etc beginning for her attention then we as guys get rejected!!! Messed up I know but a female needs that whatever/masculine to stimulate her emotions for her to want to consistently see him. For example I have a female who I've said from the beginning more than likely I will be by myself ie not looking to rush into anything. I've also said if you meet someone & you like him, do what your doing. Anyhow she told me she exchanged numbers with a guy & he text her 10 x & whatever the texts said, she didn't respond or at least that's what she told me but either way she was switched off to him!! Luckily I don't always hug females like people do, I'm intermittent about it ie when I'm in the mood to do do, although yes I have now & then. When females don't show me enough interest after I know I can go up to her anytime anyway or I know people she knows, if she pulls away I let it fall away. Sometimes they instigate it with me brief & expect me to chase but I ain't. I just role how I role already knowing she likes me because she's basically told me or I've mentioned sex & told she don't mind. My pet annoyance is when they blow hot & cold....I just do same thing .. Messed up When you operate this way with OLDER FEMALES it does not always work... or should I say not immediately she may still come up give you consistent hugs in passing & I walk on & every now & then I test & know she wants me. It just depends if I'm in the mood.

[@Pedritox0953]

Great video!

[@777skiiii7]

This is TRUTH, ZANDER one of the realest KZbin not only in this space, but on this app in general

[@rod1147]

One would think that she got the validation she wanted, but in all actuality she realized he couldn't validate her, so there was nothing to pursue and dropped him

[@Re-DeclarationOfIndependence]

Very good points