Why Women Sleep With The Guy Who Ignores Them (not what you think)

[@LimaFoxtrot_98]

I think there’s a difference between ignoring and genuinely being busy. If you are busy, this has the same effect on women as ignoring them. Create a life around your purpose, and don’t put your eggs all in one basket. You will attract women in this same way but ethically.

[@smashedpumpking]

Yes, 100%. Women will know if you're just deliberately ignoring them as a tactic

[@joebeta1837]

If only it was true what you said in my life...

[@jonthomson9262]

Its not actually ignoring her.........simply you appearing not to notice as you do your regular. Of course she must already have high attraction for you.

[@jonthomson9262]

​@@smashedpumpkingno they wont know.......but remember,its not ignoring them......its just "not noticing" them. Thats all.

[@JustaNobody-j8x]

So ignoring women makes them want you… I guess that explains why my phone is quieter than a library on a Friday night.

[@nikosniko7092]

I love going to the library on Friday nights peaceful

[@IceBaby775]

Women don’t sleep with guys who ignore them, yeah it sounds cool but it’s not true

[@BigG6179]

Women like guys that are driven chasing their passion in life. Thus, the guy would ignore them and tell them that he is busy because he is out trying in life. Women do not want to sleep with the guy that makes 0 contact with them. They want the guy that talks to them that they have a crush on but he is out crushing it.

[@jessekuchinski1172]

Thats good though!

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

My phone is so quiet you can hear a mouse pissing on cotton

[@nomadman5288]

Mind games is a weak man's game; his actions stem from his fear of losing. Honesty and directness is a strong man's game; his actions stem from his willingness to lose. Getting women is just like playing a sport in that you have to be willing to lose if you want to play. What happens when you lose in a sport? You take it in and you learn from it. You improve your skills, get back out there and play again. This is how life goes. You're not going to win every time and you have to accept that.

[@MontelQ]

Great perspective

[@jonthomson9262]

In a way i agree with you.......but once you have advanced knowledge of female nature......you will umderstand that.a rather large percentage of women want of even NEED you to play mind games with them,unless she is down for a one night stand.

[@jonthomson9262]

By the way........sports is a game. Do you get what im saying. The game is mental/conversational.

[@Pedro_Paulo_Castro]

After a certain amount of losses and wins you learn that women do need the emotional highs and lows. If you don't provide it, they will either manufacture it or start looking elsewhere. You don't need to play games, just always do 100% exactly what you want and don't hold back. ALL women are suckers for thrills in romantic relationships. If you ignore that fact, it's at your own risk

[@jonthomson9262]

@@Pedro_Paulo_Castro easier solution. Keep it recreational with women 100% of the time. Remain emotionally detached AT ALL TIMES,AND NEVER,EVER COMMIT TO ANYTHING SERIOUS. Remember,she isnt yours,its just your turn.

[@SigmaAlpha3295]

If you treat her like a celebrity, she will treat you like a fan 🤙🏼

[@samuelevander9823]

Nah, you're right on the money. That dark triad short-term seduction & hookups only works on immature or damaged girls. Or even good women. You can corrupt some of them. But it doesn't establish a healthy relationship with you two. Meanwhile the slow courtship with the right woman has the chance to create a strong emotional connection before any sex is even on the table. And that's the perfect relationship in the end.

[@-lord1754]

Yup. I know some dudes who do the deed with their girl on like the 2nd or 3rd date 😐

[@watch3r1]

Quick observation: bold of you to assume that a dark triad laden dude wants a "healthy" relationship with a woman. Or that this "healthy" concept means the same to him as it does to you or me or someone else. And yes, those fucked up tactics work on many girls, that's how some (many?) of them become "damaged", unfortunately.

[@dobsok84]

Slow courtship is how you get friendzoned, or looked at like a chump and used as a beta provider. It is not how you cultivate desire. You're still buying into the Disney hallmark shit

[@standardofexcellence]

It's a rewarding progression of organic sexual tension

[@Tyler-wl8kq]

Dark triad traits like ignoring ONLY works on damage women guaranteed, if you just want to hit it and quit it than absolutely, if you want anything remotely solid nope

[@godsbruh]

non virgin=damaged

[@brocklanders3616]

I'm LFA's age with similar experience levels. I can tell you from dealing with over a 100 women, 90% of them are damaged in some way. Most from previous men, some from daddy issues or mental health issues. Even if you're what society deems a high value man, it ain't that easy to find a good one. If you're like most dudes, average looks n status. You're looking for a miracle to happen. I'm not pessimistic, I'm a realist.

[@chriskozak7356]

Facts​@@brocklanders3616

[@busybecomingmyself]

​@@brocklanders3616 I agree on the rarity. It's far easier to think you're levelling up because you're able to have sex with 8s and 9s but almost none of them are capable of a relationship (or else they would be married young and off the market). I changed my strategy from trying to find the hottest girls possible and then screening out the ones with personality issues, to simply screening for who would be a good mother to my children as long as she is attractive enough.

[@LetsGo_Brandon]

@@brocklanders3616 Welcome to modernity.

[@ElJuli24]

From my point of view , when you ignore her , you're showing you have self-control and self-respect , youre showing you dont need to show hunger gor every woman you see , you know your worth and you know there are plenty of woman around , that you dont need to chase all of them . And paradoxically this may attract more woman because you're stepping outside the crowd . Self-control is a powerful tool.

[@JustaNobody-j8x]

I don’t know about manipulative tactics because I can’t even manipulate my microwave into not burning my popcorn.

[@ACEDIAMOND666]

Ah...yes....the dreaded slaving over a hot microwave for a snack....

[@standardofexcellence]

I make perfect popcorn bro, key is don't let more than 2 seconds to between a pop and usually 1:37 is key No less, very little more

[@MattyLiam333]

This is spot on. However most guys don't experience this. It is what it is.

[@liverfailure1597]

It's true. Sometimes I think I'm the only one, but it's really about 90% of guys

[@dissinlol]

Most guys dont have body game

[@Joseph66459]

This guy gets it 💯. Love all your videos man, keep on keeping on.

[@AdamGoulett]

I do get better results when I ignore them, which is still nothing, but they seem to continue liking me that way. And I don't do it for a one night stand.

[@CxerRy96]

Ignoring is just such a bad phrase and framing for it, the point is always to have abundance and not come off as needy and desperate...if you can take that 5 mins gym conversation and NOT immediately beg for her Insta you're already elevated to "not a creep" status and have risen to the rank of "guy I know at the gym"

[@jonthomson9262]

Actually the right phrase for it is..........."Appearing not to notice her,while doing your regular"

[@Kodreanu23]

In other words, ignoring her works only if she is interested.

[@LFA]

It’s not even the ignoring that causes it. It’s the dread.

[@standardofexcellence]

I ignored a girl that was probably my type in a coffee shop, I was legit sick of people anyways as I don't like excessive likes in conversation so I was busy and actually stimulated by other things. I didn't realize it at the time because I didn't care I could only tell her getting closer to me almost out of wanting my attention. She had dark hair and probably was an onlyfans girl. It reminded me of what I naturally was and should be all the time is naturally important instead of what others think it should be. I have leveled up physically and emotionally sense. There was a girl with her friends that was probably 17 tops talking about me with her friends easy. Totally could've smashed but I was more distraught that a girl that looked barely 15 was so raunchy in speech. Most dudes would kill for that but she is still underage and it's not a natural sexual progression. Opportunities are out there but they come not how you expect or when so always be you and at your best.

[@TRAHCAHAYA]

​@@standardofexcellence You are right.

[@Cynique_savant]

It's more like nonchalance, you don't care either way if she's giddy about you or not,

[@SB-gy2vx]

Bro the way you say "informative" gets me everytime x'D

[@scuffediceposeidon9178]

*I N T E R S E C T*

[@TheDopedemon69]

Ignoring women definitely works. I've seen some women I have been interested In go crazy for the guy who ignores them. They will complain they threaten to leave him but always they are at that guys beck and call. If anything it takes strength to fight the urge not to ignore a woman. Make her earn your attention. Too may guys give it out for free. What some one gets for free they often do not value as much as if they worked for it.

[@yellowquantum4240]

Spot on LFA ! Relationship are organic and spontaneous. If the connection is solid no need for horseshit😮!

[@corneliuskeyes1]

Woman falls in love quickly and that's why the body count grows quickly.

[@yellowquantum4240]

Body count is in part to their stupid , silly damage friends. Always gossiping and waisting time that's the why. Just an opinion bro!

[@LetsGo_Brandon]

That's because women are supposed to be attached young. Modern society has forced them into labor and made them wait, and wait, and wait. They are most fertile in their early 20s, which used to be easy to provide for as a simple working man.

[@jonthomson9262]

Naw,falling in love quickly has little to do with body count......she just lacks sexual self control. In other words,she is just a 304 that lacks SHAME......LONG GONE are the days where a woman actually has to get to know you,then fall in love with you,then she gives up sex. If she is horny,and your her type and you have proper masculine enery and a smooth mouthpiece,legs spread rather quickly in most cases. 😅😂

[@cmr1127]

I really enjoy this channel..been watching red pill content for about 2 years now,and had some red pill rage,but this channel is refreshing thanks bud

[@BigG6179]

Well a lot of red pill content is actually trash advice that keeps you in a loop. Honestly most women are good women...some just need some guidance to reach their full potential.

[@cmr1127]

@@BigG6179 I just chose the wrong ones in my 20s ,and now at 37 I'm paying for it dearly..my only option now is teaching my 2 boys to not make the same mistakes

[@crylikewolf]

Last Friday I went to a concert with a girl I’ve been talking to online for 2 years. We have so much in common and finally decided to meet in person. She lives an hour away but made the effort to come see me. After the concert, we spent 2 couple of hours at a fair, just talking, eating, and walking around. Everything was great, but when it came time to say goodbye, I got nervous. I hesitated to make a move, and she playfully called me a weirdo, but I could tell it threw off the vibe. The next day, she sent me a video of her cats, like she usually does, but after I responded, she went silent for 3 days. It made me realize that after turning 30 last year and isolating myself from friends, family, and dating, I wasn’t fully present on our date. I’ve been living through social media and hadn’t socialized in person in a long time. This messed with my head, and I even deactivated my Instagram the day after the concert to reset. Do I explain what happened (although she might not see it as a big deal) and why I was off that day, or just let it go and move on?

[@Beezy466]

This is one of the smartest men i ever watched on KZbin, every thing you say is 100% accurate thanks for the wisdom bro ✊🏾

[@BigG6179]

Guys really....watch the whole video. He is not telling you to just ignore woman. He is telling you to have so much going for you in your life that your busy and they get attracted to that you are on your life's mission. I see so many people commenting "well I have been ignoring woman for years now and they are not here" Yah your probably unattractive is the reality and figure out how to get attractive.

[@JackMorgan_RLP]

He ain’t lyin

[@DavidTheCastle]

Yup. The truth hurts. Well said.

[@monchichipower6334]

Ignore her and she’ll have your replacement filled already

[@drewmcintyre7870]

Just don’t appear DESPERATE

[@tedknight1676]

The mirror never lies.

[@nomadman5288]

Your eyes do though...

[@priyamsrivastava635]

Beating someones self-esteem is simply a narcissistic pattern.

[@zandig666]

I dont reward bad behavior is all

[@RodriguezEnterprise]

One this is certain about this message, either you get it or don’t. Other than that, whatever you decide, this message is pure gold.

[@tubularbill]

Thank you. I have said that so many times that the so-called gurus are so wrong with ignoring move.

[@SaerdnaOoOoo]

Very good video. Respect.

[@scuffediceposeidon9178]

I would add, depends where in the world you are. In Asia, Africa, South America it's not the same as here in the western part of the globe. I gave up a long time ago with females in europe and the states.

[@skatecado2897]

bro is a textbook chad

[@te9591]

No, Chads are not good. Chads are douche bags.

[@straightdownthebarrel]

Toppest of guns 💪🏼 😊

[@TotemYuri]

Bro, why do you have an avocado as your profile picture.. 😆

[@te9591]

@@TotemYuri why not?

[@will.davlin]

🧦Wool socks to sleep=20% mood increase the next day🟣⬛🟨

[@fccoz8348]

Right! So many girls i kinda get bored of end up doing the most to get at me

[@toddjacksonpoetry]

I like that you have your own mind about things and you don't hate women.

[@jovin1515]

Much luhv brother LFA the guy who gets her is the guy who relentlessly chases the vision of the man he can be for his people guys and girls love a man who says he can't be stopped whos pumped on himself who's doesn't give a f about catching feelings for her he keeps moving in life .....the guy who's catching feelings and starts to have love hearts and twinkles in his eyes the chase is up

[@mikepaul396]

another good video. of not using strategy. thanks

[@ShadowBanned-b1c]

This video was posted at the perfect time I’m currently playing this game of cat and mouse with a woman lol.

[@LFA]

Communicate what you want, stay confident, and have fun.

[@johnstephens101]

Playing cat and mouse with a woman is a fools game! You can never really tell who the cat is and who the mouse is...

[@fccoz8348]

It’s always the girls we don’t like that chase us

[@aryyahuwilliams-me1mz]

The women sleep with the guy who ignores them are more likely the ones whose fathers abandoned them who ignored them during childhood and thats what they are looking for in a man. Ones who have daddy issues. It seems that we live in a society where this is common occurrence.

[@tapera86]

you are right on the money!

[@Forestry_rl]

For example this is almost the same as being a liar, once you start there’s no back tracking, because in most cases, things built out of dishonesty and manipulation don’t usually last and will always require the fix just to temp cover things up. so it’s either you’ll always use lying as a tool to have the right of your way for the rest of your life until you burn out and crash or you forfeit everything and choose not to lie anymore and get yourself a healthy and sincere relationship.

[@JeremyPezzeca]

If a woman us attracted to you ignoring her, she is very low value despite how attractive she may be. A woman of high value who knows her worth will not care if you ignore her and actually prefer you ignore her.

[@jimdandy8996]

Corey Wayne says women fall in love slow.

[@burtongrimes2227]

In my experience and everyone is probably different. Woman always fall in love the moment I put my penis inside them. That’s why I don’t have sex casually only woman I want to have a relationship with.

[@kaijufan2]

Both Corey & LFA are the best!!

[@BuddikaChaminda-bu4ge]

Grateful video brother ♥️🙏

[@TheMrFive]

Yep that was good. Thanks Brother

[@PitbullofWallStreet]

Ignoring womin is a skill Everyman should develop. It will take you to where they crave you. #JezebelsDaughers can’t stand that.

[@budisvijestan]

I ignored a girl in the gym. Never slept with me. How tf was it supposed to happen, she does all the work?

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

Did you try talking to her?

[@budisvijestan]

@@SeanRussell-r1z obviously not

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

Maybe you should try that. Like he said in the video.

[@budisvijestan]

@@SeanRussell-r1z well too late for that

[@budisvijestan]

@@SeanRussell-r1z too late for that

[@Flymike53]

Makes sense bro thanks

[@ezrhino100]

If a woman catches feelings it doesn't matter if you talk or not.

[@alchemicalsoul]

Choose the spiritual path Learn to meditate. Slow yourself down. You'll attract a person on the same vibe. If you don't start the process of looking at why you use tactics on women, you will create chaos in yours and their lives. It's okay to practice ethics in the world. Be a hermit. Be celibate. Learn to read the energy of others and act or don't act when the opportunity arises.

[@Yo-Ah-Kim]

Where are all my retainers ??!! 💪💪🔥🔥

[@miami_vibes6955]

I hate being a good guy. I really dont like playing these games but its true how you have to treat them like this.

[@mikepro3271]

Don't know what this guy is talking about. Talked to women in the gym, but never ever they "threw themself at me" how he described. Does it work like that in the US ?

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

Everywhere. If a woman likes you all you have to do is be present.

[@RomanDiaries]

Even the implication that a lot of guys think you're a simp if you don't want to manipulate your girlfriend out of any shred of confidence...this is why so many women are wary of men.

[@mementomori5374]

Just let it all happen ! The good the bad and the ugly Let life happen because it is happening anyway

[@SBW65]

I will never understand Women. Shower them with love, they go off you. Ignore them, they're all over you like a rash 🤔

[@mrbabyhugh]

5:10 she doesnt have to have feelings for the guy for it to happen and i am not saying you're wrong either. the thing is, women are made to be attractive to a man (reason for makeup etc), so even if she doesnt like you she will still want to know you attracted. if she rejected you and you just back off, she will click in to a mode of not being attractive enough, then she start questioning herself, if she wrong about you. This can cause her to start feeling attraction to that man, even sleep with him just to get the validation that she is attractive.

[@mrbabyhugh]

this major reason some of them, if not most end up sleeping with a lot of men after a break up so she can FEEL attractive, even if she broke up for whatever reason. It's also why many find themselves at a therapist after a break up, due to estrogen they can fall in to deep depression. it's why they dont take accountability, can cause them to fall in to depression.

[@SP333DY]

women either find you physically attractive or not END OF, nothing else matters and psychology plays no part. Lookism is god and all who cope shall seethe.

[@WilliamBadmf]

💯

[@Mnorbert25]

Good point work on your social skills thanks bro !

[@jovin1515]

He ain't trynah catch feelings

[@shiftedtwistie]

There is actually quite a bit of truth to this.

[@elisatseng6286]

That is very good advice! Do not do Negging on women!

[@matthewhanson7218]

Women make things complicated. Doesn't mean you have to be. Be masculine and you will attract feminine. Moral of the video

[@alwaysgreatusa223]

So, the way you explain it, it's not really the ignoring her, as much as it is the not caring (or being indifferent ) towards her after you showed an initial interest in her, and after she already caught feelings for you. In other words, it's almost the same thing women do to men by pulling-back after the man has shown an interest in the woman. As I'm sure you know, women do this to men in order to get the leverage and make the man chase them. Of course, you made it clear that you just lost interest; but I'm wondering whether a man can really use this as an effective strategy to get women to chase him -- or sleep with him? The only reason I am doubtful is that women are super-intuitive, and so they can mostly tell when you are just faking indifference -- they seem to read our feelings and desires like an open book, whereas women are always something of a mystery to us. For example, one day this woman I know seems deeply in-love with me, the next day she seems to not even care if I'm around or not. I never know if she really cares, or is just playing with my emotions. I think she does this constant back-and-forth to keep the leverage over me. She also tries to make me jealous by sometimes overtly showing an interest in other guys. They say this is just a test, and that a man is supposed to remain stoic and not care in order to pass the test. I try not showing any emotion or jealousy when this happens, but the truth is it bothers me deep-down, so now I am trying to walk-away and detach from her completely. I know some guys who don't get jealous, and they have no problem sharing women. They just accept the fact of what they call 'female nature' -- which, according to them, is just a natural and harmless promiscuity. But I want a woman who just wants to be in an exclusive relationship with me, and not one that constantly needs to test me by trying to make me jealous, or who wants to have several guys in a rotation. Am I being realistic to want this kind of secure and exclusive relationship with a woman in the modern 'progressive' era ? Or, as a man, should I just not care (be stoic and indifferent) and accept this 'promiscuous female nature' -- where, as they say, 'it is just my turn' with her this weekend, and it will be 'another guy's turn' with her next weekend ? Any thoughts and/or advice on any of this would be very helpful and greatly appreciated. Thank You.

[@TRAHCAHAYA]

You are right.

[@patricksmith4424]

I don't know what you are talking about because i am 59 and a woman has never liked me that much. You must be in the top 10 per cent dude, well done!

[@yungcucc]

The high and low works because women like the emotional roller coaster

[@LFA]

They like when it happens naturally. They don’t like when you fake it to make it.

[@Carybackup2]

Go live soon!!

[@ModelJames13]

Yeah............ right. 🙄

[@jadezaidan6500]

Smart guy

[@hotrodtrucker88]

no woman thinks rationalyy hahahaha

[@Kevinanderson-yn9ub]

is there a rattlesnake in the background?

[@dos1763]

It’s a bug called a cicada

[@Carybackup2]

Like a grasshopper ​@@dos1763

[@dkthakur3950]

😂

[@kingoftravel]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😅🦧🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍🐍

[@scuffediceposeidon9178]

It's Trump sleeping next to Joe

[@DruuzilTechGames]

"All you have to do is talk to her". lmfao, no.

[@LFA]

Its that simple!

[@Old-Dog00]

@@LFA If you have the looks. I have been getting back into shape and noticed all of a sudden I am more attractive and I am not young.

[@brighton09100]

The truth is…. Most guys that treat woman that way have no intentions on keeping them long term. Even if they did, once she finds out what he has been doing(and believe me she will), he will be the one to get burnt in the end. This is why woman play games to test men. You can blame these douche bag one liners. They’re only good at selling a woman a dream but they can’t back it up.

[@andrecavalier2046]

Informateeeive.

[@KudziM01]

well said

[@hvdiv17]

So treat them like crap and they will love you we know this😂

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

He literally said the exact opposite. Did you even watch?

[@billhassa]

Good stuff bro I prefer direct approach though, I don’t have the attention span to be able to keep a long term conversation at the gym going and work out at the same time

[@stevewarner6621]

Spot on

[@truthbetold6496]

its funny to see people still believe in love in this day and age, while I am trying to convince my friend who is dating a married women and she keeps telling him her husband is awful etc, and sadly he believes her.

[@hotrodtrucker88]

I dint have friends hahahaha

[@SeanRussell-r1z]

Straight facts

[@endor8witch]

the definition of an alpha

[@Agentyre]

True, a Real Man. As a beta boy myself, i would rather spend my time raising up and empowered Alpha Bros than bother worrying about getting any for myself.

[@Agentyre]

as a beta boy, i just feel like Real Alpha Men like Him deserve all the variety and control in society.

[@scuffediceposeidon9178]

Cringe

[@endor8witch]

@@scuffediceposeidon9178 there's nothing more cringe than someone writing "cringe" on a comment that doesn't involve you in any way lol

[@sidgoyari6931]

LFA......🤘💪

[@kristinadk]

..... I wanna light that tiki light ..... ( and then I might concentrate on what you're saying next...) lol .... (I'm sorry but I'm a pyro..) And can't concentrate, seeing that thing not lit.... 🙄

[@g_sm0ke]

What you are saying doesn't make sense. If "normal relationships " were the way to go, the divorce rate wouldn't be so high.

[@bob995]

is that noise rattlesnakes or the lawn sprinkler?

[@anonymissed3611]

Do they fall in love quickly, deeply when running a dating app fueled roster?

[@BostonMike68]

I finally found a woman I don't have to play games with.

[@tomjannace3944]

Only a matter of time bro

[@BostonMike68]

@@tomjannace3944 then she is not the right one and I move on but I am playing negative children games. That's disfucntional behavior from broken women that you have to act like that with and I am not looking for that.

[@superwhale6665]

​@@BostonMike68She will hit you with the one two combo it's just in their nature, they don't like everything to be smooth sailing.

[@Kingg4453]

Wait for it bro its coming dont get attached thoo

[@BostonMike68]

@@Kingg4453 it's not about ignoring them, it's about giving them enough space to miss you

[@silentwalk1768]

Great vidio agree 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼💯

[@blackbuck4real]

It works. At particular times & reasons . It's up to YOU to determine or build those circumstances !

[@DalanieRayne-w4m]

🔥🚒

[@PerryNight-gc3fp]

It never worked for me

[@AirsoftOnlineShorts]

1:46 Is it really love tho?

[@bellavita3097]

🙊 giggle you are Clint Eastwood helping fellas find their way. ⬅️

[@Ghostfreak2874]

Since when LFA became such a simp... 🤨. Just joking 😄 nice video

[@mrStraker888]

Idkfa

[@saullopez3073]

You approach women at the gym?

[@LFA]

No. I just talk to them. I couldn't even tell you who approached who or if we just both ended up in the same place at the same time.

[@saullopez3073]

@@LFA hmm double edge sword for me I get the most attention at the gym from women…like a lot, but it’s the last place on earth to go talk to or approach 🤷🏻‍♂️, the gym is my sanctuary