why you get into abusive relationships (and how to avoid that)

why you get into abusive relationships (and how to avoid that) - abraham hicks ☆subtitled☆

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Күн бұрын

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@ridge7524 Жыл бұрын

💯True. That was laid out perfectly.💓🌌

@lenavoyles526 Ай бұрын

Listening to them say that she was wrong to break up with her abuser for cheating on her, that she should have stayed with him, that she should have contented herself with the attractive aspects of him while allowing him to continue to abuse her, abuse drugs, and have sex with other women behind her back, because to do otherwise is a violation of the laws of the universe is the most disturbing thing I have ever heard.

@lenavoyles526 Ай бұрын

I no longer believe that these are the words of God. No loving creator would inflict such torture on its creation.

@ladybonezz8017 10 күн бұрын

Did you watch the video? That's not at all what they said. They're basically saying it all has to do with vibration and the aspects we're focusing on. If she is focusing on the good aspects of a person more then those good aspects can become more predominant, like in the beginning when she said it was all good between them. But they said most of us have our vibration all over the place so we're attracting love hate relationships. if she had past pain and hurt in her vibration when attracting this guy then that will be a part of it. She attracted a guy who wasnt perfect for her. It was good in the beginning but she was so focused on what she wanted and having it right now without first dealing with the emotional journey that she forgot to pay attention to the warning signs. This is where discernment comes in. Now she can learn from it, pick herself up and move on knowing that theres something better for her out there. But on the other side of that coin, they're saying you cant expect someone to be exactly how you want. This is where free will comes in and That would be owning them. Now i dont necessarily agree that to expect someone to be faithful to you is to own them. But Abraham never said that she should stay with this guy and let him continue abusing her. Only that she shouldn't try to own someone and expect that person to be how she wants. If she is truly in a pure vibration she can attract what she wants in the other person while still allowing them to be who they are and it will be a perfect match. We can love people as they are and if its not a good match for a romantic relationship then thats ok and they said to not beat herself up over it. You can love someone as they are, both the dark and light aspects without getting romantically and intimately involved. It's called unconditional love for existence. At least that's how i view it.

@13101s 8 күн бұрын

@@ladybonezz8017IDK it's such a perpetual cycle... love them unconditionally without getting involved isn't really an option with a full on narcissist, they won't let you, so this leads again to why would one attract that. It took me 10 years(!!) to be able not to react to my ex narcissist and not to be attracted to him anymore because(!) I know how he is / what's real and not real. The "not getting involved part" is really the tricky point as most people act out their own patterns and roles in relationships and most don't see that, and esp not within the situation. How not to feel heartbroken, that's a good one. I have similar issues with the logic about attracting abuse, rape, being a victim. Who would ever ask for that, and there are physical consequences, too, brain changes.