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[@kathleenmcginley4827]

I love how you are doing it now, in the stable. Everybody & their brother does podcasts with the table & microphones, trying to look cool and important. You talk horses...with horses, and it's fun to see the every day working stable.

[@janicemichaloski5292]

I completely agree!!

[@LilA-zl6tf]

Me too, agree!

[@TweetyPAK7]

I agree! I love seeing an occasional horse butt or snoot. Filming in the barn is more organic and personal.

[@cattymajiv]

I think so too! ❤

[@kowgyrl]

Agreed!🤗💕

[@jojoginni]

"two months? i don't even know what happened last week" is way too relatable rn 😅

[@cathyspiller7154]

Oh yeah, like 2 days ago!

[@mickithompson5888]

lol I didn’t even realize it was Easter Sunday until well after lunchtime, once morning barn chores, riding, tack cleaning, pet care, midday mucking, wait, what were we taking about? 😅😅

[@strandgirl1000]

Me, too! I don´t even know what happened the last days!! 😂🤣

[@Maine931]

NO STUDIO!!! We LOVE the stable….

[@MichelleS-Gamer]

The stable is their studio and I would prefer it to stay that way :) 💯

[@cathyhaywood1693]

Please keep it the way it is. It's real and FRESH! Plus I love seeing glimpses of the horses!

[@annjohnson8437]

Yes, I agree! ❤

[@kathyamrine9846]

And love seeing the employees!

[@strandgirl1000]

Yass!

[@Maine931]

The overly “professional” set up and discussions are so boring. It’s why everyone quit watching Tv. We are sick of the overly produced bullsh*t. I LOVE that this podcast is so awesome!!!

[@lollylula6399]

💯

[@hollyobrien2816]

Agree! Well said.

[@lindathorn5699]

Handmade on a low scale is where the real creativity is! 👌 Fed up with mass produced fakery on a large scale.

[@nickywarner5826]

Jesse!!!! Stop it! You’re lovely, you’re wonderful, stop fretting 😄who cares if u blink or how u blink 😄 you are a glorious human being with a special soul. We love you, the horses love you. You two are wonderful together, take the best care of each other 🤩✨🌈 relax and be happy

[@ady1gilb]

💥 Sooo well said! 💥🤗

[@StanCat4]

And Matt shouldn't say, 'like a psycho'

[@marjofrance83]

@@ady1gilb Yes !!! Jesse is an unicorn !!! He's so talented and humble. I love Matt too, but Jesse.....i can"t explain myself, my english is too bad, but still.....you know what i mean .

[@klmMalaney]

Are you100% set on being in Holland? What about neighboring counties?

[@ladolcervita9721]

This format suits you both, and your/our interests. We tune in for the horses, the stables and your lives there. Broadcasting from a studio would be too sterile and boring. Keep up the great work guys!

[@TweetyPAK7]

Jesse, you are fine. If you are just yourself, it's good enough! I like the longer videos because it's like you invited someone to come over to your home and have tea and a chat...and most people visiting stay for more than 10 minutes so it's like a personal visit. Just chatter away and everyone will love it. Trust your horsey audience.

[@jgirr5824]

❤❤❤❤❤🙆‍♀️🙌

[@sunshinegal4294]

Yes, Jesse, please chatter away. I love you both but Matt is so bossy and always putting you down in his own way. I think this has affected your confidence. I love your personality, sensitivity and kindness. That goes a long way! ❤

[@StanCat4]

@@sunshinegal4294I am worried Matt has narcissistic personality (like my ex- which is why I see red flags) - it will break Jesse (as it did me); lots of similarities

[@keojiabrown6807]

​@@StanCat4slick diagnosing someone that you don't know and from only watching a video is disturbing. Stop projecting.

[@XoWarriorPriestessXo]

I totally agree, You can not call him a narcissist just from viewing videos. However, of course we all know Matt is a little bossy , Jesse knows this he's dominate nothing wrong with that. But that is why they each have there own channels.

[@-Adam-G]

i usually skip sponsors but Matt's squarespace hostage videos crack me up

[@lukespurgeon5964]

Hahaha! Squarespace hostage videos!! I'll never see them any other way now! Lol

[@21chae51]

As one who just started skiing, Matt please have some grace with Jesse! skiing can be very scary if you feel like you can't control it. And being with a group that are good at skiing puts a pressure on one❤️ Respect for doing it Jesse❤️❤️

[@gretchenrae4797]

So well said! And I’m happy to see Jesse speaking up and having a voice about being fearful. It takes a very brave person to admit that they are struggling to find balance emotionally and physically when faced with something so new and unknown. These men are both doing so well for themselves and I love the care they provide to all their furry creatures 😊

[@60Airflyte]

I’ll say it. Matt doesn’t show a lot of grace to Jesse.

[@sunshinegal4294]

Matt’s way too critical of Jesse! It’s getting annoying seeing him being so dominant over Jesse. I feel in some ways it’s breaking Jesse’s confidence or spirit. BE KIND MATT!

[@ady1gilb]

Jesse ... 🏂🏻👎🏻! Don't do that anymore. Please. 😟

[@IceAintNice]

@@60AirflyteI agree 100 percent. 🤯🤯🤯

[@bttrflymagic]

I swear one of these videos is just going to be Jesse strangling Matt 😂 The skiing story really got me feeling secondhand stress for Jesse!!

[@animallover4101]

Right !!!!

[@bonblue4993]

The mug is beautiful! Yay! Keep it like this, and show us the horses a lot!

[@sirenserenades]

37:00 - I think what Jesse is trying to say is that you can appreciate the architectures and layouts of these luxury facilities, but when you promote them on your channels you're indirectly saying you agree and support the choices they've made for the well-being (or lack there of) of their horses. So if your opinion truly is disagreeing with how some estate owners keep and manage their horses, you should not promote them on your channels, simple. EDIT: But I do appreciate your response and explanation Matt; giving a realistic view on the varying capacity to offer turnout (as an example) is a fair point. However, as you focus on the more high-end, expensive stable tours those people should have both enough space, money, staff and resources to figure out a solution where their horses can have a minimum of say 6 hours of turnout each day, training not included. Let's try and shift the focus and promote properties where the horses' welfare has been prioritized - luxury or not. You have a great and powerful platform to inspire and spread awareness if you choose to 💪

[@matt_harnacke]

I really appreciate your point of view and feedback. I hear you, I hear all of you and I will keep these things in mind moving forward.

[@tracycameron5099]

Totally agree!

[@jgirr5824]

Agree, properties do not have to be expensive to be Inspirational for best practices, the expensive ones are very interesting in their own right and serve to remind its the joy and well being of the horse which brings us the conversation in the first place. 🙏💗

[@beckymrtn81]

@@matt_harnackeI enjoy your barn tours for the architecture. I have a binder that I created 33 years ago of every design and product for my dream barn, which included living above the barn. I see how you and Jesse are with your own horses and how much importance you put on turnout. Unfortunately, not everyone knows or cares why horses need a lot of space and turnout. Thank you for addressing this.

[@paulamckibben1317]

I completely agree.. stables that focus far more on spectacular architecture than the well being of the horses for whom the stables were supposedly built really don't deserve to be promoted.. Matt and Jesse give the well-being of their horses top priority and I think Matt's time is better spent showcasing stables that share the same 'horses first' philosophy..

[@Anna-kb6or]

Can we just admire the fact when Matt was talking about those issues and feelings he has about it and Jesse was just patiently listening and giving him his understanding look? You guys are so sweet and I wish you a lot of luck with finding the right place and everything else ❤Also hoping Matt's arm will be healed completely soon and I am looking forward to next video! 😂❤

[@summerrain1579]

I love that Matt and Jesse are each others hype man. They have such a beautiful encouraging relationship. Both patient and sweet ❤❤

[@PonyTrotsky]

About increased scrutiny in equestrian sport: YES! I'm VERY glad to see it - especially in dressage. I think abuse has been rewarded for far too long, and by far too many people, both prominent and obscure. And let's face it - one of the reasons people love Matt and Jesse is their obvious love of horses. (No blue tongues and bloody sides here.) Decent people admire those who can accomplish a lot without brutality, and that's a very good and important lesson to teach.

[@charlottemacdonald4167]

I can't stop laughing ... "Men in Jeans" .and then he wore her pants ... too short! LOL! 😂😂

[@jmwjr1900]

Jesse you did great. Stop second guessing yourself. Thank you guys for bringing us up to date.

[@Studycase3000]

Jesse, I cannot speak for others, for me you are a great communicator. You are also a person who speaks volumes with body language. You are extremely polite, knowledgeable in your field and let us not forget ( I miiight speak for the masses?) you both show GREAT love and respect for your horses. Just be you.😄

[@RoseannaPonturo]

That is an amazingly beautiful mug..... Congrats to the artist!

[@cindyzanghi7192]

Stay true to yourselves,that is why we watch. We love your energy and your kindness toward horse and people.

[@thehomesteadcarlton3080]

Please do not worry about what we think and if the filming is not perfect. I feel we all will just be so excited to see your journey. It's real life, and we will just be happy for you, guy.

[@jessicahigdon3962]

Matt, you did a great job explaining the way you view the stable tours. The architecture is very beautiful, but the reality of the horse world is everyone provides care differently to their horses. I just think you did a great job explaining why you tour facilities. Well done.

[@asquithmainlines699]

Jesse, that shirt looks so good on you. It matches your calm, natural, down to earth personality so well. Word count, Jesse 250 Matt 10,000! LOL

[@ady1gilb]

How funny 😆 !!! But I gotta admit, I'm a sucker for details & our Darlin' Matt sure does fill the bill!!! 😁

[@asquithmainlines699]

@@ady1gilb Yes he is like a little tulip bud waiting to explode into spring.

[@annjohnson8437]

Well said. I agree! ❤

[@vvvvvvthfddrfc]

Guy who studied with Matt said that Matt was a very shy and quiet child as a teenager. I still can't believe him😅

[@donnapalmeri9573]

🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂 SO TRUE!!!

[@trunte4276]

I saw Jesse and Macho in Herning! I brought my american husband and his mom who was visiting in Denmark to the Friday Show, and we all enjoyed that part! Well done, Jesse.

[@nataliemichelle2848]

Fretting and exerting individuality Jesse, we love your gentleness and just your humanism. Matt's mind is always working a hundred miles an hour. The program is never boring.

[@angelarasmussen1800]

My take away is that Matt is a morning person and Jesse was still waking up. LOL

[@profe3330]

I want to see the whole Men in Black show! It looks absolutely adorable.

[@Sirius-ly]

YES!!!!

[@donnadiesburg7451]

I know! I SURELY DO ALSO.

[@ady1gilb]

Oh yeahhhhh!!!! 😁 The whole thing ... got 2 C the whole thing !!! 😁 Love ya, Jesse, & all your Soulmates!!! 💥🌞🐎💥

[@nadia2544]

I saw it in person on saturday night, he was absolutely brilliant❤

[@terrystarr2617]

Jesse, your PA must be amazing. Dropping her pants and trading with you, no question, is going above and beyond! Can't wait for the video of that show. Don't even get me started on learning to ski - I had a similar experience and I haven't done it since.

[@cattymajiv]

My 1st time was like that too, and I've seen others go thru it! People need to be MUCH more considerate of learners!

[@cathyspiller7154]

I gotta see that video!

[@lindaz1290]

I second the comment about his PA. Now that's thinking outside the box for sure!

[@JaniceSmith-xt3yo]

I went skiing once. That was enough...scary and I don't like heights either. Ski lift....no way. But Jesse, you went bungee jumping. That is brave beyond belief!!! You have my utmost respect for not being a big skiing enthusiast. But you are a "trooper" for being willing to try and be part of the group. Oh, your PA is awesome!

[@rockermystic]

Poor Jesse~ don't feel bad! I grew up near a ski resort and after hours and hours of lessons I went to tackle my first blue slope - only to have a panic attack and was carried down by mountain rescue. I was determined to conquer it so I tried again the next time we went, got off the course, accelerated waaay to fast and did three head over heels tumbles to end up right at the base of the lift, with everyone howling. Only my pride was damaged, and I've never skied since. 🤣🤣

[@kezzen3930]

Plus we love Jesse for being Jesse no need to apologise for being you.

[@jtrevm]

Keep stable. Be who you are. Simply love it. You beautiful people inspire....mwah!.

[@cattymajiv]

The snow on a blue slope high up will be rock hard, so is MUCH HARDER to ski than a blue slope down low! I feel bad for Jesse. I'm a good skier now, but I've been there.

[@letreize02]

WE DO NOT MIND ! this set up is PERFECT ;)

[@vihvaequestrian]

I don't know how important location is for you guys, but perhaps just "looking" in Germany (perhaps towards the border) could be an idea, there are so many beautiful horse proporties in Germany, perhaps with a bit more space and distance to neighbors than Netherlands. I just wanted to share that with you, I'm sure the right forever home will find you guys! ❤

[@BrooklynHudson]

Jesse, you have got to stop being so hard on yourself, sweet man

[@carolegrant1201]

I’ve ridden horses all of my life…60+ years….and nothing much scared me. When I was in high school I went skiing with my best friend and her family. I never skied before. I got to the top of the beginner slope and looked down and said “no way!” I took my skis off and walked all the way down….as all these little kids went skiing by me! I never put skis on again. Give me a horse any day!!!!! 🐴🎿

[@valcour1812]

This platform is perfect and not like others. It feels homey and friendly. 🐎

[@user-uw8ib3sw7d]

Having you in the stables makes🤗 your talks real and down to earth. Jesse, I like the shirt, and I didn’t once think you were shirtless. I’m glad that overall you had a good time skiing. Living in Colorado,we went skiing from time to time. Heights has always been a struggle for me as well, but I was determined to learn because I didn’t want to be left out. Always start your trip with a lesson. You will see that you develop muscle memory just like you do with riding horses. You just get more and more comfortable with whatever it is that you’re learning. I’m a 73 year old grandmother/great grandmother and I enjoy watching your channel so much! I can see that you both have strengths and weaknesses in different areas. You compliment each other nicely! Jesse, love you as yourself❣️

[@cattymajiv]

Brown is an awful color and no-one should ever wear it! Look at Megam Markle, who wears it a lot. It's just horrible!

[@vvvvvvthfddrfc]

@@cattymajiv 😂😂😂

[@beastscooter]

You two are gorgeous and fun, individually and together!!

[@devikaforeen7209]

Jesse was brave to tackle skiing--going down mountains when you are not feeling comfortable....

[@dcrouch1980]

The ski story with Jesse made me imagine Matt saying "Trust Me!!!" just before he pushes him down the mountain with an evil laugh. 😁 As for the turn out issue and the fancy barns there are a lot of keyboard warriors who think a horse should be wild and free because they watched a movie once and it was pretty. People think differently and they do thinks differently in different countries and areas. Only they know what works best for the horses they own. Nobody is wrong as long as the horse is well taken care of. Maybe they have a large pasture with barb wire as fencing and maybe someone else has a 1/2 acre paddock with wood fencing that the horses go out in for a bit. Who is anyone to say which one is right? You may have preferences but it is what you choose to do. Keep showing me the barns I could never afford and let me appreciate them for what they are.

[@rabarba6076]

I can feel the fright Jesse was in with skiing in the alps. Greetings from Austria!

[@kathleenclark291]

The internet is a monetized venue. Clicks bring profit and for profit anything can and will be promoted. Shock value is profitable. My respect to you both for presenting your truth and sharing your journey with responsibility. ❤❤❤

[@biolbd]

Was doing some shopping in Hunt Valley, MD here in the U.S. with my daughter and saw an ad display with Matt's face (sorry, forget what it was for). Said to my daughter, "Hey, that's the guy I watch on KZbin!" Interesting to see your other world! As far as internet reactions, people are just overwrought these days about everything. I appreciate the approach of you both.

[@kathleenwalsh7817]

That is interesting. Matt never talks about his modeling gigs. I thought he was out of it. You are right about people been stressed and overwrought.

[@charlieann456]

I love Jesse's stories. I understand them completely. I wish he would do even more of them.

[@paulamckibben1317]

Absolutely.. your stories always make sense Jesse.. you may not have the same smooth gift of gab as Matt but you are still a good communicator ❤️❤️.. English isn't your first language so give yourself a break.. you are perfect just the way you are.. ❤️😍❤️

[@brilee920]

“It was going to be like - men in jeans” 😂😂😂 ahahah you guys crack me up so much, I love how you interact with eachother!!

[@georgeabbott1329]

Jesse you are too humble… Glad to see you back 😊

[@wallyhodges]

I love these types of vids. You guys are so gorgeous, funny & inspirational. The banter between you guys is so cute and Jesse has such a look of joy and innocence on his face when you are talking Matt. It's the best thing to see. Stay safe and enjoy ur best life possible.

[@evonnepilarski5912]

I just thank the Universe that you are both here on this planet. Angels you are. We love you and are grateful for any time you’re able to dedicate to your channels. Stay healthy and keep enjoying your blessed lives!

[@michaelbrown-tf1so]

In many ways you and Jesse have a privileged/blessed life. But way over and above that, is the love, the maturity, and understanding you constantly show. Life has challenge after challenge, and the twists and turns often are frustrating. But from the "values" within your hearts, I feel a quiet confidence that your way forward will unfold. May all goodness be yours.

[@belongtobill]

“I can’t make going against how people manage their horses my whole personality cause it’s a losing battle” I know one chick who needs to hear that

[@thetenre8649]

Yes and I hope she reads this and takes note, though I doubt that will change her approach !!

[@heaven77ish]

Jesse and Matt. What I love the most is the fact you are both so at ease with each other that you can, jokingly or even not bicker and / or disagree live on your channel. That shows it is real and honest. Don't change. You are both who you your characters bounce off of each other. I am Jesse 100% and would need a Matt to push me out of my comfort zone always. This video, coming across as raw you, is one of your best yet. Love it. My take on the abuse and yard visits etc. Keep being open the exposure we have, the less abuse can be hidden. So if everyone stopped visiting yards etc, we wouldn't have that chance to create change. I'm all for every comp to have warm up and comp live filmed. That way any snippets shared can be corrected with evidence. The stress you are both under re home, must be huge so please take a moment, breathe and stay calm. Good luck guys ❤

[@jessiahstalbirds.j.794]

Life is a journey. So, enjoy the journey we only have so much control in life. Overthinking and worry are futile in the long run.

[@ivanperezlopez2062]

Very realistic talk about the horse world . I think that's important. Really.

[@jessbordeaux9845]

Jesse don't look back at the videos & scrutinize yourself. You are a beautiful human & don't be so judgemental on yourself. I love your stories & we're following fine. Such a sweet soul, worries about everyone.

[@charlieann456]

Matt, I enjoy your stable tours. I enjoy seeing what each owner does with their animals and property. I love the architecture but I also pay attention to the horses. I watch the horse's behavior around their owners and the owner's behavior as they show you their horses. I believe the stable tours give you both ideas that you may use in your future property. Perhaps, the property you seek isn't available quite yet. It will happen. Be patient. Enjoy the process.

[@Dojustdoandbe]

I love how authentic you two are…a real relationship.

[@paulahenninger]

16:02 Oh no, poor Jesse. You didn’t really start with going down the Kesselberg 😂💀. Last time I’ve been there was in February and usually the slope is really a lot of fun, but definitely not for beginners 🙈. Just a little tip for next time: Go skiing in the Ultental (Schwemmalm) instead. It’s a little bigger, the slopes are easier and it’s never overcrowded. (Hafling is btw actually where the horses are from)

[@WilsonMorales-po3rk]

Poor Jesse y'all traumatized him with the skiing 😂🥺 Jessa is mad, y'all be nice to the man!

[@rustymcnitt5508]

It is a important decision, just don't settling for something that you're not going to be happy with. You make quick decisions and then later regret it. I speak from experience. Bought our home back in 2000. Started off good, but as years have gone by its been one problem after another. Back then I was 20 years younger and able to do more. Wanted a place in the country, but husband didn't want it, mainly because of being too far from work. We've been here 23 years and now he wants to move out in the country area away from all the crazy mess going on. I still want a home in the country, but the downside is I'll be 75 in August. More major decisions. Sorry this is so long but I truly just want to give you 2 cents worth and hope it will help. You two are wonderful young men and I have the highest respect for both of you. Enough said, take care, 🫂 🤗 ❤❤Rusty in Oklahoma 😊

[@ady1gilb]

Rusty ... Been enjoying your comments for ever so long! It's nice to learn a bit of your background ! Keep commenting as yr comments are always pleasant & thoughtful & kind! 💥😁💥

[@RavenFox24]

This summer in Australia has been very unusual, I have struggled badly with the hot wet blanket weather we have had.

[@florence2095]

Where do you live in Australia ❓ I lived in Manly, NSW for 23 years & decided to move to Victoria for that exact reason. Far too hot, humidity and rain 🥵🥵🤬. I live close to the S.A. Border. Not too Hot & Not Too Cold. We don’t experience bush fires and flooding. 💜🐨🐨

[@RavenFox24]

@@florence2095I live in Campbelltown south west sydney. Good move. Im so looking forward to winter

[@lyndellcasella8702]

We live in North QLD, hotter and more humid than other states in Australia 😥

[@Amanda-pb9ry]

Hey Matt, I understand your apprehension about limiting content on properties that feature limited turnout. That said, the previous property was either out of building code or was part of the two communities exempt from the property requirements that the rest of Wellington is subject to. I used to live in the Southeast of the US but these types of zoning rules exist for a reason. This property probably got exempt because they are featured as seasonal homes for individuals that likely compete. That said, there is no one preventing anyone from using the home year round with no turnout. Almost every city or county has these requirements, and for good reason. Welfare is one reason but the amount of waste basically turns the property into nuisance with smells similar to a feedlot, of which are limited to very rural areas as they are a major source of pollution. These are the requirements from LAND DEVELOPMENT REGULATIONS OF VILLAGE OF WELLINGTON FLORIDA (current): 3. Grand Prix Farms and Grand Prix Village South shall be exempt from Table 6.8-3 and shall be developed in accordance with the approved master plan. 4. Subarea B shall be limited to four stalls per acre within all barns/stables. 5. Subarea F shall be limited to four stalls per acre, with a maximum of ten stalls per lot, within the barns/stables. When no more than two adjacent lots are under common ownership and a unity of title/control is recorded, the number of stalls shall be limited to four stalls per acre, with a maximum of 20 stalls.

[@gailsprangers9388]

You two are so funny when you banter back and forth. Great fun! I enjoy listening to you in this environment because it doesn't feel stuffy. It just feels relaxed and natural😊.

[@juliasturrus876]

I love how well spoken Matt can voice his views. It's good to be open and share opinions and also to share fears and worries. Thanks for this, guys!

[@sharonm3677]

I love watching everything you two do. I find you both very refreshing and honest. Matt, I find your stable tours wonderful and it gives people an honest view of what’s out there so they know what choices to make for themselves. Jesse your compassion, kindness and honesty is uplifting. I’m in awe seeing you work with your horses and thank you for always sharing some of your shows. I had no idea that horses could even be trained to do these things. Both of you have such engaging personalities and I enjoy you very much. Thank you. ❤❤

[@tinavonsild5860]

From denmark here. I LOVED the show (herning hest og rytter/dansk varmblod) and to see Macho. Thanks Jesse and Macho.

[@heididavis8535]

I love your stable tours. I watch them as I am designing my own farm. I can see something that is a cool feature and I can modify to my own budget. I don’t see the videos as an endorsement of how they are handling their stable management. Thank you for your update on the property search. It is frustrating to not find what you really want. Ignore people who will never be satisfied with what you are doing. You love your horses and put their welfare above all else. Hence living in the stable yard with them.

[@plarkin6433]

Be nice, Matt! Don't embarras wonderful Jesse! Hes the greatest❤ Thank you

[@kathleenwalsh7817]

Honestly I like Jesse, but this channel would be so boring without Matt.

[@LFN906]

Don’t do videos without Jesse ! I love seeing you both together . Always watching ❤

[@lindaz1290]

You two are a pleasure to watch - thank you for giving us a glimpse into your lives. It's refreshing to see two people balance one another so beautifully. You both are wise far beyond your years, and your passion for what you both do really shines through. The lack of a studio gives Unstable a more open and honest feel, but the bottom line is, do this wherever you want as long as you can be comfortable being yourselves in whatever your mood is at the moment. No apologies necessary for serious conversations - it can't always be funny. You two are great - and Jesse's cup is beautiful!

[@lynwillis-fleming8256]

I totally understand the worry about finding a suitable property. We had less than 6 months to find somewhere and ended up with a beautiful house and land but no equestrian facilities. We spoke to planning before buying but took a huge gamble buying a place with no facilities and no planning permission. It was a tough first year waiting for planning and having to compromise to meet their requirements but I now have my perfect yard and the horses are relaxed and happy here. Good luck and I hope you find your perfect place.

[@-.Lou.]

Gosh I love their energy together! So much fun to watch ☺

[@ady1gilb]

There I was, worried ... 😟 asking Matt to please take care of Jesse & don't let him get hurt & look at U !!! 💥⛷️🏂🏻🏔️👀 😧🤭☺️💥 (poor baby ... hope it heals FAST!!!😄)

[@kathleenchild]

Jesse, you did great on the ski hill for a beginner. I was told by ski patrol to get off the hill my first time out 😅 Matt, thanks for being open about the stress and anxiety you’re feeling. You both have a lot going on. I do love this style of podcast, in the stable, open and honest and just catching us up about what’s going on in your lives. I also appreciate seeing all the different stable venues in your videos. People need to put their judgments on hold and activate their curiosity instead. How else can we broaden our understanding of the world?

[@paulamckibben1317]

Jesse you are way too critical of yourself.. we love you for being you in whatever mood you're in.. authenticity is soo rare and you both have it ❤❤ Btw Jesse that colour of shirt looks great on you.. perfect with blonde hair and blue eyes.. not shirtless at all 😊 Thanks to you both for another very enjoyable video 💙💙

[@An-Ma]

Jesse, I know exactly how you felt with the skiing! I skied 3 years, but still only a beginner. The last time the lesson group left me on top of this red mountain and I had to get myself down. Never again, is all I can say. Never. Again!!!😅😅

[@pixie706]

Me too 😮. I freak out even on an icy puddle

[@hollybryant4939]

Love the stable tours. Jesse, you do just fine, you are simply being you and I think we all love you! You and I must have kindred spirits somehow! I am totally with you!!! Matt, hoping your arm heals quickly. My son had a similar "scrape" on his wrist/forearm, years ago. He still has and always will have a scar. It isn't noticeable unless you look for it and are told about it. "fond memories"...ok, not really. I can empathize with you on a move. My back was up against the wall 4 (?) years ago. I had to buy a house or face a $10K fine per day. I was given 2 weeks! At least you have a year. Not to worry. You've been looking and the right property will show up at just the right moment. Jesse seems calm which is good for you. You guys have this! Good to see you actually on here and not from a year+. I am a new fan.

[@-Adam-G]

Great to see you guys again! You don't owe us anything but always come through with openness and authenticity. Thank you. Hope your arm heals quick Matt!

[@Dustbunney54]

Mar. 28, 2024 I can NOT get enough of the two of you. You're both absolutely AMAZING people and I love to watch the way you interact with one another. I did notice, however, that Mr. Matt does most of the talking and Mr. Jesse just goes along with the conversation. 🤣🤣 Mr. Jesse seems a bit camera shy which is a shame becuz he's very photogenic (so are you Mr. Matt but you're not camera shy) Hugs for you both. 🫂🫂 Thank you for sharing your lives with your viewers. Take care.

[@maurettehanson3655]

That has always been the issue with Wellington large stables. I struggled with it when I lived there but the horses I was around were very well taken care of. It just was a realization for me that I did not want my horses to live that way.

[@Talk_4_UK]

@Matt Harnacke: I like the natural light coming from the ceiling, it gives it a very nice illumination. The lines of the horse's boxes gives it an orderly structure that works as a background. I like the colour, it is very calming. I like to see when the horses are passing as well, and people are doing things in the background, it brings the real life of the stable to us. Another way that I would find it interesting is if you would make a "box" sort of space, with glass background behind you, so we could see the horses in the fields behind you or the stables. I like to see the outdoors, or a real space and people and horses moving. I live in the city and we are "boxed" at home, so when we see your videos we can "breathe" the outdoors a bit. Like that you could be out of the way of the stables staff and have more control over the sound. But I am happy with the sound.

[@nadia2544]

I've been a fan of you guys for years and finally saw Jesse in Denmark back in march, I nearly cried when he and Macho walked out in the ring❤🥰

[@sunflowermyeyes9758]

Love the setting, love the mug of the month, love the name, love your dynamic ❤ keep it just like that ❤

[@deborahallmon1778]

Love “I am glad you know how I felt”

[@user-fg6kg1dn7w]

You two are just hilarious. The ski chat - you were just like Laurel and Hardy. So funny.

[@janettehutton8634]

Matt you’re such a worrier. You’ll find a fabulous house, the protesters will be outnumbered (by those of us who love our horses) and Jesse will ski like a pro. 😂. Love you both. ❤

[@rzl712]

I’m glad you brought up the issue with the Wellington stable tours. I agree with you and with Jesse. I’ve ridden at stables with similar or less turnout. Obviously not ideal, but very few people have access to land that is big enough for ideal turnout. It would be inaccurate to pretend like this problem doesn’t exist. I also think there’s some benefit to showing how different people do things in different places. I think you’ve made it very clear what your personal views are and you’re open about your practices. At the same time, showing off these stables could be taken as your implied endorsement. If I were you, I’d probably stick to stable tours of the very ideal, truly aspirational properties. But, the discussion/criticism in the comments sections of the Wellington tour is not necessarily a bad thing, either. Hopefully, people are learning.

[@s.patrciabrady]

Wonderful job Jesse and Macho in Men in Black❣️❣️❣️🥰🥰🥰. Matt, wishing you a quick recovery on your arm❣️ Looking for a new place will always be stressful, but hang onto as much of those things that you want and maybe think outside the box, because you just might find exactly what you're both looking for. Best wishes to both of you!!!

[@mandyguthrie1965]

I had a similar abrasion on my upper arm and elbow when my horse spooked and spun and dragged me along the arena fence last summer. I feel your pain…mine took several weeks to heal and has left a discoloured patch of skin. The healing cracking skin is painful! Love this video. Had me laughing at both of you. Xx😊

[@paulamckibben1317]

Poor you Jesse 😢.. I think I'd rather stick needles in my eyes than go skiing with 4 seasoned skiers.. the family expected too much of you.. they can't even remember what it's like for a beginner.. unintentionally unfair 🙁 We all remember who was the super brave guy in Africa!!! ❤❤❤

[@mariefreeburn8256]

Great to get an update on what you have been doing. Delighted to hear you had a great show with Macho, he’s a little darling. Aw, bless you Jesse, you were so brave going skiing in the first place, bear in mind you don’t have to waste your time on anything that you’re not enjoying! Stick to horses, much more enjoyable. 😊Matt, that arm is so sore. I hope it heals soon. Hope you find a perfect property soon. Great video as always. xx

[@davidhorwood6741]

Great to see you both. Always appreciate your frank discussion on horse welfare. Can we have you both giving an update on all your beautiful horses please?

[@janicedorsey3945]

You always take great care of your horses. Love your videos and have missed you‼️🤩🤩🤩

[@WeeltjevVanNassauw]

Hi Matt and Jesse, You are both experienced horse trainers and riders and everything you do and show on you tube, I Find extremely éducational and on à Broad scale, never boring really cool. Thé fact that there are many different people with many different opinions, I think that always exist, I would say Please do your own thing follow your own path, go for it in Life. Thank you so much for sharing, love it all.

[@patriciaruth2894]

I enjoy your podcast from the stable, it's like having a chat with friends. I also like your stable tours. I think it's interesting to see how other people keep their horses, even if I don't always agree with their set up. As you said, you learn from seeing others. I'm glad Jesse and Macho had such successful shows despite the pants mix up 😂. Good luck with your home/stable hunting! ❤❤

[@carolinebussellwalking]

I like it in your barn, listening to Jesse and his successes, yes he is humble and very creative and talented

[@carolinebussellwalking]

😅😅❤❤

[@jgirr5824]

🎶 yeah the boys are back! 💗 so grateful you're both home safely, thank you for keeping your vlogs in real life and in the stable ~ suits you and your community naturally 🙌 hope you heal very quickly Matt❤ 🥰🥰❣

[@Rosie-iy2bv]

Jesse is in an argumentative snappy mood Rare to see😮

[@annikanassi8896]

Also he is a human with feelings! Every day is not the best day in life. He is also stressed over the property finding project.

[@shinebright3789]

I think he is just very tired today. It must have been a busy month for him. Happens to the best of us ❤

[@charlieann456]

I found him to be very natural. I liked it a lot. Being real. Just like the rest of us, some days we are peppier than other days.

[@StanCat4]

Just pushing back against Matt, as he should

[@dd3wc]

You guys are quite funny to listen to when discussing certain events, etc. Congrats on the show Jesse … and you make perfect sense about your storytelling … don’t get so upset about that. You just be you … I think we can handle it and make sense of what you’re saying! As for criticism … you’re always going to get that … everyone has their own ways of doing things and/or opinions. Nobody holds it against you Matt, about the different type of stable tours … you’re just offering a look at (for some of us) how the other side lives! 😂🤣😂 To each their own … it’s not about judgement calls. No different than dog breeding kennels … some think it’s cruel to keep a dog on a kennel run … but the average breeder doesn’t … it’s the norm to them. Hopefully you’ll find a property but I do get your anxiety Matt. It’s not long before 1.5 yrs is up. Definitely it’s something you could discuss with your counsellor … techniques to de stress. None of us are truly in control of our lives … life is mostly dealing with the 10% that’s thrown at you! All the best moving forward and enjoy the Easter holiday! 🙏🙌❤️🇨🇦🍏🐴🥕🐎🍎✝️

[@suzanneseda2135]

Love you 2. This world right now needs wholesome. Jesse is right. Keep it real as you always do. ❤❤