Why you SHOULD NEVER MARRY A WOMAN WHO SCORED STRAIGHT As - Wicked Bytes

Benjamin Zulu, a psychotherapist, share the do's and don't when it comes to relationships. His perspective on women who excelled academically is shocking! Do you agree with his explanation?
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[@jacklinewangeci7546]

Anyone who is planning to host Benjamin for such topics, please make it 2hrs and above. He talks sense and i hope our young souls will have time to listen to him, i love him

[@denislivasia7423]

«The container is decorated but the content is contaminated»

[@naomiwangari4794]

Agreed

[@aishalove513]

This man is speaking facts

[@aishalove513]

knowledge and experience = wisdom

[@its_frankie]

The problem with watching Benjamin you laugh more than you listen 😂😂😂😂

[@mercywakwaini5718]

Thank you,am not the only one,hah

[@classyliz0608]

very true 😂😂😂 bt he got more sense💯

[@virginianjoki8525]

True

[@wycliffelevigan6702]

Do both laugh and listen

[@jamie1879]

I know right?

[@ilovestudying1003]

A Man who is intimidated by me is NOT my type.

[@wanjanaomi9870]

Very true.

[@digitallocations1423]

@@swiftsmith3100 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣 Don't take yourself too seriously. Utaoa mwenye utapata amebaki. Ati high value men. Mmnmscheew!

[@kalagamada175]

Lol. I wonder what kind of woman are you. Maybe you can’t even afford to buy yourself an underwear hahahah

[@Barzini548]

am so not intimidated by you

[@janetmwangi7927]

A plain A gal needs a super-sharp go-getter successful man. Character of any person is not built by their brain capacity or IQ its built on family foundation & strong values ingrained in a loving family background. For every woman God has created a man whos not challeged by her intellectual sharpness & who's able to cope with her and make a home.

[@wanjanaomi9870]

Louder. 100% true.

[@TNJ-gn2gv]

There is a verse in the Bible that says not everybody will get married even though they want to get married. That verse should be taught to girls to help them avoid the pressures of getting married and then marrying wrong or marrying incompetence.

[@sharzie2800]

@@TNJ-gn2gv which book n verse?

[@daisygloria]

Examination is not done in bedroom, it's done in boardroom....

[@redrickmunyao9264]

This man is very wise. Actually the promises made by naked people are just like those of politicians

[@amlittv254]

😂😂😂true

[@brandongoefrey1104]

Very very very true 😂😂😂

[@joywairimu2372]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@estherodanga4238]

Wacha nicheke in Chinese

[@mercyachieng2554]

Am 30 and not married i work as ahousehelp and have been leaving with my employer for eight years now.Friends and neighbors have been gossiping about me.But i love my job coz it helps me pay for my brother's school fee.I know one day all find a right person to start a life with

[@joycewanjiku8860]

Me too gal... But l am 28

[@carolm5463]

Good job Mercy. Don't let those people make you feel less about yourself. Very few people in this world can make the kind of sacrifice you have made for your brother. I respect you for that.

[@mercyachieng2554]

@@carolm5463 Thank you gal

[@eddiemwiti6679]

Actually there's this moment within 'te activists' where in order to glorify the place of career women they diminish the role women.like you or stay at home moms do. They actually perpetuate the same stereotypes for a different motive. So thanks to humans like you who can make sacrifices for others. This is not easy, so.long as it's your choice then I congratulate you and hope whoever you're doing it for realizes the importance of your sacrifice-worth more than any other achievement out there. Kudos.

[@simonmuiruri8332]

Am here waiting for you. I will pay your brothers fees

[@nicolekaranja102]

😂😂How many want to meet Benjamin Zulu's wife🤔

[@AdonisSifa]

Tuko wengi kumbe😂😂😂

[@AdonisSifa]

Tuko wengi kumbe😂😂😂

[@gloriousband-homeofgreatne8017]

🙋‍♀️

[@Wangaruro]

I Know I do lol!!

[@jakobo2824]

Hana bibi

[@eldwinhagono1250]

The speed at which Benjamin speaks his wisdom is not from this planet!😂

[@cathythuo8606]

True! He is a qualified lawyer and psychologist so his wisdom is at a different level!

[@sunammi5527]

@@cathythuo8606 this is not about qualifications but an inborn talent

[@cathythuo8606]

@@sunammi5527 absolutely true!

[@lindaayugi2439]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mwafrikahalisi2549]

@@cathythuo8606 Don't confuse intellectual qualification with wisdom! They are totally different. Intellectualism pertains to the mind (thinking) while wisdom pertains to the spirit (intuition).

[@josephmusembi4391]

Zulu should be returned to the show with a full episode to talk about relationships and maafa ya boyshaod and gaoshaod. Mimba zimesidi sana during this Covid pandemic and some couples don't know their roles in relationships leave alone marriage.

[@charlesmukuria319]

Am not judging, but this man is talking alot of sense.

[@JayDwayneShow]

True!

[@jmwangi24]

I'm judging, but I still agree.

[@firstviolin596]

It could be true but if you are a critical inclusive thinker you can pick up some bias issues

[@naomiwangari4794]

Yah.i agree

[@digitallocations1423]

Yes. He's teaching you to choose the best househelp to make your wife. If you're a competent adult, you don't need a woman to submit to you. You will tend to make good decisions in life and she will trust you, but if you're an irresponsible man you can't blame her for correcting the things you do wrong in your own home. But because you are weak men who never want to learn from your mistakes you want a wife who will rubber stamp all your bad decisions. A D+ material who will produce equally stupid children for you who will depend on you until you die.

[@mrsrosemanmamaagnes2561]

This guy should be given nation a platform I think he will save a lot of desperate and confused souls

[@08062004dwm]

Exactly

[@janet5679]

Absolutely

[@naomiwangari4794]

I second

[@EvansKNgeno]

This short video should be shared on all social media platforms, because of this wise words we are getting for free.

[@MA-kx4sx]

I love it when God says let me build your house. It is beyond everything you see or know.

[@aimeeadeti-muga8868]

"She also doesn't know why she is crying, sembuse wewe,?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣Kufdead

[@luna39900]

I got straight As we deserve love too ❤️😂

[@charlesjkyallo5835]

Hahahaha😂😂😂😂.

[@Barzini548]

straight As my type

[@jemimahchelimo956]

My Mentor Eagles Group Kirinyaga University.... Always spitting out Wisdom.

[@tonneyjoe8632]

Kingori hii masaa unatupimia sana. This guy is talking more sense than the entire BBI😂😂😂😂 This show needs more time ata kama extension ya show ingekua inaendelea KZbin.

[@kip_sang7268]

I agree with you bro ....this man talk what we need to hear for sure

[@shirufridah]

I agree 100%

[@NJOKIYULEMMOJA]

Tonney Joe 😆😆😆

[@chepkorireddah323]

For sure I wanted also to lengthy

[@CoachVioletRibu]

Kimbieni pale switch TV 'Full Circle with Joyce' playlist. You will come out feeling like you have done a relationship masterclass.

[@fifipats9092]

Lakini wanaume Ni wanaume tu, utamwambia you're still an egg anakwambia you'd make a good fry

[@yvonneanyango4731]

🐼🐼🐼😁

[@joycemathenge1553]

🤣🤣

[@sylviaachieng7299]

😂😅

[@annmaina1692]

🤣🤣🤣

[@mwangikirungoh9353]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@johngakuru6402]

Fact : don't sleep with a girl you intend to marry, cos you're teaching her what you do and she will never trust you...... Benjamin zulu 💯

[@roselineathieno6284]

True girls try to value yourself

[@youngscholar5272]

Isn't she not teaching you how loose she is?

[@cathrinemanyeruke6028]

Thank you but l didn’t sleep with my boyfriend then he go and sleep with are women then he marry her cus he said she have child with me

[@daveondiek9926]

CORRECT ✔️

[@daveondiek9926]

@@youngscholar5272 Good Question❓

[@sisu007]

THIS IS A WHOLE LESSON IN 12 MINUTES...TAKE IT IN..MAKOFI👌🏆🏆

[@hataritv8983]

This guy aongezwe kwa agenda mens conference next year

[@fifipats9092]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣ETI our 'stupid' university students are living in each other's rooms while others are busy developing Facebook

[@LerionkaLekipaika]

😂😂😂😂

[@amlittv254]

😂😂😂😂😂si we in third world country though, wenye wamedevelope fb wako way ahead of us in resources/funding projects and technology

[@mercyoola3650]

🤣🤣🤣

[@peterotiso5339]

Dr King'ori that man should be given enough airtime😜😜🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@basheybsb7919]

I am in my early 20s and I thank God for bringing me here yo watch this video.

[@simbatv4067]

There is no financial stable time only there should be an honesty financially

[@johnjuma1668]

We need an interview with Zulu's wife!

[@hagumimanarobert395]

Hahhh, it will be very owesome

[@JayDwayneShow]

😂😂😂😂

[@janewanjiruwanjiru8402]

I wish i can hv time to meet this guy for an advice..keep it guys.

[@mercifulwarrior18]

This guy is speaking the truth, that's why ladies here are bitter.

[@prisillakimani3590]

We are not bitter I like Benjamin and listen to him hos advise is superb!

[@dorothywaluvengo3085]

Bitter? Why would anyone take offence of Zulu's brilliance. He speaks the truth. You have issues you...

[@mercifulwarrior18]

Dorothy, a bigger percentage of women are bitter. It is good that women listen to a man like him.

[@gunsnroses8744]

His advice isn't all the way correct. He's insisting on certain elements not every woman subscribes to. Submission for one. Not every woman is submissive, and that's just a fact. So go date a woman whose values mirror the ones you want, and shut up about the rest that don't have the same. So while he made a good decision getting a submissive wife, he has no business talking down on the women that aren't submissive. There's someone for everyone. There's men that need their women obedient, and serving if them, and that believe in leading. A category he belongs to. And there's women that believe in the same. They should marry one another. Then there's men that don't need women to be obedient and shrink themselves to make him feel like a man. Men that don't view women in their uncompressed element as a threat or as a "disruption to nature". That's who those women he's bashing work best with. Those women he called "impractical". He should let everyone make their own choices.

[@sharzie2800]

So u support the fact that he is bringing down educated women???it's so unnecessary maybe he interacted with the wrong ones We are not all the same aii🤦

[@justinwambua]

Yes zulu, remember ur speech at kitui high school,,very motivating

[@mainakiruki4471]

This a masterpiece bro, big up

[@libanSalat]

Benjamin Zulu is the man,we need more episodes of his wisdom.👍

[@josemigel]

A golden buzzer for this show please

[@venicahondimu9380]

Wow, thanks for sharing this powerful message

[@teresagitonga8749]

Heeeee dr.kingori can finally listen to advise 😅 . Benjamin keep it up!! I wish I knew you in my twenties....

[@obarefamily]

I agree with this guy 100% a virtuos woman does not sleep with men before marriage, does not ask for money, meets for dates in public places.These kind of women make the best wives and mothers.Personal testimony!

[@justinamusyoka4986]

Say that to the teenage girls in our slum areas!

[@joywairimu2372]

Your statement does not reflect the current reality of events.......

[@petronillahpyt1511]

😂😂😂😂😂 sijui kama mliskia joke ya Willis hapo. King'ori you are mad.

[@chemutaichemu3227]

Maze I had to rewind

[@dorcaskyai8250]

🤣🤣🤣🤣I caught that!

[@vincentaswani4003]

So educative. Thank you so much Mr. Benjamin Zulu

[@stevenonyango7021]

If you are a man and you claim to have ears then this talk was for you.Thank you 🙌🏽Dr.Kingori this man has ministered to me.

[@kip_sang7268]

Honestly this is the best talk have heard this 2020

[@doreenmbaabu9237]

kindly sir.. give advice to many of us who made tht mistake already... of marrying underage while still underage..i can attest its hell on earth form of marriage bt with kids its tricky to easily walk out..worse still career n dreams ruined already. how do we bounce back to life..

[@_theboldtruth]

Men marry across and below the dominance hierarchy. Women marry across and above the dominance hierarchy. 🌺

[@ryankamau6348]

Scorecard ya C wives imepanda 👏🏽

[@cynthiawacyke8073]

The container is so decorated but the context is empty😂🙌

[@cynthiawacyke8073]

*content

[@victormagero1273]

@@cynthiawacyke8073 Hehehe!

[@mwaikadu7474]

Bring him again same topic with Pastor Tee kuna alot to learn

[@mpendamuziki]

I wish Benjamin Zulu would go head to head with Caroline Mutoko.

[@mpendamuziki]

@MarkPaul Kimani Aki let's do

[@chepkorireddah323]

Benjamin Zulu come here

[@wycliffelevigan6702]

It would be a very very interesting conversation...

[@dianaj5026]

Yesss

[@gregoryisabwa5553]

It will be fire 🔥 🔥

[@eldkibeh]

This is the best edition I've watched ever, please increase the show's time.

[@joycewanjiku8860]

Me too

[@josephinekimaro761]

" but you have graduated as a mother" OMG!😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I am on the floor

[@tracyatieno6177]

😂😂😂😂

[@carolynegichu2726]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@standlee_]

That part got me 😂😂😂

[@jacklinekaimuri9718]

This awesome u have double certificates

[@rosateresageis2148]

We must know each other before we get married

[@shamisostorey744]

I am watching you from UK 🇬🇧 You are so 👌 l am 62yrs today divorced and understand you you so right ✅

[@badmanno.1650]

This is pure gold... Wise teaching...

[@Carolsiki]

The container is sooo decorated but the content is missing🤣🤣🤣woooiie🙊🙈chisos🙆🏽‍♀️

[@mejarodri949]

Hahahaha

[@juniourx2203]

You can't bring activism in marriage

[@KelvinMusicKe]

Truths being pass with laughter. Very nice.

[@georgeavelin815]

This is sooo nice show I see my self late knowing this fantastic class

[@auraandiwoh]

This guy is extremely smart, practical and realistic, wise even, ako na channel??

[@edwinrn6282]

Enda Switch Tv you'll get more of his videos...

[@ambrosekituyi2199]

Kumbaf.

[@benardo.k8641]

i have watched it twice. he speaks what I like to hear

[@josephmusembi4391]

But would your wife like to hear that? 😂😂

[@benardo.k8641]

@@josephmusembi4391 he is not biased by the way.. He tells like it is. At some point i thought he was talking about me

[@charlesmaneno10]

Zuckerberg did not invent facebook...he got it from DARPA...Check for yourself...CIA invention. CIA is gone by 4Jan2021...Facebook will exit via 230. Checkmate

[@rogathesarwatt]

The african men want to hear this discrimination speed towards women My daughters gets A what can I do

[@charlesmaneno10]

@@rogathesarwatt God has a plan for them. Let God lead your family and your path(s) will be paved according to His Will. Trust and have Faith.

[@ejakaitmariko2574]

Benjamin Zulu is smart chap!! No wonder his views align with mine! "We agree with them in public but privately we know what we need!!"

[@fedinand6640]

"Whatever a man can do, a...." mentality 🤣🤣. True stuff 💯... Thanks Benjamin for hitting the nail on the head

[@muigainjoro9448]

I screamed 😭

[@cathythuo8606]

I absolutely love his wisdom. Introduced to him by Joyce in full circle and am hooked!!

[@arifullahabba8682]

Cathy i really wanna get to know you if you don’t mind

[@petermuhoho3780]

@@arifullahabba8682 😁😁😁 Bro making moves on KZbin hakuna chills.

[@kangethetennil4325]

😥😥😥😥Catering is not for D+ plus Materials,,usikue ivo King'ori,,some of us passed with flying colours but passion brought us to Hospitality Industry.

[@evansosusu5319]

I think he meant cooking! If you know you know catering 👌🤣🤣

[@kangethetennil4325]

We have people with Phd in Catering my friend,,am about finish my Masters,if you know you know 😂

[@FamousBerry139]

We also have journalist with Ds

[@virginiamuthoni3746]

Great advice.Benjamin Zulu is full of wisdom

[@beatricenjeru4511]

goodness! This man has so much wisdom. ..and speaks it casually with jokes.

[@justmo6896]

😂😂😂 he laughs at his jokes😂😂😂love his sense of thinking👊👏👍good job Zulu

[@allthingsengineering2121]

as a lady who got an A,this rather offensive..so you will.tell.your daughter to.get average grades so she can get married..mmmh

[@sharleenjj8548]

He said not all of them, but majority

[@mbuguanjane5612]

@@sharleenjj8548 hahahaha hio ni noma

[@everlynnjeri]

I feel you Naomi. I don't understand why my daughter, myself or any other woman should dim their light just to get a ring. I totally disagree. Secondly, I being a wife is not equivalent to being a house keeper. That statement from Zulu is offensive.

[@lydialimbzy3857]

Lol these got me laughing

[@sharzie2800]

Ikr such hypocrisy

[@Wakio231]

Benjamin Zulu 👌he is just fantastic all he says is bitter truth, I have learnt so much from him. Wisdom plus reality, mwenye maskio na asikie.

[@wisdomlife]

Yaani King'ori hata wewe umetafuta Benjamin Zulu.... He is a man to watch in this era of microwave relationships

[@washikartel]

Graduated as a mother 😂😂😂 Dr Kingori🔥🔥🔥

[@annalisekathomi2336]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I love how he talks . So much passion

[@jerryalladin3508]

You are absolutely on point🔛👌

[@fredodhiambo7612]

She doesn't know why she's crying, sembuse wewe🤣🤣

[@TopGuy360]

🤣😂

[@winnytanui9367]

Likes for Dr Kingori..he asked the right questions😊

[@muthoni1094]

His contact for consulting

[@deepsavannah9723]

Very wise guy,I'm with him

[@dianahvuyanzi1600]

Waw nice bishop benjamin we miss u with Joyce 😭😭😭🙏🙏🙏

[@dorothymwangangi7380]

My problem explained loud n clear......💯 well said Zulu

[@ongorisam1486]

6:49 😂😂😂😂😂 this more of comedy than mentorship

[@nellykaari9967]

Aki 🤣🤣🤣 but very educative

[@maashimohamedsaid1379]

This is the best thing I watched on youtube this month 😹😹🌈

[@maggierattz8552]

Bzulu is just practical and real. Saying it the way it is or should be.

[@annenjoroge9695]

Personally, I don't think there's any issue marrying a straight A's gal...we are all graced differently academically. Our intellectual capacities are also not the same. As long as you know what to do with that grade, (A,B,C,D,E,F) after school, you're on the right track. As it is, after high school, the school of life grades us all differently. E.g. I've seen straight A students make it big in life, while others can't make head or tail what to do with their A. I've also seen those who scored C's and D's etc. make it big as well, the route may be different, but they still make a good living for themselves. Character is not necessarily shaped by a grade, neither is a wife or hubby. You can have an arrogant and proud wife who got a D or A or an irresponsible, insecure man who got an A or D and the opposite can also be true. #my2cents

[@jackmuriuki754]

King'ori u r an amazing interviewer 🤣🤣🤣

[@_Mwangiphilip]

This channel and wizky tv 😂😂😂 are always my best 😂😂this is awesome👇👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWGvf5WEbruerrc

[@Silas_Wahome]

I think my problem has been explained in 15mins 🤣🤣 can i go back to high school. I swear I'll get D+

[@08062004dwm]

Tuko wengi🥺🥺

[@ellyjoygatwiri5355]

🤣🤣ati Sisi hatuna character 🤣🤣🤣

[@Silas_Wahome]

@geraldine kaari 🤣🤣🤣 imagine

[@Silas_Wahome]

@@ellyjoygatwiri5355 imagine.

[@jomo2483]

Completely agree. Unless you want stress 24/7 do that

[@marcusnkosi4383]

The interviewer is so funny 😂. I like how he comments

[@michaelollinga1397]

Ati King'ori should be legally single 😂😂😂😂

[@tonythecutartist3845]

You got me at willis🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@johnmukaru9466]

It was missed by many🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@aschlyjohnson8609]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️ Best regards from 🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪🇩🇪 it very cold here but im sweating, this psychotherapist is everything in one, i like that you cool man, continue teaching

[@annirunguofficial4625]

Very brilliant. I like the insight Zulu.

[@Lilly-hk9ql]

Whichever media Benjamin is hosted I must follow him.

[@charlesweru7787]

I just enjoyed the show and the man speaks wisdom and reality, great show

[@universaldesign4295]

The knowledge is powerful...

[@wanyamuthimookariuki2012]

Very interesting one..nice

[@KelvinWanga]

@ericomondi should definitely watch this one

[@naomiokania9931]

I know right 😂😂😂

[@Joe-ns8zb]

I would have asked you to explain Willis Raburu....Really Kingori? 😂😂😂😂

[@_Mwangiphilip]

This channel and wizky tv 😂😂😂 are always my best 😂😂this is awesome👇👇 kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWGvf5WEbruerrc

[@georgekay8985]

I was eager on that too

[@JayDwayneShow]

😂😂😂😂

[@blandinamnyinga8318]

Benjiiiii 🤣🤣🤣am learning but cracking my bones at same time.

[@rosettenamata263]

I only do the big five.... Thank you so much Benjamin Zulu

[@shemmuguna7469]

He can never be overweight😂😂

[@sheilaachieng809]

As a straight A girl umeni affect 🤣🤣🤣

[@naomilevoywa8623]

Absolutely phenomenal

[@elizabethmutheu6100]

Benjamin zulu u have helped me much .... Am much humbled sir.