Why you should stop being good.

[@AaronDoughty44]

If you're ready to join me either in person or virtual in my next live event on Dec 7th and 8th in Los Angeles to raise your vibe and step into the most magnetic version of you, grab your tickets here ➡ events.aarondoughty.com/2day-la

[@TXBro38]

V O R T E X

[@GinaR21212]

Just watch George Carlin! 🤣🤗❤️

[@mayhtoo3576]

So sounds great JJ❤

[@Roastedpotato1441]

Did you ever punch anyone in the face?

[@layneoestreich6352]

When you try to be "good" you try to be within the vision or expectations of someone else.

[@Sa_Raw]

I live my whole existence trying to be as good as possible. It's exhausting. Also, you look amazing.

[@rosvaz6795]

Admirer🎉❤😅

[@lionpikmin]

Worst part is they will still treat you like 💩 even if you're nice. Been there, done that and now I'm entering a new chapter soon.

[@Sweet_Soul631]

you got this ❤

[@lionpikmin]

@Sweet_Soul631 thanks ❤️ I was stuck in a toxic work place for three years. I tried to be the good person to find common ground with my bully. In the end, I just kept hitting a wall until they fired me along with other people who complained about the bullying in our department. It feels absolutely disgusting, but at the same time I'm glad it's coming to an end soon.

[@Sweet_Soul631]

@@lionpikmin sad to hear, but I'm sure you can manage and keep shining. you are stronger than you think ✨ I believe in you 💯💕 you got this

[@lionpikmin]

@Sweet_Soul631 thanks again for those very kind words, the feeling's mutual. ❤️ We can do this!

[@Dobermanmomma]

I feel you. Spent half my life being a good person, I won't be nice to anyone now.

[@FreedomAndPeaceChris]

I talk about the same thing on my channel. I'm glad the truth is coming to light. No more brainwashing. We deserve freedom and happiness and peace.

[@Key-Key444]

When I finally embraced my “shadow” and was coming out of being a people pleaser, my uncle made a post saying “some people are changing for the worse.” That’s not cool. Embrace all parts of you.

[@matthewgervase1251]

If you’ve spent your entire childhood and life reacting to situations being “good”. You have built years and years even decades of memory of your nervous system responding that way you can’t just “let go” a lifetime worth of trapped nervous energy stored in your system system all in one night. It took many years of repeated negative experiences to get where you are now to be stuck in such a loop of being “good” it will take a long time for you to release enough nervous energy stored inside the nervous system. For people that didn’t have much of a traumatic load can use techniques like breath work and meditation which will help them let go of the remaining trauma they had that blocked them from letting go. But for most people the reason meditation, breath work, “letting go” isn’t working for you is because you have too many blockages in your nervous system because you’ve been through more fear. A great way to learn to let go is with TRE for people that aren’t seeing results with breath work, meditation or anything else. TRE may help you learn to let go once you have released the majority of your trauma.

[@CC-ep5px]

Reminds me of when you talk about the difference from being "KIND" versus being "NICE" and maybe being good is another form of wanting to get instead of give.

[@PhysicalEntity]

Exactly. I am a kind man, not a nice guy.

[@natalienovikova2223]

😭😭😭😭😭 I can’t believe that I’ve been living my whole life like this . Love this ! I love in what tone of voice you said that “give, give, give, give” I got so frustrated with myself when I heard it ! I must have been so annoying giving and giving my whole life 🤣🤣🤣

[@DariaBusinessIT]

Recently I had a whirlpool time of being right. It affected my wellbeing and added anger. Now looking back at this month - wow, thank you God for this beautiful lesson! there is no value in being good or even right, especially prove it to someone. The only value is my soul and my heart that guide my actions, and this is where I want to be honest and where my focus should be. Thank you Aaron!

[@C-o-r-y]

Nature thrives on balance, everything exists in harmony. Strive for balance in your life, leaning too far into negativity or positivity disrupts this natural equilibrium. Balance is the essence of stability and growth.

[@virginieduc7933]

De la folie ta vidéo !!!! Ras le bol d essayer d être quelqu’un de bien !!!!!! Purée quelle prise de conscience ! So grateful merci

[@89tonstar]

This is again what Christ was talking about seek first the kingdom and his righteousness, all these things will be added unto you. We must first seek to correct to the kingdom mindset inside and then we may act in a way consistent not only with a Christ like spirit but we will be in tune with his plan(frequency for us). Otherwise we end up with a probate mind like Paul spoke about in his letters to the various churches and his testimony. The most success I have experienced in life was when I finally let go and let God/Divine/Universe/YHWY/The great I AM, etc. This include when I stopped trying to be good and finally allowed my true self ironically I believe this is the Christ conscience written in all of us. This included healing for my body and mind, I had allowed years of narcissistic abuse towards me to wreck my life and body. I healed when I let go.

[@RW-lu2rn]

What you said about integrating the positive with the negative made sense to me; the negative has to be there atleast for now but that doesn't mean that you can't include positivity.

[@miriamroche671]

Damn Aaron ur good. Uv highlighted things for me that I wasn't even aware of about myself or my past. Thank u.

[@KemmTupica]

thank you

[@suzanneballou97]

This video has helped me more than you can imagine. I'm literally in tears right now.

[@Havely777]

Be still and know you are well, guided, and protected.

[@tel1723]

Bro is totally calling me out. He not wrong

[@delfinalopez2010]

Yes😅 makes sense! Your approach is so relatable. Thank you 🙏

[@TracieTrayers84]

I’m always good and I get stomped on all the time but it’s just who I am

[@maurapajonk7919]

Thank you, Aaron!

[@maryamfallahi1991]

Thank you so much Aaron

[@aneia6353]

I am a bad girl ❤

[@Obeli.sk6]

Dirty Mary:)

[@miryana79]

Who cares,tell whoever off for being mean to you. You'll b fine 🟣 and don't feel guilty either

[@rachelb8863]

Love love love this one. And love you of course too Aaron😊 ❤❤❤❤

[@CiciAndersen]

Damn. Called OUTTTT.

[@mayhtoo3576]

..leaning on tension,let it be there❤😮

[@mayhtoo3576]

mmmakeshance 😅❤

[@anunehasinha1542]

thank you!

[@adamallisongrant]

This is fantastic! From Toronto Canada rock on

[@BerlinWall1993]

LOVE THAT CONTENT THANK YOU

[@SHAHIDGAMINGFEVER]

I remember I made a decision consciously long time back when I was a child that it's my responsibility to deal with people emotions, like to take care of them even if it's not my fault and after 20 years i could not think why it's happening I am so tired now i realise my mistake 😢

[@BooBearuser-bk8gz4ku3w]

I relate so much to this and see me in much of what you describe. These lessons are invaluable. Thank you so much! ❤

[@lilyvalley5389]

Yes darn bastards ! Idiota. You can't be a soft Christian or let people take your light & energy & power thus your future & what great things you should have accomplished. You gotta be well & not let negative in or toxic in your life. Protect your energy. You attract what you think & are. Wow tyvm for this video.

[@AmberM2023]

You always post exactly what I need to hear at exactly the right moment!

[@missquicksilver]

Everything that you are saying makes sense.

[@GoodWillHealing]

Just the right time in my life for this! Thank you :)

[@JessieG_1983]

0:19 you have the best t-shirts. Kinda jealous hahaha 😂 but look at the energy around you. Dude this awesome

[@TaylorKaycee]

Negative energy isn't an unconscious pattern, it's the evil eye and energy isn't a pattern

[@shellymyers84]

Amen Bruh!

[@CreativeCat268]

I understand your point ,but chosing myself doesn't make me bad it actually makes me good for myself and thats what it's about. I'm not active on any social media platform for 5 years and i was a very well known activist and journalist, it wasn't easy. But not being on social media makes me not think that i'm not good/bad. It makes me think that i'm less braiwashed and less influenced . I rather think about it in the terms of law of one. If i can be honest i think your overthinking it all too much and seem confused.

[@SunnyRain0614]

Thank you for making your videos cause they really help out a lot. They help me at least and I appreciate that. Thank you so much.

[@Daisy-Maisey]

Relate to this so much 😊

[@TheSoulfulArtistStudio]

Beautiful. 👌

[@ElissaNWOPrincess]

we heard you mom and dad. just do it. love, nike

[@YVR_Manuel]

Needed this

[@mayhtoo3576]

Congratulations 👏🥳👍

[@mayhtoo3576]

Welcome back JJ,Super I g😅

[@mayhtoo3576]

Lovely 🌹 🥁 🥁 JJ,prefer your own tuning orchestra former vid❤😂

[@NatoshawithanO84]

I just got in my car and wanted to put on an Aaron video, I open KZbin and here this is 😀

[@Lady.Luck.]

This is EXACTLY how my life played out

[@ShyamkrishnanNair]

Embracing my true self, flaws and all, thanks to Habit10x mindset shifts. Good riddance, people-pleasing!

[@seayaconcepts]

... thank you 💙🐚🙏🏼🌧

[@NicoleLottLife]

How interesting that I literally just meditated and had this same breakthrough- opened YT- and there this video was😂 can’t make this shit up.

[@Emagre24]

I love supporting small creators

[@mayhtoo3576]

Resonate,look cool..let's see 😮❤😅

[@bossbear1256]

Hell ya brother!!! Yes yes yes

[@Animal12353]

❤ Aaron went from zero to 100 😂🤜🤛

[@larsstougaard7097]

Soo bad 😅

[@Animal12353]

@larsstougaard7097 he went into straight up bad boy lol. I honestly thought this is some shit that would never happen 😯

[@paulvanspanje8201]

Put me on a cross😂😂😂 lol, but thank you i needed to hear this ❤

[@rosamariav_09]

Spot on

[@jacquelineallen7052]

Aaron would you ever consider doing live events in the UK in the future? Would be amazing if you did!🤩✨💫💜

[@carbearification]

New subscriber

[@kahsiam454]

I would love to go to Sedona.. keep me posted

[@claudial1240]

Needed to hear this today ❤

[@juliepelletier8948]

Vortex Tulum ! When are you coming to visit us ? That's awesome ! Will be great to meet you here ! 🎉🎉🎉

[@AmyFilieo]

OMG Thank You so much and YES it helped soooo much!!!❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥😈😈😈

[@GuyBlue78]

I’ve realized I can’t feel anger… it’s been suppressed, leaving me too quiet and overly nice. How can I reconnect with my anger to stand up for myself?

[@Y.Bergamot]

Realizing that anger is needed sometimes.

[@Mr.Honest247]

Develop boundaries and anger will develop to protect you from those boundaries from being crossed.

[@kylieburton8023]

Maybe one day you can come to Australia 🇦🇺 ❤ Also the 8th of December is my birthday 😊

[@LindaMcification]

YES!!!

[@mayhtoo3576]

....U love it😮❤

[@yearofthedragonjane88]

very valuable info

[@missquicksilver]

Why can't all people be this reasonable and balanced, hoh? Life would be so much easier. What were you like in your early twenties, Aaron? Because it is an age when young men are so angry, so easily frustrated. What was it like for you?

[@mayhtoo3576]

....it's gooooodddddd❤😅

[@Divine_Guidance_Coaching]

You were so handsome with your hair cut..... Caveman vibes I guess....

[@RosaBaron-v8i]

❤

[@WanderinLove369]

Vortex

[@dennish8552]

Hey Aaron could you please do a video on the meaning of your tattoos cuz I think they look sick! And God bless my brother I've learned so much from you and you look great love the Nirvana ❤🎉🙏

[@TornadoOfSouls777]

I'm sorry please forgive me thank you I love you ❤

[@Nate-BreakingPoint-Interactive]

Why’d you stop with the music in the background?? What was that music anyway? Gonna go back to watch some old videos just for that music track haha

[@roseillient]

🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@mayhtoo3576]

.....eaayessssss

[@dr.MadisonSoley]

Explore the forbidden book Hidden Laws Of The Game to uncover hidden truthh.

[@tel1723]

If you accept a weaker role in the pack (trying to keep peace) you give them the okay to treat you poorly

[@ordsmedensmening9702]

Could you please explain what you mean regarding reality being something personal? I am trying to comprehend how reality is something other than one thing. Something i share with everyone. Is what i only can see. Are drones being flown into and exploading people in only my reality?

[@Janejones-hz6sj]

So much happiness and joy $12k weekly returns has been life changing. AWESOME GOD I now have a house and can now afford anything for my family even with my Retirement..

[@donnadey2673]

Speak the truth

[@tristangarcia6665]

I'm the bad guy... duh

[@bbaaddangelheaven3624]

✨🙏🏼🕊💙😇✨

[@mayhtoo3576]

... mmmakeshance 😅❤

[@twelv]

❤❤

[@ninabonita892]

Because of ThEm i have to a) change my personality and b) be evel? 🙈

[@krismegood9092]

So i guess i should get drunk at work

[@etbaby6967]

How do I get a high viber app invitation?

[@doloresmurphy]

😂 any booked for New York? Come to Long Island instead of Manhattan 😂😂😂😂

[@GrimmGaming3000]

Just be evil, this is America, nobody actually believes in anything but money.

[@levolcan1117]

Well said

[@mayhtoo3576]

YayyyJJ❤🎉😂

[@mayhtoo3576]

mmmakeshance 😂

[@SunnyRain0614]

That is exactly what happens from childhood neglect, abuse, and sexual abuse CPTSD Is everywhere

[@TheDeviantWitchEtsy]

I feel like I DO fill my own cup first but doing that makes me feel bad all the time, but I keep doing it anyway. I wish it didn’t make me feel bad…

[@Badmansnipe]

You make yourself mad. You’re giving away your power with your speech patterns.

[@juliaorpheus]

I know exactly what you’re talking about. Just like anything else, when you start a new habit and pull yourself out of your comfort zone it’s going to be uncomfortable until your brain gets used to your new pattern. Just keep it up! You can make the changes you want and it will feel more natural and good with each time you practice being the new version of yourself.

[@freebird_spiritualguidance5547]

🫶

[@mayhtoo3576]

😂🎉

[@katerinaballerina9788]

You're going to make your views end up in jail.... its better to be good