Why your house is driving you crazy (the hidden cause)

Why do we always think that we'll have more time in the future!?! I can't get rid of this because I "might use it someday". It plagues us all! Today, let's talk about why we don't have time, why we keep the stuff anyway and how to finally declutter the things you aren't using (but in a safe way!).
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[@TheMinimalMom]

Thank you so much for watching, sharing and subscribing -- I'm so grateful for you!!!! Hope you have a really good day!!! - Dawn

[@lydiasalatino3765]

Hi Dawn! Subtitles are missing... for an european, when I am tired it s easier to read 😁. Thank you ❤

[@TheMinimalMom]

@@lydiasalatino3765 well that’s not ok! Thank you for letting me know, I’ll get it fixed!❤️

[@molly_frances]

Your videos are literally changing my life. I cannot thank you enough, Dawn!

[@rdb4996]

I'm so grateful for you, Dawn! 😊 I have learned a lot from you, thank you for sharing as much you do.

[@Everson1969]

Dawn, you are so inspiring!

[@jillstigs1637]

The money was gone when you bought it, not when you get rid of it.

[@TimberBlitzen]

Oh my goodness you just lifted a mental burden- I've been struggling to declutter but this changes my perspective!!

[@SARAMONTEIRO13]

Oh my god 😱 thank you so much for your comment x

[@naturenerdwi6381]

Spot on!!!! Yes!!

[@rosesprinklezz1752]

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[@susannjohansson8952]

So true! Never ever thought of it like that! I struggle with a comfychair which I just bought and doesn't work in my home but feel guilty letting go because I spent the money. This perspective really helped! 🙏

[@mwebb3014]

Incredible video Dawn!! I’m an empty nester whose husband developed early onset Parkinson’s Disease. Not at all the retired lifestyle we thought we would have. It is crucial to simplify our home to accommodate a scooter chair, wheelchair, special recliner, etc. He needs to be able to easily open cabinets and get the things he needs which translates into less stuff in the cabinets. Your encouraging words and personal example help me so much in downsizing our stuff. ❤️

[@amandazielinski3247]

That's so hard, I'm so sorry!

[@Rosa-kf6yy]

We just don't know what is in our future. It's easier to move forward without dragging so much stuff with us.

[@lizzabbott]

I’m so sorry your husband has to deal with Parkinson’s ! That’s gotta be so difficult . But good for you for making it easier by simplifying.

[@lisae9916]

❤

[@camm8832]

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[@krcl8812]

For me there's a vast difference in time and energy between having kids under 5, and school aged kids. I have a significant gap between kids and so I restarted the "littles" stage. I think people forget how busy it is to keep eyes on a toddler constantly while he or she is awake. I'm only saying this because I can't imagine if I had postpartum depression with my first and people told me "you never have more time". Yes, declutter. Yes, streamline. But parenting comes in phases and having babies, toddlers, and preschoolers are more physically demanding. I know this is just a stage again, so I'm getting all the snuggles I can. To the parents of littles, this time goes by quick. Prioritize now, but know it won't always be like this and you will, in fact, sleep again.

[@kbetz1978]

Thank you for saying this! My kids are 3&4 and I feel I barely have a minute without being called to help them in some way. Glad to hear it may get better (time wise)

[@katherinep1010]

I completely agree! My kids are 7 and 5 and the difference from just 2 years ago is HUGE. I DO have more time, and more energy to devote to other things. When we go to the park I can sit and talk with people instead of following a toddler 100% of the time so she doesn't run into the street. At home I can allow them to play in a different room, or even on a different floor from where I am and get things done or do something fun for myself sometimes.

[@sarahvincent3645]

Agree. Having littles under 5 is completely different. I think it's not that we have more time when they get old enough to be independent but our priorities just change to adapt to our family's needs and our own changing needs. Family time is more important than stuff. I used to craft. Now I have more important things to do with 4 kids.

[@elisec1309]

Thank you for this! With two children under 5 and a burnout, it sounds very nice to hear that. Although Dawn's underlying message to stop living towards a moment in the future where you supposedly have more time is also something that I learned during my burn out. Something will always come up. You need to simplify your life, not until you can just manage it, but until you can manage it AND have bandwidth to deal with things that come up!

[@Firstfalconfree]

Whew, I'm glad to read this! 🤣 We have an 8 year old, a 1.5 year old, and I'm 2nd trimester pregnant with #3. We homeschool, and I farm full-time, so I know it isn't going to get less "busy" anytime soon, but it is good to hear the reminder that these physically challenging days are not forever.

[@nicolaporch395]

I decluttered a few years ago using the Mari Kondo method. Worked a treat. What was the ONLY thing that I let go and then regretted later? A wooden spoon! I could really do with having two, instead of one. A 1 euro wooden spoon! Honestly, let go of the stuff. You might regret 1% of your decisions, but, in the meantime, you will live in an environment that is so much more peaceful.

[@carrieperrigo2319]

I find it interesting that we hold onto all the things we really don't use and deep down know we probably won't use just because someday we might use them! We are so afraid to make a mistake in our decluttering! Never mind the fact that we made tons of poor choices in buying all the stuff!

[@SF-ru3lp]

Well done Nicola! I cleared slot of stuff before a house move using Marie Kondo's method but there were still certain belongings that needed further decluttering. The "not low-hanging fruit" as mu husband kindly calls them needed some more helps... I leaned on Dana K White and Dawn's wisdom and finally we are fairly well sorted . It took a year or two more as thd new house needed jobs to be done to it so obd is "double-jobbing". I am alot wiser and mire vlesr thinking now, thank God. G Ire

[@andmelinda]

I wanted to cry when you were listing all the things we don't have time for 😭. It's all so overwhelming. Truly appreciate your guidance through all of these decisions and freedom to let things go. Love you!

[@kryxena]

I got a little misty, too. The cookbooks! I have so many, and my fantasy me uses all of them. And scrapbook paper I haven't used in at least 10 years. It really is overwhelming with how many things we wish we could do but just can't find time for.

[@rdb4996]

Your fantasy self really is tough to deal with. I only recently learnt the extent of influence this non-existing me has on the existing me 🧐

[@bernadettehawes]

Oh yes, this! The fantasy me. Who has so many interests, and therefore I would use this or that - and yet I have so much stuff it paralyses me to the extent that I am sometimes unable to function properly and do normal everyday things!

[@neonkitty6366]

Dear Bernadette, I just listened to this video and you have put into words what I could not. Paralyzed with all the stuff and not able to function normally!!! This is me! Glad to not be alone but we can get rid of this stuff!!! It is truly keeping us from living the life we want to live. Bless you dear. And Dawn, bless you for all you have and are teaching us. So many others teach how to organize it but you give us permission to let it all go!!! Praise the Lord it has got to go!!! Thank you!! Always, Val

[@SF-ru3lp]

Every blessing to you, Melinda. G Ire

[@metalheads228]

I've been in an agitated (bad) mood. I can't seem to get anything accomplished. So I started watching KZbin videos for inspiration. All they did was get on my nerves or make me feel like a failure or give me unattainable goals. I thought...I wonder if Dawn has any new videos. YEP!! Thank you. You are genuine and caring and THANK YOU! I feel so much better! 😀

[@Donnalish]

I agree, these beautiful homes, wives and mother's that look all glam, making cute and delicious things in their perfectly clean and decorated kitchens. It does make one feel inadequate even though we know it's a highlight reel. It's makes me feel a total failure on every level.

[@TheJorgSacul]

I concur- there is a moment that happens where a hobby becomes a burden, whether it's just moving on to other interests, or realizing you're collecting stuff because a friend is doing it, and it has become "keeping up with the Joneses". I'm slowly coming around to the idea of giving stuff away rather than trying to sell it to assuage the guilt of having spent money on something. Giving to someone who appreciates it "sparks joy"™ for me more than making back a few bucks.

[@amyw5647]

This comment really struck a chord with me. Past hobbies is where most if my clutter and guilt comes from. Time to let them go!

[@LilaVert-FR]

I've been a minimalist for a lot of years now. But I'm always impressed that you give us new and useful perspectives each time.

[@seaspeaktome9167]

Agreed Lila!

[@jeannieplett878]

Same!

[@kerrikeller3603]

In 1936 my grandma had a string of Christmas lights with eight light bulbs. They put them in the window so everyone could see in their small town of Calumet, OK. They were so proud of them. There were maybe 50 people in the county at that time. My Grandma lives with us now and is 99 years old and still recalls the joy of those very special Christmas lights. Small things mean a lot and we can learn from them as we have the "COSTCO" version of life now. I enjoy your work, Kerri

[@anaschulz8084]

As a child, I was taught that being wasteful was a sin. Hard to let go of that mentality but you are so right!

[@MyFocusVaries]

Someone gave me the perspective that it's wasteful to have the items unused in my storage space. By donating them and letting someone else put them to good use, that's making sure the items don't go to waste!

[@trinityriddell3296]

Yay! Thank you Dawn for working so hard to encourage us, inspire us and invite us to work for the life we want.

[@shay2218]

Well said! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

[@jacquichimes]

Love your videos - I decluttered massively 5-6 years ago and try to maintain that. My mum passed earlier this year aged 90 and one of the saddest things was clearing out all the ‘stuff’ she thought she was going to use ‘one day’.

[@alf287]

My grandmother has been gone for 16 years and she kept everything but never had anything. She saved everything for "good". She would tell us that (a new in package picture frame) she was saving g it for "good". Sadly "good" never came for her. She was a few months short of 92. She didn't have alot of stuff but she always kept all of her really nice old dress shoes in original boxes. They are still in her house today. She would keep food in the freezer forever. She wasn't a hoarder and her home was clean. She would save the Styrofoam that meat comes on for us to do crafts with. Of course she washed it. The best days. I sure miss her.

[@SueRosalie]

that "one day" just never comes. Better to face that and get rid of stuff before we get too old.

[@mompofelski4191]

Suzy Homemaker ME would USE all the cleaning supplies and bake all the goodies and try all the recipes and sew all the fabric (because she never sleeps and never gets tired and never gets interrupted and doesn't have to deal with anything but THOSE projects). Creative ME would USE all the art supplies and craft supplies and practice the piano for hours daily for the same reasons. Prepper ME would organize all the supplies and focus solely on being prepared for another great depression. Literate ME would read all the books and write a novel... ugh. I need a small army of droid clones. I cannot focus on the whole elephant - I cannot even focus on a part - that isn't how my brain works. I do utilize your 5 minute doses and float from room to room - improving each room with 5 minutes of intense adrenaline... then it ends. Thank you for not giving up on us/me. My nightstand is organized and cleared off. I have eliminated excess dishes/glasses/mixing bowls. Front room is tidy except for my husband's corner of reading materials. I make progress by tiny baby steps.

[@meh5069]

This is so me. Lately I have had to shift my perspective… I would but WILL I?

[@Donnalish]

This is me too! I just love doing so many things, especially the recipes, I have 10 new recipe books over the past year and I haven't even opened most of the books yet. I have things to sew and I want to macrame some things and upcycle some canvases and spend time with my kids and go out with my hubby and there's just NO time EVER!! 😩😩

[@neonkitty6366]

So let’s part with this stuff and live our lives, Donna. We are human beings not human “doings”!! We cannot and were not created to do it all!!!!🥰🥰

[@Donnalish]

@@neonkitty6366 you are so right and, I have been getting rid of the things, but crazily enough, it's keeping me soo busy doing that! I keep saying just one more week of getting rid and I can live my life on top of Christmas coming, getting ready for a trip, feeding everyone and trying to look after myself at the gym, which in itself leaves me exhausted! But I am nearly there.....! 🥰 And emotionally it was easier this time, I do find it hard to get rid of stuff because of the memories around these things 😭

[@neonkitty6366]

Amen. Way to go dear!!! You are doing it!!! Don’t you wish we could just work on it til it’s done without interruption I mean? I try to keep Dawn’s videos in front of me so I stay encouraged. I had a close encounter with a mouse (I commented about this in a new comment to this video) which has put a fire “under my tail” to get things off the floor, etc!!! This is my current quick goal-getting things off the floor and decluttered. Many blessings to you as you continue on this journey!!!🥰✝️

[@lindalee8952]

Hey Dawn- I love this video. I am 67 and mother of 7 grown children. I actually do feel I have more time than I used to, and I love this stage of life. BUT I find that I don’t necessarily want to go back to the hobbies I used to do before children- sewing clothes, cross-stitching, refinishing furniture. I have other things I want to do now. So there is that reason also for getting rid of stuff. Don’t assume, as I did, that once I had more time I’d go back to my previous pastimes.

[@elizabethpaul989]

I’m 66 and I am retired I spend a lot of time watching KZbin. I thought I would cook more. I dont.

[@bonniestevens6932]

I am 66 and i am working on all the sewing and craft projects that I aquired when I was working. I don't have the extra money to buy new clothes or projects. when I was working there was no time(no bandwidth)....then there's fall and all the vegetables given, that has to be processed !!!!!!

[@juliatepe5760]

Yes, me too. But every time I know the mission truck is coming to church I make yself downsize on quilting supplis. Especially those that were gifted or inherited more than a few years ago. That makes the remaining much more manageable. Thanks Dawn and congratulations!

[@siany123]

Thanks Dawn ❤️ Long time subscriber here, and my house is SO MUCH BETTER thanks to you. I also have a busy house with a young family who I homeschool, and it took me half an hour to clean yesterday! Half an hour! 🎉 My kids are happier, my husband's happier, and I'm no longer drowning in feelings of guilt and failure. THANK YOU.

[@gingerstrahan7464]

❤️

[@jasminm8784]

Oh that sounds so motivating. I hope I will reach this level too. I am a long time subscriber too but I still struggle.

[@siany123]

@@jasminm8784 keep working through the layers, soon enough you will turn a corner, and everything will just seem easier. You can do it!! ❤️

[@jasminm8784]

@@siany123 aww thank you so much for your encouragement! I think when Dawn said 'only keeping what you really use at the moment' was a good spark.

[@NovasYouTubeName]

This is great for me too thanks for the comment. Love the supportive group on here❤

[@e.victoria5151]

First of all, did Dawn’s subscriber number jump by 2k in the last few days?! Second, Dawn, do you know you have more subscribers than Joshua Becker?! NOT that it’s a thing; Joshua is literal minimalist goals 💜 Third, I followed Minimal Mom about two years ago and have seen most of the videos on the channel. However, THIS one hit home more than most. There’s not enough time, especially of we keep keeping! That’s why I continue watching these types of videos, because someone will use the correct combination of words to get the message through! I’ve been peeling the onion for six years but STILL get hung up on being wasteful and keep things I should let go of and learn from the good intentions. Thank you Dawn!

[@ninadukette3340]

Ditto.

[@denesewallace2000]

So well said!! Dawn so deserves every new subscriber and wow more than Joshua Becker!! What a great observation! I know just from your words your an awesome person! 👍👏

[@marlaedington6471]

Me too!

[@jessicabrown6943]

Such very good advice!!! Also, even if you do have more time years from now… things don’t last forever. Paint dries up, thread and material dry rot, things just don’t last forever. So if someday you do have time to craft. You’ll need new materials anyway. I was saving a bunch of paint because I genuinely do love to paint and use the paint. But the fact is that a lot of it dried up before I used it. Only keep what you’re using. And be realistic about what you can actually use. If you need more later get it then. One thing that was overwhelming to me when I decluttered my craft supplies was that I had an entire storage building FULL of it. Mostly things people had given me. I thought “I can’t get rid of all this! I could NEVER afford to buy it all again someday.” But the truth is I don’t have to buy it all again, because I don’t NEED it all. I just need enough to do one project. Then when it’s done enough for one more. I would never have enough spare time in my whole life to do enough crafts to use up a whole storage building of supplies. I wouldn’t even WANT to spend that much time on crafts. I want to spend it with my kids, and my husband, and my friends.

[@kathleengarness1660]

I am a professional artist, and work in several media. Each set of media takes up space. But you inspired me today to pull things out, declutter some paper that turned out not to be archival, resort things into better categories and containers, and now it just feels so much more manageable. Artists have a bit of a challenge because of supplies needed for production, and, in my case, teaching also, but simplifying other areas of my life has allowed me more time to make and teach art. And lift folks' spirits thereby, I've been told. :)

[@itoshiibaka8267]

Yes! I had too many different mediums, so I said, "If I have time to create, what mediums will I choose first?" And that narrowed it down a lot! I still kept more than intended, but i'm happy with the quantity and the space it occupies now. 😊

[@torrie956]

So timely. “I didn’t know” that my disabled 24 year old son would continue to need more and more care instead of gain more and more independence. “I didn’t know” that my 82 year old mom would need me to take her to more and more doctor appointments (4 hours round trip plus the appointment!) . “I didn’t know” that when I retired I was going to discover that my back and hips were going to have an abnormally fast degenerative issue that prevents me from doing the things I love. So…… you have kicked me into high gear to rid myself of the stuff I haven’t had time to enjoy and now I see that I won’t get to enjoy in the future! I need to simplify NOW while I CAN…..let someone else use things while they are useful! And realistically keep what I do have time and ability to use. The “ I didn’t know” phrase is going to really help me go through my sewing/craft areas! Great video. Gonna watch this one a few times!

[@CampbellHolli]

As a parent, I have just enough extra time to watch a Minimal Mom video! Just enough extra time to get a little inspiration from Dawn!

[@joybrown9600]

I live in a retirement community in Florida. We woke up this morning with the burden of having to get all of our outdoor stuff secured before hurricane Ian comes. For my husband and me, it was SO easy! What an object lesson for us! About half of our neighbors have "more inventory than they can manage." When you talked about you and Tom straightening the kitchen ... that's how we felt!

[@wilsonpatx]

Praying for you in Florida!

[@ceralith942]

Hope you stay safe and the storm passes without incident!

[@loriz.5771]

I just turned 60 and tjis is really beginning to sink in. Time does fly ! I look at donating as being charitable now more than being wasteful. Being mad at myself won't accomplish anything. I have several chronic conditions, and am more realistic about how much I can still do at this point. Decluttering and managing stuff takes precious energy. Thank you for the reminder and encouragement !🌹

[@sarabrook4696]

As I'm watching your video, an ad for Michael's 70% yarn sale comes on. My thoughts went to "maybe I could make it over there this week..." then I remembered what you had JUST said... I have hundreds of hours of yarn already in my closet. I won't get rid of it but it is the hobby I do the most so I plan to use it. Thanks for the reminders. We all need them, that's why we keep watching!

[@maggieschuttler1726]

Thank you for all of the encouragement. You mentioned the subscriber count at the end, I know you don’t view it as a big deal but I hope you know you deserve all of this. You’re an amazing person continuing to put great energy and content out into the world! Thank you!!

[@TheMinimalMom]

Thank you Maggie, I appreciate that!!! 🥰

[@sherriepiechowski4556]

I love this video and the fact that your mom gave some of her stamping and crafting leftovers to a local nursing home. That was so kind on her part! When my mom was in assisted living,they had a craft night every week and it would have been something so fun for them to make cards (The elderly love sending and receiving them!)

[@plumsystar]

I will admit. I need to hear you again and again the same subjects you go over in your videos. Please keep it coming. Thank you!

[@NameLikeNobodyElse]

Yes. I keep listening & piling up the info hoping it will bust out one day as momentum.😄

[@marlaedington6471]

@@NameLikeNobodyElse me too!

[@robynhansen996]

Wow, I could relate to everything you said. After being married for 55 years, we have accumulated way too much stuff. I recently donated a ton of items to our senior center but I haven't made a dent in what's here. You have inspired me to keep going ahead with decluttering. Thank you.

[@andreamiller6200]

I am really impressed at the montage - I can sense how long it had to take to assemble it and it tells such a true story. Thank you, Dawn!

[@lisam5744]

I've just recently found your channel and already hearing you talk has given me words for the feelings I've been having (but couldn't describe) about the decluttering of our home. Thank you.

[@caro2983]

I could never pinpoint it before meeting you, Dawn. I thought that I had to archive my family’s life. Now I understand that I can curate the memories and moments very carefully. I do not have to be the librarian any longer. Thank you, Dawn!

[@lorenaduran195]

Your words resonated with me today, I’ve spent so much time trying to archive my life, hanging onto memories like my future depended on it. 😅 Simplifying my possessions is challenging but so liberating, I no longer feel the need to keep the stuff to prove that something memorable happened. ‘ I don’t have to be the librarian any longer’ thank you for those words!!!

[@caro2983]

@@lorenaduran195 thank you for your comment. I love how Dawn helps me see a situation differently. I get so many “Aha” moments while listening to her. Cheers to us as our liberation gives us more time to be present with our families and friends.🌺

[@virgierutledge3004]

Our sons are wonderful but have not interest in our ancestry. I am done.

[@willowe7134]

Omg I'm SO trying to be the librarian!?!

[@marlaedington6471]

@@virgierutledge3004 I feel the same with my kids! Even if I keep all the stuff I have now, when I am old and dying, my kids won’t keep it, they aren’t sentimental!

[@lisapitts9518]

Great video! It is just the 2 of us, we are in the process of buying a home and packing up our apartment. Oh my word the "stuff" it is insane! I gently reminded him recently that it is time to get rid of stuff that we are no longer using. I use your family as an example and tell him that if a family of 6 can do it, then just the 2 of us can do it! Much Love from Florida

[@donnatrobaugh1676]

Please do a video: "My husband is NOT on board with decluttering!" I've been trying to get him in the basement for a year!! I know we could reduce our "storage" by half.

[@dawnsabella130]

I feel ya! My husband isn't against decluttering per say but he has zero initiative. Soooo...sometimes I just bring a box up from the basement and right after dinner I go through it with him. I'm thinking I might start sorting it first (keep/donate/trash) and then just let him have a final say.

[@Hillside-Hive]

She has a few... she said she doesn't mess with his stuff though- leads by example and he's come around s•l•o•w•l•y 😁

[@tracey1782]

OMG! I would love a video like you described as well! I’m working on a lot of other areas of the house for now, but when the time comes we absolutely have to do the basement and garage!

[@florenceumpherville8560]

I have that husband, he retired three years ahead of me and so be brought his stuff into my space. When I retired, I decided to declutter things I wouldn’t need anymore. I did the house and was brutal, he wouldn’t declutter his. I gave him two years to be rid of stuff. At two years I started him stuff, he took it to his space, mission accomplished! I got rid of 500cookbooks, four sewing machines, craft supplies and ten bins of material! Do I miss it? Not one bit, I kept what I am now using, but it blessed a lot of people, especially all the canners and canning supplies! I’m still bee keeping though

[@gwenvann7279]

Yes please! My husband is the type of person that never wants to get rid of anything. It is overwhelming to me

[@terryannsweeney4428]

I have been watching your videos for a few months now… I can’t tell you how helpful and inspiring you’ve been. I spent another day decluttering and loading up my car…it’s a lot of work getting rid of things!! One of my favorite things to do is organize, but I realized all I do is organize stuff I don’t even use! I can’t wait to spend my days doing things I enjoy and not organizing my junk! Thank you for sharing so many great tips and ideas and inspiration! 😊

[@krisbaker9427]

Your content has helped me understand how to control my inventory so that it works better for my household. The part about being kind to yourself for having acquired objects that you no longer want is huge. Once a person gets these concepts, the wasteful acquisition of new objects is much easier to control.

[@kateyare4708]

I have more time for sewing now because I MADE more time for sewing. Following you and Diana, I developed a weekly plan for housekeeping, shopping and cooking; but that plan did not include sewing. It did (and does) include one day devoted to cooking along the lines of "Cook Once Eat All Week." It finally dawned on me that if I could have a day devoted to cooking, I also could have a day devoted to sewing. I give the sewing day the same priority I give the cooking day, and rearranged other tasks on the schedule to accommodate it. I've been working on a sewing project for a few weeks now; and tomorrow is sewing day, when I expect to finish my current project. I feel no anxiety or frustration about an unfinished project because I know exactly when I will get to it. I also enjoy savoring my sewing day without guilt because I know exactly when I will get to all my other household tasks. Thanks for all the wonderful ideas, ladies, and happy 40th birthday!

[@atroy1983]

Dawn, you are seriously one of my best friends (lol ask my husband!) This was the video I needed to hear today. I have been on the simple living journey since my college days. I am 29 now with 3 little littles and with each new video you put out I peel back another “layer” of the stuff we have. I love to do ALL the things (sew, bake, read, garden, diy everything!!) and this concept of “how much time will it take” is so powerful! Thank you, from the bottom of my heart. You change lives, and I will be forever grateful for what you have taught.

[@chereederry7939]

Hallelujah!!! I love the way you looked at your mom's stamping supplies! I am looking at my own hobbies and your words are helping me be so much more realistic! It is freeing!

[@lindamcdermott9980]

This video inspired me so much. I have way too much stuff, even after years on the minimalist journey. Why?…. You just answered that question. I failed to factor in the changing seasons of life and interests. I have acquired so much inventory for the things that I do, I don’t think I will ever use all of it. Using the example of your mother’s hobby, I am going to pull out my excess stuff and donate it. Thank you for this eye opener, it makes so much sense. ❤

[@poolfield2]

Twice in the last couple of weeks I have invited people on the spur of the moment for lunch or afternoon tea. I knew that to get the house ready all I had to do was a quick vacuum and clean the downstairs loo so had plenty of time to make simple food and welcome guests. Thank you x

[@pollyp9328]

That is my dream!

[@JustBrenda55]

Oh, Dawn! I think this has been the most eye opening chat from you EVER! Don’t get me wrong. I have learned so much from you. The lightbulb 💡 just glowed in my brain after watching and listening to this video. Thank you. I have two large bags of books that I got at a library sale a year or more ago. They are going and I am about to go dive in and purge more stuff. Time! Time to enjoy whatever time is left is the goal. Time spent on shuffling unneeded stuff is not fun. Time spent enjoying life is fun. Thank you so very much. And Happy belated birthday wishes to you and Diana! 🎉😊❤

[@bettemillarlong7385]

Well said!!

[@JustBrenda55]

@@bettemillarlong7385 thank you.

[@happyhutchinsons]

How is it possible that every new video is my new favorite? So thankful for you and your family!!

[@hanado1335]

By far this is my favorite minimalist channel. You are so encouraging and I look forward to watching you every week. I love the way you share yourself with us, I feel like I know you. You’re like the friend everyone wants. You’re so positive and motivating, and of course that huge smile is like sunshine to my heart every time. Thank you Dawn you are beautiful and look great for 40 (not that 40 is old)😁 God bless you❤️

[@diannedick4722]

Thank you some much for those video!! I use to do a lot of artwork, crafting and quilting and I feel SO guilty that I am not using all my wonderful supplies. Fatigue is a huge problem for me and trying to be creative is a burden right now. Thank you for giving me an different perspective!!

[@krystal364]

I have been watching your videos for months and made my husband watch some too. We just finished a 9 day “vacation” where we purged our home, our yard, and got some projects done. After 3 truckloads of our stuff going to donations or dump. I feel like our house is finally not driving us crazy! And I feel like we can manage our stuff so much better! Thank you for sharing and being such and inspiration!

[@neonkitty6366]

Wow!! Wonderful job!!

[@danyelleanderson9106]

Oh I needed this so much! I've been decluttering for years and I'm still at my witts end with the amount of stuff. I keep telling myself that when the house is cleaned then I'll spend more quality time with my kids. When I realized that, I realized my priorities are way out of balance. I'm decluttering relentlessly this week with you in my ears. Thank you!!!

[@elizabethbednarcik3311]

I have been minimizing for 10 years now and feel our home and lives are where we need to be regarding minimalism. Fridays are the day when I am home alone while my kids and spouse are at work and school. I usually spend this time cleaning and minimizing more, then groceries and errands. I now ask myself what I can do to stop the mindset and actions of doing these tasks on my day off and instead be able to use this time for activities I really love, like doing art or going on a hike. It's a struggle I really want to break.

[@dellapitre4520]

Oh my goodness you just articulated exactly the journey I have been on the last little while! We sold our house and moved from a small 3 plus bedroom house to a one bedroom condo. I have purged, donated and thrown out a lot but have so much more to go. And as you mentioned, I will never have the time to do all that I thought I would do with reading all the books or doing all the things I thought I would. So busy purging and simplifying to enjoy more time with family and friends moving forward. 😊❤️ Thank you so much Dawn, for enlightening me and helping me through out my journey! Only wish I had you when my kids were little. Think the world of you and your family! 🥰🫂

[@karenlebeter4196]

Such great & fabulous advice. If you have a collection that is part of a hobby or club, let relatives know what to do about it when you are gone, and put suggestions in your will. Nothing lasts forever. Don't let things sit in an attic or basement and fall apart/ rot/ get discarded when someone else could love, care for, and enjoy it.

[@LynnsLaunderette]

Dawn- please let your mom know that her cards are Amazing!! From Lynn, a fellow stamper. ❤

[@bertholdstefanie6175]

When Dawn showed her mom’s cards, they looked so professional! I‘m in awe! That is what I would like to get to!

[@LynnsLaunderette]

@@bertholdstefanie6175 Just watch lots and lots of stampers and crafters here on KZbin for tricks and tips.. it will all come together, trust me. Remember, it's a process---make it fun for you! 😁

[@judyfrank2551]

I have been watching your channel for a while now. I have actually simplified a lot of areas of my house over the last few months in preparation for downsizing and retirement, and it does feel so much better. I can't really call myself a minimalist just yet, but I've made a lot of progress. I don't normally comment, but you talked about your mom and her stamping supplies. I recognized them because I LOVE my Stampin' Up supplies. And I have donated a lot, but I still have way too much in that area. Just be sure to let your mom know it does bring joy to send and to receive a handmade card! I also recently joined Diana's Small Group online. The two of you are such a blessing to so many. Keep up the great work!

[@adelinam7839]

Thank you, Dawn. THIS message is EXACTLY what I needed to hear in this season of my life.

[@lindamcgregor6585]

well said

[@amyw5647]

The start of this video really struck a chord with me. Never enough time! And your comment about having good intentions too. Feel reinvigorated to continue with my journey to minimalism after this one. Thanks!

[@louiseatkinson3044]

I am really struggling with depression at the moment so looking at all things in my life. You are spot on with the crafting I skip from one project to the next. I am going to sort through my craft room and plan 12 projects 1 per month, donate what I don’t need Thank you for making my life more clear 🥰

[@lizbrewer3040]

Dawn , I love your videos and your family! My husband passed away 2 years ago and I have most of his stuff, my stuff, some of my adult (25 & 31) kids' stuff that needs to be gone through and decluttered, kept, donated or sold. I'm working on the decluttering with the help of you and Cass from Clutterbug. I just love that you have realized and studied about how too much stuff affects our brains. Stuff is overwhelming me. I need to take your advice and pick a small space and set a timer and go at it!! Thank you again for being a caring person!!

[@marthavanderpool6829]

“Dr. Dawn” - You understand the underlying psychology of mini-hoarding/clutter so well. And hearing you articulate the phenomenon and better yet - the solutions - is truly therapy. Thank you so much for your invaluable help. God bless you and yours.

[@kfetter9046]

This was a great video! I really have been enjoying paring down at home, and even my husband seems to be getting on board with it. It feels so much better to have space, and I either gift it to someone in our local Buy Nothing group, or donate it. It is really gratifying to give something I don't need to someone who does. I do find myself looking around the house on a daily basis to see what else I can clear out. There are lots of minimalist channels, but you are my go to! Thank you for sharing your positive energy. You practically glow! 🥰

[@marshaclark4901]

“I really had good intentions” is really helpful. I look at you and Josh Becker when I get stuck. Thanks

[@NLY1WAY4U]

Oh Dawn...the yarn! It is sitting in my living room in boxes gotten recently from son's storage. I would never use it all in 10 years for donations! Crochet friends coming over to get to make more donation blankets. I get excited knowing it is getting used soon. Yes!!!!

[@Hillside-Hive]

I overbought for a project and now it stares at me...lol

[@annaallen641]

I volunteer at an op shop and can say how much donated wool is appreciated. Loved seeing a small person in yesterday buying a ball of wool with their $2 pocket money, glad someone had the grace to donate it.

[@jodyporta2188]

In paring down my own things, I often wonder if living minimally gives the expression to others that I am poor, lack, or don’t have “enough”. When in fact it’s just the opposite. Having so many things could make someone appear wealthy and is this how our society views an abundance of things?? We recently moved from the south to Colorado. It took two weeks to get our furniture and boxes. I had taken 9 car loads to the dump and 11 to goodwill. I got on a flight with my 88 yr old mom with only a backpack of what we needed. In those 2 weeks b4 the truck arrived, the only thing I missed was my heavy hoodie and my boots. My mom complained everyday about her Knick knacks, sheets, and stuff she “wanted “. This chaos is brought on by society and a living from lack mindset. Cheers to you for a great channel!!

[@juliekonigskind6434]

Thank you so much for this encouraging message! It’s so true! Ever since I started our families journey of owning less and focusing more on the things that matter, I realise how little of the stuff I thought was essential, even is important to me now. It feels soooo good to let go and creating space in our lives and I cannot wait to see how the Lord is going to fill that space with his plans and purposes. Thank you Dawn , you’re such an inspiration to me. Oh and happy belated birthday! May you be abundantly blessed and truly feel HIS provision in ever single aspect of your life. 🌈

[@tml3982]

When I retired I found out that even though I have a great deal more time to do what I want I really have changed what I want to do. I now spend my "extra" time doing things that I had always made time for even when I was very busy - like cooking good meals, visiting with friends and family, reading, etc.

[@debbywilson546]

Just exactly what I needed to hear right now, Dawn. (and the little 'I love you' at the end of every video you make is so special to me, thank you!) Bless you and your family.

[@janicelovett5457]

After my parents passed away and we had to clean out everything it was overwhelming. I said to myself that I wanted it to be easier for our kids. When we retired we moved to a smaller house, got rid of one car and got rid of ALOT of stuff before moving. Now I have less to manage . Hurrah!! Recently I have gone through every closet and room and we’re still getting rid of things. It’s wonderful to be more organized and less cluttered. Thanks for your wonderful advice. God Bless.

[@amyperez9004]

Dawn - your content is INCREDIBLE! I never miss a video! Would love for you to do a video or series on family memory keeping, pairing down photos and videos, digital minimalism in today’s world of over saturated phone photos and videos, and actually USING photos and videos. Would be nice to pair up with Catherine Saunders from All The Best! Thanks!

[@elizabeth75000]

I love the Intro to this video. We DON'T have time for ALL the things. A bucket of cold water in the face. Thank you, Dawn. 💕

[@neahughes1579]

Something I think about a lot is how many people have worked at each step of production with the items I buy. I love to sew, so I have a lot of fabric. Before I buy fabric, I try to ask if I will honor all the work that went into making it. Someone planted cotton seeds. Farmers tended to the plants. Someone harvested the cotton and spun it into thread. The thread was woven or knit into fabric. Someone had to dye the fabric or print on it. And then a driver had to drive it to my local store or to deliver it to my house. I hate waste because I know how much work goes into each part of production- so I try to not buy it if I won’t actually use it all!

[@jlanam]

Oh wow, Dawn, you hit the nail on the head! My mom is 84 and is STILL holding on to things she hasn't used in almost 40 years (2 houses ago!) because she thinks SOMEDAY she might have the time, energy, or whatever to use them! 🤨 (Mom, it ain't happenin'!) She still has fabric she bought ON HER HONEYMOON (60 years ago?) to make matching windbreakers for her and my dad. I grew up with that and other useless junk sitting in cardboard boxes lined up by her bed.

[@bethgee334]

Thank you soooo much, Dawn for pointing out the “time factor” in respect of all of the stuff we keep - that was a huge light bulb moment for me! I had never previously associated my stuff with how much time it needed. I can’t wait to head for my ‘donate’ boxes to get rid of lots more items 😃

[@YoYo_Ma]

I've spent years decluttering and paring down. I now (mostly) have only stuff I use or love. Then...bam! Life happened and I moved in with my sweetheart 💕. He has SO MUCH STUFF. Ugh. Rinse and repeat...he's not fully on board yet but he'll get there. I'm helping by setting an example of always putting stuff away...giving a home for everything...and by finding objects he cherishes but were buried under clutter.

[@rosywilson3076]

I feel a bit the same. Married Himself, sold my house, moved into his… Like you, I had my house how I wanted it, pared down, mostly minimal. Now we have SO MUCH STUFF and I feel overwhelmed all over again. I’ll just have to bite the bullet, declutter more of my stuff and hope he follows my example. Best of luck to you!

[@jom6320]

Dawn you are so right! Thanks to you, Rachel and others this grandma living in hills of Missouri Ozarks was able to finally get why my mobile home just didnt seem right. Too much stuff to look at to dust when i want to do things that matter. My Grandma was a real minimalist before it was a term. Her attitude was against eternity stuff is just stuff keep what you need or really want not what you dont

[@Rosa-kf6yy]

YES! My (ex) mother in law had a home that was ALWAYS orderly, plus she had time a part time job, and she still had time for the people in her life. I just didn't get it. Now I do. She too...was a minimalist before it was "thing".

[@neonkitty6366]

Rosa, your mother in law had it right. Beautiful. Thx for sharing this 🥰 Val

[@sherylstretcher1973]

Your words in today’s video echo my thoughts this week. I am in my mid-60’s and what you said about time (or lack thereof) is oh, so true! I have been slowly paring down these past few years. I enjoy reading, and as you mentioned in your video, have amassed more books than I will probably ever have time to read. Unfortunately, books are not the only things in my life that I need to declutter (sigh). It is time to look at all of those items precisely as you described. I simply will not have the time necessary to read the books (or the saved file folders of info, notes, etc., etc.) and it is “time” to more ruthlessly pare down in light of this fact. Thanks for yet another insightful video; it truly spoke to my heart.

[@donnav]

I love all your content and this video is amazing! You have packed so much truth in this one. I am helping my parents downsize and move from their house into an apartment and the amount of stuff (in ALL the categories you mention) is truly overwhelming. As an example, my mom loves to craft and how you explain about good intentions and the rationale behind why we keep so much is wonderful. I will be sharing this video with her. It may help her make peace with some of the stuff she now has to part with.

[@kristingorak4956]

Great video! There are so many things we save “Justin Case” (loved that video and just showed it to hubby to help him) and we end up finding the items moldy, dirty or disintegrated by time! Just started a big project to turn a storage area into a “pool hall” for the family! I have been listening to you and Cass and seeing your motivation to tackle big jobs and not worry about throwing things away motivated me! I shoved my garbage can full of stuff that Hubby thought would be useful one day but was rotted by time! My car is full of donations of stuff that still has life (and by the way you can call the donation centers and ask if they accept certain items). I still look around and see more that could go but hubby needs time to get totally on board! It is just such a great feeling! I’ll never have a home like you (totally minimized) but I have a home that is manageable for me and that I can call HOME! By the way, your mothers cards are works of art! So sweet that she donated to the senior center…great idea!

[@sleepingroses761]

Oh my gosh, this is such a great introduction video to the idea of decluttering! I can think of some wonderful family members who might benefit from hearing this. Thank you so much, Dawn, for the approachable and realistic view your channel presents.

[@taraschmidl5491]

Wrote the comment before I watched it and now I want to say: THANK YOU You speak from and to my heart! I will give myself more grace for the past - I’ll be saying, „ I didn’t know.“ a lot more often because I can also see, being 42, where I want to put my energy has changed and evolved over the years. At the core it hasn’t- the values and what matters most to me - but HOW I implement these values has changed.

[@818NP]

This hit so hard today. I have been a minimalist for a long time now but the fall and Xmas Decor is over the top. This is the year I am going to get rid of it. My mom is making me feel guilty that I need to be over the top for the kids but I dread it more and more each year. It’s gonna be a big weekend around here! Thanks Dawn, and love the closet videos. We are ready to downsize our house since we got rid of so much and we built this house only 6 years ago. Keep up the great content. Keep up with the mom guilt videos! It really helps so many of us to let it go.

[@rdb4996]

You know what I remember the most from Christmas as a child? Not any of the decorations, but my mum in the kitchen cooking great food and going to a different church each year to listen to an inspiring sermon. And just the quiet of those days, which contrasted starkly with the hours we visited family 😃

[@helenebennie3961]

@@rdb4996 I remember putting up the decorations as a teen and young adult and loving it but we only had a box of them. Being with the family and playing Uno was the best part.

[@karenneiman856]

I just finished reading Myquillyn Smith's book 'Welcome Home'. It talks about how to create a relaxed, welcoming, simply decorated home for each season without boxes of purchased things. She encourages you to take your cues from nature and not the stores.

[@neonkitty6366]

Thx Karen! I checked out this book and it looks wonderful!

[@pixelated23-b9z]

Your son’s smile at 0:13 brightened up my entire day

[@lululeelee19]

What an excellent vision cast of your entire philosophy! Such a succinct and winsome argument to simplify our lives by simplifying our homes. Thanks for all you do, Dawn! You’ve blessed our family by persuading me that this is what was dragging us down. We’ve transformed our home AND our family life as a result through the inspiration that came from you and your content - I thank God for you, sister! 💕

[@yoflor6412]

Love listening to your advice. We are in the season of moving my mom in law into our home. It’s been hard on the family helping clear out her old place. It’s taking several weekends and there is no end in sight. This is a lesson for us not to do the same to our children.

[@Rosa-kf6yy]

Dawn, that was so inspirational. I'm on year 2 of retirement and am finding that I DON'T have time for all of my "fantasy self " hobbies. Plus some don't even interest me anymore. I've come a long way because of you, and now I think I can happily make another pass. I know I'll breath easier when I do. Thank you Dawn. May God continue to bless your endeavors.

[@thisnthatcormak]

Great video. I think the biggest thing is getting past why you bought or are keeping stuff. I met my husband late in life (met at 36, married at 39, child at 40) and I realized after I got married and had a child 80% of the things I bought I did because I was single and was using retail as therapy because I wasn't happy being alone. I don't do that anymore because I'm happy . So when I donate and throw things away I'm getting rid of far more than I bring in. I'll never be a minimalist but many of the thought processes are so helpful to purge what I no longer need. You and Cas have been a huge inspiration. I've lost track of the truckloads of stuff I've donated and trashed since last September. I still have a ways to go but I've also come so far. Especially mentally

[@sarahk758]

Your cheery attitude always brightens my day and helps me to feel like I can take on the world (or my clutter :) one day at a time. It’s so refreshing! As it’s easy to get frustrated and annoyed to find more clutter here or there! So when I start getting cranky, I always put on one of your videos to brighten my spirits and then go tackle another spot. Thank you for all the wisdom and insight you share with us 💕

[@carlyejameson1752]

I feel like you were speaking directly to me in this video. Your tips and tricks are so great and have helped me a lot. I still have a lot of stuff to purge and some days it’s easier finding the motivation than other days but I think if I start small, one space at a time, I’ll get it to a more manageable state and will feel less anxious about it all. Thanks for sharing, Dawn!

[@susannagiesey9657]

Keep doing what you're doing!! Your videos are making such a big impact on my life. I turn to your videos knowing I'll be encouraged. Everyday is a new opportunity to get one step closer. I can spend 5 minutes on my basket of things that don't seem to have a home and make decisions whereas I used to make excuses.

[@staylor8935]

Past facts > hypothetical thoughts. What a Brilliant straight to the point reminder! Thanks!! ❤😊

[@sfranks7727]

Thank you so much! I am crying as I write. I am so overwhelmed with all my clutter, and my age and health is also something that I didn’t realize would slow me down with anything that I thought I would have time for. This is such a slow process, and just trying to figure out where to start is a major process in itself. I had major surgery a few weeks ago and my energy has not been the best and recovery has been slow. I just wish I would have decluttered years ago when I was a lot younger. Thank you so much for the encouragement you give in each of your videos! 😉

[@sfranks7727]

@@liveartanyadavide ~ 🥰 Thank you! I plan on staying the course. It isn’t going to be easy, as we have lived in the same home for over 53 years. 😞

[@neonkitty6366]

Dear S Franks, Praying for complete healing for you and that the Lord will send you all the help you need as you recover. 🥰🙏🏻

[@sfranks7727]

@@neonkitty6366 ~ Thank you so much! I need folks to keep me moving. 😉

[@neonkitty6366]

Me too dear. Be encouraged. You are getting better and stronger and we can do this decluttering thing a little at a time if we have to. I love you! Val

[@aleithea2715]

I am in the same position as yourself and I sympathise with you. I have been completely overwhelmed for many years and it is so exhausting. However, Dawn is just amazing and I try to follow her instructions. I have managed to get rid of a large amount of stuff but there is still far too much left. I just wish that Someone would have told me many years ago what Dawn tells us in every video.

[@audrarenner280]

Your channel and mission means the world to me! You, Cass and Dana have changed my life! My mind set, my goals has shifted and the level of HOPE y'all created in me is incredible! You're like my best friends...that I don't actually know🤭 but because of your channel and transparency I definitely feel like you get me and I'm not alone AND I can do this! Y'all are like my "go to" when I'm having a day where I really feel overwhelmed by everything and I might feel depression setting in...hop on and listen to a pick me up, motivational post and I'm off and running! Just want to truly thank you ❤

[@evelynkaiser8175]

You help me so much!!! It seems like you know me and are speaking directly to me! Still I’m struggling 😩 keep posting! God Bless! And Happy Birthday!! 🎊🎂

[@Jessica_Jones]

Keep at it and your success will grow! I believe in you! 🥰

[@carleycampbell4293]

Dawn, thank you so much for posting your videos! These videos have inspired me so much. I was such a clutter keeper and in the last 3 weeks I have donated close to 700lbs of clutter and I feel so much more free and I feel like my whole family is so much happier in our house. Seriously look forward to your videos!

[@neonkitty6366]

Wowee!! Awesome job Carley!!! What an inspiration! Thank you. Val

[@rosemay2000]

Coming up on 10 years in my house these words are hitting hard. Love this video. Going to be ruthless with my decluttering tonight.

[@marylut6077]

Happy 40th! So true that we have the best intentions for our fantasy future. Instead of sorting Keep/Trash/Donate, how about Using Now/Future and pack away the future and see if you don’t wean yourself off it as time passes. When I retired, it still took me 1 year to finish 1 set of memory books for my 21 yr old

[@PippaRose1]

We might have space in our houses to keep all our stuff. We just haven't got the space in our brains to manage it all 😆

[@aleithea2715]

Thank you for framing these words. This is exactly correct. That’s why we get so tired trying to manage it all.

[@vanessasunnset9855]

Hi, Dawn. Happy birthday. I just wanted to tell you that you have changes my whole perspective on my home and my relationship with it. I have followed you for a couple of weeks now, and have already gotten so much stuff out of our house. I watch your videos every day, and it gives me so much inspiration to continue taking my house back. Not only that, but by sharing your message we have since become a group of people joining in and supporting each other in the process. So, thank you so much for every video you share. It really is helping my life get back on track. Sending you my best, Vanessa from Norway.

[@mariannwarner3774]

Thanks for the pep talk! I just went through my kitchen and donated a large bag full of useful (to someone but not to me) stuff to a local agency. It felt so good!

[@ladykatietx]

I think this is my favorite video of yours ever. Any time I start shaming myself for getting rid of something I "should" have used, I hear your voice in my head graciously saying, "I just didn't know." 😊

[@girllittlemorbid]

Sometimes now I challenge myself to spend more time with something or declutter it. Sometimes I realize I don't really like whatever it is enough to devote the time to keep things.. And sometimes I remember how much I LOVE doing something! This is why I started reading more & actually wearing my pretty dresses lol On the other hand, I like the idea of sewing but I'm just never going to do it. lol

[@gypsybelle4757]

Happy Birthday to you both and thank you for the light you both bring to the world!!

[@healthylifeingredients6211]

I didn't get my time "back" until this year. I have one that just went off to college and one a sophomore in HS. You always think, "well when X happens, I'll have more time". Nope! Not the case at all. Something is always vying for our time. Over the past couple of months, I have been RUTHLESS about decluttering and owing as little as I/we can to function. I'm the one who is the household manager so, I'm the one dealing with ALL OF THE STUFF. Great video! Leslie

[@eileenreardon7887]

Your videos are exactly what I need. Thank you for sharing your experiences with us.

[@elisabethlasalle3529]

Oh my gosh, I had to chuckle to myself today, as I went to the donation table in town, with a bike rack (that we’ve owned for 10+ years) that won’t fit on either of our current cars ... all I could envision was Tom, covered in “Justin Case” stickers!!! How much stuff am I NEVER going to use??? It’s TIME!!! Lol