Wife Went Out Partying Without Me Even When i Told Her Not To Go. Later I Found out she cheated.

Wife Went Out Partying Without Me Even When i Told Her Not To Go. Later I Found out she cheated.
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[@DarkEinherjar]

The amount of guilt OP feels suggests that not only she cheated on him, she's probably used to manipulating him emotionally and gaslighting him... and her hysteric reaction in the therapist proves my point.

[@wherearetheavocados6089]

to have that reaction in front of the therapist too.. he had to of seen what she was doing

[@MSSynsyterGates]

Yeah when her first reaction is "Are you going to leave me?" and then trying to make him keep quiet about it. This is how shes going to lie and turn people against him.

[@wambamimsam3780]

that or from not catching it sooner

[@skyure]

Actually, guilt is one of the most common emotions beside shock, disgust and rage in such a situation. Also the one emotion that cheaters and manipulators build their whole spiel of "don't leave me" "I'll get better if you only give me a chance", "You snooped on me/disrespected my privacy" and last but not least "it's your fault, because-" on.

[@bastalam]

It's called weakness bro. Unfortunately, we try hard to deny it and even come up with excuses but it is purely weakness.

[@Syrin23]

"She pleaded me not to tell anyone". Tell EVERYONE, send videos, tell EVERY person she might even know tangentially.

[@noahnewcomer5180]

I think it’s more he needed that leverage to make a clean getaway in the divorce proceedings, so he agreed not to if she would make the divorce less messy ie less costly…

[@aminabakir8205]

Exactly 💯 💯 💯 well said​@@noahnewcomer5180

[@Aequitas887]

I will say, that was the thing that stuck out the most after being found out. of al things THAT was her concern, her self image probably from my immediate social circle.... god people can be so shit...

[@slacksviii9824]

​@@noahnewcomer5180 after the divorce was finalized he should've told everyone anyways, preventative maintenance for relationships

[@NENOShorts]

thats a criminal case if send videos of noods of someone.

[@DarkEinherjar]

What really angers me about this story is the injustice in all of this. She made OP suffer, forced him into a long divorce battle that almost cost him his life, just to not lose his earnings in addition to everything else... and she completely got away with it and got her "and they lived happily ever after". She doesn't deserve it.

[@danhandsomeandsome6177]

Unfortunately, this is the reality of divorce because of a cheating wife. Only good thing is that OP didn't have any children with her.

[@A-Warthog-cc1wm]

Sadly life isn’t fair. The bad guys sometimes win, and good people suffer

[@darkriku12]

She got the guy but lost her friends and extended family. Some people just commit hard on the insanity once they get caught. And the best revenge is bettering yourself

[@C.G.Gaster]

I blame it on the no-fault divorce states. Sure, they were nice when first added, but now they are a con, a tool to get money from good people. They cause benefit for cheaters who don't work. At least with at-fault, you can divorce and punish them (with proof) via paying you back. So never marry in a no-fault state. You'd be better off being in the same state you were before.

[@dezmodium]

Sometimes good people are born, suffer all their lives, and then die in pain and alone. There is no "just world."

[@Maninawig]

The one thing missing in this story is the bombshell of OP telling his soccer team "I am quitting effective immediately, due to the fact that y'all used my wife as the team sIut"

[@averagejoe455]

"You're supposed to juggle the ball, not my wife!"

[@Maninawig]

@@averagejoe455 unlike the wife, that line is too good to go unused.

[@flexjohnson18]

I'd be fighting those dudes on that team If it was me I'd be in jail

[@BeyonderGod]

Lmfao

[@virtualatheist]

@@Maninawig Too late for the wife... She's already been overused.

[@arcadius3257]

These "No fault" states need to get their shit together and punish/consider cheating appropriately in these kind of cases. What this man went through isn't justice.

[@A-Warthog-cc1wm]

I never understood the point of “not fault” as it just means you can just cheat without any of the consequences

[@C.G.Gaster]

​@A-Warthog-cc1wm The idea was to allow for divorce without having to lie about abuse, from what I've been told. However I agree, it's now just a game, a scam, for cheaters and gold diggers. It's better to just stay dating than get married in a no-fault divorce. Especially without a prenup.

[@boblee7998]

That's why I'll never be married unless we move. She's paid to cheat and leave.

[@BoopleSnuffeGaming]

IDK how it is in other states, but in Florida, no fault divorce means "A spouse may file for a divorce without his or her spouse having committed any fault."

[@MrMonnTM]

@@BoopleSnuffeGaming Which basically means I can do shit TO YOU and FILE DIVORCE. No fault is backed up by other pesky things like spousal support, division of assets (retirement included). In at fault states for example for infidelity you can actually safe yourself from alimony or 50/50 asset division (depending on length and depth of affair). You can even demand compensation at some at fault states. No fault states give you "free hands" to spit on your partner and marriage institute and have a gangbang in your marital bed while handing you divorce papers and you can't do shit about this. Now let's think objectively in most cases men are the bread winners thus they stand to lose much more materialy, based on buying things women tend on average buy the most depreciating assets. Next is fucking alimony, there are many different cases but in most (i think) you have to pay him/her alimony based on difference in your income so if he or she works but receives much less they still receive alimony based on your income difference. Child support in some states around the world EVEN despite being lied about your child being yours (i.e. paternity fraud) if you signed a birth certificate you are still obligated to pay child support. + About alimony, amount of years you have to pay alimony depends on amount of years you were married + in some cases even if they remarry you still have to pay them, how fair is that? At this point I'm asking, why would anyone commit to marriage without a prenuptial agreement? How naive and stupid can you get? Women chose less hours and professions that pay less so even if you will not have children and she lives by mantra, my money is my money and your money is our money you will still get fucked. Marriage laws are "genderless" but in reality they are heavily stacked against males. Prenup in most cases equalizes, because you cannot have a prenup that is heavily stacked against one party. The worst part many countries are starting to adapt "common law" where people who aren't married are basically given the same status as married people via living together for 3-10 years. Both men and women are heavily encouraged to cheat or manipulate their partners and if not encouraged then pardoned or ignored. If my son or daughter cheated they would be disowned, can many people do that to their shitlings? No, many stand for their shitlings to their dying breath while admirable at first in future prospect that means that they are safeguarding a shit stain of a human being who will make other people's life's miserable (maybe including you).

[@iamseelo1]

That child probably wasn’t even her husbands anyway knowing her open leg history.

[@Mop222]

I definitely hope she had stopped drinking before she got pregnant.

[@Steve60638]

“Open leg history” damn

[@RedditFamilyStories]

yeaaa, same thought with u

[@doomedfromthesmart]

If she goes out once, drop her. If you go out once drop her. I've never wanted to go anywhere without my ex. She left once, cheated, tried lying, refused to touch her again, she got pregnant and tried to gaslight me. Never live with a liar.

[@ResidentWeevil2077]

Username checks out.

[@kraquinette2430]

While unfortunate for you, you are not everyone, some people would like to have a life of their own and go out with friends once in a while, it's not a toxic behaviour on its own.

[@mauricio2456]

Fuck, you're toxic. Not excusing her for cheating... but I understand.

[@ragingsaviorkami9862]

​@@ResidentWeevil2077 Hes right tho. A married woman that still wants to go out and party is a red flag. A married man that still wants to go and party, even more so.

[@sagetusk]

​@@ragingsaviorkami9862it depends though. Partying is maybe too much for me personally, but my partner wants to go out with just his friends to a bar? Sure thing. I want to go for the same with my friends? Sure thing. It doesn't happen often, but we allow each other individual space. It's needed

[@scottsommer9843]

"Don't tell anybody" Translation: "Don't tell anybody because I want to manipulate the story to be your fault." You need to tell people out the gate before you even speak to her. It doesn't matter how "embarressing" it is. It is not embarressing to say your partner cheated.

[@tallyp.7643]

Or at least keep the receipts and have all the evidence ready to go once the divorce or separation goes through--then drop the truth bomb, especially if the cheater keeps going on about it, thinking they won't get a comeuppance. Watch their smugness burn away as others learn the truth in real time.

[@christophernoble76]

it made sense that he hid it until the divorce was over, he saved half his salary because of the way he played it off. after it's legally over, expose her to absolutely everybody, with the proof that he collected over time.

[@SinTransphobicTrigger]

Always tell your story to as many people as possible. Women show no mercy to men who did everything right. There's no such thing as it being difficult for you to do so because you love them. The moment they are unfaithful is the moment you drop that love because it wasn't real to begin with just misplaced feelings and a terrible mistake.

[@nanadiaries9189]

She stole his time, innocence, love, and many other things . I’m glad he is healing . God bless him and I hope he gets his happily ever after. That woman will definitely get what is coming to her

[@arhael3594]

What pisses me off is that he didn't tip off the new guy. Would cost him nothing to save poor guy's life.

[@MsWill813]

They don't believe, at least women don't 😢

[@UnreasonableExpectations]

In these scenarios, usually the one who is spilling the beans is the one who comes across as the unhinged one.

[@arhael3594]

@@UnreasonableExpectations Like it would matter to him. Those who deem him unhinged can F the right off.

[@macrons593]

23:39 bro was stunned, flabbergasted, appalled, left saying unbelievable 💀

[@MuhtadisWeg]

You know if she had a baby While you were still married there would be a posibility that the baby was from "buddy"

[@therarestphoenix5254]

All of her relationships will NEVER be blessed. Only cursed... Her life will NEVER know peace. I hope OP will find his happiness that's so richly deserved.

[@mokakom]

this yet again proves guys marry ANYONE and give the ultimate commitment to women they dont know because she gave them the bare minimum required in a "relationship". I bet the new husband will be posting someday about how he never expected she would be the one who cheats Lol propose over the phone

[@C.G.Gaster]

Nah he's just an idiot. She just knows how to get what she wants.

[@captaingramcrackergrams5990]

The bare minimum is more than a lot of men get nowadays so in a way I get

[@jdavis7613]

I hopeOP told the local woman about her cheating husband and I myself would have found a way to send that man a copy of all the videos and texts to that man she married.

[@verygooddeal4436]

Same. Was hoping to hear an update on that

[@christosm2133]

I am sorry but this guy married her the first time he met her. He deserves whatever comes to him

[@Adwiti_Mishra]

@@christosm2133 lol ikr the day they get married is the first time they meet irl????

[@christosm2133]

@@Adwiti_Mishra such a true story right ? hahah

[@LuckeyClover]

Keeping the dirty laundry as blackmail to not loose half you're assets in the divorce battle is actually a grade A move, although I love the stories where ops air it out to all family and friends of the cheater😂😂

[@Fiercetits]

That’s gotta be the most devastating way to find out your wife is cheating by getting double teamed or a train ran on her, multiple times god damn 😱

[@muggyate]

I hope her new husband got married in a no fault state because he's also a cheat and is doing it to rob her bind.

[@TheCountryGoblin]

While he still has a chance for a wife and kids it will be more difficult and he is running out of time. This woman stole everything from him. Even time

[@darkdragonmoderator5504]

No she didn't. Men typically tend to peak in their 30s and can have kids up to the ages of 70 with high success rates. He still has time to build himself and find someone younger who he can marry and have kids with. She's the one who's lost time. Not him.

[@Xspurr]

​@@darkdragonmoderator5504Even though that is true it would be dumb to have children after the age of 40, as a man. If you have kids at 45 you'll be 65 when they are 20. That's far, FAR from optimal. Add to that the fact the older you are the likelihood of the child being born with for example autism is highly increased. Yes, men CAN have children even in old age but shouldn't. /36 year old man

[@darkdragonmoderator5504]

@Xspurr that's the stupidest reasoning ever. By the time you're 65 and your son is 20, he'll be old enough to take care of himself. It's not bad at all.

[@darkdragonmoderator5504]

@Xspurr it's not dumb and plenty of children have kids at 40 and live till 80 where their kids are 40. You're just being nonsensical

[@Xspurr]

@@darkdragonmoderator5504 Didn't say you need to take care of you son when he's 20. I just think you should give your childen more time with you before you DIE.

[@buff5158]

Haven't finished listening yet and I know OP's not at fault but he did make a mistake in dating an 18-19 yr old that either lacked relationship experience or maturity or BOTH when he's 5 years her senior. Like it's not a big age gap but between someone that's 18-ish and someone that's 24-ish, there's a bit of a gap in life experiences. Like the wife sucks greatly and she's a hundred percent at fault but let this be a lesson- don't date and marry someone that's not your equal.

[@l-l-l-l-l-l-l]

Plus OP only really grown in age and not matured mentally to have that rock solid mentality that would survive this earthquake of emotional disaster. Once she finally grown into her final narcissistic form, he had absolutely no chance against her. Thanked god she not not very smart and too focused on hiding her ongoing affair than fighting her divorce.

[@erik61801]

thanks. i was considering someone half my age. different worlds...

[@Andrew-jt8bg]

Age doesn't really have anything to do with it, plenty of young people make good choices and plenty of older folks make bad choices. I'm 3 years older than my wife and we started dating when she was 18. We've been together for 16 years with 3 kids and no issues. Different life experiences are fine and don't equate to 1 party being less than another. You shouldn't look for equality, just loyalty/honesty. Sometimes people are just shit-bags (no matter the age) and need to be avoided.

[@CherryGryffon]

It REALLY depends on the person. My husband is 17 years my senior but we could not be more similar in interests and maturity. So much so that he, thrice divorced and already had the 2 kids he wanted, changed his mind on never marrying again AND having more kids, just to make this a permanent relationship. Now we're 15 years on, most of which married, with no end anywhere in sight. The key is KNOWING the person you are with. Most people don't really ask the big deep questions, let alone hypotheticals, but really that's all we've done for this decade and a half. "If this situation happened, how would you react? What would you think?" And then watch to see that their words line up with how they react to situations in reality. If they line up, you've got a good idea of who your partner is and how they think. If they don't, well.. That's how you get these kinds of spouses T: @@erik61801

[@CherryGryffon]

Exactly!! @@Andrew-jt8bg

[@icyvividprism]

Rule number one if a woman tells you to not tell anyone about that situation you screenshot and send it to everyone you explain it all

[@clay5291]

I felt that with my ex. She got proposed not long after we broke up and got pregnant. It was heartbreaking to see

[@newturtle3]

OP is just grieving his sham of a marriage and how he got duped. His version of his wife never existed and now some other poor sap has to deal with her. OP dosn't need envy that. He should be grateful he dodged a nuclear warhead

[@ace_x420]

why do no fault states exist? like cheating can make a person suicide bro and in every single divorce woman takes 20% pf a guy’s inheritance his mom/dad trueted him to

[@ronaldocruz4594]

And why do these nice guys marry at no fault states? They should move to a state that has at fault state if they want to get married smh

[@ace_x420]

@@ronaldocruz4594 i heard from a guys who’s my brother’s frnd that his fiance wants to stay at a no fault state and my brother immediately told him not to go to he hesitated first but when her fiance didn’t let him take a peternity (idk how to spell it) test he then got convinced and called of the marriage (that was a 5 years old of rltn and she tried to take his money and manipulate plus baby trap him) and tbh most girls convince their man to go to no fault states plus they act like sum crazzy mental girl if a guy wants a peternity test like whah if yk he’s the kid then let him take a test? like a guy setting boundaries is insecurity but a girl setting boundaries is normal like usa has become prison for most males ngl

[@KillerTurnus]

No fault laws are designed for women. It was so that men couldn't divorce women and leave them destitute, it's one of those things that is good on paper but then when you actually put it into practice it destroys everything.

[@greenbrickbox3392]

No fault states exist because it is idiocy for the state to force people to stay in a bad marriage just because no one is proven to be at fault via adultery, abandonment, incarceration or violence. Prior to this people would have to do ridiculous workarounds like faking adultery or moving to a state where no-fault divorce exists to have a "migratory divorce". Also inheritance isn't a marital property, don't place it in joint accounts or with marital property and get legal advice if you really don't want it to be divided up in a divorce. If you have property which needs to be protected ahead of time you should get legal advice regardless as marriage is above everything else a legal contract between two people which gives legal status, new rights/responsibilities and gives your spouse additional powers over shared assets and medical decisions should you be incapacitated.

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

because addy state needs money. Divorce is the ultimate weatlh transfer.

[@jogovender]

Nah, I don't buy it. I've been close to blackout drunk more than once but have never felt the urge to cheat or sleep around. This is just some grade A BS, blaming alcohol for your cheating.

[@c16621]

OP is not a bad person. The fact that he is worried about his own moral standing means he isn’t bad. He had to lead the cheater on to get out of suffering any consequences of HER actions. He didn’t deserve to suffer any consequences. She got married to some online dude? What a m0r0n. “That poor man” is right. She’ll cheat on him too. She sounds like a grifter.

[@kiyajohnson4436]

I'm glad you got rid of her good luck you'll find someone better. My support is with you. ❤❤❤

[@drake3934]

Dude, wtf money in the Bank is better than a cheater in your life

[@joemccay9978]

The new dude should get a paternity test.

[@isaidajhooks7631]

I don’t think you did ANYTHING wrong at all!!!!!!! Good for you! I’m happy you’re out

[@CorgiFanWoof]

He targeted a teenager as a grown man in his 20s. That's wrong. The woman is lucky to be away from him.

[@MinisterChristopher]

Crazy story. But as a therapist in my 10th year, the handling of that situation was textbook perfect.

[@joshfly210]

It is crazy how some guys and girls just have random babies and never stay together because they can’t see how things will go in the future. Some 20 -30 year olds are popping out babies like they’re 16 and have never had intercourse before. That’s how people break up later because they’re trying to make relationships work just because they have a kid now.

[@chilpeeps]

Marriage is today day age is stressful chaos I know many people are wanted it but it is really worth it . It’s high time infidelity in marriage should become a crime otherwise free people from alimony and maintenance this is pure injustice

[@cn9707]

imagine being the guy that chose to date the team runner LMAO. the "buddy" really did himself a disservice.

[@stephennombo4657]

He was Not that dumb. His relationship with that Cheating Women went down after her Divorce, probably bc he refused to give her that very "quick-preparation" Marriage btw them, so she had no choice but to go on a dating site to find a good idiot who'll marry her promptly. No one in their right mind will marry someone they don't know, let alone someone you know for being a cheater & the entire team's Hole. "Buddy" was probably dating her just for his fun, while pretending he'll marry someone like her after her divorce, just to jump out of the mess at the very last moment. The Entire Team including himself were just having fun with her, and He just wanted some Extra fun. Dating a Cheater is no issue, only those who'll commit, sign contracts & marry them, will suffer from it

[@thinkforyourself518]

always tell the spouse/partner if yoh know someone is cheating, becaude they could get S.T. Ds from the cheating partner and not know it.

[@Erick-zg6qr]

So, did Op said something to the wife of the guy from Tenesse she was hooking up while being with that "buddy". The one Op found out was married?

[@AriaRosetti]

Love the longer vids, thanks telltales!

[@00keziah]

Cheating is a horrible time for someone. She has no feelings. When she needs to have a reference in the future, she will find out what a pariah she has become. May she have another man do this to her.

[@Muavegirly]

I am so angry that people like this exist this actually made me try and led me to watch alot more of these videos all leading in me crying 😢

[@chunellemariavictoriaespan8752]

"What do I have? Money in the bank?" Me at 23: "Yes!!! If you don't want it, I want it! I can go to Disneyland with my family with that!"

[@user-ue5sg9nc5g]

28:09, No OP. There’s slim chance she would’ve given birth to your child. I don’t even think the child is her new husband’s ether

[@marendor9087]

This Happened To My Buddy Eric

[@Valthoron]

My Condolences To Your Buddy Eric

[@lizardoanddeathskull198]

26:00 BRO IMAGE PROPOSING ON CALL 💀 💀

[@KilroyWasHere83]

Dating in the westen world in general, and especially here in America is a cesspool of broken people

[@wallacematheus6994]

It wouldn't have been your child man it would have been Chad and Tyrone's child relax. You've lost nothing.

[@aksprkl6594]

Are any of these Telltale stories real? They ALL have the same format 😂

[@thisdude9363]

Most of them aren't. These subreddits are mostly full of bitter incels and angry divorced men who think "ALL WOMEN BAD." These stories are catharsis to them, especially if there's EPIC REVENGE!

[@tomahawk3645]

Does this annoy anyone else? He mentions that family members would keep calling him to tell him what his wife was up to and he'd have to explain what happened. He mentions that even after telling them that he wouldn't reveal the full picture. He was shocked when he saw his ex with a baby and his family supporting her. And yet he mentions that the constant phone calls bothered him and seeing his ex-in laws supporting her bothered him. And yet he made a stupid promise that he wouldn't tell anyone. He'd be rid of the annoying phone calls at least if he told everyone about it. This is a stupid move imo

[@m96216]

“More dept than there is cash in our account” And they make 5,5k combined, how is that possible ? Let’s say the rent is 2k and all the monthly expenses 1k so 3k , where does the rest go?😂 In my country 5,5k a month is considered rich rich 😂 P.S: haven’t heard the rest of the story yet, so he may explain later the no savings

[@Thanatossssx]

They are prob from the US and maybe from an expensive area where the rent is a lot more than 2k, they may also have student debt, maybe car payments too and voila, you live paycheck to paycheck

[@aarya-fn7ys]

​@@Thanatossssx in my country 50k is average. In my country 74 = 1$ in my country.

[@chilpeeps]

I think they used to go to bar and restaurant on weekends which can cost around between 300-500 usd easily also some people by expensive stuff on loans so interest rates get included I am happy that is able to get financially strong and doesn’t lose his wealth

[@TheSergio1021]

Wife probably spending a shit ton. 5.5k a month is pretty wealthy even by American standards

[@cboss9085]

Is it just me these videos are start letting me be more aware around people I'm around❤

[@baboonman846]

Ngl i would probably go round to Buddys house and rearrange his face for disrespecting me like he did. But thats just me

[@solidale21]

I swear all of these crapshows happen in california.

[@Hr1s7i]

I wonder how many "buddies" ended in a ditch somewhere.

[@Dehay24]

It is absolutely possible to instantaneously fall out of love and start loathing someone.

[@virtualatheist]

Love and hate are on the same side of the coin, the other side is indifference.

[@moisesmartinezmorales5885]

Aint nk way she said "yes i did tye nasty with him and another guy...i think they might of been more people" like HUH? WHAT DO YOU MEAN MORE PEOPLE?!

[@jdavis7613]

It would not have been your child. She was with too many men for it to be yours. You dodged a bullet.

[@dannyalvens5418]

After the divorce was finalized,He should have sent out binders of every text,email and screenshot of all the communications between his ex and her lover to everyone they know.....And,If she kicked the guy to the curb,He should have an extra binder prepared to be dropped off to the next guy she gets involved with....

[@arhael3594]

Can't believe OP didn't make all evidence public post divorce and did not reach out to new husband.

[@STKHub]

I pray this story is fake. They usually are, but please let this not be an exception. The poster hardly has self respect, didn't warn the wife being cheated on from another family, and didn't warn the newly wed husband. Real piece of work, this guy.

[@GeordieGunner96]

Cheaters cheat & if you take them back its as it you're giving them permission to do it again & again but the they'll become more frequent & closer to home.

[@ReiCaixa]

Not much injustice, her live will be as it is forever. She'll cheat all her next partners, and her value is always going down through age. While OP makes money, so his value will only grow untill he's 50, and never really go down. He can get a girl better and younger than her if he wants, since he's closer to his prime and she's reaching the end of hers.

[@ericerto8250]

I went through a pretty bad divorce myself. Very selfish self-centered woman. I tried dating shortly after my divorce about 2 years to be approximate. And I felt like I was running down the same path again so I'm just single I plan on remaining that way I don't want to be but I haven't found a good woman and I don't think I will ever find one

[@izybruh97m34]

Should've exposed her group video online

[@cubbleshasreturned6968]

I hope someone tipped off the new husband on what type of person he married

[@mazthebear]

There are so many guys in this world that are blinded by “ love “ that they willingly refuse to see the issues in front of them. Take those damn rose colored glasses of for the love of whatever is holy. This chick never loved him, she found herself a nice guy. The guys you would settle and know for a fact that they are the best a taking care of things financially atleast. Any woman that cheats on their own spouse never truly loved them. Its so obvious that this guy lived with rose colored glasses and refused to see the issues for what its worth. Shes an alcoholic? Yea that’s normally how alcoholics are. Its girls like this that ruin everything for every other good girl out there in the world.

[@dollyl5596]

if she can cheat on OP with AP and cheat again with that “old flame” then she is most likely continuing this till her marriage with the poor soul she caught recently with other guys, my goodness she did a g*ngb*ng with OP’s buddies too so no surprise she loves to play as the ball” in that team…with the record she had of doing I’m not surprised the baby she is carrying is not even the husband’s OP had the upper hand in all this as he has proof in her infidelity, lies and manipulation. Yet he chose to want out, well it’s better than getting it worse, she can turn her family against him and possibly say he was the problem why she resorted to cheating or he did not appreciate her enough or more why she chose “buddy” and many more excuses…just cut her out and move on, she is not worth it

[@minhphan7509]

"Didn't it make more sense to kill her ?" - Peter Griffin

[@user-lf7vf9py5n]

Nice questin. Why havent she changed the passwort lol 😂😂😂

[@nightlight3157]

Sounds like my ex, didn't get married but dodged that bullet

[@caitlinkehler2708]

I'd be contacting the new hubby to suggest a paternity test

[@jestosebno666]

I'm 41 guy and my gf is 36, we are together for 13 years and live together for 10 years. None of us were ever married, no children, no common assets, separate bank accounts. We have excelent relationship. All of those mentioned things are just a strain on a relationship. Do we really need a paper from a governement to prove we love each other?

[@tbnrwolff3354]

Remember people most of the time someone tries to commit suicide and survives they regret it the majority of people regret trying to end their lives so get through whatever you're going through and more than likely you will be fine maybe not financially but in that aspect of wanting to harm yourself

[@t0n51]

Last update hit hard. I took am 32 and childless. And I also thought I'd be a father by now so I understand

[@Jack_Russle732]

Why you get married in no fault states?

[@johnnycatsup]

"one foul swoop"

[@lodunost]

Drunk words and actions are sober thoughts.

[@drifter139]

tell everyone. she couldn't be loyal to you so you don't her owe any loyalty in keeping her secrets

[@julife.ka.3899]

"In another timeline, right now, that could have been my child" i remember when my ex told me he got his 'just someone im seeing' pregnant and i got mixed emotions bc i knew i didn't want kids and he did but not qith her nor like that and also the fugging BULLET i was dodging oh my goodness

[@Mentallect]

Fault occurs in every divorce, and I recommend that either you get married in a Fault state or have an iron clad pre-nupt w/ infidelity clauses in it.

[@delirious8819]

i'd bet anything that that kid isnt the new husband's lmao

[@ssfn1_]

Sometimes I understand sharia law

[@ohnomybatterysdead2725]

Oh nah

[@itsobviouslyyuta1461]

Game is game in Islam

[@tanbirulislam1193]

The rules that wife getting husband's half property as a award for fking other guy wtf law is this ?

[@sparkeyjames]

Jebus this sounds like a trailer park drama.

[@datharo5]

"lunch meat in a douche sandwich" 💀

[@peterwilliams6361]

Great video, there is nothing like a perfect marriage or relationship, I learnt that in everything there is always a solution, 5 years ago I and my wife divorced because we were having some difficulties in our marriage but we are back together ,it was a really bad phase but we got through it

[@DailamiPuang]

there is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things

[@peterwilliams6361]

its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is SHELLY RENEE WHITE.

[@DailamiPuang]

this is helpful, I will look her up. I hope this works for me too, I really miss her.

[@peterwilliams6361]

If you look up Shelly Renee White online, you will find all the information you need. Thank you.

[@ChaoticHoly]

@@peterwilliams6361 A...voodoo priestess. Uh huh.

[@epicmatoi9609]

Op need to grow some spine honestly. He's talking like a loser

[@ronaldocruz4594]

Seriously the dude is p whipped, let her get away with her affair, didn't punish the so called buddy, and he's still moping and feeling all depressed meanwhile she found another sucker and started a family, he let her win in life in the end, smfh.

[@richardthompson3296]

Why would a guy in this Position not trick her into believing he wants to make it work. But needs to divorce in order to get back his decision to continue on. Not being forced. Agree that both sides get nothing but what you came into the relationship with. Then ditch the smitch. Worth a shot i think 😂😂😂

[@gabrielsfilms2086]

TELL THE WIFE.

[@freethinker77]

No fault divorce is ridiculous...

[@MR.Allahham]

Truly get a heavy bag or start a boxing gym or start powerlifting it will get your anger released on whatever the hell you’re doing

[@TruthTeller23914]

DIVORCE

[@christophernoble76]

why do no fault states even exist?

[@thepriorstone4064]

OP: feels bad for losing his morality by blackmailing Also OP: purposely leads her on to get a clean and easy divorce Not saying he’s in the wrong, I just thought it was funny

[@arthaiser]

i feel like he shouldnt have done the "i wont tell anything if you dont contest divorce" thing. he should have told everyone and as fast as possible, that would do the most harm. fuck the finances and the divorce, at least im of the opinion that if you cheat on me, is going to cost you, and is going to cost you as much as i am able to make it cost. if half her trust circle learns at the same time that she is a cheating whore, chances are they arent going to stay with her, that is going to isolate her which in the long run is going to do much more harm to her life as a while, probably prevent her from maintaining that relationship since the other guy is also going to be shamed for doing what he was doing, which is going to pressure their relationship a lot too... family also berating her... i know is not a good person thing to think like that, but hey, if you dont cheat nothing like that happens, is clear that op has been suffering a lot because of the cheating, and i mean a lot, i feel like trying to return all the suffering is only natural

[@sebbaslopez1424]

Good boy dump out the trash

[@gamingcentral2295]

OP is secretly a simp.

[@bigbro869]

No way this chick gets more relationships than me.

[@James-sq4sc]

He needs to move on and stop obsessing over the literal trash fire that is his ex. He’s lucky he wasn’t stuck co parenting with her. It’s only a matter of time before she cheats on her new husband. Assuming she isn’t already

[@konstantinnaumow505]

Your partner goes without you? 90% of the time, they cheat, be happy with your brainless decision 😊

[@BudokaiMan-mr9tw]

Does anyone have a link to the story on Reddit?