Top 7 Best CONVERSATION TIPS To ATTRACT WOMEN| WHAT WOMEN WANT To Hear!

[@mypov4343]

Practice is everything! My personal challenge is to talk to at least one woman I dont know at every event I attend. Not every conversation will go well (and many didn't LOL) because you are not going to be everyone's "cup of tea" or you might not like the person you started talking to. But it's a process worth getting out of your comfort zone for! May it be so for you!

[@YourWingmam]

Exactly! Like building any skill :)

[@mypov4343]

@@YourWingmam opps, I accidently hit send before completing my thoughts which are now complete...sorta LOL

[@brianking7757]

That's a great and useful idea for me. Thank you for this.

[@timmyers9825]

Just got wind of you a couple of weeks ago. At 73yrs old and divorced I find your videos informative and reassuring at this point in my life.After 2 and a half yrs divorced and a 37yr marriage I find your advice very helpful and encouraging. Any sound counciling starts with what is real in life and this is where you are.This shows how video can help and assist people yrs later after they are made.Thanks for your usable, professional guidance.

[@Ravencef]

I've been watching all your videos for the last month or so. You are so wise and willing to help cure the cluelessness in us. All I can think about, is what a catch you would be. Communication is so critical in a relationship and you get my gold star. Being dumped after 30+ years of marriage, I am clueless on how to begin anew. You are helping me understand so much that just knowing what is good and bad about meeting and dating, is improving my confidence. Thank you

[@YourWingmam]

Glad I could help 🙏

[@timmyers9825]

Amen for this lady.

[@ChessIsJustAGame]

I broke through by joining a dating program. One with limits, not like a modern app that good for spreading diseases. I talked on the phone, then in person in a public place if the phone call went well. I got used to not only rejection, but rejecting. I was never more attractive than when I pulled back in a nice way.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@anthonyiannozzi6777]

I am 63 and my wife 62. You have really helped me with my wife on advice with so many of your podcasts. Congratultions and thanks!

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy that my videos have been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@ogbeiwivictorlucky8909]

Do you have someone whom you deeply love but doesn't feel the same way about you. Contact me for help .

[@cancalikaya7873]

❤😂🎉

[@michaelhaney3388]

One of the ladies at work really gives me eye contact. I'm not really into her. I tend to look the other way. Have any suggestions on this.

[@Ankjell]

I like to laugh a lot and just let it go. I feel that after that I feel more relaxed and she also feels more relaxed and amused. Thanks for your help, I´m getting back on my feet again and you give a lot of food for thought, and practise!

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@paulcooper5748]

I asked a woman out the other day she was walking with a friend she said she is in a realationship but i was cool and calm and it was pretty easy i started the conversion and kept it flowing.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@x-man5056]

It sometimes is a challenge to always have something to talk about to break silent pauses...that's interesting, relevant and not seductive (about sex or encouraging sex). Many years ago I found a golden source for current, relevant trivia that can make you seem smart and interesting on many subjects. They allow you to converse with knowledge of many current issues with often a more accurate accounting than most other sources. Many science and tech magazines have short articles (2-3 para's to half page) of common interests with uncommon knowledge. Popular Science, Popular Mechanics, Discover, Science Digest, many others. Read those short articles and you become able create a conversation on many current, trending issues. You can speak with authority and not fear much challenge. Great for ending pregnant pauses. Often can cause an energetic conversation if you pick the right subject. Works.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@darylfrieson3142]

Yes the advice is sage and STRONG! The conversation not conversion plan is true it takes the whole process simple The hm point of using my REAL voice is quite helpful as my voice is deep strong and Confident! The eye contact stage is going to take Practice practice practice Thank you 🙏

[@backyardrailroader]

Good points here, Anna. Now laughter depends on where you are at. Most of the time I am at a Tango Dance/Milonga, so laughter had to be restrained...and one's voice.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@ronw4554]

The best thing about Tuesday evening, a new video from Anna ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Hope you enjoyed it and learned something new, thanks for being here!!

[@richardalventoza6424]

I didn't know Anna you were Canadian,. I'm grew up in Spanish family and i like speak Spanish but I prefer to speak English. When I was a teenager it was exited to go to English classes. Always I was the first to be inside the classroom to listen to my English teacher. He was fun and kind Anna time running faster i would like to reach fluency before I die . My dream its to travel English country in the future but every summer i should go to visit my family in Spain and i like the weather and the sea and sun .every day is nice there shining sun above you blue sky .Its to fun to listen to you Anna you do your work well .keep doing God bless you Anna .

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you very much and may God bless you as well!

[@richardalventoza6424]

@@YourWingmam hello Anna think to answer my message. I need to write every single day. your answer produces a deep heat in my heart I haven't bad thought about you Anna it's only I love comunicate I'm happy and I think God about all things I enjoy the life .communication helps me to overcome lonelyness and in fact writing English language helps me to have self-esteem. French people are cold and it's difficult to build a friendship. Don't be afraid Anna I just want to share with you what I think about the life .I know you have a lot of work to do and I don't want to take your time .even if you don't answer this message it doesn't matter. I love writing reading and listening English. And I notice you're kind it's for this reason I send you a message. I'll continue to listen to your channel .see you soon RICHARD

[@shawnmcewen6210]

Educational, as always. Thanks.

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@scifirealism5943]

I turn 28 by the end of today. I cry for being lonely but I keep watching your videos and staying hopeful.

[@YourWingmam]

Well, I'm sending you a big birthday hug! Thank you for watching my videos. Try some of the ideas in real life... especially #1 in this list... convos not converts. If that's too much, start with just smiling at people in general. 🤗

[@scifirealism5943]

@@YourWingmam thank you! I shall!

[@domtoni4567]

Just wanted to comment on mirroror feelings. When I first met "my friend" some 9 months ago, she really started to challenge who I thought I was. She gave me some time, but I had a lot of crap to get out of me, and wasn't stable enough to handle her, so I kind of avoided her. Then she moved on, still somewhat friendly but distant. At last Friday night's halloween party, we sat (by chance) at the same table, she smiled and was actually pleased that I was there, and seemed encouraging and couldn't believe that I could dance (I give her credit for bringing on change, and the other lass for dragging me onto the floor). And somehow I have to believe that anyone who can do this to me, also had some movement in her. And I came to another realization yesterday that surprised me. I denied for my whole life that I wanted to get married, and I give "my friend" credit for unseating that desire. And I think, based on how I feel and have felt since knowing her, that she had plenty of movement in her. I guess more will follow,

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate that 🙏

[@64maxpower]

I like the tip of saying someone's name in conversation. I have to think that could help in any interaction where you need a person to come to your way of thinking

[@YourWingmam]

Absolutely! :)

[@jodycorbett4426]

@@YourWingmam Whenever I watch your vids I focus on one suggestion instead of getting overwhelmed by trying everything simultaneously (that would have the likely result of being catastrophic). Your suggestion of using the woman's name is my biggest takeaway tonight. So long as I'm not so nervous that I can't remember their name, that is.🤔

[@64maxpower]

@@jodycorbett4426 @Jody Corbett why do you think that you feel nervous talking to a pretty woman Jody? The fact that you are trying to better yourself by learing from this channel tells me that you are more knowledgeable about relationships than most others out there. Invest in yourself. Get Anna's program. I don't know how she understands men like she does, but her work can really help . And I think she's running a special now that with every program she sells she gives away a free puppy

[@jodycorbett4426]

@@64maxpower Hahaha! A free puppy is one thing but if it were a free kitten then this deal is as good as done! Honestly though, I wield a bit of humility in my comments sometimes. Although I was divorced last year (29 years of marriage/34 together) from essentially the only woman I have ever been with, I do feel relatively confident when speaking with women these days. Not dating yet and have never been on the dating apps but I'm responsive, polite, maintain eye contact and infuse conversation with humor and some level of intelligence if I do say so myself. Becoming a better listener, too! Prone to simping so I'm ridding myself of that foolishness, establishing better boundaries, feeling great even when alone (self-soothing) and upgrading my wardrobe, staying clean internally as well as externally. Carving wooden spoons and doing stained glass, getting close again to my family of origin...yeah, doing alright! Thank you @64 for taking the time to offer some advice. That's appreciated!

[@inconnu4961]

@@64maxpower LMAO! A free puppy!

[@paulg1886]

Anna, your videos are brilliant, I have enjoyed each one that I have watched, thank you very much.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that. Don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@paulg1886]

@@YourWingmam I certainly will 😃👍

[@jodycorbett4426]

Anna, I just have to say that brown IS YOUR COLOR! And thank you for the continued, helpful advice.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@antoerickson4152]

This is really helpful and almost all of the conversations I done it right. I use my real voice because I start with "Hmm" when I talking to anyone in real life, but there were a time I gets nervous and my voice is totally different like you said here. I do have a bold eye contact and I won't blink I done it right and yes, it's a practice and that's the reason even now I'm writting a comment to you to build that skill without any fear, even talking to you here is a practice that I'm practicing how to engage in conversations. I used to say you are beautiful in the beginning but now as I walk through the path of virtues, perfection and holiness I cannot give you such compliments my friend. If you are mine I can give you more and more such beautiful compliments, but maybe you are married to an another person or even if you are single. There is no way we can be together and Yes, this is the practice and I am telling the reality. There is one women there for me I don't know who it is and I can enjoy my life with her possibly.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@andrewdewar8159]

Hi Anna, I watch your videos and also Corey Wayne, and Dan Bacon. There is a lot of agreement between the ideas, way more coherence between them than contrast. Corey Wayne thinks you should go up and say Hi what's you're name ? and not give your own name to see if she asks your name back, it would indicate more interest if she asks. He says you should wait till she initiates touch, or standing too close etc, as indicating attraction, and her inviting touch a bit. Thanks for explaining about women, it rings true and makes sense. People say to me, all women are different and you can't generalize ( they don't know what the ideas actually are), well I think, yes all women are different in the type of guy they want, but I wouldn't/shouldn't try if she's not attracted. I think, though all people are different, there are commonalities, like women want to feel safe, and that you are confident etc.

[@RetroCaptain]

I chat up many kinds of people, including risky jokes or humour that some people would be afraid to say. I mastered eye contact years ago. Nervous around "the one"- yes for sure.

[@theseeingeye454]

All good points,Thanks Wingmam May I add a word of caution... KZbin.. SNL Girl You wish You Hadn't Started a Conversation With

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@rorymells3405]

Great advice, the more I talk to all women in public the easier and more natural it feels. The only challenge is the city where I live is that there are more males than females - plus, most women here are not single. Some things are out of your control.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@robertchristie9225]

I go to the dog park practically every day at the same time. That's where my pup and I practice conversation. The difference is she does it with her nose. I really enjoy it because we all have that one thing in common, love of dogs. Conversation is easy and practice is fun.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@Whizzer153]

Anna shares her top seven conversation tips to attract women, emphasizing the importance of genuine and engaging interactions. Here's a summary of her advice: 1. **Conversation, Not Conversion**: Anna advises focusing on the conversation itself rather than trying to convert it into a phone number, date, or relationship. This approach reduces nervousness and makes the interaction more natural. 2. **Use Your Real Voice**: She highlights the importance of using your natural voice, as a nervous, higher-pitched voice can make both you and the woman feel uneasy. 3. **Use Her Name**: According to Anna, using a woman's name in conversation makes her feel seen and acknowledged, fostering a sense of familiarity and comfort. 4. **Bold Eye Contact**: Anna suggests maintaining eye contact slightly longer than feels comfortable to build tension and demonstrate confidence. 5. **Casual Body Language**: She recommends relaxed and natural body language to make the woman feel at ease and safe. 6. **Touching Appropriately**: Anna advises on breaking the touch barrier in a casual and brief manner, akin to how you might touch a friend, to foster closeness and comfort. 7. **Unrestrained Laughter**: Encouraging genuine laughter, she explains that this can release feel-good endorphins and associate positive emotions with your presence. Throughout these tips, Anna emphasizes the importance of practice and being genuine in your approach. She advises practicing conversations in various settings to improve communication skills and become more at ease in conversations with women you're attracted to.

[@greenshards7422]

I'm glad I found this channel thank you for the videos you put out

[@YourWingmam]

Welcome aboard, and don't forget to click on the notification bell to be notified whenever I release a new video ❤ 🙏

[@paulx7620]

I've been known to go to my knees laughing even at work. And it's pretty cool because you can tell whom ever made you laugh that hard really enjoys seeing it you see thier eyes light up from such a strong reaction 😁. But yeah I'm very comfortable with myself.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️ 🙏

[@erronymousbosh5649]

Really great episode! Great practicality! Thank you Anna.

[@YourWingmam]

You're most welcome ❤️

[@johnw3770]

My name is John. When it comes to coffee shops I prefer not waiting in line behind more than three people. I have been on an espresso kick lately and found that among franchises Starbucks does it right, however I prefer small businesses when possible. Thanks for asking Anna. 🤓

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@sonshinecity]

I usually get in the friend zone and that's where it ends because she's either too afraid to advance or i see something in her that doesn't fit for what i want in a woman.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@x35mmman]

totally agree with you about being in the friend zone....been talking to someone I met on Facebook dating and our conversation on the phone was going so well and than I am hearing the lighter going off lighting up a cigarette....that is such a big red flag for me. Forgot to mention hearing the smoke cough too.

[@JohnM...]

SHE is?...

[@yeshuapleaseprotectthechil2150]

You are fortunate to be following the best. She is the type of woman that every man should strive to find; a heart of gold, intelligent, and attractive.

[@FitzkeithFitzhugh]

Thanks for sharing. About eye contact, for me it's to look for any signs of drug use and abuse. 👀One thing that annoys me, is when some women flutter their eyelids really really fast while they talk. I have no idea why they do that and I can't even do mine that fast either.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@dennisheisey9510]

I appreciate your videos, they bring tips that help me after being out of the dating game for 40 years. They really do help, Thank you so very much.

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏

[@natejoe9924]

I stopped looking at your channel because I feel nothing worked everything was a filled attempt to meet somebody but I found somebody that really likes me

[@YourWingmam]

🙏

[@michaelkrain1644]

good video i appreciate the insight i need towork on holding the eye contact part

[@YourWingmam]

I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏

[@AtifBUX]

Awesome talk, that's in a million! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼💪🏼😎✌🏼

[@YourWingmam]

You're most welcome 🙂

[@QuiDocetDiscit]

Excellent tips!...but the question still remains...converse about what? The best conversation lubricant is...Sincere Personal Interest. Be fascinated by her. Find and comment on admirable qualities. Be a good listener. Share some things about yourself but go back to her. And yes!...make them laugh. "Questions are the sparkplugs of a conversation." (but don't make it an interrogation!)

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@Hamid-yg4zl]

I got to say you are a Mature Woman we need more like you in Canada specially Toronto Hopefully

[@scifirealism5943]

My two dreams are to get a scholarship and to get a girlfriend. I know the first one isn't related to your videos but you always teach me to take chances.

[@YourWingmam]

Taking chances and making choices is good! :))

[@Lucio2079]

Ammetto che quando ho guardato questo video, ho provato moltissima frustrazione, disagio, invidia rabbia, rimpianti e tristezza. Tutti ottimi insegnamenti!! Occorrerà guardare questi video più di una volta. Ho ben presente che non serve a nulla lamentarsi. Avrei tanto voluto aver capito molte cose quando le hanno capite molti della mia età, io ho 34 anni. Filmato molto incoraggiante! Cercherò ad ogni occasione di fare pratica. Ti ho guardata con i sottotitoli in italiano.

[@joey86bu1]

Stuffy! A better quote about perfectionism is... Perfect is the enemy of good.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@mikestroud9969]

This lady is such a Doll ❤❤ Great personality and mindset. Take care Red. 🥰❤🙏💯👋👋

[@corywest263]

4:29 😂 was on my 4th "hmm" when you asked. 😂

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@guntertorfs6486]

When i've pushed my female friends ( lesbian couple + girlfriends of two best friends ) during us going out dancing about interactions with women , they actually say i should ' take action ' way sooner, although those interactions aren't long at all. ( repeated 5-10 minute conversations with a woman in between dancing ) Contradicts the advice one usually hears about women prolonging the conversation if they like you. And they say these females like me most of the time. Women : figuring out what they want in the moment can be challenging. "Follow your instincts " is what my friends say , but if i were to do that , it sometimes means touching and kissing them in a matter of minutes. ( in these going out situations ) " Indeed " , my female friends reply to this. Boggles my mind to think i would have such an effect in such small ( repeated ) conversations and it would be that easy. By the way , your energy seems very much OK today , lovely lady. Good.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@inconnu4961]

Try not to follow the Libidinal Instincts yet! LOL

[@MrOgynist]

Using names - it also helps you to remember the name. Tale of two girls One that I've given up on for a number of reasons, addresses me as "dear". Affectionate? Maybe. Detached? Equally maybe. Another (I mentioned bedroom dancing girl in last video) ALWAYS addresses me by name. It conveys a much more personal approach, distinguishing me from anyone else.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@jonnydallas6507]

Hello beautiful! As always great stuff!👍🍀🍀🍀🍀

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@jonnydallas6507]

@@YourWingmam you are very welcome

[@minimalism-freedom]

Thanks! Very good tips. You mentioned that we shouldn't try to impress the woman...Could you write a few sentences on how to tell a woman something without showing interest, impressing, or boasting? This communication would be the most valuable in my opinion.

[@YourWingmam]

Work it into the discussion or story "I own a BMW" becomes "My car needs more attention than my last girlfriend" Guaranteed she'll ask what kind of car you drive. Then you tell her nonchalantly and change the topic so it isn't obvious you're waiting for her to be impressed. Or you ask her if she's into old school gas cars or electric, an easy segue. Women read between the lines or ask questions to find out. Always if they're interested. If they're not interested, you could drive a Bentley and it won't matter (unless she's a gold digger, which you don't want anyway).

[@abdelmjidossor3561]

Great tips as always tnx very very much Anna

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@davidcave5426]

For me, it's less about eye contact and more about lip reading. I'm hard of hearing and hearing aids don't always work well, especially in group settings. So I tend to supplement eye contact with partial lip reading to make sure I understand what she's saying.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@davidcave5426]

@Linl I've been hard of hearing for decades, so it's a lot of practice. Plus I ask them to repeat or I repeat back what I think they said to make sure I understand. Sometimes, i don't read it right and the results can be hilarious.

[@RetroCaptain]

One of my first bosses was hard of hearing, his hearing aid was antique and not reliable so he figured out how to lip read. He could figure out what people on the other side of the room were saying.

[@marcostreet3169]

Hey Wing girl. as always good content. One thing though, perfectionism has nothing to do with procrastination.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@BrianDavis-no6gy]

Accurate for you maybe , but remember people are individuals 😊👍

[@natejoe9924]

I'm very happy I was depressed for the longest time and just angry but I'm very happy

[@YourWingmam]

I'm sorry to hear about that, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@natejoe9924]

@@YourWingmam thank you so much I hope it works out but I don't know

[@acrishears8753]

Love your videos, great knowledge.

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@64maxpower]

Browns and golds and those kinds of colors go really good with your hair

[@jackkerrjr5529]

Thank you Anna...

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@1upmushroom13]

I do have trouble with unrestrained laughter, to answer the video prompt. As an internal processor and analytical type, I tend to like controlling my actions closely in a conversation so that I make the right decisions, kind of like a chess game where you think about all the moves and what could happen in response. If I let go, I don't want to do something I regret. When I think about it, though, you shouldn't have to be too alert or careful around a woman if she's the right fit for you. By laughing unrestrained, you can test a woman to see how you feel around her and if you feel safe and good around her, just as she is wondering if you are safe and good for her as well. What does she think about the real you? If she doesn't like that person, you can know by being genuine from the very beginning not just with laughter, but with anything. That also helps with nervousness, I think, especially if she's extremely pretty. Since men are very visually wired, it's easier to want to change yourself for physically beautiful women in order to land the "hot chick", but you shouldn't allow a woman's physical appearance to define your identity or whether you pursue her since it's only one trait (and not the most important one), even if it's easy to get distracted by her looks. By aiming to be natural, you know that your genuine self on the inside matters in the end and it will be easier to not get distracted by the outside. She may be a 10 on the outside, but if she treats you poorly and isn't compatible with you, she's not an overall 10 at all for you. A 7 or 6 in looks who is really nice and compatible is way better than a 10 in looks who's mean and who you have to change for in order to impress. You have little idea who a person is beyond your intuition just by looking at them, so focusing on the inside is what matters. Focusing on her inside can also help with eye contact with a woman and especially an attractive one. In trying to not think about something making you nervous, you are still thinking about it, so it's easier to think about something else, which in this case would be her inside instead of her looks.

[@ourblessedmess5815]

Thank you so much ☺️😆 😘

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@johncannon5347]

I find your way of making a point sensibly reassuring

[@YourWingmam]

Wonderful compliment, thank you! :)

[@michaelkrain1644]

yes sometimes

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@kevinheggi5419]

So, Anna.....what about a few tips for us older guys....running into an old school crush, that is now divorced. Someone you've bumped into every few years, but not daily....and now, there is time for that....

[@chuckfrysbee8567]

I like your channel!

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@JeffreySch]

Thank you wingman😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 this channel is cool

[@extra222love]

Loved that Hmmm-first tip 👌🏼

[@steelfanther328]

Thanks a whole lot for your awesome videos! Keep up the good work! Some girls would not only be highly-respected, but also regarded as HOLY in India. - A Russian joke

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate hearing from you!

[@natejoe9924]

I was so depressed that I didn't even want to look at your Channel but this girl really likes me and in the future she wants to have my kid if I have a kid I'm definitely going to be a good dad

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, and I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@Dr.CJ21]

the tresses 💖💗💖💗💖💗💖

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🙏

[@audiophileman7047]

Good conversation isn't just a skill. It is an art. Why does one sleep? Why does one eat? Why does one converse? Like writing a poem and writing a song, the goal of good conversation is to inform and maybe even entertain in an unusual way. There isn't much I have to add to your excellent tips and other advice, but the casual, friendly touch part is something best left to the time after there have been a number of conversations and at least one date. Unfortunately there are women with ulterior motives, so a man needs to weed them out before he touches a woman. Women are very curious people; they like to know, especially about interpersonal relationships. If you can tell a woman something that she did not know before, especially some profound truth, she will grow in her affection for you. Try to find a topic you know a lot about that you think would be interesting to a woman and weave it in the conversation. Since I have wide interest and knowledge of music, it's a very easy subject for me to weave in a conversation. Good, clean, and clever humor is always great, and a man can go far by learning how to be humorous. Laughter is a great tool in many situations, not just romance. Cornball jokes that I invent are a favorite of mine, but I always warn people that they are cornball before telling them. A cornball joke is one of those things where it's so bad that it's good. I'm not afraid to laugh my butt off in front of anyone if something is truly funny. When a woman laughs, a man receives his own great reward, because a woman looks and sounds beautiful when she laughs. Oh my, yes she does!😍

[@Ard-mhacha-abu]

Great read man 👌🙂

[@audiophileman7047]

@@Ard-mhacha-abu Thanks, ace, I'm glad you enjoyed it. Keep on loving your beautiful, laughing woman. 👍👍👍

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Ard-mhacha-abu]

@@YourWingmam Love the way you take the time to reply to people in such a genuine way. You’re amazing, Anna. Keep up the excellent work 💫🫶

[@alanchriston6806]

Superb as always WW 😊🏴‍☠️

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you so much 😃

[@victorgreenwood2972]

Thank you Anna.

[@bumpercoach]

yes beware "perfection" but do remember that its also a verb for IMPROVING

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@davidsisson2026]

I've been there. Choked.

[@esotericknowledge111]

Used to be nervous but not anymore and when she looks away then if I catch her looking again I look at her eyes look down look up her eyes and away then it creates storms in her head like sometimes women look at their jeans or shoes and thinking what did he look at is there something wrong with my shoes lol it just flows really

[@YourWingmam]

I've suggested that in another video! :))

[@esotericknowledge111]

@@YourWingmam oh okay I just found your channel so havent seen all of your videos yet, but I am working on it because THIS STUFF REALLY WORKS. After my fiance passed away I recovered and I am back in the game now and I am 100% better at it than ever and it just feels good to be a man and know how to excite women haha thank you

[@tomcaldwell5750]

Thank you, Anna 🎉😢😅😅

[@YourWingmam]

My pleasure ❤️

[@Diginixx]

What I've always done is immediately after meeting someone and asking their name is look them in the eye, and slightly slower than normal say their name back to them and watch their eyes dilate. Try it, with confidence obviously. Note: works on men too lol.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@chuckysith]

Good tips

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@johnpaul2285]

Vote for Anna ! Queen Canada ! 🍁 They need some love up there too ! 🌹 Okay , that's it , that's all, Okay

[@YourWingmam]

❤ 🙂

[@johnpaul2285]

@@YourWingmam Thank you Anna Maria 🙂❤ 🌺 God bless you again my friend

[@splitcanerods1]

eye contact is difficult I admit it. Shes doing it too me! 😍

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@bobrott4144]

Yeah, I am terrible at making and holding eye contact. It feels like to me that people are staring at me. And, right now the fewer people that notice me the better. I was one of the kids in grade school that go made fun of often for everything that I did. And, also I do not like the sound of my laugh or my voice either. I try to talk as least as possible and laugh as least as possible also. ☹️ I know I struggle and suck at every single aspect of trying to attract the women I am actually attracted to. I need serious help. But, I do not have enough or make enough money to actually pay someone like you, Anna or Marni Kinrys. I hope to some day. The bad part is that I already just turned 37. ☹️

[@audiophileman7047]

Hey Bob, everybody has something about themselves that they don't like. A guy may not like being bald, short, etc. There are so many things, but there is more about a person than one or two attributes. A lot of these so-called "unattractive" things really don't matter. First thing to do is accept your laugh and the sound of your voice. The second thing to do is work on building your confidence by taking inventory of your strengths and positive attributes. If you don't have many, get started on building your skills and abilities. They will build your confidence. Understand that everyone and I mean everyone is in the same boat with the same set of fears and worries. Don't be afraid of rejection. See rejection as a sign that a relationship isn't going to work (better to fail before it started). You have to go through a lot of dirt before you find gold. Take it all in stride and most of all just be you. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what you think is unattractive, a woman may find attractive.

[@jimoinsolvay]

Believe it or not, you'd be suprised how little that matters. You need to be comfortable in your own skin first, then just interact with people. You'll be suprised for sure. Everybody has insecurities, get past them & enjoy your day.

[@YourWingmam]

🙏 I hope you reach the point of truly doing what is best.

[@64maxpower]

I've noticed that when you wear browns and fall kinds of colors they work best with your hair

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@stephenwblackburn1785]

I have not had this experience much. Only when I was 14. I would love to have a conversation with you!

[@64maxpower]

lol, Pillow Cat really knocked it out of the park this week

[@YourWingmam]

Ha, caught! Thanks for playing! :)

[@richardsrensen4219]

I need to practise my conversations skills with strange. i nomaly only talk with people i knows.

[@YourWingmam]

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[@visaman]

I haven't had a good belly laugh in a long time, until this Halloween, I went to a party in the lobby of my building, and, one of my fellow owners is a bit of an amateur magician, we were introduced, and he reaches behind my ear, and pulls out a plastic "worm" out of my ear. I just burst out laughing, it wasn't that funny, but, I couldn't control myself, and we all were laughing! It felt good.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate that 🙏

[@kylekenan2321]

I have no idea how I used to have so much game/confidence when I was younger (like 10 or younger), then somehow lost it. I'd be able to walk up to her, get her name, and have her play or dance with me until it was time to go.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@Hawker900XP]

Good points, thanks ❤

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for watching! 💞

[@madwax1360]

You're so right about the "real voice" observation. I once heard myself in a video, and I literally sounded like Mickey Mouse. I was so embarrassed!

[@YourWingmam]

Dang! Practice using the "hmm" technique. And stay hydrated! lol

[@madwax1360]

@@YourWingmam will do! Thanks Goose!

[@edwardgenet164]

I practice every day to findsome clever lines to say to make the meaning come true, But then I think l'll wait until the evening gets late and I'm alone with you

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️

[@azmike3572]

Good advice, but I wonder why we didn't seem to require this type of coaching when meeting people 50 years ago. What exactly happened?

[@czl29]

Hmmm..Hmm... Practicing

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@russellgardener126]

Things that make you go hmmm 😀

[@YourWingmam]

🙂

[@DD888-q4y]

Life saver

[@YourWingmam]

Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!

[@jaredshaw5023]

I don’t hold good eye contact. I think it’s because growing up I’ve been shy. I think I’m learning to get out of that now. Another coach that Artison says to do the three second rule. Three seconds, then approach her right away and shake. Hi my name is Jared Shaw what’s your name? Etc.. they say the best way to build. Trust is through proper touch, example and shake. Actor George Clooney, who I’ve met shakes hands with everybody. Most of the most successful people shake hands with everybody.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@actmyage2149]

Looking at the brevity of your replies Sunday and the slight tardiness of your responses here makes me concerned that maybe you aren't feeling so well this week. Please let me know if I'm wrong. You're looking good on the video, but that may have been weeks before for all I know. The material is strong -- not earth-shattering -- but very solid. I've found great times to practice conversation include waitresses, grocery checkout women, and even ladies doing the drive-in line at fast food places (though I need to keep it brief, obviously). But, then again, this is practice, so I can focus on one or two things for a few seconds, or on building rapport with someone I see semi-regularly. This is particularly useful for developing humor when talking with a stranger. Praying for you earnestly. -- Russ P PS/Mr. T. sends some loving wet-nosed slobber as well. ;)

[@YourWingmam]

Great examples of where to practice! And yes, been extra tired the last week or so. Change of season, shorter days, haven't started treatment (Lyme disease if anyone is wondering). I try to film on good days in advance whenever possible. Thanks for checking in and for your prayers, Russ! Scratch for Mr. T. God bless!

[@johnpaul2285]

@@YourWingmam I didn't know 🙏❤

[@marklion]

@@YourWingmam I knew you had health concerns, but didn't know it was Lyme disease you have. I am sad to learn this. I hope the medication can, in time, lessen the effects. Shania Twain has Lyme disease. She talks about it in her Not Just A Girl doco.

[@nigelmitchell5726]

Mmmm , I only have a minute , your great Anna 😘

[@YourWingmam]

😊 thank you

[@johnh.nickels3832]

No. 5 You've never met my family, close nit family torn by bitter rivalries. Never take me seriously , even I know better.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@jumboegg5845]

Two points. Men are not touchy people, we dont go around touching people in conversion, so this a rather big conscious step to make. 2. Practice always helps, but the problem is while practicing I have mislead a string of women who thought I was interested in them. I then had to become cold and heartless to turn them off, which hurt their feelings and mine. So if you are going to practice, I suggest practicing flirt on so called "higher status" women.

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@inconnu4961]

If men were brought up in a 'touchy, huggy' surrounding, then they will be too! its very particular to culture, and Mediterranean cultures I believe are more often these types. Brought up in Germanic cultures, we are not comfortable with touching strangers.

[@jonathanfactor6688]

Great video thanks hun

[@YourWingmam]

Thanks for watching! :)

[@ФирдавсФайзиев-у5ы]

Thumbs up !"

[@glennjansen5225]

ICON. 🔔

[@YourWingmam]

🙂

[@billmurray7473]

Not to be nitpicking, Anna, but while you talk about eye contact you do Quite A Bit of blinking. Is this an Unintentional Reflex action?

[@YourWingmam]

Women blink more frequently than men and older women more frequently fly than younger (on average lol) plus, I’m trying to get all the details out without making the video too long so there’s reflexive stress, yes! 😁

[@markwilliamson2795]

This Chris Williamson ?...Christopher Williamson is a British politician who was the Member of Parliament for Derby North from 2010 to 2015 and again from 2017 to 2019.....66 years old ?

[@YourWingmam]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏

[@scampifrity]

Hmmm! Orbit-The-Cat was there for only a minute then look at him paying attention like there is no tomorrow.

[@YourWingmam]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!