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@scifirealism5943 Жыл бұрын
You provide limitless help for many men! Thank you for your help!
@BillClinton228 Жыл бұрын
Seriously it's 2023, what adult female hasn't spent time in hoeville... in Arab countries infidelity is punishable by death and women still do it.
@Adam-th5cy Жыл бұрын
Always do 😀 love the little drum solo lol
@matthewschwartz6607 Жыл бұрын
Ana is one of the funniest coaches .
@ugalitamu9082 Жыл бұрын
You need to learn how to speak to men. How am I supposed to know that she was having one night stands? I thought you were supposed to tell us the signs
@Techjunkie51 Жыл бұрын
Just because she makes you wait for it doesn’t mean she’s not promiscuous. They will give it up to the guys they are attracted to the first night, but if they think you are relationship material, they will make you wait to make you think they are good girls.
@adamfindlay7091 Жыл бұрын
Yep heard.
@Human_01 Жыл бұрын
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. _
@Human_01 Жыл бұрын
Honestly, it's reached the point where if a STEREOTYPICAL woman ('ESFJ', ESFP/ISFP, ESTP) complained about sexual assault - so what?! Most women have a 4 to 30+ body-count anyway!!! The one and only significant difference is 'PERMISSION' to "fornicate on used goods". The alcohol only helps to NUMB their instinct that tried to discourage them from going through with it!!! Since their body is not a sacred temple, can you not see how their internal environment (mind, spirit and emotion) is a cesspool of a mess! The influence of 'ESFP'/ISFP (moral depravity-a core trait for them), and 'ESFJ' cover-narcissism, especially in the school environment is the cause for all of this! Careless INFP add to this as well (despite being a wonderful type). INFP overly accommodating psychology is easily exploited, corrupted by covert-narcissits (ESFP, ISFP, ESFJ, and Cluster-B) and the INFP turns into an enabler of "sexual depravity". It happens a lot. Take a look at most sexual movements. This is why intelligence and the foresight to "look at the bigger picture" when making important decisions - like an intelligent person should be able to do... Is extremely important! Most movements do not account for corrupt members, i.e. member that secretly harbor an ulterior, degenerate motive! Case in point, today's feminism, charities, etc. And yet we wonder how it came cancerous and only facilitates "prasites" (who secretly experience a [metaphorically] cannibalising psychology/state of mind). I hope that intelligent and spiritually clean humans will take the time to dissect and understand this comment.
@battragon Жыл бұрын
Relationships are for insecure people. And women aren't made to feel unlovable as easily as men, what with human biology highly privileging them. The only remedy is men having a backbone.
@caucasianafrican1435 Жыл бұрын
100%
@sglaser001 Жыл бұрын
If she was promiscuous in the past, don’t ever wait for something she gave to others for free. Just move on.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@pootypump7440 Жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@WRR689 Жыл бұрын
Good point!!!!
@colingibson8930 Жыл бұрын
100%
@marguskiis7711 Жыл бұрын
You sounds bitter and this is not a good place to tell the truth.
@MrWebster Жыл бұрын
Get to know her friends. You can quickly get a measure of the person by the friendships they form.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@gerryvandepol7630 Жыл бұрын
Yup, single girls keep girls single
@shanecuster-v5f Жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@jugguknoxxunorthodox2365 Жыл бұрын
Those same friends can also be her sisters......
@hump195310 ай бұрын
If she has no women friends and a lot of guy friends that is not a good sign …
@jeremy45410 ай бұрын
A girl I was seeing actually admitted she had 3 different guys over a 24 hour period. I immediately moved on.
@YourWingmam10 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@thebigleone10667 ай бұрын
That’s an ick.
@jsrchmnd7 ай бұрын
Sounds good to me. I love a high body count It's more exciting. LOL i know i am a bit weird.
@perniciousseizurehellio34387 ай бұрын
@@jsrchmnd that’s you and you only my guy
@davesmith8267 ай бұрын
@@jsrchmnd I hope foir your sake that you bag up.
@Random_Blip Жыл бұрын
Summary: 1. Admits to cheating but blames the guy 2. A lot of hookups 3. Not very selective 4. Likes to talk about sex a lot 5. Sex on the first date 6. Proud to be promiscuous 7. Dresses promiscuously with a mission 8. Flirts in front of you but makes excuses 9. Hides her phone Also: She has sl utty social media She might be reformed if she's engaged in voluntary celibacy (one year as a guideline).
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@dandane5693 Жыл бұрын
Lol, reformed ? After she been through half the city, LMAO!!! Good luck bro.
@macabara8819 Жыл бұрын
If you want to know guys look straight into her eyes and the movement of her eyes tells a lot.
@EssPhour Жыл бұрын
@@dandane5693 Also known as "The Wall"
@marguskiis7711 Жыл бұрын
As a former Casanova I can do some comments. 1. Sex at first date shows NOthing about the woman. It shows that the man is very attractive. I have had series of intercourses after 15 minutes from the first sight and with VERY different women. Most of them were monogamous (usually ex) housewives. The most promi women I ever met they did NOT made love with me at the first date. 2. Talking lot about sex does not show anything. Women love to talk about sex. It excites them. It is so rare time for them to talk about sex with men. If they find a man to talk about freely about it they enjoy it full time. 3. Clothes does not show anything. The most nymphomanic woman I ever met looked very average and had very modest outfit. The girls with ultrasexy outfit are usually cold as ice and very unsexy in reality. 4. Hiding phone does not show anything. Most of women are afraid of abuse and inspecting woman's phone is common habit of abusive men.
@jbman413 Жыл бұрын
One red flag means out, no joy, walk away. I had one red flag and I let my ex wife talk me out of it ruined me and my children for well over 2 decades. Thank you Anna!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry to hear about that. I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@jbman413 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam it’s just life, but you are sweet! Thank you for what you do. I hope others will avoid things that can happen by listening to your loving advice. God Bless you lady!
@ernest1576 Жыл бұрын
Women will always justify their bad behavior and you will pay dearly somewhere down the line for even questioning them when you least expect it they will pull the rug out from under you
@gnarlytothemax Жыл бұрын
what was the red flag?
@ernest15769 ай бұрын
Sorry about that brother I hear ya lie too you straight faced and justify their bad behavior tell you what you want too hear and not even bat an eye can't live with them can't do most position s without them I'm sorry too say
@Jhihmoac Жыл бұрын
When she's promiscuous, she can get any guy she wants, and she's always gonna look for the one with the best looks, most variety-filled party lifestyle, most money, etc. It doesn't matter if she's gonna have a short shelf life with him, she's GOT to have him, and most times, she'll make sure she's knocked up by him!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@jatinshilen7 ай бұрын
Wouldnt all girls behave that way when they see a guy with good looks, personality, wealth etc. Not all them are hoes.
@seanodwyer43225 ай бұрын
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@bobbyscalchi40134 ай бұрын
@@Jhihmoac Yeah that's called "Breeding" in certain circles
@Jhihmoac4 ай бұрын
@@bobbyscalchi4013 - You got that right! 🤣
@isettech Жыл бұрын
Great job. As a guy, there are women who you are attracted to, but would never introduce them to the potential future in-laws. The one you introduce to your parents and she introduces you to her parents, is probably a keeper. Get to know her parents or his parents and get to know them well. You can find out about the family that way. She has a single mom? She may become one too.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@johnmartinez1899 Жыл бұрын
#8 was an issue for me with a girlfriend. It happened a few times only where she entertained other men's gazes. I called her out on it but she gaslighted me. I told her it was very disrespectful and and was very pathetic that she needed validation from random men. I also said that I faced the same issue with other women's gazes but I never entertained it out of respect for her.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Exactly! Other people will notice you (or her) but it's how you (or she) handles it that shows your character. People who need others' validation while in a relationship either aren't happy in that relationship or have insecurities that will probably cause issues in the relationship. No one is perfect and everyone has insecurities, but whether she's willing to acknowledge and work on it tells you how red the flag is. Thanks for sharing your experience!
@alejandrodelgado5829 Жыл бұрын
@@bibbityboppityboo1206 even if you are blind , she will do it.
@nerifterafrnam4682 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam red flags come in different shades ?
@Jamieoo77 Жыл бұрын
Yeah agree about entertaining other men's glances!
@comicallaugh Жыл бұрын
That sux and the fact that you pointed it out to her is a seriously beta move and I think we all have done it. IMO the best thing you can do is not make these girls relationship material until you have seriously vetted them and that takes several months or more. She will reveal herself, she can't help it. Just remove your attention, place her on the practice roster or release her as a free agent. Don't contract her, she's not going to play. Watch her behavior, look for inconsistencies in action vs words. We all like validation, try not to be dependent on it. Some women it becomes a drug and they are addicts.
@ZoeyMauve Жыл бұрын
"Reformed" = aged out of the game
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate your feedback!
@AlonsoBall887 ай бұрын
🎯
@jeffreyscottking7 ай бұрын
glad somebody female said it 🎉😅❤
@lambchop62787 ай бұрын
Males can often be the same: settling down only once they can no longer make it in the single life as attractive. Also, a lot of non Alphas males would probably jump at the chance to sleep around. Overall, my observation is that people aren't as good hearted as they often assume themselves to be. And our biology is not so simple to override and bring true restraint to. Restraint that's based on real choice. Also, often 'morality' actually comes down to what happens to be in the best interests of the individual!! Rather than necessarily being about others (though that also comes into it) . It's more of a question of how do you define your best interests? Is it about short term happiness, or long term? Usually a person answers this question as a result of having made some mistakes. Some poor choices. And figuring out what they are and are not willing to put up with from a partner, as well as understanding what the opposite sex are like. What their needs, weaknesses and capabilities are. And what is and is not fair to ask from them. Sacrifice is unavoidable. And it's best to have a good idea of what you can expect from others and what you need to be happy: and then make a compromise based on this. But it will feel less of a compromise as you grow into being in line with your highest choice. Then it becomes more second nature. ...Having said all that and done all that, I must say that the internet does seem to play on one's inherent weakness. I do believe everyone would benefit from recognising this and from reminding that on line is no substitute for real life interactions with people. It rather distorts interaction and is why I believe we are seeing this current crisis between men and women. Technology really is creating greater division between the genders, just as it's acting to increase temptations.
@johnpdd7 ай бұрын
A lot of women become "conservative" when they are no longer hot.
@AnthonyWalkersound Жыл бұрын
"Hoeville" , "In and out Club", "Tramptown" 😂😂😂
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thanks for appreciating my sense of humour! :))
@charleschidester6767 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam I bet you could do that all day long. Thanks for the laughs.
@maxhouse2409 Жыл бұрын
"Funkytown" by LippsInc
@roberthuppert4912 Жыл бұрын
How about in and out the door,our little 304!🤣🤣🤣
@DG-EditsYT Жыл бұрын
I thought it was "Wholeville" 😂
@ppumpkin3282 Жыл бұрын
If a women ever says "it just happened" - run. It means she'll hop in the sack on a whim and takes no accountability for her actions.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@Troy-xg4eh10 ай бұрын
Accountability is on its way out. “I didn’t know…” is a valid reason to get out of anything nowadays.
@Ace.0.0.0.8 ай бұрын
Like Jada.
@aSgiandubh2 ай бұрын
Or …I had too much to drink and lost control, one thing led to another. Not a valid defence
@alphafox400 Жыл бұрын
All nine signs are on point and insightfully described. Here are more flaming red flags: 1) she is seeing someone else but agrees to date me; 2) she demands to know how many women I have had and is “relieved to know that my body count” is higher; 3) she accused me of flirting with every woman out there, of leading a secret life, and she wants to see my messages, etc.; 4) she regularly goes out with me but in often unavailable even on weekends or she often is away for a long weekend, say at the shore with her parents; 5) she knows things about the preferences of her boss, professor, coworker, male friends that she should not know; 6) she complains to me about guys who stalk her or otherwise won’t leave her alone and when I confront them they act as if I am the interloper. Jeez, I better stop. I thought I would just add two or three but more keep coming to mind. Men, please, any one red flag means you will likely get laid but each is a deal killer regarding marriage or a committed relationship!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@rockon8174 Жыл бұрын
Oh, hush up!!!! You're a promiscuous man!!!!
@carlosemiralonso7997 Жыл бұрын
Knowing preferences of others, is a good point that i never heard, thanks a lot. Usually they talk with other womans and get info on they boyfriends but if as you said : is her boss, professor, male friends... red flag.
@bobbyscalchi40137 ай бұрын
I've experienced ever single of of these with ex GF's and dating post divorce. It's almost like you had a looking glass into my life the last 4 years.
@dodibenabba525 Жыл бұрын
If you listen carefully, they'll tell you themselves.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@Dkay127 ай бұрын
They always do but most men are so thirsty they don’t listen enough
@JDOGFTW2 ай бұрын
@@dodibenabba525what question do you ask
@mrfixit27888 күн бұрын
I was dating someone who said when she was younger she had more boyfriends than she can remember. Apparently she didn't sleep with all of them! She is in her 50's, 6 years divorced and has extensive dating. Nobody has met her friends supposedly. She made me wait 8 dates, but I am not a high market value man!
@dodibenabba5258 күн бұрын
@mrfixit2788 you are a high value man if you are love, authentic and sincere. Never forget that. The things of this world are temporary.
@stevenbrashear3408 Жыл бұрын
To make a long story short, they will tell on themselves. Don't just listen to what they say, watch their actions.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
You're absolutely right!
@stevenbrashear3408 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam although there are some that can change, it is highly unlikely. From what I've seen, what's gone bad during the day cannot come good during the night.
@nikita-dh5je Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam Thanks for all of your great videos,very helpful. I'm a young guy, so I have a lot to learn, my last 2 girlfriends ended up showing some of these signs, then admitted they were cheating with other guys, their excuses were that they needed a lot more sex that I seemed to want. I went a year without dating anyone, now I am dating a beautiful girl, she doesn't show these signs, however whenever she sees a really good looking guy she looks at him endlessly and flirts, I guess I do the same with a hot girl but it makes me nervous that she may stray,
@alexanderchenf1 Жыл бұрын
@@nikita-dh5je have a little dignity and dump her
@moubhattacharyay6891 Жыл бұрын
@@nikita-dh5je At 1st Fix Ur Own Promiscuity As A Jerk Tendencies In A Man Before Assuming In Other Women..
@JT-91 Жыл бұрын
You do realize if a women is "reformed" and unwilling to preform certain acts with her new partner its no different than finding out that the man you are dating took his ex on lush trips and cruises and hardly ever takes you anywhere.
@theerealatm Жыл бұрын
And has the same income and ability to do so.
@a.d.b535 Жыл бұрын
Great point. As an solder woman, a bummer to meet men who had lots of toys (boats and cycles, etc) but blew it all and I get to hear about it on dates he does manages to treat me to.
@Caine_House Жыл бұрын
@@a.d.b535 That's not what they meant. They mean if they have the means to do so. Not if they blew their money in the past.
@paulraines9635 Жыл бұрын
@@a.d.b535 But you're doing the same thing to him, so it's fair.
@carlosemiralonso7997 Жыл бұрын
Here's my opinion on JT comment... IF a girl wants you, gonna be all over you. Doesn't meant she has to dress slutty on street, but one way to know for sure if she is into you is: to ask for a certain attire for bedroom fun. Read me well, i said bedroom fun, not street. She doesn't need to dress slutty.
@MrRed-tf7bv Жыл бұрын
In the age of social media, these things are brought to light.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@davidlemaster20348 ай бұрын
here's a great line to keep in mind......"When a man falls in love with a woman, he only sees her through rose colored glasses......but with those on.....all of her red flags, just look like flags.
@GGrev Жыл бұрын
Good point is girls have admitted to me cheating on their partners, but they never admit fault and even blame it on their partner.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@baseline_hitchshalhoub2686 Жыл бұрын
I always ask them ,what wrong did you do in the relationship? I never get an answer ,you know it's always the guys fault 😂
@codewarrior52297 ай бұрын
You can't erase the past. Just cuz you roll back the odometer or keep the car in the garage for a few years doesn't change the fact that it has 250,000 miles on it and 27 previous owners.
@wordysmith4 ай бұрын
@@codewarrior5229 27 owners is low in todays market
@paulbuckle84594 ай бұрын
😮😂😢
@stevevasquez7754 Жыл бұрын
I want to thank you I was married 28 years and I've been running across some real strange women. And I listened to your videos and you've helped me.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@serenityinside1 Жыл бұрын
Not your fault dude - the world seems to be absolutely full of them 🙄😯
@DrBilly902105 ай бұрын
As the esteemed philosopher Redd Foxx put it oh so well: "Beauty is skin deep, but ugly goes all the way down to the bone."
@YourWingmam5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@johnrolston4986 Жыл бұрын
Finding a woman who doesn't cheat is like winning at Powerball. You have the same odds.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
It definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@waynecampbell9208 Жыл бұрын
Yep!....That's exactly right!! Unfortunately!!!
@pootypump7440 Жыл бұрын
Yeah I think the common theme of it all is that it's just your turn with her.
@questionsfrog1918 Жыл бұрын
Its a risk you just have to accept but don't just run into an openly carried knife,sniff out the "oh,i cheated but it meant nothing" types I tell every potential love interest very early on,the second poly- nonsense gets talked about unironically or i smell a hint of cheating its time to cut my losses and go. There will be no debate,considering or second thoughts
@JorgeChavez-du5vm Жыл бұрын
Lol I prefer the money and I don't need the burden. That's why I'm trying to win the Powerball jackpot when it gets to two billion.
@macdavy70 Жыл бұрын
Tragically, most of these women have unresolved trauma and sexual abuse, their behavior as adults furth leaves them isolated and rejected and unable to form bonds, they convince themselves they are strong and in control but the reality every pump and dump leaves their self esteem further in the gutter. It's actually very sad
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
100% agree. The higher their body count the more therapy they'll need.
@cryptojihadi265 Жыл бұрын
No, the tragedy is what they do to other people. Lots of people have tragic childhoods, but don't go on to take it out on everyone else.
@callieelliesociety Жыл бұрын
Same way goes for guys. I just watched this video and have dealt with this with men and worst. It is not a gender battle. A lot of people need some self worth and healing. Not shaming. Everyone is responsible to do their own due diligence when dating.
@macdavy70 Жыл бұрын
@Callie Ellie Society no sadly its been well documented. High body counts do not affect men the same way it affects women, i don't recommend it for anyone . The major mistake I see from women, is they seem to think behaving like the worst version of a men is being strong.
@gra6799 Жыл бұрын
Oh yeah
@mmholling8722 күн бұрын
I've dated several promiscuous women, and honestly, the relationships were not bad at all. I never could fully develop feelings for them due to their history. They were both attractive but extremely shy and awkward, but once they got intoxicated, they would sleep with anyone. Once I broke up with them, I almost couldn't get rid of them.
@jeffro. Жыл бұрын
Thank you for this, Anna. Seriously. I am SO GLAD things worked out between me and my wife of 38+ years. In the beginning, i wasn't sure. She chased after me, yet she would play these games where she wore very sexy clothes and flirted with guys that i truly believed were inappropriate choices for her. I finally told her that, while it was flattering that she wanted me, the fact that she was interested in this particular other guy made me question her choice in men. She played a few other games, where i just didn't understand the point. But after one day when i had enough and was on my way out the door, she came clean. She burst into tears and begged me to stay. That was a turning point. Over the years, there have been a few times when i questioned her loyalty, but ultimately i felt like i understood her when i put her behavior in a certain light. It was hard a few times, but i weathered the storm. We met in grad school, and i was 6 years older and had gotten out of a long 10-year marriage that never should've happened. I finally realized that i was really the ONE for her because i understood her. That is, she was just young & inexperienced, even though she was smart and beautiful. I realized that she was a "show-off" and enjoyed the attention she got from both men and women, and was revelling in her good looks and fantastic body. She was definitely an exhibitionist. She proved that point with me again & again. She had quite a sexual appetite, and we have enjoyed a very active sex life together. She has always been adventurous, but as it turns out, i think it's mainly because she feels safe doing so with me. That's an important distinction to make. There were a few times that i thought she cheated on me, and if i didn't know her as well as i do, i might not have ever believed that she was faithful. But i truly believe she has always been. I never take her for granted, though she often does me, lol. Still, she did choose me, when she could've had any man she wanted, so there's always that. As we get older together, i am more confident that i was right about her and my understanding of her behavior. And, I'm still glad that i married her.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate you being here!
@wbfwbl8434 Жыл бұрын
This is a very good video. The best advise for men: just avoid such women and don't trust they are reformed. If she was doing all the wrong things in the past it's more likely she will do it again in the future when something triggers her.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Yes, pay attention to her actions even more than her words!
@d2svpcfp Жыл бұрын
Agreed. Why have to ask yourself all the questions or even deal with it? Hard pass.
@Hkfanboy Жыл бұрын
#1 sign she was born and raised in the United States
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Kindly don’t say that, there are a lot of good women in the United States!
@javaChai7 ай бұрын
Most of the women without a father figure in life and so US leads in broken families
@mediocreman27 ай бұрын
That's not necessarily an accurate indicator. South America has tons of promiscuity, because it's rewarded by their culture to be passionate etc. Europe can also be very promiscuous because of their "open minded" culture. Eastern Europe is generally more religious but that doesn't mean they are necessarily not promiscuous. Asia can be very promiscuous also. There are lots of prostitutes there. Where do you think those girls end up?
@Hkfanboy7 ай бұрын
@@YourWingmam not really
@abuskeleke33786 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@AkikoMakiOfficial Жыл бұрын
I have no intent to “simp” you out here, I just wanted to pay you the compliment that you look absolutely gorgeous in this video, the hair, the style of dress, you are on point in more ways than one. 👍👍☺️
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@Blahzay-m843 ай бұрын
uhhh ..I think you simped her, no ?
@sicarius.m16 ай бұрын
I really liked this girl, I even met her parents on our first date basically. We cuddled that same night. I really liked and cared for her and was willing to overlook her past. I knew she had low self esteem because she liked to dress in baggy clothes so I always reminded her how beautiful she is. A month later she tells me she isn’t ready for a relationship and that she never lied about liking me. I was upset and understood but I didn’t want to remain friends. It’s been 7 months since we last talked.
@YourWingmam6 ай бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through and be able to keep moving in faith 🙏 ❤️
@jamovfx4 ай бұрын
@@sicarius.m1 bro move on there’s thousands of women in your area
@gsmollin23 ай бұрын
The best way to heal from a fall is to get back in the saddle and ride! This relationship is history. Some day the hurt will fade, but meanwhile get back up on that horse and get on with your journey.
@sicarius.m13 ай бұрын
@@gsmollin2 yes I realized it’s not worth being sad about it. She moved to Canada so it made it even easier to move on.
@visaman Жыл бұрын
Maybe this applies more to young men, but, at 58, I don't know any women without a past, and I certainly wouldn't wait a year or more for a kiss goodnight.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@kennotis9294 ай бұрын
@@visaman yup. I'm over that insecure shit. Women can be horny like we are. And goody goody women can fuck up your life in other ways.
@peterkoch3777 Жыл бұрын
Once a 304, always a 304... reformed or not😂 If she is making you wait, you are beta in her eyes. Chad never had to wait and would not have.
@caucasianafrican1435 Жыл бұрын
Her only right answer is make all men wait a bit.
@peterkoch3777 Жыл бұрын
@@caucasianafrican1435 right! A woman raises her RMV by making all men wait... even those who make her p*ssy wet immediately.
@ttgeopol12895 ай бұрын
I once dated a beautiful, golden-hearted, promiscuous woman for several years. Probably the best woman I ever dated. She truly loved me (within the parameters of how much a woman can really love a man), was a lot of fun to be with and had no problem with his man taking the lead. I still think of her once in a while and wondered if I should have married her.
@YourWingmam5 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@Ramiro-Agarra-Luquivenga3 ай бұрын
Same here. Dated a promiscuous woman and it was the best.
@shadowsbrutherАй бұрын
Yeah same. No you shouldn’t have married her- she will end up leaving you.
@caressaclark104216 күн бұрын
@@shadowsbruther A woman who hasn't had much experience is far more likely to leave. She will be curious about what else is out there. A promiscuous woman has already seen and done it all. She knows what she likes and doesn't like. When a promiscuous woman falls in love, it's real.❤️
@benf1111 Жыл бұрын
I had to give you a thumbs up for the hilarious editing alone. The content is great, but we'll, you're hilarious.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I appreciate that!
@zvirtual17248 ай бұрын
Thanks!
@YourWingmam8 ай бұрын
Thank you so much! 🙏🥰
@obnoxiousdave Жыл бұрын
Keep an eye out for multiple accounts on the same platform too. My ex is/was super sneaky like that. Knows that posts can be set to only be seen by certain people, etc. Things that never even occurred to me as an honest monogamous man lol. Sometimes people give themselves away just by the sneaky tricks they know way too much about. Like their phone being TOO clean when you do look at it. 😉
@maxhouse2409 Жыл бұрын
Where they spend their time and money is often an indication of what's happening.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Great extra points! Glad she's your ex. :)
@martineastland2455 Жыл бұрын
You can too easily delete whole message threads with one swipe of a finger on Whatsapp/Messenger/Regular texts. Makes it too easy to cheat and wipe out any trace of it before you get home. Also, putting alerts on ‘silent non vibrate’ in case their SO sees it or detects the incoming vibration. They’re highly skilled at manipulation/deception, could easily get a Masters Degree in ‘Being a Deceitful C**t’.
@domtoni4567 Жыл бұрын
Great video Anna Maria, wish you had done this a year ago when I first encountered my friend. I was too blind to see who she really was, and how she seeks attention. And I was blinded by my simple shortcomings.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear that but glad you've learned something!
@Hereticninja7 Жыл бұрын
Dont blame yourself my brother. Western society raises boys to think women are paragons of morality and virtue. Those days are long gone but men are still expected to treat women like a gentleman and get railroaded when you do.
@domtoni4567 Жыл бұрын
@@Hereticninja7 So true, when I think back, my dad thought his mother (and she was given she grew up in a small Italian town) was pure white (and she was). My mother came from a different part of the world, and I think had a hard life (think you know what I mean). And yet, he tried to make her angelic. Look we are all fallen individuals, no one is perfect, but if we try, we can at least raise ourselves above those who wish to remain in the dumps.
@Patrick11223 Жыл бұрын
I asked my Doctor if it was true that 1 in 6 has herpes. He said yes. Don’t get an STD from these street strays
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@ales388010 күн бұрын
I know a few people that, when they get into the relationship, they go do some tests to see both of them are clean.
@barackillbombya38358 ай бұрын
She works as a nurse.
@danpinho7 ай бұрын
No worries, the nurses are most likely sleeping with married doctors inside small rooms in the hospital.
@summerrain32517 ай бұрын
Haha. I have heard this one.
@luckythirteen777 ай бұрын
lol preach!
@bobbyscalchi40137 ай бұрын
I experienced this one the stereotypes are true, and you would never suspect it because of their attentive nature. Or so you think.
@summerrain32517 ай бұрын
@@bobbyscalchi4013 they can also be covert narcissists that need to take care of people. Or like the movie Misery.
@Mr.Rgdias Жыл бұрын
Oh Anna, you're always so classy, charming and articulate I can barely follow your thoughts (and I'm not the slow king of guy). All the best!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate hearing from you!
@69Applekrate Жыл бұрын
"PROMISCUOUS/promiscuity" THERE is a descriptive word we do not hear enough of! Thanks for calling it what it is! great video, recommended.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
My pleasure and thank you so much!
@buncey2536 Жыл бұрын
Much more in depth psychological perspective , well done Anna.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@stevend2748 Жыл бұрын
I never thought of the one where she dresses provocatively when going out even if she's with you. You're right, if it was only for you she'd dress like that at home.
@visaman Жыл бұрын
To be practical though, 6 inch stilettos can do damage to household flooring.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@Rut-vi7iz Жыл бұрын
Well, to be fair to us, it is harder to mop for you guys in stilletos. 😘
@jasonbourne3959 Жыл бұрын
I've started watching your videos nightly. You give me hope that I'll find someone, so TY !
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Glad I could help 🙏
@AT-ol2yj8 ай бұрын
Thank you for helping me figure her out. So much pain I’ve been through.
@YourWingmam8 ай бұрын
I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏
@HateBear-real8 ай бұрын
@@YourWingmam That's nice. Most people don't care about men at all.
@adamfindlay7091 Жыл бұрын
I had a friend who was married, but yelled sexual comments over the machinery at work, even proposing sex with Me, but since she was also a decent comedian I assumed she was joking. She'd come up to me later and ask why I rejected her(20's) . I told her 'thought it was your routine.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
She may not have been serious but she was certainly looking for attention and disrespectful to her husband, joking or not.
@adamfindlay7091 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam they broke up eventually.
@dennisjames6753 Жыл бұрын
Great video again! Very helpful warning signs, many of which I had experienced in my 20s. Pity I didn't know better back then. I loved the outdoor segment by the river. Beautiful location.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@brookvalley907 Жыл бұрын
Excellent presentation. Liked the longer camera shots that allowed you to talk with your hands. You're very good at that. Also, you are a natural actress, so your "dialog" had perfect intonation. Your cute asides are very refreshing. None of your videos are ever dry. One slight quibble, you seemed to equate promiscuity a few times with unfaithfulness. If no vow of exclusivity has been made, then sleeping with another man is not being unfaithful, it's just having fun. However, if sleeping with other men is a habit, it is definitely one that must be broken before or after a vow of exclusivity.
@maxhouse2409 Жыл бұрын
She's not your girl, it's just your turn.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@brookvalley907 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam it's very annoying. You just keep getting better and better.
@ttamcc.4674Күн бұрын
That last part is the major question i had abt dating women that use to mess around in the past
@YourWingmamКүн бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback!
@Stephno86Ай бұрын
A girl at work i liked for a long time, but flirts with me a lot and only me at work, got very close to me at a christmas party at the weekend. i sat down with her at the end of the night and she asked me was i seeing someone, i said no how about you, she then went on to say she cheeted on guys and has a lot of options and has being with a lot of guys...i was so disapointed to here it.
@kevindailey4412 Жыл бұрын
hi Anna, love this video and all of the other ones, thank you for being so awesome and love your personality!!!! such a breath of fresh air. :)
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!!
@williamlindner3984 Жыл бұрын
As far as women are concerned: wanting is a whole lot better than having. The rewards are not worth the expended effort , particularly, if you are living in North America. As a man under North American law the cards are stacked against you in so many ways..
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Many things don't measure up to the desire humans have for them. Choose what's worth making the effort for, leave the rest, be happy about your choice. :)
@JackieLastrada Жыл бұрын
Is Hoeville next to...Poundtown??? Hmmm??🧐
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
lol yes!
@d-vision2426 Жыл бұрын
Thanks, Wingmam! Very insightful. Love the outdoor scene btw.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!
@d-vision2426 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam Glad to share.
@gerardcoyne9210 Жыл бұрын
My tip if you suspect her, when you are out in a bar/restaurant, tell her that the good looking at the bar keeps eying her up when she is not looking. Also, pretend that you are angry with him not her. How she reacts will tell you everything. Love your videos and your voice is so soothing
@jacoberwin44123 ай бұрын
@@gerardcoyne9210 what should the reaction be?
@johncorson6599 Жыл бұрын
I kept hearing “I’m just being open and honest” and “why don’t you talk about your feelings” from my now ex gf. But was accused numerous times of having a gf or wife in an adjacent state when I went back there to visit family .. funny thing was I wasn’t or even thinking of such things .. then on top of that told me she’s been “ex boy friends” since high school like she was proud of being so amicable but after so much drama I said why don’t we just be friends and the rage came flying out of her … I guess the act of being ‘a decent Christian woman” was too much effort to maintain .. I just found the utter lack of any real girl friends of hers really stunned me .. she was old enough to have gained some in the 5 years she lived in that city .. she met mine even though I was there only 18 months .. how can I assess what type of person she is without a girlfriend having any girlfriends? All I heard was things like “they are jealous of me” and stuff like that .. totally never heard of such things out of an adult
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏
@carlosemiralonso7997 Жыл бұрын
IF you referring to the skills to make new lady friends your girl has... then having "boys" friends is literal no effort (they want to fuck her most times). So of course you have to choose one that can make a sacrifice to be nice to other lady's cause if you don't, there is little to no warranties she is able to be "relationship"/wife material.
@lambchop62787 ай бұрын
I like the bit right at the end. That if a woman has one or two of those signs, doesn't mean she is necessarily promiscuous. Because I have one or two of those signs and I'm about as faithful as they get.
@YourWingmam7 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching. I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@tod3msn Жыл бұрын
I enjoy this advisor and appreciate her advice. About women who are promiscuous one has to be careful and I am not talking about Wingmam. I’m saying in general people need to not judge a woman because she enjoys multiple partners. Some women are interested in dating a few guys at the same time. Some guys like to find fault with them because they are bad meeting women. For me, the only objection I had was that some women act as if their more flexible morality was better than my view of not wanting to have lots of partners at once. A guy knows in his heart when he is being played and if a woman doesn’t want to get close and wants to see others it’s best to just drop them and move on and forget about them.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@sabo708117 күн бұрын
Polyamorous relationships are for those who desire sex without commitment. +You’d better have a decent doctor on call!
@BillJackson-h3r6 ай бұрын
Now that's a great video and very interesting. And thank you so much for sharing it,and you are helping a lot of Us men,because a lot of Us don't know the signs to look for. So thank you again, and keep up the great work that your doing
@YourWingmam6 ай бұрын
Glad to hear that, thank you for your response!
@professord1522 Жыл бұрын
Even though I have mostly given up on dating and thus rarely ask any lady out, I like your videos. THIS one caused me to re-suscribe to your channel (nothing personal that I unsuscribed, I just didn't want videos about romance in my feeds for a while). I have to say, the fact you almost cracked yourself up early in this video cracked ME Up. This may be the funniest relationship video I have ever heard. (Pro-Ho Feminism, Open-Door Policy, Tr*mp-Town, Ohh THERE goes the Short Bus, etc... hahahahahaaaa!)
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you for watching, and welcome back!
@1upmushroom13 Жыл бұрын
I like the 1 year celibacy time frame. Speaking as a celibate person, I would want someone with a similar lifestyle, and someone needs time to change to internalize the lifestyle. So, I agree with not dating a woman who has had sex or lived a wild party life too recently. Having a bad past is acceptable if someone has shown change and wants to walk on the pure path to become more pure, and this can apply to other vices as well such as drugs. Lasting effects of past vices, such as STIs/STDs in the case of promiscuity, may lower someone's dating value, though.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@GoAsCloseAsYouCan5 ай бұрын
@@1upmushroom13 it’s terrible advice.
@whythis28 Жыл бұрын
Happy New Year, Anna! I'm looking forward to your 2023 content. As always, I appreciate the energy and remember to keep smiling! 😁😎✌🏾
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! :))
@ChessIsJustAGame Жыл бұрын
If certain behavior is wrong for the guy, it is wrong for the woman. I spent two weeks with a woman who spent a lot of time complaining about wondering eyes of guys she dated, but she was expert at doing the same. And flirting was her thing, even on dates... with others!
@Vickzq Жыл бұрын
@PenileAugmentation No. Morals are universally true.
@Vickzq Жыл бұрын
@PenileAugmentation That's not a different discussion. The absolute basics - even without much morals - would be to atleast stick to the same boundaries one sets for others, too.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
And actually it's biologically more difficult for men to not notice hot women. Seriously. (Though you can train yourself to be subtle and respectful.) More on this in an upcoming video!
@johnmartinez1899 Жыл бұрын
I’ve had that issue before with a girlfriend. I said it’s disrespectful and asked her if she was thirsty for attention. I don’t look at others out of respect for whom I’m with.
@BrianDuff-wn9ki Жыл бұрын
Did you say welcome to just the tip? I love it. Funny stuff. You're beautiful by the way.
@marksouthern7542 Жыл бұрын
This is fantastic advice... I will be able to spot a promiscuous women much more easily!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you 🙏
@BooDamnHoo5 ай бұрын
THE biggest hint is she sits across from you at dinner, on a date, swiping left and swiping right on her phone.
@YourWingmam5 ай бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@mmcalifornia8600 Жыл бұрын
I was dating a monogamously challenged girl. She was the typical pretty, wholesome, churchy girl next door who had me fooled. One sign I noticed in hindsight were her white lies. If I caught her doing something off and I confronted her, she would admit some and hide the bad with half-truths.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
🙏 I hope she reaches the point of truly doing what is best.
@gingerbreadmangangafarmer2251 Жыл бұрын
Be very careful of church girls.Most are two faced
@shadowsbrutherАй бұрын
Spot on
@XxKINGatLIFExX Жыл бұрын
It's amazing a lot of the red pill content out there reminds men not to listen to women, but it should more accurately state... Don't listen to promiscuous women. You, are fantastic and spot on with your observations. It's rare to hear women talk about such things with such accuracy and logic. That shows you're a strong and valuable woman to Society. Also you kind of remind me of the female version of Matthew Mconaunghey.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you I appreciate that 🙏
@oluwoleolukole6448 Жыл бұрын
Thank you very much for the video. I need to watch this again.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@ChadOliver-b7y Жыл бұрын
Just went through this. It's a horrible feeling, but i will learn from this .
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Sounds like you've had a bad experience (or two). That sucks! It's ok to take a break from women. Have you seen my video on the Benefits of Staying Single? Just in case: kzbin.info/www/bejne/fXyoaqaBrM97lck
@wavescrashinginside Жыл бұрын
You are the ideal woman you are beautiful intelligent logical rational. Everything you say makes a lot of sense. Lucky guy who is with you💕
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@dc8029 Жыл бұрын
Ya gotta love Anna's advice. Unreal
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
🥰
@michaelmorgan7893 Жыл бұрын
After twice wasting my resources with a couple of long term relationships with narcissists, and add the fact as a disabled male, I have nothing to offer financially, emotionally, physically, romantically to offer, I've backed away from all relationships. I'm stuck in California because of life circumstances, and haven't the money or resources to move elsewhere, so I see little or no opportunity of ever meeting anyone meaningful. I've come to terms with being able to recognize reality.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I pray that you receive the partner who is truly best for you, the partner God has for you 🙏
@michaelmorgan7893 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam that would be nice, but I've waited 39 years, but took two bad detours through two very bad and dangerous relationships. I'm constantly being told that I do not qualify as a viable soulmate because of my socioeconomic status, but at the same time, the ones telling me this, are using me to deplete my resources which are already limited, while they compare me to "better men"
@carlosemiralonso7997 Жыл бұрын
Ultimately, dont be so sad (seem sad to me) about living on California. Im from Argentina. IS a horrible low pay, poor country, people lie when they say is underdevelopment. Whatever place you are, you are on the right spot to learn and to seek for better options. Trust yourself. I for example manage to get some money, then options are: I can move onto a nice city around the country. Then if everything goes well, I can move to a better "security" 1st class country.
@michaelmorgan7893 Жыл бұрын
@@carlosemiralonso7997 I hate California. It's my home state, born and raised here, but coming from parents from Oklahoma and Kentucky, I was raised poor. And because I have the accent, despite never living in Oklahoma or Texas, I'm treated like a bum, a loser, and an ignorant imbecile that is of low breeding. I've been denied every opportunity of advancement here, despite education, and hard work for years at improving my life. Nothing I do can make me acceptable out here. At nearly 60 years old, I'm too disabled with chronic illnesses and heart trouble, and other issues to start out as if I were 18 again. If I were in Texas or Oklahoma, I wouldn't be treated like an imbecile because of my manner of speech.
@JLC_Subutai7 ай бұрын
Hang in there bro…focus on yourself for now and things will improve eventually.
@myutube8x Жыл бұрын
Thank you, this is very helpful. You have a unique and interesting voice. Very nice.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@rrangel1968 Жыл бұрын
You look absolutely fantastic Anna. Keep up the great work! Hey, where is kitty?!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you! Stuffy Cat makes an appearance but is sneaky in this one ;)
@Michael-vc2cs Жыл бұрын
This is pretty helpful! I like the point, and will highlight for clarity from a guy's perspective, that if she's celibate by choice this is a good sign. A good woman, in my experience, is one that does maintain her level of attractiveness, aging process accounted for, for the man she ultimately wants to be with and not just for the men she slept around with in her younger years. A lot of women will fall off of this lifestyle and choose another path because they're aging and becoming less attractive and that isn't really the turn that men want to see. It takes the 'special' completely out of it. I think a little bit of a, "Anyone could have her and she's chosing me" vibe is what needs to be there. It makes you want to romance her instead of coast. Not every guy will think this about every woman but hopefully this is clear. So the words "by choice" carry all of that with it for me.
@MidMo4020 Жыл бұрын
So right! I never chase women. If you hafta sell yourself to her, someone will eventually come along with a better deal. Mutual attraction has to already be there. Sometimes women will date a man just for the sake of not being alone. This is not fair to him, as it really just minimizes him into basically being preferable to a cat. Not because it’s HIM that she wants.
@danielscuiry2847 Жыл бұрын
I think mine was a 4. I even caught her lying to me about where she was once. Then in an exotic vacation she wanted me to stay away from her all day. I was foolish enough to think that was okay 🤷♂️ It took years for me to figure out what happened. Thank you so much Anna, this was very insightful and informative ❤️
@Human_01 Жыл бұрын
............................. "Evil" is the antithesis to the virtue: 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-darwinism'. ............................. NEURO-PERSONALITY ............................. "SENSORY-FEELERS" ARE LARGELY RESPONSIBLE FOR SPREADING DISINFORMATION AND HATE TOWARDS ENTJ/INTJ (AGAINST "THINKERS" IN GENERAL)-BOTH IRL AND ON THE INTERNET; DESPITE THOSE NEURO-PERSONALITY TYPES BEING A BLESSING TO SOCIETY AND ALL OF MANKIND! THEY DESERVE BETTER! 😤 'ESFJ', 'ESFP', ISFP and ISFJ are a pathogen to humanity, and 'then' Cluster-B (depending on they neuro-personality). THEIR "FEELINGS 'IS' THEIR REALITY", THEY ALSO HAVE A MALICIOUS-MIND BY DEFAULT (excluding normal ISFJ). DESPITE HAVING MALICIOUS INTENT THEY ARE ALL EMOTIONALLY-WEAK AND PRONE TO COVERT/VULNERABLE-NARCISSISM. ............................... Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissistic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissist'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-r@pe, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim/damsel in distress, creating "flying-monkeys", and 'bribing' others (with money or BJ) to attack, or at times, kill someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Emmett Till. xSFP and ISFJ (2W1) are the most complicit, narcissistic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependents' (look up the definition). Like ESFJ, XSFP's "feelings 'is' their reality." Most are covert/vulnerable-narcissists. ISFJ often perceive things only on the surface level (even by sensor standards), are suckers for a “pretty face", and their neuro-psychology makes them the ideal narcissitic-codependent and pawn to the ESFJ (blind-loyalty, surface level perception, susceptibility to covert-narcissism). Lastly, ISFJ are notorious for impersonating other people's identities IRL and on the internet. SUMMARY Evil personality: 'ESFJ' (ALL), ESTJ (Cluster-b), ISFJ-2W1 (covert-narc/enabler). [Secretly] Evil and narcissist-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL), and ISFJ (2W1 enable ESFJ). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict as a distraction (at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ Research ref: Raudha Athif, Ghislaine Maxwell, Marilyn Monroe, Karen, ESFJ-narcissists, ESFJ-neurology, Gaslighting, Amber Heard, Fake feminism, Rising of a shield hero (Malty-'ESFJ'; XSFX spread disinformation online. ISFJ is the main culprit; ISFJ largely perceive things on the surface level), 'Brood-parasitism’- XSFJ natural psychology. _
@Human_01 Жыл бұрын
Sensory-feelers are naturally highly promiscuous, the same applies to the ESTP. On the intuitive side of the fence, ENFP and ENTPs are highly promiscuous. Selfish and hedonistic. They typically lack self-control. Revolting.
@blindcamel6236 Жыл бұрын
so u let a woman try and scar you for life and didn't beat her up ?
@danielscuiry2847 Жыл бұрын
@@blindcamel6236 Ah, Ah, Ah, community guidelines…
@danielscuiry2847 Жыл бұрын
@@Human_01 I forgot to mention she was a raging J on the Myers-Brig diagnostic AND a sex addict.
@dimitriosales Жыл бұрын
There is no coming back from tramp town, the damage has been done. You can clean the used car, but the car will always be used.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Then especially watch for the signs!
@dimitriosales Жыл бұрын
@Your Wingmam Dr Fix a chick and captain save a ho have retired.
@EugeneMedved Жыл бұрын
Thanks for educating us Anna. You're a treasure.
@christopher9979 Жыл бұрын
Anna nails it again. Well done ma'am!
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@JackFalltrades Жыл бұрын
Regardless of the promiscuity question, if you have sex early in a relationship you can end wondering, "is it love, or just the availability of sex?"
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Most definitely!
@mkwhole Жыл бұрын
Yea that's why I think sex should be one of the last things done when getting to know someone. It's much too deep and sacred to just toss around, this goes for both partners.
@JackFalltrades Жыл бұрын
@@mkwhole Exactly!
@supers0nic777 ай бұрын
I noticed a lot of women i dated wanted to do it right away and so i couldn't commit to them bc i thought they'd do that to anyone
@callieelliesociety Жыл бұрын
Same way goes for guys. I just watched this video and have dealt with this with men and worst. It is not a gender battle. A lot of people need some self worth and healing. Not shaming. Everyone is responsible to do their own due diligence when dating. Go slow. And don’t project, or put woman on pedestals. I was a Christian wife, who walked away from who I thought was a Christian man. Lots of skeletons and an unsafe person. People reveal themselves.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your feedback, I appreciate hearing from you ❤️
@fergoka Жыл бұрын
And maybe just maybe he was a good actor. Psychos and sociopaths are the masters of that. And women confuse those traits with real masculinity.
@williamclayton9566 Жыл бұрын
No, you walked away from a man that was very attractive to lots of women.
@msssassi Жыл бұрын
Damn. I have a friend who's that striking beauty from Brazil, 27yo businesswoman in NYC, Roman Catholic thus virgin and saving sex for marriage, and she's constantly mocked by men who say she's asexual
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️
@GUITARTIME20247 ай бұрын
Lol. Virgin. No way.
@alienpyramid Жыл бұрын
Ha.... the blinking! You should do a segment on breaking up 101
@brendansullivan34088 ай бұрын
Oh that view by the river.... absolutely wonderful. I like your videos. Thanks.
@JRoss-zxzx Жыл бұрын
A few other signs might be: 1. There's a red bulb in the lamp on her porch 2. She has a credit card processing app on her phones (all 6 of them) 3. Theres a Better Business Bureau accreditation plaque on the wall 4. She keeps penecillin in her medicine cabinet.....
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏
@PinkHydrangea7 ай бұрын
This red bulb comment wins! lol (thank you for making me laugh!)
@cenk.toplar9 ай бұрын
I have heard and believe that if they think you are ''husband material'' and you two are dating and you gentleman paying for her everything , because technically that is what you supposed to do if she sees you as husband material but at the same time she makes you wait quite professionally but at the same time she hooks with her Friends With Benefit MALE FRIENDS and they do EVERYTHING in bed and you are on the bench like a spare tire. That made me completely quit. Dating is just a dream that will never happen in 2024.
@YourWingmam9 ай бұрын
I feel you, it definitely isn't an easy situation, but the focus needs to be on doing what is truly best 🙏
@evanburke5460 Жыл бұрын
I recently screened out all women. At least no one is here supposedly testing me. Those tests have driven a good man away from them all. Funny how my emotions are fine when I am not around someone so called testing me all the time.
@v.cjuancarlos6014 Жыл бұрын
They dont test the guys they really like. They re just playing with you.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Romantic relationships aren't mandatory but I hope you have some good friendships! :)
@98167 Жыл бұрын
great advice + tips to look clues to be on the lookout for! 😅 🗝️💜
@jpl4673 Жыл бұрын
Great advice! On of your best videos, in my opinion. Keep up the good work! Greetings from across the pond 🙂
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you!
@pascalcanada9960 Жыл бұрын
In the age of the me too movement, I don't think a promiscuous woman would get any from any men due to fear of accusations.
@eyebelieve3 Жыл бұрын
You're wrong, you're talking about the men who are not pretty enough to approach women and not be a creep. Its the same few men who are working on all the hoes. Then all these hoes think all men are trash while only giving the same few men access to the lady garden.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤
@trillmix0652 Жыл бұрын
"Promiscuous girl! You're teasing me! You know what I want, and I got what you need!"
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback ❤️ 🙏
@Laura-cx7jj4 ай бұрын
You better watch out Buddy or your going to be the next poster boy for me me too movement!!! 🤣 7
@MrOgynist Жыл бұрын
Again typing while watching. Maybe it comes up. Here's the problem with the "reformation". She now wants to be a good girl so has become vanilla with the guy she declares she wants to spend the rest of her life with. Of course, the one she wants to keep isn't necessarily the one she i as attracted to and desirous of as the Chads she swung from the chandeliers with.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Let me know your thoughts when you've finished watching :))
@MrOgynist Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam You know as well as I do that that the sexual and relational dynamics are simultaneously simple and complex. Wait, did I just put words in your mouth?😆 I didn't catch where you might have addressed that potential aspect of the reformation. I do not discount the possibility of reform but I also recognize that baggage may come along with that reform .
@esau93631 Жыл бұрын
Notice how you cant sell used underwear as new at a yard sale? Even bleach can not eradicate those stains without destroying the cotton....
@lightnin19937 ай бұрын
I appreciate your wisdom. It’s wholesome and helpful. Thank you. God bless!
@YourWingmam7 ай бұрын
❤️ 🙂 Thank you and may God bless you as well 🙏
@zacharydavis4398 Жыл бұрын
0:00 - 3:14 ohhh this makes a lot sense in the apparent drivers in todays society, across all mediums (media, big tech, etc).. wow this is interesting 🤔 Thanks for spending he time to create and share this content awareness/perspective🧐
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
I'm happy this has been helpful to you, don't forget to share so that others can receive love, healing, and clarity ❤ 🙏
@esau93631 Жыл бұрын
Unfortunately for most of these "reformed" ladies they wait till their mid to late 30s to make this decision when their SMV is dropping at a free fall rate and most men are getting to their point of highest potential SMV value and will chose a woman 10 years or more younger than her. Any guy over 40 can find bucket loads of these women on online dating sites.
@maxhouse2409 Жыл бұрын
Women can still be attractive and still carry a respectable SMV yet have a Relationship Market Value of ZERO. "Practice chicks" fall into this category.
@esau93631 Жыл бұрын
@@maxhouse2409 Agree. These are the ones still using the "forever 21" playbook of using their SMV to land a guy with no other value to offer than their looks. And not just any guy. They all want the guys at the very top. The guys with the most options. Yet they will keep playing this game till even the guys they do not find desirable have more options and will overlook them as well.
@YourWingmam Жыл бұрын
Sadly, needy guys will still step in to take them. Best a guy can do is focus on increasing his SMV along the way so he has better options. More on SMV in an upcoming video :)
@esau93631 Жыл бұрын
@@YourWingmam Yep. Chumps will be chumps. Some can just not get their better judgement about their desire for a future train wreck....
@johnnyboyyyyy Жыл бұрын
I dated a girl who, on the first date, asked me how many girls I’ve slept with and brought up the point 3 more times after that to know if I would be “good enough”. She wouldn’t even hold my hand on a date and said I was going too fast by asking for a kiss, yet she wanted to know if I was good at sex. She was actually worried and stressed to find out I haven’t slept around, instead of being relieved that I’m not a player. Any ideas on what that’s all about? I feel like she was being sexually active behind my back.
@zannejae Жыл бұрын
She wasn't looking for intimacy and was afraid of you judging her would be my guess.
@johnnyboyyyyy Жыл бұрын
@@zannejae she told me she did want it down the road, but she kept asking me if I was good. A lot of things seemed off and contradicting.
@carlosemiralonso7997 Жыл бұрын
That only means she is insecure and you didnt known better to comfort her into giving up the kiss !
@johnnyboyyyyy Жыл бұрын
@@carlosemiralonso7997 she was sleeping around behind my back lol
@carlosemiralonso7997 Жыл бұрын
@@johnnyboyyyyy no doubt but still. If you get better at convincing then is "your turn" with her. You know, as to: she is not yours, is just your turn.
@jjmartin64224 ай бұрын
4:00 I dealt with these women alot in church communities. They care more about the status of being married/in a relationship than who they are with. Not necessarily promiscuous, but definitely better to avoid.