WINNING THE BATTLE: Get Your Ex To Breakup With Their Rebound Relationship

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Are you looking to get back together with your ex after their rebound relationship has ended? In this video, we discuss the dangers and pitfalls you need to be aware of, as well as powerful strategies to set yourself up for success. Watch all the way through to discover how to navigate this delicate situation.
Relationship Coach and modernlove.life founder, Clay Andrews, acknowledges the emotional resilience required to witness your partner in a rebound relationship. Now that your ex has ended their rebound relationship or it has naturally fizzled out, you may be wondering how to create an opening for reconciliation. While it may seem like an easy sail from here, rushing into getting back together can be risky.
The danger lies in becoming the rebound of the rebound, entering into a relationship that stems from emotional unavailability rather than genuine connection. To avoid this, it's crucial to understand the dynamics of rebound relationships and focus on building an organic emotional bond.
Taking it slow is key. Instead of rushing the outcome, concentrate on nurturing the emotional connection. Clay emphasizes the importance of practicing advanced relational skills to foster emotional availability, both in yourself and your partner. Allow them to process their feelings and address any concerns they may have.
By staying connection-focused rather than relationship-focused, you can establish a solid foundation that goes beyond the fleeting nature of rebound relationships. Learning advanced relational skills can help you create an emotional connection at will, and you can find a comprehensive course on this topic in the video description.
Remember, reconciliation may present challenges, but the central aspect remains the emotional connection. Set yourself up for a lasting bond by understanding its value and investing in advanced relational skills.
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[@ClayAndrews]

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[@Jakuboooooooooo]

My ex’s new guy has the same name as me and she started dating him only 3 months after we broke up 😂 she and I have been texting some over the past few days and it’s become very obvious to me that she’s still very bothered and hurt by what happened between us, and literally admitted that she’s been trying to avoid thinking abt me and our relationship (and she has a habit of avoiding her problems and emotions rather than dealing with them). She also admitted that she still wonders about whether we could’ve worked out. Seems to me like she’s trying to put a bandaid on a gunshot wound and running away from problems

[@markai2002]

Update?

[@elaineschatz6333]

Is it a rebound if my spouse wants a divorce to marry an ex-girlfriend? She's a licensed therapist/counselor. I feel I have no chance in hell getting through to him. It appears she had months to counsel him to pull away from me and even texted me to stop holding up their relationship and let go. How can I counter someone who is trained to help people, but in her case She's manipulated and pushed him into wanting the divorce. Question: Is there anything in place that keeps the therapist/ counselor compliant and behave ethically? Are there disciplined actions that can be taken if one purposely breaks up a marriage for their own gain?

[@tomvalone8928]

Is there a way to contact you directly about my current situation?

[@donnaelbamacorol5768]

my ex monkey branched in June. I found out about it July and broke it off with him. But then, August, I decided to try to see if we can fix the relationship so I fetch him from the airport (he is an OFW from Taiwan where he met the other woman) since the plan was for him to return here to the Philippines for good so we can move in together and just start a business. He stayed with me for 3 days and things were good. But he had to go home to his moms house (mom is living alone he has no siblings) when he texted me and broke up with me since he said his mom was upset because he came home to me first and felt he prioritizes me instead of his kids. But after 2 weeks I found out he made it official with the other woman. Is it still a rebound? He broke of with the other woman the same day I found out about it.

[@lilmagic107]

How can you leverage or build a connection again with your ex when not only is it the 2nd/3rdish time but we also have a 16 month old son together and she went straight to a rebound just 2 weeks after the split?

[@liquidsleepgames3661]

File for sole custody and get both of you away from that Trainwreck, kids who grow up in a home broken apart is better off then one where it's a revolving door of uncertainty

[@miriamh.517]

Please, someone answer me! is that normal to start to have a relationship after 1 month from break up? (we've been together for 6.5 years).

[@fiopodcast9085]

Absolutely not. Do not get in another relationship that fast, you have not healed from the breakup

[@joeydrakeward4077]

No

[@markomarkovic5729]

How to reconnect with her if she has put up a wall? How to break through her defenses? It would be incomparably easier for me if she left me because we had a big fight or if I did something really bad. Btw, I think she's anxious avoidant, if that helps.

[@gregepps1669]

My ex has been a rebound relationship for over 1 year. However she wished me Happy Father's Day via text. We texted back and forth on the Father's Day. I reached out to her on Monday, but she hasn't responded. I'm so tired of these games. I'm done!!

[@sparky2995]

She just wants validation bro. Ignore her and move on. If she thought she could do better, let her go. Don't go where you're not wanted.

[@gregepps1669]

@@sparky2995 You are right. It's ridiculous for a 50 year old woman to act like this. She also asked me, have I been thinking about her!! SMH

[@nonenone6884]

But won't the rebound end on is own

[@Heer-bs5rr]

She’s in rebound, but she blocking and unblocking me on insta, what’s that mean, she’s not reaching out

[@Hawaiiansurfgrl]

How does work, when this is the 2nd break around? And they already have experienced of losing me.

[@ClayAndrews]

It's not simply about making them experience losing you. It's about building an emotional connection that they value and then leveraging that connection. Check out this video for more on emotional connection: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n5rMaJ9oo7hkl5Y

[@Melika-nv2xl]

What if the rebound was the girl bestfriend?

[@elaineschatz6333]

I have found out that my husband is juggling multiple rebounds at once! Have you seen this before? He wants a divorce asap. There was no sign from him that he wanted a divorce till he got back from a business trip on 4/28/23. He had an ex-girlfriend fly out and stayed those 5 business days with him! The gf is a licensed therapist/counselor! Yes, she's known about me from the first time hubby, and I started dating. She's even texted me to let go and let them have their life together! Wtf! No, I did not respond. How did one deal with that? This has caused me physical issues on going. Heart palpitations on going, sleeplessness. So how does one deal with the gf who is a licensed therapist/counselor who has been guiding my husband's interactions with me?! She's read my heart felt text to my husband from me .Is this not unethical?

[@jiaheung4628]

Feel for you. How are you doing now?

[@elaineschatz6333]

@@jiaheung4628 I found out a lot aboutshe married her husband on my husband's birthday in 222 months after their wedding. She was carrying on with my husband exchanging Christmas gifts and sneaking around. Now she just wants to Sue me for a deformation of character because I'm calling her out by name by profession since she texts me. I think a role for the AP as never text the wife. So I feel obligated to let everyone know what a piece of shit she is.

[@PowerArsenal]

Never ever do the pick me dance. They took everything into consideration and left anyway. Make sure the stay out!

[@VictoriaHannah-xx1qe]

My ex new relationship he love her and he going married her

[@KnicksNYanks84]

no, i want them to marry the rebound

[@sexyshay17ify]

I Kept Asking Him If He Was Talking To Someone Else, But He Never Would Give Me An Answer, I Just Wanted To Hear The Truth, I Already Knew That He Was I Just Wanted Clarification From Him, Why Wouldn’t He Just Be Truthful?

[@KingTheJim]

Because they are too emotionally immature to be a decent person. Has nothing to do with you. Its because they are too selfish to actually feel any sort of empathy. They put there shitty selfish feelings above yours even tho you are the one that is heartbroken and they are riding off into the sunset. You are the mature one for simply seeking closure.

[@sexyshay17ify]

@@KingTheJimYou are so correct, Thank You For This!

[@sexyshay17ify]

@@KingTheJimYou are so correct, Thank You For This!

[@sankarshjayagopal4667]

Yes bro you're good

[@PeaceOfMind8190]

🗒️

[@ClayAndrews]

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