I really thought I had to be working at 100+% on my mission every day, every second, or I was failing God. This is such a better perspective.
@FrostFyre0032 жыл бұрын
I had a very bad experience for my two years because the leadership pushing that same idea, brow-beating everyone who didnt show that 110% mentality. It has taken the better part of two decades to let the hurt go, and to be honest, I still harbor some resentment still. But, I know it was an example of what happens when you forget the Lord's way, and I at least consider it a blessing to know it.
@caydenthompson1262 жыл бұрын
In the MTC in 2014 a general authority came and gave a talk and said that we should give 100% and expend every bit of energy we had so that we came home "exhausted."
@joshuadrewlow2 жыл бұрын
I think I had the same "problem"... When I got home from my mission I was sick for more than a month.
@LimegreenSnowstorm2 жыл бұрын
I thought the same! And I’ve had to spend a few years recovering from my mission because of it. Self-compassion is so much healthier than perfectionism! 10/10
@tinygardentomato2 жыл бұрын
For real! I wish I had figured that out on my mission instead of after. 😆
@AutismFamilyChannel2 жыл бұрын
Mosiah 4:27: “And see that all these things are done in wisdom and order; for it is not requisite that a man should run faster than he has strength. And again, it is expedient that he should be diligent, that thereby he might win the prize; therefore, all things must be done in order.”
@ramonaritz7815 Жыл бұрын
Thank you to remind me to slow down❣️🙏
@2MinuteScriptureStudy2 жыл бұрын
Wow! There is so many people who need THIS! Isn‘t it wonderful to have prophets of God lead His church to provide timely counsel! Thank you for this much needed message!
@TheArtOfBeingStill2 жыл бұрын
Jesus, Buddha, Lau Tzu, Epictetus, and others taught this over 2000 years ago. We just missed it. Glad it’s making its way back around.
@JJ_kun2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for that amen
@GC-ee4bk2 жыл бұрын
This popped up on my phone today just when I needed it most! The Lord is aware of little ole me! Thank you, Lord, for showing me this better way
@juliejohnson76902 жыл бұрын
Balancing life is very difficult, this is great advice.
@thrasher52572 жыл бұрын
God, I really needed this right now. I’m actually feeling extreme burnout currently. Time to rest my heart a little before it explodes.
@Donttrustthatburger51442 жыл бұрын
See everyone? God loves you, and doesn't want you to burn out. Love yourself like He loves us even though it's really hard and I have to work on it, too
@Operamoms2 жыл бұрын
Yes, so much that he even commanded us to take a day off. ❤️
@samuelthygerson60092 жыл бұрын
As a future missionary this is an awesome video! Even doing college in-between an early graduation and a mission I feel like I have to put in 100% of the effort to progress in my classes. This video reminded me of how we progress, line upon line, precept upon precept, here a little there a little, and God is always with us as we strive to be better. You do not need to go into the fields of life with 100% and leave with 0%, instead enter with determination and a goal, step by step, and take a break when you're felling low on energy, eat, exercise, do something. Thank you for this amazing video!
@brentschumann38122 жыл бұрын
This is great advice. Over-extending ourselves is a common challenge of our time. Great principles taught here.
@teamkatana3024 Жыл бұрын
This made my day 😊
@liagimateo70032 жыл бұрын
love this! i’m telling mom this
@robertwatson64852 жыл бұрын
The right message at the right moment. Thank you.
@rebeccavielhak70252 жыл бұрын
I found the beginning of my life but not only threw the fellowship that I have found threw this congregation but threw my new faith!
@ladyjade64462 жыл бұрын
Through
@lacyhay90222 жыл бұрын
This is something alot of us has lost sight of including myself. Thank you for this message.
@ceceliablackburn21312 жыл бұрын
I am a grandmother. Mom of 4 grown within the Church's values. Principles of truth are taught in the best way as a mom. But then you're in a position where you are not as influential. I am so overwhelmed by 13 grandchildren who are far from my own home state. I know I can do good things for my family and they're struggling with this experience of being in the middle of a Pandemic. I am grateful for the wisdom and order that the Doctrine and Covenants talks of. I believe that this was just the right thing for me today! It's great to talk to others about how I feel. Especially since I am in my 60's and live a long way from the Church's Chapel in Upper Peninsula of Michigan.
@joshuasmith26892 жыл бұрын
Learning from my mother was more influential than any other experience.
@jillyb66092 жыл бұрын
Hey, Yooper, glad to hear from you, I’m kind of in your same boat. We gotta keep going, right? Have an excellent day!
@GenaHill2 жыл бұрын
Are you udalizing tech to video chat with your family? I often overlook this tramedous blessing. I have four children too. Keep leaning on the Lord. In all things He Shall direct thee for good.
@magicalmercy2 жыл бұрын
My ADHD brain basically loves to min-max. If you don’t know what that means, basically I have a really hard time doing anything just the right amount. It’s always too much or too little, and it’s really hard for me to get anything just right. However, I know that it’s okay, because as long as I continue to try my best, the Lord can help me get through anything.
@jaklumen2 жыл бұрын
I gotcha. My wife has ADHD (inattentive focus) and this is something she deals with, too.
@LimegreenSnowstorm2 жыл бұрын
I relate to this!! I was undiagnosed for the longest time and was so frustrated when I kept making the same mistakes no matter how hard I tried. But the Lord always forgave me, and I was confused why He wasn’t more upset with me. Turns out He knew I had ADHD all along XD and that trying harder isn’t nearly as effective with ADHD as trying smarter
@GnBuddysystem2 жыл бұрын
@Magical Mercy your use of min-max makes me think you play video games?
@Neeneenugget2 жыл бұрын
Yes! Fellow ADHD brain here! It's only now in my 30s I've made peace with the fact that I'll never function like everybody else and I won't hit the same targets temporally and spiritually like others, but I KNOW that God knows I'm trying and he knows what's in my heart. We've got this!
@robinkat2 жыл бұрын
Ditto!!! I an also ADHD!
@danielschulz93042 жыл бұрын
Great video and great advice. Always ask Father, he's always ready to help.
@racqueltarlit-alejolpt21542 жыл бұрын
Balancing responsibilities and prayers for strength plus good people who encourage us... Thank you for this video...The Church is true!
@leswalker26392 жыл бұрын
Very good video! It doesn't hurt to always have a friendly reminder have to keep a balance in life. Work time playtime and quiet time with scriptures and prayers. I have found if you are rushing around all day that means you have too many things on your to do list that day. It's time to delete things on your daily list!😞 you can do it. If you don't do it now, the doctor will make you do it later. It's kind of like dropping a ball, sooner or later it's going to hit the ground.
@lualuaiulinai1612 жыл бұрын
As a new employee in the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints I need to put more effort at my work and have a wisdom to put things in order so that the Lord will bless my family and everyone around us
@theenforcer38942 жыл бұрын
wow this is beautiful. i just got off of my mission and it’s hard to work, have a social life, go to school, and study daily. but i think this helps me understand “balance” and prioritizing what is most important to Heavenly Father.
@maryjanepe31602 жыл бұрын
My mission Presidente quote me to a scripture said" don't run faster than your strength".. and i remember the word in scripture we are saved after all we can do.. for me as long as i done my work according of what is my capacity..and in balance .. my calling,my family ,my health and my work..as long as i know i done enough in my own strength..and according to the wisdom of God.. and i pray that wisdom of how can i cope all of my obligation and duty..
@FromAgonyToLight2 жыл бұрын
I love the perspective Brad Wilcox gives in his book ‘The Continuous Atonement’ where he says “we are saved by grace after all WE can do. The WE includes God. He makes the difference.” Try our best, and ask for God’s help with the rest. :)
@TheArtOfBeingStill2 жыл бұрын
This whole life experience was never really about the “doing”, but how the doing can change our “being”. The Jews in Jesus day got hung up on the “doing” and it became a stumbling block. We are no different today. Be still, be present in each moment, be mindful. Look inside for the change and growth and beauty that comes from the doing, otherwise all of the doing is pointless. God doesn’t care about your church attendance percentage or temple attendance stats or number of ministering visits. Did you just go through those motions, or did they go through you? Often the Why matters more than the What or the How. Be blessed and may harmony find you.
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
@@FromAgonyToLight You have interpreted one word into two meanings. God doesn't need saving because he is prefect.
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
@@TheArtOfBeingStill "God doesn't care about your church attendence..." - right in the middle of your comment.
@danielterry6425 Жыл бұрын
Daughter Left me this, why are kids so wise.
@patriciatilini64482 жыл бұрын
Beautiful Video Thank You For Sharing This Very Moment With Me🌹I Also Believe In Enjoying The Moment Because You’ll Never Know The Value Of A Moment Until It Becomes A Memory🌹With Much Aloha🌹
@leswalker26392 жыл бұрын
Patricia good wisdom and very well said!
2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this reminder! 🤗
@ShaneBrown202 жыл бұрын
I love this! Order in all things, even in the organizing of our lives!
@juanb75272 жыл бұрын
I absolutely loved this!
@claudemambabroth74892 жыл бұрын
good for us brother of the church of jesus christ of ,,,,,,,,,,,
@elton38912 жыл бұрын
Make the balance in all things ! 🥰
@JGKingCrusher2 жыл бұрын
I love the soccer analogy.
@matthewcalabresi5042 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I need to hear. I have a tendency to go all in on a lot of things at once, which has the end result of nothing getting done and sending me into a funk -- the exact opposite outcome than what I intended! This is a fantastic application of "all things in wisdom and order", and I think I've found a new scripture for my quote board. Thanks for sharing this!
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
I don't understand your metaphor.
@jasonschlierman4122 жыл бұрын
This is much needed wisdom. Some days I feel like I have to do everything by myself at the same time to get things done. The reality is I don’t. It’s Ok to let things go at various times or let others do things instead.
@lizzicusmotion5872 жыл бұрын
I'm glad the church is finally addressing this topic in a format and communication that is easy to understand and actually accessible.
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
This topic has been in the books since the 1800s along with the Internet several decades ago. This is obvious. It is easier to access, if you can afford it.
@2EternityButterflies2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much!
@jeannegosa652 жыл бұрын
"Optimum levels yield the best results."
@coreymcleod28992 жыл бұрын
This is exactly what I needed to hear today🙂👍
@mushroom-dn7xk2 жыл бұрын
I really need this message, right timing thanks for this wonderful message 😊
@MarleeCraig2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful counsel ❤
@chethaynes58022 жыл бұрын
Great and Reasonable Counsel
@alethdomingo-reyes17002 жыл бұрын
I needed this counsel. I'm guilty of always giving the maximum and eventually burning myself out. I'm grateful for this video that has shown me a better way of doing things.
@cybercrrgm7992 жыл бұрын
I needed this.
@alfredojr.esllerescandor77582 жыл бұрын
Perfect
@lesliearbogast64772 жыл бұрын
Very excellent
@Mobius1182 жыл бұрын
I love this!
@kyo83912 жыл бұрын
I really needed this reminder today. I'm glad the church has this channel.
@dorianphilotheates37692 жыл бұрын
So, I guess ironing out the creases from my morning newspaper and laundering pocket change shouldn’t be my top priorities when in combat - good advice; thanks!
@ero1996sl2 жыл бұрын
Perfect timing!
@susanmarielott75522 жыл бұрын
Hoping the culture catches up with the counsel asap! Last year at a family member's stake conference, it was taught over the pulpit that, "The Lord doesn't require us to be perfect, but he does require us to be exhausted." That kind of direct counsel in an official meeting is difficult for members to discount or ignore. The attitude that if you're not completely exhausted you're not a good member is still alive and well, but hopefully messages like this one will help.
@TheArtOfBeingStill2 жыл бұрын
Well said. Still a lot of nonsense flying around in meetings that was never taught by Christ. He took naps, got away on his own to be mindful, and told us to take no thought for the morrow. He sees us as human beings, not human doings. The Jews in his day got caught in all of the doing and it became a stumbling block to them. We are no different now. Be still, and know that he is God. His burden is “easy and light”.
@travisgriggs51512 жыл бұрын
Can't echo this enough. The "echos" of lionizing extreme sacrifice over the years, kind of run against this kind of measured council. Even the recent run of "hastening the work" kind of cuts agains the message here of "slow and steady wins the race".
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
I could discount your experience very easily but I don't feel like getting into the semantics of the vague context presented.
@BubbaSpartans2 жыл бұрын
@@travismarin2595 You need to chill out with the comments man. The stuff you're saying pushes people away. It's not helping. Calm down.
@edwinparson3462 жыл бұрын
The great Exampler... And on the seventh day He rest.
@josephcrews64232 жыл бұрын
Thanks, really needed to hear this
@peacedee2552 жыл бұрын
I so love this counsel! Very much appreciated.
@jeffsyphus2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! This couldn't have come at a better time for me.
@Sunshine-eb7ei2 жыл бұрын
Well needed and timely reminder!
@VincentNoot2 жыл бұрын
Awesome
@gabrieli31962 жыл бұрын
I needed this so much. This came the very moment I needed this. I am breaking down crying and just a mess on my bed the whole night not knowing which things to do first because there are so many things I need to do. Thank you so much.
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
You are telling us needs are uncountable.
@stephenbell87552 жыл бұрын
Very nice video!!
@Quagthistle2 жыл бұрын
Living life with a physical handicap has taught me to take life one step at a time. I'm not a failure if I'm stuck in bed writhing in pain for the afternoon. I'm not a failure if the dishes aren't done every night. I'm not a failure if it takes me a lot longer to do something than another person. All He asks is that we try, and try again tomorrow, and try again each day after that. Maybe we'll fail 10 times, but we haven't truly failed until we stop trying. As for personal goals, please be kind to yourself and others. Change and growth will not happen overnight. They are the product of consistent effort, and I've found that it's better to progress a mere inch every day than a whole foot once a month.
@churchofjesuschrist2 жыл бұрын
So true! Thank you for your comment!
@albertoreubenreyes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing this good advice. I am trying to balance my life between family, work, school, and church but Inget overwhemled sometimes. Thank you for teaching me to do things in wisdom and in order.
@johnryan33742 жыл бұрын
Listen to elder Bernar's talk on how we can only do one thing at a time. Very insightful!
@melanniegregersen60202 жыл бұрын
I LOVE this! It comforts me so much. Thank you for sharing! 🙏❤️🙌
@nathanaelcunha28522 жыл бұрын
That is really hard to do, but I thing if we trust in God, we can do it!
@jodie6722 жыл бұрын
I recently had to cut my work days down from 4 to 3. Yes, I will have less money, but I will have more time for the Lord and the things that matter most. My ability to do, is different from someone else and that’s ok 👌
@EricHansenHaiTech2 жыл бұрын
I found listening to myself and God's guidance helps me avoid burning too hot or cold on my life's priorities. Be appreciative of what you have and where you're at but never complacent.
@NinaCochina12 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this video
@annie_rios2 жыл бұрын
I needed to remember this ❤
@haileyolson37602 жыл бұрын
I needed this ❤️❤️❤️
@seanwood24552 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for the uplifting message. I have been seeing a therapist for a while now and I'm starting to learn more about myself. I'm 17, and I've noticed that I seem to really have an "all or nothing attitude." If I'm not operating at 100%, then I'm operating at 0%. It isn't true. That's still something that I'm struggling with today, but thank you so much for this video. It's something that we all truly need.
@seanwood24552 жыл бұрын
And I would add too, that when we can only do 70%, or even 30%, the Lord will fill in the rest. We can ask for his help. We can't fail when we try our best to live a well-rounded, balanced, Christlike life.
@jodie6722 жыл бұрын
It’s hard to hear the Holy Ghost if we are constantly running around to the demands of this world. God loves it when we take quite time to connect with Him. And we will be refreshed by it too.
@thisisfun8872 жыл бұрын
Line upon line. It’s tough for me cause I have always been all at once type person.
@MatthewSheets2 жыл бұрын
Trees don't grow all at once. Be patient with yourself and keep going. ❤️
@katherinebourke1712 жыл бұрын
Yeah I'm working on that too LOL
@manbeardeezul27572 жыл бұрын
Super Awesome
@akitecalledthief93822 жыл бұрын
Wow. Great video. Many people needed to hear this. It's great to know that the spirit will be with us if we keep going.
@AndrewThiriot2 жыл бұрын
This hit home. Thanks.
@MrSpookyDave2 жыл бұрын
great message, thanks
@moroniafrifa6142 жыл бұрын
Incredible!!
@fallerpilot2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this
@allanhallett2 жыл бұрын
thank you
@josephshumway2 жыл бұрын
I needed this. Great video
@_Squiggle_2 жыл бұрын
Wow! I feel like the person in this video. This was very wise, I feel. I'm going to see if I can apply this
@spencercase53702 жыл бұрын
Another big factor here is stress. I recently had to go pretty much 100% full throttle for a few days. I was tired but I didn't really feel burnt out until the 3rd or 4h day. It kind of felt good getting a lot done in such a short time. However, if I'm stressed for more than a few hours I start to feel a different kind of exhaustion that makes me just want to give up and avoid those situations in the future.
@charliecollins56582 жыл бұрын
Love the sports analogy! Great example.
@TomKunz2 жыл бұрын
As a mission president, I would love to see a similar video focused on missionaries and the work they do. It could help many missions around the world
@lakeishaannettemuhammad79472 жыл бұрын
Loved this!!!
@AndrewMcKinneymikdrew2 жыл бұрын
Needed this
@weirdTiKii012 жыл бұрын
I love this!! Thank you so much for the reminder! I also thought of a few people to share this with so that's super exciting 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
@churchofjesuschrist2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing!
@kulj972 жыл бұрын
Balance in all things
@khaterascott22862 жыл бұрын
Amen ♥️♥️
@joshuamills92772 жыл бұрын
I like how it's the same guy from Line Upon Line
@prudencehorvath44542 жыл бұрын
Feeling max out. This video helpful. Time to ask Father what are my maximum levels. Lol I’m still feeling like this at 74 yrs old
@อนุชาสิงห์ทอง-ศ6ฮ2 жыл бұрын
Awesome!!💐👋💐
@An_Economist_Plays2 жыл бұрын
Can't hear the still small voice if you're 100% focused on worldly things.
@MegWasHere20112 жыл бұрын
Awesome Congratulations!!!
@monsonmamea25782 жыл бұрын
I think Bishop Gerald Causse said it better. Are we active in the Gospel or busy in the church.
@guardianangel95172 жыл бұрын
Good plan!👍🏻
@alsfishbarn15892 жыл бұрын
Such a good video
@marksavoia36872 жыл бұрын
Jesus colonized earth with non-dual kingdom citizenship.
@bronwynjest14922 жыл бұрын
I agree with the comments made that this message is timely and relevant. Unfortunately, there is a disconnect between this message and the reality of the culture of the church organisation. As members of the church, we are constantly being encouraged to do it all, to strive, to be better and do more: the expectation that we do our missionary work, family history work, ministering, callings, gospel study - the list is long. And the subtle questioning of your faithfulness if you're not all over it, is real. We have become a people of 'doing' and we have lost the sense of 'being'. I appreciate this video but it is going to take more specific and realistic analysis of the reality of our lives to affect change. NB: The family should always get the best of our attention. This is our eternal priority.
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
Speak for yourself.
@michaelebert2382 жыл бұрын
@@travismarin2595 She's right, though. There have been General Conference talks for decades about how members are stressed living up to expectations and how to deal with it. Happy to hear you don't feel like this is a thing, but for many members, the stress and the expectations are very real.
@ThuanNguyen-su5yv2 жыл бұрын
🙏💖🙏💖i will sing forever of your mercies o lord.Good morning Father I ask you to pray for my mother. Maria Hien and her sister Maria Y Ben are in good health. full of Mary's grace and overcome the corona virus pandemic. I ask you for my father John bt. Thien is also in good health and is not infected with corona virus like me. I also ask you for my Russian study record to be approved and get a study abroad permit by the end of this year 2021. I also ask you to pray for Maria Y Ben to soon repay the debt⛪⛪⛪⛪🙏💖🙏💖
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
What's wrong with the schools in Russia?
@koolertrek2 жыл бұрын
Be very careful my fellow humans. Do good works because you love God not because you’re trying to but salvation. You will miss the mark. Love God because of what He has done and is doing for you.
@travismarin25952 жыл бұрын
"Not because you're trying to but salvation." I don't think we acknowledge this.