"My Mom called, I didn’t pick up; hours later she passed away" - Ifedayo of DANG.

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With Chude

With Chude

Күн бұрын

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@josephcrack4332
@josephcrack4332 4 ай бұрын
"I love this person. I'm into it with this person. I'm emotionally invested. You are all the things that a partner wants. Your partner is not the things that you want." Powerful words...very true! My previous relationships drained me emotionally and mentally also, until I found the true love of my life in the person of my charming queen Fatimat. My relationship with her has been amazing, sweet, lovely and peaceful. She has shown me true love and care indeed, she has brought me joy and peace of mind. In her, I find fulfilment in life! I admire her, respect her, value her, treasure her, cherish & adore her till eternity...I love her forever and a day! ❤😊
@Asspacee
@Asspacee 4 ай бұрын
Aww
@iamvictorious247
@iamvictorious247 4 ай бұрын
@@AsspaceeVery pleased to hear. This from a male gender.
@Nonso-daniels
@Nonso-daniels 4 ай бұрын
Happy For youuuuu
@josephcrack4332
@josephcrack4332 4 ай бұрын
@@Nonso-daniels Thank you!
@josephcrack4332
@josephcrack4332 4 ай бұрын
@@iamvictorious247 Thank you!
@tega3200
@tega3200 4 ай бұрын
Authenticity is a beautiful thing and Ife radiates it. 💖
@kennipoxiify
@kennipoxiify 2 күн бұрын
Everything you said Ife❤❤❤
@Meriven2416
@Meriven2416 4 ай бұрын
Dang mama ❤❤❤
@gistwithtoryteller247
@gistwithtoryteller247 4 ай бұрын
Ife is such a sound and grounded person. Her honesty is so contagious ❤❤
@adeniketaiwo1205
@adeniketaiwo1205 4 ай бұрын
Now I see it, I have a lot in common with Ife. Talking about being in a relationship with a person who is not emotionally available & strategizing best way to communicate, but it still goes south. In short, almost everything Ife said resonate with me.
@heisgilson
@heisgilson 4 ай бұрын
“Truly, when you’re naked in the bathroom, alone and afraid, we’re all just looking for one thing, it’s just to be happy.”….👌🏼
@michaelnotes8707
@michaelnotes8707 3 ай бұрын
And no one can make you happy except yourself.
@pelumipelumi904
@pelumipelumi904 4 ай бұрын
Both of you speak eloquently. Nice one
@ogd247ibuilders
@ogd247ibuilders 4 ай бұрын
For the first time, I am watching Chude and I appreciate knowing that there is a time to quit 7.7.2024, even as a MAN o, cause when u are trying and ur partner isn't...
@Unekwu998
@Unekwu998 4 ай бұрын
I find myself always panic over little things. No body understands 😢
@maryoghumu2229
@maryoghumu2229 4 ай бұрын
Just seeing myself in you. This is sooooo inspiring, Ife. Thank you!!😍
@obaasakina2083
@obaasakina2083 4 ай бұрын
I feel like I'm talking 😭. God bless u all and love the interview and the way she speaks
@pampam7886
@pampam7886 4 ай бұрын
Interesting interview
@bamideleoluwafemi4083
@bamideleoluwafemi4083 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thanks so much for Everything Ife, thanks for dishing dix out 😢😢😢😢😢. Only few people can connect to dix.
@TheStephanie112
@TheStephanie112 4 ай бұрын
So relatable!
@barbarakafuidente4965
@barbarakafuidente4965 4 ай бұрын
Gosh I went through same thing, missed my mum’s calls whilst she was near death, as I was busy at work, next call I received was news of her passing. Yes I have anxiety n yes therapy seems to be helping. ❤& 💡 to everyone going through this. You’ve got this❤
@itorobassey4471
@itorobassey4471 4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry about this. I hope you forgive yourself❤
@chidera2551
@chidera2551 4 ай бұрын
I’m so sorry
@SinmiloluwaRest
@SinmiloluwaRest Ай бұрын
3:57 Ife, I really hope you heal from the guilt of not picking your Mum's call. I'm sure she wouldn't want you feeling that guilt. This line might sound so cliche, but maybe the truth can sometimes be cliche.
@MsjennyForbes
@MsjennyForbes 4 ай бұрын
I know I need therapy for my anxiety 😢😢😢it’s bad guys and it’s constant😢
@oluwabusolamioluwasina
@oluwabusolamioluwasina Ай бұрын
Aunty Ifeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Arghhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh! I love youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu May you never lose your wealth of knowledge
@Foxy7154Xx
@Foxy7154Xx 4 ай бұрын
Unrelated but please Chude, coming from a place of love and respect, don’t do that dye thing on your scalp again. I kept getting distracted.
@rufinandongo5518
@rufinandongo5518 4 ай бұрын
He's trying to grow his hair back. Probably dealing with hair loss or something like that. Hope it works for him. Can't wait to see the results 😊😊😊😊.
@Beyondbraids
@Beyondbraids 4 ай бұрын
You can’t tell an adult what to do or what not to do to their body! It’s call respect. He’s not asking for opinion about his appearance.
@coks4486
@coks4486 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂 .. I knew my thought was here..
@Foxy7154Xx
@Foxy7154Xx 4 ай бұрын
@@Beyondbraids pele ma.
@funmiade575
@funmiade575 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@dammieokandeji
@dammieokandeji 4 ай бұрын
Then when you just stop talking, they’d start noticing 😅😅😅
@adeyeyeoluwadamilola4735
@adeyeyeoluwadamilola4735 4 ай бұрын
This
@ritadankai7823
@ritadankai7823 4 ай бұрын
Right…!!!
@BulolaOlujobi
@BulolaOlujobi 4 ай бұрын
Thank you ife ❤❤
@dakonwe
@dakonwe 4 ай бұрын
As someone who deals with anxiety, it’s so nice to see that there are other people who understands how my brain works. Like this thing it’s obvious that it’s my mind playing tricks in me. 😂 but at this point! There’s absolutely nothing I can do about it. 😢
@marysimonk
@marysimonk 4 ай бұрын
Me too
@ibiminaabiye257
@ibiminaabiye257 4 ай бұрын
There is. You can rest in the shadow of the Almighty. Give your worries to Him literally
@hajiatawaolanrewaju8498
@hajiatawaolanrewaju8498 4 ай бұрын
I live with anxiety too...I can't control it. So, I can relate.🎉
@joyee33
@joyee33 4 ай бұрын
I've suffered anxiety for years so I totally understand. Not a good place to be honest but It gets better especially when you talk about it😊
@nelsonasuen
@nelsonasuen 4 ай бұрын
The "God bless our provider" part took me out😂🤣
@noelieassengone
@noelieassengone 4 ай бұрын
😂😂😂😂
@Soyou-rq1xm
@Soyou-rq1xm 4 ай бұрын
Great Interview!
@yomzydee6825
@yomzydee6825 29 күн бұрын
To overcome anxiety I do it spiritually 2nd Cornithians 10:4-5 is the scripture,m to engage. However there are some conscious things we need to do, like being aware of one’s self which I believe she mentioned. Pray in the HolyGhost Jude 1:20-21 also allow yourself to be led by the Holy Spirit Romans 8:14. Of course to benefit all I said you need to be born again by receiving the Lord Jesus into your heart and life as your Lord and Saviour John 3:16. Whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved.
@treasureprecious7343
@treasureprecious7343 4 ай бұрын
I am just going to keep showing up. Don't think it, Keep showing up. Thanks ife!
@natashahills-j3g
@natashahills-j3g 13 күн бұрын
I live with anxiety too. I'm never in a good place mentally. I overthink, I have had PTSD since 2015 that can't seem to go away. I panick alot. God is my helper though.
@ValentinoFayemi
@ValentinoFayemi 4 ай бұрын
God bless you sis I thought, I was alone
@tutsypie
@tutsypie 4 ай бұрын
An Excellent Mind👌
@dminaj1416
@dminaj1416 5 күн бұрын
To think I experienced this situation of an emotionally unavailable man, just as Ife described it. It's not a place to be at all.
@TheTblac
@TheTblac 4 ай бұрын
Nice session with Ife DANG👍..But what is up with Chude's black head 🤣
@estherobiakor7244
@estherobiakor7244 4 ай бұрын
Still searching for the truth, one day i will find it.
@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses
@Adebayobamidelealfredmoses 4 ай бұрын
Mhmm ! Life is unpredictable you know !
@walatabig
@walatabig 4 ай бұрын
Not one person has understood my struggle with anxiety. Not one
@SandyCoco1
@SandyCoco1 4 ай бұрын
🫂
@CanadaVisaClinic
@CanadaVisaClinic 4 ай бұрын
Courage, you got this.
@Okeezy-v7g
@Okeezy-v7g 4 ай бұрын
Nobody does. Suffered the same until I asked myself if I was born with anxiety. No baby is born with anxiety. It becomes ingrained in our psyches one way or another. So, this led me lead on a path to find the cause. I found that mine was a result of complex traumatic stress disorder. I can say I have healed considerably. Even people around me notice the difference.
@Nanahauwa9
@Nanahauwa9 4 ай бұрын
@@Okeezy-v7gThank you for sharing this. I would appreciate if you can share how you outgrown the disorder 😢. I know I have anxiety disorder. And I can say it’s as a result of childhood stress and traumas
@Okeezy-v7g
@Okeezy-v7g 4 ай бұрын
@@Nanahauwa9 it takes time and a lot of introspection plus being compassionate with yourself. I used to tell people that I grew up a generally anxious child. Used to bite my nails also, rather severely. In 2021, I got a job promotion but soon, I realised that I was having challenges handling tasks that I could do under normal circumstances and yet here I was, about to experience a nervous breakdown. So, I paused and asked myself, "Where is this anxiety coming from?" I was a victim of physical, verbal, emotional and sexual abuse. I did a whole year of reading on sexual abuse and its effects and how I was affected. Then, I got into healing. How to undo all these. I am not your typical Christian but I know that the Bible says something about God's people perishing through the lack of knowledge. This includes knowledge about the illnesses they face, like psychological and how to overcome. Most people think praying alone heals, it doesn't. There's a thing known as spiritual bypassing. The books on CSA - Childhood Sexual Abuse were an eye opener. They didn't take away what had been done, they showed me how I could recover. That was for the whole of 2023. Enter 2024, I continued therapy but with a qualified therapist. I did that for two months, together with material on complex posttraumatic stress disorder by Tim Fletcher. I am still listening to his material and he has a playlist on CPTSD and anxiety. I have lots to listen to until the year ends. But each episode breaks shackles. Lastly, I am working on my relationship with my Maker. Abuse made me feel that God had abandoned me. And since my childhood trauma from physical and verbal abuse was by my mum, it was hard knowing that my primary caregiver was responsible. This usually affects a child, when their primary caregiver gives anything but. Anyway, I had to forgive God for what I felt was betrayal and abandonment. Yes, forgive God. Which sounds strange but in therapy I was told that I needed to do it. Listening to sermons about how God takes care of us but the world is the way it is has been rather helpful. The sermons are by a local sheikh in my country. For whatever reason, God used him to teach me about His caring nature. I did a series on the names of Allah and got to learn about how caring God is. My faith was strengthened. Like Job, I also realised that nothing could harm me unless God allowed it and if He did, He knew I could handle it. Weird, I know but that's how I see things now. Everything that concerns me is in God's hands. I have nothing to fear. I wish we could have an actual conversation. I truly understand what it means to go through anxiety. I am also aware that our paths to recovery are unique and we all must walk those paths. I am here to help.
@boluwatifeyusuf-l6c
@boluwatifeyusuf-l6c 4 ай бұрын
'God bless our provider' 😂😂😂😂😂😂 took me out
@priscillaafraasiedu4688
@priscillaafraasiedu4688 4 ай бұрын
U will never understand, until u experience anxiety.itbis no jokr
@thehealthygirlpod
@thehealthygirlpod 3 ай бұрын
My mind is controlled by the Holy Spirit and not by my flesh. The Bible says a mind controlled by the Spirit is life but a mind controlled by the flesh is death.
@okwaoshen7607
@okwaoshen7607 4 ай бұрын
Jesus will heal you if you come to him!
@YOU_CanBeProductive
@YOU_CanBeProductive 4 ай бұрын
Sis. IfeDee, 🎉🎉🎉
@folasadejubaadeoye797
@folasadejubaadeoye797 4 ай бұрын
The mum matter can be painful, man must move on. But for how long will moving from relationship end no one is perfect?
@iheomasoroibe489
@iheomasoroibe489 4 ай бұрын
I just love Ife❤❤❤ My last moments with my mum was a quarrel that made me cry uncontrollably to work the Wednesday before she passed on all the because of a dumb ass son😭😭😭
@delighto8586
@delighto8586 22 күн бұрын
i'm so sorry. Please forgive yourself
@efeabraham2191
@efeabraham2191 4 ай бұрын
Na this babe dey trend say she call of relationship few months to wedding
@boluwatifeyusuf-l6c
@boluwatifeyusuf-l6c 4 ай бұрын
Ife❤❤❤❤!!!!
@ogeokoli2003
@ogeokoli2003 Ай бұрын
😊
@lifewithanthonia
@lifewithanthonia 4 ай бұрын
This video is too short 🤦‍♀️. I wish it was long
@helenedet344
@helenedet344 19 күн бұрын
Hit the link in the description to watch the full clip
@adeniketaiwo1205
@adeniketaiwo1205 4 ай бұрын
❤❤❤Ife
@DominicaOpara
@DominicaOpara 4 ай бұрын
What is up with chude's hair though
@patriciaorenisi
@patriciaorenisi 4 ай бұрын
Please I need to connect with Ms Ife...I can totally relate to her. How can I reach her?.
@helenedet344
@helenedet344 19 күн бұрын
Her pages are @diaryofanaijagirl and @ifedayoagoro
@judithodinaka4028
@judithodinaka4028 4 ай бұрын
uncle Chude, what did you rub on your head?
@xtooseasoned
@xtooseasoned 4 ай бұрын
😢🤍
@bolatitoakinrolabu755
@bolatitoakinrolabu755 3 ай бұрын
Ife is one of the coolest and nicest persons I’ve ever met, but the lies have got to stop. You’re smart and all but why lie about your background? Nothing resonates better than a grass to grace story Ife. Own who you are. And Chude, seriously bro, it is ok to be bald.
@uzomaukweh6437
@uzomaukweh6437 20 күн бұрын
Ife has always owned her Grass to Grace story. You probably do not know her as well as you claim.
@helenedet344
@helenedet344 19 күн бұрын
She's always talked about her humble background
@Tefera-hf8fw
@Tefera-hf8fw 4 ай бұрын
Your painted head is funny and distracting from the guest
@chinelosynclaire7483
@chinelosynclaire7483 4 ай бұрын
Painted head😂😂😂😂
@emeka6084
@emeka6084 4 ай бұрын
U guys should stop bringing all this people with thier failed relationship. We have had enough of that
@Beyondbraids
@Beyondbraids 4 ай бұрын
You can come and share your own successful story. The world is for everyone, good or bad. Failed or successful.
@clickmama4857
@clickmama4857 4 ай бұрын
his partner?
@adebamipeadetoun2443
@adebamipeadetoun2443 4 ай бұрын
Dang mama ❤
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