That Time We Broke Up... Twice

From being long distance to living in the same city and then taking a pivotal trip together to the Caribbean, the Perrys’ dating relationship had a bit of a rocky start. Jackie ended things with Preston not once but twice, she says out of fear of Preston’s loving pursuit of her. It didn’t help that Preston didn’t know how to lead her well. There’s a lot they would have done differently, but in the end, their story is a reflection of Jesus’ Gospel pursuit of each of us.
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[@meiyaslaughter4944]

it’s so funny because Jackie appears to be so hard on the outside but Preston makes her all mushy 🤣🤣 i love it

[@LuvKitKatt]

crazy right!?😳

[@abby999]

i hope for a love like this

[@jazmyngreensberry8935]

A literal match made in Heaven and it gives me hope 😂❤

[@kharigaynor1553]

"I don't think I went to God... I went to my thoughts" - - is all of us at some point.

[@annabrignoni1562]

I get this

[@lizcharisddungu566]

so familiar

[@just.laur3n]

"People don't care what you know until they know that you care." That's a word🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@thatgreenguy9657]

It's is i had to text my fiancée about it I was so moved I had to share it

[@a_d_a_e_z_e]

You heard that too!

[@nicoled8440]

Girrrrl, I played it back IMMEDIATELY when he said that!

[@Adayinthelife1201]

That word hit me at my core. Wow!!

[@evelynfrederick]

I love y'all. "I'ma keep pursuing you." May every woman get to experience that type of love. So sweet

[@turklatasha191]

Amen

[@drippedinglory]

Amen. Because he knew 1000% beforehand that Jackie was his wife

[@Heythere2810]

@@drippedinglory that’s beautiful. It true what they say that a guy knows when she’s the one.

[@sylviacarter6733]

Amen I agree, Especially for my Grand-Sugars ♥️

[@aaliyahd5303]

As long as its consensual cus that can get really creepy really fast

[@ryebowen]

Preston pulling the “she’s a runner, she’s a track star” has me weakkkkkkkkkk 💀

[@LuzandoMukubu]

Yassss😂

[@shannilove2801]

nah cause why did i say it at the same time

[@henriettacarter1028]

I felt that when Jackie said “I didn’t have a Dad to teach me how to receive love from a man”.

[@MiloMyriad]

Some have dads who barely showed them what love is , man who would rather drink than spend time with their children.Men who beat their wives and called them names.

[@StopLyinToUs]

​@@MiloMyriad there mothers pick pookies and ray rays , that what they thought real men are!

[@Mrs.WordSmith.GEN_8zero]

Ditto there! And I came from an “ intact home” vs other reality of options BUT the equivalency of neglect & abandonment STILL manifested emotionally & spiritually…. Those emotional /spiritual Bonds of relationship were Not cultivated , they were left to themselves = abandoned.

[@hzlil1]

My husband and I just celebrated our 35th anniversary. I thank God it was a happy time. The past 6 years have been the worst of these 35 years. I'm speaking for myself. It wasn't till I started to truly pray for him, show him true respect, and truly love on him that our relationship is changing for good. Marriage is hard. Being selfless is a struggle. But God!

[@marloflowers7648]

Preach Marriage is hard it's not for the WEAK, thanks for sharing These last three years have been a struggle me as well we've been married for 28yrs. And together for 30 years I've been really trusting God

[@t.santana1771]

Thank you for this

[@DMGDwelling]

Yes! Praying for another softens the heart

[@Foreveradriennexo]

Amen ❤🙏🏽

[@winteradunn4377]

This comment is everything.

[@preciousolea]

The “I didn’t have have a daddddd” cracks me up everytime lol

[@olukiyesimi]

cause the way she said it took me out 😭😭😭

[@nataliecibaric8849]

I’m wheezing😭😭😭

[@shirleymoore3706]

😂😂😂😂

[@SuperDjtoomuch]

😂😂😂 the way she said it is funny. But it's real. That statement and her story. Just shows you. You can still make it. You can still be the best person you can be. But you have to decrease. So God that can increase. You have to make a room and put that to the side. And let him be your dad. And her statement was honesty. That statement probably could have fixed some things in the beginning. That statement probably could have helped him to lead her better in the beginning. We have to learn to open up to our spouse in the beginning. We are one now. Less work through each other's things together. Let's feed off one another. This was good like always. Everybody needs friends like them.

[@preciousolea]

@@SuperDjtoomuch so real!!! And relatable to me. God works all things for our good anyhow

[@k.rochel]

“I had a car and you had a bus ticket is sending me” 😂😂😂😂😂they truly are friends

[@tashae.denise]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@Christinapinkk]

😂😂😂😂

[@emmanuelardama]

There were moments in this story where I was like ‘those are definitely some red flags.’ I think a lot of times we see red flags in relationships and quit so it’s amazing to see how your faith in God helped you to get beyond them.

[@bykendrajo]

The red flags might be THE BLOOD!!!!! Amen!

[@khroniclesofkoko]

​@@bykendrajo😂😂😂😂😂

[@semmi98]

This is way too funny. Those red flags are a change to call upon the Blood! Because it deffo needs help @@bykendrajo

[@que_fela]

@@bykendrajo🤣😭makes sense!

[@Vhhandle]

😂😂😂

[@Gadites1Chronicles]

Perfect example of love keeps no record of wrong; in spite of the pain Preston felt, you still loved Jackie and made up in your mind you're still gonna marry her. Thats beautiful love which is a gift from GOD!!!

[@sarahtran8121]

The dad part was real relatable 😭

[@armikuamosby7663]

Sadly it is

[@JMarie-th8xe]

Yes.

[@clorindajames3179]

Same

[@TierraSanea87]

It definitely is. 💙

[@authoranitadavis1205]

"I don't think I went to God, I think I went to my thoughts" ~ Jackie. Sheesh!! I've been working on this.

[@deebestest100]

Preston just really wanted to see mangoes 🤣

[@missdee212]

Ikr he mentioned these mangoes twice not even 10mins apart lol

[@mimiakuse]

He kept talking about these Mangoes 🥭 😂😂😂

[@farahharrislcpcceoofworkin3295]

Mangoes are the greatest fruit

[@tebogoledimo1694]

😂😂

[@inokerogoyawa]

Mangoes in the islands hit different 😂

[@evandertheconqueror1983]

God told me she was my wife, and tild her I was her husband, I pursued her, we broke up. Its been 3months now.... please pray for me family 🙏

[@tawandagchiweshe3709]

We are in this together brother 💪🏾

[@shervonne_arts]

Pause, 33:42 “There’s a difference between hard things and toxic things!” 😮 I want to thank y’all for being so open and transparent. I am a newly wed and I have to admit that I was a little afraid going into it because all I heard was “Marriage is hard” “Marriage is hard” “Marriage is hard” And that shook me…I started to get frustrated and think like what does that mean??? You mean I’m going to have to deal my husband doing any and everything just because “marriage is hard”??? I wanted no parts. Lol. Then I got married and my husband, I mean I could not have imagined him up, I mean I had a list 😅 but God exceeded my expectations 🙌🏾 Anyway, I decided to take notes on what was hard so I can explain it to others who may have the same question. This is long so I’m going to only mention one. I came into the marriage with a daughter who really adored him, but didn’t know how to embrace him. She lost her biological father at age 5. We stated dating when she was 9. So I was all she had and she didn’t want to lose me. So as she saw him getting close to me, she wanted to reject him, even though she reeeeaaally liked him! It was crazy. So I saw his heart break over and over again, and him being patient, and kind, and loving, and now they are inseparable and now she prefers him over me! Which I can handle that. Lol. But our family is so blessed! But THAT was hard. 😣 So there’s a difference from dealing with hard things in marriage versus toxic behavior! Thank you for putting words to my thoughts. 🙏🏾 Praise God for you two!

[@esthera3883]

Girl, this is great, share the rest of the hards pls because we all have the same question! ❤️🙏🏾

[@ayezichi]

Thank you so much for sharing this 🥹

[@sanctifiedsessions3518]

Thank you sm for sharing. Sometimes I fight for things that are toxic not things that are hard so seeing a clear line for the first time is so refreshing ❤️

[@shervonne_arts]

@@ayezichi you are so welcome! Be encouraged 🫶🏾

[@shervonne_arts]

@@sanctifiedsessions3518 yes!!! A clear line! I was so happy to hear Jackie say that! 🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@dr.andrecranfordministries1008]

I been married 26 years. I’m a few months from 50 yrs old. I’m in awe of how you two have articulated your story. Continue to do what you all do. You’re blessing many💪🏽

[@monayiga]

Their humour is sooo...infectious. 😂 "You threw me under the Bus...pun intended...😂"

[@prnssbuttercup]

This was excellent, I needed to hear every word. I thought I was unlovable because of my “anxious preoccupied” style but Jackie was clearly avoidant and God still called Preston to love her through her messiness. It just let me know I could be loved anyway.

[@StopBeingVictimsItsNotGodly]

I’ve been using this word all week, how unloveable I feel and who would want to be with me, be friends with me so it’s good to watch this episode. Even at work and schl I can feel people pulling away as soon as I start talking, I’m trying so hard to figure out what’s wrong with me, I know I’m a messed and not perfect but it’s hard to know there’s something about me people hate or want to stand off from me

[@Rosewave80]

These comments make me sad, not only are you lovable but you are LOVED!

[@amykessler2492]

@@StopBeingVictimsItsNotGodlySis those are the ones God does not want in your life. You are valuable and deserve to have reciprocated love, friendships, relationships. Etc… Please do not settle. When it comes you will know it’s from the Lord. There is Nothing wrong with you. Please speak life over yourself. Light dispels darkness- we are not called to fit in but to stand out. Everything God made on the 7th day he called it good. Sis You are a good thing😊 God Bless you. I pray that God Will strengthen you while on your journey to him. In Jesus Name, Amen!!

[@sofumba]

The Holy Ghost will show us as Men of God how to love and understand our Wives and what they need if we would just ask Him-

[@taiwooyinkansola6742]

"God wants us to model a love that would open people so they can be receptive to the truth that we give!"🙌🏾❤

[@lovebrooklyn]

28:23 this part is so beautiful because Preston exuded a pure and true example of God by texting Jackie “I love you” even though she had previously “rejected him out of fear.” Often times, we are often the “Jackie’s” to God….running away from His love and not accepting or believing that we are capable of being forgiven by God due to our mistakes, traumas, flaws, etc. And God is so faithful that he never fails to show us that there’s NOTHING that we could do or did do that could ever separate us from His love, grace, mercy, and goodness! Such a blessing!

[@Millennia217]

I feel so seen every time Jackie articulates her experiences

[@AntaneseTooREAL]

Yes 🙌🏾

[@BriGreenlee]

I definitely feel this. Praying for a speedy restoration for my relationship with my ex.

[@chitsanzokatholowamo459]

"Oh yeah let's talk about that, I was a victim there too"😂 this has definitely become one of my favourite episodes

[@Articulated84Beauty]

1. I just found you Jackie and Preston and I love you both. 2. I’m from the Go and so it feels like being at home when you called her G, Preston. I mean there’s many meanings behind G for me but still it felt like a pizza puff and Harold’s met Baba’s. So thank you. We don’t hear that in Houston. We also don’t have pizza puffs in Houston either 😂. Send help. 😂 3. I was living as a lesbian for about 10 years from 18-28/29. I was basically kidnapped out of Chicago because I was going to die there…and my dad threw me in the car and we drove to Phoenix. On the border of New Mexico and Arizona, I asked God to take all my sin and when I tell you in an instance, He changed me. It was beautiful. It was purposeful. It was my first liberation of many strong holds He has lifted from me because of the faith I have in Him. 4. I struggle. I cannot find the desire to date or to put myself out there and the adversary plays with my mind and says it’s because I’m truly gay and I’ll never connect with a man. However I know the plans God has for me and there are plans of hope and a future. My best days are ahead of me. So…..can yall pray for me? I’m 39, single, no kids and I am strong in faith but sometimes, I isolate and so here I am. ❤ Thank you all for your work and for being obedient in your calling and being a blessing to all of us. Nicole

[@evangelistesther.o]

Try to fast and pray the scripture over your life and ask God to remove all impure desires from within your heart and to give you a new sense of direction and revelation concerning his will for your life. You can Daniel fast, do a 3 day water fast, do a water fast. Read Isaiah 58 while fasting also. The Bible promises that fasting breaks every yoke! And obviously be Conscious of your health if you cannot fast from food due to medical reasons then a Daniel fast might be best. God bless!

[@jeremiahogbadu]

Beautiful testimony, Nicole. I understand how you feel, and I pray God gives you the strength to fight and the grace and wisdom to trust Him as His spirit sanctifies you. Trust me, this channel will be very helpful to you. I'll also recommend Jackie's book, "Gay Girl, Good God" where she shares her testimony whilst explaining God's amazing redemption power. Always remember, Jesus loves you. The devil is a liar and a master illusionist, yet God's grace is sufficient, and His love conquers all. Much blessings.

[@jkuzofficial]

When y’all brought the Gospel in at the end… my God I almost lost it. If God first loved us, then why can’t we love each other?

[@KatDPerez]

Love this story! And Jackie, Preston loves you and God destined him for you!! that’s why despite the arguments he wanted to marry you, he loved you despite your flaws and shortcomings just as Christ loves us despite the moments we mess up. It’s not illogical for him to want to have married you, you’re worth it for him!! He wanted you for you! Beautiful to see that and see a man submit to the Holy Spirit’s guidance. Grateful to God for your podcasts and marriage! Glory to God for that!!

[@lindokuhlemphanjukelwa3071]

this had me ugly crying but at the same time it was very reassuring in that it reiterated that the Lord is very intentional about the people who He places in our lives.

[@masanismith3004]

Jackie had me thinking I was living in another dimension when she said they started dating in 2021 😅

[@jameshaflowers1242]

lol yeah I was like I think they been married for almost 13 or 14 years

[@simphiwendlela]

me too, , i was so confused bcoz i also saw a video of them when scrolling down written 10 years ago...

[@jonathanesayiasberhe3222]

@ 29:32 Preston = "We was pure" Jacky = Kinda Preston and Jacky = "We was pure-ISH" I laughed so hard at that confession. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Bless yall heart. This is why I watch yall podcast. Not because I seek the vulnerability. But because yall willingness to not paint a unreal picture inspires me to watch my tongue and be courages to speek out how I messed up aswell.

[@crystalblive]

The timing of this episode is definitely God ordained for me. I’m grateful to have heard it at this time and super thankful to be encouraged.

[@changingme4315]

Timing is everything, and this was right on time. God opened my eyes through this podcast that I am how Preston was back then, with my 16 yo niece now. In that I have been preaching to her on how to change her, instead of showing love to her to be open to truth. My intention has always been out of love for her, but in my own strength, which will NOT work. Thanks for the reminder to truly pray about it. Blessings!

[@esmeraldarodriguez7328]

As a wife of a husband that is becoming a pastor, it's getting really lonely and I've been in my feelings trying to be okay with not really seeing him often. Watching you guys brings joy and comfort in me. Giving me a message that it's going to be OK. Thank you and God continue to bless your ministry and BEAUTIFUL family ❤😊

[@josephineboachie-yiadom]

I understand my Love. I pray the holy spirit helps you know how to go about it. You both are blessed

[@alicemusirinofa6351]

😅

[@TheSongNinja]

Praying for you and your husband💚

[@amy22331]

🙏🏼❤️

[@lasheasimmonspogge2435]

You are a part of that ministry too, even though he is in the Pastors position, God will not allow him to forget that he is a husband first. Our ministry is our family first,always. The ministry's families should never be the martyr.

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

I love this conversation! The man can only become a husband when they depend on the Maker of the divine marriage. And thus the wife can open up to be be led. It comes to down to humility on both sides recognising the Power at work from God. Praise the Lord!

[@aprilsantos2139]

I love y’all energy with each other. That is so me and my husband. We are best friends and play with each other and most people don’t understand us cleaning each other but it’s our love language.

[@tyfdh9]

1 thing for sure, he not only loves her, he’s in love with her. BIG difference! Reason why he fought for her. Let this be an example men, when you’re in love with a woman to pray and ask God for guidance, wait patiently and then obey His guidance; no matter who was right or wrong. The question is, “Do U see her as your wife, the mother of your children?” If the answer is clearly yes; then, ask her. Ask her to be your wife. He knew her ❤, but struggled to get in. WARNING!! Make sure its God talking and not lust, sex, or convenience.

[@adrienneberry1764]

Thank you both for this “real”discussion on real life stuff! There’s not enough of it by those leading in church. It took me too long to realize that I was the walking wounded too long and wouldn’t take accountability. Wounded makes it hard to love, hard to relate. Therapy also has it’s benefits. (anyhew) I’m happy to see you both got through the issues and made it this far, GOD is our help. Truth is you both wanted to change and that’s a fact. I’m a mature woman that’s proud of you both. STAY TOGETHER!!!❤

[@gr8ter2me]

😂❤I love the authenticity! I need real ministers in my life who show their realities. Too many ministers only show the good, like being a Christian will stop struggles and make everything perfect. Thank you both for being real!

[@shermerianicole1]

I just want to say you two’s relationship truly shows the BEAUTY of the gospel! God bless you both! I truly love this podcast & yes I’m the one who eats snacks & watches KZbin lol. Thank you for yes & obedience! May the Lord continue to enlighten, encourage, & uplift you both 🤍

[@OutoftheBoxVirtualAssisting]

This is excellent! Such an edifying, funny & yet mature discussion. Loved it!

[@indiarae9032]

Their relationship is beautiful and so centered around God and their relationship with God I love it

[@JMarie-th8xe]

She did have some healing to do. I think the start of the relationship brought that up to the surface. I can definitely relate. We ask God to clean our hearts and sometimes God uses people to help us see our hearts so we know what to bring before Him. How can our hearts be clean if we don't know what's in it or what healing we need. God wants to clean and heal our hearts. You guy's story touches my heart! Seeing God at work in your relationship is awesome to see!

[@kjwilliams100]

This helped me. I have been the old version of Preston with my husband. Perhaps if I just show him love and not enumerate his flaws all the time, I can then experience God's peace and leave the fixing to Him. I appreciate y'all's transparency.

[@isaacmwangaza]

“A good man is not a good man in of Himself but a good man is a man who’s led by the Holy Spirit”

[@kelliew.4285]

This talk was about ALL relationships. It says a lot about the necessity of learning to forgive before marriage and of becoming the person who can solve some of the things we're asking God to do. People in a Godly marriage know what it takes to make relationships work, and I thank you Preston and Jackie for your wisdom and transparency that helps us heal all of our relationships.

[@Mrs_Fletcher]

I love how you all pressed through. Marriage is definitely work. I was just giving the Lord an earful when your video popped up and caught my attention. Thanks!

[@estherKsammy]

Beautiful! Thanks so much for sharing. "Correction is received better when the person has been loved first" 📌🎯

[@vonettawilliams3754]

I love this. ♥ Fun fact: I shared a flight with them a couple months ago from Atlanta to Houston

[@cre8whatyouwant]

I had a similar experience with an ex…but after the break up (and me not being able to process….or understand my emotions enough to express them verbally as well), our “reunion” was infected with passive aggressiveness and rejection towards me…due to the hurt I inflicted onto him. We never recovered after that. It felt like what I did (breaking up out of frustration/fear) was unforgivable to him in a sense…when I really just wanted to be met with love. I wanted to be seen past my brokenness and through the eyes of love. This just proves that God really needs to be the center. God is the one who guided Preston to lead with love…and not the hurt cause by Jackie’s rejection. To know someone loves you and can process through those difficult situations (and doesn’t switch up because of those bad days), is a love I feel we all would like to experience. This was a beautiful episode. I’m thankful I found this podcast.

[@arianaways]

I experienced the same thing. Except in my situation I broke up with my partner several times. I tried so hard to heal in that relationship but it wasn’t enough. Once he realized how truly broken I was and holding on to the hurt of my rejection of him, he was unable to love me anymore. He was trying to get to the place he was mentally in the beginning of our relationship but I didn’t want to ask him to open his heart to me again knowing I was still broken inside and confused about the relationship. After we parted ways I prayed to God for clarity on the situation and he made me clear to me that the relationship was not His will for my life. It was in the midst of the relationship that I found Christ and it was difficult being in a relationship with a non believer. I believe that God removed him from my life because I was idolizing marriage and engaging in a unholy relationship. God is preparing me to be with someone who is equally yoked who can lead me with love with the spirit of Christ 🙏🏾

[@sjg5994]

This really touched me. My husband and I struggled but we were not surrounded my strong and challenging Christian leaders or people. It was just "church as usual." We tried but we were getting worse in our hearts the more help was sought. No one spoke real talk and we needed it. Now he's off....way off in the religious world. In the midst I heard God say pray for him, but my brokeness was so deep I didn't. I wish I had to help push back the darkness a bit better. Thank God for real talk and people willing to challenge others in the realness.

[@vaultofria]

Are you guys married now?

[@sjg5994]

@vaultofria Thanks for asking....but no. Divorced now. I did start changing for the better on my own, but my ex-husband was worse off than I thought. He had deeply rooted issues with porn and other women. It was like he was battling the darkness in himself and had no strength to fully surrender to Christ. He participated in counseling many times, but it wasn't strong or real talk at all with either of us. And although he was/is responsible for his own freedom in Christ, Christian leaders are part of our growth. In the Bible, Jesus and His Disciples were very straightforward yet loving. They called out sin but reminded about His Truth. We never got that. But where I'm at today, I know God allowed it because I was searching hard, and then praying hard. My ex actually got worse and meaner towards me. I endured like a good soldier but it was painful. That last day in court was brutal to see a different person who barely could look at me, was lying, and couldn't remember our wedding date when he was the one who really wanted to marry me. He had a lot of brokenness, some I knew about. He turned from The Truth. I'm still not 100% why God let it end that way, but all I know is that I'm at peace at home now. It was tense with him because I always felt like he was hiding something. I still don't know the whole story and don't need it, but he became very unhealthy spiritually and spiraled into sexual sins. God took it away from my life. Unfortunately my ex went with it.

[@monicanicole738]

This podcast broke wide open what exactly my needs are. For over 7 years, when I became aware of relationships and how they’re formed and what it takes to wanna be in them, I never ever knew what my needs were. I was with partners that called me selfish because I did what I wanted to do for them (cook, clean up after them, help them relieve burdens by coming up with plans) but I rejected their intimacy and I was terrified of vulnerability. Therefore, every relationship I went on ti have was superficial. Until my ex. From the moment he met me, he would say “I am loving you in the fear of God himself. I don’t know how I know, but He told me you’re my wife. He called me to you.” For a whole year we fought what felt like every day and he would chase me, come up with a way to fix us. Anything. Every single thing he did scared me to the point of frustration. I wanted him to give up on me. I didn’t feel worthy of his love, I didn’t even want to be seen. I heard Jackie mention she was scared and that’s the first time I’ve ever heard someone else say that. Everyone else accepts love easily and wholeheartedly but not me. I’m hesitant. I’m doubtful. I’m self sabotaging. We parted ways, mutually, and idk that we will ever be together again but the reason was because he wasn’t getting enough intimacy from me. However at the end when you both talked about learning how to love one another which allowed Jackie to open up- it clicked for me. I never ever told him what I needed, but he got frustrated that I wasn’t ALWAYS doing what he needed. But none of my exes ever asked me what I needed. They called me selfish despite me serving them. But I realized what I need is a man who shows up. I need a man who is a leader. My ex would tell me things he’d have to get done but then oversleep. He had bad habits like smoking and drinking which was revolting to me but whatever. We had to take my car everywhere when we hung out because he neglected to get his taken care of properly and the stickers were out of date. I just had this DEEP longing for him to finally get it. To snap into knowing if he’s MY husband he needs to get it together. I built myself up and I was doing well and it felt like he was leeching off me at times. But I can say with my full chest now. I want a man who shows up and leads. I don’t want to remind him to get his stuff done. I want a man that has the ability to recognize where I need help because he knows I struggle asking for it due to my past trauma with being let down/betrayed. Thanks for this podcast…God is working on me but I hope God is working on him, too. I’ll pray for him I suppose. Might be half assed but…God just might answer 🤣

[@Aubbalways]

“Yeah I didn’t have a dad.” 😂😂 Never related to dark humor more. “I shouldn’t be laughing at your fatherlessness.” 😂😂

[@jennjc800]

"Thinking your way through emotions" and learning the vocabulary, the right words to describe your feelings, thay part was 👌🏼

[@listea56]

Jackie pointing to her blush ❤cutest thing ever, the her hubbies response 🥰 you guys are too cute

[@TiaMia0707]

I have so many questions concerning my own marriage after listening to this podcast. God send help my way. ❤ Love the Perrys

[@allynthiabenton-white4377]

Y’all remind me of me and my husband’s journey. We’ve been married 23 years with 3 kids and we’re in straight party mode now but it’s because of the struggle and learning we had to endure in the beginning . Thank y’all for sharing ❤❤

[@Dwarnex1965]

That's marriage also reminds me of my 30 year relationship and 27th year of marriage. You gota laugh That's the medicine but most important that prayer life .

[@jonathanesayiasberhe3222]

@6:14 "She's a runner she's a trackstar" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Me and preston said it at the same time - And I laughed my behind off.

[@indigotheartist]

Amen 🙏🏾❤"People do not care what you know until they know you care."

[@DwayneSmith-kq9eb]

Thank you for having this conversation. You don’t know how relevant it is to me right now.

[@rachelharris891]

This gives me hope bc if my boyfriend (which I don’t have yet lol…do it Lord😭🙌🏾) ever told me I was like my bipolar father who neglected me…I’d be on a swift downward spiral. Butttt seeing y’all today, and the fact that y’all made it, gives me great joy!

[@reihannahherring8605]

Jesus loves you 💓

[@Beautyisme90]

“I lost my remote back”” yall crack me up. Thank you!!

[@kenedyg2374]

I so love this side of you guys ❤

[@denricalett1085]

Inviting you guys to return to Trinidad and Tobago...our family will love to have you and your family over😊...another great episode!

[@uniquelydesignedtv5878]

I love y'all! This conversation was edifying, hilarious, and helpful... thank you.

[@aishawright6943]

I LOVE YALL!! THE TRANSPARENCY, INTEGRITY, AND HONESTY IS SO REFRESHING!!

[@rayzay-3659]

The Holy Spirit is Real. Im so happy for the Perrys! U guys are killing it for the KING OF KINGS in marriage and ministry!!!

[@labellelagonave975]

I can listen to you all talk 24/7 …. It doesn’t get more authentic than this

[@tammycovington3288]

Thanks Bother and Sister for sharing this encouraging and inspirational video…. I just want to tell everyone watching…. What God Has for You is For YOU ….The weapon can form but it won’t Prosper. God’s Will shall come to Pass…spiritual warfare is real and in order to see the reality of what God has spoken over your life… we must do what James 4:7 tells us to do… 1) submit to God 2) Resist the devil 3)results-he will flee. Preston did exactly that and didn’t give up on Jackie.. he kept pursuing what God said was his from the beginning. Love this …Thanks again for sharing your spiritual transparent journey with us❤😊👊👏🙌🫡

[@tmitchell5693]

Thank you for the HONESTY something I do not hear often enough! Thank you both for your humility and vulnerability. I appreciate you!

[@Lifewithchrist__]

Their laughter is contagious. lol definitely a quality I desire in my relationship

[@MeghanT-h8t]

Love this discussion, its so real. Nothing comes overnight. Im glad yall made it through :)

[@Jai.Andersonn]

"A good man is not a good man in and of itself. A good man is sombody led by the Holy Spirit." That was good Preston. I'm gonna hold on to this.

[@nondyebodumeko9682]

Every week with yall is a blessing 😭❤

[@tracibounds-galvan9781]

I am now 49 and have two adult sons that are not yet married, and I SO enjoy being able to share things like this with them, on what a Godly marriage should look like. Y'all are truly precious. Thank you for sharing your hearts and your experiences so others can learn. God bless you and your family!

[@ivwananjingaomwila2391]

Thank you for being honest with us!!and Jackie we share the same birthday btw!

[@tamikamiller1895]

Preston God truly made you for Jackie and Jackie you were uniquely made for Preston..ain't God awesome!

[@thebeesbuss824]

This was a blessing. Hilarious but pure at the same time. God bless your transparency.

[@jjmensah6602]

This is the most refreshing christian conversation I have ever watched

[@AntoniaOkafor]

This was actually a great lesson on how to disciple people. So thankful for this message!

[@kimmyclark1372]

This was really good to hear . Y’all being transparent saying how hard things were and how y’all had to come back together and stay! I love y’all’s sense of humor.😂😂 Marriage is work, but it pays off . God bless the Perrys! ❤️🙏🏽❤️

[@sommerbroussard5625]

The way you both are able to articulate everything so well is amazing to me. I didn’t grow up around effective communicators & I just love hearing yal’s perspective on things.. it’s super helpful & relatable 🙌🏽🙏🏽

[@shereecespence]

This was an amazing conversation😍 Blessings and protection to you both 🙏🏾

[@lorealkids1989]

Are yall familiar with attachment styles? Sounded like an anxious/avoidant dynamic. I'm happy you guys were able to bridge the gap and come together in the end. ❤

[@mvscrubb2442]

Another great podcast filled with humor and truth.

[@carlinamilan]

I prayed about some things in my relationship and this video came up 🥹❤️ to God be the glory. I love y’all lol!

[@shondajohnson4218]

I love how transparent they are. ❤

[@adb7771]

I love it! These were the most Godly mature "breakups" Thank God for both of your maturity levels. This is something i always longed for in a Christian Relationship. Thank you for modeling it and giving me hope that it can be done!❤

[@rohneshamhorne]

The fact that I listened to the podcast twice before watching this!!!! So good!

[@ariari1641]

When I say I needed this good laugh and shout!!! Y'all done blessed me real good today family. 💓

[@mlynnekeeney4324]

So glad it’s not just me and my boyfriend 😭😂. I’m also a track star

[@KabeloEmilyNell]

I always come back to this episode because it's hilarious but I actually feel so seen because my thought process about dating currently is so similar to Jackie's 😭

[@fefeknox]

The way I laughed, listening to your story! 😂😂😂😂😂 I love your podcast! I love that you're together ❤️

[@amandapeak8020]

wow... Preston knows his lady. wise man you are.... sometimes you know just to make her laugh..... im so inspired to find this kind of union ordained by God. marriage is amazing. Jesus my hubby first. prepping 🙂

[@JaymeOrr]

It's me, hi, I'm the problem it's me. 😅 I knew I loved Jackie but, this makes me love her even more because we are so similar!!!

[@yaabima2]

The way y'all crack jokes on ea other bout had me crying...so beautiful. I pray for a very fun, loving, marriage where we can tease ea other and know it's all love.

[@juliajbanks1391]

This is such a good conversation. Thank you for letting us in…

[@Infinity-om1pl]

“I’ve been trying it out because it makes me feel alive” is definitely a true statement regarding blush…. And God 😂

[@ambercharr307]

This was beautiful, thank you so much!

[@OneiArMani18]

Such a refreshing conversation !!

[@IamallthatyouarePURPOSE]

Wow, I found Jackie on another KZbinrs page and was naturally guided to this conversation, which is so needed for this season im in rn…and I’m just grateful for have been in a place to receive this fully. So much was normalized for me and affirmed as I am BUT I was also gently challenged to see so much that so many people have spoken to. Thanks be to God. And thank y’all fr.