How to Tell the Truth

Preston operates in a number of roles: husband, father, evangelist, apologist, poet... and now, he's added "author" to the list. The Perrys discuss the spiritual opposition he experienced writing his first book and why they believe the enemy didn’t want this book to reach the world.
How to Tell the Truth isn't a book that teaches you how to evangelize "like Preston." It's a book that robs every believer of the excuses that keep them from sharing the Gospel. Here's the good news: you don't need seminary training to tell the world about Jesus.
How to Tell the Truth: The Story of How God Saved Me to Win Hearts, Not Just Arguments releases on May 21, 2024. Pre-order here: preston-perry....
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[@thabisozuma8457]

Truth without Love is mean and Love without Truth is meaningless

[@nondidumeko1]

Your south african

[@quanaslaughter6466]

Jimmy Evans says. Truth with out love is mean. Love without truth is meaningless. Truth in love is medicine

[@ShelbyMW-hm6mv]

This is 🔥

[@bernicethomas894]

Amen….this is so good…

[@megzartlife]

The version I first came across was- Truth without love is cruel & love without truth is manipulation. Truth in love offers healing & wholeness…

[@RCGWho]

20:00 "The moment you tell someone you are a Christian, you are an evangelist. The moment they start asking questions, you become an apologist. The moment they become a follower, you become a disciple maker." Preston Perry (This is revolutionary yet fundamental. I've spent my whole life missing this point of fruitfulness and faithfulness.)

[@tonyawin2205]

This!

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

This is absolutely profound, and I had not known the language to describe these things. Lately I've been very interested in Apologetics, as a way to gain a deeper knowledge of why I believe what I believe about Christ. I am so appreciative about the level of transparency in this Podcast, and it is really educating me about how I can use my gift of communication to lead people to Christ.

[@angelicwilliams2085]

Preston Perry is a gift to the body.

[@IrieMarie22]

“Every person that you talk to has a cry, you just have to ask the right questions to hear it” -Preston Perry That was SO POWERFUL and it was absolute poetry! Glory to GOD!

[@nesijordan145]

" Every person that you talk to has a cry, you just have to ask the right question to hear it."~Preston Perry

[@Cutejazz1]

It was too good. The poetry of it all!

[@Threepiece_]

THIS THE ONE 🎉 God has always put on my heart that everyone is searching for him they want blind faith, fruits of the spirit, joy in the morning, and a love of a father that is never ending and forever forgiving they just turn to worldly things

[@enwelumprecious6683]

Jackie asks really good questions. Such a wise woman.

[@Askboutjass]

I need her notes 😂

[@Askboutjass]

Let me just pay attention

[@wannabefarmerr]

“God doesn’t like cowards because they only think of themselves, they are selfish” That’s a huge takeaway for me 😮

[@Melz87]

As an Esthetician, listening to the first few mins of this episode about skincare warmed my heart🥹🤣

[@mayalashon7632]

lol same sis 🤍😂

[@joelatham5937]

as an Esthetician I am pretty sure you are an evangelist ;D (never met someone in your industry who wasn't) keep it up!

[@Alisa-xl3ff]

❤

[@Alisa-xl3ff]

❤😂❤😊

[@TheCoastofMagdala]

Saaammmeeeeeeeee!! I was like ok jackiieeee! Talking bout nicinimide and what not 🤭

[@nspirednation]

The testimony about Preston’s grandma! My God 😭😭

[@samanthanyongani4549]

Trueeee. People argue doctrine but refuse to take time to study the Bible.

[@reyleal1439]

Oof!!!! I love that last thing you said bro “When you live a life worthy of the gospel, you don’t gota force the gospel down ppls throat, they’ll come to you” 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@RCGWho]

But don't let the term force it down their throat stop you. My Dad wasn't a Christian, and he'd say that often even when my Mom was saying nothing about the Lord. He was just under conviction. It caused me to grow up and virtually never witness cuz I knew nobody wanted the Gospel "shoved down their throat. " Want it or not, they need it. That lie of the enemy effectively muzzled me. Should you back off if they flip out, want to argue , or otherwise shut down the conversation, sure.

[@reyleal1439]

@@RCGWho Amen There’s a time to speak to those that will receive it. On the fertile ground and depending on what ground the seeds are planted I’ve learned if it does become a argument or debate I’m walking away I personally don’t want to do that I’ve done it before n it just ends bad most times

[@MissKayfad1]

Jackie fell a little bit more in love this episode 😂❤

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

Yes!!! It is so beautiful to watch her gaze into Preston's eyes with such love, respect, and admiration of his wisdom, knowledge, and zeal for Christ. I giggled everytime she made lil noises in agreement with him, everytime he was preaching truth about his experience and strategies on speaking to non-believer's heart and with kindness. She loves that man dearly and it's such a joy to witness that.

[@MissKayfad1]

@Miss_DaniD I was just listening so I didn't get to see her gaze, lol, but every sound of agreement was a give away 🙌🏾🫶🏾😆

[@Dariannetolbert]

First of all, the fact that you gave a skincare lesson before Bible study and it was EXACTLY WHAT I NEEDED, is God working on my behalf😭 age and pregnancy has changed my skin and I am lost in the sauce😂 but God sent the Perry’s

[@lesielikololia]

I usually fear sharing what God has put on my heart because I often can’t discern if it’s of my own heart or of His… I also fearing offending people and losing friends… but I got into it with a friend and gained a sister instead. The confrontation brought us closer!

[@maritzarivera91]

I've also dealt with these things, too often. May we rely on God's abundant grace, peace, and power in His Spirit to speak and do His will, in Jesus name ❤🙏🏽

[@kissingfrogspodcast8533]

For God has not given you a spirit of fear but of power and sound mind! ”For the Spirit God gave us does not make us timid, but gives us power, love and self-discipline.“ ‭‭2 Timothy‬ ‭1‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

[@Its_tiy]

Stop fearing and just test it! Always test what God has spoken or what you think He has by his word because it will align 💯 I've personally just concluded that if it was a really good and random thought/feeling than it was all Him lol! I just give him credit for the things I feel are too good for me on my own to have thought/felt 😂🤷‍♀

[@lesielikololia]

@@maritzarivera91 amen sister🙏🏽

[@lesielikololia]

@@Its_tiy 👏🏽thank you

[@SashaLynelleXoXo]

I’ve learned to not focus on strategy but on the persons heart because the Gifts of the Spirit are null and void without the Fruits of the Spirit. Scripture says speak the truth in Love because knowledge puffs up but Love builds up 1 Cor 8:1

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

Amen!!! Gentleness goes such a long way, when getting to the heart of someone you're trying to witness to.

[@denishasmith7272]

This woman is truly unbelievable, preaching a whole Word on makeup as an analogy!!! I’m done!!!🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰🥰🥰

[@Made_New_In_Christ]

As a former Jehovahs Witness now Christ follower thank you !

[@dejaxleigh]

Whew chillleee, that story about Preston’s grandma is powerful. Glory to God!!!

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

Amen, and that's a testament to God's Power in comforting hus people through grief.

[@trudy-annbrown6662]

I listened to this on your podcast and it was beautiful, and i cant wait to watch it like i've never heard it b4...thats how good it is❤

[@lexymartin6841]

I just want to share this to whoever may see this. I have been following Jackie Hill Perry for only a couple month and her content is what I've been consuming the most. Especially With the Perry's. For this month in particular, ever trial and testing I've been going through. Any little worry I have, God has been supernaturally putting me in contact with their content that relates to it. Me and my boyfriend been having frequent arguments and then I saw their collab on Conflict. Hit me like a ton of bricks, the deeper meaning of dying to self. Today was another blow. Because I have been hardcore talking in my heart with God about reaching my close girlfriend about her faith. I've been scared. Scared that she will run when I have her so close. Then I see this the very next day. The way God is speaking to me through these videos makes me want to cry. Its really touching for me and I am glad that they are still In Tune God fearing people out there that could touch a young girl from the small island of Antigua 🇦🇬.

[@lauranelson7243]

God bless you!

[@nariahmack5131]

The fact that you’re on a Benadryl or two and is still awake for this whole hour and some change is strength😭

[@jthompson2468]

Your grandmother’s testimony moved me so much ❤️ I love how you came back to that and she was open to letting you in

[@kathymitchell1022]

Jackie out of nowhere announcing“I didn’t brush my teeth” is ME 😂😂😂

[@austintorres8180]

“I didn’t brush my teeth” 🪥 😂

[@thululindesnothando5720]

I done laugh so hard that's apparently all I needed to shift my mood

[@gdaigle78]

I was hooked at that point 😅 Thought, "Jackie's on one today, this gonna be a good one..." 😂

[@thululindesnothando5720]

God will use me how he has uniquely made me. That's so good Preston dropping gems

[@damisibabs-olorunfemi]

I’ve always appreciated Preston’s vulnerability on this podcast, but today, I was blown away by his depth. Praying God uses this book to bless the body. Love y’all ❤❤❤

[@ShirleyLaTour]

Wheeewww, even the makeup analogy at the beginning was 🔥🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@denishasmith7272]

How does she have so much wisdom and insight at 34!!!! I’m done again 🙌🏽🙌🏽🥰🥰🥰

[@rohneshamhorne]

Let's Go Preston! We also need that YouVersion 5 Day Bible Devotional on the app!

[@sqwiggywiggy8497]

Right!!! How many times can I press like on THAT!! 👍🏾1k

[@l.taylor7953]

Preston is such a profound storyteller. His understanding of "narrative" is capacious.

[@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear]

37:36 love when Jackie adds some slight singing/praise etc 🎶 always makes me chuckle and smile! Love y’all so much ❤

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

Yesssss, I just commented this on someone else's comment. I giggled too. I saw it as her love, admiration, and respect for Preston's wisdom.

[@NaturalWifeyandMamaBear]

Aww, Exactly 🥰

[@gowithhisflow5853]

Man this is so enlightening and convicting yall I'm so tired of being a coward and the fact that I know cowards don't inherit the kingdom of Heaven makes it even worse. I need the Lord to bless me with my own style to serve Him right in Jesus name

[@tylerblaylockk]

I think evangelism is more of a command than it is a gift.

[@joycepenny2932]

Hello Perry’s, what a blessing you both are to your audience. As you rise in your ministry and gain more adoration and recognition. I pray you each remain humble, obedient and not lose sight of God and his word. I pray your marriage remain strong in spite of the enemy’s attacks that will come, I pray your children be blessed in all things, and grow in wisdom and love. Thank you for sharing the good news!

[@LadyRishae]

Evangelist is an office. The Five-Fold (Apostle, Prophet, Evangelist, Pastor, and Teacher) are all offices. You can also have a gift in relation to one or multiple of them and you can have the spirit of one or multiple of them.

[@almmason7]

I also made a comment on this. ❤

[@KiearraDScruggs]

Not being able to properly minister to my family is the hardest thing. Because majority of my family have not really read the Bible just they believe in God and pray but no real understanding of God's word. Then when I try to minister to them I tend to feel like a failure people outside of my family reach out thanking me for my faith because it inspired them my own flesh blood just makes excuses for my cousins to give me the cold shoulder "Oh, well they probably think you were going to judge them." I haven't said anything to one my cousins since 2014 when I gifted her book on purity for her 16th birthday and my grandma told my mom they said I was "Forcing my faith on them." I can't even tell a family member’s yes prayer is important but you need to read more than Jesus is calling books but the actual Bible without them getting mad and calling me judgmental out of context. Ministering to your family is the hardest thing especially ones that claim to be Christian already.

[@LadyRishae]

How y’all doing Saints and Aints ❤😊

[@ally-jn5fx]

Doing good how you doing ?

[@LadyKsKitchenT.V.]

Being an evangelist is a gift that is a part of the five fold ministry APOSTLE PROPHET EVANGELIST PASTOR/ SHEPHERD TEACHER 🙌🏽🙏🏽 I Kings 18:44 Ephesians 4:11 Thanks to you both for always being transparent in sharing the gospel of peace and truth.

[@thebravebird]

Preston you’re a great teacher! Glory to God ❤️ This is so affirming, truthful and loving. A child could get what you’ve said and begin applying. Your family is blessed to have you.

[@sharonbrownson1813]

Perry's, I pray your strength and endurance in the Lord God Almighty. You are a blessing to so many. Your ministry has personally blessed me. Amen. ❤

[@robinwade8141]

I will be purchasing Preston’s book. I have a cousin that told me recently that I planted a seed in him 30 yrs ago and he’s just now fully understanding what it is to follow Christ. At the time I wasn’t near the Christian I am today but that seed God used and brought him to Jesus. At the time he had all kinds of issues and today he has repented and I can truly see Christ working in his heart. So I will say this, being heartless to anyone’s situation isn’t Jesus. Although Jesus did tell ppl to go and sin no more, He was never hurtful to anyone other than the Pharisees (but we know why, they pretended to love God but inside their heart God wasn’t really there but there was pride and greed). I appreciate you both so much taking time out to do these videos, write spirit filled books and just standing for Christ in a world where ppl need Him most. I witness to a lot and ppl I know, but I too would love to witness to strangers. So hopefully Preston’s book will help me get there. May God continue to cover, protect and bless your family.

[@nondidumeko1]

I feel loved Why yall soo consistent

[@gloria2641]

You're a blessing to the Body of Christ! God has used you to make spiritual truth more palpable to me and easier to walk in (Col.1:9-10)! Peace and love from Burundi!

[@livingmyadventure.]

Thank you Preston! This is one area about being a Christian that intimidates me, your words give me so much encouragement and eases my heart. God bless your ministry!

[@Thomas-z2q]

I'm finishing this book up now and I love it! Being a Christian is one of the hardest things I've ever done! This book is helping me learn how to talk to people. I suck at communicating with people!

[@LorrieHerrera]

Thank you Jesus for this beautiful family, they speak truth, boldness, and through the love of Jesus!!

[@jamishacooper9344]

“I was a coward because I was overthinking!” My God today🙌🏾

[@ZoraNealesStudent]

Going to order it Preston. I admire you and Jackie for your faithfulness, your teachings, and dedication to the Word of God. Thank you. APTTMH 🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@firedogirl24]

Just pre-ordered the book! I appreciate your ministry both of you have impacted me and the young adults Bible study I work with! God bless you, Lord please protect this family for many generations to come. Let so many people be encouraged and strengthened to your commission in love through this book. In Jesus name amen 🙏

[@andreawinzer7892]

"It's about being ready". Amen!!!

[@rosar.o.3299]

Seed planting!!! 🔥 We will see the fruit in eternity. ❤❤❤

[@demetricefrench1687]

The youngsters, almost 40 & 35 😂. I praise God for you both, the truth you've been telling since I was introduced to you from the P4CM days. I'm 65 and appreciate your boldness to speak the truth/HIS truth in love and not be ashamed. HALLELUYAH & AMEN for the gifts, talents and promises upon your young lives ❤

[@chelsiajanise1202]

Such a dynamic couple. God is so purposeful. 🙌🏿

[@robinsims4481]

yes I am not equipped yet to talk to those who are lost. I've run from people who are not believers of Christ and absolutely do not know what to say to them as of now. Then I am on guard towards them, etc. This really helps. thank you both.

[@craignalmalindsay7446]

Love this. Breakthrough is happening right now. 💙🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥

[@jasmyncollins7294]

The testimony about your grandmother simplified it all. Can we express what our faith in Jesus Christ has done to us? 😭 I pray to be as authentic as your grandmother was in that moment 💞

[@ShamirYukno]

55:25 Preston, you are preaching!!!

[@B3TT3R_YOU]

Very insightful! And the truth can also be said with so much grace and truth but still not received, it is now where the Holy Spirit does His work in their hearts. Because even Jesus truth was rejected and He communicated with so much love and Grace. Well-done people❤. I learned a lot on this channel.

[@candybar2935]

I definitely plan on purchasing your book, I hope it's in Audible books. I needed your kind of book sooooo much!

[@markinson561]

“Don’t die a coward!” Amen… Lord, thank u for this.

[@christinajanner1500]

The gospel of Jesus is the Spirit of prophecy. Prophecy comes as a by product of speaking about Jesus, the whole message centers around Him as His Word does. God is Spirit so anyone who worships Him does so in spirit & in truth. Without the Holy Spirit, I wouldn’t know how to worship God & be a pleasing aroma. We need to allow the Holy Spirit access to our hearts in the moments where we “stand trial” before those who we give the gospel to. I remember asking God how I’ll be able to show my loved ones the truth of the gospel & His response was simple. How did I find His kingdom? I was loved in by receiving salvation through deliverance, key word being love. He said I can only love them into His kingdom & that’s when He started to deal with me on how to love others by understanding how I didn’t know how to love myself until I came to Christ. I love me through Christ so I can understand how to love them through Him too.

[@Melsmom]

The story about his grandma... My God! Tears. Thank you Preston and Jackie

[@BossButta]

This was right on time. I get choked up when I start to talk about the Goodness of God through Christ. I’m continuing to pray for boldness and for God to continue strengthening my belief that the Spirit that lives in me won’t forsake me. ❤

[@everykneeshallbowtoYah]

Amen! That first sermon was sermoning lol! When we are seeking the Kingdom and rightousness our outward appearance will glow with the glory of God!!

[@ShineYourLightAlwaysFTK]

This is so powerfulllllllll 🔥🙏🏽🔥 Everything doesn’t have to look the same when sharing the gospel with your family! So goood!! Loved what you said Preston, just go amongst them and live a life worthy of the gospel and be ready when they have questions 🙏🏽 My entire family with be saved and have a beautiful relationship with Jesus, in Jesus name!!!! ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

[@izmyster4815]

Thank you for this. You have made plain what the Lord has been speaking to me, I'm here to plant seeds. I'm here to be bold in obedience. I've been trying to understand how to be used based on how He's created me.

[@Jenna-oj1jd]

This conversation is so needed. Thank you guys for doing this video. I personally need to learn and listen. I've had a hard time with evangelizing outside the church. God bless you 🙏

[@AsandaChili.]

Jackie asks such good questions!!

[@sampajuda1]

Protect these two at all costs.

[@pencrew5220]

Another good Perry’s podcast. 🙌🏻 I stuck around for the whole thing. 😂 Honestly, great points for me to continue to work on. 😇 Also just realized the graphic on Jackie’s sweatshirt! That’s a throw back! Can’t believe that’s still around, as I remember gifting my hs buddy that as he went off to college. Guess the year. *Hint Jackie wasn’t born yet.

[@kimberlymoore5233]

The part about his grandmother going to her room and worshipping and praying then coming out anointing their heads broke me !!! 😭😭😭

[@life.re-defined]

this is one of my most favorite youtube channels. love you two, with the love of Christ.

[@arileilonii]

I could listen to this beautiful couple all day! I'm loving the longer videos!

[@ShimmeryNight]

Your gies podcast is reigniting a fire within me that is both bringing me closer to God and bringing forth a faith within me that cannot be contained. I love you both so much and pray that y'all continue in this journey of creating disciples, even though you may never get to meet all the souls you touched. Know that the Lord is working so faithfully through your faithfulness to Him. God Bless you both and may your family be blessed. Amen.

[@milettemillington]

God will use us in the way he has uniquely made us! Evangelism is not done in only one way. Amen! ♥️♥️❤️❤️🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽✝️✝️✝️ “It’s not about being the evangelist that you see, but it’s about being ready. God will use those who are ready.” -Preston Perry 💯💯💯💯💯 22:19 - 22:50 --- “You don’t have to be a scholar. You just have to know the key foundational essentials of the Gospel. …” - Preston Perry 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾👏🏽👏🏽💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️♥️♥️♥️♥️ “Boldness is about obedience more than it is about fearlessness to men.” Preston Perry 💯💯💯🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙏🏽🙏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

[@AndreaDT1981]

Preach!👏🏾🙌🏾💕 2:03

[@takeelahenry4394]

Come on ni! Yall be teaching 🙌🏾

[@tonifuqua3464]

God will use those who are READY!!!

[@maryericksonjussah8743]

John 17:17 Sanctify them through thy truth, thy word is truth. Knowing that truth is God's word makes it easier for me to go out and win souls to the Lord Jesus. This gets easy because Gods word(truth) is not void of power.. love you guys❤❤

[@astoldbymeek]

This was sooo gooodddd. Questions I didn’t even know I had were answered. Jackie the way you set those questions to and Preston your wisdom in the answers really blessed me. The lord has me in a space where he’s training me in the area of evangelism and discipleship and this really helped me.

[@jonboy9030]

What Jackie said about distinctions between gifts!!! That's so good

[@aliciahill2801]

This whole podcast was powerful for me, but especially the testimony about Preston’s grandmother. Wow! ❤

[@shaniquefergusonneath2081]

He that winneth souls is wise

[@kristinroberson1208]

This was my favorite episode so far!!! Such a beautiful message!!!!

[@purposedriventv]

I so needed this breakdown. Now, Jackie, can you both speak on how being an INTROVERT is ok but how to differentiate between being an introvert and just being shut off to people and building relationships within the body of Christ

[@kelleydenise7819]

Daaaang, yall wait till the END to tell me I gotta wait for this book?! I was about to run and buy it! 😂

[@princezsarfo1]

Gratitude is such an insufficient word to describe how I feel after watching this but it’s the only word I have. This is probably one of the most profound and powerful episodes so thank you is all I have to say. Thank you.

[@katrinamiles9675]

Dealing with spiritual things behind what's visible requires a lot more than what mosr church people even know. There is also a hierarchy and if one is unwise, one can be in a place where they don't have spiritual authority. We must be in the Word snd spirit-led.

[@maritzarivera91]

Thank you both for this conversation, and congratulations on the book, Preston. This was much needed and I thank God for His wisdom and Spirit throughout the podcast. May He continue to bless you both, your family, and ministries in Jesus name 🙏🏽❤️

[@kelligarcia312]

Wow, I just stumbled upon this. Very edifying! Thank you guys! God bless you

[@angies7154]

Brother let God used you for his glory.

[@deeh5933]

This episode blessed me 🙌 ❤ thank you!

[@themrs.hamptonshow1384]

Love this episode as always! By the way….Jackie you look AMAZING! Face card NEVER declines!

[@DMarrettTV]

58:27 C O N V I C T E D ! ! ! 😓 I had to go pray after that. That stirred something up in me for real. Thank you 🙏🏾

[@DzifaG]

The moment you tell somebody you’re a Christian-you’re an evangelist. The moment they start asking questions-you become an apologist. The moment they’re willing to follow you, you become a discipleship maker. Wow 🤯🙏🏾

[@barnicenix3582]

Thank you for sharing your story with us Preston 🙏🇰🇪

[@triciaclark4587]

Snap,Snap,Snap. Jackie...Girl, you preaching as always.

[@angies7154]

How about teach one another, to love who God created us to be ..made in his image…Amen

[@Miss_Dani_DWhit]

I look forward to purchasing and reading this book. I believe it will help me share God's word to people in my reach, both personal and impersonal. Thank you, Preston and Jackie, for always sharing God's word in a way that is reasonable to understand.

[@livmaritids4629]

I have learn so much by listening to you two .Thanh you so much .Shalom from Norway 💕🙏🇧🇻🔥

[@jtinhd]

Saints and aints 🎉

[@lifeofannbianca]

That’s like praise and worship ushering us to the sermon. Love when she puts a rhythm to it 😂🤣

[@ShirleyLaTour]

Grandma, YEEEESSSS! Hallelujah!