How to Minister to Women at Wells

The story of the woman at the well is a lesson from Jesus about how to do ministry. Jesus leads with His humanity and His neediness, is curious about the woman’s life, and exposes her sin to reveal her need for God. Jackie and Preston talk through common preconceived ideas about this story and how we - like the woman - can be set out on mission after simple yet impactful encounters with Christ.
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[@bboutthafather]

When a wrong number was the right number!! Thats taking advantage of every opportunity to do good! Thank U Jesus!

[@jriley810]

Amen! Amen!! ❤

[@4WallsDesigns]

Love this! That’s good…

[@Mizz_Vee]

🙌🏾

[@duwandalynruffin328]

She hearted the text , I love that . I felt she received the message . This message could’ve changed the way she sees herself

[@tinicoleofficial]

Bingo!👏🏾🙏🏾

[@burstinggodnews]

“You were thirsty!” 🙌🏾👏🏾😭😂😂. I adore y’all so much!! 🙌🏾👏🏾

[@ashleyhill4777]

omg, I am in here hollering!!! it's such a breath of fresh air to listen to them, letting me know that I am just..human

[@andrewkimani5471]

"Leading in initiative and yet leading in vulnerability!" GOD bless you all BIGGEST!

[@nikkiyoung7249]

No one: Me at work: PREACH JACKIE 🗣️

[@Nadiahope7]

I'm literally the woman at the well. I had multiple partners and Jesus came for me unmarried. He showed me how what I thought was fulfilling me left me emptier. I met Jesus in a huge way in lock down and I can't deny he is God!!! I will not serve another God but that one. Now I proclaim him to anyone that will hear.

[@TheCoastofMagdala]

God is good!

[@jodianneloveless3297]

Jj

[@OluwatobilobaWonders]

Hallelujah!!! Cheers to you for drinking from the living water and proclaiming the good news.

[@heather7119]

My story too! Isn’t God good?! It’s like I was a broken leaking vessel that He has me in the potters house shaping and molding me. He has sealed the leak completely and continues to work on my heart and character. The battle is not to lose that fire by complacency.

[@Nadiahope7]

@@heather7119 Amen my sister.

[@ajwriter5699]

“He begins with His humanity, not His divinity.” WOW!!

[@katherinegreen4712]

Out of all the people she could’ve sent that to… she sent that to the perfect person!

[@marthangafor6414]

God is so merciful! I hope that seed grows.

[@roseom2878]

I am literally getting baptized, sanctified, edified and anointed with an oil of laughter everytime I watch you guys😂😂😂❤❤

[@mmkriley]

He loved her ..while she was yet a sinner.. That’s a first thought of mine. That love blew my mind when I got saved!

[@joyruiz9663]

I’m in tears…sitting with the thought that I KNOW GOD, and he knows me. Powerful

[@daphnelewis18]

Beautiful isn’t it ❤

[@jhaslett03]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@prayingmomma29]

Powerful 😭

[@melliemel32]

AMEN!

[@sejabosigo6100]

"I'm gonna like, give her the Lord real quick" ...reminds me what my pastor said, when pain and anger gets misdirected and comes to you, let it find the Lord in you. Don't respond with what you received, respond with what's in you.

[@4WallsDesigns]

Yeeess…

[@papichuuloo4238]

This is 🔥

[@hannien.9547]

WOW THIS IS 🔥 I’m taking this saying your pastor said because it’s GOLD

[@RAnn774]

Sometimes there's another word in the comments. Thanks for this. ❤

[@OluwatobilobaWonders]

So powerful.

[@ZaniyyahEBlue]

Let me tell yall…I’m so grateful that yall gave that 30 minutes back to God lol this is SO GOOD man

[@mostlyhumn]

preston: “when people ask me stuff on the spot -- i literally go blank -- i don’t know what you’re saying” 😭 same preston, same.

[@latanyayarbrough5362]

It's sweet how Preston flirts with his wife. 😊

[@laurac5021]

This is my favorite podcast so far. I have always had so much guilt with this passage. I love Jesus showed his humanity to be relatable FIRST. Then he began revealing himself. We serve a good, loving God who sees us and loves us where we are. ❤

[@vineandbranchstudio]

Your response to that young lady made me cry 😭 that was love

[@oonlg8959]

frrr😢😢🥹if I was that woman I know I would've cried hard. That's Jesus' love right here!

[@markstevens7838]

Hey I really appreciate you guys. Your authenticity speaks volumes. It’s nice to see real Christians that struggle with things, instead of plastic TV Christians.🙏

[@chasitykm]

Hey Jackie and Preston. The word you’re looking for is Kenosis. Im learning a lot from you guys. I thank God for you guys submission and obedience. I sound smart huh😂. Naw. Love you brother and sister in Christ. 💪🏽🙏🏽

[@LorrieHerrera]

Live in Texas, and you are spot on regarding "everyone" knows of Jesus but sadly not "everyone" truly knows Jesus. I'm learning this as I seek to draw closer to GOD. Can't wait to see you June 3rd @ With the Perrys Podcast tour:). Stay safe, prayed up and much blessings!!!!!!!

[@curlsindaclouds]

The way she did a little blush smile when he noticed her and said “got your lil makeup on” y’all are so sweet ❤😊

[@Seyi-f4c]

"Share what you know today" Thank you, beautiful

[@latricescott9733]

Remember yall our Brother Preston told us that he was hungry before the podcast started. My hubby is the same way, feed him first and you get what you want out of him. Low Blood sugar will cause him to go blank, in his thoughts. This episode was beneficial to me. I love how yall keep it simple. The GOOD NEWS aint that complicated.

[@WilliamsPinch]

The way Preston will let Jackie torch him for the sake of the God’s glory 😂

[@xchorro]

frrr jackie should lay back cuz imagine if he grilled her for her past!!

[@ajajadama2451]

Lmboo😂😂 only for the glory

[@CandyCoated96]

🤣😆...they have a friendship. I like that.

[@ajajadama2451]

​@CandyCoated96 they really do! I pray to have the same thing one day🙏🏿❤

[@itsbecauseofjesus]

😂😂😂

[@TennilleBurton]

Mind blown…. Conversion is when God, Jesus reveals Himself to us! I’ve NEVER heard the gospel of salvation taught in such a simple yet powerful way. Seeking the heart of Jesus, The Lord is it.

[@__SeighDee]

Grateful for your ministry. This South African loves you both!

[@FunmiO.]

I don't comment ever and this would be the first. It was important to share the revelation that "at the end of your rope (your weakness), there you find God". The strength of God is made perfect in our weakness - 2 Corinthians 12:8-10.

[@jennawright6585]

I heard once that in every marriage there is an impressed spouse and an unimpressed spouse. You can totally tell which one is which in their relationship and I love it 😂😂❤❤. I'm always blessed by the message they bring ❤

[@nudayRebel]

This was beautiful a few weeks ago I wrote a poem called the Well Woman about God speaking to the woman at the well And calling her to her true identity. Thank you so much for this

[@DSquad1883]

I would love to read that poem

[@EssRelaxingSpace]

"Push people to Jesus, and then they will believe because they saw Him. That's the whole point of Ministering". Thank you for sharing Ministers, the world is much more blessed because you are in it. May your anointing continue to be refreshed daily through Christ. Cheers.

[@kimberlyrose0671]

I love seeing ministers stirred up by the Word and not getting complacent or lofty in knowledge. They may be young, but they are very mature saints and ministers. Jackie got that leg shakin and hands movin...she was feeling what she was saying, and so AM I!😂❤😊

[@CassidyGrace410]

Preston said, "aaaayyyeee, man!" Like how am I catching strays from this scripture? How did I get into this. 😂😂😂😂

[@lammidloved]

Can I get an AMEN 😂😂😂

[@sianali2772]

This women at the Well story and interaction with Christ, speaks to me so much!

[@leahbrooks1270]

Yall just might be my very favorite Christian married couple. Holy can still be FUN , definitely the most relatable for my husband and i

[@chelseadraws4204]

I really love and lift this couple up God keep using and blessing them in Jesus name ❤

[@mramirez5239]

Yes we need to keep them in prayer.

[@PriscillaSpeaks]

In Jesus name

[@melanatedmagicasmr]

I highly appreciate Jackie's passion. I was getting excited in my room and passionately listen. I gotta run this back to make sure I didn't miss anything. I'm not in ministry but I have been becoming close with my coworker who is now my friend (who is christian) and we often have impromptu Bible studies at work because she doesn't read her Bible, but she knows that I do and I am able to enlighten and teacher about God and the Bible. I would one day like to host a Bible study but just don't know how. Yall are so dang helpful you just don't know.

[@honestlilly8153]

“Curiosity is a form of hospitality”. I really love that.

[@seekhim9337]

Vulnerability is required. It's painful but offer it up and my my my will He have you singing praises. 🙌

[@JGWeis-v1l]

You are NOT the only one who gets excited when we read that! I also get excited that he chose HER to go reveal the Messiah has come, not one of his disciples! It always kind of gets me that we have gotten our impression of Jesus so wrong for so long,when it's revealed pretty clearly in the Bible. He is pure love, restorer of dignity, and would not be a good politician! lol!

[@LGND105]

This podcast is such a blessing. You both break things down in a way that is so relatable and I appreciate that.

[@A.D-e7n]

Humility is truly one of the greatest gifts. Through our humanity we our able to teach and reach Gods people Hallelujah praise jesus

[@averyburton1675]

WOW,WOW! The LORD came through in this teaching. The Word was broken down so crystal clear. This was so needed . May the Lord continue to cover your ministry and family. Blessings! WOW

[@edwardbermudez8716]

Watching from Colombia, blessings!! 🙌🏼❤️‍🔥🇨🇴

[@AntoniaOkafor]

Jackie, could you please, please write a bible study based on your teachings on Hagar and the woman at the well? I am a sexual abuse survivor, and I have been wanting to go through a bible study that teaches us how God restores our lives after abuse, promiscuity, etc. I think it would be a study of restoration. Please pray on it. We need it.

[@heymisswest]

I agree I need it

[@lisacobb2311]

You write it ❤

[@mlmj1994]

Hi. In the meantime the YouVersion app has a few Bible study plans on this: Born to Bloom (Heal from Sexual Abuse) and Grace Abounds (Hope and Healing from Sexual Abuse)

[@sanc_livia]

Hey, she already has a sermon on KZbin talking about Hagar. Just search it up🤗

[@Iamkandese]

I also would be interested in this

[@GivingMyTwoCents]

3:27 I ain’t weary trick! 🤦🏾‍♀️😂😂😂😂😂 JACKIE!!!!!

[@amysaren6374]

you all make me love Jesus soooo much more!!!

[@HeavenlyPurposed1]

I miss the saints and aints intro. Thank you for this on time word

[@HeavenlyPurposed1]

it put a new name to ev-ailen-gelicals ok i will see myself out...

[@herfamiller139]

Thank you Jackie & Preston for dissecting and breaking down the scriptures the way you do so that everyone can understand it. We so NEED teachers like you in today's society. God bless you.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

[@cynthiagilliam8142]

The holy spirit leads and guides I feel like it went where it needed to go. You gave the message that was needed. I thank God for you🙏🏽🎂

[@chervelleweatherley9421]

Great teaching!!!! Very insightful and inspiring. The love of Jesus is beyond amazing!

[@JJM-GodIsUpToSomething]

What am amazing response. God wanted that to happen so you could minister to her....Thank you 🎉

[@wkmacs4738]

This reminds me of EV Hill's sermon, "GOD at His Best." God, the Creator, condescends and hears the cry of each and every one of His creatures. He steps down and answers our cries. He loves to reveal Himself to us. He never ignores a heart that genuinely seeks Him. Hallelujah! 👍🏾

[@TeAireGriffin]

this wasssss soooooo gooooooood to me! Thank you for this episode. I recently picked John up again for the seven leventh time and I got stuck on chapter 4. Jackie, you literally answered every question looming about the strange responses of Jesus. I couldn't understand how it fit together until this moment. IT WAS ALL TO REVEAL HIMSELF. The part resonating with me the most is you've had 5 husbands...not to necessarily state that for shame but through and through to reveal I am the Christ, I see you and I know everything. I am not simply a Jewish man, I am so much more; I am HE! Im praying to see Jesus and his nature this clearly in every book I read. to learn to sit with the text and zoom in from 66 books to one verse in one chapter and to understand what God is saying/revealing...I cant wait to do ministry differently....I hunger for this level of revelation that I may know Him. Thank you. Do you have any videos on how to study the scriptures and to interpret as God gave inspiration to write them?

[@DrKenyaShanell]

This is sooo good "prioritize the Sabbath"

[@jillianrawson5248]

My favorite story in the Bible and now my love for Jesus and this text has expanded. Thank you guys!!!

[@cassidyraebarrera]

I love this episode, it's like a fun bible study 📖

[@daytan21]

I can listen to the Women at the Well so many times and it brings light to my faith each time. Thank you Ms Jackie ❤

[@alw5872]

I’ve just now stepped into leadership at my church and these are helping me sooooo much in being prepared and understanding ministry. Thank you both so much!!!

[@kathleenbotchey]

19:40 Deus Absconditus… The Hidden God. I heard this term just last week and you have helped flesh it out for me. This podcast always makes me feel like I’m right there on the couch too! Takes me twice as long to get through because I need to keep pausing to add in my 2 cents 😅

[@michellehernandez963]

Watching from LA, so thankful for both of you!! You guys are so needed in this culture we are living in! Thank you for your obedience to your gifts and calling ❤️🤟🏽

[@dawndavis9491]

Thank you for giving that person JESUS!🎉👏🏼💕🙏🏼🎉👏🏼💕🙏🏼

[@ThatsBriDavis]

The way I wanted to throw my shoe at my phone multiple times during this episode. My God! Thank you for this teaching. Thank you for confirming that we can start spreading the Good News right where we are in our faith-walk with Him. SO good!

[@tracieethomas6535]

Y'all got lots of Jesus in Portland❤❤❤ Bring one of those live pods here and we're gonna show up and show out. Love you🥰🥰

[@chrispipkins6543]

This was some good spiritual food. Keep allowing the Holy Spirit to speak to and through you both. What a blessing 😮🙌🏾💙

[@AJ-hg5np]

..."Teaching in the name of Jesus and not like him"...that is a whole word🙌🏾🔥

[@ashleyclardy9857]

Listening from Portland and she's not lying 😆 love y'all

[@danieblack1266]

Wow God myself met me at my darkest time and I now am getting to know him. Glory be

[@Eowyn4724]

Oh my! Seeing people for who they are...and stop being superficial in our ministry. I'm loving this y'all! Amen!

[@mytreasuredcreations]

Jesus was connecting to her through his humanity, his weak side. That's how i need to connect with people through their struggle and mine and then look to Jesus to deliver us from it.

[@venetiakelley]

“Good job Jackie!” I agree…👏🏽

[@Amy-yi3sd]

And THATS how you handle a wrong text. That was 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@TiffanyFG]

Y’all are truly anointed! Bring tears to my eyes with the revelation. Thank you for being vessels. Truly. ❤

[@LeadingLady1.]

That's encouraging to have weaknesses, love Jesus and show people out weaknesses as we are being worked on in the Holy Spirit ❤

[@desertbloomke]

You talking about the Word becoming flesh reminded me of something i read last week from 'The screwtape letters' book... 'The present is where we can most access God's grace and mercy and eternity.' (not the exact words). It made me remember the instances where Eternity really did meet people in time, the woman at the well and the transfiguration! And it also made me see that every time God answers me and i am in the act of worshiping him, learning about him or hearing from him, THAT is also eternity and the Word of God meeting me. Amazing!😃

[@oonlg8959]

This podcast is God-sent. Jesus is good. God bless y'all❤❤❤

[@tendaiabena]

you two are so funny.... and also sooo good. Jackie you broke this down and I see the story of the woman at the Well from a more layered and multifacted dynamic and light now. GLORY!

[@samanthia2336]

I'm so happy that you touched Sabbath rest.

[@nikkivinluan818]

His power is made perfect in weakness. Our humanity points to the fact that we are limited and God is Holy. He is transcendent. God used Jackie to teach me and lead me to that.

[@thatssocrie]

Jesus was always drawing me!!!

[@laurabutler7498]

Praying for blessings, protection for this Godly family and ministry 💗 Grateful for y'all!

[@smcclell]

As someone who’s from Portland I can certify that what y’all said is 100% accurate. 😂

[@towelakabibwa5925]

This must be the very best podcast I’ve ever heard! Not just on your platform but in general! May His name be praised 🙌🏾

[@elijahhawkins521]

39:35 I heard one wise man preach it in this way: he informed us hearers that he has made the observation that the woman at the well has had 5 husbands and the man she is now with is not her husband making him the 6th but now here at the well she meets the 7th Man, the Anointed One from God, Who will be the perfect husband to her (not in a literal physical sense but making her a believer and apart of His bride the church for He would go on to give Himself for her and the sin of the world as He goes to the cross) so the teacher was using the number 7 to show how perfect Jesus is and in the same breath he also made us aware of his observation about how Jesus ministered to her in what he called a love sandwich: bottom bun = what you have said is correct in that you have no husband, here Jesus acknowledges that she is telling the truth, in a way giving her props for at least being honest and not trying to hide her status, meat = Jesus gives her a loving rebuke saying that you worship what you do not know, and that they worship what they do know for salvation is if the Jews, and here Jesus is putting to bed the argument of the Samaritans saying they are right about what mountain to worship on, this can be perceived as a statement that would humble her and immediately afterwards he goes on to tell her what the Father desires and requires. Top bun = He reveals to her that He is the Messiah Ik she didn’t ask me how have I heard that passage of scripture preached but it was sound so I decided to share.

[@edvidenceofthings]

Thanks you for specifying Jim jones of dip set from the cultist Jim jones. May God be with you and your family.

[@FeliciaDIsrael]

APTTMHG Great job Prophets of the Most High God ❤

[@anngatwood5589]

Realistic to the way God made us, human, as to dependence on God. I need God in the working of my humanity, which is a gift to me. Power in jars of clay!

[@kate7484]

Jackie I really appreciate y’all teaching and so thankful I have connections to your Ministry, I attend church regularly and participate in community service but when I’m in y’all presence I feel the love, passion and presence of God all over me, please don’t sharing and caring about us, we love y’all and will continue to pray for this Ministry because we Need your teachings in our lives, God Bless Y’all 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾❤️❤️❤️❤️💐🤗🤗

[@jamesmoore516]

Good day, how are you both? I pray this finds you in the best way possible, and all is well! I just needed to say amazing. I think you guys are in so many ways. Your union, your relationship, your friendship, your mission, your salvation, your hearts, your diligence, your dedication, your transparency. I you get! And I'm glad I had a chance to express this to you. You guys are part of my lineup, my go-to guys. Bishop Noel Jones, Dr. Dharius Daniels, The Perry's, Jerry Flowers, Pastor Anthony Powell KMM, Voddie Baucham, just to name a few. But I wanted you guys to know how this pod cast is truly a blessing. I feel engaged and enlighten! So thank you, if you guys didn't say yes to God, he always have a ram in the bush. By we would be deprived of two young heavyweights for Christ. I didn't want to say all of this, I just wanted you guys to know how you are appreciated! And to say thank you, so, thank you!

[@kelseyklima1653]

Ooooooooh eeeeeeeeh!! This was so powerful. Thank you for your time and ministry.

[@euge.sosa.b]

I'm liking these Hour with the Perrys

[@unshakableloveovereverything]

Thank y'all so much for your ministry! I just want to say, if we could all see eachother as born into sin so that the glory of God can be revealed in us. As we see others this way, practicing true humility, knowing we are no better, we will actually stop judging, stop thinking evil, forgive one another's humanity, and just love eachother, waiting expectantly for God’s glory to be revealed in them and us.

[@becominghealthy4711]

Yesss Jackie! I’m new to Texas and I’m noticing this big time!

[@che6895]

Myyyy it haven’t even started all the way yet and y’all spittin 🔥!!! Thank you Jesus!!! 🙏🏽

[@mramirez5239]

Get it all digested!

[@twaambokapilikisha5266]

' why do I have to be all the B's ' LOL . Amazing revelation on this message! Whew!!

[@annettecriswell6669]

Thank you for breaking down this scripture and allow us to see Jesus in his Glory pouring into the woman at the well. He didn't condemn but loved her

[@thatssocrie]

He is building a story of the journey of our conversion!

[@lovelife8968]

Amen to that text in the beginning.... Yall!! Women at the well. I love it!

[@ronesiawilliams2966]

My second time listening and mannnn its soo good!! Heard different things from the HS in the scripture and video than the first time!

[@nursed.porchae990]

Lead with your humility. I needed this word. Thank you two for dissecting this word so well 🙏🏽

[@roselynglover8927]

Jackie, you are phenomenal. Preston still developing Deliverance..

[@roselynglover8927]

Jackie I love how you and Preston complement each other.

[@roselynglover8927]

Befuddled..Yes . Befuddled..

[@roselynglover8927]

Mixed ethnicity.

[@roselynglover8927]

False conversion. Everybody says that they are a christian, based on what they believe a christian to be not what the scripture says.

[@roselynglover8927]

Jesus did not pacify the woman.