Woman Brutally Strangled, Murdered by Ex Minutes After Cops Left: Family

[@LawAndCrime]

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[@ManuelGarcia-sd6yb]

N my

[@Annaberry425]

Never go back to a ex no matter what , it’s a ex for. a reason

[@KatharinaK117]

Amen!

[@HKim0072]

I hooked up with 3 of my ex’s after we broke up. Avoiding violent people in general might be better advice.

[@artetface]

‼️‼️‼️

[@Shanniacaesar17]

Depends on how the relationship was .. am married to my ex now n we are healthier than ever

[@subst4nce973]

​@HKim0072 You've obviously got issues lol

[@lamino8-tg6ro]

Why pick up a guy who you have restraining order against? Please ladies dont go back to these men

[@stephanielong2674]

Excatly.. that's what I said. She new he had abused her before an yet went to pick him up from a bar at that. I have been a victim of dv before amd never eoudl go get my ex once I finally got them gone.

[@stardustboy94]

He beat her & threw her from a balcony, only for her to pick him up after he got beaten up for harrasing a woman in a bar ? She should’ve laughed at him, tell him to call an ambulance/ taxi & hung up the call.Huge mistake from her.

[@cJ-zr2uq]

Some women are gullible. Stop letting these men own you.

[@kelbosskii9769]

Stop the victim blaming

[@Venus-gn5oi]

@@kelbosskii9769 I'm sorry but not everything is victim blaming. It's a common sense actually especially in this case. She already left, had a restraining order against him and still decided to go to pick him up.

[@VeeAmericanEagle]

DO NOT IGNORE THE WARNING SIGNS!!

[@StonedBarbiee]

She knew the warning signs she had a restraining order against him yet went and picked him up. It’s her own fault she’s dead. Why bother going to court wasting the courts time only to go pick up the person you asked the law to protect you from

[@AdrianaCowick]

@@StonedBarbiee It’s clear that you’re 100% ignorant to trauma bonds and being a human being with a heart. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@skycloud4802]

It seems clear to me that the most dangerous people are the ones close to you.

[@DarthKater311]

Men

[@Biscuit9891]

@@DarthKater311 no

[@xer0058]

She prolly danger his feelings😂 even men don't behave how yall copy bois

[@surpriseimblack]

Yupp

[@patsymc6717]

@@DarthKater311 ALL

[@TaureanTruth]

his mugshot said 👁️ 👁️

[@VeeAmericanEagle]

😂😂

[@mobius-1503]

😂 wtf man

[@youngipman23]

⚰️

[@ghettogreenbeann]

One eye west, one eye east

[@littlehorus2327]

You’re not wrong I was thinking about how cockeyed he is lol

[@deescott8312]

Leave these men at the first sign of control and abuse

[@arnelabih1845]

Ameen!

[@Ink_Addict93]

Because he “loved her too much” was the defense ??? I swear, when these defenses attorneys have nothing they will pull ANYTHING out of thin air regardless of how ridiculous it is. At this point you mind as well just say “your honor, my client couldn’t have possibly done this because he didn’t do it” then rest your case.

[@xxtoxicgodxxthelegand5909]

Just look at Alex murdaugh lol. His defense was the same thing 😂

[@M0M0NTHECASE]

"He didn't do it because he didn't do it" is the most insane defense ever😂😂😂

[@mookiess]

it's painful to hear the defense at times because it's clear that they too know they have no case to go off on. I mean how are you supposed to defend this and be fair when the crime is so in-the-face? I don't know how but they're able to conjure up the most wild reasons, all the while keeping a straight face. It's impressive.

[@kgs2280]

That’s because he’s so bad they have absolutely nothing else.

[@tinamaganda9821]

They wanted him to get locked up

[@hannahkushan175]

Security guard saw her screaming for help, he calls the police, and police didn’t do more bcz the ex didn’t open the door? Police failed this woman

[@InspireFreedomForever]

Thank you! I commented the same! I am flabbergasted that nobody else is mentioning this! It seems there's a lot of victim blaming here in the comments.

[@mariamejiacontreras8688]

I’m baffled and can’t believe they just Left 🤦🏻‍♀️

[@cre8v_power]

Well, realistically ...it is her fault for picking him up. However, this does not mean it was her fault for being killed. I don't wish this on anyone. The police and this guy screwed her over. This is sad smh ​@InspireFreedomForever

[@rocioarrieta8521]

Police can’t come in without a warrant. If they did there still would be a lawsuit for them doing that. She picked up that SOB and paid the horrible consequences.

[@musingsofharmony3159]

I really like Jesse. He's so genuine and takes the time to express his thoughts to the victims' family.

[@christinalomeli7024]

That guy looks completely vacant and equally unhinged 😮

[@JamesSylne]

Exactly, she don't need to pass no law to know this man wasn't right in the head, lol.

[@christinalomeli7024]

@@JamesSylne 100% agreed

[@dukz-gw1gg]

At this point yall probably think that about all men

[@stardustboy94]

@@dukz-gw1ggYes.. then get pregnant by them & blame the whole gender for their poor choices !

[@starlingswallow]

You don't BEAT and KILL a persons you "love so much". What a joke.

[@StonedBarbiee]

You also don’t go pick up someone whose beaten you and you’ve gone to court to get a protection order against. This is 💯 her own fault

[@Chiccynuggs10]

⁠@@StonedBarbieeVictim blaming is a vile trait and I hope you get the help you need. Have the day you deserve.

[@carlbiesele1457]

That’s what OJ did.

[@Sahraa-hy3uc]

@@StonedBarbieeI couldn’t agree more

[@dukengare5354]

Some decisions are hard to comprehend!! How do you go to pick someone who you got a restraining order against? Come on!!!

[@louniece1650]

Uncomfortable truth.

[@MovingAlong742]

That's a hard hard truth for many.... but it IS the truth. He didn't come to her.... she went to him.

[@StonedBarbiee]

She wasted the courts time tax payers money and her own time as well. It’s her own fault. Hard to feel bad for anyone that does this 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@luzdyrodriguezable]

Unfortunately this is common among domestic violence victims, it’s a trauma response. Similar to drug addicts and their relapses.

[@denisemezynski8014]

And then have nerve to Blame the po-po ......?!!

[@ashleymcclarren3951]

His eyes looking crazy

[@emoliver80]

Beautiful family. My heart hurts for her mother and sister.

[@AKASHROY-i9f]

very sad watching from India

[@Fat12219]

💔 😢

[@mopes2713]

Thanks so much for posting this story, i was just randomly thinking about this case last night! What a crazy coincidence that this was just posted!

[@bettinnafitbettinnadance6839]

Very tragic…Us Women need to keep choosing the “Bear” they are still safer…

[@mikaylaraehorning]

That is honestly such a great idea for a law that needs to be passed nationwide

[@-MattMcCauley-]

Criminal convictions are already public information, genius. Read her petition, unlike what she said to Jesse about arrests the petition says CONVICTIONS, so it already IS a law under basic existing public information statutes. What's more, the victim KNEW this guy was violent because he had already previously assaulted her, but she CHOSE to go over to his house again. This wonderful proposed new law you foolishly laud would have made ZERO difference.

[@surpriseimblack]

​@@-MattMcCauley- Yeah she wants arrests to be entered into a database. That's not constitutional. The law makes no sense....

[@elainesrottenbottom296]

​@@-MattMcCauley- Yea you beat me to it. Wrongful arrests would be on your record? Seems like a great idea, until YOU are the one who has been wrongfully arrested. I feel bad for this family. But just because someone dies doesn't mean that we need a new law.

[@-MattMcCauley-]

@@elainesrottenbottom296 Exactly and that is particularly true with DV. During divorces, for example, specious accusations are alleged frequently to gain advantage in child custody disputes or property division. The law the sister is advocating would not even have saved this poor woman, she violated her OWN DV order to come to the man she knew as abusive!

[@lilianaamaldonado]

@@-MattMcCauley-you didn’t watch the full video to listen to the fact that this man sealed his criminal record. Which means some information would not be public knowledge.

[@sherrihurst3142]

If you have a restraining order do not cave and see them! You'll more than likely regret it like this young lady...

[@JmasterPullmizter]

I don’t know of ANYONE that could kill someone cause they love them so much…..😑

[@Skitdora2010]

Cannibals have said they loved victims so much they ate them to become one with their victims.

[@ReginaPhalangee]

​@@Skitdora2010 Love and obsession are NOT the same thing

[@sigmasiren7]

​@@ReginaPhalangee exactly.

[@natenate88]

Exactly why the defense attorney said he definitely couldn't have killed her 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@surpriseimblack]

You must not watch true crime...

[@sofiaflor1459]

I feel like this could've been me.. i just got out. But he had the exact same pattern, hair pulling, choking, breaking phone... i'm so grateful to be alive.

[@SandieBee13]

Grateful you’re a survivor too babe 🙏🏽

[@vanessamontes1463]

She was a beautiful human being , genuinely was

[@KCbostons]

Thank you for sharing this story. I am so sorry about what happened to this beautiful woman and keeping the family members in my prayers. A domestic violence incident report being publicly known would be a game changer. I will sign the petition.

[@SandieBee13]

Thank you 🙏🏽💜

[@xxdanix6213]

As someone with a domestic abuser for a father, signed!!

[@typhillips490]

Jesse your amazing with your compassion and understanding 🙏🏿.

[@shannnonbinford7969]

I'm so sorry to the family for the loss of a beautiful and kind person. I signed to help get this law passed. This needs to be a nationwide law!

[@SandieBee13]

Thank you 🙏🏽

[@eh597]

Wow that is a smart idea. We definitely need a national domestic violence database.

[@llamamama2910]

At this point men need to prove they aren’t jealous crazy murderers and abusers

[@beatricehart5614]

His mugshot is very unsettling

[@raeraebadfingers]

I think, for me at least, it's that I can't tell which way he is actually looking.

[@swiftlyjer-pdf]

i GASPED. not this. not this at ALL. that poor girl. i can’t imagine what her family must be feeling.

[@vanessamontes1463]

Alot of pain n sadness 😞😞😞

[@reecebiscuits420]

Never gasped at anything calm down

[@hallec4618]

@@reecebiscuits420you sound like an incel.

[@sew_gal7340]

@@reecebiscuits420 I felt a shriek ball up in my throat when i saw him and i had to lay down ...so yes gasping is possible

[@anthonyhayes930]

Why would you pick this guy up? If you break up with someone that's violent don't go back. It's why you left in the first place

[@CJR-bs7eu]

DAMN she really went to pick him up after he beat her? SMH I will NEVER get it!!!!!

[@ashleyduckworthyt3224]

Look up battered woman syndrome

[@Fat12219]

She pretty 🎉

[@workingonmyroar7944]

This one is tough she already had a restraining order all she had to do was call 911 after he called her repeatedly and he would have been arrested Victim blaming sure but she has a role in her own demise

[@DarthKater311]

And here we go again. Unstable men

[@dorozco8866]

No just him being unstable and psychotic probably

[@meelahmak]

And they are always in a new relationship!

[@srccde]

No, _an_ unstable man. They exist, just like unstable women exist.

[@amateur_ckaiyion5999]

​@@dorozco8866you know more men DO kill women than women kill men, it's a fact. So yeah, unstable men again.

[@StonedBarbiee]

She was equally as unstable. She picked up her abuser. She asked the law to protect her and wasted everyone’s time.

[@danacapodarco1363]

I’m sorry for your family’s loss.

[@coldcaseblogger220]

Plot twist… she did light up the room for the people who loved her and cherished her.. 🥴

[@lorraineyanez4301]

Day after day, I hear all these tragic cases of women being killed. It needs to stop.

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

they need to arm themselves and learn to defend themselves

[@classyjuanito]

Why would you go and picked this guy up already having a restraining order on him? I mean, come on! Decisions....

[@foxytran6326]

Why couldn't he just get an uber? 😑

[@srccde]

@@foxytran6326 Because he wanted to do this to her? Are you seriously asking that?

[@amateur_ckaiyion5999]

Still no reason to be MURDERED

[@MovingAlong742]

@@amateur_ckaiyion5999 No. She didn't do anything to deserve what happened to her. But it was HER responsibility to protect her own life. She knew what he could and would do to her. He did not come to her, break into her home. She went to him. Willingly. Cops are not to blame for this. Sometimes you just can't save some people from their own bad decisions.

[@swallowedinthesea11]

@@foxytran6326 Avoid dating men who look like villains from Deus Ex: Mankind Divided!

[@vfrias4039]

Wow, the law that she is trying to pass is an absolutely amazing recommendation, I pray and hope it gets passed.

[@starlingswallow]

😳 dudes eyeballs face different directions.

[@priscillapie]

The system failed her ??? But she had a restraining order in place why did she still pick him up ? How is that the systems fault ?

[@gj5990]

He should have been in jail for previous violence

[@obdanny2000]

​@gj5990 He has an upcoming trial for what he did to her in the past , he was out on bond and she went to give him a ride. She failed herself and it's sad, but it's true.

[@barbmurraybabss]

Wouldn't that be a motive? He loved her too much

[@surpriseimblack]

Yuppp. Obsession and infatuation... 💀🌹

[@MovingAlong742]

That's not love. Obsession as the other comment suggests. That poor girl is dead because she confused love with lovebombing, probably him pleading that he loves her, needs her blah blah blah. Please don't make the same mistake. Learn the red flags before it happens to you; learn what healthy normal human relationships are supposed to feel like.

[@Confessions089]

​@MovingAlong742 lovebombing is manipulative. Meaning that it was premeditated. Let it sink in because I know you want to be right, but you're not.

[@MovingAlong742]

@@Confessions089 I gave you fare warning. Take the advice, or ignore it at your own risk. You made your choice. Have a great day.

[@surpriseimblack]

@@MovingAlong742 Wait? What's about to happen to Whitney...?? 👀

[@sarahgomez6740]

Really this idea that he loved her so much, so much he'd kill her rather than letting her go on with her life. Obsessed, narcissistic, evil, cowardly man. If he couldn't have her nobody would have her.

[@kateyoung7929]

Especially because it seems he had a current gf at the time.

[@stewartvolk5156]

That is an extremely poor excuse

[@stewartvolk5156]

“If he couldn’t have her nobody would have her” is an extremely poor excuse. I have heard that same damned line so Goddamned many times before.

[@sarahgomez6740]

@@stewartvolk5156 it's a terrible excuse but some ppl think like that, men & women.

[@Amylynnklh900]

Who’d go out with a creep like that

[@alyssa5669]

Thats what I was thinking.

[@tentrickspony8925]

Almost always, your biggest threat is someone you know😢 not the stranger everyone is warned against

[@cynthiaconnors183]

I like her plans to do the new law. In one of our provinces up here in canada, we have that very thing. It needs to be country wide.

[@-MattMcCauley-]

Of course, Canada is an authoritarian Socialist country in which citizens lack any meaningful rights--no freedom of speech or religion, no right to self-defense, to assemble--you are as bad as the Eastern Block back in the USSR days. Criminal convictions are already public information in all US states, in virtually all US states arrest records are as well, though some purge them after certain numbers of years, similar to how old i formation drops off credit reports. This girl KNEW he was an abuser because he had seriously assaulted her previously and was subject to a restraining order for it. SHE CHOSE to violate her own order and go to him. This proposed new law would have in no way prevented this murder, it is just silly to pretend one has anything to do with the other.

[@lwyrbae]

Where people who have not been convicted of a crime are required to register? Bc that is what she just asked for.

[@PeterBornAgain]

“You shall not murder. ~ Exodus 20:13

[@Calinotch06]

Why didn't the police beat down the door with a SECURITY GUARD calling in kidnapping?

[@obdanny2000]

Why did she go back to give a ride to someone she put a restraining order on and has an upcoming criminal trial against? That's the question you should be asking.

[@Calinotch06]

@@obdanny2000 yes that is also a valid question.

[@AdrianaCowick]

@@obdanny2000Ever heard of trauma bonds? There. I answered your silly annoying question.

[@obdanny2000]

@AdrianaCowick It's not a silly question. She went to court and got a restraining order, and he was on bond for a criminal case about her and she goes to give him a ride? That call from him violated the restraining order, she should have called the police or order an Uber for him. That's simply poor judgement, no excuses. It's sad she lost her life.

[@AdrianaCowick]

@@obdanny2000 So poor judgement is a reason for someone to be murdered?

[@marywarrior47]

SHE SHOULD OF NEVER WENT TO PICK HIM UP. WHEN YOU LET GO OF AN X ABUSER NEVER NEVER GO BACK YOU NEED TO COMPLETELY CUT ALL TIES. I'M A SURVIVOR MYSELF " I HAD TO MOVE OUT OF TOWN & I STILL LIVED IN FEAR BUT I BEGAN TO HEAL , & I NEVER WENT BACK .

[@luzdyrodriguezable]

Such a brave soul, those choices are why you are here today. You are right, never go back ❤

[@user-cd6xp5lk4c]

Especially one you got a restraining order against... both he and she violated that order.. this is not all on hom

[@ROBINstrawBERRYwine]

Absolutely 1000% agree because I also moved,changed my phone number and Email and got off FB and NEVER looked back,8 years later happy and safe

[@valerietappin9286]

a public register for persons convicted of domestic violence is an excellent idea! Hope it is passed.

[@digitalproduction3142]

Why did she pick him up? She Violated her own restraining order? and now she's gone.

[@miffylova]

Stop victim blaming tf

[@notoriousosc1669]

@@miffylova how is that victim blaming? Just stating the truth. It’s sad but the reality is that’s what got her killed.

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

​@user-hi5eh3xi7zshe was 20 dating a 36 year old 🤣

[@Venus-gn5oi]

@@miffylova Stop talking nonsense. Only because you learned the word from social media doesn't mean you know its meaning.

[@swallowedinthesea11]

Avoid dating men who look like villains from Deus Ex: Mankind Divided!

[@JOYRIDEUS]

Privacy or protection you gotta choose, if that 2022 incident was real and not a lie it was foolish of her to go.

[@vanessamontes1463]

Rest in peace beautiful 🥺🙏....

[@ANG35557]

I hate to hear about this type of thing , RIP

[@StonedBarbiee]

She should of been smarter 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@nialincoln9228]

Yes the police failed her, but she also put herself in that situation when she agreed to go pick him up. Not victim blaming, but there are people that you just need to stay away from them. Especially if they've shown you who they are.

[@vikaz3408]

I cant believe how this sister is saying the government failed her deceased sister! I i derstand she is hurting but barking at a wrong tree….. her sister was given the restraining order but she herself went to pick him up!!!! Wake up!

[@jrodamores87]

She’s the victim. A victim of HIS control and abuse. Victims of DV act similarly to those with addictions. These predators PURPOSELY seek out the vulnerable. I wish more people understood 😢 RIP 🙏🏼

[@nickatinaaa]

So what are you trying to say? Sounds like you’re trying to blame the victim

[@truthhurts7889]

​@@nickatinaaa No - they're not blaming the victim - they're just not allowing the law to be blamed, either. Stating facts. This is not her fault. But it's almost like you want her voluntary involvement with him after receiving the restraining order to be the fault of the police, or to be completely silenced. For what? Because people like you can't differentiate between that being a fact of the case versus that being used as a defense to the crime, or being used to fault the victim? Guess what honey - all of those are completely different matters, and their lines ain't that fine. Just fine tune your logic a bit next time, eh?

[@nickatinaaa]

@@truthhurts7889damn honey you had time today huh 🤣

[@DamageControlLLC]

@@nickatinaaa Like a broken you people are.

[@nettyeats]

There’s no excuse for what he did !!! But why would she go and pick him up when you know how he is and you have restraining order against him.

[@notoriousosc1669]

That’s what I’m thinking myself.

[@TheTrueCrimeChannel]

Heartbreaking

[@br0th3rb82]

Why on earth was she with him to begin with?

[@13orrax]

obviously because of how much love he had

[@kc7886]

Stop victim blaming.

[@normn2915]

​@@kc7886lol did you just learn this word?

[@DarthKater311]

Why are you blaming her?

[@ayamystic]

Likely bc he put her on a pedestal. Power and control. The men they want don’t want them so they stoop very low.

[@kathymoore2101]

What a gorgeous girl. And she was seemingly loving too. Its usually the kind ones. What a shame.

[@marilynmroe9077]

Monsters eat at our tables and sleep in our beds . They are very real!!! They sit on the front row or stand at the podium in church

[@surpriseimblack]

And we date them

[@MoMotivation0304]

The family is in denial. She should not have picked him up.

[@z-hy8hh]

A better statement would be he should not have killed her.

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

​@@z-hy8hhshe should have not dated her 38 year escort client. her sister sandie dee. has an interview with indicted tv talking about escorting

[@BAYAREA_PizzaParty]

Yes, he shouldn’t have murdered her but at what point are we going to start taking responsibility for our own actions? Lady had a whole restraining order but still thought it was cool to pick him up from a bar or whatever….

[@MovingAlong742]

She knew how dangerous he was. She willingly took a huge risk with her own safety.... and lost. This would not have happened had she simply refused to answer the phone then reported him the following day for breaking the restraining order.

[@nunya7759]

At what point? When the abuser is not actively coercively controlling the victim and the victim feels safe with making choices and having boundaries that don't cause retaliation 👍🏼

[@Brooklynd432]

May this family heal from what this monster put them thru my heart goes out to the family ! Such a beautiful soul

[@TimeaWebster]

I feel bad for them, but I don't understand why she went to pick him up, although she had a protection order against him!? How did the law fail her when she literally went to pick this dude up to give him a ride, very well knowing about his abusive nature!?

[@ashleyduckworthyt3224]

She’s a battered woman. Why do you think Diddy was able to abuse Cassie for so long? It’s emotional abuse and manipulation.

[@surpriseimblack]

She thought he changed

[@surpriseimblack]

​@@ashleyduckworthyt3224 Women like guys like Diddy. They don't know why they can't help it...

[@louniece1650]

​@ashleyduckworthyt3224 She should not be dead. It's heartbreaking that she chose to break the restraining order She had against him.

[@MovingAlong742]

It didn't. The law did not fail, the cops did not fail.... she failed herself. Not her fault he murdered her but it is her fault she put herself into the situation where he had the opportunity to harm her... knowing full well that he would or could. Such a shame.

[@MaiMai-ys4yg]

Sorry for your loss ❤

[@thoryl7067]

Omg she was violently beaten by him and went to the point of getting a restraining order. She then thought it would be a great idea to break her own restraining order and pick up him up while hes drunk.... i swear people dont think with there heads such an angering series of events... i dont understand

[@notabene2677]

The police left because no one answered the door?!!😡 They are partly responsible for her death and should be prosecuted-

[@kathydavenport4422]

Rest In Peace beloved daughter sister May her family and friends find healing and peace Blessings Be.

[@mslfbreezy]

Mirelle seemed like she was an awesome person and it’s so sad she lost her life the way she did. Thank you sister of Mirelle for creating the petition. I signed the petition. Hopefully a registry of domestic violence abusers is created and people are aware of these abusers. I signed the petition.

[@SandieBee13]

Thank you hun we really appreciate your support 🙏🏽💜

[@tiannastein7538]

Rip beautiful smile and happy person. Hugs and love to family and friends 💛❤️❤️❤️💛 hope she gets justice she deserves.

[@SandieBee13]

Thank you 🙏🏽💜

[@carmiecat]

How many more of these situations do we have to go through for law enforcement to take it seriously? You don't know the people going through this; WE do. Listen to us and believe us. These abusers don't care what the law is.

[@gingersmith2888]

I’m pretty sure that LE takes it seriously. They can’t just go breaking into someone’s home unless they hear or see that someone’s well-being is at risk.

[@MovingAlong742]

What was it you think the cops should have done in that situation? They were told that she was saying something to the effect of "I'm too smart to go in there" and resisting him but went inside anyway. Neighbor reporting to 911? Cops arrive, knock repeatedly on the door and no answer. What next? What were they supposed to do? They can't just kick the door in without probable cause. Had they kicked in that door and there was NO DV incident occurring, then you all would be screaming about police brutality! And that they should have had probable cause to enter!

[@swallowedinthesea11]

@@gingersmith2888 Maybe they should! Ever think of that?

[@Confessions089]

​@gingersmith2888 because coercive control is an invisible abuse. Micas law in South Carolina, look it up.

[@123pinkgumdrops]

My sister attended high school with her. This was such a tragic story 💔💔💔

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

was she escorting too

[@TheGreatOne428]

what is a 24 year old doing with a 36 year old , Choose better !!

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

38*

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

they have experience and money to spend on them. and they know tongue tricks. women are too predictable

[@Dragonfly_magictarot]

Geez … this is beyond.

[@romvantic]

it’s always “she literally walked in the room and she lit up the whole room”

[@kennaluvschu]

you’re weird af for making a comment like that😂

[@rakuajolly3845]

😂it's cliche

[@romvantic]

@@kennaluvschu i don’t care😹

[@sew_gal7340]

Translation: This person didnt do anything remarkable with her life nor achieved any real milestones. If there were, it would be the first things the anchor talked about: "she spent her time volunteering at a senior center" "she helped orphans in africa" "she did work for the UN"....lighting up a room is the last resort

[@alyssa5669]

@@sew_gal7340 your are so right.

Who let a 9 year old be the defense attorney lol

[@lauralee9694]

He has crazy eyes.

[@andreaskurt5757]

There was absolutely probably cause for the police to go in, based on what the security guard said. Police owes the family lots of $.

[@dariankranz9594]

I don’t understand why the cops just left without figuring this out. Someone literally said she got dragged in and probably could’ve got security video of it and saw she never came out. She sat there thinking they would help and I can’t imagine the feeling hearing them leave without helping her.

[@HandbagDiva]

I hope they sue the pants off that police dept ( city ) What a horrible loss of such a beautiful young girl.

[@MT-qq6id]

For what? She violated her own order of protection when she volunteered to pick him up. He of course should pay the consequences of his actions.

[@Perdu...]

​@@MT-qq6idprobably for something ridiculous like failing to properly conduct a wellness check

[@MovingAlong742]

If they do, they'll lose. The cops were following the law.

[@MovingAlong742]

@@Perdu... You can't kick open someone's door during a wellness check. You have to have permission to go inside, or someone who has authority of the home or apartment. You have to hear someone screaming inside or calling for help, or be able to look through a window and see something that gives probable cause. Without that, the cops have no legal right to enter. Worse yet, it wasn't her apartment. It was his. You cannot do a wellness check on someone when they are supposedly inside someone else's home.

[@MizzTrinieFyre]

So she caused her own death. Smh. When will these desperate women learn to leave these men alone.

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

she was an escort like her sister sandie dee. sandie has an interview with indicted tv

[@miraa2k16]

I was almost killed a few times in dv situations. Please do not ignore the warning signs even if your family tells you to

[@w0rldv1raldaily]

warning sign was his age.

[@froyo9674]

Ladies, pay attention to your instincts and listen to them. Heed their warnings. Also, run for the hills when you see crazy eyes that keep that far away look, like this dude’s misaligned and far away glance

[@jessi8829]

This just happened in SC to a young lady! Look up Mica’s Law!

[@m.g.2645]

✨Absolutely beautiful, amazing sister💕

[@SandieBee13]

Thank you 🙏🏽💜

[@m.g.2645]

@@SandieBee13 💋💋💋

[@IntellectuallyKurious]

How could the system have failed them when she willingly went to get him WHILE there was an active RO. Exercise common sense and discernment.

[@kinfolk565]

I Know How She Feels. I Lost My Brother in 1983 From An Assailant.He Too Was Murdered.

[@TawnyaNorlander-fp9eg]

Where do we sign?

[@MirellesLegacy]

The link is in the description of this video. Thank you!

[@M-Marie89]

Why wasn't what the security guard called in, enough to break through that door when noone answered? They could have possibly saved her life.

[@ashleysmith4198]

She’s so gorgeous

[@shanejohnson8699]

These cases are crazy asf EVERYDAYYY how do you guys report on this Jesse

[@nezzy70]

Pro tip guys dont go to ur exs apartment ( whom you have a restraining order against)

[@surpriseimblack]

Basic logic

[@swallowedinthesea11]

Pro tip: Avoid dating men who look like villains from Deus Ex: Mankind Divided!

[@surpriseimblack]

@@swallowedinthesea11 Everyone says that just looking at them is a red flag but he looks kind of standard in a lot of other news channels

[@user-cd6xp5lk4c]

Don't go pick them up.., don't answer his calls... duh

[@susanhowie2796]

Beautiful girl So sad

[@SonsOfSparta562]

Why even go pick him up smh

[@possiblyareptile3829]

Useless cops

[@Ggg496]

You are

[@stephc3874]

How? You do realize that they can’t just break into your home unless someone is screaming for help right?

[@wolvesilvia]

@@stephc3874 and she was screaming.. they got multiple calls from tenants of screaming and they still didn’t go inside, they’re useless idc

[@elainesrottenbottom296]

The police have zero duty to protect you. That's nation wide. The Supreme Court has already ruled on this. The police have zero duty to respond to your call. The Supreme Court has already ruled on this. You are your own first responder.

[@StonedBarbiee]

Useless ? The court gave her a restraining order. SHE went and picked up her abuser. The cops didn’t pick him up and take him over there. SHE DID. this is on her no one else.

[@yenh1144]

To all of you with daughters, please make sure to raise them with positivity, words of affirmation, to tell them ALL THE TIME how strong and amazing they are. Work on your daughter’s self esteem so they don’t fall prey to these abusers. Both her and her sister were in DV relationships, that tells you a lot. My mom raised all 5 of us kids as a single mom and always made sure we knew we were badass and a prize to be earned and deserving of nothing but the best of men.

[@DamageControlLLC]

I'm very distressed by this and why they keep picking these guys.

[@Fitkid7672]

It’s really on them TBH

[@thanos34362]

woman are always attracted to the bad guy and they see the nice guy as pathetic and refuse to give them a chance

[@surpriseimblack]

Because nice guys don't turn girls on..

[@Woozlewuzzleable]

Does this channel have a person whose only job is to think of the worst possible titles ever?

[@davidbanks159]

They have a person that knows what titles get clicked on, I don’t think they enjoy making the titles.

[@Woozlewuzzleable]

@@davidbanks159 I don't think they enjoy it either but hey a job is a job and somebodies got to do it.

[@Goneinsane616]

And worst add placement ever! On top of that the way they describe some of the victim

[@normn2915]

Why? whats wrong with the title? It grabs attention.. isn't what the family wants to spread awareness?

[@13orrax]

also they will find the worse possible social media pic for the thumbnail

[@MaxwellsUnearthly]

She had no business picking up her ex especially with a restraining order she herself put on him. All of this could have been avoided, what a shame, she played a dangerous game with a man she knew was not to be trusted. Side note: At min 8:07 you interrupt the flow of the story to advertise food, please do better LAC, you placement game sucks, you interrupted the video at a crucial part of the story, please grow some brain cells and find better placement to the advertisement next time.

[@random26788]

are you seriously victim blaming right now? you’re disgusting

[@sarahgamboa3709]

The police could have stopped the murder. They were called to the scene and left because they didn’t hear anything

[@sarahgamboa3709]

So no matter what the police failed her

[@DamageControlLLC]

@@sarahgamboa3709 You need to look out for yourself. Don't rely on the police to compensate for your bad decisions.

[@TaureanTruth]

it’s on purpose, they get paid more money if they put the ad in an unsuspecting part of the video so people don’t skip it. pretty scummy

[@SnakesandDoggies]

WHAT a waste. How long will he be out in? Or is he already out on bail?

[@z-hy8hh]

Signed the petition!